Before You Get Married - WATCH THIS
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- This video is about Jay Shetty, marriage, and male and female nature.
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The dialogue and acting for these stupid motivational skits are so cringeworthy to be honest.
I don't think im exaggerating when i say they make the average Asylum movie look like Citizen Kane.
Love your channel by the way.
Love your channel
Bro I can't stress this enough, it's true.
They all are
I wish I could like your comment but it's at 69 so here is a comment saying I like you comment
60% of college males are bros who thought a shock would be funny to tell other bros about.
cause it is hah.
Hotdamn that'd be a good story to tell
Bro
I agree. It just like other dumb shit guys do like skate off a roof and into traffic for a dare or laugh. Plus i would have wanted to know how strong the shock would have been. Tazer strength or stick to it and need someone to hit you with something to break the hold. Most women would not even want to break a nail let alone a electrical shock of any strength on purpose. Study proves nothing other than soy boy wants the beta's and older girls in his "show" to buy his stuff. It called tickling the others ears.
I read it as men are way more willing to do the uncomfortable thing to move on their lives while women will endure b.s. to avoid discomfort
"I don't care about your money," she says. Well whether or not that is true doesn't matter, because divorce court cares plenty.
Dude that is so well said
@manuel hernandez
My ex was all hot to trot for me until I told her I wouldn't give her any money to fix her house. Then, the real personality came out.
I'd rather have her taken out or fake my own death then get a divorce IF I was dumb enough to marry
the Divorce Court will nail your skun hide to the side of the barn...
A woman's true personality comes out when you get divorce from her. That is the only time that you see her true colors.
“Don’t you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty, you may not marry a girl simply because she is pretty but my goodness doesn’t it help?”- Marilyn Monroe
It seems to not just help but be the main factor in the relationship. I take that back. Even then it's not enough, hence why celebrities like Johnny Depp and Jeremy Renner who are high status and charming still get robbed in divorce court.
Not if the girl thinks she is pretty when she's just average.
When you get married you do not meet the real person; you just meet her ambassador.
When you get divorced
Then
you meet that person.
@@hadiakmal9281 , that's easy to solve. Women just have to set the bar lower for what counts as an attractive woman. If all women are unappealing, then none of them are.
@@AImighty_Loaf cuz there's 2 parts to a good relationship first is the hook both people have to be attracted to each other on a basic level or it doesn't work and it needs to be built on good philosophy or it will become toxic think about the type of women Jhonny Depp attract usually the ones who will marry a man so she can divorce him later and take his money
"Money doesn't change who you are, it amplifies your character"
It shows your true self, how you'd truly be like if you achieved that desire of material wealth
My last ex told me her ex wanted to meet up and grab a drink. I told her if you go we are done and she went and I dodged a bullet😂
Good choice. Ain’t nothing good coming from a girl continuing to see her ex
Bruuuuuh wtf you dodged a bullet there bro
@@kry3634 I even got to close my door in her face when I walked her out haha
If he’s not her Husband, he was never her anything except His Turn. Don’t ever be her anything!
Good for you that was definitely the best choice you could have made.
He tells people what they want to hear (like a politician) and gets rich doing so (like a politician). It's a brilliant hustle!!
Oh, no! He said the quiet part out loud!
A better hustle is evangelical ministers.
And does nothing (like a politician)
When you get married you do not meet the real person; you just meet her ambassador.
When you get divorced
Then
you meet that person.
A bunch of guys wouldn't pay money to be told that they're deep and only care about a woman's personality. It's only women who want to be lied to about their own nature. To hustle men, you need to promise them success with women.
I bartended for 15 plus years. I have made a quite a bit of money by investing and frugality. Lol. I see your point, though.
@ALF Raydough I've heard wisdom and stupidity.
@@ECP90 keep grinding.
Bartending isn't an extinct job by now?
@@dethtrain Well not everywhere anyway
@@ECP90 A bartender that loves mixing drinks, but doesn't feel the need to make small chit chat by asking me where i'm from, what's my job etc......I wish there were more like you.
I'm female but for some reason can't stop watching these videos lol
Same here 😂
Haha same, I'm in love with this channel now.
I hope that the takeaway is positive and makes your life better.
I’m 14 and I agree
@Bridget McBride I don’t know why I keep on watching them I just do, some of the points he make I whole heartedly disagree with, but sometimes he low key be telling the truth….
“Truth is not what you want it to be; it is what it is, and you must bend to its power or live a lie.” -Miyamoto Musashi
Jay Shetty:If you attract someone because of your car,what type of person are you attracting?
Me: 90% of women
Well said !!
AjamlouBijan yea, The other 10% are driving Lamborghinis and shit
Jay Shitty
That Jay guys stuff is so cringy
Idk, when I met my husband, he drove a spray painted car that was $800. When he decided to go back to school, I was the breadwinner. I knew we had no money to blow on a wedding (it’s literally one day), I told him we should elope. I’m not saying there aren’t gold diggers, but there are also women who are sensible with money.
A funeral is just a wedding without cake.
