If you're not dating for marriage you're dating for a break-up - Benjamin Zulu
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- Опубліковано 9 вер 2020
- People, who are hard-wired to get married, look at everyone they date as possibly “The One.” When they are smitten on a guy, they fantasize and romanticize of a possible relationship. They’re too nice, too accommodating and too available. Benjamin Zulu dives into the frustrations couples go through when a romantic connection doesn’t happen.
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I like this man Benjamin. He always speak to me.truth
Hi Joyce...as much as Zulu is a good counsellor,well saying "anyone mature can't type such nonsense" is wrong..... people learn everyday and the fact that the young lady reached out now she knows....there are even 30 year olds or people above 25 who make such mistakes.
Were Were
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This guy hits on the head,, am glad since I started watching him I have improved my self realisation n self esteem. Single with a kid and I no longer allow any manipulation. I feel stronger. Thank you guys
My sister we are on the same boat 🛥️
Am your sister😀
I'm 25 I'm making better decisions in my dating life cz of Benjamin's wisdom
Me too 😊
Let me drop these 2 points. I am in my 30s and I'm so happy I didn't jump into marriage at an early age. Reason being that I found myself in my 30s. I know who I am, what I want to be and working to become who I want to be, I know my worth and I know who I want and what I want. People interpret this as being picky but someone who knows her self worth doesn't settle. I was in a relationship that I thought the man valued me but he let the cat out of the bag one day and I realise I was not valued as I wanted to. I packed the relationship neatly and put it by the wayside and walked on my way. It felt very liberating and I'm in charge of my life and my choices. Now I know what kind of man I want and how to find out if he is the one I want. So ladies, it pays to do the hard work, take time and know the man well so that you don't end up in a sorry relationship. It is better to wait and get the right person than to rush and get a wrong person. Much love❤❤
Ben should have his own show😂😂.. Always looking forward to see him
Question 1: Are you a single mother?? Most ladies only learns to listen after being abandoned with a child.
I once thought that too, that he needs his own show. Then I realized viewers may not get the most out of him if he is the host. A host like Joyce is needed to ask the questions and give comments that keep him going. Otherwise I am a huge fan from ZA. Asanteni
@@kholisaable very true
That's a good idea... learning alot
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Thank you for speaking mostly English, your content is helpful, love both of you. Watching from South Africa.
I like this guy so much...I like their content, is so sober....and sobering too. Watching from South Africa as well!!!
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Am so happy to witness this program live today. Thank you for airing this program. I am a married man. My name is Kevin Davies from Sierra Leone. I like Benjamin Zulu a lot. He really talks real facts. This program is very helpful to both singles and married. Continue the good work.
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Don't forget that as an individual you have a Purpose to serve in this world.
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Benjamin is a true story man I love that he is telling the truth with laughter.😂😂😂😂😂😂👍
Indeed he is with alot of energy as he loves his work since he's always on fire 🔥🔥.
😂😂😂🤣
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My brother Benjamin you are a God sent,I'm learning a lot I love the fire you always have🙌🙌
Sister Joyce always classy and humble 🥰🥰
Lots of Love from South Africa🇿🇦
This show is for South Africans.we have too many of us here😀
Welcome on board
@@xolanihlongwa2438 true looool I wonder what it means lol...Mjolo ware dribula
@@xolanihlongwa2438 Mr. Zulu should make a live appearance in SA after covid 🤣🤣🤣 love from KE🇰🇪
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Can we make Benjamin Zulu's segment One hour?? too much wisdom from this man!!
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I'm a first year student at Benjamin's university ☺️🥰 but the way I love him only GOD knows ❤❤🥰
I appreciate you my lecturer 👏👏
I agree.. Benjamin Zulu should have his own show.. And it should be daily for 1hr tu..
His advice is too good to be contained in a 30min show..
Joyce Omondi Mwahiga, always my role model.. Hope one day I could meet you in person.. You're so sassy, classic, wise..just to mention a few..
Hi guys , great show . can I ask that you put subtitles I'm from South Africa and I would like to understand everything 🤗
we need a part 2 of this topic. Advice is always on point.
Thank you Benjamin and Joyce,am always learning from the various topics.
Fantastic and important discussion as always. Thanks for the full episode...much appreciated
Ooh Benjamin, no word of you I let fall down. I always learn. I always get wiser after I listen to you. Thank you Joyce and Benjamin for the show
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Benjamin is spitting facts 😁🔥. i wish i would have watched a show like this in my 20’s.
In your 20s most girls are crazy. They love funny monied men while rubbishing the good guys who wants to marry her.
Amen
So much of my perspective on marriage and relationships has changed since I started watching these two a few weeks ago. Thank you Joyce and Benjamin, I stumbled upon this show at the right time in my life. Love from Zimbabwe 😍
Neli Michelle I know right!
