Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/ This is a video that re-visits the old Blueprint principles, and is focused on the delivery so you can see the subtle communications. Having this down changes EVERYTHING. If you'd like to learn more about it, I set up a free private call system to help you over at www.bestsociallife.com and we can talk about how to get you to your goals. I'll also be in New York on Nov 20 with JULIEN for a FREE TOUR! And in Miami Dec 4th for Free Tour as well! See you there! -Tyler
This guy has a brilliant understanding of human social dynamics. It is amazing how being a pick up artist is the best way to learn about human nature. I am very impressed !
Wow, this video made me realise that my high standards are lowering my self esteem (having not achieved what I wanted to by this time). But, I've actually achieved a lot, and if I can have gratitude for that, then I will have more self esteem and confidence, which will propel me forward in the direct I want to go a lot faster.
Goal of the Video - Understanding the real Value of Self esteem 0:26 Start Part 1 0:43 Laser Eye + Softness at the same time 1:43 dominant and confident but relaxed at the same time 3:40 if you have no worries about cash, you are at peace - there is a correlation, but no fundamental cause 4:54 Method - Meet Successful People to feel the energy 5:03 Steadiness in all aspects is a clear sef esteem indicator 5:44 0 neediness is also an indicator 5:57 Major Key 7:16 doing vs beeing attractive 8:42 Start Part 2 9:52 Tyler explaining a weird story from his beginnings (but very common one:D) 10:47 who you are creates attraction 12:22 the self is always coming through 12:29 major key 12:48 the image from the media is distancing you from your self esteem 13:18 the goal is to move all the external factors inwards - somehow internalizing them 13:54 Definition of Core Value 14:10 the main idea of the blueprint 15:41 You are Enough 15:44 How to stop the runaway mind 16:16 Meditation 17:03 cultural missunderstanding - somewhere in the future I will be happy 17:35 Happiness is the default 17:53 Consumer Culture is trying to seperate you from your self esteem 18:10 make a decision to cut this bullshit attitude so many people are falling into out of your life 18:39 Meditation reconnects you to your core 19:14 Learn to release trauma - Transformation Mastery 19:55 Trauma energy is like having overweight - you have to do the fucking work to loose it 20:33 all those 3 habits lead to the realiziation on a deep level that you are enough = core confidence 21:05 Start Part 3 22:20 one part goal is to get rid of the "energy reach" 22:51 somehow the defaul paradigm of your mind is that you are toxic and you have no value (probably consequence of the cultural influences of so many self disconnected people) 24:03 Ego is just fixing the wound 24:23 self experiment 24:57 all high quality people (high self esteem) see through your bullshit in a minute and dont give a single fuck 26:22 the blame is probably in your childhood / your parents, but you have now the responsibility as an adult to fix this things 26:43
I think this is your best video yet! You distill decades of what you’ve done into a pure and authentic way of living. That’s the real deal. Thanks, Owen! 😆
Owen still going at it like a train...excellent. I remember how Neil described him in the book back in the day...cannot see any trace of that if in fact it was ever true...living charisma !
I'm 28 years old. You and Julien guided me through the first two stages - shifting my mindset and letting go of trauma - for the past 8 years now. Now I'm right at the stage where I begin to experience the upward spiral and it's awesome. Thank you so much for all that you've done. I NEVER could have done it without somebody like you and Julien consistently teaching me. You definitely had the most impact on my life.
He generally makes amazing vids. I love the one about how to have fun, semi lifechanger fr Ontop of those astounding facts, I made an epic smokepurpp remix
Weight lifting gets rid of anxiety and shaky nervous energy. Weight lifting is a wonderful form of therapy that keeps you grounded and at peace within yourself. You get to know yourself. In my opinion weight lifting and nutrition should be a path of mastery and chicks will naturally gravitate.
This type of inner work mastered and embodied is indeed truly electric. I am finally starting to truly understand these concepts you are teaching in these videos and going out now is no longer anxiety provoking and wildly energy depleting but rather...it is rewarding, enertaining, fun and energy providing. Once you start to learn who you really are and are able to unapologetically and "shamelessly" (as derek would say) be YOURSELF and feel grounded in your own glow coming from within the world around you is filled with opportunity and like minded people gravitate towards you. Negative, self loathing, sad or angry people just kind of disappear into the background and they have absolutely no effect on you. Wonderful stuff. Thanks for teaching this and continuing to teach it. You and Derek's content has truly changed my life.
At long last, it finally clicked. Welcome back, you have arrived, it is so good to meet one's self. Again. All of the value is internal, and everything you do is an expression of the value that you have already defined. You're not chasing after the thing, you ARE the thing. Everything else is how you accept and deflect externals. Your inner citadel is an impregnable stronghold, it is up to you which things you let in, and which things can just wait at the gate.