I think it goes wedding is funeral with cake 😂😂😂
Dan Blizerian
Dan bilzarian is a legend. Respect
Nuh uh. My funeral is gonna have cake, music and be a massive cook out as I get cremated, Jedi style.
Want it to be a celebration!
@@Netherwolf6100 Me too!!! I want to go out with a bang!!!!
@ALF Raydough I thought marriage is funeral with cake that means that might as well die when you get married 😂😂😂
This dude seems like the typical spiritual snakeoil salesman. Everything for the good feels, like "Nooo it's not your fault, we are all funny accidents by the universe."
Lmao that sounds exactly like something these guys would say it’s so cringey
@KDLPro Hardcore no he's talking about the dark queef in the video
Ye it's called hustler motivator
I think he's great milking these sheep for money.
"we are all funny accidents by the universe"
HAHAHAHAHAHAH!
I laughed like crazy at the line "who he is as a person is way more important than your bank account." If that were the case, plumbers would be banging supermodels every night. That is so divorced from reality.
I have heard plumbers get a nice income, however it seems that people perceive that as a low status job.
@@relaxsit1504 Yup plumbers get paid absolute bank and if they get super good and turn it into a business they could make potential millions. Honestly nowadays trades are just as financially viable as high status jobs like doctors or lawyers.
@@stephenlee3406 probably even more so because you start working with far less school debt, maybe even no debt.
Dude, my plumber has a 2 million dollar house and a model wife! Plumbers make bank!
Lol epic fail my dude
I met my husband 14 years ago as a broke ass man, 14 years later, were still not rich and I still don't care! I'm happy with him and we love the small things about each other...
Yeah idk what this guy is talking about there are people that fall in love with character
@@anthonyventurini4013 very few women aged 17 - 28 look to be with one man and if they do they know only online dating apps and "smashing". They are told they can have it all with no effort
@@anthonyventurini4013 Of course. But many people marry for money
That is his point
this video is about mental health, how society breeds toxic people and weak people.
@@dude9318yes but he’s presenting it as most if not all women and that’s just not true, If most women you meet act like that you need to work on yourself and meet better people, don’t entertain someone who’s like that.
I've never heard of this guy. I don't regret that.
I have . I followed him for a while. Because the first few videos I saw weren't corny. But I caught on pretty quickly that is was just sound bite pseudo-philosophy.
@Major Gear Jay Shetty
You're not missing out.
I kinda hoped it was by Dhar man
@@bridawg24 Jey Shitty
Marriage... no thanks, I want to live.
In the auto respond Google is telling me to say, "Good choice."
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT Even the ai gets it
Fearful of commitment and navigation of relationships are super common nowadays on the internet, especially in the red pill community. victim mindsets don’t really resonate with people, either
Good morning
Tim Markus Goodnight
Im a former Division 1 athlete. With my experiences in this subject, the only women that seem to be attracted to potential is college women...especially if you have pro potential or you are enroute to becomming a Doctor, Lawyer, Engineer etc. Average everyday single women don't seek to find a mate with potential. They wait for them at the finish line, almost at the exact moment the man's full potential has already been reached. Facts!
Not African women😂😂😂😂😂😂at least not all of them🤣🤣🤣like 15% maybe🤣🤣
Fax
I had a below average looking male friend, he graduated engineering and suddenly finds his attractive now wife, guess he just had a lucky month.
It's sad half the women dont even get the chance of before potential
Im a female and im not attracted to money or cars. Ive been married for six years to a man with no car, and doesnt make very much money. But i wouldnt have it any other way. I love him with all my heart.
“If you don’t know how to attack ideas, then you will be easily misled by someone who has good delivery”
The most important weapon we have in the culture war will be this quote right here.
Study concludes:
“Men have higher pain tolerance”
“Men are more efficient.”
“Men value their time more.”
“Men are more decisive.”
😂
Lol. Slow clap for you. Lol
women most affected
Men don't have higher pain tolerance but the rest I agree
@@ABCetcIamalwaysright Men seem to be able to tolerate much worse living and working conditions.
And that's why I'm gay.
Man: Con you covert the rent this month?
5 min later
Woman: Seeking another guy
This is the lesson I learned in high school. If you are not attractive and popular, every woman will leave you for a guy who has a dollar more and weighs 1lb less.
@@chrissawyer1484 WOW that is a good Quote.
never forget: if you were doing well for yourself but for some reason you lose your job, you are on a timer till she leaves you.
I know right! That's about the only part of this that seemed likely or true.
@@Teixas666 lived it. Can confirm. Timer was 2 weeks
jay went to a monk school and pretty much memorized quotes from his indian Buddhist teachers and also from the vedas and gita(Which have great insights) and then just blindly regurgitates it all and westerners are super impressed by it. yet he couldnt stay a monk... he needed that money and fame.
"The only way to obtain a pure soul is by giving.......
.......me more money."
*Snake Oil Salesman.*
▪︎Naturally good entertainers.
▪︎Overly upbeat and optimistic.
▪︎Masters of duplicity using handpicked wordplay for desired audience.
▪︎Use loads of hand gestures when talking.
▪︎Bait the masses in with a _'Too good to miss Bargain!'_ then sell you something totally sub par if anything at all.
