When My estranged husband and I ended up in court as a result of the actions of himself and his family. Examples no longer watch our child, her father refused to financially support her, then went behind my back as the tenant on the lease told the landlord we had moved out(he had moved out prior) and when the landlord found out two months later that we were still there he not only tried to serve me with eviction but also get back money that I didn't even know was owed on our apartment. The money I received for maternity leave I gave to him for the rent and bills and he did not pay our bills which equals less than $1,000 a month 8 years ago. FACT TO BE UNDERSTOOD MY DAUGHTER 4 months and I had to go back to work as soon a she was a 2 months old. He made it Known he doubted the paternity of our child in court and did not believe she was his but refused a paternity test when asked if he wanted one. Now add to this 8 years later that to their child support set up own court hearings and regards to him not paying child support.(I never went for an increase or anything) because every phone number and address that they have had on him over the last eight years is disconnected and the mail always gets returned and when they look up his social they can't find a job under his social. There are men who absolutely know that the child is theirs. Further distance themselves from the responsibility and disparage the mother as promiscuous. It's a tactic to explain their presence of being an absentee parent. Third the biggest issue is that this will be a waste of resources because oftentimes the parent who doubts paternity or does not want to have any of the responsibility will not show up and that's money and time that cannot be recouped on the part of the custodial parent and child. Especially if their job doesn't offer PTO, floating holidays
Agreed! If only mom is at hospital, she should be asked if she wants to pursue DNA test. Her response should be in writing. If she says yes, than grant back pay. If she says no, like this woman seemed to have done, than bi back pay. There should also be a statute of limitations on how far back the back pay can go. If man is there and denies, and it comes back later to be his, back pay. There shouldn't be any of this nor men signing a birth certificate making them financially liable and finding out later it wasn't their child and still being forced to pay child support.
You think Paternity tests should be "Mandatory.". So, in other words, ALL women sleep around. Pretty messed up that you don't think couples don't cheat on each other. You must know some trash women. I have children with my husband, and there WOULD NEVER be a question or doubt that they are his children. Because MOST women, arent sluts with multiple baby daddies. Your ignorant comment is just furthermore oppressing women. Bravo.
I was hitting my vape when judge said that and it caught on my throat. I was coughing/laughing for a good 10 mins. 🤣🤣🤣.. That question was so aggressive I can't.. 🤣🤣🤣
First, if he was really concerned about the paternity of the child, he would have taken a test years ago. Secondly, just because his new child is white doesn't mean his fiance hasn't been with someone else. Third, I don't care if she is a millionaire he still needs to contribute to the care of his child.
You say this but if she was really concerned of the paternity of the child she would've gotten the test taken when her daughter was born, not 9 years after. Your second point is 100% correct. Being a millionaire and getting child support is kind of a stretch. If you're a millionaire and you're seeking child support from someone who makes 60k a year, you don't care about the babies well being and just wanna be vengeful. Btw her asking for child support as soon as he gets a baby with someone else is extra suspect but hey, what do I know
@@SupaHotDud22 exactly…most likely she is upset because he has a baby with another woman. She could’ve gotten child support from him 9 years ago if he is the father.
PREACH!!!! You took the words directly from my head. For All he knows the baby could be his brothers\cousin\uncle....mean since he made such a point about the baby looking like him. LOL!
@@SupaHotDud22 The mother can only request a DNA test, she can not force the father to make himself available. The courts can order him to appear but that does not mean he will. Secondly, both parents are responsible for their child. It doesn't matter if they are a millionaire or on assistance. The noncustodial parent should pay something.
In this day and age, a paternity test needs to be mandatory for the man, that way it'll cut off the lies and games women play, and it'll destroy a lot of their advantages.
If I haven't said this in a few videos....I LOOOOOOVE Judge Vonda!! She has the sweetest smile on her lovely face while she snaps individuals back into reality! 🤣🤣🤣
I was on the fence about this judge because of one of her previous rulings on another case but this episode has restored my faith. Plus she’s so cute, funny and on point that I’m a forever fan cuz of this episode
I was going to comment this bagahahaha I was cackling 😂😂 and her laugh after the judge spoke. This has got to be my favorite one yet because of her attitude. 😂
Some one that didn't need it until that time. My kids are 11 years apart. My youngest was 14 when I applied. My thing was when I ask, come through & when he didn't multiple times is when I had to do what I needed to do
@@naomiemoore5725 Thank you. Could be better, could be worse. Could complain, but choose to be positive, continue to do the best for my kids, and teach them to make the most out of any situation without taking away from others, but adding good things to any situation.
