Why Most Men Are Suffering In Silence

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  • Опубліковано 28 лют 2023

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  • @davidmeulendyk1517
    @davidmeulendyk1517 Рік тому +166

    I didn't really realize that other men feel the same way

    • @marca7434
      @marca7434 Рік тому +13

      David Meulendyk .... It's very true and good that you now realise this. Now when you run into those 'angry for no reason' guys, you can see he's all torn up inside.

    • @davidmeulendyk1517
      @davidmeulendyk1517 Рік тому +6

      Yes, I met this man one day who was walking to Ottawa on foot with his dog and a cart right in front of my house. He was bringing awareness to mens mental health #project Jeb!

    • @davidmeulendyk1517
      @davidmeulendyk1517 Рік тому +4

      Because I have been through a lot, he could understand my story. It was a get split second moment in my life that I will never forget...

    • @Julianthebasketballgod
      @Julianthebasketballgod Рік тому

      Same!

    • @brodyboyer1619
      @brodyboyer1619 Рік тому +2

      @@davidmeulendyk1517 yea dave. Its ruff out here lol

  • @Bthustles_
    @Bthustles_ Рік тому +81

    This guy is what we all need .

  • @harsh1294x
    @harsh1294x Рік тому +66

    I needed that, thanks

  • @MrEugene13
    @MrEugene13 Рік тому +38

    Absolutely! Well spoken 👊🏾

  • @Afiso
    @Afiso Рік тому +9

    Exactly what my conscience was constantly repeating. So I took the step and went kickboxing. I feel so good now.

  • @stephenjones-sx1yv
    @stephenjones-sx1yv Рік тому +21

    Hey Bedros your an Inspiration mate. This time last year I was in a coma having been found by someone after attempting suicide who raised the alarm and an unbelievable medical team managed to keep me alive. I listen to you everyday, your part of my team even though we have never meet or spoken, keep up the great work 👌Cheers Steve

  • @newchannel5165
    @newchannel5165 10 місяців тому +1

    We need more men like you for boys who grew up without fathers

  • @Twistedpeppermint99
    @Twistedpeppermint99 Рік тому +7

    I have to show my husband this video..this is on point!

  • @MindfulZetta
    @MindfulZetta Рік тому +4

    Conscious Congruent Living Turns Confusion to Clarity! Word to WW 🫡

  • @Cromo505
    @Cromo505 Рік тому +7

    I suffer in silence because I do not want to burden others with my problems. Also I try not to speak negatively. Most suffering is self inflicted; and can be mitigated by a simple mindset change.

  • @swenswen4931
    @swenswen4931 Рік тому +4

    I'm 14 and this is great stuff

    • @NathanDaNoob
      @NathanDaNoob Рік тому +3

      Not saying this to be condescending, but just giving advice since you young, these UA-cam shorts podcast types are no good you or frankly anyone lmao
      Their main purpose is to get you on an email list, get you in a course, or sell you something.
      No one ever gonna teach you how to be a man that’s just something you learn about yourself with time.
      When it comes to general advice, all I can say work hard, make connections, get an education, take care of necessities, and work towards your goals, whether that be in business, in fitness, in the arts, or simply trying to live a simple life with some disposable income.
      Some folks try to make it more complicated than it needs to be lol best to keep things simple and go step by step.

  • @marissahumblytherealistone8950

    sounds about right to me 👍 this is for the Ladies too💯

  • @Sam_Menezes
    @Sam_Menezes Місяць тому +1

    Thank you 🙏🏻 so much BK for always add more value to us! We love you sir and just keep doing what you doing cuz we need that more and more! God bless us
    Peace

  • @gomeztheman1234
    @gomeztheman1234 Рік тому +3

    All this leads to vices and things in excess to distract you. Great points Bedros!

  • @bigboyjeans9198
    @bigboyjeans9198 Рік тому +4

    Description of this man’s life, bro!! Preach on brother!!

  • @Bruhne
    @Bruhne Рік тому +1

    Been training jiu-jitsu for nearly 3.5 years now. I’ve trained a bit of boxing, judo, and wrestling out of the same gym. Go grapple, people!

