Why I’m never wearing weave again!

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
  • Follow
    @whoisshonda
    Business bookingshonda@gmail.com

КОМЕНТАРІ • 73

  • @craftyme5348
    @craftyme5348 2 роки тому +47

    Smart lady! I proudly wear my natural hair. Most wigs and weaves have that “wiggy” look, I love the texture and feel of my gift from the Creator. I had dreadlocks for 8 years. Since June I wear my hair as loose natural. And I am feeling good!

    • @Whoisshonda
      @Whoisshonda  2 роки тому +1

      So do you still have locs or did you cut em? If so why just curios if you don’t mind me asking 🥰

  • @gusmonster59
    @gusmonster59 Рік тому +16

    'All hair is good hair.' So nice to hear.

  • @portia9259
    @portia9259 2 роки тому +13

    I work at a nursing home Housekeeping and have been wearing my twa and one of my favorite residents was like there goes you and that gorgeous beautiful hair I wish my hair was like that. you know all the old white ladies get curly perms she’s so sweet

  • @gbovan5689
    @gbovan5689 2 роки тому +28

    I will never ever get a relaxer again! Thank you for being You and helping us be ourselves 😘❤️👍🏾

    • @Whoisshonda
      @Whoisshonda  2 роки тому

      🥰❤️❤️

    • @roxyc.6825
      @roxyc.6825 Рік тому +1

      Me either. Worst decision I made. I am a little over a year transitioned. Never going back to a Relaxer!!

  • @Rue100
    @Rue100 2 роки тому +6

    BLACK women stop wearing weaves and wigs ,frontals its doing LIFE LONG DAMAGE TO THEIR NATURAL HAIR....and MEN DONT FIND ANY OF THAT ATTRACTIVE STRAIGHT FACTS.. and why do BLACK women wear a texture of hair that doesn't MATCH THEIRS GOOD FOR YOU IM WITH YOU

  • @faithfulworks6903
    @faithfulworks6903 2 роки тому +12

    Sadly, women allow society to determine how they look. Most are not even happy with themselves looking like themselves. Like really? I love me, my natural hair and my beautiful face without all of that makeup either!

  • @LoveSpell2226
    @LoveSpell2226 2 роки тому +9

    Head wraps are my go to.
    I wear my Locs out but I mostly keep my head covered for spiritual reasons.
    I never thought I’ll be tired of weave.
    I don’t even look right in a wig anymore to me 🤷🏾‍♀️😂

  • @faithfulworks6903
    @faithfulworks6903 2 роки тому +12

    I love my natural hair. It’s been 30 years since I even put a perm in my hair

  • @faithfulworks6903
    @faithfulworks6903 2 роки тому +11

    I totally agree! I was never a serious weave wearer but in the summer, I would wear like goddess braided. My hair was long but I cut it all all and went natural! Theeee best! I could never wear all that hair glue, sewed and stuck to my scalp! You are the bomb girl!

  • @lmewborn4865
    @lmewborn4865 2 роки тому +12

    I love your content.... So real so positive I went through all these phases and I love myself now....💜

  • @kimberlyjackson8343
    @kimberlyjackson8343 Рік тому +3

    I use to wear weave I stopped wearing weave because it's so expensive and it stinks when I leave it in too long I learned to embrace my natural hair

  • @portia9259
    @portia9259 2 роки тому +9

    I’ve been wearing my twa for about two weeks now. I did because I’m self aware of the limiting beliefs I had about my hair. The crazy thing is people still call me beautiful and I’ve gotten compliments on my hair. Not that compliments confirm my worth but they are definitely proving my old beliefs wrong I never thought anyone would compliment my hair in its short natural state but they do. It’s kind of like how do we expect others to appreciate our hair if we don’t give them a chance to even see it to be able to appreciate it. Same with ourselves appreciating our hair we gotta get used to it

  • @francinedelery8758
    @francinedelery8758 2 роки тому +4

    Always see you here like this I don’t ever see a lot of different styles with your natural hair I’m just saying I’ve just never seen anything other than this and I watch most of your videos🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @tanyamclin3153
    @tanyamclin3153 2 роки тому +6

    Hey lady good video I'm In the same place want to wear my own hair period

  • @laresa1445
    @laresa1445 20 днів тому

    Yess ma’am I wear my natural hair all the time, I feel like people look at me sideways and have Slick comments but I don’t care🤷🏾‍♀️ I’ve been natural for about 8 years now .

