Never be available for someone to take you for granted. You have the control. It's called walking away, closing the door behind you and BLOCK all communication he has with you. The END!!
@@BTEE_Cosmetics, You are ACTIVELY Doing something about it Now ❤️ NEVER stop Pouring into yourself 🙏🏼 Enjoy the Journey, and remember EVERYONE isn’t going to make the same journey with you. This is the Best part 🙏🏼
Wow!! Derrick you are on point. I gave him all of me and he took it for granted. I admit there were red flags but I dismissed because he was available, attentive, protective but he said several times he was not ready for a commitment relationship. I thought I could make a shift/change and I could pour into him and be that positive influence. NOT! He left me in a void and heartbroken. I am now in therapy and will focus on healing and self love.
She sounds like me.. Not with regards to being married but with loving hard. I don't see him showing me any feelings.. He doesn't call me, I am the one calling him. He says "I'm too old for any arguments or hassle as I might as well be by myself" I just ask him why haven't you called. It just seems one sided. Sapping out all my energy and I don't feel like this relationship is going anywhere. My feelings for him is wearing thin and I don't want to make the effort to waste my time for someone WHO SAYS HE CARES but I can't see it... I have so much love to give but he, I don't think, wants me or my love... Time for me to go. Ooooh you hit the nail right on the head, because that's how I am in my relationships as I do the mothering thing, cooking, ironing, nurturing and just want to love someone but not getting it in return. Where is Mr Right... Still looking 😢
I'm with you been through the same thing sis they may try to change or even want to but don't have the capacity. I wasted 2 years of my beautiful life thinking it would get better guess what it got worse. Take it from someone who was in your shoes in time you will have to walk away choose your pain.
Yup I’ve gone to McDonalds looking for a whopper many times. After doing my own person healing I’m realizing this is something 2 b mindful of as I put myself back in the dating game. Appreciate the insights D.❤️🙏🏾
I am there on being taken for granted. I was weak in the beginning and didn't speak up and created a monster. I have changed that though and hsve told him about himself. He is making changes or at least trying and I can see it He has potential so I have to be vocal all the time but am conflicted about staying only because this is the second relationship like this. Trying to make sure I am not bringing in crap from that one into this one but don't think I am. But at least I am very aware at this point
Learn to enjoy pleasing yourself go to the pastry shop have a nice treat with a gormet coffee get tacos or a sandwich and go to the park have a self picnic give thanks to the Lord for a beautiful day watch the squirrels or the birds whatever read a book go to the zoo or the library enjoy loving and pleasing yourself
Yup until 4 years then i learned to set boundaries and now he keeps running and has came back a few times that i allowed. He says im arguing ehen im communicating
Can you do a video on ‘5 telltales that he IS taking you for granted’ not just reasons why he would. Idc his reason why he would. I think we’d care more if we are blindly being taken for granted. I know I do. I care more on knowing if I am rather than your reasons for doing me wrong snd doing it like a fox.
👍😁You know everything ,its like you can see how im doing , thank you for open up my eyes more then once, even i still hope hell change, i know he never will 😢😢
Yes my brother it is very easy for us women to be took for granted because we won't to love all of the men when we can only truly love the one and only right one because the other ones 😮will hurt you so bad and won't think nothing about it
They play themselves out of losing good women.
Never be available for someone to take you for granted. You have the control. It's called walking away, closing the door behind you and BLOCK all communication he has with you. The END!!
I can’t wait until I’m not attracted to the wrong guys 😮💨
It will happen when you start pouring into YOURSELF first…
@@candiedwards974 thank you. I’m in counseling now. I hope I get a hold of it soon.
Me too
@@BTEE_Cosmetics, You are ACTIVELY Doing something about it Now ❤️ NEVER stop Pouring into yourself 🙏🏼 Enjoy the Journey, and remember EVERYONE isn’t going to make the same journey with you. This is the Best part 🙏🏼
@@candiedwards974 thank so much for the encouraging words🙏🏾🫶🏾
So true and im guilty of lacking boundaries in the past! Very wise words, thank you 🙏🏽❤️
So true!! This is exactly what I'm going through. Needed to see this!!! On point!
There is a lesson to be learned. Never loose your voice in a relationship . Loving to hard can break your heart.
I agree
I did put myself in a back burner back then but not amymore i've work on myself and still doin it . Thx for your readings what speak to me .
" Get with somebody who knows what he's getting, instead of just whenever he loses it." Derrick you said some then!
You can't imagine how much your videos helps me these days. Thank you so much!🤗
Wow!! Derrick you are on point. I gave him all of me and he took it for granted. I admit there were red flags but I dismissed because he was available, attentive, protective but he said several times he was not ready for a commitment relationship. I thought I could make a shift/change and I could pour into him and be that positive influence. NOT! He left me in a void and heartbroken. I am now in therapy and will focus on healing and self love.
