I do not agree on the porn industry. Those guys taking part do really have large attributes. And in the real world it is the same. Without a decent size, one is not performing.
It’s amazing how some people still look at porn videos and think that penis size should look like that. Social media has changed so many people’s perception of reality. I’m glad I’m still living on real world earth.
To the guy that has the erection problem. It happens buddy, don't let anyone tell you different. Rena is bang on. I'm 43 and I've had intermittent issue with this since I was in my 20's. I now take medication for it. Nothing to be ashamed about. It's extremely common.
@@mrBDeye We aren't all french and we are mainly British. Second I'm the family of immigrants so I have no french background so you have no idea what is in my pants.
Performance anxiety or you’re just not comfortable with the person you’re with at that moment. In my 20s, I would get woodpeckers when the bus went over railroad tracks! 😂 “isn’t this your stop? Yeah, I’m just going to ride a little more until everything clams down “. And yet there were times I was with someone that I really wasn’t 100% comfortable with and I was softer than cotton! Just proves that a woodpecker is over 95% mental, not physical.
I'd like to sum up what anyone thinks. No you can't make your tool any bigger than what your born with. Now with that said. Yes you can add girth. Slight length but it's temporary. Very temporary. Like less than 24 hrs. My personal advice i use a pump everyday for at least 30min. I know it sounds crazy but I've got my tool to another level. Length at least half an inch. Girth. Well that's crazy. It almost always doesn't fit lets put it that way. Now its a constant 24/7 routine. It's dedication. Its like working out. You have to keep going. Soon as you stop you'll loose your gains pretty quickly. Anyway anyone havw any questions or advice you can just send me a reply. I don't know anything scientifically im not a doctor but this is what I've done for 2 yrs straight
Dr. Malik, your video on male sexual health and erection issues is truly enlightening and a much-needed discussion in today’s world. Your ability to address such sensitive topics with clarity, compassion, and expertise is inspiring. Thank you for being a voice of knowledge and reassurance for so many. I’d also like to seek your guidance on a specific concern-how can one improve erections during rear intercourse? Your insights would be invaluable. Thank you again for your incredible work!
See your urologist about the injectable drug know as Trimix/Alprostadil. Works awesome if you don't mind giving yourself an injection directly to the side of your penis. It was a little scary at first but the results were Amazing! Rock hard for over an hour, like I was 18 again!
Im 62 and have no problem getting and keeping an erection. I focus on her and use communication to ensure she is my focus. Get out of your head and talk to her! Ask her if she is enjoying what you are doing, what she would like and how. Communication is paramount.
@@DesiMinnesotan I've plenty of girl "friends" that told me you're correct. As an average myself with 16.5cm, there are some girls that I hit their cervix and it hurts them. So yeah, even a four inches can do.. to a smaller vagina. Men rejoice; all you have to do is find the right fit! Don't hesitate to try lots of them out!
erectile dysfunction has a lot to do with the woman partner - some women can produce a much bigger sexual arousal in you than others but you may find they are difficult to live with on long term whereas a perfect partner may stimulate you less sexually but you find you get along much better with her, the ultimate choice is yours
This is possibly the most ignorant comment on here. What you’re describing is not erectile dysfunction. You’re just describing not being into your partner. Those aren’t the same thing. Erectile dysfunction is in no way the fault of the woman. It’s not the fault of the man either. It’s a medical condition. But it’s definitely not the fault of the woman.
2 things... first it's psychological (most of the time) Can also be how u feel about ur partner (emotional and psychological attraction and connection is key)
@Okaybob Not where I live. 😏Though the odds is probably better for me as a man, who's only into women, I have trouble picturing a 6' blond working as a plumber. 💃
Never had any sort of ED type issues, and then after being on certain medications known for such a side effect for years and also being alone by choice for same years, I didn't even think it worked anymore. And then I met the woman I love, love of my life, and then.. "what issue?" That "part of my physiology" comes to life, more than I'd like even, for her without fail!
If you're healthy it's mental, if if you're not healthy you're not in good shape and if you're older it could be everything including even low testosterone. Stay healthy fellas. Your woman will always thank you 🎉
Hi Doctor Malik, many thanks for differentiating real sex from pornography Adult industry has an overwhelming effect over men all over the world. Unfortunately people believe in what they see on these videos, in spite of the unreal, untrue, deceitful aspect of them.
What? No, that advice is exactly backwards and is what causes Performance anxiety. If anything, you need to focus on your own pleasure and arousal, because it's literally required for an erection. You need to stop focusing on pleasing your partner and minimize thinking overall. You need to be less in your head, and more present in the moment and your own body, doing and feeling what feels good to you.
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her .
Parting ways with someone you deeply cherish is an agonizing experience. I understand firsthand, having encountered a parallel situation at the end of my 7-year relationship. Driven by an unyielding determination, I explored every avenue to salvage our bond. Seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor proved pivotal, as their intervention played a crucial role in rekindling our love
For the guys, If you are concerned with size, I heard a very popular adult actress say she like all sizes, just the bigger ones are better on camera. Unless you are planning a career in adult entertainment, you should be good with whatever you are loaded with.
Very true. I’m 46 and I’ve been with over 75 women. Only 2 have hinted that I wasn’t enough. Women enjoy being penetration by different sizes. That’s part of their enjoyment. Rock on Fellas!
@@johneta7665 The trick is in action not size, fast piston like motion from end to end of the canal in every stroke. The only thing you should take care of is your mental stress levels. I have a small size the only time I face issues is when I had a high stress level due to job related issues and fear of visiting hookers place before my marriage.
