PODCAST: FINANCES NEARLY RUINED OUR MARRIAGE | South African Couple YouTubers
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- Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
- Financial problems and financial stress can impact your relationship or marriage in many different ways. Your health, emotional and physical intimacy, and home can all be negatively affected by money matters. ...
Today we share our personal story of the impact finances has had on our relationship.
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#TheMakhs
This is going to sound really weird but I love how human the both of you are. You are so relatable. I genuinely learn so much from you because you are not far removed from reality. Your conversations are not fluffy or superficial. I think I will be coming back to so many of these instalments in the future for wisdom. ✨
So, true most youtubers are not relatable, they are the gems of UA-cam
So apt👌
I SOOO AGREEE!!!!! I LOOOOVVVVEEE YOU MAKHS!!!!!
I just love what Lerato is saying, when God withholds something from us - it's never to harm or hurt us. He always wants to give us the abundance when we are ready to receive and manage what He has entrusted us with.
If we can be trusted with the little that we have, He can trust us with much more.
Amen ❤
This is what a relationship/marriage led by God looks and sounds like for me. Thank you for your wisdom guys. May God continue to increase you. ❤❤❤🔥🔥🙏🙏🙏🙏
One thing about The Makhs. 1.they are going to be transparent. 2. They are going to talk about the most uncomfortable but NECESSARY topics.. love this about you❤❤❤
One of the many reasons why I'm stucked on their channel.
The private school situation is real. My parents used to remind me time and again that we can all afford for you to be there but we cannot all afford the lifestyle that is expected there.
Love this!
So true
I loooooove this
Dear future spouse, the season of financial challenges could be a refining process for US. Keeping the end goal in mind will be key
My husband and I made a choice in the type of lifestyle we want for ourselves and our future kids and the one thing we remain resolute with is to stay away from environments that will put pressure on us, be it family, schools, friends, church and the likes.
We are human and we may find ourselves diverting from the goal, so being aware of our surroundings is also very crucial.
Men hardly have the pressure that women feel. Eish we have self inflicted pressure maan and I found myself loosing focus, until husband brought me back to my lane and the Holy Spirit.
God worked on me shame and I'm happy now.
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I can relate🌷
He sold his car,I honestly think that is the most romantic thing ever. What a sacrifice hle!!!
True, for a young 22 year old man, that’s huge. 🤗♥️
Selling his car to pay for lobola was not a red flag hleng bathong 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
And he loves cars we later found out, hai it is very romantic
"we dont depend on jobs / projects and careers for provision/ sustainability. we believe that God is the provider,God gives us sustainability. God gives us the wisdom to create wealth"
🙏 amen
Indeed, amen 🙌🏾
This statement restored my faith 💕😇
If These 2 Think Imma Listen To Them Speak For An Hour?! They're Right! 🤗🤍
Can't Wait For The Wisdom That'll Be Shared Here.
These people are just so warm and it's heart melting😣❤.
I cant believe Mrs Makhs got retrenched and in the midst of it all she started pouring out so much of herself on Yoitube . Talk about finding purpose in the storm. if you may Mrs Makhs , may you kindly share that journey with us. ♥️
Its Phetola always saying "I love what you saying" for me; imagine dishing out wisdom and your bae is outhere loving what you saying.........can I get married already!!! yall are good kannete
Small compliments actually go a long way, I also love those.... don't have to get a huge achievement to get a compliment, small gestures coumt
Like , I love them
I really appreciate your vulnerability in sharing your life experiences 🥺❤
I often find love leaves the chat once the man is broke, regardless of how great a partner they are. The fact that your wife stayed with you speaks highly of her character. That's rare today, especially amongst young middle class black couples. You guys are blessed beyond measure and will reap the rewards of your sacrifices. Thank you for sharing your honest truth.
"I am allowed to live a different life" ❤
25 minutes in this it got me so emotional 😭 and reminded me of my journey
This conversation is so deep guys. I just saw the stats from the WHO, which show that SA is in the top two countries with the highest suicide rate, and men are the most affected. The idea that men should be providers is so outdated and is quite frankly a false presentation of our world today. We need to normalise the role of women as co-providers, and not shame men or put pressure on them when they are unable to provide, temporarily. Unemployment is the reality of both men and women. Your conversations are thought-provoking.
