PODCAST | IS MARRIAGE OVERRATED? | 11 Year Anniversary Check-In | South African Couple YouTubers
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- Опубліковано 18 жов 2024
- In a modern age, being single is no longer a life stage but a state of being, relished by thriving solo communities around the world.
Despite this, we still tend to put marriage on a pedestal. Getting wed equals radiant couples searching for wild flower arrangements on Pinterest, or marking the #5years mark with tasteful black and white snaps on Insta.
More than a milestone, it’s an entrenched cultural value - one that lands squarely in the same breath as lifetime happiness.
Even today, people who don’t put a ring on it can feel left out; like they’ve eluded that lottery ticket marked “happily ever after”. But is there really any truth to this ingrained belief?
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Hi DreamTeam , we apologise for the poor sound quality. We will definitely refine it in our 2nd instalment of ‘Here’s A Thought ‘ with The Makhs. Thank you for riding with us. Thank you for the continuous love and support♥️
P. S our old jingle is still active, we will be using it for our VLOG and challenge instalments. #Season2ready!
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we love it still
And the camera angle was too low and too far it just needs to be higher and closer, but everything else is beautiful 🙂
I for one am glad to be part of the process 😁😁when you guys feel content with the studio and the technics ... BETTER REMEMBER US 🤣🤣🤣kuthi we stayed even when whatever needed improvement #BackwardNever kumnandi balapha ❤️....Thank you for the upgrade😍😍 it says a lot about how you see us 💕🥺... I better do better nje ❤️❤️ a reminder that I am special Thank you very much 😁
Leskawara re shap🤩🤩🤩
“When you do marriage Gods way you understand that the purpose is bigger than you”…the power in that🙌🙌🙌
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I have been a silent listener ever since this amazing channel started because I never had the courage to Express the CHANGE that you both have brought in my life and my marriage. I'm a newly married @ 25 years old. And I have learnt so so so so much from this channel. I cannot even begin to tell you what your wisdom has helped me mould my marriage. I love you guys so much
Clearly we will never get over Phetola's beauty! Yerr, beke le beke uye ebamhle kakhulu! In Xhosa we say "akemhle, uyabanda!" Upholile maan! Ey Lerato wavuka mos on that day when they were choosing wives....
You’re so kind sis! Thank you so much ♥️♥️ . Ndiyabulela♥️
WOW!! The new intro, studio....EVERYTHINGGG! Out here looking like the podcasters that you are!! Love you guys.
Thank you so much♥️♥️♥️
For me the highlight of every installment is after Phetola introduces herself and Lerato says "the ever so beautiful." He never gets tired of appreciating her! Respect
I have never loved an online couple more than I love The Makhs,So thankful for the day I discovered your channel.
Your videos are so helpful in this single season,May God keep blessing your union with more celebration🎉🎉❤️❤️
I meant to type this in the previous video but as soon as i saw the notification and now quarteway into the episode, i suddenly rremembered and felt convicted to do so..This videos you post are not only for us your viewers but the obedience of doing so as an instruction from God ,and also the moments you sit and just pour your hearts to us is God's way of bonding you even more .You grow closer to each other every episode ,you may not realize it yet.I have personally learnt and been blessed by all episodes and its my prayer that God may use you even more and that with every bit of obedience He may expand and take you to new levels of glory.
love
Rose
edit; I did not even know you guys talked about how the episodes have changed you like the first question Phetola asks whether you guys have enjoyed marriage in that one year more.TRUST ME IT IS EVIDENT THAT THIS IS WHAT GOD WANTED FOR BOTH OF YOU,
I love these guys. They make my relationship with my husband so fun. Many more years guys😍
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“When you do marriage God’s way, you understand that the purpose is bigger than you.”
Powerful 👏🏾
"I know today that God loves me because I'm married to you " aaaaah that man! Your union is so beautiful guys..🥰
"You need to be willing to fight yourself." This is profound.
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For me Phetola, neh! I wait and you laugh then you say these things that are full of wisdom and I spin in my chair. How awesome 👏🏾 👏🏾. I have been married for 14 years but hei! I come here for marriage nuggets. I hear Lerato too and I don’t mean to split you I am just so proud that you got the ladies covered and that very well. This has to be the anointing. Ok let me stop.
One of the few comments I'll ever make...
But, I'm that guy in the corner who is absolutely, 1000 % behind and rooting for you. Telling my friends about you and your ever deeply profound contend... Ngiyabonga🙌🏽
I commend today because I admire growth. The guts to be willing to make mistakes and even be open to criticism, because you can never satisfy everyone. In the pursuit of growth and excellence, you will soon find your niche and sweet spot because you dared to want more and better. Excellence is a product of refinement, and you cannot refine a non-existent product.