Have seen 100s of these guys over the years and can spot them from a mile away. Politicians are good at this too!
But always remember...
It's *always* about sales and money.
Them getting *your* money and you getting sold out.
klaas wertmann I’m no expert by any means but I’m pretty sure that’s a huge generalisation and cherry picking of aspects of society - especially considering that both of the things you mentioned are outlawed and not as prevalent in modern day although it may still happen. To summarise 5000 years of history across the whole country (which is as fractured as the countries of Europe in terms of culture) is a little stupid. And to add there are parts of most cultures’ history I assume, that by today’s standards could be used as you did to talk down about a country
@@nowisthetime6093 thanks buddy. Ill remember that when i see one.
What's described here are traits of a psychopath.
Man it's crazy that women care so much about how rich their husband is. I didn't think twice about marrying my husband and never even thought about/gave a sh*t about the amount of money he makes. We married for love as all people should.
Same lol. Guess we're homely 😂
Some people are fine with getting marrying not caring about finances. But for most of people who want traditional family it isn’t the way to go. Children are expensive(clothes, doctors, tutors,etc), providing completely for your wife and yourself is pricey too .
Love is an important aspect that goes second, first goes respect for each other, third goes money. With these three important aspects you build a stable family.
I remember in my childhood how they mentioned "you're so smart!" when someone knew the answer to a question... They literally teach children in school that knowledge equals intelligence... I already realized that it's the understanding of why it's the answer makes you more intelligent, even the teachers nowadays have to be crazy in order to be able to hold on to such job...
The very reason my wife left me. I was on my way up but not soon enough. She left me for her boss that was from a rich family. I was a good father, loving, giving and caring husband.
Damn
Its okay. Don't beat yourself up.
Fuck... What am I supposed to do then when I just want a normal relationship with an average girl..
@@turborooster8548 you can’t, maybe you’ll get lucky but maybe you won’t, the only sure fire way to make marriage useful again is to rewind the clock to a time when liberalism didn’t exist
@@admiralkipper4540 let's just find a conservative girl.
"Both sides need to have the ability to negotiate or the relationship will become a dictatorship..."
I felt that in my soul. I think you've accurately pinpointed my fear when it comes to marriage.
Same, as a female i have the same worry. U r not alone
@@Cutiejuliya you missed the part where the courts give you 50% or more of all assets. women hold all the power in a marriage because of the current laws.
@@explosivetwist most men arent bill gates. also yes the system does pick privilege. like when a rich parents' son raped a woman who suicided and he only got 6 months at home. also lots of powerful man fuk over good women nd leave their wifes without a penny. each coin is double sided.
@@explosivetwist however there r always pren ups so its a solvable issue
@Baraggan Louisenbairn shit thats wild O.O weird how do some wifes end up without nothing then.
I have spent most of my life without a women in my life.
I don't need a women to be happy.
Many times i have just went out riding my bicycle and looked at nature.
No women was tagging along.
I have been alone as a kid and as a grown man.
You never miss what you never had.
Like people with their cell phones, they become addicted.
Just like people who smoke.
They spend so much of their life smoking, it becomes a habit.
A habit is hard to break.
Have to learn how to live without your mind being brainwashed to a long term addiction.
My life has been very similar. At 56 I prefer to be alone. All the time.
Keep coping, having a family and teaching your children is the most satisfying thing a human can do
I can agree with all of you.
I used to smoke for almost 30 years.
I exercise daily and ride daily. love to be by myself . Unfortunately I'm still addicted to coffee 🚲+☕
@@yap7656 coffee is cool just don't drink one at night
@@normalman23 I agree with having children. But I disagree with having a wife. So i went surrogacy to get my kids. I thought strategically and cut out the middle man.
Actually, no. That study was one where the participants were told to sit in a room for 15 minutes. They were told of the button and that if they pressed it it would shock them. The experiment was about boredom, not being alone with their thoughts.
Didn't Vsauce make a video about that too? I remember that was exactly what happened when he did it.
"If you think that all women are only attracted to how much money you make, you're gonna have a pretty lonely life followed by being with the closest woman who can tolerate you" - Mark Manson. Gold diggers exist but not everyone is a gold digger
I’m glad not every comment is like anti-marriage. I’m currently in a relationship with an amazing women and she is the best.
I'm sure you hold women to that same logic when they constantly opine about wanting men over six feet tall, or who make six-figure incomes, right?
@@cherishfinley7977 remember this is the general rule for guys, exceptions are around but so few that it's practically insignificant statistically, statistically men get shit on by women and it's considered normal, you don't tolerate the bullshit you get isolated
Yeah,like less than 1% of women and it's impossible to get to know which are which until it's too late.
Exactly, I've been with my fiance for 3 years. I wouldn't want him any other way. Fuck money. Yes some woman are gold diggers but not all
Quoting Queen:
"Is this the real life?
Is this just fantasy?
Caught in a landslide
No escape from reality"
I'm just a poor boy, nobody loves me.
He's just a poor boy from a poor family,
Spare him his life from this monstrosity.
Mamaaaaaa
Oooooo
Ah a man of culture I see
When I sit down my right butt cheek is about 4 inches higher off the chair than my left butt cheek.
