Tyler's Secret To Be An Entity With "Structural Integrity" - 4 Day Self Help Revealed (5 of 6)
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I can't beleive stuff that deep and life changing is just free on UA-cam. Like wtf we live in the best era ever
Honestly it sounds weird but youtube saved me from my relationship with a girl with BPD. *An RSD video specifically.*
I would have had no idea how to handle it and she would have never known that she had BPD if I had not seen that video.
Other videos have helped me come to terms with the horrible aftermath of such a horrendously toxic and emotionally abusive relationship.
It's horrible to think that if this had happened to me (or any other men) say 10 years ago, I be completely lost and shattered.
As much as the bad racist shit there is out there on the internet.The internet is helping the world in so many ways.
Little do you know
@@geekaleek Same
Best era bruh! Evoaddicts
Agreed brother
This is the last preview video leading up to the launch of the new LIVE 4 Day Self Help event. Next video will break down the event for you if you're interested in learning more. I highly urge you to fly in from anywhere in the world and attend the event. It's 4 days AND usually has a "Free Tour" leading up to it the day before, so winds up being 5 days of seminar in most cases.
The event is IMO in a class by itself in the market space. The work that's gone into this is mind numbingly huge. I'll also be following up with more videos along the same lines as the ones that have been coming out, before returning to the dating focus of this channel - and then likely move these types of videos over to the new self help channel. Or perhaps switch it up as time goes on.
Also to be clear - these "preview" videos are basically free tour off-the-cuff riffs I did leading into the self help events. The 4 Day Self Help events are EXERCISE and TRANSFORMATION based. Not just days of me riffing like in these videos. IMO the days of self help events that are "content focused" are in the past. My paid events are focused on a bit of talking, but always a ton of exercises and personal change. I'll try to upload some actual previews of them at some point.
The RSDTyler channel is also fully focused on social skills and dating at this point, so we are basically just turning up the dial on release of both self help and dating. I shot 6 new dating / social skills videos out here in Hawaii and am about to go shoot another 2 videos today before returning to LA. I''ll also be doing a Free Tour with Julien in Los Angeles on Thursday so be sure to attend if you are in the area! And he's running TM Live that weekend as well.
More updates to come, and very excited at everything coming out. Thanks so much for being part of the journey. I'm here to serve you and for us to grow together. It means the world to me. Let me know if there's any questions and I'll try to respond! -Tyler
I love this and I hope to find friends with the same mindset as me so that I can expand and create boundaries. Then create my own terms to start my own upward spiral. Thank you Tyler!
Can your teach social psychology? How to understand every person and imitate him in funny way?
All Hail The Great Tyler Durden
In Tyler We Trust
Never Stop Preaching GodFather
Dear Tyler,
I don't know if you'll read this but, i'd love to come to the 4 days self help event but i live in Egypt
i'd appreciate it if you send me visa to come to Amerika and benifit from the land of opportunities & home of the free brave & live a pimpin' lifestyle, now that's real self help , you feel me?! LOL , Sorry about the slang language too much american media
#TheAmericanDream
You are amazing Owen, godly, ying and yang stuff is really cool, just doing stuff because of countering regret is so powerful but today we cant really encourage it haha, love you man
God damn.... The new RSD is better than anything I could have imagined.
Deep respect for Tylers work, man. Blown away
So true...
This series has been so great, am gonna rewatch all of them twice.
Appreciate it tremendously bro -Tyler
Perfect idea bro ;)
Don't forget to take MASSIVE ACTION!
Seriously. One of the only video series I keep my eyes peeled for in notifications. In fact, one of the only good uses for notifications. :D Thanks Tyler!
This is the only channel on youtube where i'm mildly disappointed when the videos arn't 1.5 hours or longer. haha. great content... And honestly one of the main things that keeps me coming back is simply the fact that Owen is an incredibly entertaining speaker. speaking skills plus the content = gold.
Biggest lesson I got from it :
LEAD GENERATION = HAVING BOUNDARIES.
Because if you don't have OTHER people in your life that could fullfil that same role, you will not have boundaries.
