'I Tell Men To NOT Get Married!' -
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- In the $O$CAST Adam Sosnick discusses current events, trending topics, and anything related to money. In this short clip, Adam Sosnick, Hafeez Baoku, Coach Greg Adams, Allie Rae, and Natalya Delvalle talk about marriage.
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When my nephew announced that he was getting married. I noticed that not one guy congratulated him
Lol
😂😂😂
Nah man🤣🤣
Because men know the voluntary prison sentence they get themselves into with marriage
@@zeeski7454😂😂😂
Married men have always told me to never get married. In my 38 years not a single one has ever told me how awesome it is.
I remember meeting this one dude named Lance about 10 years back who really seemed to be happily married. At the time, I remember asking him several questions about it. I took more of an interest than I normally would in that kind of thing for some reason. It's only recently that I realized why. He was literally the first American man I had ever met who was married for more than a decade and happy about it...
Same. I am 34. Not one man, maybe 1 and he cheats on his wife hah, has told me to get married.
I’m not getting married ever, and my mother is totally fine with it, that’s all that matters to me
38 here too. The mens never told me how bad their marriage is. But often ask the question why you’re not married? And now begs the question, why ask that? Thats simply because why even get married, in the first place?
Marriage does not benefit the men. And not at all. Therefore, if guys want to dive into their own grave. Well good luck!
The same happened to me. I’m 30, I was married before and now I understand why they all told me not to do it.
Because marriage takes patience and work. These days, people (male and female) give up so easily.
Greg saved my life.
Mine too
@@soulsurfer639 Mine too! I was listening to him for over a year, every day! I know every spot on his 'beautiful chocolate skin' as he says 😁 Thank you Coach for everything!
Most of the men I have known to be married got divorced. The guys I know who are still married seem miserable
Facts
100% the change of society has made marriage less desirable.
Very few men are happy in marriage, we just put up with it...I'll check back with this guy in 5 years
Hafeez blue pill asf, but he'll learn.
How do you know that?
@Radhia Deedou because I'm a married man with married and divorced men friends...
I'm on side of coach Greg because it appears to me that marriage is like playing lottery and we all know the chances of winning a lottery 👀👀👀
@@celsocosta880 chances of winning the lottery a much higher and Progressive chances of having a least a half decent marriage
My wife and I were happy for 25 years but then we met. 😂
Good one 😆
Oh Gawd...
💯
well you got ur care taker :) n cow
😂😂😂
Coach is the morpheus of our time
🌚🌚
the panel got CGA wrong. he doesn't focus on the negative outcomes of marriage to stop men, he focuses on it to warn men.
its bbq in there
HE IS A BITTER OLD MAN DUE TO A DIVORCE.
Actually I’ve been happily married for 2 years…. It’s called separation.
😂😂😂
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I am a 76 year old Vietnam Veteran, in my second marriage of 45 years , soon to be 46 years, the 26th of this month. I will turn 77 years old, next month. I was married the first time at age 22 years old to a woman who had a two year old son, I was the only daddy He knew. I didn’t have any children at that time. That marriage lasted 5 years. My first wife started having an affair with a guy on a
Her job and started putting me off sexually. I was faithful the first 3 years of my marriage. However, when I confronted my ex-wife , she ignored me. In retaliation, I started having affairs with other women as my pride was hurt. I know I was wrong as two wrongs don’t make a right and I didn’t want another man to raise my kids. However, it was nothing I could do. I have daughters age 54 years old, 37 years old, a son 34 years old and grown grandchildren as well. I am a Christian, but I was back sliding then. I have had love affairs in and out of marriage as I was out in the streets and I am not going to lie and say, I regretted having those affairs. When I was single, I didn’t like rotating women, it was a lot of work. There was nothing wrong with the women I hung out with, I just didn’t want to marry them. Perhaps, they didn’t want to marry me. Back to the point on my ex-wife: we had purchased two homes in marriage. My wife came home at 5:00 am in the morning one weekend, I told her it doesn’t take her all night, to give away leg and if she does it again, don’t come home. Well,
That next weekend, she did it again. I changed the locks on the house, she was gone. My ex wife had somewhere to go with the kids. She knew what she was doing, she didn’t want to be married to me anymore but she didn’t know how to tell me so. I filed for divorce as the marriage was too toxic. The judge awarded me the house as my separate property and I had to pay all the community property bills. As a result, I almost had a nervous breakdown. I use to work 12 hours a day and volunteer to work weekends, to keep the house out of foreclosure. I was able in time to get a male roommate who was divorcing his wife. The judge awarded my ex-wife our new 1973 Ford Pinto we had just
Purchased as a result of new her job. I had an 1967 Chevy SS Impala at that time on its last leg. My ex-wife didn’t want ahouse, she was attractive , had a nice body and wanted to party. She was 18th years old and really, too young to marry me. However, she did marry me and on her own free will .