Lots of love to you guys👌🏽#foreverinspired
I’m not crying 😭 Ay’bo the GOD we serve🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥
The Makhs are a blessing! ❤️ It’s so beautiful to see your channel grow (Ps I’m an OG). Nibahle and the studio looks dope! May God keep expanding your territory. On the top from here!
Thank you so much Fam! Raise a glass to the OGs!!!🥂🥂🥂♥️♥️♥️
I agree with Lerato, we once spoke about this with my partner. Even though we not married yet but having UA-cam channel have also made us grow in our relationship, we became so much closer, and more open to eachother. It's such an amazing feeling to be able to have such conversations with your partner🥰
♥️♥️♥️♥️we thank God for UA-cam Channels! Please drop a link to yours here♥️🤗.
Eish ja neh! I had to stop and rewind to rehear.... some of the things that Lerato was saying. And for me who has experienced marriage but it didn't work out. What his saying makes a lot of sense now. If I ever get ready to give marriage a try again. I love what The Makhs family is doing. In a way it's a healing platform and a learning platform for me.
I thank God for leading me to your channel this year. You have inspired me more than you know. To more years full of divine purpose, fulfilment and deep joy and happiness for your household ❤️ Happy Anniversary The Mahks
I've learned a lot from the two of you. May God continue blessing you and may his light continue falling fresh upon you guys. ♥️
Thank you so much Tracy♥️
Guys I am much older than you and we celebrated 13 years of marriage "bliss" this year, but I still learn a lot from you.THANK YOU
Fighting yourself works everytime for every relationship, because we mostly project so it's very important to be discerning what could you be projecting, and what insecurities do you have.
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the studio is beautiful, LOVE IT! Beautiful lighting. the sound wasnt bad at all , dont be too hard on yourself . its the first podcast . think of how we started last year and how we've grown now. this is real life. just do , and be better as you go
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I agree. you guys are in your ministry now. I got my partner to watch this channel and he fell in love with your honest and felt good about himself and our relationship because he sees that no one has it figured out, we just got to keep working together to make it.
Aaah this is so encouraging. We thank God for this journey. You have no idea how this journey has also ministered to us♥️
Trust me for liking and comment before the podcast because the makhs never disappoints.
Beautiful studio. You look amazing. And thank you for all sharing the wisdom 🙏
Some of us are just here living vicariously through you but mostly thank you for representing Christ Jesus on your platform. We need this. Kele leboha ho menahane.
Aitch! Ke re bonang new studio😍 Yaas.
Totally, marriage has to represent the Christ and the church. Knowing that, respecting that, and honouring that is the foundation of a good marriage. You can't joke and mess around when you are representing the ultimate love story. Nope.
Totally agree with fighting yourself. I think it was Robert Morris or Jimmy Evans who said something along the line of marriage being death; a constant dying to self. Whichever one of them said that was 100% spot on.
We see you. We feel you. We appreciate you❤ I believe part of your purpose is to show us how beautiful marriage can be. And, ofcourse representing Christ and His church so beautifully. Yass!
Lerato I'm here for your honesty and sincerity...when I saw the title I couldn't wait to hear Leratos views bcos men your a deep thinker, straight forward and honest...appreciate you man
I love the growth I'm seeing, I finally subscribed!
One thing I like about you guys is how you reflect, grow and sharpen one another while dropping major bombs to us as well. We continue to learn, we continue to be inspired and we continue to be enlightened, clearly you guys are God sent!!
Ooooh welcome season 2🎊🎉Serve us well ,above our expectations😊👐👐🔥🔥
Happy Anniversary Guys! Gang, Gang in da buildin'..❣🙏🏾
Woooow guys I love this ☺️☺️☺️☺️OG All the way💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻,the studio is on point 😘😘😘😘 Season 2 Sila📍Congratulations my beautiful people
Well done on the new setting ya season 2 The Makhs. Happy 11th anniversary. Please accept that you are ministering and realize that you are ambassadors of lost hope on marriages. This is your calling, this is your expertise; polish and shine in it. You will be blessed! My 4 years daughter mimic Phetola and says "..and i am Phetala Makhetha"
P for Pulchritude 😎🤣 phetola is here looking very resplendent 💕, congratulations are in order,, Life is best lived in discovery👌👌
you hit 40K!!!!!!!!!!!! YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations! looking forward to the pod casts will you be posting all episodes on youtube too please do.......love you guys
Wow!!! This was amazing. I really love what Phetola said at the end, "just be kind to each other". Thank you guys. I really love what you are doing. God bless.
Wow congratulations Dream Team... Very outstanding studio👊💖...