Say this to yourself in the mirror daily: I validate myself I’m beautiful I’m an amazing person I have so much to offer By my energy By who I am By my being by my soul Thanks Owen 25:00
That won't work buddy. Not in the long term. You need to get out of the world of abstract concepts like these. And stop being so self absorbed. Meditate. Get busy with life and set goals. It will come. But don't chase it anxiously. If you are interested in getting this state, zen meditation is the best bet, and then transcending it to simple daily chores and further into your work and whole life. But it still takes a lot of time. Might as well apply to Victoria's Secret, might be easier hehe
@@kox444 Meditation plays a huge part in achieving this state of mind and being present in the moment, but quoting these lines to yourself, especially while focusing on your reflection, is a great way to start for people who struggle with low self-esteem, to condition their thinking away from the negative self-image.
Would be cool to see a vid talking more about your business side of RSD for people who are entrepreneurs, maybe talking about stuff like how you and Nick worked together, your struggles and successes etc.
There is a channel for this - it's Nick Kho's channel where they cover exactly this. Although I don't know if a lot of videos have been deleted from there aswell because of the craziness going on recently.
Hello Owen, 5 years ago I was a hardcore gamer and i always watched your videos about picking up women on my spare time. I applied it and now my girlfriend and I are celebrating our 5th anniversary. Had a shift of career in the past few months (i am now in sales) and i feel so lost and frustrated until i recently visited your channel again. Cant wait to apply what ive learned. Thanks again so much
I don’t think I’ve ever commented on a UA-cam video before but Tyler your content continues to amaze me. I started watching your videos when I was 16 (20 now), and I feel like you have been a mentor for me finding myself as a man in this world. Keep crushing it, your work carries more meaning than you know!
Brilliant said! Again, for all people who take this for granted: If you're really listening and adapting what Tyler is teaching, this free (!!) content will change your life completely to the better. I'm living my best life right now with a clear vision. Content like this helped me a lot. I wish all people will see how much popential they have inside. Best regards, David
Notes. Thanks Tyler Core confidence. Confidence is the cause of attraction. You can use a million different techniques but core confidence is the better than that. You don't need to give up the techniques, you can have both. Low self esteem comes through as either nervousness or cockyness Game just flows cause your mind is not monopolised by insecurity and other things Imagine everything in your life was good. How would you feel, you would feel good, care so little. Imagine a Victoria secret model and how she feels. She's happy to be there, she loves herself and doesn't need anything If you were in that space, game would be so much more effortless Normally you try and get a couple good reactions to get "in state" aka you're trying to use the external things to feel good. This is about shifting that so its from the internal Owen talks about his experience with this, coming from super low confidence then he got a few good reactions and started to feel high self esteem Consumer culture says that you need xyz to be attractive. The shift is realising that your core is already attractive and that believing that you were not is the lie which became a self fulfilling prophesy External things (situational confidence) such as being popular in the environment, having nice clothes and so on. Media shows you images, a standard to live to and buying into that standard is distancing you from your self esteem. Instead realise that you are the standard for yourself. The thing we want to shift that to is core value. Feeling that you have value because of your being or your consciousness. Your uniqueness is your value. You stop buying into society's too perfect plastic perfection and you buy into your own perfect imperfection. The media needs you to feel like shit so your buy their shit. Stop letting them in. Fuck them by loving yourself. They say you need to be different to feel good, that is a lie. Your birthright is to feel good, to have that self esteem It's okay to not have this down just yet. It's a process. Don't use it as another standard to bash yourself in the head with. It's perfect to be imperfect and human. Start Meditating Start releasing trauma /the pain body, feel the trauma energy and release it. People love you just for you. There will always be someone who hates your vibe, that's none of your business if they hate you and make it known, it's cause they aren't on top of of their shit. Only you can fully know yourself and hence only you can fully love and accept yourself. You want to say the line to get the approval to approve of yourself. Skip the process and approve of yourself anyways. Stop assuming that you're toxic. You aren't it's a a lie you have bought into. Your RAS is making that belief a reality. I validate myself. I'm amazing. I'm a beautiful person. I deserve a 10. I don't need anything from anyone. I have so much to offer from who I am, my being, my soul.
Nishan Abraham what type of meditation you do to realease all of that or what your go to meditation to help you develop this and do you have action steps that I can maybe take to start the process
@@michaeldriven8730 its more realising that you've useless beliefs that aren't even yours, they've been put in your head. You just gotta stop buying into the anything that is telling you you aren't a 10/10 male. Only you can fully know you and hence only you can fully love and accept yourself.
omg i love you man. i saw this 5 month ago for the first time and im watching it still. and every day i get something new from it. you changed my life man. thank you thank you thank you!!!
I wanted you to Tap dance with those white shoes/black insoles. Inner black soul. Thanks for always bringing the Light! You bless us. You’re wisdom and teaching are so uplifting, helpful and essential! Thank you.
This content is nothing short of a masterpiece. A comparable book redefined my existence. "Rising From Within: Unlocking Your Innate Power to Conquer Adversity" by Vincent Starling
Thanks Owen for giving so much value. This stuck with me: Happiness is the default. In Landmark I learned that not to ask what I want; but rather ask, who do I want to be.