She was not pregnant when we got married. I was too young too, but I gave marriage my best shot.
One would be a fool, to get married to get divorced. Moving on, I have visited the Coaches platform and Some of what He says is true. However, He is too the extreme. I would never advise young men or young women to never get married. It’s a personal choice. I would do it again, I don’t have the gift of being single. I believe in marriage, if it makes sense. I don’t believe in the concept of your money is my money and my money is my money in marriage. I will shout this out, marriage is a partnership, I believe in marriage, a man should have a functional sex life, your wife should be your best friend and companion and the marriage should be as peaceful as possible. Both parties,should watch each other’s backs. If you are a man or woman who can not be true to your partner or like variety of sex partners, don’t get married. Marriage is very, very hard and you have to believe in commitment and the marriage vows. If not , don’t marry. I believe a lot of men marry the wrong type of women, in most cases ,hot women don’t make good wife’s. I am sorry ladies if this offends you. Yes , they can change, but it’s hard when a lot of men Been hitting on them and they have had a variety of men sexually, they can get married and become bored and want and do go back out in the streets. No man or woman wants a boring sex life but things happen. Men in marriage needto stop placing their wife’s, kids and Grandchildren on pedestals. I know you love them, treat with them with respect, protect them as much as much as you can and above all, protect your self. Please set boundaries. Married men should not have all their money tied up in a joint checking account with your wife, as some wife’s and husbands, leave and take all the money. In marriage, husbands and wives, should each have their own money in their separate accounts and there should be a joint checking account to pay household expenses in the marriage. Men need to stop living with women and having kids out of wedlock, not having a lot of kids you are unable to afford. If need be, get a vasectomy, I did. It will not affect your man hood. The young man on the platform,has a good attitude even though, He has not been married that long. Based on what He stated, he has had some good marriage role models in his family. Another thing men, a woman who is not your wife, is not obligated to submit to you, you are not obligated to submit to her. The Bible says they both should submit to each other in marriage.
It’s not good for men to be paying for women’s bills they are not married to. I know if you have a girlfriend, in a committed relationship, sometimes the man may need to help out. It’s not good for a man with a high maintenance woman who constantly needs or expects financial help, even if the sex is good. I know I sound lame, but the Bible says sex is for married people. I didn’t say it, the Bible says so. I am aware, there are always going to be weak men in life constantly paying and giving some of their money to women and some of these women, don’t like them and play them and weak men, at times you give these women and a lot of them are bad women, power over you. I also know, all men want to be desirable, including myself. But, please keep it in perspective. As I close and I tired of typing, men: there will always be another man out there that looks better than you, more romantic than you, better in bed than you, all you can do is be the best man in your relationship you can be and protect your self at all cost. Set boundaries. Women as well, it always going to be another woman out there that is more sexy than you that will appeal to your husband/ man. All you can do is be the best woman in your man’s life, you can. If either of you wants to play around, you better count the cost. Again folks, I believe in marriage, commitment, all marriages don’t fail. However, in this day and time, marriage can be very dangerous. If parties have substantial assets prior to marriage, men and women, should get a prenuptial agreement. It’s really probably not good for a man to mess around sexually with a lot of women outside of marriage. Guys, if you get a woman pregnant, you will have to support that child for a minimum of 18 years, you could just been having casual sex and got the woman pregnant. You could get VD or hook with a mentally unstable female that you keep hanging around with, because the sex is good, whatever the reason and I have done it, please be aware,Men, just check out paternity court and Divorce Court. Yes, I am aware that some relationships Just don’t work. If I was a younger man and wanted a girlfriend/marriage partner, I would be very careful who I dated and whom I would choose to marry. It saddens me when I hear about some men in sexless marriages or a man’s wife after child birth of their child, the wife doesn’t want to have sex anymore. This applies to men who do all the right things in their marriage. It’s unfair and we all know it would be wrong if a man would stop paying bills , if his wife stop having sex with him. The family would probably be homeless in the near future. Ladies, men need sex, please don’t abuse that. However, it’s sad, some of you women will. This is the situation some men face: the marriage vows one takes in marriage say: to death do you part or better or worse: case in point, your wife stop having sex with you, there are kids involved, assets are involved, you can go out on your wife to get your sexual needs met, get a side check or get a divorce. In most cases, you will have to sell or the wife and kids will have to stay in the house and of course, you will have to pay child support for your kids, which you should. In some cases your ex wife, will move another man in the house you or both sacrificed to buy in your marriage. Personally, I don’t respect a man that will do this. Sometimes, your ex-wife will encourage her new man to do this.This is very sad and not good. In all fairness, some women report that their husbands as well don’t want to have sex with them anymore after marriage. Both parties in the marriage should keep themselves as attractive as possible. Both parties should keep your weight down as much as possible and keep your selves as attractive as possible too.
