How I Met My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2018
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Here’s all the proof you need. This is the “report” the officer filed. twitter.com/illymation/status/1279990200806961153?s=21
Hi illy I went to the Atlanta airport and i saw someone who looked just liked you going to LA on southwest was that you?
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Love your animations I thought this comment would have more replies
@@nxssie8736 that's creepy.
Hey illy I just want you to know that I am here with you like millions of others I hope you are okay ❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜
"Age is just a number"
You know what else is a number?
*911*
*anyways I started blasting* *FBI OPEN UP!*
Cue that song saying ‘9 1 1 1 1’
Jail is just a room
So true
Justa Bleppn’cat IM CALLING THE MEGA POLICE!
*_9111_*
“Age Is Just A Number”
*And The Electric Chair Is Just Furniture*
And a coffin is just a bed.
And decaying is just ageing
The electric chair is just modified furniture
-better yet: Killer furniture
oop
And hell is just a place
How 👏🏻 can 👏🏻 you 👏🏻 blame 👏🏻 illy 👏🏻 when 👏🏻 she 👏🏻 went 👏🏻 through 👏🏻 all 👏🏻 of 👏🏻 these 👏🏻 messed 👏🏻 up 👏🏻 things 👏🏻
PREACH 🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥‼️‼️
TRUE LIKE BRO SHE WAS _LURED_ IN TO IN, _LURED_ HOW CAN YOU BLAME HER
@@salehinmashooq8263 FR
@@salehinmashooq8263 FRR like MAYBE blame the predator, abuser, and pedophile in this story INSTEAD of the actual victim!? Just a thought.
Nah there is a youtuber that blamed HER instead of the predator 🗿
hi illymation, i know this is 4 years later and you may not see this, but this video made me realise what happened to me as a child was not healthy and, thank you. I know this video must have been hard for you to make, but when I saw this as a child, it changed my perspective and I was able to get the help I needed. Our voices need to be heard and this video helped me raise my voice after so long of denying what happened to me. I wish you nothing but the best in the future, and I hope you're doing wonderful
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You are so strong I’m also so happy there are videos like this out there to spread the awareness and danger. Everyone’s story matters and you are wonderful.
@@strawberrykitten2839what.
“YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR ANYONE’S HAPPINESS!!”
-JaidenAnimations
Jaiden was right. That method Haris used is what she talked about, and it completely manipulated Illysa.
yellowGalaxy25 ❤️
❤️
❤️
Darn right
You 👏cant👏 blame 👏children👏 for 👏falling👏 into 👏a 👏trap 👏an 👏adult 👏made
@Logan Coppler cringe
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
LOUDER👏
m8
LOUDER 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I was 13 too when I was put in a situation like this online. My friend was the one who finally convinced me to block them and get away. This hits close. I'm so proud of you for getting out.
The amount of times I've been told "you're the one who chose to talk to them!" Is too many.
It’s insane looking back on this video and how much it helped me avoid situations like this.
There have been so many guys who’ve talked to me like Harris did to Illy, and it’s because she made this video that I was able to see the red flags and walk away.
I literally can not thank you enough. This saved my life and countless others because you had the courage to tell your story.
period
SLAY
“we’re like romeo and juliet, okay?”
romeo and juliet was a 6 day relationship between a 16 year old and a 13 year old that ended in 3 deaths
6 deaths.....
Romeo, juliet, paris, tybalt and marcutio
pretty sure that’s five
@@ejohnston2543 while it is, if you are a minor, you should live by “if our grades don’t touch, neither do we.” So it is still, to most people, including me, as wrong.
@@ssnekky omg no I meant as in they both had around about the same amount of years in between. Like their gaps are almost the same amount. Im srry if u took it the wrong way. I am a minor aswell.
Haris: "Were like Romeo and Juliet"
So he wants to die?
Billy S Underrated
damnn noice
That can be arranged.