@@BeauQuillenyes he does When you work in a pizza shop you shouldn't eat pizza for dinner To break that down You get paid to have sex with hot women don't grape women
I recently saw an interview with a adult actress where they asked if the males use medication and she said "every time" and mentored it's usually a pill but sometimes the injection.
I'm from Brazil and some porn stars here said the same thing in an interview. But they also said that in order to become a porn star, men must not only have a bigger penis but also hard, long-lasting erections. Medications, pills or injections is because it's a job. They stand in front of the camera and a large crew, not doing what gives them pleasure, but what the directors tell them to do. They also say that some scenes take hours (some scenes take 2 to 4 hours on set). That's why they use medication. A major porn producer said that 8-9 out of 10 men they test don't meet their requirements. Half of them couldn't get ready in front of the whole crew, lol!
And sometimes the split stream is the result of a stone. We pass small stones quite often, it's stones that don't make it out of the kidney or bladder when they are small that cause the BIG problems, small stones usually wash right through but sometimes are just large enough to slightly occlude the urethra. I have long been an advocate of teaching your boys to sit to pee.
For the first guy: it’s you don’t have a certain level of trust built, you’re going to be self-conscious. Sex is a vulnerable thing. Build trust/relationship. It’s pretty simple. Your body is doing what it’s meant to do-if there isn’t relationship there, your bodies going to reject the act.
Diet is everything. Reduce your carbs folks. As carbs become a larger and larger percent of our diet all hell breaks loose in our body. For many men high carb diets kills testosterone levels and the ability to maintain erections. I am 54 and slowly started having these issues many years ago. Went carnivore 16 months ago and its been life changing in many ways but especially hormonally for me and my wife who went carnivore at the same time. Sex is better than its ever been for both of us. Absolutely no issues for us now at all.
@ even energy all day everyday, better sleep, no snoring or breathing issues, less sinus problems, 6-7 hrs of sleep max, feel 25 years younger, testosterone levels have doubled, blood pressure normal, A1C below 5.5, triglycerides under 100, no aches and pains, massive reduction of inflammation in my body, no more skin issues, no more sunburning, bowel problems, life long constipation issues gone, swollen prostate and small pee stream gone, peeing three times a night gone, a bladder i can fill up again, back to my 18-20 year old weight of 178. I am 6 feet. Zero medications. The long term health problems from eating 80-90% daily calories from carbohydrates is killing humans. Go get a resting insulin test. If it is not below 10 you are getting too many carbs. My wife and i cannot explain the change in our lives for the better. It has changed our outlook on life headed into retirement. Do it 90 days. You will be very pleased. We will never go back.
I was going to say this exact thing. Most problems for most men can be alleviated by changing diet. Carnivore for 1 1/2 years and my libido and erection quality is better than it was in my 20s. Best mental and physical health in my life!
@ and it goes for women as well. My wife is 59 and it has been a game changing for her hormonal health. Sex drive and orgasms way better. Also, no need for lubrication. She is like she was when she was 30 yrs old.
Thanks for being so informative in plain language. Unfused infra-meatal part of the glans of the penis can also result in spraying of urine and possible soiling of clothes. This can be either congenital (like MMIP syndrome) or post surgery for Hypospadias. Though, these causes are likely to have been picked up in childhood but missed too, sometimes.
One thing about peeing off to the side that Rena didn't mention that's happened to me, being uncircumcised: Sometimes the foreskin partially blocks the outlet causing the stream to go one way or another. No ma'am, I didn't mean to miss the toilet! I finally straightened out the stream when I pulled back the skin.
I have cardiovascular disease, 3 strokes, recently had a pacemaker. Ejection fraction of 23%. I’m almost 65 and was very fit, or so I thought, until the first stroke. I have difficulty achieving an erection. Is my love life permanently impaired? I have improved tremendously since my last stroke late last year. Had the pacemaker last month. Is there anything I can do? Thank you in advance Rena. 🇨🇦💝🇺🇸🥰
The suggestion on medication for psychogenic ED worked for me. I had brain trauma and a toic relationship right around when it began, so we thought TBI induced. W/ my new partner, we moved slowly w/ open communication, but my ED was hit or miss. When I tried tadalafil for a month, my ED was gone, I regained confidence, and wasn't hyper-focused on performance. Eventually, I didn't even need medication, and I have a half used bottle going to waste.
Didn't help me. To truly counter psychogenic ED, you can't be consciously aware you needed that pill to perform, at least for me. Just knowing the pill is what did it for me ensured that when I don't take one, I can't perform.
@adamm6329 See, for me, it was like dang, this is gonna be great! Perhaps b/c I trusted it would help, it did. Every so often still, I get in my head about taking too long to climax (bummer, right?), and I'll lose it. But overall, I think just having that safety net of 5mg tadalafil gave me reassurance and reminded me of what is possible.
I'm 43 and have been in a relationship that's lasted just over 17 years now. I can count the times I've had erectile issues performing on one hand. That being said, I've noticed these last couple of years that I can maintain 100% capacity for the first few minutes, but then go down to 90-95% the remainder of the time. I'm more convinced than not that it's a mental thing for me, and even that small of a difference makes me sad. Also can't seem to finish as quickly as I'd like, which also sucks and also makes me feel that the real issue for me is declining excitement.
I'm in the same boat. One thing that has helped me is I get happy when I help her out over trying to help myself out. That keeps my mind off of me. More focused on her enjoying it. She gets mad for me not cumming sometimes but I make sure she understands I don't care about me. As long as she's happy. I'm semi out of shape. 44 and been married for 24 years. She does more for me then anyone else could ever. So I make sure I make her explode at least 2 times every time.