Holy hell this was the thing that was missing from my memory! I've read some books and watched some new guys in the pickup and they had so much emphasis on making money so you get to feel better and be confident, when in reality you feel confident by default and people love you, your potential to achieve skyrockets and there's no tension to grasp success because of fear of being weeded out.. Thanks Tyler!
"U don't need something, u don't need to do something to be attractive or to be social. I want u to be. I want you to be offentic. I Want u to be it. And It's who you are that creates attraction." - Tyler Love it.
This topic is truly the end game for attraction. Fixing your inner happiness, self esteem and trauma will make you infinitely more attractive than any "technique".
After watching probably around four thousand videos in the past 4 years i ve come to conclusion that this is the only video you need to hear really Realizing that you re enough and that you shouldnt do anything with agenda is key because it takes away all the pressure and you re able to be smooth and have almost irresistable energy I ve written down lines techniques for years like an idiot cuz i didnt know better because i thought i wasnt good enough the way i am that i needed a crutch to rely on but all it does is it takes away months out of life and gets you in your head in stifles you Once you stop needing it to work you will come off much more honest and not try hard you can smile and wink at women and they will love it becaue you dont have an agenda you re at the cause not the effect
Thank you Owen, I needed this. I have been following you since highschool now 28. I enjoy staying single and being with multiple women, but I met this one girl and she fit all the boxes. I let my guard down and gained some weight, focused on my business and lost touch with friends and social life. She left me yesterday, and the pain is crazy, never thought i could feel like this. Your videos are golden and have saved many people. Now to get my self worth back!!!
How did everything go after the breakup? Im back on this video after a 3 year relationship because I feel my confidence is completely broken after the breakup
Thank you for this lesson. Self esteem has been a major struggle my whole life, and the perspective you shared was very inspiring. Also appreciate the fact that you guys stick to your principles, it really comes through in these videos that you just want to see everyone shine. Thank you again, I appreciate you.
This video and a few others have been truly life changing. How the hell was I so afraid and why. This has been a fun week.. you rock Owen a julian as well
A video on how to learn what you teach would be sweet: for instance, answering questions like: do you learn after the field based on what happens, or do you more so make it conscious to make it unconscious? Do you focus on one new inner game idea at a time until its mastered, or hold in mind many? What are the very first fundamentals that should be internalized?
Hey Owen been keeping up with RSD for so long now and wanted to tell a funny full-circle story... live in New York, done that route, seeing Julien next week (so excited), never followed you for pick-up, thought I was following for social skills, turns out following for self-love. Had a job interview last week and I felt that ease and grace, and had fun answering the questions and being asked about the things I was proud of. I wasn't afraid to say I did this, and I'm like this, and I'm proud of it, and hopefully that resonates with you and your company. (Didn't say these out loud, but you know what I mean.) At the end the typical: any questions for me? And I asked is there anything in specific that the company is focusing on right now, any priority... the whole thing was professional, confident, but also in a flow state. He said thanks for the question that's great anything else? And I said oh, yeah! What did you have for breakfast this morning?--and I was like wait why did I even say that? That's a funny thing that I do now. And that's kind of how it started, with canned stuff... and not inauthentic, but now it's just funny because it's actually coming out of me and I think it's hilarious. I said I was like umm haha I don't know why I do that that's just my go to question I like to ask people sometimes! He loved it, I loved it. Had a great talk about breakfast sandwiches. Got the job on the spot. Anyway, sorry I missed you at 5 a.m. in midtown, very excited for Julien next week, thank you for all you guys have brought into my life thus far. Blessings to you and the team always!
Well Done and Well Said at the same time! 👏 😁 You are a very energetic person, by watching your videos, even 4 or 5 times I feel like I am charging my battery 🔋 At the moment yours is the channel I am watching the most, I am making my own seminar listening to you, it's been going for a week now, you have good reflecting skills, Well Done Owen ✨
At the same time confidence can make you easier to write off. Everything is contextual and relative. If you're confident in social skills that are off beat you're going to repel people. Anxiety is a good tool. Don't seek to dismiss it. Think through your anxiety. The way we feel makes sense. Our feelings are there for a reason. Anxiety makes you be careful and focus. You don't just want arrogance, you want the confidence that you got from working through your feelings.
Got to say I love you brother. You are really helping people and care so much. You always have, yes it’s been a business. But are you teaching in wisdom and lessons throughout the years have brought you to this point and even back then it was always about helping men, and humans in general understand this life and how to be their fullest expression of themselves. I genuinely am so grateful to have found you. I can see you as a wise old man with the surrounding of people listening to your words as we do right now
Great vid Toiler! Funny how you have to curate your words to avoid getting demonized. Loved your old products. I just got out of a 6 year relationship. Putting these ideas into action is going to supercharge the results. Loved seeing you at a seminar. Your voice is unreal. May you see the truth, brother. Peace
Listen I’m emotional right now because I have the Flu but I love your work so much man 😭 I want to help other people so much because of how much this stuff has helped guide me to clearer paths in life but I don’t have dick ride syndrome enough so I gotta do it myself but I love you bro thank you for being alive the same time that I am.
best of wishes to you, Tyler! Been with you guys, on this journey since November 2014. You have taught me a lot of great life lessons! You're doing an awesome job! You give people their voices back.