Because my wallet is so fat......
You're still a potato.
Bruh if you were actually rich you’d have two wallets meaning your level
@@pringleaddict5827 but only one ass pocket
@@jjhack3r doesn't matter
@@thestickmanchannel8589
That's when you use it to grow an inch or two
That PUA/influencer/whatever is a *Shetty* guy...
Yea I agree, Kittlery
Oh god dad joke
Jay shetty tells women what they want to hear. No wonder facebook loves him! Lol
That's why Facebook is a feminist utopia, and if you call them and Jay out on it, your account is deleted for speaking the truth because it violate "community standards".
I don't know if you have a new phone number or something to do with your phone number and I can get it tomorrow or tomorrow or Friday or Friday or Friday or Friday or Friday or Friday or Friday if you want to go to the store and get it done and I can get you some food and I'll be there in a few minutes I will be there in a few minutes I will be there in a few minutes I will be there in a few minutes I will be there in a few minutes I will be there in a few minutes I will be there in a few minutes I will be there in a few minutes
"Not everyone is just attracted to material things"
*The family court would like to know your location*
Run boy
I'm still so impressed by your philosophical dissections, well done.
Truly, that critical thinking gets activated fast
I would like but you got 69 likes and I don't want to be the one who gets rid of it
99.9% women are hypergamist. Never never never never never fell for these type of women 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I think you mean, 100% are hypergamous, the X% that claim they are not are just liers or in denial(you know women, they say they are not but their actions prove otherwise)
There’s nothing wrong with hypergamy... if you can do better, then do better. The problem lies when someone is hypergamous and delusional (about their prospects). Too many women conflate their ability to get sex with their ability to get commitment.
Starvin Marvin bro seriously
So, there is a chance for a unicorn then?
@@Starvin-Marvin that is a fair statement. The problem is when they use hypergamy and underhanded means to destory their current partner. I need the percentage on that!
I would have elected to be shocked just for the heck of it.....and as a good drinking story
Got shocked by 110volts a few times it gave me a rush.
@@mitchellcoole7020
Were the electrodes attached to your gonads?
@@DoubleOddJosh Nahwas working on outlets and shit
The Shock really give me a great wake up call to real life 😁
Lol
I’m a girl and I can’t stop watching these 😂 I can’t say I agree with 100% of the content or attitude, but the other perspective is certainly cool! I’ve been watching a ton of cooking videos now too hahaha
Huh well thats rare....
I'm a dude and I have the same thoughts on him... He has a good point but is native and contradicts himself alot.
Wait. . . You can’t be disagreeing, and. . . Civil. That’s gotta be breaking some kinda of cosmic law.
Congratulations, you have successfully acquired the skills and knowledge to be a good person.
Bros, it's a trap.
She's wanting to seem reasonable, and show she learning to cook... yeah right
I’m 40 years old and I’ve never been to a wedding! I LOVE THE STREAK I AM ON!😂
Male or female?
doubt it will ever be broken
You must be a very lonely person... Like I mean you have no friends who would invite you to one.
@@anonymo_use5918 does it matter
marriage, the biggest scam so far
My ex tried to make me listen to him. Yo, I swear she was trying to convert me into feminism.
Him or she?
I mean Jay Shetty. My ex girlfriend was trying to make me listen Jay Shetty. She was always look into toxic masculinity and all that nonsense.
@Mr. Khan Yeah they're full of crap in my opinion. Their goal is to keep you brainwashed by the Matrix.
When you get married you do not meet the real person; you just meet her ambassador.
When you get divorced
Then
you meet that person.
Better Bachelor did a great video recently on the fact that men are more conditioned for love than women.
It couldn't be more true. Women simply can't love their partner as much as men can. Why should I settle for someone who can't give me the same value I am giving to them?
I agree u shouldnt.
Richard Kennedy I don’t think you know love then. Infatuation is insanity.
@Richard Kennedy a woman who truly loves will not over power or abuse. I never did and i have loved. But we all make small mistakes thats human. If u choose to stay with a peraon who is obv fuking u over, its yourself u need to work on not hate everyone around. I had unhealthy patterns of choices and i worked on them. Its better now.
Watch huMAN’s “She Can’t Love Like That”...an eye opener to female nature.
@@poopingwhilestanding5801 Really good video. 100% in agreement with what was said. Thanks for the recommendation.
Well.... I'm an occupational therapist, and my boyfriend works retail. I've been with him for almost 2 years and we're planning on getting married next year. I honestly couldn't be happier. While I agree this situation isn't exactly the "norm", I also feel like a lot of relationships fall apart because people just don't talk to each other or learn to work as a team. People both male and female are way too eager to jump ship when something goes wrong because it's easier to just go shopping for the next person than it is to admit when you're wrong.
You mean women cuz men don't do this
Yeah true
@@Ziggyhere57 nah bro
Males and females do this
Fair play to you.
@@Ziggyhere57cap
"it's not about love and what they can do...take it from me, I'm not a truck driver." - That motivational dude.