  • @melaninsun4238
    @melaninsun4238 2 роки тому +3

    👑🌟🌺Hey girl TRUST I'm absolutely DONE with wig journey @and a hardly wear makeup like I use to for years and not turning back love you girl👸🏾❤🥰👑🌺🔥💃🏿🌟💫

  • @Jacqxxo
    @Jacqxxo Рік тому +4

    I agree . You’re a beautiful smart person . I used to wear weave way way too much and I think I was having a identity crisis . I feel so much like myself more than anything when I stoped wearing weave .

  • @1prettyladyc
    @1prettyladyc 2 роки тому +3

    Shrinkage doesn't mean healthy..... thats just your texture......mine too and i do love it

  • @pnkkv
    @pnkkv Рік тому +1

    My mom hates my natural hair lol. She has been perming my hair since I was 6 cause my curls were too much. I recently cut my hair off to start going completely natural.. yk what she did? She made me perm my hair again!! I barely even have hair like why!! Also, I like buying wigs cause I like doing experiments and don't what to use my natural hair

  • @iammykidsmom4
    @iammykidsmom4 8 місяців тому

    I love my natural walk no fake hair nor nails just me the way God made me I am happy ☺️ just be yourself

  • @lilbrownskin6628
    @lilbrownskin6628 2 роки тому +2

    You're very intelligent and you should keep on loving your true self. I have hair like yours and I love it ! I feel so earthly and beautiful and healthy. It's just something about being natural that makes you feel closer to the earth and just makes life easier! Also your hair looks great!

  • @B.tuel22
    @B.tuel22 3 місяці тому

    As a white woman I love when black women wear their hair natural. I think it looks so beautiful more than the weave!!

  • @clarissachappelle765
    @clarissachappelle765 Рік тому +2

    Yes! I love to hear this mentality. It gets on my nerves when women won’t embrace and shame women like us who are natural.

  • @sheltonmackey6449
    @sheltonmackey6449 2 роки тому +3

    I love me some Black Women with natural hair.

  • @lavenderflowers88
    @lavenderflowers88 Рік тому +1

    Am about to stop wearing they hair my hair natural hair is beautiful

  • @portia9259
    @portia9259 2 роки тому +2

    I don’t think it’s pick me energy I think it’s more limiting beliefs that need healing

  • @camillesjacksonlightworker487
    @camillesjacksonlightworker487 Рік тому +2

    I love it comfortable being natural

  • @mobutterflies3848
    @mobutterflies3848 2 роки тому +1

    Shonda you are absolutely beautiful, both inside and out and the message u send!!!

  • @justlifeandshannon1549
    @justlifeandshannon1549 2 роки тому +2

    Amen sis !! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @dea6492
    @dea6492 5 місяців тому

    Thank you 🪷

  • @1prettyladyc
    @1prettyladyc 2 роки тому +1

    Hi mam. Did you put some oil on there? Coconut oil or something

  • @1strights
    @1strights 8 місяців тому

    ✨🕊✨

  • @mayaboo96
    @mayaboo96 2 роки тому +2

    You are beautiful and such an inspiration ❤️

  • @jacquelinespears81
    @jacquelinespears81 2 роки тому +3

    Your hair is cute 🥰

  • @journeyofsherrishas.
    @journeyofsherrishas. 2 роки тому +2

    I feel you Shonda ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @tiffanypeach4388
    @tiffanypeach4388 2 роки тому +1

    You are 100% right I wear wigs in the winter I braid my hair dwn and switch my wigs and they was all kinky curly till I realized I do flate iron my hair so I got straight hair to just in my real length but I love my protection style so I'm not manipulating my hair so much and it grows like crazy during that time and in summer an spring I do my afro puff balls pineapple etc put i do notice it stops growing fast in them months but I agree wear hair that looks like its yours texture length etc but I do flat iron so I do own on straight wig thats in my profile pic my hair is long an thick hard to manage most days but I'm loving it when ppl compliment it no matter how I feel it looks I thank them so much cause I no my hair is beautiful thanks for sharing 👑