Going through the same thing now he ended thing on December. Did he came back to apologize?
She sounds like me.. Not with regards to being married but with loving hard. I don't see him showing me any feelings.. He doesn't call me, I am the one calling him. He says "I'm too old for any arguments or hassle as I might as well be by myself" I just ask him why haven't you called. It just seems one sided. Sapping out all my energy and I don't feel like this relationship is going anywhere. My feelings for him is wearing thin and I don't want to make the effort to waste my time for someone WHO SAYS HE CARES but I can't see it... I have so much love to give but he, I don't think, wants me or my love... Time for me to go. Ooooh you hit the nail right on the head, because that's how I am in my relationships as I do the mothering thing, cooking, ironing, nurturing and just want to love someone but not getting it in return. Where is Mr Right... Still looking 😢
I'm with you been through the same thing sis they may try to change or even want to but don't have the capacity. I wasted 2 years of my beautiful life thinking it would get better guess what it got worse. Take it from someone who was in your shoes in time you will have to walk away choose your pain.
I have a friend who is in this situation but is so delusional. It’s so frustrating to watch her get used like this.
This is 100% correct. Can’t get any clearer than this. Thank you!
Sir can you make that youtube button so we can support you????? I think youre magnificent. Teaching women & men.
Yup I’ve gone to McDonalds looking for a whopper many times. After doing my own person healing I’m realizing this is something 2 b mindful of as I put myself back in the dating game. Appreciate the insights D.❤️🙏🏾
I am there on being taken for granted. I was weak in the beginning and didn't speak up and created a monster. I have changed that though and hsve told him about himself. He is making changes or at least trying and I can see it He has potential so I have to be vocal all the time but am conflicted about staying only because this is the second relationship like this. Trying to make sure I am not bringing in crap from that one into this one but don't think I am. But at least I am very aware at this point
Ur wastin ur time
Keep trying
Thank you for keeping me positive as I enter a big change in my life getting to leave my selfish and self centered boyfriend
How do you break out of being a people pleaser?
@Desert35 thank you
@Desert35 thank you
I was the rosemary who lost weight and got stabbed.
Learn to say no and be willing to walk away
Learn to enjoy pleasing yourself go to the pastry shop have a nice treat with a gormet coffee get tacos or a sandwich and go to the park have a self picnic give thanks to the Lord for a beautiful day watch the squirrels or the birds whatever read a book go to the zoo or the library enjoy loving and pleasing yourself
I’ve done it. Gone out of my way for someone who wouldn’t even move a finger for me….. until now.
This video is SO 🎯❗️ it’s beyond 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
This brings me so much peace ❗️❗️
There are narcissistic
Point blank
You are the truth, throw him away.🎉🎉🎉🎉
You are right💯
Yup until 4 years then i learned to set boundaries and now he keeps running and has came back a few times that i allowed. He says im arguing ehen im communicating
I. This video is on point! 👍🏾💯🙏🏾
Amen!!!❤
Thank you sir very well stated
Real talk 😢😢😢
Derrick keep working on yourself, fixing your relationships and keep connected with the Jesus. Do what u are called to you.
I needed this. I dont even know where to begin fixing this mess i accepted. I definitely rather not date at all.
I've got to find somewhere else to go and I've got nowhere else, I've got no job no car.. I don't know what to do..
Thank you ❤
This right here is gold
I did out of it now Amen 🙌
wow! don't love hard, love accordingly!! so true
Thank for insight see to many red flags
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Wow so true
Yeah I've learned this just recently it was the worst thing, I'm still trying to figure out how to deal with the situation..
Can you do a video on ‘5 telltales that he IS taking you for granted’ not just reasons why he would. Idc his reason why he would. I think we’d care more if we are blindly being taken for granted. I know I do. I care more on knowing if I am rather than your reasons for doing me wrong snd doing it like a fox.
I was his door mat I have let him walk on me
Guilty
thank you so much! I needed a good wake up call❤
I just did that very thing Sunday exclamation point then I block calling and texting and deleted the number since I don't know it by heart anyway
You never miss the water.....til the well runs dry.
❤ 100%
👍😁You know everything ,its like you can see how im doing , thank you for open up my eyes more then once, even i still hope hell change, i know he never will 😢😢
Great Video👍👑
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Yes my brother it is very easy for us women to be took for granted because we won't to love all of the men when we can only truly love the one and only right one because the other ones 😮will hurt you so bad and won't think nothing about it
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Thanks D..I'm going thru this man's past marriage? I don't deserve this I'm a good woman?
🎉 That Part....!
Derrick Jaxn confessions
This was me in a 15 year marriage
Definitely
Prayer is the key
Yes true
4 and 5 for sure....done with that now
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It happened more than once❤
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It was one sided
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Love doesn't exist
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So good, loving your content, thank you!
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Really?? About parents
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