Yes being older and in your head doesn't help. Try and find that one trigger that keeps you in the moment at the moment. Focus on pleasure rather then you finishing. Try and stop caring about finishing and just say next time.
It might be because the sex becomes routine. I’ve had this conversation many times with my coworkers and one guy said, I bet if there was some young hot girl in the room with you, you’d be harder than Chinese algebra
Familiarity breeds contempt, you need some strange, new, younger if it's an issue. With everything, over time things lose it's desire, excitement, etc.
I think that trying so hard to last longer when I was younger, came back too haunt me. Now, it takes forever to finish. Sometimes going at it for hours.
ED is generally referred to as a physical issue. Whem it can also envolve a physicological aka mental issue as well. Though there is sometime's way's of getting around the physical aspect of ED. Getting past the physicological issue is to the N-th degree considerably, excuse the pun, Harder.
To the guy with the erection matter, as others have said and I agree, it happens. Period. No shame. But I also say this: I propose you let your mind switch-up from concern about making it perfect for your partner to making it enjoyable for YOU, while also remaining mindful and generous towards your partner. You also enjoying yourself is also a highly worthy outcome too.
German men don't sit to pee. In general. I developed my paruesis in Germany. My first trigger was in a German bathroom and a guy made fun of me for not using the urinal. A german dude. In general, German bathrooms offer far more privacy, and peeing in an ally is fine. But German men don't sit to pee usually. Swedes I think?
You are in charge. Instead of focusing on yourself focus on directing them. Say on your knees, hands behind your back with your chin up. You will be so focus on their next move you will not think about anything but that.
Female bodybuilders have a high probability of developing Clitoromegaly (big clitorises) if they have been using hormonal PED's. Does this work for men? Which types should be avoided to not cause clitoral androgenation?
Only if taken in small doses during puberty/adolescence. High T = larger peen. Natural boosters are not being overweight, high t boosting foods like egg yolks, broccoli, beef, liver, pumpkin seeds, etc. If you have a son and want him to grow healthy stick with the above.
In the adult industry, the women, on average are relatively very small as well as the guys. The industry had taller men in the 70's and 80's. Today's male performers are shorter in height. It's a camera trick.
@@ShaneBoy So the videographers have learned from the food advertising industry. Where big burger chains have used small hand models for fifty years, so the burgers they hold up look way larger.
I had performance anxiety in my younger years. It happened a couple one night stands. When I was in a relationship I had no issues. I think for me it's about connecting with the woman and having an emotional attachment rather than no attachment at all. I need to feel comfortable with the woman and lead up to sexual intimacy. I may be in the minority but that's just me. BTW- been married now for 30 years so I don't have to deal with performance anxiety ever again, lol
I was a shut down not working right ED guy from abstinence for too long and had to do sex practice with my Girlfriend who was also abstinent for too long. You have to use it or you lose it. Thats my experience. Now we are like clock work
I’m about to eat some pumpkin seeds on a empty stomach this early in the morning. So I can be ready by this afternoon/evening. Pumpkin seeds over Slidenifil. Slidenifil gave me a headache
I am 49 so I have erectile problems, and use meds. to get an erection. According to what you said I could be into porn if I wanted to...since I am larger than normal, but I am not that kind of person. Always wondered why the stream sometimes comes out split, or all over the place. As always I am glad you post these videos that most wouldn't even try to, and hope you helped a lot of men in the world with some of their problems.
the person asking about enhancement should strongly consider that these males are often cherry-picked for their physical attributes. the fact that they tend to stay in the business up to a decade or more, while women in the industry change significantly sooner, helps highlight how rare such endowments really are.
Find a female you are actually interested in, and that is actually interested in you. most of what’s easy these days probably isn’t that interesting when it comes down to the nitty gritty.
Combating ED is easy if you don't have a physical issue behind it. 1: stop masturbating for a while 2: don't watch porn 3: take supplements that support blood flow, maybe even some tadalafil for a while. Bonus: 4: exercise, cardiovascular and weight 5: stop smoking I had ED for a while. Doing the above made me a complete MONSTER.
you know what I tried this. I was masterbating 3-4 times a day at one point to porn.. I stopped after I found a partner, and realized I had issues. I tried a viragra pill last week for the first time. this is after I stopped watching porn all day, and masterbating. last week I tried viagra, and instantly thought was penis was gonna explode.. so it might just do it's trick..
Definitely the 'heart' and the rest of the body are connected. Make sure your heart is healthy !!!! A healthy body and a calm mind and like minded partner are what's best for good sex.
I actually tend to have the opposite problem. Without changing in diets or daily chores my sleep schedule goes down and up, and the more days I have of proper sleep the more I have the issue of a certain someone being hard at times when it shouldn't be hard, and staying that way for longer than it ought to be. I at times would also have the issue of not ejaculating. To quote some shortie back in 2012, " my jaw is growing tired, am I not doing it well?" What's going on? On some other instance it was the opposite, i had ED and felt like shit cause it is very prideful to last long with a girl, and to then loose that with only an uncontrolled sleep schedule or a change of girls blow my my mind.
I want to ask you about using a p.nis plug for a distal stricture instead of or until I can get meatotomy surgery with a buccal graft. A screw in plug made for long term use can be left in, maybe for three weeks, to form the stricture over the plug but remove the plug before it shapes too exactly. I intend to use two different plugs, leave it out sometimes, and continue intermittent self dilation. This is not documented anywhere I can find. Can I ask you more specifically about it, and share information I can't write on here? Do I need a membership to ask a question? Cheers. When I manage to keep a plug in, it feels great for both functions and keeps my flas sid p.nis stretched and looking great on the nud. beach, eliminating pain I didn't realize everyone else doesn't feel.