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I have realized that living with a woman is the problem. Arguments happen more often,minor annoyances become serious headaches.
@@ShinkuGoukiDo you have any advice for someone who has never had a girlfriend? What are some do’s and don’t’s to look out for?
Coach Adams is the truth.
Coach is the adult in that room.
FACTS
I'm on side of coach Greg because it appears to me that marriage is like playing lottery and we all know the chances of winning a lottery 👀👀👀
Yup, sadly.
Bro, he's a legend of #mgtow, one of the oldest guy preaching redpill content, many have disappeared, ban... or dead!
Hit them with the marriage wheel coach, the marriage wheel is undefeated! Lol
What’s marriage wheel? First time hearing it
@@anonymousgh608 it's a graph CGA made and exhibits.
@@anonymousgh608It's on his channel, look it up
I love how people keep bringing up married couples from 40+ years ago as if times haven't changed drastically in reference to dating. zzz.
Yea and even they got divorced
@@NPFfumbi Or theyre completely miserable in their marriage 😂
Nobody married 20+ years is happy, and if they are they're the exception
THIS! R Pill is FACT because it is the HERE AND NOW. My boomer Chinese immigrant dad couldn’t fathom why I avoid marriage like the plague jt is, despite him not dating anyone since my mom more than FORTY YEARS Ago. Half of which is in the culture of Hong Kong/Chinese. Yet those like him speak as if he knows
Times haven’t Changed; Women have Changed.
Coach is right, I went through it and NO ONE WAS THERE FOR ME, IT'S NOT WORTH IT FINANCIALLY or SPIRITUALLY. I always ask people, ( have you ever seen
Thank you.............
And Charles Boyle from Brooklyn 99. Alan and boyle are the definition of "WHAT TO NOT BE"
Dude fr your finance AND spirit is gutted. This why I haven’t been in a relationship for a while.
@@far7romlan harper lives on his brothers coach(his brother is a bachelor)
Exactly no one is coming for us bro.
Me either, hell I didn’t even have no UA-cam videos to watch either. 😂
CGA is the only content creator that talks about this stuff that I listen to regularly. I don't even call it red pill content, but more like 'the morning after pill'
Exactly. The "redpill" is goofy af. CGA just spits logical information supported by facts and life experience
@@keithlangfordjr.689agreed. Coach is just stating the reality ppl don’t want to acknowledge.
Coach don't miss 💯💯💯
Check out legion of men as well
Check out legion of men as well
For my wife’s 40th birthday I got her a trip to Europe. For her 50th I’ll get her the return ticket.
🤭🤭...😎😎
🤯😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 You made my day hahaha Thank you.
Good sh8t 😂😂😂
@@UncleSwell707 that’s Rodney Dangerfield my friend.
That’s nothing my wife says I’m going to the beauty salon. She comes back two hours later I say “ what happened were they closed ?? !!“😂❤️
LOL
I clicked for Greg Adams & got some other dude whining instead.
Yeah, CGA dissapears when he's on these live panels. He goes soft.
