So many people who was so funny what the child support I never use the child support I gave it to the kids it wasn't but $100 a month that he was given after the kids got grown he was boosting and brain cuz the kids asking why didn't you come around and chill why did you do this everything was all I had to work to pay that child support but he didn't realize I was giving the kids that child support what you want but $100 and they wanted the kids stepped up to him why you standing until it like you did you only gave us $100 I just look at him and go on God is good every time do what you got to do as a mother or a father it all come back it all come back it's calling what you do it all come back trust and behold that it will
You should never have to go in front of the judge to take care of your babies your kids that's it automatically come natural it should automatically when we was coming up my mother called the bus every morning at 4:00 and she cut onions picked tomatoes and she went back to school and got an education and when she passed away a very proud of my mother very proud of my mother she never asked my father for a quarter she said I don't know what you doing when you lay down cuz sometime you got to be the only one that jump up and run and try to win that race and that's what she does she did everything and I'm very proud of my mother my dad oh well that's another subject
You know we forget the analyze always think that little thing that we care between our legs that's our responsibility I obligation to make sure that we do the right thing with it we go out there and do the curlers thing you know what's going to meet you you got to pay for it you got to pay that Piper you know that so I don't know why that you want to go to court mine's day my kids $25 a month a piece for sure that was supposed to make sure they ate clothes everything everything but it's okay it's okay but what goes around will come bac
@@SADD22 Air wont even be free if the Demon-Rat party and Biden get their way with the "Green new deal" and all their new taxes they plan to hit us with...
@@JudgeVondaB if you agree why do you order parents that make way more to pay but not the parents that make way less ? not the wealthy parent's fault that the other parents doesn't make as much
@ind0ctr1n3 Ah yes, when a man consent to have sex with a women he is responsible for the consequences of his choice. Even contraceptives don't give 100% protection only abstinence does.
@ind0ctr1n3 are you saying that women shouldn’t be able to get an abortion or use adoption services Because you have to provide for children financially 🤦🏽♀️😂😂😂😂
@@egyptsheannalundy2143 respecting her for being your mother is different than rocking with her. I can respect a person and be cool and cordial all day long. But we don't have to have lunch dinner I don't have to send her Christmas cards mother's Day cards birthday cards. I treat her like you do an older lady from church. You don't cuss in front of them you be courteous. But it doesn't mean that you have to develop a relationship. Because your grandmother is the one who you love and you do everything for. The Bible says honor your mother and your father that your days may be long on the Earth. But being a mother biologically doesn't mean that you are a caregiver
@@moniquejefferson5676 i feel like if they’ve done some fucked up shit then they don’t need respect nor the relationship. I get what you saying but hell nah
That’s what my father did, we live in the same town and I have no idea what the other 4 are like. Now that I’m grown, he wants to be in me and my soon to be baby’s life lmao.
When my son was younger and we were struggling he asked, "Mom why doesn't Dad help us?". I said to him, "Honey, it's not that your Dad doesn't want to help you, he doesn't want to help me" He responded, But doesn't he know helping you is helping me?. Blew me away. I love that kid. He grew up to be an amazing young man. I always wanted him to know, he could love both parents. He just grew up knowing who he could depend on. Clear boundaries are a blessing to know.
That’s crazy, my 4 year old just said the other day “daddy, why do people make up things that their children have said for social media? Isn’t it just inherently dishonest and indicative of an inability to construct a compelling narrative themselves?” He is wise beyond his years that one.
@@CarpeNoctem135 she didn't even give a specific age so why just assume she's lying? Not saying its true but Kids know more than yall realize and you don't know what they were going through for the child to even possibly ask that.
Don't know,,, but someone needs to ask the MAN in this video.. I have raised his 11 yr old son for 10 yrs now and HE hasn't paid a single cent because HE says he is working on His career!!!!!!!! And that is Not his real name.....
It’s the same story regardless of who it is man or woman. The parent that’s not there only worry about not giving their money. They can care less about their child/children 😢
Wow... How can a woman walk away from her child. She is trifling, grimy, wrong and all the other names women call men who don't support their children!!!
The amount of patients this judge has is incredible. That woman made me want to throw my phone so many times because of her arrogance and cold hearted nature towards the child. I dont think she'll pay the child support or the back pay. Over all the way the judge handled this case and was able to help this man was amazing. I admire this womans ability to stay calm and professional but still retain some sass.
@@aliaziz1145 that's not always true. I paid child support for my daughter AND only received disability for an income. I am physically disabled but still made it my business to pay my child support
This is so much more refreshing to watch than paternity court. This judge is actually fair to both parties and doesn’t entertain nonsense. Definitely subbed and notifications on
Yeah, I can't stand Judge Lake some times. I watch her show, I like it most times, but I can't stand when Judge Lake tells men who aren't the biological father and was lied to and manipulated by the mother and such that they should "step up and be a father to the child/children" when it is not their responsibility. The guilt she tries to lay on them in my opinion is ridiculous. It's one thing if he has been raising the child like his for years and then decides to walk out... yeah okay that's when I think he should stay and be responsible for the child. But babies and toddlers? Nope. If they don't want to get attached to a child they found out is not theirs, I'm not going to moan about that and I think it's not right that Judge Lake encourages it anyway.
@@katherineduke3232 She does not do that. If he was found to NOT be the biological father but HE DID sign the birth certificate he is LEGALLY the father and he has to pay until the can get that corrected depending on the state they reside in.