You spoiled the movie for me. I was gonna watch that (;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`)
HA
Gosh as someone who loves Shakespearean literature that made me feel joy :3
I remember watching this when i was 13. Im 17 now and im still taking her advice from meeting and getting trapped by people like harris. Stay safe everyone
I was raped when i was seven now im 18 amd was also raped in march of this year... I blame myself for all of it... Even if i didnt know what was going on at the time. I filed a report for the most recent one the police made me go through all this shit just to not even try to do anything about it. I felt so stuck. All this trauma caused me to have 5 mental diagnosises. And im scared... I really dont know how someone could do stuff like this. I 100% relate. Just know you are not alone... And NON of it was your fault...
Omg u okay
...I really hope you are ok, and i just need to tell you I understand. I hope you got help. I, a measly teen who didn't go through stuff close to that, don't understand fully. but I hope that you are getting mentally ok. it will take time and will, but hang in there :)
“Age is just a number”
*hell is just a big fireplace*
That he will be sent to and tortured for eternity
I mean is is just one big fire place where ya burn for eternity
Oof I just said something similar to that :/
Dying Karen ... xD awesome
lmao your pfp is from lomando right
"Age is just a number"
*and hell is just a place*
Is someone 911 years ol...
FBI OPEN UP!!!!!!
😭
triggster daymn
“Hell is just a place”
Comment: 666 likes
I saw this comment and it had 666 likes i ruined it sorry :(
Illy, thank you for sharing your story and raising awareness. I watched this series when I was 11. I’m 15 now, and by no exaggeration, you have saved me.
I’ve made many friends online and had multiple encounters where my “new friends” told me never to tell my parents. I immediately blocked and reported them because you taught me to. I didn’t learn this in school. I learned it by watching this series.
Thank you.
As someone who never got justice from *my* abuser, (He was 35, I was SIX. FUCKING *6* , he threatened to kill himself, AND HE ACTUALLY DID IT. HE SHOT HIMSELF IN THE FUCKING HEAD)
It makes me sad to know there’s people who went through something similar to what I went through..
My god, I'm so sorry about that. The world we live in truelly is an awful place sometimes
“Age is just a number” *WELL PRISON IS JUST A ROOM*
Come up with something original please
And hell is just a sauna
❤️
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Nah its just a building :/
“Age is just a number”
And my sword is just a weapon.
Zavier oh this gun?? Haha it’s just a weapon hahaha. Oh did I just shoot you Harris... *not. At. All.*
@@paintitpeachydontforgetthe539 w h a t ?
@Julya Flyer cells are just rooms.
And prison is just a room
And life is just a transition.
Ilyssa, you sharing your story honestly helped me SO much, 2 years ago I was being groomed when I was 13 by 17-year-old year also. It took me many months to realize that I was being groomed but hearing your story made me realize what a bad situation I was in. As the days went by I found myself being more isolated from my family and friends, I would always have to message and call him or he would guilt trip and even threaten me. Much stuff occurred within the time period that still affects me today, but thanks to this video, I eventually got the courage to distance myself from this person and block him. If it wasn't for you, this could've went on for much longer. So from the bottom of my heart, thank you.
Illy, I’m so sorry to hear you had to go through this, but I’m happy to hear that you’re doing better now and have been able despite all the trauma you’ve been through. I think I speak for everyone in the comments when I say I’m proud of you, and I wish you happiness, love, peace, and all the good things in life.
" *Age is just a number* "
And being *DEAD* is just taking a long *nap*
Yep
And I'll put him to sleep
@@proofz2310 but I wanted to ki- I mean put him to sleep
too long
A very long one...
“Age is just a number”
*and hells a giant oven*
Best comment Ive seen
@@--hr4348 it’s true though👁👁
And 911 is also a number
@@JaliceTheShort very true
Prison is just a cell
"Age is just a number"
"911 is just a number"
"Jail is just a place"
"A death sentence is just a thing"
Thank you for speaking out about this. In my own situations when I was a preteen / teenager, I made a lot of those same statements to myself regarding "I should have done x".
It took a long time for me to really address how badly it messed up my ability to trust, have healthy relationships, and understand what was or wasn't right for me.
I'm glad you're doing better now, sincerely.