Edit (I comment as I listen 🤣)...you guys are spot-on, on being aligned, and managing your desires.
I was about to comment on the suicide stats and saw yours instead. As a man, I can tell you that it is SOO REAL!!! Worse part, we are 'supposed' to be strong and not talk about it lest we are seen as weaklings. Growing up I never understood why seemingly healthy men in my community committed suicide. I foolishly use to judge them but now I have a sober understanding of what some them went through. Losing your ability to provide and have the person you love walk out on you as a result is really traumatic.
I'm so encouraged about your testimony. I'm in that season where I my faith is being streched, lost my job due to Pandemic and business is going so slow at the moment. But I'm okay because God is in control and there is a purpose from my story. I like your saying "Its okay to start afresh"
You're doing so well guys. Love this for you ❤
Thank you so much fam♥️♥️
Being in a season where my husband and myself are faced with having to restart, this hit hard.
God bless you guys, wonderful work you are doing ❤️❤️❤️
I don’t think I’ve came across such a vulnerable, relatable & authentic couple on UA-cam before.
I love all these uncomfortable conversations that most couples sweep under the rug. I’m learning so much, please don’t ever stop learning us
And these are eyy. I wanna be like them when I grow up.
Oh wow God has intended for me to hear this really. I am currently going through a start, I had to go back home and start over without a job and yesterday was one of those days, my heart was heavy listening to this podcast gave me courage and renewed my strength. Love u guys so much, I always relate to your topics even though I'm not married as yet. *side notes* Pheto's rapping skill is on another level, love the new look and feel. God bless u❤️❤️❤️
trust me god is with you, trust the process.. whatever you do dont give up! you will get back on your feet aagain. life is a rollercoaster
I'm actually emotional watching this....you guys have no idea what you just did for my marriage....Thank you😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️🥰
Sound is perfect, well done fam. We're growing together 🥳👏🏽👏🏽🖤
Oh wow, I keep saying that I love the couple's authenticity and honesty! I keep coming back to this channel because it just speaks life into relationships. You really do have a good thing going on here and I wish you nothing but all God's best!
You guys are bearing fruit and its so beautiful to watch. In the future, can you please bring some single people and have conversation. I think that would also be nice for us single christian people.
Thank you. Lots of love
Mr Makhe sir, when wives were chosen, you woke up early. 👌 What a kind, supportive and wise wife. 🥺🙌
Honestly how I wish there was a voice recorder when you want to comment this instalment was just everything it was emotional 😭,it was giving hope, it was encouraging, it was motivating its was everything thank you guys for the great content, thank you , may God richly bless you and your territory ❤️
This is so refreshing, this is so meaningful!! It is so great to see a young black couple talk about real life experiences that are not Instagram picture perfect. Conversations that remind us that not everything is instant, it’s all a process & the most powerful thing you kept saying is “It’s your story”. Thank you so much for this. May God continue to bless you for doing such important work.
Phetola can you please share your corporate/entrepreneurship story. I relate to the confused 30 something year old ....you touched on.
This was so good! I’m not married yet so I love gaining this knowledge early! God bless you both❤️
I'm a 28 year old single guy and I am so happy I have found this channel ❤ I literally cry everytime I watch your videos😭
I am learning a lot from you guys for the present preparing for the future .💕
I can relate, that was the best period to reflect your manhood. Must have been hard, it's even still hard to hear but, we can only connect the dots going backwards. Big up mans 💪...
HEY!THIS INSTALMENTS REALLY GAVE OUT CHILLS. SO TOUCHING AND I'M GLAD YOU GUYS DID THIS.
