Your EX is a No-Go zone | Don't do it - Benjamin Zulu

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  • Опубліковано 17 лис 2024

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  4 роки тому +10

    Don't forget to subscribe to Switch TV by clicking ua-cam.com/users/switchtvkenya

  • @BlackPanther-lt7wr
    @BlackPanther-lt7wr 4 роки тому +120

    Am 30, did minimal dating. I have dodged the bullet too many times. My heart has never been broken n have God to thank for. He always warns me before I leave the house, "dont settle," he says.
    Pursuing God at a young age and yearning and learning to hear His voice has been my BIGGEST blessing.

    • @thejont3768
      @thejont3768 4 роки тому

      Woow love this

    • @justmo6896
      @justmo6896 4 роки тому +3

      Wauw so do I! I'm 32 never settle for less....I feel you on this.

    • @zenajuma2900
      @zenajuma2900 4 роки тому

      @@justmo6896 perfectly said.

    • @miminiss5145
      @miminiss5145 4 роки тому +3

      @@justmo6896 weirdly am also 32 and have always seen the red flags which I really don’t know if am too much or alot of people try to fake a lot of things in life at a certain age inorder to settle. Bt hey even at this age i will say it’s hard to find a guy with enough pontential.

    • @CinnamonSince
      @CinnamonSince 4 роки тому +5

      get your hearts broken early...it's a rite of passage because the smooth ones can still get you but it's a good thing you are always on the look out

  • @wamwenjajoyce1063
    @wamwenjajoyce1063 4 роки тому +82

    this part of the show should be compulsory in high schools. I wish people can hear this early in life

  • @veronicamahlaba6543
    @veronicamahlaba6543 4 роки тому +49

    Mr Zulu you are on fire!!! Thank you from South Africa!!!

  • @joycendanu2662
    @joycendanu2662 4 роки тому +89

    You cannot be broke and broken at the same time. I'm 21. I can't lose it because i take Benjamin's advice seriously. If wisdom was a person it would be him

    • @lionelleethel6524
      @lionelleethel6524 3 роки тому +2

      Amen im 22.. His advices are just on time

    • @halimazako4019
      @halimazako4019 3 роки тому +1

      Go sis!!

    • @mackrineshariz3844
      @mackrineshariz3844 3 роки тому

      @faith ice 😂😂😂😂 agemate agemate 😂😂😂😂

    • @uzojenny8645
      @uzojenny8645 3 роки тому +1

      Jesus in him is the wisdom.

    • @gracesybil5940
      @gracesybil5940 3 роки тому

      I'm also somewhere in this age gap..... Beware, take care of your pride girls

  • @blackqueen7710
    @blackqueen7710 4 роки тому +81

    Benjamin if you will be judged for your sins in heaven God will secure your heart cz you have saved so many hearts oooh

  • @collinsonyuka4639
    @collinsonyuka4639 4 роки тому +98

    Joyce you are the only person who knows how to have a conversation with Mr Benjamin 😂

  • @faithnkatha8370
    @faithnkatha8370 4 роки тому +72

    i see the passion Benjamin has for youths. let's listen intently

    • @breathofgod3980
      @breathofgod3980 4 роки тому

      I really wish people (youths) can listen.

    • @richauntie316
      @richauntie316 4 роки тому +1

      For real,I wish I knew him back them,I wouldn't have made the mistakes I made then

    • @hellenahjohnson9661
      @hellenahjohnson9661 4 роки тому

      @@richauntie316 same here gal

  • @kikikiki3216
    @kikikiki3216 4 роки тому +11

    Benjamin is indeed brighter than 24 elders put together.. God bless him. I pray to meet him one day

  • @salomexz7113
    @salomexz7113 4 роки тому +38

    This show is an eye opener for everyone in or out of relationship,,am addicted with it,,,

    • @successguy2311
      @successguy2311 3 роки тому

      Same here, I can't have enough of Benjamin's advice on relationship @22yrs now. I love it so much. Soo much wisdom.

  • @lilianmacharia3322
    @lilianmacharia3322 4 роки тому +40

    I have been listening to benjamin zulu ... Kila pahali akienda Niko naye kila pahali ... Imagine am happy being single.... Am single... Right now am going back to school instead of thinking of getting married... I said no to relationship ... I cannot be abondened by money , relationship and God... Right now am trying to open a small business , and going back to school... I don't want any relationship except my parent , siblings and friends ... Working on myself now ... I have to be self centered.