Me too dear 💝
Me too!!
Surely Benjamin deserves his own talk show...u r extremely gifted....Wisdom & all. I’m really inspired by all your content. I’m now a new subscriber of this channel coz of u.
Here comes my best and favorite guest in the show. I mean this guy is such someone who deserves an applause for what he does. His boldness, courage, confidence, openness and truth abt things concerning life is just incredible. I have really learnt alot that no one could ever tell me in my life especially abt relationships snce am young am just gonna put all into consideration as I continue with my life. Since I began seeing this show, this man has really shown me alot that I couldn't get anyway. I just salute him so much for his consistency in this journey and even applaud Joyce for always hosting him as he's such a blessing.# I just love and appreciate this show# Full circle with Joyce#
I can listen to BZ all day. BZ is changing so many lives big up to Joyce for bringing him to this show
Thanks for watching
Gosh 😂😂😂😂😂!!! being slapped with truth left right and center!!! Just turned 24 thinking I am grown😂😂😂
Let me just sit down and be humble 😅
Calm down my little sister😂😂😂😂
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Always good having Benjamin in studio, he tells it as it is
BZ is on fire on this episode 😂 I'm in stitches while learning a whole lot.
Wooow this is a fresh of breathe air.. I love your genuenity.. Very blessed by this thank you sir
I am so glad i stumbled upon this channel.. It's been a few weeks but I have been impacted greatly.
I have watched almost all your videos and I love the wisdom and truthfulness
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The pre-25 killed me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 l am dead and for real you can tell she is young 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 omw!
Am a Ugandan but my show is full circle great honour to u dada Joyce en a full salute for Benjamin his really born for that i suggest his birthday to be inaugurated in allover Africa.
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@@tonyjohn5254 heeey
Awww! Such a wonderful man with a lot of wisdom... Continue to impact your knowledge into this generation.
So addicted to your show🤩 Watching from South Africa. Big ups guys🙌🙌
The wisdom in this man though. Can’t even watch past the first 2 minutes because I have to pause and ponder on that statement about having a “proven record of taking care of a human being”. My Jesus!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾If that’s no unconventional wisdom, then I don’t what is.
I just like this Benjamin Dude, brilliant, funny and very encouraging.
AM A UGANDAN,, I LOVE THIS SWITCH TV .ALWAYS WITH GREAT TOPIC THANK YOU JOYCE FOR A GOOD WORK👏👏👏👏👏
Heheee
This two guys blend together.
Benamin Zulu is an amzing guy with so much positive energy & Joyce Omendi is such an example of virtuous woman. Actually the kind of girl that I'm praying for God to give me.
I love watching the two of you.
God bless you both.
Aki hii collabo ya Joyce + Benjamin is a hosts match made in heaven. Always a pleasure to watch you two. Thanks for sharing the wisdom 😊♥️
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Benjamin continue preaching the truth God bless u baba
Best episode with Benjamin so far!
I love Benjamin assertiveness and this is a tried and tested man that I would love to hang around.
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hehehehe This man Benjamin Zulu......the world needs more of you. speak to all of us who are will to hear. Amazing and Informative.
Started to watch this tv channel Last week and cant stop !
Benjamin is one of the blessings in this show😎😎😎
Ben I literally learn so much in here watching from Tanzania
Joyce looking gorgeous as usual. Loving the show.
Another great show! Benjamin was really on fire! 🔥 I love that his advice and views are objective and make sense regardless or race, religion or class. I really appreciate seeing a son of the soil explain things with all his natural excitement and hilarity. This is what happens when you do what you love 💘 🤷
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Wow,,,this one is a real one.
Benjamin and Joyce thank you for the awesome show
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Mr. Zulu please have your own show because your in demand.
I agree
True man great wisdom
Yes. He has so much to offer society.
I will be the first subscriber
He holds a Facebook live show on Facebook. follow him there
Loving this show and the teachings i daily get..
Botswana is following 🇧🇼🇧🇼
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Benjamin has a war raging with 25's and below 😂😂😂
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Lmaoo honestly. He’s always coming for us.
Joyce always looks so good with her natural hair.
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it is this show for me, am lucky to meet u guys u've opened up my mind 🤝
wow, This is content that should be mainstream. This is premium content. Love it completely.
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18:40 the man isn't a conman. He is just going with the flow. I like that he mentioned ACCOUNTABILITY for women. That is a huge issue.
Zulu, I will definitely book an appointment to get your counsel, be blessed!
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Great host. Great guest. Thank you for being inspirational. When does this segment air?
Hello Jael,
FullCirclewithJoyce airs Daily from 8 to 10 Am
@@SwitchTVKenya Thank you.