Everything is good and you are the best for me and I can do it tomorrow or tomorrow morning and I can get you some food and drinks and drinks and drinks and drinks and drinks and drinks and drinks
When you talk to a girl for the first time, one of the first questions they have is what you do for a living. Now why is that? Lol
Maybe to help you spend that money if you got too much or maybe she's afraid you won't be able to pay for that meal she just ordered. I don't know.
Its ussually a good convo holder to tlk about a topic vs not knowing what to say. Sometimes it is to see the bracket of income.
its basically to know your financial status or potential.. Its known, women get turned on by money, power and status
Lil Moe Szyslak they plan to stop work and have a couple of kids and then hang out with other mums whilst kiddies are at school.
One girl PRIOR to a potential date asked me:
1. What do you do?
2. How much do you earn?
3. How long have you been earning that money?
4. Your age? (I was only 9 years older and I do look young for my age)
She devised I was too old. Haha, yeah. She was after a very wealthy guy.
It is a conversation starter. Most people can easily talk about what they do for a living. I think many of you are reading into this.
That girl is a four by God why?
At best!
A classic 49er.
3 bruh les stop being generous she look like typical chipotle employee tryina close her debts
@@greatestever7623 lol
@BASIL!!!!! The pumpin' Seagull The bar tenders "girlfriend" Shes average at best, imagine what she`ll look like in her forties when you`re waking up next to her.
I want to thank you for your analysis. You're a very deep thinker & i enjoy most of your videos. Thanks.
Lmao deep thinker. Okay
We deep thinkers think alike
@@Superbatmanbro is that so? Give me some wisdom, Mr. Deep Wiener, er thinker. What’s keeping you up at night that’s so profound?
I mean the fact you honestly believe that deep thinkers all think alike kinda proves you’re about as basic as it fn gets. As does thinking some dude spouting anti feminism rhetoric is somehow deep and not a dime a dozen on UA-cam.
@@johnnyblack3676 my deep thinking believe is that men and women should work together and the the feminists should stop glorifying single mothers and making their sons so a emotional and snowflake and stop assuming their son is gay
3:27 points out sweeping generalizations about all people yet at the beginning, you made one about women being money hungry. I love your videos but you also need to let your experiences about money-hungry women create assumptions that all women are like that. Yes, they are out there but they are also not valuable in a relationship. There are valuable women out there. Are you single? I am not trying to create a narrative out of you. Being single does affect perspective though.
The supposed reason the women didn't want her ex back is because she did the mental calculations in her head and came to the conclusion that he was actually broke is so cringe. Talk about jumping through mental hoops to rationalize the conclusion you already have in your head. If all you think about is women and hypergamy, everything in the universe is viewed through that lens, even if it makes no sense. She like white wine instead of red? Hypergamy. cats instead of dogs? Hypergamy. So sad. The ex boyfriend in the video was a douche. nuff said. The fact that this guy can't see how much of a dick the ex was, and how no one would want to be around that guy in real life says a lot about his own lack of social skills.
Underated comment. This video is a pretty criny attempt to argue a point. It's like 70% straw man and generalizations.
@@i_kill_for_zardoz the point is that if the ex wasnt a bad person, she would have gone with him
There are women out there that will choose somebody over money I did
You're right im hooked so much on your content
Surveys show on average married people are happier.
Just found your channel. Really digging the videos!
Thanks.
My friend's ex gf cheated on him while he was studing to become a doctor, then dumped him. After he became a doctor she went back to him and he even took her back...
Your friend is stupid
He's gonna get aids
I wonder how it's going now.
I am only 18 and I have not planned for a girlfriend. I rather focus important stuffs like community college than a girlfriend and plus I don't use any mainstream social media.
Work hard and make the dough, if you really want a woman then just let them come to you because you are a success.
Just don't get drunk and baby trapped.
All that will go out of the window if you had 4 beers and that cute girl pushes herself to your body.
@@Schwiegermutter but if condom is used it's okay, isn't it?
The problem is that I want kids. And a normal nuclear family. Especially young, my dad had me at 33 and wishes he had me younger to spend more time with me.
I didn’t choose my boyfriend for money, (he doesn’t have any). And he’s not ‘conventionally’ attractive like Brad Pitt, so there’s no agenda. We were best friends for years, and, as time went on and our bond grew stronger, we became romantically involved. We’ve been happily together for over two years, and I wouldn’t want to be with someone richer. While it might not be the majority, women who don’t want men for money definitely do exist. Both men and women who are good people exist, they’re just in the minority.
If a rich guy knocked on your door you would absolutely would
Cesar Sepulveda, no, I wouldn’t. If I was that way inclined, I could have already found someone. We’re very happy in our relationship, which I know is probably upsetting to those who have cynical views of people, but it’s true. If you’ve been in relationships mostly with women who are after money, maybe that says more about your poor ability to choose a partner. I mean, I used to mostly choose toxic men because of what I’d been through in life, but, after healing areas of my life, I choose more responsibly. We all play a part in what we allow into our life. Have a good day.
@@rebeccarosereviews7318 Are you & your boyfriend talking term commitment?
Are you living together now or just dating?
Are there any children in the relationship?