@@nicolette100dont know what show you watch. Judge Lake ABSOLUTELY encourages victims of paternity fraud to take care of the child after finding out it's not theirs. She'll inform them they are still the legal father if they signed the birth certificate, but if they are free and clear to walk away (or even if they are they are the legal father) she'll try and talk them into staying.
@@lamargordon6017to be fair, the state of paternity varies from state to state. i know that in texas it most definitely matters if you’re the bio dad or not. regardless if you’ve signed the birth certificate or not. you absolutely MUST be the father according to DNA results when it comes to paying child support in texas. although im not sure where exactly judge lakes court is based. but like i said, the laws vary from state to state when it comes to child support and visitation rights.
Exactly! Well stated! I will fill the rest of that statement in for you. They live off money criminally extorted from a non-custodial parent under Title IV D...
Love that you are so real, watched your court cases till 1am last night. ❤️ Side note: this woman has the absolute nerve in this video. YES you should be held accountable for not supporting the child10 years?!? She lucky Texas does only 4 years back. It’s so unfair. I am speaking from a child who watched her mother sacrifice and struggle for years while my father is absent but wants no responsibility and blames me for the court holding him ACCOUNTABLE. It’s not even about the money, presence first.
She can say that because she graduated from law school. passed the Bar exam, and knows what she's talking about. Are you willing to put in that many years of study and work that hard?
This judge is great. So concise and down to earth. Mind you, that child would have been in school for years now. There’s absolutely no reason the father couldn’t have worked part time or gone to higher education. But - like the judge said, that wasn’t the reason why they were there and darn right, the mother should support her own child.
Well he's a sahm...if she was helping.maybe he would have time to.get out and do something is it was a woman no questions would have been asked...how you going to leave a child at 11months...she's wicked
their are plenty of stay at home moms tho, that take care of the child 24/7. Someone has literally gotta watch them foreal. this is a prime example of when the genders are reversed. No one has a problem or bats n eye when its a women staying home. Most fathers dont have a problem providing either while thier wife is at home all the time. AS SOON AS THE GENDERS SWITCH, its a problem.... I thought this is wat women where fighting for these days tho? lol Yall wanted to be in mens roles right? Funny how when yall see it happening tho yall like HELL NAW lmao.
But how do we know he’s unemployed? She said he was unemployed, but she also had abandoned them for 10 years. Inconsistent pay isn’t gonna cut 10 years for a dude and his child. He was doing SOMETHING to get money. Whether it was part time as a cashier, working a pole at a gay club, being a business owner (he did say he owned a business), or even being a drug dealer, he had money somehow. Just because she believes he’s unemployed or doesn’t know about him having a job doesn’t mean he’s unemployed. He’s a man, he can’t have five kids and live off of their dad’s child support.
@@knitetimeteddy2989 , you are so right. It's perfectly acceptable for a woman to be a sahm, but let a man do the same? We can't have that. What a bunch of horse puckey. Should his son be a latch key child? Should he just run the streets until Dad gets off work? How dare she say anything regarding his employment status? She ABANDONED them!!! Glad to see her pay.
I absolutely LOVE Judge Vonda B. She is fair and doesn't take any BS. I'm in Texas too and when my son was 5 my son's biological donor (not a mother by any means now) abandoned him for the simple fact that the judge awarded my Conservatorship and she was forced to pay child support. He's 23 now and we have yet to see ANY action taken towards her. She has never even seen him once since then or reached out. She's never spent a day in jail or paid a single dollar and owes me over $43,000. Maybe if back in the day we had to stand before Judge Von B things would have been different...but then again, there's only so much a judge can do. It's no easier for a man to raise a child by themselves than it is a woman to raise one so shout out to all the stand-up parents out there handling their business by every means necessary and Judge Von B callin' it like it is.
Yes Texas is the WORST! I'm also in Texas, neither of my children's fathers show up to visits or pay their court ordered MINIMUM child support.... my daughters father is actually LESS than the state minimum (he gave a sob story about being in rehab and finding God so he couldn't afford minimum support.... the day after court he left rehab. No idea where he is. Doesn't pay up or show up... not in my daughter's 8 years on this earth. She hasnt met him and we recently told her that my hisband is not her biological father but he has raised her since she was 2.) .... my son is special needs and his father hasn't shown in 9 years. He is now 12 and his fathers visits were few anyway. He always cancelled and he even LEFT HIM AT THE DAYCARE AND NEVER PICKED HIM UP WITHOUT TELLING ME HE WASNT GOING TO HAVE HIS VISIT SO I GOT A CALL AT FREAKIN 7PM FROM THE DAYCARE SAYING NO ONE PICKED HIM AND THEY WERE ABOUT TO CALL THE POLICE FOR ABANDONMENT!!!!!! I asked why he never showed or even bothered to call me and he said "I was working it's not a big deal I just forgot".... like REALLY?! My son is autistic, adhd, and is now being tested for intellectual disability. He has a ton of medical bills and me and my husband and sometimes my mother have been doing it all without any help from my ex. I have reported him to the state multiple times for not paying any of his support and the state never does anything about it. Texas is absolutely ridiculous! Like yeah these men (or in other cases, women) are trash, but they know they can get away with it because the state won't do ANYTHING about it!