I am here, utilizing my lunch hour wisely
Looking forward to the wedding cost topic💃
Love this! You can always start again, AGAIN! 🔥
Oow wow, this really blessed my heart. I have learned a lot
Another awesome one L👌🏾💫🙏🏾🌹, sooo inspired🙏🏾
All I'm going to say is as quick as people were to get on you about the sound in your last podcast, I want to be even quicker in saying you guys sound amazing this time around. Thank you for all that you guys do, and please never forget that you two are greatly appreciated :)
I love how relatable both of you are, I have watched a couple of podcasts but you guys are bringing something fresh, le dese thata. ❤
My wife is my flex 🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️🙆🏼♀️ijooo modimo send us such people AMEN
You definitely are relatable. Thank you for being transparent, I’m learning so much from your channel. God bless you and your family
I love how relatable you guys are!. Thank you for pouring into my marriage ❤❣
Grateful for your content. It's beautiful seeing a couple practice their spiritual talents and sharing them with the world. Your work is appreciated. May you grow
This installment was such an eye opener for me especially the part on starting over
Same
“It’s your story” love love this.
Another amazing instalment from The Makhs, am not married yet but I learn so much from you guys and I am definitely taking the notes.... I felt like this relate with me. I do whatever it takes to show up for myself financially, and I don't live to impress people❤❤❤love it, love it,, love it🔥🔥🔥
I have never been this excited and just looking forward to The Makhs 🥺🙏🏾❤️
Appreciate the translation 😂
Much love from Kenya
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I'm definitely sharing this, thank you guys for sharing this wisdom with us. ❤🥺🙌
The sound is definitely better.. Thank you... I didn't want to comment on it on the other video.
Thank you! 🎉🎉🎉 we’re only getting better♥️🤗♥️
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Thank you for this. Finances play such an integral part in a relationship- they either make it or break. It's not always the absence of money that brings issues, it's the lack of common vision/stance on finances that does. Transparency is key and it is important to share common values within a relationship.
Even for a single person, the thoughts you share apply to my life. I've learned so much from you as a couple and as individuals. Happy 11th wedding anniversary and thank you for the great content.
I appreciate how honest you both are in every conversation. Even when admitting the most difficult things!!❣️
wow amazing couple I have came across with. I truly love your openness, how you communicate, just amazing blessings guys.
One thing about the Makhs, they give transparency and honesty. I can imagine how much it takes to be vulnerable in front of strangers on the internet but we learn so much ❤️
God bless you guys, this is definitely your ministry and calling 🙏🏽
It's the transparency and realness for me! Loving this content and the couple!!!
your vulnerability is everything. thank you so much for sharing so much of yourselves.we appreciate u so much
Hellllo dream team. Reporting from first comers
Yaaaay!!! Thank you Kaptein♥️♥️
Beautiful story even for those couples that are recently married, that we all start from somewhere and that small beginnings must never be despised. Thank you for being truthful, transpsrent and trustworthy.
Thank you for this topic it's almost like God drew me to put aside what I was doing and put the Makhs on. At this stage I'm going through financial struggles like you Phetola I'm bringing in the bacon but I always say there's a reason my hubby and myself is going through all of this. So thank you for the encouragement 💕
This is the first time I'll be commenting but I've been watching alot of the installments and I love love love them..I just want to say thank you for speaking about things that everyone can relate to..I'm a 22 year old from Namibia and I can earnestly say that I've learned so much from the you guys..Keep being real and keep praising God❤🤞
loved this guys, thank you so much for your transparency and not holding back from sharing your personal experiences❤
Totally loved it. Learnt alot from today's conversation ❤! KNOW Your Vision!
first time watching and wow😍
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Thank you for all your love and support! ♥️
Always here for the wisdom and inspiration. Also looking forward to a shout out some day.😀. Much love from Ug.
Most inspiring and Spirit filled. Been amazing and loving every bit of every video. Somehow we think we are the only one going through stuff until someone else shares.
Watched the interview with the parents yesterday and this video just seals the deal. 💃💃💃💯
Thank you again. Appreciate your transparency and ability to share plus be open about stuff.
Revelations 12:11... And they overcame by the blood of the Lamb and the word of their testimony.
Love from Namibia.💕
To God be the glory for ya'll. This is amazing.