Even though I try to always stay uplifting & pump my son’s emotions the best I can. Many time I don’t even want to be near him, so my lack of confidence don’t rub off on him. The last thing I want is for him to inflict as much pain as do to myself. Every day it just get further & further away from me
Thanks for this man listening to this after a night out I found what you say rings really true. Simple but true, giving to others is the best for building relationships. Also it really makes me feel amazing. Thanks for all the hard work you guys do 👌
i'm at the same place as socializers, but to play 9-ball, sing a karaoke or two, or enter a trivia night as a team of one. You get used to certain results after so long. especially knowing the hard straight truths about people in drinking establishments that I've tapered my fun and expectations, i feel this doesn't limit me in anyway, just boost the potential for an unexpected surprise even higher and more pleasant now that I don't torture myself expecting compliance from a vain person nor special consideration from a geeky intellectual, I'm just a adult patron expecting 1 or 2 buzzes and call it a night, maybe meaningful smoke breaks but thats it. maybe not productive of the getting numbers front, but I'm battling a self confidence front and the interactions im working on are intangible ones of presence and wielding it in a way that is no longer a mockery of my experience.
I can sense the conscious level of your videos going up and up... funny how it's getting less views... guess the mainstream is just not ready for it ahah I'm grateful I found this gem
Learning so much from this, I have Adhd, so I find it hard not to come out with the truth in the most impulsive way But I'm starting to see that it's kinda cool, I just speak my mind and come out with the wierdest things But I can see that people like that about me haha Good video man, best coach
I agree with everything in this video. However once you start “vibrating” with more self contentment and being grounded in your being, there will be more energy vampires who see you “vibrating” that high, and will consciously or unconsciously try and pull you down leeching of your “life force”. This is were most people will hit a plateau I believe because all of a sudden there is so much more negativity in their environment trying to suck on the positive side of you. This can be extremely discouraging, and make you feel like you took the wrong path to begin with.
Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/
This is a video that re-visits the old Blueprint principles, and is focused on the delivery so you can see the subtle communications. Having this down changes EVERYTHING. If you'd like to learn more about it, I set up a free private call system to help you over at www.bestsociallife.com and we can talk about how to get you to your goals. I'll also be in New York on Nov 20 with JULIEN for a FREE TOUR! And in Miami Dec 4th for Free Tour as well! See you there! -Tyler
@@aymanreal Would be cool for him to revisit some old stuff like "secret society article" also!
The Blueprint DeChoded came back!!!
Owen when we gonna meet boss, amplified my life
This was awesome! Thanks for this!!
Nice use of 93 til infinity 💯 🔥
Owen the type of Tyler that teaches his month old kid about seeking rapport tonality.
I made a smokepurpp remix
The brat automatically learns because the greatest communication happens in silence.
Thank You too 😊
these videos are so dense. they're basically equivalent to a full book or thousand dollar seminar you normally have to pay for!
well said
This guy has a brilliant understanding of human social dynamics. It is amazing how being a pick up artist is the best way to learn about human nature. I am very impressed !
Wow, this video made me realise that my high standards are lowering my self esteem (having not achieved what I wanted to by this time). But, I've actually achieved a lot, and if I can have gratitude for that, then I will have more self esteem and confidence, which will propel me forward in the direct I want to go a lot faster.
I noticed whenever I was in a good mood, felt good in my body, I didn't have to try so hard. I can easily flirt, be witty and funny.
Goal of the Video - Understanding the real Value of Self esteem 0:26
Start Part 1 0:43
Laser Eye + Softness at the same time 1:43
dominant and confident but relaxed at the same time 3:40
if you have no worries about cash, you are at peace - there is a correlation, but no fundamental cause 4:54
Method - Meet Successful People to feel the energy 5:03
Steadiness in all aspects is a clear sef esteem indicator 5:44
0 neediness is also an indicator 5:57
Major Key 7:16
doing vs beeing attractive 8:42
Start Part 2 9:52
Tyler explaining a weird story from his beginnings (but very common one:D) 10:47
who you are creates attraction 12:22
the self is always coming through 12:29
major key 12:48
the image from the media is distancing you from your self esteem 13:18
the goal is to move all the external factors inwards - somehow internalizing them 13:54
Definition of Core Value 14:10
the main idea of the blueprint 15:41
You are Enough 15:44
How to stop the runaway mind 16:16
Meditation 17:03
cultural missunderstanding - somewhere in the future I will be happy 17:35
Happiness is the default 17:53
Consumer Culture is trying to seperate you from your self esteem 18:10
make a decision to cut this bullshit attitude so many people are falling into out of your life 18:39
Meditation reconnects you to your core 19:14
Learn to release trauma - Transformation Mastery 19:55
Trauma energy is like having overweight - you have to do the fucking work to loose it 20:33
all those 3 habits lead to the realiziation on a deep level that you are enough = core confidence 21:05
Start Part 3 22:20
one part goal is to get rid of the "energy reach" 22:51
somehow the defaul paradigm of your mind is that you are toxic and you have no value (probably consequence of the cultural influences of so many self disconnected people) 24:03
Ego is just fixing the wound 24:23
self experiment 24:57
all high quality people (high self esteem) see through your bullshit in a minute and dont give a single fuck 26:22
the blame is probably in your childhood / your parents, but you have now the responsibility as an adult to fix this things 26:43
thanks man
you studied the shit out of this video man
I think this is your best video yet! You distill decades of what you’ve done into a pure and authentic way of living. That’s the real deal. Thanks, Owen! 😆
Owen still going at it like a train...excellent.