Tyler has taught us a lot about life and business,such a great speaker.
M.A.D Art that’s true
Thanks man. And still improving! -Tyler
Owen is changing my life. Unfortunately I am 62 but I’m grateful the inner dialogue is getting its ass kicked instead of controlling my life
Sometimes these videos come off as very intense, loud, rough. Showing the meditative side of life and perhaps slowing down a little in the next video would be unbelievably powerful. All the best
Also, I'm not trying to troll or needlessly criticize you. I think humans tend to focus on the negative feedback, because we can learn most from negative feedback. The 99/100 compliments you see sort of get repetitive and they basically tell you what you already know and or want to hear
Quality criticism
I just discovered your channel and I can’t believe how valuable your information is! This is incredible! Thank you so much for sharing!
Acting in a way where you don't have an agenda; don't care whether they like you or not.
That tip was MASSIVE value for me, thanks so much 😁
Sephiroth x agreed! Talk about freeing!
Timestamp?
awesome!!!!!
I love how you and Julein Blanc finally started to talk about the core problem we all have in common. The fact that we’re all “fucked up” mentally and that it is useless to jump in PUA without figuring ourselves and our mind first!
I can say that this is the blueprint for self development!!
Thanks! -Tyler
I am 21 following RSD since almost 2 years. Cant believe how this shit changed my life. Tyler spent his life searching to get to this level. Now with his help/knowledge we are literally 100000099x the process
@Myname Isunavailable yeah, pragmatic measurable results are nice
Tyler will always be the GOAT of RSD!! You just keep evolving and getting better! I love it! Thanks for the video!
I like that you showed that systems aren't bad. It's just that some systems don't work out for some people. And some are outright toxic.
I honestly didn't think I'd like your content going away from standard pickup material but this stuff is even better IMO! Love the vid!
Hey Tyler, let's crush self-help! And please, give us more practical steps and advice. Thanks! :)
Not to be self centered but how is it that every video is in such perfect resonance with where I am at currently in my life? Thank you Owen🙏🏿
Tiger Whitten that’s not self centered at all ❤️ that’s synchronistic. You’ve got this my friend!! You’re going to do great things!
rsd effect
Because the teachings of RSD cover a wide range of topics that are relatable to a lot of people in many life situations. Sort of a universal application. You are not self centered, you are human :)
Because he doubled down on you
Awesome! bringing it back with this one. The “be an entity with structural integrity” was the first RSD video I’ve ever seen.
It’s like going full ⭕️
Tyler Durden talking to the camera works for me. The crowd stuff just makes me zone out after awhile
Lol the intro is literally every lost doomer in our era
Lol what's a "doomer"? Just negative people? -Tyler
@@OwenCookFreeTour I cant stop staring at this question... fucking amazing
@@OwenCookFreeTour I think he meant boomer
@@OwenCookFreeTour The Doomer is an internet meme character who represents an individual who is in their 20s and male, and has a sense of aimlessness and lonliness and despair for life, its a widespread meme played out in real people.
@@Chmms Ok so you are here watching his videos but then you act towards him like a total jerk (you and several others). I don't understand what you are trying to achieve. Do you want to be a jerk or do you want to empower yourself and feel more love and fulfillment?
I love your honesty and how you share examples of what goes on in your Company. It’s good to hear “normal person” day-to-day type relatability. Sometimes teachers can seem “Above” so it’s always good to hear you share the behind the scenes of your life. Helps me asses mines a lot better. 💯🙏
I was watching videos 1 year....and i was alone 5 years...And at this moment i have amazing girfriend 3 years....because of Rsd....wow its change my life...Amazing tnx Tyler...
AMAZING! Thanks for letting me know! -Tyler
I like showing Owen to the girls I've seen and seeing since 2013...It's a good habit ;)
Action9000x
Was afraid it would get watered down and too "self-helpy", but this is some real, raw shit, dude. Really hope you guys keep it raw and honest, help tons of people and crush it in self-help.