Same here for my husband. We met in college and have been together for almost 10 years. We don’t have the most money but that’s ok. I don’t need really nice things and we hardly buy each other gifts during the holidays or birthdays. It’s just not that important to us. I would rather have chickens than a nice car or gift 😂
Cesar Sepulveda you realize that there are women who just want a nice husband to go home to or spend time with?
An electric shock! I’d rather ride the lightning before I ever get married.
Lmao this comment is gold 😂👍
Electric shock would be a amazing slap in the face
There's actually a song called that, it's a good song.
@@somelamenamehowaboutmr.juk6231 Yep! Ride The Lightning by Metallica!!! 🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘
Stay metal bro.
“I’m not attracted to a guy for his money”
Sure some girls may be actually like that, but just because some are like that doesn’t mean the majority are like that. Hence the 6 pack, 6 figs, and 6 ft saying. Also, since that guy wants to talk about “studies,” which only brings out correlation at best and inconclusive at worst, there was a study, even an episode of Mythbusters, that wanted to know if women find guys who make more attractive. Well there is a correlation with how a woman finds a guy attractive and his earnings. Other factors might be looks, as people who look better tend to earn more, so on and so forth. Also, look at the HUNDREDS of articles women write about how they can’t find a good man to marry because men, check this out, don’t earn as much as they do. Money is a factor for most females, hypergamy is a thing, Briffault’s law is a thing. Ideally women will want a guy that looks good and has money, but if they want to marry, they’ll look for money. Hence the saying “He is attracted to her youth and beauty, she is attracted to his success and money.”
Yeah true, but why do u assume that the majority is money based? At very best i think its 50 50
@@Cutiejuliya .......make a male account on tinder lets see......
They may not like the money...but they like good food, traveling the world, no having to worry about a lot of stuff, feeling safe...it just so happens that it kinda comes with money.
"You know... who he is as a person? Way more valuable thank your bank account." Even the actress that had to say those lines was fighting so hard to keep from laughing!
Who would you marry a pesdent during the 2000s height of any one persons power on earth but take home $400,000 not couting extras from speachs or the penstion...
Or marry the world first liquid trillionaire in todays money but noone knows who he really is...
Or a childhood friend who is upper middle class and works as hard as the other 2 and you could never imagne life without him?
All 3 are straight 10s physically and mentally. Pretty much the point is there is more to attractiveness then money or looks.
I don't use Facebook and now I'm even more happy with my decision to drop Facebook.
@Mr. Khan Same
Amen to that, quit fb 6 years ago and never looked back
Eh im glad i got married st 20, im 27 now with 3 kids and a beautiful wife. We live a traditional home kind of life and enjoy it. I think the problem is the men not knowing how to take charge and run their relationship, but who knows i married a traditional woman.
Lucky you having found a rare gem.
Relationships fail today because there is a culture of divorce and one sided accountability. All that needs to happen to fix relationships for the most part is a pre negotiated marriage contract between the man and woman on terms of marriage and divorce addressing everything. Sure many marriages would never happen because they couldn't come to an agreement especially whenever it would first get implemented. However those marriages that do happen would be for the right reasons and that in the end is better for everyone.
Eh, still got 50 years to go. Good luck
@@JoseDiaz-rd9fh it’s called Christian marriage where divorce will send you to hell unless your spouse committed adultery. Problem solved
I don't know about all this. I have my girlfriend and when we first met, she flew all the way from China to meet me based on personality (I didn't pay for anything). I didn't have wealth or particularly good looks. She did like my intelligence and similar sense of humor, which I suppose was the "hook". It depends what you want. Honestly I'd rather have an intelligent but mediocre looking woman than a blond goddess but the brains of a helium balloon. For good look in humans alwaye depreciates
Welcome to the online age, That's how I fell in love with my girlfriend and how my Sister fell in love with her boyfriend. Which this UA-camr seems to have never expected Love in his life... Most of his theories are good like the ones about making a stable home but some are bad like gernder roles if you make a stable home why have roles? The hook for me and my grilfreind it was our firends putting us togather and the same was for my sister and her friend. What makes it stick for me and my girl friend was how we mesh together like we both do digital art but she does Digital Painting and I Pixel Art. We both care for each others needs and cover our weaknesses while enhancing our strengths...
And well we just love each other simple as that...
Being intelligent isn’t a personality treat at all, it doesn’t make a person better and it doesn’t mean they have a good personality at all, but being a low iq is something extremely unattractive to me since those people are mostly completely dead beat and don’t know how to think. I’d rather have an average intelligence girl with a great looks and personality then an intelligent but insufferable women that is condescending at every turn. Obviously intelligence with great personality and looks is extremely desirable but extremely rare.
@nriab23 👍👍👏👏
Exceptions don't make the rule. He repeats this constantly in nearly every single video he makes. If you can't understand something as simple as that then obviously most of this will just go over your head
Good for you man
But he is speaking for people in general
Not every single person
But just know physical attraction and money does play a big role for many people
I think you have a bright future as a creator, judging from your analysis and choice of subject matter.
Studies show 99 out of 100 women never have dated someone shorter than them.