  • @SimplycheezGorgious12
    @SimplycheezGorgious12 2 роки тому

    🤝🏽🗝️💯is to appreciate 💃🏽 HALLL'LA BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR family new years 2022

  • @arbitrarylib
    @arbitrarylib Рік тому

    Yes I have only worn a wig for maybe a few years out of life. I have always been natural and I want to stay that way. Long silky hair looks like a wet mop. My own hair is beautiful the way it is. I know there are perceptions in jobs about hair but I would rather style my own hair in an appropriate style than wear a mop on my head that isn't mine, or from a dead person

  • @PolvoDeEstrellas77
    @PolvoDeEstrellas77 2 роки тому +1

    💜 I been wearing my natural hair for year’s now I braid my own hair I flat iron every few months if that but I wear my own hair and I’m so thankful I starting do this! Good for you as well keep it up

  • @RavenMarie2001
    @RavenMarie2001 Рік тому +14

    I love watching these kind of videos I've been wearing my natural hair in wash and go's or mini twists and my hair has been growing like a weed in the cold winter months I usually do a silk press but other than that I really had to let go of the wigs and the weaves I just became to obsessed and reliant on them to the point it was starting to make me feel insecure about my hair and once I was able to do that I feel so confident about my hair now and idc what anyone has to say about it ❤

  • @colouredgal
    @colouredgal Рік тому

    I wear my hair out all the time but I do keratin treatments and color. If I wear weave which may be 1x per year is during winter just because.

  • @jackjillcooking
    @jackjillcooking Рік тому

    So true love your video many byes it against black women and men with our hair we walk out with wig s and have a false sese of self.

  • @mz.phatbaldkat7839
    @mz.phatbaldkat7839 2 роки тому +1

    🤗🤗🤗🤗👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @joannarobinson4625
    @joannarobinson4625 2 роки тому +1

    Good for you….

  • @Reason2374
    @Reason2374 2 роки тому

    You better say it!❤️ where’d you get your water bottle?

  • @patriceanderson8239
    @patriceanderson8239 2 роки тому

    I'm struggling with my natural hair

  • @gleeannsmith5232
    @gleeannsmith5232 10 місяців тому

    Thank you Shonda 💕

  • @Iammsaged7
    @Iammsaged7 Рік тому

    Very true 🤍🌞🪶

  • @tanyamclin3153
    @tanyamclin3153 2 роки тому

    Where u get yo Lil cute water bottle

  • @reginagordon4246
    @reginagordon4246 2 роки тому

    Heyyyyy Shonda 😉

  • @weallwegot6657
    @weallwegot6657 2 роки тому +2

    Well I quest I got low self esteem then cause am wearing my wig ok, but thank you

    • @sldrgrl20downzerotogo11
      @sldrgrl20downzerotogo11 2 роки тому +3

      Lol😂😂😂. Same here. I haven't had a perm in five years, and I have a good length of hair. But, I prefer to wear wigs...they are convenient and you can switch styles up whenever you want to. I braid that bad boy up and GO. Yep, Sis I'm with you..I have low self esteem I guess. 👍🏽

    • @imdinma9826
      @imdinma9826 2 роки тому +1

      First step is awareness

    • @user-he4lj5wl7w
      @user-he4lj5wl7w 2 місяці тому

      It's a journey, I guess.

  • @denise9218
    @denise9218 2 роки тому

    I think what you’re doing is beautiful but we do have to consider that we live in a harsh society which means certain jobs will consider natural hair unprofessional especially in an Afro they will call it uncapped we have seen over and over how they discriminate against dreadlocks so some people don’t have the freedom of wearing their natural hair because they wouldn’t be able to work at a certain job how many lawyers you see where their natural hair how many doctors you see where their natural hair these rules were set out mini years ago it’s a harsh reality so it’s not always self hate sometimes people just do what they have to do to make their money so let’s keep that in mind

    • @imdinma9826
      @imdinma9826 2 роки тому +1

      This tired excuse. Wasnt there a bill passed against that? The crown act? Besides BW fight for EVERYTHING except when it comes to their own hair. How do you expect people to accept something you yourself dont accept.

    • @user-he4lj5wl7w
      @user-he4lj5wl7w 2 місяці тому

      This is a cop out. Especially nowadays. You can sue for this type of shit.