  • @marygitau8993
    @marygitau8993 4 роки тому +13

    Zulu start start a tv programme. You are already blessed. Bless kenya.please

    • @memoikibet
      @memoikibet 3 роки тому

      Watch him on citizen tv on sat 7.30 pm

  • @fosterchikola1932
    @fosterchikola1932 3 роки тому +2

    Doing what he knows best...much love for you Mr Zulu....from Zambia 🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲

  • @priscillandungi3958
    @priscillandungi3958 4 роки тому +28

    Wow! Benjamin you are the reason I am not dating before 25...you really empower me alot...God bless you.

    • @merie8265
      @merie8265 3 роки тому

      Siz we was like you.follow your path.

  • @zamashezi8497
    @zamashezi8497 4 роки тому +72

    We are sorry Baba Benjamin we shall do better. "Find your calling first before you start taking off your clothes" 🙈

  • @glorymichelle9851
    @glorymichelle9851 4 роки тому +22

    Woooow! This is amazing! I wish all young people in the world could hear this. It has touched my heart. Thank you so much Benjamin and Joyce for such amazing content! Be blessed.

  • @irenenjeri3544
    @irenenjeri3544 3 роки тому +20

    Where were u Benja when we were making mistakess..please take me back in time 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @phathuhildah3524
    @phathuhildah3524 Рік тому +1

    Watching from South Africa and I've been following you since last year. Yohhhh Zulu you are a God sent, I was in an abusive and infedility marriage when I started listening to you and now I left the marriage and I'm healing through your teachings. I wish I met you earlier

  • @ndangiiipinge1895
    @ndangiiipinge1895 3 роки тому +6

    Forgiven under very strick conditions.. 😅😅This man is a whole comedian. But wise too

  • @harimahug7327
    @harimahug7327 4 роки тому +5

    Aaaah Benjamin your too emotional about youth thanks Dia am learning I never thought I can abstain when I went back after my hustle I swear I did it hooooo no more testing thank think b4 marriage yaaamawe am stil pre 25 focus on hustling now days class attract class ❤❤❤ Uganda 🇺🇬

  • @ShortSermonsbySandy
    @ShortSermonsbySandy 4 роки тому +1

    I am very glad I came across Switch TV and discovered Benjamin Zulu on UA-cam. I have learned so much from listening to his wise talks, and he shouldn't stop anytime soon.

  • @sarahal-e.5389
    @sarahal-e.5389 4 роки тому +18

    I love this show; hilarious and candid
    Hello from Saudi Arabia

  • @wanyinavybes421
    @wanyinavybes421 4 роки тому +16

    Benjamin 💥💥💥💥 those with ears listen🤣🤣🤣 “Choose your struggles”

  • @suzzyakikiakiki7114
    @suzzyakikiakiki7114 4 роки тому +51

    Do sales and marketing when you are young. Develop a skill when you are young.
    Remember Pampers is expensive please 😂😂😂😂

  • @richauntie316
    @richauntie316 4 роки тому +19

    UGANDANs representative here❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️🙏💜💜💜

  • @mariasaada2369
    @mariasaada2369 4 роки тому +2

    I love love love Benjamin Zulu. I pray the Lord keeps you and your word travels far. I beg you not to stop talking. I wish I knew you when I was younger. keep up the good work.

  • @nompenduloshongwe5003
    @nompenduloshongwe5003 4 роки тому +21

    Shout out from Eswatini, I love your show, great content !

  • @AngeLaure02
    @AngeLaure02 4 роки тому +16

    Benjamin.....people shld stop making u mad with their nonsense!!!!!!! This show was fireeee🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @jbdebbielish8483
    @jbdebbielish8483 4 роки тому +16

    Respect is Minimum
    Leave them those doesn't Value You
    You can't NEGOTIATE RESPECT Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦 🇸🇦 🇸🇦 🇸🇦 WATCHING 🇸🇦 🇸🇦

  • @lilianmutiso5915
    @lilianmutiso5915 4 роки тому +8

    You always inspire me Benjamin . Made mistake when I was 23 three and got a baby three years ago.Now developing on my career as I plan to get married two years ago.