Where is ya preach now, boi
to be fair, i think this all depends on what type of people you're around. im engaged, and i couldn't be happier myself. i feel like my partner and i complete each other. shes my other half as in...
really, a lot of people are garbage, and i understand finding a really compatible partner isn't easy...but it's not impossible. remember that love isn't unconditional- that is, theres things that would make you leave someone. be it cheating, fear of violence etc.
it's also completely okay to not want to get married or be with someone for the rest of your life too! but, if thats what you want, i recommend being yourself, getting a job, investing in yourself and just being a passionate person. learning to be happy on your own is the most important thing you can do.
finally, overanalyzing everyone, men and women can be a bad thing
I totally agree with you. I find it sad a lot of people in this comment section are being so hateful towards the idea of marriage and even women in general. It’s like they don’t even realize there are real people who want real, loving, full-filling relationships despite issues they may have.
Anyway I thank you for your sensible, well written paragraph and am wishing you a blessed marriage.
I think you and DARKSTAR are missing a very big point that a lot of men are trying to express here, maybe not so well. I agree with both of your sentiments and I believe a lot of men would love to find what you have. Some of them may have found it in the past. The real elephant in the room are the laws. The perfect couple can find each other and grow together and build together and all the puffy clouds and rainbows you espouse. BUT, at anytime, the woman has the ability to leave for whatever reason and destroy the man. Now, before you get all defensive, I'm saying that all women CAN do this, not that all women WILL do this. It is truly a gamble. You may be picking the perfect person to be your companion NOW, but will they be that same person 20 years from now? You can't predict any type of situation that may arise that could change that person. Aidan, you said there are things that would make you leave someone and your examples were the extremes, i.e. cheating, violence, etc. What about "I got bored", "We grew apart", "He wasn't providing for me emotionally", because he was at work paying for everything. The list goes on and on. No Fault Divorce makes any reason she wants to make a reason to leave. It doesn't have to be cheating or abuse. I wish you all the best in your engagement but as Manosphere Highlights Daily says, "Protect yourself at all times."
Would you go typing out this kind of paragraph on a video about men who treat women like objects? There are plenty of bad people out there, men or women but why is it that you're fine with bad men being pointed out but not bad women?
@@ispep8882 this is why to become a Christian and marry another Christian who doesn’t believe in divorce unless someone commits adultery. Being God-fearing is the best quality in a spouse for both men and women.
@@cringeproof100 It certainly does help. Again, there are no guarantees with no fault divorce. They may have to be judged by their God when they die but the decision to divorce for a reason other than adultery can still happen. There is no magic pill. The laws need to change.
As a woman watching your videos I'm astonished how you perceive the female.. And why that is.. I have to support your standpoints. But as a woman, it hurts a litte bit
And I don't hope this comment comes across as manipulation because I write how I feel lol
If you support what he says then why is it surprising to you? Would you rather people pretend that there aren't women like this?
Think Before You Sleep.. I want to thank you for the effort you put into your videos. I've been a subscriber of yours for a while and the value you add t young men lives everywhere is immeasurable. I don't have much but i will add to your patron. Thanks for your work in the MANOSPHERE.
Thanks.
You and Darius M couldn’t possibly be more different, and somehow you guys tie for my favorite red pill delivery.
You gotta gather wisdom from all the masters.
Donavan sharpe & greg adams are GEMS 💎 too bruh better bachelor black ram 🐏 all them dudes are Fuckintastic
Check out Austria Dick too, newer guy to the UA-cam community but he's insightful
Watch Anthony Spade's videos on what a woman's tattoos and piercings. You can thank me later.
PUA'S
(most of them)
This reminds me of a saying in México:
"Al nopal sólo se le arriman cuando tiene tunas"
They only get near the cactus when it has prickly pears (or something like that).
It is the nature of the female gender to do that, we just need, as you imply, be smart about it.
Has anyone had a preckly pear? I want to try one.
@@MrLlama-bz2yh they are really good, but learn how to peel them or you will be picking microscopic spikes out of your hands for days
@manuel hernandez i have no store that dose that. But i im instrated in the fruit. I have some growing were i live.
Orale conpadre...buen dicho, y cuando el brilloso aparece como decimos en Colombia "las viejas pelan el cobre "
If you're reading this, thank you for making such entertaining and amazing content
never heard of Jay meh.
Better off that way
Sex dolls are the way to go. Customer support >>>> Child support
Damn son that's good one.
Sex dools may be a good thing since men wouldn't have to play with the dice with a woman and make her perg. and play with a non-living thing all the time
Dolls*
Then again,simps can use then which woman could say that you're a virgin and a loser because of it
Thank God for Japan lol
I love your videos. And now my girlfriend loves your videos too! Preaching truths here. Well done.
I just got done with 12 hours of shoveling snow by hand at work. Your content helped make that time pass by much quicker than it would normally have felt like. Thank you.
12:35 Monkey branching 101. If you’re struggling with money, she will reach orbiters and exes to monkey branch in case you don’t find another job quickly.
Shittesting is for men to.
Try giving her 6 slim months and watch what happens.