Sex induced anxiety is the number one reason we HEALTHY men lose an erection OR can't get an erection. Be confident and don't think about it and nature will take you to the finish line. This comes from a PhD in human physiology with over 3 decades of training.
My stream is always split for the first second or 2. Pretty annoying as one stream goes straight down. I have what i think is a pretty large urethra opening and the center always sticks together for a second while urinating causing the split.
Back in my single dating days performance anxiety would sometimes get ahold of me during first couple of times I was with a woman I was crushing on hard. My doc said it was in my head and prescribed me Viagra. Worked wonders to keep my mind focused on her instead of me… After 1 or 2 times it wasn’t needed anymore (for that woman anyway).
I once had a girlfriend who was relieved to find that I came in the normal average range... Her previous boyfriend was large in length & girth, which she always found painful which ended the relationship... She thought my endowment was comfortable ... Unfortunately for her she was looking for marriage which I wasn't ready for... We still remained as friends... Never mind the size, feel what's really important.... 👐
I had ED for years until I realized I had the wrong partner. After I met my person, no issue.
How does a certain person change that?
Chemistry
@@trainwreck5973guess the second one was pretty
That’s exactly right. The wrong woman can really mess with your head. Thought I had ED until I met someone who knew how to enjoy having sex.
Facts...the right person
My humble advice is to avoid drinking alcohol beforehand
Yep
What about caffeine!
i find it helps me and makes me last way longer
For some it helps though. (Not and advocate)
EXACTLY
The first one is basically performance anxiety. Happens often in sports or anything that requires coordinated output on command.
He’s stressing himself about living up to a spectacular performance. That’ll make you go gummy QUICK!
Wow what You've said about adult industry is the most amazing summary of its essence. Thank You
I do not agree on the porn industry. Those guys taking part do really have large attributes. And in the real world it is the same. Without a decent size, one is not performing.
It’s amazing how some people still look at porn videos and think that penis size should look like that. Social media has changed so many people’s perception of reality. I’m glad I’m still living on real world earth.
Baby penile symptom is strong with this one.
Are you just repeating things? First you say porn then social media. Reprogram robot.
Yours dosent??
Mine does
What? Mine is larger than 90% of the ones I've seen on video
To the guy that has the erection problem. It happens buddy, don't let anyone tell you different. Rena is bang on. I'm 43 and I've had intermittent issue with this since I was in my 20's. I now take medication for it. Nothing to be ashamed about. It's extremely common.
It’s only performance anxiety. This can be treated with boxing or jogging in the mornings.
@@JordanBernard-r6w There is more to it than that but glad you found something that works for you.
Everyone knows that Canadian men have small size. Their ancestors are French.
@@mrBDeye We aren't all french and we are mainly British. Second I'm the family of immigrants so I have no french background so you have no idea what is in my pants.
Performance anxiety or you’re just not comfortable with the person you’re with at that moment. In my 20s, I would get woodpeckers when the bus went over railroad tracks! 😂 “isn’t this your stop? Yeah, I’m just going to ride a little more until everything clams down “. And yet there were times I was with someone that I really wasn’t 100% comfortable with and I was softer than cotton! Just proves that a woodpecker is over 95% mental, not physical.
You are a treasure. First woman I've seen that is plain talking the most intimate issue for men. Bravo!
Please don’t S. I. M. P. Bro. It’s a bad look for you.
I'd like to sum up what anyone thinks. No you can't make your tool any bigger than what your born with. Now with that said. Yes you can add girth. Slight length but it's temporary. Very temporary. Like less than 24 hrs. My personal advice i use a pump everyday for at least 30min. I know it sounds crazy but I've got my tool to another level. Length at least half an inch. Girth. Well that's crazy. It almost always doesn't fit lets put it that way. Now its a constant 24/7 routine. It's dedication. Its like working out. You have to keep going. Soon as you stop you'll loose your gains pretty quickly. Anyway anyone havw any questions or advice you can just send me a reply. I don't know anything scientifically im not a doctor but this is what I've done for 2 yrs straight
@Hey_OverHere
How is he simping please elaborate
@@DanielFlores-ru4ij you are clueless; where penis enlargement is concerned. You know nothing, but you will have to take my word on it.
Well she is also an expert😂
Dr. Malik, your video on male sexual health and erection issues is truly enlightening and a much-needed discussion in today’s world. Your ability to address such sensitive topics with clarity, compassion, and expertise is inspiring. Thank you for being a voice of knowledge and reassurance for so many.
I’d also like to seek your guidance on a specific concern-how can one improve erections during rear intercourse? Your insights would be invaluable. Thank you again for your incredible work!
See your urologist about the injectable drug know as Trimix/Alprostadil. Works awesome if you don't mind giving yourself an injection directly to the side of your penis. It was a little scary at first but the results were Amazing! Rock hard for over an hour, like I was 18 again!
Im 62 and have no problem getting and keeping an erection. I focus on her and use communication to ensure she is my focus. Get out of your head and talk to her! Ask her if she is enjoying what you are doing, what she would like and how. Communication is paramount.
Never conducted a survey during sex... Do you keep a record??
Do you like that? Shall I move on to the other one?
Dirty talk…..just tell her nasty things you will do next with her
Try it a room full people with the cameras and lights on you trying to perform. It's not s easy no matter what you take.