Judge Vonda B..I love you and your work. You so remind me of a friend of mines daughter who is an attorney, grad of Howard University...she rocks like you.keep doing what u do...✌🏾🇹🇹
Absolutely love this show, what I can't stand is part two because we don't know when part two is coming. Should I start calling you Maury povich? Just kidding judge
My brother's baby mama went through 8 other DNA test before she tested him. 4 years of back child support. Also I think if women can choose if the termanate, put up for adoption, or keep. Men should have the option to have the same rights. Sad that they don't have equal rights.
If one was to sign away their parental rights would they still be responsible for child support? I think in a case like this that would be a good solution. He seems to not want anything to do with the child especially after having another one. She should give that as an option if it is a possibility. I would be interested in hearing if that is something that is possible
I've read enough "these are paid actors" comments, but I honestly wish there were follow-ups for paternity cases. Especially ones where he is not the father, as there is a lot of stigma around it not mattering. So one seeing how a non-father can get off of, or avoid getting put on child support would be interesting to watch.
I would never have guessed those two would hook up
It's a skit😂😂
Lol that's not nice to say lol
@@ellarose4257 sometimes the truth hurts. They’re actors anyway
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Actors acting out a real situation
Watching Judge Vonda sip her tea should be a gif because the look she gives while sipping her tea says it all, which is amazing and very amusing.
Totally agree!!!
Someone make one please
Become a god and create it yourself
Nine years for a DNA test is nine years too long.
Agreed!!
When My estranged husband and I ended up in court as a result of the actions of himself and his family. Examples no longer watch our child, her father refused to financially support her, then went behind my back as the tenant on the lease told the landlord we had moved out(he had moved out prior) and when the landlord found out two months later that we were still there he not only tried to serve me with eviction but also get back money that I didn't even know was owed on our apartment. The money I received for maternity leave I gave to him for the rent and bills and he did not pay our bills which equals less than $1,000 a month 8 years ago. FACT TO BE UNDERSTOOD MY DAUGHTER 4 months and I had to go back to work as soon a she was a 2 months old. He made it Known he doubted the paternity of our child in court and did not believe she was his but refused a paternity test when asked if he wanted one. Now add to this 8 years later that to their child support set up own court hearings and regards to him not paying child support.(I never went for an increase or anything) because every phone number and address that they have had on him over the last eight years is disconnected and the mail always gets returned and when they look up his social they can't find a job under his social. There are men who absolutely know that the child is theirs. Further distance themselves from the responsibility and disparage the mother as promiscuous. It's a tactic to explain their presence of being an absentee parent. Third the biggest issue is that this will be a waste of resources because oftentimes the parent who doubts paternity or does not want to have any of the responsibility will not show up and that's money and time that cannot be recouped on the part of the custodial parent and child. Especially if their job doesn't offer PTO, floating holidays
Especially after the way it turned out. Poor child
its a long time to wait yes... but if hes the father hes the father lol. no amount of time will change that either way
Seems like she is jealous… why wait till he has another child and how does she even know that
I personally think paternity test should be mandatory especially nowadays.
Agreed! If only mom is at hospital, she should be asked if she wants to pursue DNA test. Her response should be in writing. If she says yes, than grant back pay. If she says no, like this woman seemed to have done, than bi back pay. There should also be a statute of limitations on how far back the back pay can go. If man is there and denies, and it comes back later to be his, back pay. There shouldn't be any of this nor men signing a birth certificate making them financially liable and finding out later it wasn't their child and still being forced to pay child support.
You think Paternity tests should be "Mandatory.". So, in other words, ALL women sleep around. Pretty messed up that you don't think couples don't cheat on each other. You must know some trash women. I have children with my husband, and there WOULD NEVER be a question or doubt that they are his children. Because MOST women, arent sluts with multiple baby daddies. Your ignorant comment is just furthermore oppressing women. Bravo.