This is beautiful fam.....Nibahle and congratulations on this!!! Love, love, everything
What a beautiful representation of marriage! Anibahle man, nothando lwenu luhle😍 please keep at it, we're learning❤️
Sanithandi❤️.. Thank you fam for the authentic content. My marriage is so much more fulfilling since Sept 2020 due to picking battles and being more intentional with words.. High five to the OGs🖐️
One thing I looooooove about you is the wisdom shared here! It's a very nice place to be, 'cause trust me you walk away from here with a different insight, a different perspective about life itself! About so many concepts the society has damned! "Rubbished". Man I'm here still faithing for that "Godly marriage"❤❤❤
God bless you fam❤ one time! Two real oooooh yeah!✌❤❤❤💃
The studio is amazing.... beautiful interior design....love love it
Thank you so much♥️
Details 🥰🥰🤌🏾
So excited for you guys 💃💃💃.
I am listening through my earphones and the sound is a bit sketchy. Not sure if it's just me though. Lerato's voice e tswa on my left pod and phetola's on the right. Perhaps you can look into that.
Love love love your content. Keep up the amazing work family 🙏🏾🙌🏿
My favorites. Love how you guys always say "sorry my love" when you interrupt each other. Here for it!!!
Now this refreshing. Looking forward to marriage ❤ congratulations on 11 years and on the new podcast
LOOOOK AT GOD GUYS !!!!! Yoooh!!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥…
Just make the sound to be Stereo mix ..the panning is uncomfortable cause it feels like only one side of the earphones works …
Thank you so much for the feedback. We appreciate it so much♥️
Wow! The studio is so dope 😍. I am so proud of you guys 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 upward and forward.
Edited...I commented before watching 🤣...Your authenticity guys 👌🏾. That is it for me. Great content.
Oh wow this is really amazing and beautiful. Keep it up, we are behind you 👌👌👌👌
😂 “So babe if we didn’t have this channel , our marriage would be doomed”
Sis Phetola you are too funny🤣
I was genuinely concerned😂😂😂😂♥️♥️
Yho! yhenina such gems today!!! Thank you fam for allowing God to use you to build us
One of those videos where u can't help but feel the need to like more than once or twice.. thank u guys 🙏🏾
Listen, I love this studio and love you guys!!! well done favs
Yep... Yep... Am so happy about the podcast ❤️❤️❤️😍😍 I love you guys😘
Congratulations Mr and Mrs Makhs 🎉 your impact is evident in the fruits of your labour.
I am so excited, just 1:46 and I’m beaming 😁. It’s like I’ve just renewed my vows with you, I can’t believe you created this studio just for us 😊🙌🏽🙌🏽 lemme continue watching…. ♥️♥️
Notification gang re mo. So excited for season 2💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
I am so inspired.If it's not like this,i don't want it😣♥.It's so funny how I listened to the podcast and still came to tune in here.I just can't get enough of these people.May God shower y'all with blessings😣❤
And Happy birthday Phetola more blessings angel💖💖
The studio setup is BEAUTIFUL. Simple but really proper, and you guys blend in so well with it.
1. I was not adequately prepared for the 🔥🔥🔥 y'all brought with the podcast promo AND the studio reveal. Like whaaaaa??? 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 2. What you guys have modeled on your channel stokes the fire of hope in me. That is frightening and encouraging at the same time. It has been tremendously difficult for me to not only hope that marriage is in God's plan for me, but also that I can have a godly, happy, fulfilling marriage. To the point that I usually steer away from any content focusing on marriage. The fact that I'm subscribed to your channel AND watch all of your installments might just be a miracle! lol 😁 I think the way you guys have been honest with one another, even when you've disagreed on camera, shows that you're not being pretentious. I understand all is not perfect, and that actually is comforting because it makes way for God's grace and glory to be magnified in our lives. Sorry for the long essay response. I am just really grateful for the things you guys have shared and pray God's continued blessings up on your union and family. 🙏🏾❤️
I absolutely loved this Podcast!!! This has been the best vlog, reviewing your relationship. Not to say I did not enjoy the other content themes. But this is your ministry :)
Wow .. very beautiful studio ..achek lona le too perfect maan .. too clean too viby too TODAY too interesting ,too COOL too everything GOOD.. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hey guys we love yall
The studio is just the cherry on top of the already great conversations and beautiful couple💕💕
Thank you so much fam!♥️
Gang gang💃💃 Congratulations on your Podcast Fam❤❤
I love you guys. I may not always comment all the time but I'm always liking and catching up and being this young listening helps me be equipped with the right things
The studio is everything😍😍😍..it looks absolutely beautiful. #Dreamteam all the way..Pheto I love you. I feel like a different person and communicate better with my husband. You speak to me and am grateful. You are a big sis. Happy birthday
At least the " one time, two real ohh yess" is still there!! YAYYYY...
My favorite part!! ❤❤
Ahhhhhhh I just love you guys!!! And yes, I'm now watching all the ads coz I get it man and worth it! Your content is LIFE.