I had to dumb it down in PUA. WIth self help I can finally be fully real and raw. With PUA I was stuck in a box -Tyler
Owen “Say it after me” Cook
I laugh each time he says that but then I say it after him 😂
It work and I love it
Got to see this in person. Glad to be able to see it on here just to reinforce the concepts. Wishing you all the best on your journey.
Thank you Tyler and the whole RSD gang for putting out such great content.
This is like NETFLIX for self help: Entertaining, but valuable. 1:58 Reminded me Elliot Hulse . "You don't have to be Good Boy" from catharsis video. Takeaways from video: 1. Build "Win - Win" Systems 2. Have boundaries "you time" 3. Get Bright shirt 4. Stay Social 5. Sub communications projects your value 6. Have options 7. Vibe creates Context, Context creates Vibe 8. Audit yourself 9. Strength is built on Strength
Owen "opportunity cost" Cook
"what else"
O.C
LOL. Dude Owen, you need to know that this is what finally woke me up. YOUR VIDEOS haha.
All of you- so grateful for everything! Thank you for guiding me forward to the truth.
Owen "say that with me" Cook
Regan Martin it’s Tyler Durden to you
I love you, man. You're the Kinison of the self help world.
Having systems in place is the key to success in almost anything. Want to get ripped? Track your diet and workouts, have a system in place like if you skip the gym, do a body workout at home, if you eat a donut, eat less the next day, etc.
Yes! One of the next focuses for me as well! -Tyler
to be closer with God is everything
This is about the fourth time I have watched this video. It clicked in a different way this time. Since I have been living a more balanced life, I actually see these things happening. It's not theoretical anymore, it's reality. Dope
I really do believe hes the best public speaker of all time . I could listen to him all day without getting bored at all
It's crazy,I saw one of your videos when I was in high school back in 2012 and thought what a joke this has got to be fake. Started watching again 2018, I probably wasn't ready back then. Still figuring things out, making many mistakes but I'm glad i came across your content again. Especially the all the truth about success videos. Thanks for making these. Currently saving up for the event see you soon g.
Thanks Tyler for saving my life
You saved your own life but I hope it helped! -Tyler
@@OwenCookFreeTour Tyler, come to Moscow, I'll hug you
This video is exactly what I needed. I've been trying to figure out how to build "tribe" for a while now. And I am working on monetizing my music/art. So building leads is crucial.
Tyler's public speaking skill is crossing all human levels.. He's basically what you can call a Super Sayain Speaker Level 9000!
Its interesting coming back to some of these videos when I’m in a better state of mind/ paradigm. I remember listening to these videos only really hearing the stuff that I felt applied to me in my current state. There are so many gems in these videos that I feel I need to come back periodically and get information that I would have totally tuned out a couple years ago.
I needed the wake up call, my girlfriend left me for financial reasons and I was desperately thinking on ways to get her back , but after seeing this it won't happen, I will use that time and energy to work on my self , thank you Tyler
"If you don't have a plan, you'll become part of someone else's plan" - Terrence Mckenna
Yup! -Tyler
Yessssss!!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
true, I've felt that
In all honesty,
I'm not one to say anything online. Part of that reason is because of the fact that with the valuable content that Owen provides I can guide my energy to execute on things that are necessary and crucial for personal growth. His content is the best content a young man could listen to and take in. Not only is it helpful for myself but I know that in the future it will help thousands of other people. I'm just one case here and I'm writing to show the ripple effect this guys really making. My life is on a totally alternate trajectory.
That weed message really hit home for my man at 40:58 lol. Jokes aside, this content is life changing. Big thanks owen, you're changing the world man!
Best public speaker,no one is even close
Great content 🙌 Having options is a great way to stop being needy, but I feel it is a band aid. Being totally comfortable with yourself can be a higher goal 🤗
Ooooohh my Tyler you have totally out done yourself this time
Thanks so much! -Tyler
This video is 3 years old. I missed a Seattle event TONIGHT and I tried to register but I couldn’t make it happen in time. And then you start talking about Seattle and making people feel bad for missing events! Haha! So ironic because that’s what happened to me TODAY and in Seattle too. Yet, this video is 3 years old. 🤯
Owen...U R A GODDAMN BEAST. I love your honesty!