Agreed.
Not necessary as not everyone cheats on their spouse just shitty ones do
exactly my point as well. these girls out here being ridiculous
I love how classy and direct the judge is ❤ like the aunty that sets children straight no matter whose kids they are 😝
I'm that auntie/ uncle.. mess with my family and you gonna have more than a problem...,We gonna b in a situation that won't be good.point blank
I am that Auntie!!🤗 No matter who that child's parents are, I will speak to an acting out, misbehaving nonsense child! 🙄
"WHAT IN THE WORLD IS THAT?" Had me dying!! 🤣🤣🤣💀
I was hitting my vape when judge said that and it caught on my throat. I was coughing/laughing for a good 10 mins. 🤣🤣🤣.. That question was so aggressive I can't.. 🤣🤣🤣
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No fr bc i stay hearing the world ‘situationship’ like its an everyday thing
Me too 😂 Judge vonda is fierce
Me too 😂😂😂
''was he involved in the pregnancy?'' ... ''oh, he was definitely there...'' 🤣🤣🤣 Im dying
😂😂😂😂😂
I just LOVE this judge.
First, if he was really concerned about the paternity of the child, he would have taken a test years ago. Secondly, just because his new child is white doesn't mean his fiance hasn't been with someone else. Third, I don't care if she is a millionaire he still needs to contribute to the care of his child.
You say this but if she was really concerned of the paternity of the child she would've gotten the test taken when her daughter was born, not 9 years after. Your second point is 100% correct. Being a millionaire and getting child support is kind of a stretch. If you're a millionaire and you're seeking child support from someone who makes 60k a year, you don't care about the babies well being and just wanna be vengeful. Btw her asking for child support as soon as he gets a baby with someone else is extra suspect but hey, what do I know
@@SupaHotDud22 exactly…most likely she is upset because he has a baby with another woman. She could’ve gotten child support from him 9 years ago if he is the father.
PREACH!!!! You took the words directly from my head. For All he knows the baby could be his brothers\cousin\uncle....mean since he made such a point about the baby looking like him. LOL!
@@SupaHotDud22 The mother can only request a DNA test, she can not force the father to make himself available. The courts can order him to appear but that does not mean he will. Secondly, both parents are responsible for their child. It doesn't matter if they are a millionaire or on assistance. The noncustodial parent should pay something.
@@theloftons8297 Well DNA came back & no probability he is the father.
"What is a situationship?" Sip tea "I gotta be careful of what I say.? Just love it.
If she needed the help, why didn’t she take him to court and get a test done 9 yrs ago?!?
FACT!!
When Judge Vonda said “WHAT IN THE WORLD IS THAT?” I lost it! Lol it was adorable!! 😂
"Was he involved in the pregnancy?"
"Well, he was there..."
I'm dead 🤣🤣🤣
He was definitely there.
DIED! 🤣💀
I HOLLERED!
Hahahahahah
Translation: "He was there for the conception."
Should use protection for 72 hrs
This show should be shown in every high school across the country.
I love how calm and sassy Judge Vonda can be at the same time.
Yaaasss Judge!!! We need more cases like this with paternity testing done!!! I can’t wait for part 2
Have you seen part two as yet ??
Fr! Where is part 2??
@@lisaholland8923 it is being uploaded today June 15th
In this day and age, a paternity test needs to be mandatory for the man, that way it'll cut off the lies and games women play, and it'll destroy a lot of their advantages.
@@DianaEVL please can you send the link
New catchphrase: "Ooh, I need to be careful what I ask!" Love you Judge Vonda! Smart lady and also hilarious with her one liners!
“I need to be careful what I ask.” ~sips tea~
You had me dying! 😂😂
Love the content, keep up the great work! ❤️
"Mississippi long"
She got the "T"
same! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
omg i feel to the floor as she sipped t 🤣🤣🤣
She gone have that cup😂😂😂😂
"I got a whole control panel" 🤣🤣🤣
"Oh I need to be careful what I ask." Sips 🍵😂💀
Judge you handled this case beautifully. I’m excited to hear the results.