I love the part on debt... Bless ya'll. Nuggets of Wisdom!
I am so glad that i subscribed,you guys are worth listening to💖
Great instalment, fam. Onwards and upwards
If I could like this video 100 times 👌🏾, I relate to the story so much 😘.
This is such an important thought and thank you for providing your experience. I think a lot of people go through this and it’s beautiful to shed some light on it. Not that I’ve gone through it but that I’ve seen it in some of the relationships in my family. But I think what I take from this is that it’s so important to have the same vision and for me to see that in my family and how it has worked over years is really what gives me hope. Hearing your experience from both sides is liberating. I know I’m talking all over the place, but really thank you for really going deep and just being real. Thank you for this thought. Really love you guys.
You guys are amazing - so truthful and so real. I enjoy your content so much because of the truthfulness and your realness. You guys are so relatable, I love that you don't try to paint a perfect picture but the real picture. Thank you guys!
I felt Lerato when he said There’s no way I went through all this for nothing, I refuse! Omggggg! I loved this video so much. God bless you both and your family, thank you so much for sharing. You don’t understand how much this spoke to me
Ooh I love you already guys, am a new subscriber yeah💃💃💃💃
Haaay maaan you guys 😢😍your honesty and transparency 🔥❤
This was so real and thanks for sharing your story. It's so enlightening indeed. You guys rock...💪💪💪💪💪
The realness is insane🙌 wow beautiful content, I'm inspired ❤️💕💖 wishing you all things good
This couple is so inspirational honestly ❤️🙌
Vulnerability is the only bridge to build connection. “Brene Brown”
You guys are truly amazing. Thank God for your lives ❤️
As someone who's going to be in the boat of marriage soon, I really appreciate your content and I wish I could just sit down with the 2 of you and just have a moment of learning from all this wisdom that is in you. If there's anyone who's grateful, it's definitely me 🤗👏🏽❤️
Same
The fact that you responded to the call over your marriage and are ministering to us with your testimonies is nothing short of amazing.....Trust that I make everyone on my contact list feel guilty for not checking your channel out lol.
I m blessed to be drinking from this well
This man lives by faith and nothing will deter him from seeing the hand of God working upon his life.
This episode was insightful!!! Thank you.
Another mention 🥰😊
I keep learning everytime I watch this channel, May God continue to bless you and keep you for us❤
Agh love the new intro!!!!!!!!
Wow! Thank you guys for sharing openly. So much wisdom and it goes to show that God uses anything and everything to mold us and shape our character. It is beautiful to see you guys being so close when you have been tested so much. Remain grounded and beautiful as you are😇❤
One thing about ous Pheto SHE WILL DRESS UP!!! ❤️❤️❤️😍🙌🙌❤️
Seeing this video today, was divine appointment. I'm officially a new subscriber. Thank you for this honest, insightful and powerful discussion. You guys are doing the Lord's work. That " take care of the now" is the gospel 🙌 Blessings
I love you guys, thank you so much for this meaningful conversation!
I love love this..thank you for been very honest .God bless your family🙏🏽❤️
This is beautiful.... A new subscriber here and I am learning and growing from listening to this first potcast😍
Thank you for this topic. As a young man whose about to be married I am glad I watched this. My biggest lesson here is ,it's Okay to start again. Big ups Mr Makhs for putting your ego aside and riding for your family.
Thank you for sharing. You guys are so amazing! Love you both 💕
Enjoyed this installment so much. I appreciate the transparency. I respect you two.
the kind of content I signed up for. Thank you guys.
Today's installment was so encouraging in many ways. I loved what you said about starting over. That it's okay to start over. Don't live by abantu bazothini syndrome. It's your life, do you boo! I have also started over in my life and trust God that on the other side soon, I will tell my story of victory and success! Thank you guys❤.
Wow so good guy's i love it
You know 🤔we are so blessed to have you. I was never a social media person but I found UA-cam and I found you what a blessing.you can see gore you were both raised in a respectful, humble and well mannered homes. Ke leboga batswadi ba lena.