I hope people see the pain in the man's eyes when he had to say his son wasn't insured Lots of people just don't understand the shame the feeling of failure She smirked and all I can do is have this odd laugh because the behavior just has no limits Nothing surprises me Yall stay strong af Kings
This man stood up and said “nah were ending this nonsense” and became mom and dad. He said screw you i love my kid anyway and they won’t go without as much as possible. I love it.
It’s wild that people KNOW who they finna be sitting across from and STILL choose to come in with an attitude knowing my good sis finna outshine that real quick.
When she sipped her coffee and said "lets see if you do that mmhm after these calculations" i fucking died 😂 never play with a judge they will ruin your life 😂
I thought in court in Virginia for 5 years. My family was ruined in the process. I wish I had a judge with heart like you. Thank you for showing unbiased justice.
The realest judge I have ever watched besides judge judy but baby it's good to see a strong black woman like this!! This makes me want to sip tea as well lol
@@CameronThomasMedia so being a strong woman means too much mouth???!! So she's supposed to be timid or something? Please elaborate on your comment. I would love to hear your theory....
Why does the mother have such a bad attitude?! Be glad your child has a father who cares enough to be involved in his child’s life (clearly she doesn’t want to).
I'm a 62 year old father full custody of an 8 year old son. I ask for no child support, I cannot put a price on his safety and happiness we barely make it, God provides us with all.
you should request a child support order to be placed. if for no other reason it gives a child the opportunity to think of the payer with more respect for helping to have a little more. you might be surprised how much children base thei own little judgements on what a parent gives as money
You can ask for anything you want. it doesnt mean you will get a judge to agree with what you asked for, but if you dont ask at the time of the court hearings and decree being written up, they oftentimes wont let you go back later to ask then.
Thank you Judge! Ive seen so many single Fathers that get absolutely no credit for the load they carry while suffering in silence. While im all for supporting single (or even married) Mothers that unfairly carry a load, im not blinded to the men who do the same and are often unsung heros. Thank you for being fair and bringing light to a truth thats often been veiled by bitterness, resentment, and attemps at revenge.
Thank YOU Judge for your hard work & good decisions. We reeeaaallly need you in Wyoming 😂❤ And Montana & Colorado & Nebraska & South Dakota & Minnesota
I cant get over the fact that a woman would just give up her child, and this woman seems so detached from the whole situation. It honestly blows my mind. I could never give up my child, she is 12 now and I sometimes need to go take a breath, but never could I imagine just giving her up. 👩👧
The mother thought it through. Dad doesn't have a job, so the amt of child support she would get if she had custody, was too low for her. She gave the child to his Dad and walked away.
@@charlieann456 the mother drove me nuts! The dad laid it out that the son is his main focus and making sure he’s doing the best he can. Her insults of get a job and stop living off her! Wonder how the other 4 kids are doing😊😮
The look at that woman's face when the judge gave her decision was priceless. It's like she was wanting to lunge at the judge. But good for the dude. Doesn't matter the parent is the mother or father, you got to take care of your kids period! full stop!
Thank you for doing the right thing for doing what's right and needs to be done not all men are deadbeat dad's and I'm sure you see that there are good men out there raising children to the best of their abilities and from watching only two episodes I can tell you can see the best and worst in both mothers and fathers so thank you for being you and doing what your doing my best regards and I praise you for your work and commitment to and excellent judgement in your job
it's actually amazing that you need to be on a tv show to be equal under the law in child cases. i've heard a lot of stories of fathers being dragged through the system time and time again being forced to pay child suport even if he has 50/50 custody i really hope the father and his child gets a better life after this so the child can get on with his life with a deadbeat mom.
After watching some episodes , can't imagine the nerve of these women not being responsible mother and don't wish to pay child support, inspite of them earning more, absolutely shocking
Mannnn I need to go see u!!!! I've raised my son alone for almost 14yrs. Even with child support enforcement involved we've barely gotten a handful of payments. He's never been held accountable. Now they've thrown all his back owed child support to the tune of atleast 100k Down the drain! And stopped his payments because he went to jail. Us single parents really get the shaft!
‘I’m the only person in here who can have attitude’....I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS WOMAN💯Hope you and your family have a blessed one Judge Vonda....you are an inspiration! BTW...you always look AMAZING on the stand! One last thing....I have finally found your channel after watching all these clips of people commenting on your content and he linked your channel! NEW SUB!!
So many “parents” use their career as an excuse to not have their kids! We all work but as a parent you sign up to work AND raise your own kids! SMH 🤦🏽♀️
Love this show, just ran up on it by chance more people need to see this show. Love the educational segment at the end of the video and I will do my best to tell more folks about your videos
Is this lady serious? This has got to be an act. There is no way this woman is that arrogant. I'm embarrassed for her. I wonder how well her business went after this show.
Absolutely despicable she is not even concerned about how the child will feel as he grows up about a Mother who wants nothing to do with him. Prime example of what can bring out ugliness in a child as an adult of wanting a Mothers love and more.