If I haven't said this in a few videos....I LOOOOOOVE Judge Vonda!! She has the sweetest smile on her lovely face while she snaps individuals back into reality! 🤣🤣🤣
😮 9 yrs later? she should've taken this to local child support court when girl was a baby!! & had DNA to establish paternity. part 2 ASAP 😊
Especially if she was so sure he was the father. Regardless of any child support the child has a right to know who her father is.
Exactly!!
I was on the fence about this judge because of one of her previous rulings on another case but this episode has restored my faith. Plus she’s so cute, funny and on point that I’m a forever fan cuz of this episode
Curious, do you remember what the previous ruling was?
I got a whole control panel 😂😂😂😂😂
Prime example of a warning to watch who you make babies with.
Yip. And ensure you get a DNA test. Which happen with this one. He is not the father.
I love this woman!!! Judge Vonda B you are a star!!!
this judge drinks tea as good as the queen of England
Kyle looks mad as hell. And I just started the episode. Can't wait to hear how much his back pay is.
When he said i have a control panel I died of laughter 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
💯 💯 💯 💯 💯
I just love judge Vonda, its her calm seminar and patience.🙂
Thank you for modeling such gracefully assertive boundaries in an intense situation :) also lovin the lip shade!
When is part 2
Girl I can’t wait for this DNA test to come back 😂 so excited for Part 2 lol
I came across the results on Tik-Tok, before I came across this video. Girl, it is good!
Its not his child. Zero % chance. They uploaded the video
@@joshuamitchell4343 where did they upload it?
@@naomi2133 It's on this channel. Title is hot tea spilled
@@brandyanderson3522so was he the father 🤷🏾♂️
That woman is beautiful and composed.... Very nice skin tone.
Judge Vonda you are my favorite judge.
The judge is to cute she knows exactly how to catch the guilty party 🤣🤣🤣
Love these during this hot heatwave!
A narcissistic lying mother who sleeps around is the worst kind of person. She is terribly selfish
Can I just say i love the way Judge Vonda B. Presents herself and styles herself. I aspire to be like her....she is beautiful too
YESSSS!!!! Looking forward to seeing PART 2!!!
I just love her she so amazing she’s very strict and non biased need more like her 🙌🏽🙏🏼
“Situationship”?! That’s a new one on me!😂
"I'm sorry your honor. It's... the lies"
"It's... the buttons. Woosah."
💀💀💀
I was going to comment this bagahahaha I was cackling 😂😂 and her laugh after the judge spoke. This has got to be my favorite one yet because of her attitude. 😂
😂😂😂
Frfr, now days , there is no excuse not use some type of protection,
Morals we teach our kids accidentally
I wanna see if he's the father, but I also love watching paternity court with judge Lake lol.
The judges reactions always kill me lol
“Cause he’s white” that sent me 😭😭😭😭
FR THO- 😭😭😭
Typical of black people to put race into everything
😭I CRIED with her response.
I laughed so hard 😂
This about to be good❗️I can tell from judge Vonda Face 😭😭😭
They were in an intimate relationship “on and off” for about 72 hours?? LMFAO
I was confused about that too, it won’t nothing but 3 days 😂
I watched my soul leave my body. 🤣😭
I need a live example of this mindfuck💀
Can you imagine how tumultuous that weekend was? bahahahaha!
As in she was on and off of him for about 3 days
I love the video of it showing he’s NOT THE FATHER😂😂😂😂
Came straight here from Tik Tok. I need the ☕️
"I gotta be careful of what I ask", then picks up her coffee cup, lol.
We need more judges like her, she's serious and fair but fun too.
Fictitious but fun to watch! Keep up them coming!
Ladies and Gentleman stop having relations with strangers you meet and not having relationship with.
We need the whole case
Who waits 9 years to decide to look for financial help from a ex-lover?
Some one that didn't need it until that time. My kids are 11 years apart. My youngest was 14 when I applied. My thing was when I ask, come through & when he didn't multiple times is when I had to do what I needed to do
More people than you think. It is a process. And it is very emotional for the petitioner. Plus seeing the other parent can be traumatizing.
Me personally, it was when a government worker at the DSHS office told me that MY medical benefits would be denied if I didn't.