I remember how Neil described him in the book back in the day...cannot see any trace of that if in fact it was ever true...living charisma !
I'm 28 years old. You and Julien guided me through the first two stages - shifting my mindset and letting go of trauma - for the past 8 years now. Now I'm right at the stage where I begin to experience the upward spiral and it's awesome.
Thank you so much for all that you've done. I NEVER could have done it without somebody like you and Julien consistently teaching me. You definitely had the most impact on my life.
Amazing video, man!!! 🔥👊
Sup brother J 😎
So nice of you to descend from the spirit down to our physical realm to comment Father J!
It’s Jjjjjuuullliiieeennnn blanc !!!!!
He generally makes amazing vids. I love the one about how to have fun, semi lifechanger fr
Ontop of those astounding facts, I made an epic smokepurpp remix
Sup foo
The quality of the recent videos is amazing , by the way thank you for your 15 year+ of advice and great content
True story bruv
Also I made a smokepurpp remix
Weight lifting gets rid of anxiety and shaky nervous energy. Weight lifting is a wonderful form of therapy that keeps you grounded and at peace within yourself. You get to know yourself. In my opinion weight lifting and nutrition should be a path of mastery and chicks will naturally gravitate.
BJJ > weight lifting
Nick Baldwin both?😉
Marcus, was just joking 😉. You do either one and you are doing more than most bums out there!
What type of weight lifting any kind?
@@michaeldriven8730 Bodybuilding and calisthenics.
cant believe I ran into you last night… I was mindblown and lost for words but I want to say THANK YOU for everything man
Often come back to this one! Really wish more people would watch your work! You have created content to keep me centered and creative for a lifetime.
This type of inner work mastered and embodied is indeed truly electric. I am finally starting to truly understand these concepts you are teaching in these videos and going out now is no longer anxiety provoking and wildly energy depleting but rather...it is rewarding, enertaining, fun and energy providing. Once you start to learn who you really are and are able to unapologetically and "shamelessly" (as derek would say) be YOURSELF and feel grounded in your own glow coming from within the world around you is filled with opportunity and like minded people gravitate towards you. Negative, self loathing, sad or angry people just kind of disappear into the background and they have absolutely no effect on you. Wonderful stuff. Thanks for teaching this and continuing to teach it. You and Derek's content has truly changed my life.
At long last, it finally clicked. Welcome back, you have arrived, it is so good to meet one's self. Again. All of the value is internal, and everything you do is an expression of the value that you have already defined. You're not chasing after the thing, you ARE the thing. Everything else is how you accept and deflect externals. Your inner citadel is an impregnable stronghold, it is up to you which things you let in, and which things can just wait at the gate.
Say this to yourself in the mirror daily:
I validate myself
I’m beautiful
I’m an amazing person
I have so much to offer
By my energy
By who I am
By my being by my soul
Thanks Owen
25:00
That won't work buddy. Not in the long term. You need to get out of the world of abstract concepts like these. And stop being so self absorbed. Meditate. Get busy with life and set goals. It will come. But don't chase it anxiously. If you are interested in getting this state, zen meditation is the best bet, and then transcending it to simple daily chores and further into your work and whole life. But it still takes a lot of time. Might as well apply to Victoria's Secret, might be easier hehe
@@kox444 Im quoting what Owen said dumbasssm click the 25:00 link ;)
Thanks for quoting these lines 😊
@@kox444 Meditation plays a huge part in achieving this state of mind and being present in the moment, but quoting these lines to yourself, especially while focusing on your reflection, is a great way to start for people who struggle with low self-esteem, to condition their thinking away from the negative self-image.
@@edmoney4244 Thank you
Love yourself without needing anything
love yourself as if your life depends on it, because it does
Bro consciously choosing your thoughts is key as fuck.
Also I made a smokepurpp remix
It’s weirdly calming to listen to this.
Great video, thank you.
Would be cool to see a vid talking more about your business side of RSD for people who are entrepreneurs, maybe talking about stuff like how you and Nick worked together, your struggles and successes etc.
There is a channel for this - it's Nick Kho's channel where they cover exactly this. Although I don't know if a lot of videos have been deleted from there aswell because of the craziness going on recently.
You should also check out Jason Capital, he's pretty helpful
@@mr_brown5974 Tyler is only featured on one of the videos though.
Hits different walking through Manhattan in the middle of the night
Hello Owen, 5 years ago I was a hardcore gamer and i always watched your videos about picking up women on my spare time. I applied it and now my girlfriend and I are celebrating our 5th anniversary.