A court awarded me full custody of my daughter after proving the mom was unfit. Mom was ordered to pay 200 plus one year back pay which totaled 300 a month. Mom sent me 3 payments after court ordered and not in the amounts but lesser the judge issued. All of sudden no more child support payments and the mom went off the radar, not even the A.G. in Tx knew how to contact the mom. One day I was sent a facebook message by someone I didn't know asking if I was me and doesn't my daughters mom owe me a lot of money for child support (10 yrs), and stated how hearing the mom brag about mean things she had done and schrugged her responsibilities of child support, ending her message with the address of where the mom was living. I turned that info to A.G., mom was served and went to court. The judge in my case ordered her to pay 400 a month and nothing else was done on her conduct for hiding to avoid being caught, not following court order of payment or even demonstrating being responsible. I get a couple checks after her appearence of 200 and 100 dollors and nothing else. The mom is well over 25,000 in debt to child support, and now the kicker to this whole story is the mom is dead. Judge Vonda, I wished I had someone like you that over saw my case, because I know enforcement would be that of whats in the childs best interest. By the way, my daughter is now over 18, graduated high school, no kids:)
When he said at the end -“so I could be a better father AND MOTHER.” I was so proud of him speaking up for himself !
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Well , it’s definitely the truth of the matter! I hate to think about how she treats her other children.
So many people who was so funny what the child support I never use the child support I gave it to the kids it wasn't but $100 a month that he was given after the kids got grown he was boosting and brain cuz the kids asking why didn't you come around and chill why did you do this everything was all I had to work to pay that child support but he didn't realize I was giving the kids that child support what you want but $100 and they wanted the kids stepped up to him why you standing until it like you did you only gave us $100 I just look at him and go on God is good every time do what you got to do as a mother or a father it all come back it all come back it's calling what you do it all come back trust and behold that it will
You should never have to go in front of the judge to take care of your babies your kids that's it automatically come natural it should automatically when we was coming up my mother called the bus every morning at 4:00 and she cut onions picked tomatoes and she went back to school and got an education and when she passed away a very proud of my mother very proud of my mother she never asked my father for a quarter she said I don't know what you doing when you lay down cuz sometime you got to be the only one that jump up and run and try to win that race and that's what she does she did everything and I'm very proud of my mother my dad oh well that's another subject
You know we forget the analyze always think that little thing that we care between our legs that's our responsibility I obligation to make sure that we do the right thing with it we go out there and do the curlers thing you know what's going to meet you you got to pay for it you got to pay that Piper you know that so I don't know why that you want to go to court mine's day my kids $25 a month a piece for sure that was supposed to make sure they ate clothes everything everything but it's okay it's okay but what goes around will come bac
"A child needs more than air to survive..." God bless you!!!
Air is the only thing in this world is free.
SADD22 you would think it free, no it not, it cost to put air in tires, and air in a can. Air cost 💁🏻♀️
LORD I HEAR THE JUDGE! WOW!
But the government of Texas don't understand that...
@@SADD22 Air wont even be free if the Demon-Rat party and Biden get their way with the "Green new deal" and all their new taxes they plan to hit us with...
The parent the kid lives with could be a millionaire, the other parent still has a responsibility to contribute to the kids upbringing
Agreed!
Exactly
@@JudgeVondaB if you agree why do you order parents that make way more to pay but not the parents that make way less ? not the wealthy parent's fault that the other parents doesn't make as much
@ind0ctr1n3 Ah yes, when a man consent to have sex with a women he is responsible for the consequences of his choice. Even contraceptives don't give 100% protection only abstinence does.
@ind0ctr1n3 are you saying that women shouldn’t be able to get an abortion or use adoption services Because you have to provide for children financially 🤦🏽♀️😂😂😂😂
When judge Vonda said “I’m the only one could have an attitude” yesss let her know !
Don't forget the "mmmmmph" 😅
This judge is a breath of fresh air for us men . Protect this lady ✊🏾✊🏾
It's great how she just looks at the facts and doesn't discriminate or be sexist
The fact that she had the nerve. She has 4 more children and her first child doesn’t know his siblings.
Trash
😢😥
@@egyptsheannalundy2143 respecting her for being your mother is different than rocking with her. I can respect a person and be cool and cordial all day long. But we don't have to have lunch dinner I don't have to send her Christmas cards mother's Day cards birthday cards. I treat her like you do an older lady from church. You don't cuss in front of them you be courteous. But it doesn't mean that you have to develop a relationship. Because your grandmother is the one who you love and you do everything for. The Bible says honor your mother and your father that your days may be long on the Earth. But being a mother biologically doesn't mean that you are a caregiver
@@moniquejefferson5676 i feel like if they’ve done some fucked up shit then they don’t need respect nor the relationship. I get what you saying but hell nah
That’s what my father did, we live in the same town and I have no idea what the other 4 are like. Now that I’m grown, he wants to be in me and my soon to be baby’s life lmao.
A down to earth no nonsense judge. I love her.
She's fake... look at "about" section on the channel.
I also like a no nonsense taking person.
She's for the people, run for President Judge, I'll vote for you
@@youtubetherapistllc7621 duh most shit on tv is fake
@@youtubetherapistllc7621 and she’s an attorney not a judge which is ok. It ain’t like she has no experience at all lol
the judge "I'm the only person that can have a attitude okay?" 😆😆😆
😂 exactly
I strive to have the level of sass that she has.
Just like Judge Judy always says. There is only one attitude.
@Mr Jones ????
Right loved it
When my son was younger and we were struggling he asked, "Mom why doesn't Dad help us?". I said to him, "Honey, it's not that your Dad doesn't want to help you, he doesn't want to help me" He responded, But doesn't he know helping you is helping me?. Blew me away. I love that kid. He grew up to be an amazing young man. I always wanted him to know, he could love both parents. He just grew up knowing who he could depend on. Clear boundaries are a blessing to know.