Hafeez, you are using the exception to the rule argument. Sure, some marriages will end up happily ever after, but with a 50% divorce rate for 1st marriages, and of the other 50% 47% end up miserable then it is basically a 3% success rate. CGA gets the W here
Very very low success rate. It’s ridiculously low. As a Christian I can’t defend monogamy. I just can’t. Even people who do things “the right way” have failure.
@@JADiaz10 there is no reason for monogamy. Imagine how you'd feel if YOU were monogamous the whole time, turning down other women, only to find out your chick was effing other dudes behind your back, no condom. That would break most men
@@JoelGoose same Vice versa. Plenty of women prolly turned down just to find out their husband cheating like Beyoncé n Jay Z in the elevator. It’s just not realistic.
It isn’t just the 50% divorce. The real percent of longterm happy relationships is roughly 15-20%. Many people stay married but separated or live as unhappy roommates.
I'm on side of coach Greg because it appears to me that marriage is like playing lottery and we all know the chances of winning a lottery 👀👀👀
I won custody of my 4 kids believe it or not. I raised them by myself.
Brilliant 👏 👏 👏
Same here. 2 Daughters. Both 18 now. Had to Fight like All Hell but I'm a Ecstatic Single Father!!!!
Yeah it was a tough one. Luckily She was her own worst enemy
I won custody of my daughter 7yrs ago....
that's Not the Norm. and that's what they hide from Men.
Most men lose custody and that's why kids are lost without they father's 👀
Can’t lie after 2 minutes I can’t listen to hafeez….he needs a buzzer
He's drunk he needs to go home
a nice fist can be a buzzer for his mouth
100%
Never get married full stop
Don’t do it fellas 🎉
Hafeez is lost. he marries a woman and turns into delusional fairytale man.
There is no benefit at all to getting married. You can do the same things married, unmarried.
True. Take a good look at Oprah.
Naw not really.
@@JustinMartin-i4x then tell 1 tangible benfit that excludes emotions and feelings??
@@JustinMartin-i4xyou’re right. You can’t get divorced if you’re unmarried
Yes really @@JustinMartin-i4x
Men would be more inclined to marry women if they came with a cord that you could unplug to stop the insane chatter and endless demands.
Hahahahaha this one was a gem comment
*holy shit this was gold*
There is...just walk out of the room and don't come back until she climbs down. Do what women do...ignore them until they relent
The statement my mentor made when I was going down the road of proposing is "I see you love to travel...knowing that, would you board a plane that works 50% of the time?".
This poor dude has overanalyzed the marriage thing. His passionate defending of his decision is telling. Poor dude. Thinks he knows ALL the answers.......gonna learn the hard way.
What is he gonna learn?
CGA is the undisputed goat. It's not about marriage it's about the system and a pattern.
Get em Coach.
Mgtow is the way!
CGA speaks facts.
It's funny the people in the comments who announce they've been together forever - who are from completely different generations. lmao
If you and your partners were the kids today - you'd be just as screwed up.
FAX
Social media has changed everything.
Nice excuse. Go ahead and give up. Or notice what is against you and fight to procure yourself. Or just give up....
@@joshuamoore3515 I'm not giving up.
I'm running rotations.
Filled with wives; of dudes like you.
Have fun kissing her goodnight.
@@LavishPatchKid haha your ridiculous. My wife would take one look at you and die lauhing. No you don't and no you are not. You could never in a million years out pull me. I'm dying of laughter... thank you. Stay short, shriveled and salty my friend. 🤣😅👍
I can only think of 1 chick I should have married. And she was an extremely Christian chick who wore drapes as clothes and no makeup. Definitely a virgin. She was a decent pretty blond chick and married a very short Asian dude. She seemed like she came out of a Time Machine. I literally cannot think of another girl I would actually marry. Dropped the ball on that one.
Coach is out here saving lives!
CGA🐐🔥..Its funny how dudes who defend marriage have eithet never been married before or have been married for just 2 years..lol
If women were expected to assume the same risk as men, I wonder how many would consider marriage? My guess would be less than 10%. When asked why I don’t want to get married my response is a simple one. If I agree to get married, will you assume the financial risk if it fails? How many takers do you think I get?
When I told my grandpa I’m getting married he asks me who I’m getting married against.