Like Alan Partridge?
Always enjoy Dr. Malik's professional yet caring demeanor when discussion any medical topic.
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Fellas, find a woman who isn’t blown out and has realistic expectations. If she can’t be satisfied unless it is big, it’s her problem
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽
If that makes you feel better, bro. 😂😂
@@cali2468 I mean it’s common sense.. if average can’t satisfy her, that’s a her problem
@@DesiMinnesotan I've plenty of girl "friends" that told me you're correct. As an average myself with 16.5cm, there are some girls that I hit their cervix and it hurts them.
So yeah, even a four inches can do.. to a smaller vagina.
Men rejoice; all you have to do is find the right fit! Don't hesitate to try lots of them out!
@@DesiMinnesotan @DesiMinnesotan Common sense tells me you’re just small.
erectile dysfunction has a lot to do with the woman partner - some women can produce a much bigger sexual arousal in you than others but you may find they are difficult to live with on long term whereas a perfect partner may stimulate you less sexually but you find you get along much better with her, the ultimate choice is yours
Yep!!!
Good point!
This is possibly the most ignorant comment on here. What you’re describing is not erectile dysfunction. You’re just describing not being into your partner. Those aren’t the same thing. Erectile dysfunction is in no way the fault of the woman. It’s not the fault of the man either. It’s a medical condition. But it’s definitely not the fault of the woman.
This happens to me but once I get things going I’m back to normal. It’s about regaining confidence.
Dr. What’s is your view of naturism?
2 things... first it's psychological (most of the time)
Can also be how u feel about ur partner (emotional and psychological attraction and connection is key)
Of course it's not real in those films, who gets a plumber to come over right away. 🤷🏼♂️
I'm on my way
😂😂😂
Yeah but you can get the pizza guy to show up in 45 mins 😂
@Okaybob Not where I live. 😏Though the odds is probably better for me as a man, who's only into women, I have trouble picturing a 6' blond working as a plumber. 💃
😂
Really great content in your videos. Appreciate your straight forward, clinical and fact based approach to men's sexual health issues.
Never had any sort of ED type issues, and then after being on certain medications known for such a side effect for years and also being alone by choice for same years, I didn't even think it worked anymore.
And then I met the woman I love, love of my life, and then.. "what issue?"
That "part of my physiology" comes to life, more than I'd like even, for her without fail!
If you're healthy it's mental, if if you're not healthy you're not in good shape and if you're older it could be everything including even low testosterone.
Stay healthy fellas. Your woman will always thank you 🎉
"Don't cross the streams." Egan Spengler
Egon Spengler...
"I'm looking into the box Ray!"😂
Lmao
*SW⚔️RD FiGHT‼️*
I'm in my late 50s. Once I started dating a 20 year old my intrest is sex went way up.
We’re talking about real partners here, not escorts old man river.
@@greeneyesfromohio4103 that was mean af
Shes no ho. I believe in you Max.
Crazy wow 😂😂😂😂@@greeneyesfromohio4103
A good book on navigating split streams is ''Yellow River'', by I. P. Freely.
Or” Under the grandstands” by Seymour Butts.
Hi Doctor Malik, many thanks for differentiating real sex from pornography Adult industry has an overwhelming effect over men all over the world. Unfortunately people believe in what they see on these videos, in spite of the unreal, untrue, deceitful aspect of them.
Performance anxiety seems like something that would be fairly common. My advice is to focus on you partner's pleasure and forget about your own.
i agree with you 100 percent.
What? No, that advice is exactly backwards and is what causes Performance anxiety. If anything, you need to focus on your own pleasure and arousal, because it's literally required for an erection.
You need to stop focusing on pleasing your partner and minimize thinking overall. You need to be less in your head, and more present in the moment and your own body, doing and feeling what feels good to you.
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her .
Parting ways with someone you deeply cherish is an agonizing experience. I understand firsthand, having encountered a parallel situation at the end of my 7-year relationship. Driven by an unyielding determination, I explored every avenue to salvage our bond. Seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor proved pivotal, as their intervention played a crucial role in rekindling our love
That's fascinating! How did you come across a spiritual counselor, and what's the best way for me to contact her?
Meet Suzanne Ann Walters, an outstanding spiritual counselor with the power to restore your relationship with your ex.
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We wish you the very best in whatever results you may find. Hang in there and we all know it's so difficult.
Insulin resistance can be part of the cause, correct?
Who was the comedian that said " all porn films should be titled " Things that will never happen to you "
For the guys, If you are concerned with size, I heard a very popular adult actress say she like all sizes, just the bigger ones are better on camera. Unless you are planning a career in adult entertainment, you should be good with whatever you are loaded with.
Ron Jeremy has advice for you then.
Very true. I’m 46 and I’ve been with over 75 women. Only 2 have hinted that I wasn’t enough. Women enjoy being penetration by different sizes. That’s part of their enjoyment. Rock on Fellas!
@@johneta7665 The trick is in action not size, fast piston like motion from end to end of the canal in every stroke.
The only thing you should take care of is your mental stress levels.
I have a small size the only time I face issues is when I had a high stress level due to job related issues and fear of visiting hookers place before my marriage.
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@@BeauQuillenyes he does
When you work in a pizza shop you shouldn't eat pizza for dinner
To break that down
You get paid to have sex with hot women don't grape women
I recently saw an interview with a adult actress where they asked if the males use medication and she said "every time" and mentored it's usually a pill but sometimes the injection.