Had a shift of career in the past few months (i am now in sales) and i feel so lost and frustrated until i recently visited your channel again. Cant wait to apply what ive learned. Thanks again so much
This dude should do an interview with Russel Brand. I have no idea what would happen but I know it'd be interesting.
Brand would be nauseated by this guy’s insecurity within 30 seconds
@@Aeonblueap are you implying brand isn’t insecure? HAHAHAHA
Owen, thank you for inspiring men these days to live a better and happier life. You are a modern hero.
Unmatrixed self-worth, present to the moment, releasing trauma. Thank you Owen for these enlightening insights! God bless you! 🙏
It blows my mind that Tyler hasn't hit a million subscribers yet(I guess RSD as a whole might of hit it) but he pours pure gold on the internet.
Don't know why but I always had this idea that he was past a million subs😂
He's pretty awesome
Segwey..I made a smokepurpp remix rap song
Tyler ! U make the world better man ! Greeting from Bulgaria
I can't wait until people are smart enough to realize the value in these videos instead of just blocking it in their mind
I don’t think I’ve ever commented on a UA-cam video before but Tyler your content continues to amaze me. I started watching your videos when I was 16 (20 now), and I feel like you have been a mentor for me finding myself as a man in this world. Keep crushing it, your work carries more meaning than you know!
93 'til infinity 😍😍 thanks dude !
such a fuckin jointttttt
got hyped
Don't know if I've heard that before but
I made a smokepurpp remix
Brilliant said! Again, for all people who take this for granted: If you're really listening and adapting what Tyler is teaching, this free (!!) content will change your life completely to the better. I'm living my best life right now with a clear vision. Content like this helped me a lot. I wish all people will see how much popential they have inside. Best regards, David
Notes. Thanks Tyler
Core confidence.
Confidence is the cause of attraction. You can use a million different techniques but core confidence is the better than that.
You don't need to give up the techniques, you can have both.
Low self esteem comes through as either nervousness or cockyness
Game just flows cause your mind is not monopolised by insecurity and other things
Imagine everything in your life was good. How would you feel, you would feel good, care so little. Imagine a Victoria secret model and how she feels. She's happy to be there, she loves herself and doesn't need anything
If you were in that space, game would be so much more effortless
Normally you try and get a couple good reactions to get "in state" aka you're trying to use the external things to feel good.
This is about shifting that so its from the internal
Owen talks about his experience with this, coming from super low confidence then he got a few good reactions and started to feel high self esteem
Consumer culture says that you need xyz to be attractive. The shift is realising that your core is already attractive and that believing that you were not is the lie which became a self fulfilling prophesy
External things (situational confidence) such as being popular in the environment, having nice clothes and so on.
Media shows you images, a standard to live to and buying into that standard is distancing you from your self esteem. Instead realise that you are the standard for yourself.
The thing we want to shift that to is core value. Feeling that you have value because of your being or your consciousness. Your uniqueness is your value. You stop buying into society's too perfect plastic perfection and you buy into your own perfect imperfection.
The media needs you to feel like shit so your buy their shit. Stop letting them in. Fuck them by loving yourself. They say you need to be different to feel good, that is a lie. Your birthright is to feel good, to have that self esteem
It's okay to not have this down just yet. It's a process. Don't use it as another standard to bash yourself in the head with. It's perfect to be imperfect and human.
Start Meditating
Start releasing trauma /the pain body, feel the trauma energy and release it.
People love you just for you. There will always be someone who hates your vibe, that's none of your business if they hate you and make it known, it's cause they aren't on top of of their shit.
Only you can fully know yourself and hence only you can fully love and accept yourself.
You want to say the line to get the approval to approve of yourself. Skip the process and approve of yourself anyways.
Stop assuming that you're toxic. You aren't it's a a lie you have bought into. Your RAS is making that belief a reality.
I validate myself. I'm amazing. I'm a beautiful person. I deserve a 10. I don't need anything from anyone. I have so much to offer from who I am, my being, my soul.
Nishan Abraham what type of meditation you do to realease all of that or what your go to meditation to help you develop this and do you have action steps that I can maybe take to start the process
@@michaeldriven8730 its more realising that you've useless beliefs that aren't even yours, they've been put in your head. You just gotta stop buying into the anything that is telling you you aren't a 10/10 male. Only you can fully know you and hence only you can fully love and accept yourself.
omg i love you man. i saw this 5 month ago for the first time and im watching it still. and every day i get something new from it. you changed my life man. thank you thank you thank you!!!
I wanted you to Tap dance with those white shoes/black insoles. Inner black soul. Thanks for always bringing the Light! You bless us. You’re wisdom and teaching are so uplifting, helpful and essential! Thank you.
"the self is always coming through"- tyler yoyoyo
Wow I get this on a more subtle level now. Ready to test it out in the world at this level. Wow 😮
This content is nothing short of a masterpiece. A comparable book redefined my existence. "Rising From Within: Unlocking Your Innate Power to Conquer Adversity" by Vincent Starling
Thanks Owen for giving so much value. This stuck with me: Happiness is the default. In Landmark I learned that not to ask what I want; but rather ask, who do I want to be.