    • @BlackPanther-lt7wr
      @BlackPanther-lt7wr 4 роки тому +1

      God bless you,, and may He restore the years, Hes faithful

  • @aallthingsbeautiful
    @aallthingsbeautiful 3 роки тому +2

    So much passion, but he is wise " explore your gifts not wasting destiny and putting yourself in positions you have absolutely no business being in"

  • @roserichard4158
    @roserichard4158 3 роки тому +1

    Mr. Benjamin you're truly life coach, mentor and speaks to the heart of truth, I wish all African countries could carry your teachings and knowledge to bring awareness, so pleased and I wish I could hear you growing up for sure I wouldn't be where I'm, keep it up and be blessed

  • @ruthmuthoni6431
    @ruthmuthoni6431 4 роки тому +9

    I wish i listened to such advice some 5 years ago.Anyway,lessons learnt.I wish the young people should know the truth and live accordingly.

  • @dorisjessy5960
    @dorisjessy5960 4 роки тому +74

    Our Benjamin laughs on his his own jokes

  • @marionwambui4661
    @marionwambui4661 3 роки тому +6

    please give those who make mistakes hope even after a baby. That girl still has hope......

  • @olivyafaith1097
    @olivyafaith1097 4 роки тому +7

    From {22:48 - 23:30} Benjamin I concur with you 💯. These things are avoidable! Boys and Girls need to work on their lives before thinking about marriage, baby- making etc. I wish the whole country, no, the whole world could here this!!! Our society need this kind of information, we are lost, and so our children. Please find a way of getting this message across every platform!

  • @pinamwake4912
    @pinamwake4912 3 роки тому +3

    Benjamin, be blessed.....you inspire me aloot!!

  • @zippileiyok4261
    @zippileiyok4261 4 роки тому +23

    Benjamin you are guiding young pple bt also try to help those who are in the trap already may it bcoz they did'nt know

  • @irinejuma6338
    @irinejuma6338 4 роки тому +6

    🤣 Benjamin is🔥🔥🔥🔥true there wasn't cross pollination ✊. Thanks Joyce and Benjamin, the show is full of impact to many people ,I salute

  • @pierrawanjiru3216
    @pierrawanjiru3216 3 роки тому +2

    Very profound and candid ✅I turned 20 recently and am always intentive On his nuggets of wisdom.

  • @milkahwanyeki5925
    @milkahwanyeki5925 4 роки тому +8

    Benjamin and Jocye Thankyou I really enjoy the show everyday is a learning day Thankyou

  • @faithwangui64
    @faithwangui64 3 роки тому +1

    Benjamin is a great blessing to this generation which includes me😅,I thank God for bringing you to us,Just turned 20 and with Benjamin all through my twenties I'm sure right to always make the right decisions in life going forward😊

  • @estherwaithera9859
    @estherwaithera9859 4 роки тому +5

    joyce, i like your natural hair, anwway done anytime, keep it up girl.

  • @princesskinuthia8788
    @princesskinuthia8788 4 роки тому +16

    👏👏Benjamin u were on fire leo 😆😆

  • @juliefred5465
    @juliefred5465 4 роки тому +3

    OMG! I love this show, learning a lot. Thank you Benjamin Zulu for enlightening some of us on life aspects.God bless.

  • @teresiakibunja7840
    @teresiakibunja7840 3 роки тому

    Am not a fan of writing comments but for this I must. Benjamin you are a father every child should have. Many sons and daughters get lost somewhere in life for lack of such fathering.

  • @MJ-uj4dr
    @MJ-uj4dr 4 роки тому +12

    Joyce was fire fighting coz Benjamin was on fire! 🔥 🤣😂🤣 Another great segment 👏 👏 👏

  • @SylviaLewa
    @SylviaLewa 4 роки тому +63

    Aki under 25s ladies and men under 30. Si jokes. No need to get into commitments aki

  • @zoe1870
    @zoe1870 3 роки тому

    BENJAMIN, you are a blessing for today’s try and error generation. I believe in your worming young people not to start with sex.

  • @lissajeruu8301
    @lissajeruu8301 4 роки тому +4

    Hi Benjamin and joy..ilove this show surely..be blessed

  • @aadahmad7753
    @aadahmad7753 3 роки тому

    Mr Benjamin, God bless you with divine grace and wisdom 🙏 may God almight increase your oil of anointing, am deeply grateful to God for his talented wisdom he bless you with. Am Mary Ben Michael
    Am Nigeria 🇳🇬 citizen,
    All i have to say, God bless you 🙏 and your family and business 🙏

  • @mandymanhanga6484
    @mandymanhanga6484 4 роки тому +66

    Relationship is not oxygen 🤣

    • @sheronluphahla4343
      @sheronluphahla4343 4 роки тому

      True my dear

    • @rose_Winchester86
      @rose_Winchester86 3 роки тому +1

      True

    • @roserichard4158
      @roserichard4158 3 роки тому +1

      So true, I wish we have better understanding, Mr. Benjamin is pure in heart mentor and life coach, I wish I could heard him in my 20

  • @emmanuelmwangi2514
    @emmanuelmwangi2514 4 роки тому +1

    Mr zulu at it again dropping wisdom on us.God Bless you brother.