I'm from Brazil and some porn stars here said the same thing in an interview. But they also said that in order to become a porn star, men must not only have a bigger penis but also hard, long-lasting erections. Medications, pills or injections is because it's a job. They stand in front of the camera and a large crew, not doing what gives them pleasure, but what the directors tell them to do. They also say that some scenes take hours (some scenes take 2 to 4 hours on set). That's why they use medication. A major porn producer said that 8-9 out of 10 men they test don't meet their requirements. Half of them couldn't get ready in front of the whole crew, lol!
Cocaine is a helluva drug
I believe an injection of Papaverine and Phentolamine is used.
@@judd0112 Cocaine is not conducive to good sex.
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And sometimes the split stream is the result of a stone. We pass small stones quite often, it's stones that don't make it out of the kidney or bladder when they are small that cause the BIG problems, small stones usually wash right through but sometimes are just large enough to slightly occlude the urethra.
I have long been an advocate of teaching your boys to sit to pee.
At 61 25mg of Sildenafil never fails and gives me added confidence.
Otherwise it's hit and miss depending on mood.
You really should do a show with Hink, recognize and learn from the PE community.
Hink is the man. So knowledgeable.
For the first guy: it’s you don’t have a certain level of trust built, you’re going to be self-conscious. Sex is a vulnerable thing. Build trust/relationship. It’s pretty simple. Your body is doing what it’s meant to do-if there isn’t relationship there, your bodies going to reject the act.
Diet is everything. Reduce your carbs folks. As carbs become a larger and larger percent of our diet all hell breaks loose in our body. For many men high carb diets kills testosterone levels and the ability to maintain erections. I am 54 and slowly started having these issues many years ago. Went carnivore 16 months ago and its been life changing in many ways but especially hormonally for me and my wife who went carnivore at the same time. Sex is better than its ever been for both of us. Absolutely no issues for us now at all.
What other benefits besides sexual have you experienced?
I am the same age & have been considering that diet as well.
@ even energy all day everyday, better sleep, no snoring or breathing issues, less sinus problems, 6-7 hrs of sleep max, feel 25 years younger, testosterone levels have doubled, blood pressure normal, A1C below 5.5, triglycerides under 100, no aches and pains, massive reduction of inflammation in my body, no more skin issues, no more sunburning, bowel problems, life long constipation issues gone, swollen prostate and small pee stream gone, peeing three times a night gone, a bladder i can fill up again, back to my 18-20 year old weight of 178. I am 6 feet. Zero medications. The long term health problems from eating 80-90% daily calories from carbohydrates is killing humans. Go get a resting insulin test. If it is not below 10 you are getting too many carbs. My wife and i cannot explain the change in our lives for the better. It has changed our outlook on life headed into retirement. Do it 90 days. You will be very pleased. We will never go back.
@ Congrats on the positive transformation you have made. I appreciate the reply
I will definitely get that resting insulin test.
I was going to say this exact thing. Most problems for most men can be alleviated by changing diet.
Carnivore for 1 1/2 years and my libido and erection quality is better than it was in my 20s. Best mental and physical health in my life!
@ and it goes for women as well. My wife is 59 and it has been a game changing for her hormonal health. Sex drive and orgasms way better. Also, no need for lubrication. She is like she was when she was 30 yrs old.
Thanks for being so informative in plain language. Unfused infra-meatal part of the glans of the penis can also result in spraying of urine and possible soiling of clothes. This can be either congenital (like MMIP syndrome) or post surgery for Hypospadias. Though, these causes are likely to have been picked up in childhood but missed too, sometimes.
One thing about peeing off to the side that Rena didn't mention that's happened to me, being uncircumcised: Sometimes the foreskin partially blocks the outlet causing the stream to go one way or another. No ma'am, I didn't mean to miss the toilet! I finally straightened out the stream when I pulled back the skin.
Under 40 diagnosis: porn addiction, lack of physical fitness, antidepressants.
Also, significant general anxiety
Theres no such thing as porn addiction and porn doesnt affect erections anyway
@@scarred10it affects too much
Am 24 and am suffering
@PYSADA change the woman
please go play in traffic
I have cardiovascular disease, 3 strokes, recently had a pacemaker. Ejection fraction of 23%. I’m almost 65 and was very fit, or so I thought, until the first stroke. I have difficulty achieving an erection. Is my love life permanently impaired? I have improved tremendously since my last stroke late last year. Had the pacemaker last month. Is there anything I can do? Thank you in advance Rena. 🇨🇦💝🇺🇸🥰
Serrapeptase, nattokinase, pine bark extract, berberine, squats
See a urologist like her
The suggestion on medication for psychogenic ED worked for me. I had brain trauma and a toic relationship right around when it began, so we thought TBI induced. W/ my new partner, we moved slowly w/ open communication, but my ED was hit or miss. When I tried tadalafil for a month, my ED was gone, I regained confidence, and wasn't hyper-focused on performance. Eventually, I didn't even need medication, and I have a half used bottle going to waste.
Tadalafil is amazing.
Didn't help me. To truly counter psychogenic ED, you can't be consciously aware you needed that pill to perform, at least for me. Just knowing the pill is what did it for me ensured that when I don't take one, I can't perform.
@ I just take daily low dose tadalafil.
@adamm6329 See, for me, it was like dang, this is gonna be great! Perhaps b/c I trusted it would help, it did. Every so often still, I get in my head about taking too long to climax (bummer, right?), and I'll lose it. But overall, I think just having that safety net of 5mg tadalafil gave me reassurance and reminded me of what is possible.