Thank you! I needed to be reminded of these specific things. Balance, here I come
Listened to this three times already. So much value.
Men with higher prenatal testosterone have been shown to choose career paths more fit for their strengths and thus allowing them to win more in the long term.
Great video and your points are valid. I just figured I'd add that for thoughts sake.
Testosterone must be strongly related to dominance in all areas including physicality and mentality towards life.
this guy is from another world
Lol -Tyler
Game is for the rest of your life, even if you get married.
Especially if u get married!
Dude, don't get married
@@exignt9388 😂
EXIGNT Julien go married
Not trying to be a troll but why is Owen always talking about how much time they spend editing videos? The content is so dense and qualitative. I rarely see more than 3 simple cuts in an hour-long video. Have 4 or 5 fans watch the raw content and ask them which sections you think should be cut (and ask for timestamps)
Infield blurring (around 50 to 100 hours per video) + these seminars run many hours, we cut out the best part which is a lot of editing decisions -Tyler
Lovely video! Especially when you talked about getting closer to "God"
In my game journey where i learned to socialize with other people, learned how to love and cherish the people , animals and the world/nature around me, i had a big huge epiphany. Everytime i was underslept , was mad and angry all the time for small things i always had a moment on the end of that period that i burst out in tears and i knew that everything where doing here on planet earth is just to connect with others and the world, to feel loved but love others even more
On these moments it's so clear for me that that's the focus we need to hold on to.
I mean a big car a big house is very nice to have and f*ck yes you should enjoy it but also remember that al these things are just tools we use to connect to eachother.
Probaly some ego involved in this process but don't think that's bad.
This video came in exactly when I was getting into arguments with someone who doesn’t like me. Giving energy to the people who appreciate you- I’m surprised I never realised it before.
This will change my life and many others, thank you Owen.
Perfect, ANNND, remember to take self responsibility as well. In case it was you who was in the wrong. Do both. -Tyler
RSDTyler Will do man, definitely. Thanks again for the reply 🙌
@@wick7255 Perfect!! -Tyler
OWEN!!!! Thank you for free tour Honolulu last week. You gave me exactly what I needed... now I'm getting even deeper in this video. THANK YOU MAN!
Damn that work and play balanace struggle is exactly what i have always been dealing with, work social and relationships/women. Thanks for all the vids Owen, you are appreciated.
Ya crazy right, and thanks! -Tyler
I have been following RSD for many years and this is one of the best videos that you've ever released.
Thank you bro -Tyler
Oh my gosh! When he talked about gravity!
You only just found out about gravity? 🤔
Owen you are very right. I was in relationship with a girl where i did 90% and her only 10%. And yeah it was terrible to break up with her but it was not healthy relationship
Tyler, I love you man. Thank you.
A video editor can ask for a $50k raise? These videos are so simple in reality. Surely you can find someone for much less than that? If not then I should really start getting more into video editing
Unbelievable talents this gu has. Thanks Owen
It's taken me more than an hour to get thru this vid because I keep rewinding... Such an awesome vid!
This video described my biggest concern I have about my life right now. Thank you
Epic! -Tyler
Had to restart that intro 100 times lmfaooo
My guys... Owen's first 40 seconds are so meme-able, LMAOOOO
@0:00 - 0:40
Top 3 Takeaways:
1. You must develop “gravity” and fill your own cup regardless of what you desire. It NEVER turns out well if you do otherwise.
2. The more you keep promises to yourself, do what you are supposed ro do, the more integrity you have and the higher your self-esteem and personal power will be.
3. The more you metricize your life the more you can make the technical and logistical tweaks that can improve your life. Do a self-audit, have feedback from mentors and mastermind groups to aid with this
hey Owen, I am that person in Seattle that blew it and I felt it hard. But in my defense, all I saw from the social media was "hey guys, I was in Seattle last night... bla bla" NOOOOO! I had no idea!