  • @ngangindunge6764
    @ngangindunge6764 4 роки тому +10

    NMS kindly kimbieni switch the studio is on 🔥🔥

  • @lydiahwanjiku1457
    @lydiahwanjiku1457 4 роки тому +3

    Wooow Benjamin this time you have nailed it🔥..I always watch these videos but I had to comment on this one..I learn a lot from you #My Mentor

  • @candacesmith5572
    @candacesmith5572 4 роки тому +3

    Benjamin has steam coming out of his ears. Lol bless his heart. I am sure he deals with this daily.

    • @mosepro.1423
      @mosepro.1423 4 роки тому

      How did you find out about this Man., Zulu .

    • @candacesmith5572
      @candacesmith5572 4 роки тому

      @@mosepro.1423 He says he's a psychologist

  • @assmanhadi3907
    @assmanhadi3907 4 роки тому +3

    Thanks a lot Benjamin. My Respect and Self Estime becomes no1💃💃💃💃

  • @stormc4044
    @stormc4044 3 роки тому +3

    Dr Phil needs to bring benjamin Zulu on his show as a guest therapist 🤣

  • @valeriesiganga8973
    @valeriesiganga8973 3 роки тому

    I'm so glad youtube has landed me here - Learning and laughing at the same time. Thank you Joyce and Benjamin

  • @jemfridahanangwe1152
    @jemfridahanangwe1152 4 роки тому +22

    Who's reading the comments fast and enjoying the show at the same time..

  • @zoe1870
    @zoe1870 3 роки тому

    Benjamin, your correcting energy is GRACE.

  • @joycemiracle1588
    @joycemiracle1588 4 роки тому +11

    Respect is the bare minimum

  • @faustinamutisya9208
    @faustinamutisya9208 4 роки тому +1

    Benjamin... Benjamin that's real knowledge and wisdom 🙌🙌 thumbs up for Benjamin for sharing this 🤯🤯

  • @odangapriscah9652
    @odangapriscah9652 4 роки тому +9

    Sacred dancing 😹😹😹Waaaaaaaaaahhhh... Benjamin aki

  • @selebwaowen4129
    @selebwaowen4129 3 роки тому +1

    Wow, this is intense @Benjamin ,@joyce. This show should be airing everyday @7.30 instead of likes of kina Maria

  • @moreblessingmushohwe6506
    @moreblessingmushohwe6506 3 роки тому +3

    hahaha😂😂 "Brighter than 24 elders put together", I couldn't agree more! I've never thought of a better commentary whenever I watched these shows! Yes, Benjamin!!!!

  • @pendochristfarian2606
    @pendochristfarian2606 4 роки тому +3

    Learning more, good job Joyce en Benja

  • @justmo6896
    @justmo6896 4 роки тому +3

    I absolutely concur👏he is hilarious😂😂😂

  • @sekesaiful
    @sekesaiful 4 роки тому

    Absolutely edified and certainly entertained! Really want to commend Joyce and Benjamin on the scriptural wisdom constantly poured out. Such solid truth. Sending greetings and sunshine from the little town of Leeton in eastern Australia 🌞!

  • @zenajuma2900
    @zenajuma2900 4 роки тому

    Ooh zulu I wish I knew this 2yrs ago..but its never too late.greet work you are doing..so intelligent

  • @joycemiracle1588
    @joycemiracle1588 4 роки тому +4

    Respect is a personal violation

  • @eunicekithega8313
    @eunicekithega8313 4 роки тому +1

    Wololo....the house is on fire🔥🔥 please Benjamin don't give up on them even though they charge you alot 😅

  • @charitypawandiwa8429
    @charitypawandiwa8429 4 роки тому

    yani ...Just speachless. Benjamin Asante Sana

  • @carolasasira3219
    @carolasasira3219 3 роки тому

    I am listening to you Zulu🤩 thought I am post 25, I made mistakes, God protected me and led me your page. I am listening 🎧. God bless you

  • @wanjikukania2659
    @wanjikukania2659 3 роки тому

    The last part got me😆😆😆Benjamin the way he changed his moods aaaaah😆😆😆😆😆😆😆I better listen or else mmmh😆😆😆

  • @trizahdelightfulgardenbakers
    @trizahdelightfulgardenbakers 3 роки тому

    Wow,, Benjamin you are oozing with wisdom. So wise and clear I have really learnt a lot.