That’s crazy, my 4 year old just said the other day “daddy, why do people make up things that their children have said for social media? Isn’t it just inherently dishonest and indicative of an inability to construct a compelling narrative themselves?”
He is wise beyond his years that one.
@@CarpeNoctem135 Wow, your 4 year old said that?
@@CarpeNoctem135 she didn't even give a specific age so why just assume she's lying? Not saying its true but Kids know more than yall realize and you don't know what they were going through for the child to even possibly ask that.
Great mom
Yeah - funny that she should not discuss any of that with the child
Someone give this judge the humanitarian of the decade award. I simply love her. She's dope.🎉
Why thank you!🥰
I LIKE this woman.
Her: “All he wants is money” Him: “our son want to play baseball”
What a difference!!
How do you walk away from your child, don't pay to support him and have that horrifying attitude.
So she abandoned her child to follow her dream of gluing phony eyelashes on somebody's mug!!!
@Ramone Ritchie Yes I do, life seemed a bit simpler back then!
I dont think anyone should be forced to take care of their offspring. True parents want to take care of their children and don't need a court order.
Don't know,,, but someone needs to ask the MAN in this video.. I have raised his 11 yr old son for 10 yrs now and HE hasn't paid a single cent because HE says he is working on His career!!!!!!!! And that is Not his real name.....
Blame feminism
"I have 2 ears but I can only listen to one person at a time." Love it!
You know I’ll always support you, Vonda! Ash and I love watching this show! ❤️
I appreciate the love!!😎🙌🏽
The judge reminds me of Patti Labelle when she sings that SHE HAS A NEW ATTITUDE!
LOVE that I came across this, as a single dad I received no support for 12 years, it is nice to see it is not always the man avoiding paying
It’s the same story regardless of who it is man or woman. The parent that’s not there only worry about not giving their money. They can care less about their child/children 😢
He's a fantastic father! Certainly a better mother too! Texas should be proud of men like him!
This woman is so selfish and refuses to see it
Yes yes yes
Yes yes
85 grand as an esthetician? Shoot, I need to move to Texas!
She’s lying probably selling hair on the side
She is making way more than that
Wow... How can a woman walk away from her child. She is trifling, grimy, wrong and all the other names women call men who don't support their children!!!
Lol
@@teresaj.4103 yk this show isn't real right? These are actors
"I want to see you do that same mmm when I do the calculations." I'm dead. wow
Lol!
Lol
🤣🤣😂😂
That was legendary
I just dropped
This mom is absolutely pitiful.
BINGO. 👍🏻
she doesn't deserve our pity
She is one of these persons who should not be able to give birth. Tell your lover to pull it out early or use a fucking condom.
The amount of patients this judge has is incredible. That woman made me want to throw my phone so many times because of her arrogance and cold hearted nature towards the child. I dont think she'll pay the child support or the back pay. Over all the way the judge handled this case and was able to help this man was amazing. I admire this womans ability to stay calm and professional but still retain some sass.
The State of Texas will have it directly taken out of her paycheck.
The judge has patience...patients is what a doctor has. FYI, no judgement...
Satisfying to see mothers held accountable for once!
Western females…
@Ali Aziz Said what we were all thinkin..
You haven’t seen enough episodes then
@@aliaziz1145 that's not always true. I paid child support for my daughter AND only received disability for an income. I am physically disabled but still made it my business to pay my child support
Why? It's good to any shitty parent get it.. Why seeing a woman gets your pinky hard?
Mad respect to this FATHER.
You can tell he's still in pain. I think he still loves the mom.
This needs to be on TV, because I love this👩🏾⚖️Found out about the show on TikTok, and now I’m binge watching!
Thank you!! Tell Oprah, Tyler, or Ellen to pick up the show.😁
Me too! I watch all sorts of documentaries and I never knew there was Child Support court.
Same now I’m obsessed lol
Same
I hope so but hope they don’t sensor her no nonsense demeanor.
As a mother I just cannot fathom up and leaving my children it just is mind blowing to me
All children in america need a dad like him
This is so much more refreshing to watch than paternity court. This judge is actually fair to both parties and doesn’t entertain nonsense. Definitely subbed and notifications on
Yeah, I can't stand Judge Lake some times. I watch her show, I like it most times, but I can't stand when Judge Lake tells men who aren't the biological father and was lied to and manipulated by the mother and such that they should "step up and be a father to the child/children" when it is not their responsibility. The guilt she tries to lay on them in my opinion is ridiculous. It's one thing if he has been raising the child like his for years and then decides to walk out... yeah okay that's when I think he should stay and be responsible for the child. But babies and toddlers? Nope. If they don't want to get attached to a child they found out is not theirs, I'm not going to moan about that and I think it's not right that Judge Lake encourages it anyway.
@@katherineduke3232 She does not do that. If he was found to NOT be the biological father but HE DID sign the birth certificate he is LEGALLY the father and he has to pay until the can get that corrected depending on the state they reside in.
@@nicolette100dont know what show you watch. Judge Lake ABSOLUTELY encourages victims of paternity fraud to take care of the child after finding out it's not theirs. She'll inform them they are still the legal father if they signed the birth certificate, but if they are free and clear to walk away (or even if they are they are the legal father) she'll try and talk them into staying.
@@lamargordon6017to be fair, the state of paternity varies from state to state. i know that in texas it most definitely matters if you’re the bio dad or not. regardless if you’ve signed the birth certificate or not. you absolutely MUST be the father according to DNA results when it comes to paying child support in texas. although im not sure where exactly judge lakes court is based. but like i said, the laws vary from state to state when it comes to child support and visitation rights.