@@TheXfams Holy moly! Just hope you and your family are in a better place now. ❤
@@naomiemoore5725 Thank you. Could be better, could be worse. Could complain, but choose to be positive, continue to do the best for my kids, and teach them to make the most out of any situation without taking away from others, but adding good things to any situation.
Judge Vonda said “I need to be careful what I ask”and sip her tea😅😅😅
I need to see part two ‼️‼️‼️
Judge Vonda B..I love you and your work. You so remind me of a friend of mines daughter who is an attorney, grad of Howard University...she rocks like you.keep doing what u do...✌🏾🇹🇹
It’s amazing the people out there having one night stand and believing the birth control excuse
I love this judge she is the best, sweet kind and so understanding and funny at the same time, I can watch her all day she is so fair
Judge vonda b's facial expression makes me happy so much
Why did she wait 9 years to want child support?????
“It’s the lie”
“It’s the button, wooosaaaa”
😂😂 I love it!! Can’t wait for the result n more wooossaaahh n less lies 😂😂
OMG the faces the judge makes is hilarious
Absolutely love this show, what I can't stand is part two because we don't know when part two is coming. Should I start calling you Maury povich? Just kidding judge
we need the follow up to this!!
There is now
I love everything about this woman. Man is missing out on a wonderful life.
mandatory dna tests should be required
No
Yes
Why wait for 9 years?
He should have said to her: " I wasn't trying to push all your buttons, just the mute button".
“I got a whole control panel “😭😭😭
Why didn't she say something way sooner than 9 years later --- ??
I love these videos! I'm addicted
Judge! We want to know the specific details about the situationship! 🤣🤣
Wow ! This is a stand up action ! Thank you for sticking up for these kids when parents wouldn't. Keep up the good work ! You will be missed
"The night grew long, and things happened within the next 72 hours." 😂
Not the Greenbax!😂😂🤣🤣🤣
My brother's baby mama went through 8 other DNA test before she tested him. 4 years of back child support. Also I think if women can choose if the termanate, put up for adoption, or keep. Men should have the option to have the same rights. Sad that they don't have equal rights.
ya’ll do. fathers can fight an adoption case, fathers can ASK a woman to terminate, fathers can take mothers to court for custody if wanted.
Love the intro so much better than the baby crying and giggling. (That was creepy)
Yup, I hated that screaming baby
So sad - she took this man to court, and he's not the father.😢
Omg. When does part 2 cone out!! I need part 2!!
If one was to sign away their parental rights would they still be responsible for child support? I think in a case like this that would be a good solution. He seems to not want anything to do with the child especially after having another one. She should give that as an option if it is a possibility. I would be interested in hearing if that is something that is possible
“Because he’s white” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This man is educating the youth of America? 🤦♀️
need a part 2 judge Vonda please and thank you I need it like tomorrow
Hello from France 🇫🇷, I love your show 💓💓💓
i love this judge she needs her own show
Whos show is this?
@@antwainebarkley9765Judge Vonda B.
Mum is really annoying. He allowed her to talk but she's not allowing the same opportunity to him.
Maybe I'm alittle off but who has a baby from a 72 hour fling.....to me it's weird you don't even know this person
This one about takes the cake ! What are these women thinking ? I love your commentary! Keep up the good work !
I literally love ur UA-cam videos!!! Big fan from Texas
When she called him stupid..🤣🤣🤣
Vonda just radiates intelligence, common sense and beauty!
Is it 1pm yet?? 😬 I need to see this! Lol
Yes, in this case its justified that the actors are not paid. Others are really very good and deserved payment for their roles
I'm waiting for him not to be the father and her to do the Maury run! 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
She doesn't run but she kept saying the results are wrong
I've read enough "these are paid actors" comments, but I honestly wish there were follow-ups for paternity cases. Especially ones where he is not the father, as there is a lot of stigma around it not mattering.
So one seeing how a non-father can get off of, or avoid getting put on child support would be interesting to watch.
It made me laugh when the results came back. The jaw that dropped to the floor was priceless.
You should watch the episode showing their DNA test results
@@brittany7jeffrey4 I did
What episode please? I need to look it up.
@@summerslotus1109 Not hard to look up just go to the UA-cam channel or are you not that smart enough to do that
@@BBBYpsiRUDE!!
“I’ve got a whole control panel” 🤣🤣