No one will ever remember you for “who you are”, but for what you Did.
what you do says who you are
We have to learn from Jay Shetty he gets action a lot. Don't do as Jay Shetty says - do as Jay Shetty does
My ex asked me if I was OK with her hanging out with her ex.
I said "Sure, just let me know what day so that I won't come over... (I pause a second, she smiles, then I complete my sentence)...anymore". Smile disappears immediately.
I'm 35 years old single man and i will stay this way
As long you’re tall enough , have a hairline and decent job then yeah stay single...
That woman is a 2 or 3! At best.
I wouldn't be that mean but I definitely wouldn't be bragging to my friend about her. There is another video of her where a guy shows a picture of two girls and everyone points out that she is the less attractive one. I think that is accurate.
You're being generous with those numbers
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
Idk about you, but I seriously dont find women attractive, no matter how hot they are.
I just feel rotten.
@@DkKombo Honestly, I have never seen nor met a woman in my life I have felt was good enough for me.
LMAO no bro. She's a 5.
Look at all the symbolism portrayed in the background behind Shetty, supposedly to instill a seducing ambience based on cultural chakra aesthetic. Actually he is imprinting and corrupting the receiving minds via sacred geometry which activates energy patterns in the brain through vision. Do not only focus on the actual discourse, as logos and symbols can influence people even more than voice frequencies and ideas. Everything in a public presentation is calculated and has a purpose, even non-verbal signs, symbols and decor. Stay safe and aware, everything vital is out in the open for those that can decode it. In any case thanks for these informative presentations, very helpful and charming!
true, visual symbols are a primal source of information, because those who rule us know it very well, watch the state of modern art, a meaningless childish endeavour full of pretence.
@Think Before You Sleep I really enjoy your content! Keep up the good work!!
Now that I'm a adult.
I can see how these woman lack from their raising.
I was raised by two strong minded parents a man and woman.
And now that I've moved out of the house I can see the flaws in their actions.
These woman chase money but don't intend to earn it. They want expensive things but have no way to actually afford it other than squeezing it out of a man's teet.
Meanwhile I plan to work till I'm 65 and raise a family while working. Not because I'm being more manly but because I love making my own money
Plenty of women nowadays be out here working hard
@@cookiegirl891 But they don't care to understand that a family is important as well. It's a give or take
@@halleyangel1706 ohh I see I see
Why would you voluntarily work until 65?! You don't need to work to make your own money. Just invest wisely.
@@mermaidsdragonsnl2592 I have but doesn't the extra money also help. Extra retirement and such
A sensible woman would be appalled that he owns a porche. My first thoughts would be: "Luxury car eh? What a waste of money! Guess this guy doesn't have good spending habits." Seriously, I would think that the guy is likely to be an unreliable person who doesn't know how to manage his money well.
*Jay Shet:*
Makes video about how your personality matters over money. Especially to these whamen with their graceful souls.
*Also Jay Shet:*
Makes a video about a woman thinking about dumping her broke boyfriend over a rich dude.
Yeah, he is right, nobody wants to be with a complete asshole. The only thing this guy taught me is that I need to hope my gf doesn't bump into a rich guy who is actually friendly. Pretty weak example if you ask me.
Too late, eternally damned be me, wish I saw this 5 years ago.
Never heard of him
I'm not on cuntbook so have no idea of this guy either.
Your sarcasm towards the end, when the "good girlfriend" realized what she really has is funny as hell and on point.
My teacher back in school called me dumb to suggest learning should be fun
Officially one of my favorite UA-camr but the world doesn’t like the truth
YYYYAAAAAYYYYY NEW TBYS VIDEO WOOOO
1:43 How dare you accuse me of being out of the loop for NOT using Facebook
I don't know any women who prefer wealth over respect... So closed minded
Sex workers, my aunt, Abusive father's wife
LMFAOWTFBBQ
Not all are bad not all are good....
Jeff Besos, Dr. Dre, Emmitt Smith, and Tracy Morgan. These men who are getting divorced should tell you that love and marriage are just two useless words and the women are profiting after you reach a pinnacle of success.
Women are afraid of physical pain. That's why most of them said no.. Me, id rather take a shock for a couple seconds than waste 15 min doing nothing.
There's a video, maybe based on a study, where men and women's pain threshold is measured by how long they can stand having their hand in a bucket of ice water. "shockingly" the men won "hands down" 😉 Interestingly if people are allowed to curse out loud they can withstand pain for longer.
Wise words of my dad- "wait a few years before she moves in with you" and "never get married just stay dating"
I have a play list titled watch this before getting married specifically to slap sense into me if I ever think it's a good idea.
Thats a good idea.
Much love to all the women who support TBYS.
I’d say another good example of a music hook being stolen would be when the song Super Freak by Rick James had its’ hook taken by MC Hammer for Hammer Time. He first time I ever heard the song Super Freak I kept expecting to hear someone say “Hammer Time” before realizing that it was an entirely different song by a different artist. Hammer Time was so much more popular than Super Freak that despite the song being almost 10 years older, the hook is more recognizable from the newer song.
Most psychological studies fail the repeatibility test.
Imagine if the second video was reversed - the boyfriend meets up with his ex since his current girlfriend is fat and out of shape...imagine the outrage!