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@@tonyjohn5254 Nigerians leave Kenyans alone we not did for JuJu God protect Kenyans in blood of Jesus
I love Benjamin so much 😂🤣😂 "don't date before you're 25!"
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This is real wisdom-reason in East Africa that needs to be shared by all East African statesmen and women
Thanks Joyce and Zulu for the show, always on point. Have not missed any show.
Kindly address the issue of housemaids, its becoming a common problem too
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@@tonyjohn5254 make ur wahala leave Kenyans you Nigerians, juju isn't our portion
Today's discussion was the best .......Viva Benj and Joyce
Wow. I love this conversation.
Would love to see your face too
Benjamin I really admire you. Your words of wisdom are doing me a lot of good. Barikiwa 🙏
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My mentor Benjamin keep the fire burning
Wooow, what an amazing discussion I just loooove this show.. Benjamin you so funny hehehehe.
To God be the glory for having given us the gift of Benjamin Zulu
Benjamin better start looking @some 35-45yrs old groups.They are as lost as the 20-25yrs olds😂😂
😂😂😂Very true
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This is very true. Mr. Benjamin this is a humble request address this age
The excitement of watching Benjamin everyday thou.. telling it like it is.. 🙈
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A good show....learning a lot from you Benjamin be blessed in what you're doing... would love to have a man talk with you Benjamin.
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It's 2023 I normally come to this videos and watch them @benjaminzulu you're amazing and so wise I am also subscribed to your channel but these conversations were so sweet
Benjamin 🥵🥵🥵 such wisdom
I always enjoy these conversations, I'm learning a lot
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🤣🤣🤣😂🤣am loving this Benjamin guy
Congrats Zulu on the new shoes, wardrobe change looking sharp
Thank you for the knowledge, we need to do things right all the way up for the ones with a clean sheet.
Namesake. God bless
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Asante Benjamin & Joyce! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾😍
Woiyee this so true. Us ladies with kids/kid we at times step so low because we want to get a man by ourselves. You find you even sending money to this men. God please come to my rescue
Wait upon God his time is the best he will surely come
@@abbieamazing688 Ameen
Sad.
Wow,!loving the show each passing day, I hope I won't fall into a scam relationship
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Learning so much
this man thou very thoughtful thank u @ benjamin
❤❤❤❤.10q for the translation too been lost for soooo long🤦♀️😥😥from Ethiopia.
Zulu is the man,I do not know how you have all the right answers.
Your amazing
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@@tonyjohn5254 Nigerians and your never ending hustle.
Leave me alone
Try your luck elsewhere
Listening to this once doesn't seem to be enough for me I need to click on the download , too bad there's a restriction to download it 😐
Wow this show,so much wisdom
Great message man Benja be blssd im learnin alot be4 getting into dating be blssd man
The title finished me be4 I watch🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 , OMG have mercy
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Joyce: Benjamin I have a way to debunk all you keep saying about 22 year olds.
Benjamin: Let's go!
😂😂😂His response killed me!
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I totally agree love is actions
Red is just a beautiful colour!!
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18:42
Benjamin is great, no buckets of water needed.
This show is always fire🔥🔥🔥
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I will like Benjamin’s take on age gap in dating and marriage
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Benjamin you cracking my ribs.
I just wish I knew this things earlier enough, I wouldn't have rushed into relationship. This is a nice platform for learning, at least we can pass these lessons to our children.
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Ben you never fails me oh. Tell us the truth.
Leo kunawaka moto🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥Benjamin i cant get enough of your wisdom
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So helpful
Ben should have his own show...too much wisdom
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25 and maturity soo true! 3months after turning 25 is when i quit a toxic relationship of about 2yrs.I mean its like i just woke from a deep sleep and looking back... even on the very first date... Many red flags popped up .I know better now
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Hae Joyce and Zulu,am happy to hear from you guys..am 24 and he's 25 we really love each other but the problem is wen he tells me he loves me sametimes i feel That's he lierying especially wen he calls me sweetheart, darling,honeny etc,he wants to marrie me which am not comfortable.
When you get to a point where you are feeling uncomfortable with marriage and think he is lying, your gut is saying all there is, leave or accomodate by forcing that situation, you don't question love, the confusion is a sign...
Goodluck
Look at the actions
Your gut never lies.it is your GPS-God provided system.Run for your life.it may take time but understand that there's a difference between what you want and what is good for you.
Learn to Trust yourself & your own instincts.
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I have experienced Marriage where my grandma does everything,it's hard n I don't want that for me.i will wait for the right person to come
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Under normal competition he or she wouldn't win ...wow Benjamin wow!
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Hehe Benjamin unapeleka Joyce mbio sana come slowly