I might be your oldest fan too! so yeah go easy on me :p
Owen,
I find myself returning to your material every year or so, to do an audit on myself
These are gems of insight you are sharing
Thank you, we appreciate all that you and your company do
Looking forward to a day when we get to meet one on one and chat up for a short bit
Calgary, Alberta
can't wait for the live event! Thank you Tyler
Excited to meet you and work with you! -Tyler
Exactly what I needed ...the part any having fun.....thanks Tyler again for your awesome insights....🤗
You have the best channel in UA-cam, that's all!
Owen thankyou !
This video slapped me in the face in a great way.
Great video ! Its amazing how everything you talk about makes a lot of sense! You made my day! Focusing on ourselves and meeting new people is great! not spending energy on things or people who aren’t worth our energy is the key stay positive minded as much as possible God bless you
You’re an angel
This is AMAZING! Thank you Owen for everything
Finding balance is the true goal
i've been with my gf for 4.5 years now. no breakups. we've had our problem but love prevails. if owen is so smart and experienced and enlightened, why can't he date someone who is equally enlightened (spiritually)?
Instead (it sounds like) he dates chicks of lower levels of consciousness that deteriorate the relationship where you had to break up to fix it? that's high school/college stuff man find a real relationship that loves
theres so many people that can deeply love, an have long lasting relationships. why can't tyler do that? it he does not want to that fine, but otherwise..is he just unlucky? he has problems man
I hate my shitty customer support role at the age of 40,made shit load of money in my 20s in Sales,if I hadn't had bought a place I'd be fucked right now.Im fit,I get girls but I'm not fulfilled because of my career, I don't how my career has declined but I'm now gonna get back on the Sales grind
Tyler is really... Becoming.
Owen "public speaking" Cook
Love you man thank you
Tyler! you know I miss the times when you dropped book bombs. I'm reading into creativity (the art of creative thinking) Ive read "flow" and really liked that. I'm a DJ /music producer freelance. If you have any in mind! Great vid. btw have yourself a great day!
Will do! Favs have been Fred Dodson this year -Tyler
Thanks for the overall approach to harnessing creativity. I also found the sequel to "flow" aptly named "Creativity" as well. Lots to read! Dods to read lol
Yeah man I literally read almost 100 books because of that ginger. - Charles
Tyler always brings value! Love it
Thanks that's the goal! -Tyler
The first 30 seconds is perfect!
I try to appreciate the information that criticisms from another perspective provide: it might be just an indication that they just wants some reaction or an interesting reflection of their unique character ,or they might be actually pointing to some blindspot i may need to consider, it also keeps my own ego and congruency in check. I just separate the emotion words(how they feel), from the neutral words(information that might serve my objectives)
These new videos have been extraordinary. Thanks so much
Thanks i appreciate it! -Tyler
One of Owen’s best videos
Bro.... Legendary..... Owen trashes every other self-help teacher. Its not a competiton, but nevertheless.... Thank you Owen!
This is the best one yet. Its what I really needed to hear.
I'm 14 and i drink and smoke i know that is bad for me but i just cant quit...
In our country(croatia) is normal to even start smoking weed when ur 12 cuz everyone does it...i really need your help and i think that u can make a great video about self help on adiction topic(alcohol,cigarettes and drugs)...
Ty❤❤❤
Read Daniel Amen "change your brain change your life" to learn what it's doing to you -Tyler
@@OwenCookSelfHelp ty appreciate that
Amazing Video Owen..On Doubling Down 👍 brought massive self awareness. Very inspiring
I think Tyler should do a seminar on health as well, maybe call someone with experience in the field of medicine and together do a collab, it would be a useful addition to the self-improvement course since that as well is an essential, yet very confusing area of our lives today.
Ya! -Tyler
1:49 easily 90% of all the employers I've had my 30 year's on Earth.
YoungChewieSk 22,000 yes!
LOVE YOU MAN
Genius pioneer of social science
31:51 Human Synergy - This is a fantastic concept. I remember watching this on 2010 TED by Matt Ridley called - When Ideas Have Sex