    • @Komodokhan148
      @Komodokhan148 Рік тому

      Same been training for 10 years and I've taken up kickboxing a few months ago

  • @jamesjustice4786
    @jamesjustice4786 Рік тому +2

    He is absolutely correct always pressure of some sort

  • @stefan7484
    @stefan7484 Рік тому +9

    That is so true, because its what I do

  • @chancewilks7390
    @chancewilks7390 Рік тому +6

    So we’ll placed, your are a leading voice that more of my generation and this new generation needs to hear. Thank you for your time and hard work! Inspiring other with your knowledge, wisdom and fortitude!

  • @haithammaki5810
    @haithammaki5810 8 місяців тому

    Am a man who was raised by a widow, dedicated her life for me and my brother, quitting her job as a principle of high school for the sake of us. My brother is a doctor. Me civil engineer.... We are from IRAQ 🇮🇶. Both men and women sacrifice evenly together for the sake of their kids. Both of them are suffering extremely up to their ass but just in different ways. It's the new conception of being self oriented that led to all this mess we are witnessing nowadays.

  • @stephenfermoyle4578
    @stephenfermoyle4578 Рік тому +1

    LOVE HIM why do men suffer in silence? it starts when we are young i see it..who do you think is responsible? i know ? guys are very simple and truly just want to be happy and it does not take much..but they are crushed early

  • @mortgagesbymadrid
    @mortgagesbymadrid Рік тому +3

    Yes we do! Thank you for sharing your mind. Keep up the great job sir!

  • @robertmedina3282
    @robertmedina3282 11 місяців тому

    We all need to hear this, and I’m no exception. It’s time to take action!! I’ve started hitting the gym on a more consistent basis. The next area I want to figure out - who will be part of my tribe?

  • @HackSquat27
    @HackSquat27 Рік тому +2

    Well said

  • @xentoro7861
    @xentoro7861 10 місяців тому

    So, so true. I just need to get out of this stump I’m in

  • @ElleS572
    @ElleS572 Рік тому

    Most 'people' are living like this to be honest.

  • @antoniovazquez1550
    @antoniovazquez1550 Рік тому

    Some of the Realest shit.

  • @JMI559
    @JMI559 Рік тому +1

    If I was congruent with my inner voice id be a sinner😒

  • @yupdatscookie
    @yupdatscookie 7 місяців тому

    Absolutely profound sir.

  • @ddbulley3
    @ddbulley3 Рік тому +7

    Love this and it makes sense. I've heard you say it before and all I can say is that when the wins come in from personal decisions, life is better.

  • @Deep_Matter_Analysis
    @Deep_Matter_Analysis Рік тому +3

    I love being left alone and don’t suffer in silence but rather rejoice with my silence to be creative and do creative things that makes me happy even if it is putting scratchs on my body./ stop saying most men when you wanna refer to yourself because yourself is the only person you know if we’re being honest here./!! 😊 #fact

    • @boxxjumper82
      @boxxjumper82 11 місяців тому

      Most men.. some fall into a weird category

  • @leighf181
    @leighf181 Рік тому

    This guy is clever as fxxk.very very wise man 🍾🥂🥳🔥 I've watched 2 or 3 videos n he's changed me already hugely its maaaaad.

  • @KOSHERBLAK
    @KOSHERBLAK Місяць тому

    Freedom money time

  • @theekshanaisuru3598
    @theekshanaisuru3598 Рік тому

    It's valuable,most times.but of cause.

  • @01corn
    @01corn Рік тому

    Amazing content. The US needs more men influencing others like this. Where did you get your hat?

  • @Thanked.
    @Thanked. Рік тому +2

    could you make a video on how my mindset needs to be to be more congruent with my concious? great video btw💪🏾

  • @bobbythespaceghost51
    @bobbythespaceghost51 Рік тому

    Great points.

  • @renwickwebster4491
    @renwickwebster4491 Рік тому

    Wow!!! He explained me 100% F__k the bull___, its time to be the man I was created to be.

  • @samor5027
    @samor5027 Рік тому +3

    I recently found out about this beautiful soul....so much to learn from him. it's actually a whole banquet listening to him....hoping never end. Lots of Blessings.