Married against 😂😂😂
Your grandpa is a wise old man.
Hafeez is nothing but Tony Robbins style emotionally appealing BS. His arrogant filibustering is annoying.
The divorce industry industry needs to be held accountable. In the Nordic countries the marriage and divorce rates are the same as the rest of the world but men have guaranteed access to their children and alimony is fairly distributed. People don't go broke going through a divorce. Fix that and men will come back to the table, IF they're still interested.
@JabariParker-zw1oo Damn that's deep.
I assume eventually almost all men will know the facts and the divorce types will have to go out and get real jobs.
Every time i'm with a female, i feel like i'm downgrading. When was the last time you felt uplifted and empowered being with a woman?
They intentionally lefy out the part where Coach handed Hafeez his ass to him.
He won’t shut up because his arguments are weak
The guy earring the blue suit talking too much is just some amateur simp male who’s in love 😂.. he’ll find out the hard way..
Started working as a golf course starter at a country club growing up for 12 yrs. Heard it all. 90% of men would seek us out to say “NEVER GET MARRIED/ marriage sucks”. Heard it every day 🤦🏼♂️
Hafeez is annoying Af
This title is misleading. Coach Greg did not say "I Tell Men to NOT Get Married" in fact, he said IF that's the path you choose, "Do not get married without leverage".
Stop misleading your audience with disinformation.
Facts
But the COMMENTS say don’t get married
This dude is so emotional his wife gonna leave his ass for SUREEE HAHAHA
except for my parents who got married 40 years ago......... i don't know any men who are HAPPY AF...MARRIED!!! FOH
If you want to be married forever ♾ go overseas in the East! Never marry an American woman. My parents are from Kenya 🇰🇪 married till my dad passed away 35 years. This is my opinion! Love CGA!
Go overseas I agree but be careful as say the beautiful philipina might expect you to finance her large extended family? Also if you bring her back to the states she might be infected with feminism ?
Hafeez is too long winded. He repeats the same point over and over.
Yeah like a woman
Hafeez speaks too much.
💥💥 I just watched the documentary about this woman who hired a hitman to kill her husband so she can collect the life insurance, lucky for him his friend over her the conversation and informed him and the husband informed the police and the police and husband staged his death and they had his wife on camera laughing after they showed her the pictures of him being fake dead. She ended up getting like 20 years of prison. I don't see why anybody would want to get married when you have risks like that I would just not deal with that type of BS.
There is exactly no benefit to a man getting married in today's age, women hold all the cards in everything. That's her house she's deciding what the kitchen look like she's going to decide what the bedroom look like she's going to decide what type of wall paper and cabinet you put in the bathroom etc
She's going to decide what to buy during holidays heck she's going to decide if you celebrate Christmas you may be a guy who like myself is not even into celebrating holidays but I'm forced to celebrate it because she wants to celebrate it.
Y'all go to the movies you mostly going to go and see what she wants to see. The man spends far more money in the relationship than the women does like I just don't see the benefit of marriage for men.
And also when you get married you have less sex than a guy that's single because your wife dictates when she wants to have sex.
Then there's the financial stability like me I'm a single man, I work two jobs all of my money from both of my jobs go to me and to me only. I don't have a wife I got to spend all my money on and I don't have kids that I got to spend all my money on.
I'm sorry but I just don't see the benefit of a man in today's age getting married it makes no sense to me.
Preach
There are women being killed by their husbands too and far more.....
You've told us everyone else's story and everyone else's failures but don't seem to know how to create a winning strategy of your own.
100
@@kristenmoonrise first of all i don't know what you're trying to say with that comment. I myself at the age of 15 didn't want kids or marriage. I recognized at an early age that that was a life i wanted.
I'm one of the few smart ones. All the money that i make from both of my jobs goes into my pocket, it doesn't go into some brat lazy gen z kids pocket or some entitled Western wife's pocket. it goes into my pocket. I buy what i want to buy, when i want to buy it.
Imagine a man getting married in today's era, where he constantly has the worry about government and divorce court over his head. And a wife that he has to cater to 365 days a year.
Also like Coach G says and you can look this up. 80% of divorces in the United States are initiated by the wife.
Marriage is a scam and I'm so glad more and more men are decided not to get married.