Those average measurements are from the pubic bone, not the fat pad, which is huge on a lot of people, especially office sitters.
I heard about a guy that if he lost 100 lbs he'd be over 9". Like bro... I'd be at the gym daily. 🤣
I'm 43 and have been in a relationship that's lasted just over 17 years now. I can count the times I've had erectile issues performing on one hand. That being said, I've noticed these last couple of years that I can maintain 100% capacity for the first few minutes, but then go down to 90-95% the remainder of the time. I'm more convinced than not that it's a mental thing for me, and even that small of a difference makes me sad. Also can't seem to finish as quickly as I'd like, which also sucks and also makes me feel that the real issue for me is declining excitement.
I'm in the same boat. One thing that has helped me is I get happy when I help her out over trying to help myself out. That keeps my mind off of me. More focused on her enjoying it. She gets mad for me not cumming sometimes but I make sure she understands I don't care about me. As long as she's happy. I'm semi out of shape. 44 and been married for 24 years.
She does more for me then anyone else could ever. So I make sure I make her explode at least 2 times every time.
Yes being older and in your head doesn't help. Try and find that one trigger that keeps you in the moment at the moment. Focus on pleasure rather then you finishing. Try and stop caring about finishing and just say next time.
It might be because the sex becomes routine. I’ve had this conversation many times with my coworkers and one guy said, I bet if there was some young hot girl in the room with you, you’d be harder than Chinese algebra
Familiarity breeds contempt, you need some strange, new, younger if it's an issue. With everything, over time things lose it's desire, excitement, etc.
I think that trying so hard to last longer when I was younger, came back too haunt me. Now, it takes forever to finish. Sometimes going at it for hours.
ED is generally referred to as a physical issue. Whem it can also envolve a physicological aka mental issue as well. Though there is sometime's way's of getting around the physical aspect of ED. Getting past the physicological issue is to the N-th degree considerably, excuse the pun, Harder.
To the guy with the erection matter, as others have said and I agree, it happens. Period. No shame. But I also say this: I propose you let your mind switch-up from concern about making it perfect for your partner to making it enjoyable for YOU, while also remaining mindful and generous towards your partner. You also enjoying yourself is also a highly worthy outcome too.
Jim Carrey Effect in the movie 🎬 "Me, Myself & Irene" 😅😅😅😅😅
Exactly
I got prescribed Tadalifil for pulmonary hypotension.
It’s glorious lol.
Mami, in the 90s we learned more from Scope, Hustler and Penthouse magazines than anything they have today ...
Good old days
Ek ook! 😊
Highly Appreciated Nice Post
They can use different lenses such as wide lense, etc. Or even video after effects.
She is a very lovely person ❤❤❤
German men don't sit to pee. In general. I developed my paruesis in Germany. My first trigger was in a German bathroom and a guy made fun of me for not using the urinal. A german dude. In general, German bathrooms offer far more privacy, and peeing in an ally is fine. But German men don't sit to pee usually. Swedes I think?
You are in charge. Instead of focusing on yourself focus on directing them. Say on your knees, hands behind your back with your chin up. You will be so focus on their next move you will not think about anything but that.
Female bodybuilders have a high probability of developing Clitoromegaly (big clitorises) if they have been using hormonal PED's. Does this work for men? Which types should be avoided to not cause clitoral androgenation?
Almost all PED’s are male hormones besides gross hormone and clenbuterol would be the only ones that wouldn’t have masculine effects
Growth
Only if taken in small doses during puberty/adolescence. High T = larger peen. Natural boosters are not being overweight, high t boosting foods like egg yolks, broccoli, beef, liver, pumpkin seeds, etc. If you have a son and want him to grow healthy stick with the above.
That's a mouthful
@@briandaniel4937 Have you seen clitoromegaly? It turns into a small penis.
At 24, I had trouble keeping it down!
Dr Malik- is Quite Unique. She can talk clearly- to the point- about anything! Thank you Dr.
Thanks doctor. You have been helping keep me be harder and stronger. Me and Little Buddy love you.
I’m not sure why but, I like your channel. 🎸
I actually had a urethral stricture (blocked urethra). I underwent a super invasive surgery called urethroplasty about 9 months ago. Been great since.
The same here, I had one just about a month ago.
@ oh wow! Was yours a buccal graft or anastomosis?
In the adult industry, the women, on average are relatively very small as well as the guys. The industry had taller men in the 70's and 80's. Today's male performers are shorter in height. It's a camera trick.
I was shocked
Girls also usually have super small hands. It a lot easier to spot the proportions and get an ide of real size when viewing in VR
@@ShaneBoy So the videographers have learned from the food advertising industry. Where big burger chains have used small hand models for fifty years, so the burgers they hold up look way larger.
@@lyfandeth did not know they did it, but makes total sense that they will do it.
SO many 4'11-5'3" women in porn.
Definitely stay away from stress. Stress will not allow you to have a wonderful experience.
I had performance anxiety in my younger years. It happened a couple one night stands. When I was in a relationship I had no issues. I think for me it's about connecting with the woman and having an emotional attachment rather than no attachment at all. I need to feel comfortable with the woman and lead up to sexual intimacy. I may be in the minority but that's just me. BTW- been married now for 30 years so I don't have to deal with performance anxiety ever again, lol
Ever since I took Prozac for a few months five years ago, my libido and erections have never been the same.
Wat is kgoal kegel exerciser? Benefits? Harm?
When I was 24 I never had an ED issue. Maybe a low sperm count or low testosterone is the reason. It also could be completely mental.
Very informative!