  • @rkerkins1551
    @rkerkins1551 Рік тому

    Facts!!!!

  • @patsilvia
    @patsilvia Рік тому

    Exactly 💯

  • @mlopez5384
    @mlopez5384 Рік тому

    Facts!

  • @galactica1980
    @galactica1980 Рік тому

    It doesn't help when we are told we need to be at X like winners and we are only at B or C.

  • @cthornton523
    @cthornton523 Рік тому

    Ha! I call that an integrity hangover. Loving this.

  • @justduder2142
    @justduder2142 Рік тому

    Yes.

  • @krownvikkhris3004
    @krownvikkhris3004 10 місяців тому

    On point, thankyou sir.

  • @reginstravels
    @reginstravels 9 місяців тому

    perfectly said

  • @thomaslawrence6353
    @thomaslawrence6353 Місяць тому

    It's called Clinical Depression and Toxic Shame, things you like to shit on. I had them at one point, but instead of putting $18k towards a fake boot camp, I found a good therapist instead.

  • @Rv-CreatioN
    @Rv-CreatioN Рік тому

    True lines

  • @cindyc2024
    @cindyc2024 Рік тому

    The theory of Carl Rogers. Discrepancies between the ideal self and real self is causing suffering indeed. We must work on diminish the gap. Men or momen. 🙏

  • @hugoangelcuevas341
    @hugoangelcuevas341 Рік тому

    Gracias 👍

  • @jasonneuvelt1777
    @jasonneuvelt1777 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing

  • @lonewolf-223
    @lonewolf-223 8 місяців тому

    I needed this but i got none of this welll thanks for everything ima leave this place

  • @vidajoy5114
    @vidajoy5114 Рік тому

    Just like my dad my inner soul was made to create us into something better.

  • @cook9648
    @cook9648 Рік тому

    Hanging on in quiet desperation is the English way

  • @pilucciluccinassi8504
    @pilucciluccinassi8504 Рік тому

    Real talk

  • @zanehubbard
    @zanehubbard Місяць тому

    I live with this guilt everyday

  • @jamesevenson7705
    @jamesevenson7705 Рік тому

    Love this guy and what his massages stand for

  • @ragequit118
    @ragequit118 Рік тому

    FACTS

  • @hiddenwoodsben
    @hiddenwoodsben Рік тому

    thanks man.

  • @BEASTMODE34.
    @BEASTMODE34. Рік тому

    Wow, this man here literally everything that I feel inside that is crazy. I just wish you know I could be lead the right way. I want to be a better me overall just pray for me guys.

  • @nobleman9393
    @nobleman9393 7 місяців тому

    Ok, back to normal.

  • @khalidkothiwale2
    @khalidkothiwale2 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for motivation brother

  • @kjcenteno5734
    @kjcenteno5734 Рік тому

    I can 100% agree. I been thinking about it myself why I have this urge to be more.

  • @frankmagallon988
    @frankmagallon988 Рік тому

    100%True Amen Praise God

  • @jessicaloox9979
    @jessicaloox9979 Рік тому

    Love this

  • @MylesA.M
    @MylesA.M Рік тому

    100% thank you

  • @purplehayes1993
    @purplehayes1993 26 днів тому

    Suffering in silence is this girls native language lol.

  • @jamesprice1677
    @jamesprice1677 Рік тому

    Damn man you absolutely right

  • @oldcrone
    @oldcrone Рік тому

    Women too

  • @bmonq
    @bmonq Рік тому

    Accurate.

  • @rahulisgreat4911
    @rahulisgreat4911 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @legodarthdavid
    @legodarthdavid Рік тому

    Facts

  • @byronoden2715
    @byronoden2715 Рік тому +1

    AAHA MOMENT.