Greg - preach brother, WE need you
WTF is Hafez talking about. That was just verbal diarrhea filibustering.
Divorce is sexist towards men. Men should avoid marriage at all cost. If anything, sign a prenup. But I reiterate: men should avoid marriage at all cost. ✌🏾
Prenups are not a guarantee. Most prenups today are overlooked by the Court. If you live in a no-fault divorce state and are married, there is your prenup.
Handicap yourself and invite 4 people that don't have your best interest in mind, the trator, judge, her attorney your attorney and go
Because modern women marry lifestyle not the man.
@@Melissa.712 yes
Nearing 70 and never married. We must encourage young men to remain single. The traps and pitfalls that await so many.
I married at around 55 years old figuring that if I made a bad decision, I wouldn't have to suffer so long before I died. My cousin emailed me last night. He's getting married and he's 55 years old.
No reason to get married in the first place. A risky thing to do and a waste of time and money.
@@travelingdude1621 Hopefully she is old enough to realize that she'll never find another guy that will marry her because she's about the same sage. Yet, she'll spend time to help him out by keeping him company. She's financially secure too.
Marriage rates going down and that trend won't change any time soon, and the idea of guys being alone it's true, break ups, divorce anything and apart from being left alone there's also the element that people do tend to screw you over already adding to the whole disaster like a grenade with mini grenades inside of it. So it's definitely something to contemplate with utmost caution but hey some people say unicorns exist maybe... Just maybe... We could all find a unicorn. Bless
lol true which is why i wont marry or sleep with men.... :) or any other soul a bunch of selfish fks @JabariParker-zw1oo
If your argument is so strong then why do you have to talk sooooo much ?
Well, I've been enjoying my marriage for the past 7 (going on 8) years 🤷🏾♂️ So far, so good. Sex is still great. Joking around with each other is still fun. I get it's not for everyone but I like what my mom and dad had and wanted that for myself and just took the dive. We're both like minded in what we wanted and take care of each other. I truly enjoy it😏
Wow that was a very passionate and convincing argument against his own point.
Why not before getting married take half of everything you own, go to Vegas and bet on roulette wheel. Better odds. stop getting married. Wake up
Please never invite hafeez back.
Marriage is a worthwhile pursuit....in Asia
😂 exactly
Coach Gang!
and that's you
All i heard Hafeez say is "🐔🐔🐔"
We Love Ya Coach!!!! #FreeAgentLifestyle
GOD bless CGA!
Marriage
The beginning of the end of any great modern relationship
Glorification of marriage is the norm. "Nihilism" is the exception, outside of the blackpilled internet
Hafeez is just making ish up, on the fly
People who try and use big words to sound intelligent are usually not
Coachhhhhh in the house
Coach is my favorite African American!
Blue suit dude talks a lot !
No marriage
When someone says "Let's Get Married" they are not saying, let's have a successful relationship or let's have True Love.
They are saying Let's go to the court House and execute a legally Binding Contract regarding our financial assets and wealth THEN let's go to a venue and have a celebration party called a Wedding. You are legally combining all assets. That's why you need a CONTRACT.
19 year ago I stopped dating. Love it....
Sigh.....these tired lame christian Jordan Peterson talking points. Chosing to not get married is not nihilism. Neither is deciding not to be a pinta for a woman and the family courts.
Coach is too superior... only person that practice what he preach plus he does 2 live streams every week day. Nobody out working CGA, this was the end of Hafez that was bound to happen. Rookie vs veteran
This man always speaks the truth! Rolo just talks no real game behind it . His wife prob runs it at home .
3 men talking. 2 men mainly talking.... Who are you talking about? 😂
TELL EM COACH.👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🎯🎯🎯🔥🔥🔥
my folks were married 56 yrs until my mother passed they argued everyday. but that was a time when divorce was very rare. pretty much physical abuse was like the only reason they split. if they man got caught the wife sooner or later forgave
My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 years and have two children together. She is a 10 in every way even after two kids. She would never ask for a ring. She doesn’t need to. All a ring would do is rip my balls off. A woman would rather be with a man then marry a weak one.
Save your money, don't get married, don't live together, don't put titles on your relationship ( boyfriend/girlfriend). Friends with benefits ( have a few,friends with benefits are entitled to NOTHING).