I was a shut down not working right ED guy from abstinence for too long and had to do sex practice with my Girlfriend who was also abstinent for too long. You have to use it or you lose it. Thats my experience. Now we are like clock work
True. That's why it's so important for couples to have regular sex.
Urethral Strictures are a cause of deviated flow
I’m about to eat some pumpkin seeds on a empty stomach this early in the morning. So I can be ready by this afternoon/evening. Pumpkin seeds over Slidenifil. Slidenifil gave me a headache
Sincerely, I had some skeptical questions about adult industry about larger and bigger penis now I have the answer, thanks
good circulation and being about 190lbs-200lbs and 6 feet tall
I am 49 so I have erectile problems, and use meds. to get an erection. According to what you said I could be into porn if I wanted to...since I am larger than normal, but I am not that kind of person. Always wondered why the stream sometimes comes out split, or all over the place. As always I am glad you post these videos that most wouldn't even try to, and hope you helped a lot of men in the world with some of their problems.
the person asking about enhancement should strongly consider that these males are often cherry-picked for their physical attributes. the fact that they tend to stay in the business up to a decade or more, while women in the industry change significantly sooner, helps highlight how rare such endowments really are.
In winter i can't find it😮?
Nice informative video
Find a female you are actually interested in, and that is actually interested in you.
most of what’s easy these days probably isn’t that interesting when it comes down to the nitty gritty.
Dr Malik, I suffer from ED until I watch your videos. I can’t help but stay rock hard watching you and listening to your voice.
Always illuminating
I dont know why we are supposed to make it big.
Thank you, this was very informative. For a friend of course. Poor guy…
Combating ED is easy if you don't have a physical issue behind it.
1: stop masturbating for a while
2: don't watch porn
3: take supplements that support blood flow, maybe even some tadalafil for a while.
Bonus:
4: exercise, cardiovascular and weight
5: stop smoking
I had ED for a while. Doing the above made me a complete MONSTER.
Thank you for your advice
you know what I tried this. I was masterbating 3-4 times a day at one point to porn.. I stopped after I found a partner, and realized I had issues. I tried a viragra pill last week for the first time. this is after I stopped watching porn all day, and masterbating. last week I tried viagra, and instantly thought was penis was gonna explode.. so it might just do it's trick..
5:46 thanks for crushing my self confidence 😞
I think she meant the averages in porn videos, not across the globe.
If that crushed your confidence, then I doubt you had any to begin with.
Not forgetting prescribed medications can cause ED problems. Blood pressure meds in particular!
Does semen retention have benefits? Will it make my sperm potent?
Definitely the 'heart' and the rest of the body are connected. Make sure your heart is healthy !!!! A healthy body and a calm mind and like minded partner are what's best for good sex.
I actually tend to have the opposite problem. Without changing in diets or daily chores my sleep schedule goes down and up, and the more days I have of proper sleep the more I have the issue of a certain someone being hard at times when it shouldn't be hard, and staying that way for longer than it ought to be.
I at times would also have the issue of not ejaculating. To quote some shortie back in 2012, " my jaw is growing tired, am I not doing it well?"
What's going on?
On some other instance it was the opposite, i had ED and felt like shit cause it is very prideful to last long with a girl, and to then loose that with only an uncontrolled sleep schedule or a change of girls blow my my mind.
Can certain underware cause shrinkage. I notice I'm hung without blood flow several days then a few days its like what happen
Black macca powder, and black seed oil help me wake up with my member at full salute. I'm 42. Been taking for about 2 years.
Can u share u take it daily or how u take it ,
I want to ask you about using a p.nis plug for a distal stricture instead of or until I can get meatotomy surgery with a buccal graft. A screw in plug made for long term use can be left in, maybe for three weeks, to form the stricture over the plug but remove the plug before it shapes too exactly. I intend to use two different plugs, leave it out sometimes, and continue intermittent self dilation. This is not documented anywhere I can find. Can I ask you more specifically about it, and share information I can't write on here? Do I need a membership to ask a question? Cheers.
When I manage to keep a plug in, it feels great for both functions and keeps my flas sid p.nis stretched and looking great on the nud. beach, eliminating pain I didn't realize everyone else doesn't feel.
Thanks for the information.
Measuring from were?
How would I get girth, length and hardness?
Split stream has only happened to me when the opening is not opening all the way
I never had split stream but
I have had to one where
It goes outside of the
Toilet
Sex induced anxiety is the number one reason we HEALTHY men lose an erection OR can't get an erection. Be confident and don't think about it and nature will take you to the finish line. This comes from a PhD in human physiology with over 3 decades of training.
I have had this issue for over 30 years
Yes these are all things I've wondered
I use the fisheye lenses
Thank You
My stream is always split for the first second or 2. Pretty annoying as one stream goes straight down. I have what i think is a pretty large urethra opening and the center always sticks together for a second while urinating causing the split.
What about this salt under the Tongue trick does it really ?
I read a story one time about asparagus children and they were subconscious about how their pee smelled.
Back in my single dating days performance anxiety would sometimes get ahold of me during first couple of times I was with a woman I was crushing on hard. My doc said it was in my head and prescribed me Viagra. Worked wonders to keep my mind focused on her instead of me… After 1 or 2 times it wasn’t needed anymore (for that woman anyway).
I once had a girlfriend who was relieved to find that I came in the normal average range... Her previous boyfriend was large in length & girth, which she always found painful which ended the relationship... She thought my endowment was comfortable ... Unfortunately for her she was looking for marriage which I wasn't ready for... We still remained as friends... Never mind the size, feel what's really important.... 👐