The laughter of that child. So pure and beautiful.. great video T
My favorite video of yours Owen. I think it is the most important
Holy hell this was the thing that was missing from my memory! I've read some books and watched some new guys in the pickup and they had so much emphasis on making money so you get to feel better and be confident, when in reality you feel confident by default and people love you, your potential to achieve skyrockets and there's no tension to grasp success because of fear of being weeded out..
Thanks Tyler!
"U don't need something, u don't need to do something to be attractive or to be social. I want u to be. I want you to be offentic. I Want u to be it. And It's who you are that creates attraction." - Tyler Love it.
This topic is truly the end game for attraction. Fixing your inner happiness, self esteem and trauma will make you infinitely more attractive than any "technique".
"If you know what you're worth, then go out and get what you're worth." (A scene from the Rocky 5 movie)
U are the Best teacher.🙂
After watching probably around four thousand videos in the past 4 years i ve come to conclusion that this is the only video you need to hear really
Realizing that you re enough and that you shouldnt do anything with agenda is key because it takes away all the pressure and you re able to be smooth and have almost irresistable energy
I ve written down lines techniques for years like an idiot cuz i didnt know better because i thought i wasnt good enough the way i am that i needed a crutch to rely on but all it does is it takes away months out of life and gets you in your head in stifles you
Once you stop needing it to work you will come off much more honest and not try hard you can smile and wink at women and they will love it becaue you dont have an agenda you re at the cause not the effect
Thank you Owen, I needed this. I have been following you since highschool now 28. I enjoy staying single and being with multiple women, but I met this one girl and she fit all the boxes. I let my guard down and gained some weight, focused on my business and lost touch with friends and social life. She left me yesterday, and the pain is crazy, never thought i could feel like this. Your videos are golden and have saved many people. Now to get my self worth back!!!
How did everything go after the breakup? Im back on this video after a 3 year relationship because I feel my confidence is completely broken after the breakup
Thank you for this lesson. Self esteem has been a major struggle my whole life, and the perspective you shared was very inspiring. Also appreciate the fact that you guys stick to your principles, it really comes through in these videos that you just want to see everyone shine. Thank you again, I appreciate you.
This video and a few others have been truly life changing. How the hell was I so afraid and why. This has been a fun week.. you rock Owen a julian as well
A video on how to learn what you teach would be sweet: for instance, answering questions like: do you learn after the field based on what happens, or do you more so make it conscious to make it unconscious? Do you focus on one new inner game idea at a time until its mastered, or hold in mind many? What are the very first fundamentals that should be internalized?
Hmmm..also I made a smokepurpp remix
Hey Owen been keeping up with RSD for so long now and wanted to tell a funny full-circle story... live in New York, done that route, seeing Julien next week (so excited), never followed you for pick-up, thought I was following for social skills, turns out following for self-love. Had a job interview last week and I felt that ease and grace, and had fun answering the questions and being asked about the things I was proud of. I wasn't afraid to say I did this, and I'm like this, and I'm proud of it, and hopefully that resonates with you and your company. (Didn't say these out loud, but you know what I mean.) At the end the typical: any questions for me? And I asked is there anything in specific that the company is focusing on right now, any priority... the whole thing was professional, confident, but also in a flow state. He said thanks for the question that's great anything else? And I said oh, yeah! What did you have for breakfast this morning?--and I was like wait why did I even say that? That's a funny thing that I do now. And that's kind of how it started, with canned stuff... and not inauthentic, but now it's just funny because it's actually coming out of me and I think it's hilarious. I said I was like umm haha I don't know why I do that that's just my go to question I like to ask people sometimes! He loved it, I loved it. Had a great talk about breakfast sandwiches. Got the job on the spot. Anyway, sorry I missed you at 5 a.m. in midtown, very excited for Julien next week, thank you for all you guys have brought into my life thus far. Blessings to you and the team always!
Thanks for everything you do
One year later, this has an entirely different meaning! The Russian Doll metaphor feels spot on. Doing the work!
Well Done and Well Said at the same time! 👏 😁 You are a very energetic person, by watching your videos, even 4 or 5 times I feel like I am charging my battery 🔋 At the moment yours is the channel I am watching the most, I am making my own seminar listening to you, it's been going for a week now, you have good reflecting skills, Well Done Owen ✨
At the same time confidence can make you easier to write off. Everything is contextual and relative. If you're confident in social skills that are off beat you're going to repel people. Anxiety is a good tool. Don't seek to dismiss it. Think through your anxiety. The way we feel makes sense. Our feelings are there for a reason. Anxiety makes you be careful and focus. You don't just want arrogance, you want the confidence that you got from working through your feelings.
You always there when I need some awesome motivation amazing content!
Got to say I love you brother. You are really helping people and care so much. You always have, yes it’s been a business. But are you teaching in wisdom and lessons throughout the years have brought you to this point and even back then it was always about helping men, and humans in general understand this life and how to be their fullest expression of themselves. I genuinely am so grateful to have found you. I can see you as a wise old man with the surrounding of people listening to your words as we do right now
I love that the last shot was by the water fountain, the noise makes you focus in on your voice and the present moment.