Please don’t have kids
@@natlovell122why not? I’m just curious
@@NeeTrue I was asking this person to please not impregnate their friends with benefits so they don’t mess up kids lives
@@natlovell122 oh true. Kids do better in a two family home
@@NeeTrueThis is the furthest thing from the truth
Marriage without God first as its epicenter will never be marriage but a joke. That's why rejection of God has led to hitting many people's marriages pretty badly. Marriage vows can't be broken by a couple who truly love each other and who truly love God, because a vow to God is a fearsome thing. It just can't be broken once it's made. Forever... (Ecclesiastes 5:4,5 -King James Version: _4 When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed. 5 Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay.)
Hafeez said at the beginning of the actual interview that he didn't know who CGA was. But in this video, he asks him if he did a reaction video on him years ago. So did he know who he was, or didn't he? That should tell you all you need to know about Hafeez.
CGA IS THE 🐐
Hafeez talks soooooooo much
Marriage is old norm, move on people !!
As far as men looking for marriages are babies looking for something to hold onto, there were not advantages for men to marry.. it was never there, it just a social construct maintained by someone who long gone past. Now guys like this, looks up and example and find it and says that what we are supposed to do, when the fact is lot have changed.
Women are not longer a marriageable women, society has evolved that marriages does not form a common ground / purpose !! It just people are being dumb and following the age old tradition coz they dont know what else to do?
Regarding point of these guys discussion, My say is with time everything fades, and once your love or first days of glitters goes away about having partner and marriages, you have to face the consequence of that, which my friend, in this day and age, in this culture, is always against men.. ALWAYS !!
So if you are a men choosing marriage is like packing a box of choclates and handing over to someone with the hope that will keep you happy !! and in this culture of woke and feminism, you are almost always screwed !!
Coach, you are the man!!!
If an airline pilot announced there is a 40% chance this flight will land safely. Will ppl be eager to sign up for a flight? This is the same reasoning behind getting married in the US today!
Guys, YOU ARE THE PRIZE! Why would you give all of your resources, energy and effort to ONE WOMAN?
Why would you want the STATE to have rule over your personal life?
All it takes is for ONE incident of cheating or any other form of abuse to occur and alllll of those years together mean absolutely nothing in divorce court!
What’s hard about continuing to date the person you enjoy the most for the rest of your life? That’s what they say you have to do in a marriage anyways. Because ppl love POWER over another person. Nobody OWNS YOU and vice versa…..You become each others property in the institution of marriage. There’s no need for men to get married, women today are INDEPENDENT. It’s an outdated theme.
When this man said “roomates” and I know current people who’s divorced but forced to still live with each other cause this country is economically imbalanced smh. I always thought getting married young was dvmb.
I’m not against marriage. But I fear the consequences of divorce. I don’t find high divorce rates and what happens to men in family court to be highly encouraging.
I loved Hafeez on Howard Stern.
Howard - "Spell RED"
Hafeez - "Red? L-S-T-E-R"
I don't get it ???
Give him time. Young blood will eat those words. Clearly doesn't have a diverse set of experiences in life.
I am a man and certainly biased but I've seen so many damaged women hurt so many men I've known or met. The main pattern I see is that they [women] don't seem to understand or practice unconditional love whilst all along being verbally abused by women.
Not everyone wants to marry for the sake of things. I’m getting married to someone because that person appreciates me for me, we both work and succeed and support each other. Listening to those that say men shouldn’t be married, their experience is their situation. Folks have their opinions, you can’t dictate what a person does. I’ve had some men tell me to not get married because of race or just because, they don’t even know what kind of relationship a man has with their woman.
Hafeez is such a panderer
and a beta male.
Hafeelz
@@ShaunHensley lol that's funny
It's not just the financial element. Married men have given up, imagine not wanting to spend your life alone. That you need someone there constantly
Wouldn't you like to be with someone?
Your kids
@@jeevajoethy5945unless you get tired of them, and you don’t like them anymore 😂.
I'm not gayyyyyyyy
When men do find out that that solution does not work they are left alone there is nobody to help them,when men become bankrupt or when the court punishes men for that decision and their kids are taken away they are left alone. That hit deep😢
You get married before the ceremony reception and paperwork. I got married two weeks ago but I’ve been married for about 4 years