Been binge watching these videos since I saw the clip on TikTok 😭
lmao me too!
Same!! Lmaoo
Me too
Me too!!🤣🤣
Me too 🤣🤣
i loooove how the judge told her off and then sipped her coffee or tea. that was pure ruthless lol
I love how he never puts her down. True gentleman like my mama raised me like.
I love how all these sassy black women get their own medicine thrown back at them by Vonda. Don't know many judges that would do that!
This mom has much attitude. My caliber of judge though. Down to earth and keep it crystal clear.
I love it when u tell 'em the child doesn't live off air alone.🤣🤣🤣
But 4yrs back pay isn't enough.
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It’s very true. People forget that it takes money to raise children.
Exactly! Well stated! I will fill the rest of that statement in for you. They live off money criminally extorted from a non-custodial parent under Title IV D...
Right. Four years of back pay isn't enough money. I wish that the courts would go back forth then that.
I'm sure dude had It covered...this was just to make a point....good for him
The thing is it’s a maximum bavkpay of 4 years that’s the max you can give
She’s trifling as hell wow. How do you just abandon your child and get mad when you have to pay? Sick.
And she has 4 more kids.wonder who takes care of them.
Omg I just shaking my head
Love that you are so real, watched your court cases till 1am last night. ❤️
Side note: this woman has the absolute nerve in this video. YES you should be held accountable for not supporting the child10 years?!? She lucky Texas does only 4 years back. It’s so unfair. I am speaking from a child who watched her mother sacrifice and struggle for years while my father is absent but wants no responsibility and blames me for the court holding him ACCOUNTABLE. It’s not even about the money, presence first.
I'm Glad for the guy and his child, that she left. They Clearly deserve a Real Woman and Mom in their lives. Props to Dad All the Way !
I can’t wait to be a judge to use the line “I’m the only person in here that can have an attitude” 😂
She can say that because she graduated from law school. passed the Bar exam, and knows what she's talking about. Are you willing to put in that many years of study and work that hard?
@Ruth Henderson I feel like they wouldn't comment this if they weren’t willing 💀
This judge is great. So concise and down to earth. Mind you, that child would have been in school for years now. There’s absolutely no reason the father couldn’t have worked part time or gone to higher education. But - like the judge said, that wasn’t the reason why they were there and darn right, the mother should support her own child.
Well he's a sahm...if she was helping.maybe he would have time to.get out and do something is it was a woman no questions would have been asked...how you going to leave a child at 11months...she's wicked
their are plenty of stay at home moms tho, that take care of the child 24/7.
Someone has literally gotta watch them foreal. this is a prime example of when the genders are reversed. No one has a problem or bats n eye when its a women staying home.
Most fathers dont have a problem providing either while thier wife is at home all the time. AS SOON AS THE GENDERS SWITCH, its a problem.... I thought this is wat women where fighting for these days tho? lol Yall wanted to be in mens roles right?
Funny how when yall see it happening tho yall like HELL NAW lmao.
But how do we know he’s unemployed? She said he was unemployed, but she also had abandoned them for 10 years. Inconsistent pay isn’t gonna cut 10 years for a dude and his child. He was doing SOMETHING to get money. Whether it was part time as a cashier, working a pole at a gay club, being a business owner (he did say he owned a business), or even being a drug dealer, he had money somehow. Just because she believes he’s unemployed or doesn’t know about him having a job doesn’t mean he’s unemployed. He’s a man, he can’t have five kids and live off of their dad’s child support.
@@knitetimeteddy2989 , you are so right. It's perfectly acceptable for a woman to be a sahm, but let a man do the same? We can't have that.
What a bunch of horse puckey. Should his son be a latch key child? Should he just run the streets until Dad gets off work?
How dare she say anything regarding his employment status? She ABANDONED them!!! Glad to see her pay.
I absolutely LOVE Judge Vonda B. She is fair and doesn't take any BS. I'm in Texas too and when my son was 5 my son's biological donor (not a mother by any means now) abandoned him for the simple fact that the judge awarded my Conservatorship and she was forced to pay child support. He's 23 now and we have yet to see ANY action taken towards her. She has never even seen him once since then or reached out. She's never spent a day in jail or paid a single dollar and owes me over $43,000. Maybe if back in the day we had to stand before Judge Von B things would have been different...but then again, there's only so much a judge can do. It's no easier for a man to raise a child by themselves than it is a woman to raise one so shout out to all the stand-up parents out there handling their business by every means necessary and Judge Von B callin' it like it is.
If you had a court order you can collect the delinquent amount
Yes Texas is the WORST! I'm also in Texas, neither of my children's fathers show up to visits or pay their court ordered MINIMUM child support.... my daughters father is actually LESS than the state minimum (he gave a sob story about being in rehab and finding God so he couldn't afford minimum support.... the day after court he left rehab. No idea where he is. Doesn't pay up or show up... not in my daughter's 8 years on this earth. She hasnt met him and we recently told her that my hisband is not her biological father but he has raised her since she was 2.) .... my son is special needs and his father hasn't shown in 9 years. He is now 12 and his fathers visits were few anyway. He always cancelled and he even LEFT HIM AT THE DAYCARE AND NEVER PICKED HIM UP WITHOUT TELLING ME HE WASNT GOING TO HAVE HIS VISIT SO I GOT A CALL AT FREAKIN 7PM FROM THE DAYCARE SAYING NO ONE PICKED HIM AND THEY WERE ABOUT TO CALL THE POLICE FOR ABANDONMENT!!!!!! I asked why he never showed or even bothered to call me and he said "I was working it's not a big deal I just forgot".... like REALLY?! My son is autistic, adhd, and is now being tested for intellectual disability. He has a ton of medical bills and me and my husband and sometimes my mother have been doing it all without any help from my ex. I have reported him to the state multiple times for not paying any of his support and the state never does anything about it.