Love from Kenya. 🇰🇪 Thanks for sharing your love for God and one another with us 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤛
Opening the new studio. Bathong you guys look great. May God bless you with 80 more years together . Love this channel and podcast ❣️👌🏽
Thank you so much for being here for the opening ceremony♥️♥️♥️
Love love you guys❤❤❤Your ministry is powerful.May God bless you.
Nna kea lerata I promise🤞......your channel/podcast is so informative and amazing.. Remain blessed, God bless you more and more and more and more.....
We love you more♥️♥️♥️
What?!! I love everything about season 2, already. I am seeing here beaming. The sound 👌👌👌. Great content guys.
Love the transparency always ❤️ Studio looks amazing 😻
I did say that I believe this channel ministers to your own marriage as well as it ministers to us. Also your authenticity is the main ingredient in all this. We love it for you and we love it for us!❤️
Love Phetola, she reads and she is smart. Love the studio guys
For some reasons I believe that I was sent by the holy spirit to your channel, because honestly speaking to some of the questions I have been asking myself I sort of found answers. May the good Lord continue using you for souls like mine. LOTS OF LOVE.
I love the setting, Its screaming perfection, its giving excellency. Lets talk about professionalism
The intro match the setting 💯
I love it here❤🤙
been here since day one and i have watched you grow and ive seen the channel grow but to be honest i had not imagined a podcast but wow guys this??this?? I believe more in you guys now and best believe i see the best...from here the sky is the limit. side note (wow Pheto youre so beautiful and damn this studio) big ups and congratulations dream team
Phetola is right by saying "marriage is to keep us holy" . Gary Thomas's Book "Sacred Marriage" delves deeper into it. Always worth every minute of watching these instalments Mr and Mrs Makhs
Which one is this one?? Heeeey!!! To greater things fam 👏🏾👏🏾
We love the studio, it looks lovely...
Congratulations on the 11 years and I know and believe God will give you 111 more years ❤️.
Thank you for your wonderful ministry
I’m new here. Wow you guys are so profound. Thank you for imparting knowledge on marriage without boundaries.
Love the new Studio, Congratulation guys on your hard work. Much love to you guys.
Thank you so much Amelia♥️♥️
Hi Lerato and Phetola (I hope I got this right?)...
Still in the season of your anniversary (wedding and vlogging) I just thought to let you guys know you inspire me in ways you may not understand...
Your instalments continually makes me seek to do and be better for my baby (Msindisi, who by the way introduced me to your channel) and our beautiful relationship...
My prayer is that our relationship will blossom into a beautiful union that would also inspire young people and couples that genuinely want to find love the Godly way, like yours does...
Please keep up the great and God-inspired work you are doing... I'm super elated to see the growth and transition into more channels of communication... Your new studio is 🔥
Lots of ♥️ all the way from 🇳🇬
Your love is beautiful to watch. Your honesty in these conversations is undeniable. I definitely love your channel. You have a special fan all the way from Malawi✨
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Been running away but I must say I love your energy
Noooooooooo
This podcast was so short, no. Oh beautiful guys. I love this. So much wisdom and relevancy hey. Guys continue staying real, if I wasn't married I could have said you are inspiring me to get married haha,but you are inspiring me to continue serving my wife. God bless you. You are representing Jesus and the Church well.
The Great I AM loves you
This was beautiful guys, the wisdom in you is truly from our Lord. The studio is something of marvel, l love it.
New intro,new studio!!! I love it here!!!! Congrats guys🤍
Loving how you panned your voices to different speakers 🔊 The intro is also fire 🔥
I love you guys!! Season 2 we are here!!!
Couldn’t hear sis Pheto properly , the sound kept giving a lot of feedback back 🙈🙈
I'm here to comment on those 2 people who are always disliking every video in our DreamTeam channel. Only 2 haoo. May God be with them..
Aniwae family you are inspiring me in each and every video there is more I'm learning, more wisdom.. Thank you fam
Thank you so much for making marriage so cool, you guys are such a vibe ❤️❤️❤️
We the regular gang are happy to say we were here with from the beginning and we couldn't be happier to be here as the journey continues
Gang gang!!! Thank you so much for the love and support♥️
Can i please have 'summer of 2008' for the last time🙏😂😂😂... amazing content as always
I look forward to watching this video. Personally, I don't think it's overrated, it is just as important as singleness. However, it all depends on what a person is called to or prefers, be it marriage or singleness. Each serves a purpose and builds character.
The new intro😍hai mahn 🔥🔥🔥…Looking forward to the new season❤️ …📍sila😁
Happy 37th Mrs Makhs. You don't look a day over 26 😍😍❤
Thank you so much Same! Appreciate you so much♥️