4 minutes into this video and I can somehow feel what Owen is feeling. It's weird. I love this. - Omar
souls of mischief
i remember Tylers advice
"always use shazam ,Dont ask people which you can determine by yourself"
Thanks, bro!
Man every video of owen is a pure GOLD NUGGET-i really Appreciate you man,thanks
Great vid Toiler! Funny how you have to curate your words to avoid getting demonized. Loved your old products. I just got out of a 6 year relationship. Putting these ideas into action is going to supercharge the results. Loved seeing you at a seminar. Your voice is unreal. May you see the truth, brother. Peace
סרטון מדהים !!! תמשיך ככה
כיף לראות שיש עוד אנשים בתחום הזה בעולם. גם אני מאמן דייטינג בישראל ונתת לי השראה להמשיך :)))
Tyler is a living legend!
Can't wait for the movie!
Hope Seth Green does you justice lol
Fuck sake haha
Listen I’m emotional right now because I have the Flu but I love your work so much man 😭 I want to help other people so much because of how much this stuff has helped guide me to clearer paths in life but I don’t have dick ride syndrome enough so I gotta do it myself but I love you bro thank you for being alive the same time that I am.
best of wishes to you, Tyler! Been with you guys, on this journey since November 2014. You have taught me a lot of great life lessons!
You're doing an awesome job!
You give people their voices back.
Even though I try to always stay uplifting & pump my son’s emotions the best I can. Many time I don’t even want to be near him, so my lack of confidence don’t rub off on him. The last thing I want is for him to inflict as much pain as do to myself. Every day it just get further & further away from me
The blueprint decoded has changed my life for sure.
How?
Thanks for this man listening to this after a night out I found what you say rings really true. Simple but true, giving to others is the best for building relationships. Also it really makes me feel amazing. Thanks for all the hard work you guys do 👌
Shoutout to Tyler.
Yes, I made a smokepurpp remix
You the prophet of manhood !
Love the videos 📹 Owen.❤🕊 stay blessed.
Wow...I think this is one of the most important videos I've ever watched.
Thank you very much for creating this!!
i'm at the same place as socializers, but to play 9-ball, sing a karaoke or two, or enter a trivia night as a team of one. You get used to certain results after so long. especially knowing the hard straight truths about people in drinking establishments that I've tapered my fun and expectations, i feel this doesn't limit me in anyway, just boost the potential for an unexpected surprise even higher and more pleasant now that I don't torture myself expecting compliance from a vain person nor special consideration from a geeky intellectual, I'm just a adult patron expecting 1 or 2 buzzes and call it a night, maybe meaningful smoke breaks but thats it. maybe not productive of the getting numbers front, but I'm battling a self confidence front and the interactions im working on are intangible ones of presence and wielding it in a way that is no longer a mockery of my experience.
Although i'm a bit drunk while watching this, it's truly inspiring to watch and and there's a lot to take from this single video alone. Love it!
I love when you go meta in self-actualization. Raising awareness!
you are doing great job to make people wake up. I started waking up, investing in myself. thanks for sharing, love you bro.
Tyler !!! you authenticity shines through. thank you ily
This video and topic is very powerful and the way you explain it Tyler is so authentic. Thanks!
Thank you man really need your videos.
I can sense the conscious level of your videos going up and up... funny how it's getting less views... guess the mainstream is just not ready for it ahah I'm grateful I found this gem
Learning so much from this, I have Adhd, so I find it hard not to come out with the truth in the most impulsive way
But I'm starting to see that it's kinda cool, I just speak my mind and come out with the wierdest things
But I can see that people like that about me haha
Good video man, best coach
Yes ! I love you Owen! Keep up the dope work
Agreed.
And I made a smokepurpp remix
Blueprint!
In the dating game, as soon as we leave, memories slowly fade, and new flirtations arise.
Thank you owen !!! I love your videos from philippines..
This is so awesome ❤️❤️❤️❤️love your energy and attitude..
Just watched the whole vid. Beautiful scenery, beautiful message. Thank you, Owen.
I love myself.
Thank you very much
I think this has to be my favorite video ever, and just at the right timing as always, thanks Owen , really grateful 💜
Congrats Owen!!!
I agree with everything in this video. However once you start “vibrating” with more self contentment and being grounded in your being, there will be more energy vampires who see you “vibrating” that high, and will consciously or unconsciously try and pull you down leeching of your “life force”. This is were most people will hit a plateau I believe because all of a sudden there is so much more negativity in their environment trying to suck on the positive side of you. This can be extremely discouraging, and make you feel like you took the wrong path to begin with.
Yeah, totally agree it does happen like that
Love you bro! 💙
Keep the dope content coming! - Bryan
Lots of love Owen!
Thank you Owen.
Thanks! Beautiful video. This lifted my spirits today.
Thank you Tyler! What a amazing energy and authenticity we all can share just by being ourselves staying present in moment
Thank you