Texas is absolutely ridiculous! Like yeah these men (or in other cases, women) are trash, but they know they can get away with it because the state won't do ANYTHING about it!
How can you not care about your own child? Sad 😢
I hope people see the pain in the man's eyes when he had to say his son wasn't insured
Lots of people just don't understand the shame the feeling of failure
She smirked and all I can do is have this odd laugh because the behavior just has no limits
Nothing surprises me
Yall stay strong af Kings
She really has a way of putting people in their places and I love it. Great job!
Agreed
I love how fair this judge was and didnt have any favoritism towards neither person. Good stuff Judge
Yes. I love it as well!! 💘
This man stood up and said “nah were ending this nonsense” and became mom and dad. He said screw you i love my kid anyway and they won’t go without as much as possible. I love it.
I know he’s an actor FYI but it’s based off of real life, so wanna congratulate and be thankful to this real Life dude who just stepped up.
I got nothing but respect for this man
Yes yes he could of be rude and disrespectful but he wasn’t
Judge Vonda we love you!
It’s wild that people KNOW who they finna be sitting across from and STILL choose to come in with an attitude knowing my good sis finna outshine that real quick.
I laughed so hard 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love the fact that the judge gets in their asses calmly and respectfully!!!!! Binge watching now!!!!!!
This judge is amazing. I love the way she matched the moms energy
Judge Vonda B
Judge Judy
Judge Lynn Toler
Judge Faith Jenkins
Judge Frank Caprio
Judge Alex
Judge Lauren Lake
G. O. A. T 🏆 !!!
Ms Vonda, you are everything, thank you for making these
When she sipped her coffee and said "lets see if you do that mmhm after these calculations" i fucking died 😂 never play with a judge they will ruin your life 😂
I thought in court in Virginia for 5 years. My family was ruined in the process. I wish I had a judge with heart like you. Thank you for showing unbiased justice.
The realest judge I have ever watched besides judge judy but baby it's good to see a strong black woman like this!! This makes me want to sip tea as well lol
Judge Faith is another good, strong black Female judge! They're Both Awesome!!!
Judge Lynn Toler too.
'strong black woman" lol...that means a lonely black woman with too much mouth.
@@CameronThomasMedia so being a strong woman means too much mouth???!! So she's supposed to be timid or something? Please elaborate on your comment. I would love to hear your theory....
Why does the mother have such a bad attitude?! Be glad your child has a father who cares enough to be involved in his child’s life (clearly she doesn’t want to).
It’s so funny when they try to be cocky bragging on how much money they make a year 😂😂 and it always backfires!
I'm a 62 year old father full custody of an 8 year old son. I ask for no child support, I cannot put a price on his safety and happiness we barely make it, God provides us with all.
you should request a child support order to be placed. if for no other reason it gives a child the opportunity to think of the payer with more respect for helping to have a little more. you might be surprised how much children base thei own little judgements on what a parent gives as money
@@dodybenfer625 z Az
I love it she is so level headed. I don't know how young mom was when she had her child, but there's no way I could abandon my 11 month old.
What the hell did he ever she in her?
Oh wow that’s crazy I couldn’t do that
I've learned something new about back child support. Didn't know the custodian parent can ask for back support. Judge you've taught me something today
You can ask for anything you want. it doesnt mean you will get a judge to agree with what you asked for, but if you dont ask at the time of the court hearings and decree being written up, they oftentimes wont let you go back later to ask then.
Thank you Judge! Ive seen so many single Fathers that get absolutely no credit for the load they carry while suffering in silence. While im all for supporting single (or even married) Mothers that unfairly carry a load, im not blinded to the men who do the same and are often unsung heros. Thank you for being fair and bringing light to a truth thats often been veiled by bitterness, resentment, and attemps at revenge.
I hope he has a good paying job now. He’s an awesome father.
Her attitude in court to people who have an attitude is brilliant. Takes no shit but dishes it out. Best judge I've seen.
He's such a beautiful man 😍 and the fact that he's raising a child gives me hope.
I really love black judges. Real stuff
This father needs back support big time! She is a crappy mom in fact, she is no mom! What a horrible person!
Thank YOU Judge for your hard work & good decisions. We reeeaaallly need you in Wyoming 😂❤ And Montana & Colorado & Nebraska & South Dakota & Minnesota
I cant get over the fact that a woman would just give up her child, and this woman seems so detached from the whole situation. It honestly blows my mind. I could never give up my child, she is 12 now and I sometimes need to go take a breath, but never could I imagine just giving her up. 👩👧
Same here, my boys are my life, my heart, my reason to keep moving forward every day.
Plenty of fathers don’t want their child(ren). Why would you be surprised that there are mothers who don’t?
The mother thought it through. Dad doesn't have a job, so the amt of child support she would get if she had custody, was too low for her. She gave the child to his Dad and walked away.