  • @catsofkenya1060
    @catsofkenya1060 4 роки тому +2

    I'm a pre 25 na nimekuskia wise man.
    I will implement this.

  • @ronaldojohn3394
    @ronaldojohn3394 4 роки тому +11

    Life is hard with all this temptations in the world

  • @CookingwithMagie
    @CookingwithMagie 4 роки тому +7

    I liked before watching because I know it is good 😅

  • @staicykagai400
    @staicykagai400 4 роки тому +1

    This is awesome.Benjamin I learn alot from knowledge you share with us.

  • @Sunshine-pv5zv
    @Sunshine-pv5zv 3 роки тому +1

    I wish I had stumbled onto Benjamin before I was 25

  • @marygachomo4345
    @marygachomo4345 3 роки тому

    Wisdom is my friend. I get knowledge and Al's understanding. I will never be fooled again. Let them try they will see fire . Thanks Benjamin for this wise council

  • @kristinewaithaka2947
    @kristinewaithaka2947 4 роки тому +20

    There's a reason why they're called X! Don't go there.

    • @paul8ish
      @paul8ish 4 роки тому

      Find the X

    • @Dana_inc
      @Dana_inc 22 дні тому

      😂😂😂😂 2024

  • @kellielucie909
    @kellielucie909 4 роки тому +4

    I always wait for this segment😍😘

  • @petals8437
    @petals8437 4 роки тому +4

    Hahaha😁😁😁Joyce very funnie benjamin is on 🔥

  • @njerimax222
    @njerimax222 4 роки тому +6

    Hahaaa i love it when he gets mad..laughing loudly then realised i was alone

  • @fatmaguyo8648
    @fatmaguyo8648 4 роки тому +8

    Woow being the 1st one to comment leo..fact kabisa lot of love to Benjamin

  • @estherwaithera9859
    @estherwaithera9859 4 роки тому +6

    benjamin unanona,your girl doing good,ama ni appreciation yetu inakufanya manenos

  • @hdeegithinji2191
    @hdeegithinji2191 4 роки тому +1

    Benjamin we're sorry eeeeiiiyyy😂😂😂please please this man has preached it enough!!! Those with ears let them listen otherwise stop making mistakes and complaining choices have consequences

  • @misswanjiku5268
    @misswanjiku5268 3 роки тому +1

    Wow God bless u 2 ...l will follow your advice as am only 20 n l don't want regrets

  • @fridahkavumbi1177
    @fridahkavumbi1177 4 роки тому +2

    Truth be told ,keep it up, thanks.

  • @mukonazwothemudzanani3729
    @mukonazwothemudzanani3729 4 роки тому

    Benjamin 😲😲😲 I'm touched, I'm deeply motivated 🤗🤗

  • @alvarojamuga9399
    @alvarojamuga9399 3 роки тому

    By calling, he mean purpose, missions and goals💯💯

  • @lypydiaries
    @lypydiaries 3 роки тому

    Don't be broke and brocken at the same time...waooo choose your struggles wisely

  • @refilwelegae4575
    @refilwelegae4575 4 роки тому +6

    Hi Uncle Benjamin! Looking good today!

  • @damarismuchangi323
    @damarismuchangi323 3 роки тому

    Uwi! You really getting to me Benjamin.
    Thank you!

  • @mbalenhlejoyngcobo9273
    @mbalenhlejoyngcobo9273 4 роки тому +3

    AMEN TO RELATIONSHIP NOT BEING AN OXYGEN, 20 YRS AND THANK FOR YOUR FATHERLY ADVICES. THANK .DEVELOP YOUR SELF.

  • @bridgitanyande9430
    @bridgitanyande9430 4 роки тому +8

    You cannot be abandoned by men, money and God🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @niyomwungeregloriose7142
    @niyomwungeregloriose7142 4 роки тому

    Hello Benjamin and Joyce. I have learned many things from you. May God continue to bless you. I wish to meet you then I can get more. I Love you all

  • @Myheart19608
    @Myheart19608 3 роки тому

    Why didn't I hear this years ago😭😭,where were you Benjamin??but I Know there is still hope for those under the sun..