  • @gbande75
    @gbande75 Рік тому

    Thanks

  • @Uppercut314
    @Uppercut314 Рік тому +1

    W O R D 💪

  • @SuperRkstar
    @SuperRkstar Рік тому

    true

  • @closecombatmartialarts6967
    @closecombatmartialarts6967 Рік тому +1

    🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @CodeMom
    @CodeMom Рік тому +2

    Women go through the same 😔

  • @juliobonilla2222
    @juliobonilla2222 Рік тому

    I'm trying to get it done brother 💯

  • @MrMugz-wd6hh
    @MrMugz-wd6hh Рік тому

    Hmmm 🧐🤔!👍! True

  • @rickymyers3103
    @rickymyers3103 Рік тому +5

    my teenage sweetheart and I got married. she had three tubal pregnancy and four miscarriages in the six years we was married. I cried with her at the beginning of each one of those then would stop, in front of her. however I was braking down crying in my truck on my way to work and coming home. when she divorced me she FUCKN SAID I DIDN'T FUCKN CARE! I WAS FUCKN DOING WHAT A MAN IS SUPPOSED TO DO!! BE STRONG FOR HER!!! FUCK I CAN'T KEEP TYPING THIS!!!!!!!

    • @marca7434
      @marca7434 Рік тому +1

      Ricky Myers ... That's really heavy and brave of you to share. Much respect 🎵

    • @brodyboyer1619
      @brodyboyer1619 Рік тому +2

      Take it easy ricky.

    • @rickymyers3103
      @rickymyers3103 Рік тому

      @brodyboyer1619 thank you my friend!! I'm a wreck. I've been in the hospital since Dec 19. I helped a lady that was being attacked by a road rager. I pulled my truck in between them and he shot me in the back while I was sitting in my truck. I'm paralyzed from the waist down. I can't pee or poop on my own so I get excited easily!! Thank you my friend and God bless you!!

  • @sojourndrummond2764
    @sojourndrummond2764 Рік тому

    It's working

  • @ShakerPapi
    @ShakerPapi Рік тому

    This is me to the T

  • @fernandafontecruz1573
    @fernandafontecruz1573 Рік тому

    People😊❤️

  • @iflyhelicopters
    @iflyhelicopters 11 місяців тому

    RAH 🤘❤️‍🔥🙏

  • @NightWolf767
    @NightWolf767 Рік тому

  • @ladyfame1430
    @ladyfame1430 Рік тому

    I have that as a woman. 😢

    • @FootballMogul031
      @FootballMogul031 Рік тому

      Find out who Jesus Christ is, and put your faith in Him 🙏. I’m here if you have any questions ❤️‍🩹.

  • @fredhercmaricaubang1883
    @fredhercmaricaubang1883 Рік тому

    Evolve? Like Pokemon?

  • @ALeXzoT
    @ALeXzoT Рік тому

    18:15 🔥🔥🔥

  • @mikethemask1525
    @mikethemask1525 Рік тому +1

    How exactly

  • @DillyThePickley
    @DillyThePickley Рік тому

    Thanks, but the man I want to be requires money. That money disappears as soon as it appears with how much I usually end up having to pay alone. How did people used to move out when they were 21?

  • @Julianthebasketballgod
    @Julianthebasketballgod Рік тому

    🙏🏽

  • @colesilva597
    @colesilva597 Рік тому +1

    Where can I buy that hat?!

    • @BedrosKeuilian
      @BedrosKeuilian  Рік тому +1

      You can get it at fewwillhunt.com

    • @colesilva597
      @colesilva597 Рік тому

      Thank you! I checked but I couldn’t find it must be all sold out. Bad ass hat I can see why

  • @godfearingchristianman-her4223

    Every man need Jesus.
    Say what you may but he is the only way.
    Dark days are coming. Don’t be fooled.

  • @fernandafontecruz1573
    @fernandafontecruz1573 Рік тому

    You are adorebel I m soory but I just like to complent

  • @tonightinareacode309
    @tonightinareacode309 Рік тому

    How? When everyone takes money from you so you can't earn any. And everything requires money.

  • @TheDisciplinedSociety
    @TheDisciplinedSociety Рік тому +1

    You must watch Rogan.....

  • @Sinner2Sinners
    @Sinner2Sinners Рік тому +2

    Its because you keep choosing your own way and not following God. If you really want to be better at anything, put God first then you won't rely on yourself or others because we all fall short. We are not perfect so stop trying to be. It's ok not to be ok. Focus on Jesus and your soul and the rest will follow.

  • @KINGKONG-lh2do
    @KINGKONG-lh2do Рік тому

    It’s negan !!!