@@conniead5206 Exactly!
@@charlieann456 the mother drove me nuts! The dad laid it out that the son is his main focus and making sure he’s doing the best he can. Her insults of get a job and stop living off her! Wonder how the other 4 kids are doing😊😮
The look at that woman's face when the judge gave her decision was priceless. It's like she was wanting to lunge at the judge. But good for the dude. Doesn't matter the parent is the mother or father, you got to take care of your kids period! full stop!
Thank you for doing the right thing for doing what's right and needs to be done not all men are deadbeat dad's and I'm sure you see that there are good men out there raising children to the best of their abilities and from watching only two episodes I can tell you can see the best and worst in both mothers and fathers so thank you for being you and doing what your doing my best regards and I praise you for your work and commitment to and excellent judgement in your job
it's actually amazing that you need to be on a tv show to be equal under the law in child cases.
i've heard a lot of stories of fathers being dragged through the system time and time again being forced to pay child suport even if he has 50/50 custody
i really hope the father and his child gets a better life after this so the child can get on with his life with a deadbeat mom.
Fathers still pay child support even if it is 50/50
After watching some episodes , can't imagine the nerve of these women not being responsible mother and don't wish to pay child support, inspite of them earning more, absolutely shocking
I can't believe the amount of people who don't want to take responsibility in taking care of their children. Wow 😱😱.
The fact that she has 4 other children baffles my mind
Even women yes WOMEN
Mannnn I need to go see u!!!! I've raised my son alone for almost 14yrs. Even with child support enforcement involved we've barely gotten a handful of payments. He's never been held accountable. Now they've thrown all his back owed child support to the tune of atleast 100k Down the drain! And stopped his payments because he went to jail. Us single parents really get the shaft!
These eps teaches you to becareful who you lay down with and have a baby with.
Agreed.
Judge Vonda B does NOT play, you hear me. She is the real deal. I love how fair her courtroom is
I want to know how many of these deadbeat parents actually pay the court ordered child support.
I hope his kid is doing well now. Proud of this man.
I'm loving this new show, this lady don't take no crap from nobody.
Checkout how the dad sat up the straightest when the Judge started calculating the costs 😆 his eye lit up.
Great! I am soo glad that the FATHER is shown as being amazing.
It’s a good thing you are teaching adults. How the system works. Great job. Enjoy your show
You're an inspirational women and an amazing judge!
Thank you so much!
I like this judge, beautiful judge and very good in marketing.
I hate deadbeat mom's and dad. She needs to pay up now. Back payment needs to be paid today.
Today's judicial system is a joke 😭😭😭😭
‘I’m the only person in here who can have attitude’....I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS WOMAN💯Hope you and your family have a blessed one Judge Vonda....you are an inspiration! BTW...you always look AMAZING on the stand!
One last thing....I have finally found your channel after watching all these clips of people commenting on your content and he linked your channel! NEW SUB!!
So many “parents” use their career as an excuse to not have their kids! We all work but as a parent you sign up to work AND raise your own kids! SMH 🤦🏽♀️
Love this show, just ran up on it by chance more people need to see this show. Love the educational segment at the end of the video and I will do my best to tell more folks about your videos
“I wanna see you do that same mhph when I finish these calculations” lmaoooo
Why did I stay up for hours watching all of these???!!! Sooo good
Is this lady serious? This has got to be an act. There is no way this woman is that arrogant. I'm embarrassed for her. I wonder how well her business went after this show.
I like your calmness. I like how you're no nonsense. Good job
Nothing much more rewarding than helping a child.
Just discovered this judge today, and I just love how rational and understanding she is. Subscribing 💕
I'm glad a Judge finally put a Mom's in Her Place
THANK GOD!!!
I'm felling the same way.
Justice was SERVED.
"it takes more then air to raise a child" I love it? Judge Vonda you keep it classy.
Love the show. Equality at its finest. Beautiful.
Absolutely despicable she is not even concerned about how the child will feel as he grows up about a Mother who wants nothing to do with him. Prime example of what can bring out ugliness in a child as an adult of wanting a Mothers love and more.
I love how dusty she is in Court but been chasing her career for 10 years. Dude is a still a higher class person than here.
A court awarded me full custody of my daughter after proving the mom was unfit. Mom was ordered to pay 200 plus one year back pay which totaled 300 a month. Mom sent me 3 payments after court ordered and not in the amounts but lesser the judge issued. All of sudden no more child support payments and the mom went off the radar, not even the A.G. in Tx knew how to contact the mom. One day I was sent a facebook message by someone I didn't know asking if I was me and doesn't my daughters mom owe me a lot of money for child support (10 yrs), and stated how hearing the mom brag about mean things she had done and schrugged her responsibilities of child support, ending her message with the address of where the mom was living. I turned that info to A.G., mom was served and went to court. The judge in my case ordered her to pay 400 a month and nothing else was done on her conduct for hiding to avoid being caught, not following court order of payment or even demonstrating being responsible. I get a couple checks after her appearence of 200 and 100 dollors and nothing else. The mom is well over 25,000 in debt to child support, and now the kicker to this whole story is the mom is dead. Judge Vonda, I wished I had someone like you that over saw my case, because I know enforcement would be that of whats in the childs best interest. By the way, my daughter is now over 18, graduated high school, no kids:)
That woman is disrespectful.
Her attitude is shameful