"AgE iS jUsT a NuMbEr"
*AND MURDER IS JUST AN EARLY DEATH*
Hmm, yes the floor here is made out of floor
Late abortion
@a literal boxer that is also a boi did u have a stroke-
@a literal boxer that is also a boi sorry I don't understand minecraft enchanted table
Unless you have cancer
"Age is just a number"
The AK - 47 is just a realistic nerf gun
That is so true.
*inhale* YES!
911 is just a real phone number
You are so brave for telling what you’ve gon threw and I hope that you can continue using this experience as a story to help others that are in need of help so thank you ❤
I was in a relationship very similar (although the guy was literally the same age as me, & was in the same town) in highschool, and it's something that's so hard for people who haven't had the same experience to understand. The psychology of it is very hard to snap out of, but I hope to everyone who's going through this that they escape that situation. Control is not love, and abuse is not love.
Stockholm syndrome freaking SUCKS.
“Age is just a number”
And jail is just a place.
And years in jail is just a number
Stolen?
Derick Hernandez you know this makes you look like a creep right?
AMEN
And a blender to a face is just what Harris deserves
Age is just a number heaven just a privilege
“Age is just a number”
and jail is just a room
@ploess yep
Yiay is just a show
Ziestosti / Celebrating Halloween Early :D ❤️
Just an amazing response and I now idolize you
There thoo
I applaud your bravery and transparency. Very creative way of approaching this topic. You are making a difference.
“Age is just a number”
You know what else is just a number?
The amount of time you’ll spend in prison
U deserve more likes
*YES*
Also
A jail cell is just a room
LuxuryPranks already said that 😂😂😂😂
Age is just a number
Jail is just a room
‘Age is just a number.’
Jail is just a room.
Okay but people who use this as an excuse make me so mad! (This isn't targerted at you btw) "Age is just a number" only applies to CONSENTING ADULTS who have enough MATURITY to make the proper decisions about who they may feel attracted too. It'd about a 29 year old dating someone in they're 30s/40s. Not adults targetings children.
JustTypicall a good rule we can all follow is 1 year older and younger, maybe pushing it to two only under extreme circumstances but never 3
when im 30 or over, i'd go up to 5 years. but in my twenties and teens MAX 3.
True.
Inferno The Flame Lord I guess that rule is okay for children, but my parents are four years apart (mom is 40, dad is 44) and it’s fine. I think the rule doesn’t apply if you’re both adults.
This is something that helps my daughter memorize these issues for safety. This happened to me and as much as we talk, these videos help. I'm so sorry this happened to you (us) and you are helping people. Thank you
Illy I’m so glad that you’re comfortable sharing your story and I’m so sorry it happened ❤️❤️❤️
“Age is just a number”
*and murder is just an ACTION*
Ah, yes. Respond to a crime with another. It’s big brain time
@@kylemlgboss that’s the plan
@@alienwithapencil i love how you responded to the smart ass comment before yours. it made me exhale out of my nose. good job
@@vodkafarmer6591 woohoo I’m not a complete disappointment anymore
It’s not murder it’s pest control
"Age is just a number" -
Stabbings just aggressive poking
@Logan Roof no
@Logan Roof pls no
@Logan Roof i swear i found u EVERYWHERE. CAN U STOP? THIS ISNT FUNNY. Have u even watched the vid this isnt a parody.
911 is also a number
What happened
thank you for sharing this. i’m so happy that people like this live, or have the will to share these stories. you are such a strong person. keep up the great work 💛
I’m so so sorry…I know the words are empty when you haven’t experienced it but…Thank you for informing us about how this happens and sharing your experience with us so others and I can understand ❤
"Age is just a number" well jail is just a room. Thanks guys for all the likes. ❤❤
Dude, if you came up with that yourself all the props
Lol thanks 😂
Why do people say “aGe Is JuSt A nUmBeR” when obviously it matters in a lot of situations? Cmon, a 100 yr old is allowed to date a 11 yr old because aGe Is JuSt A nUmBeR
@@Nou-xx2bw ikr lol 😂
Cindy Bentle Age is just a number
“AgE iS jUsT a NuMbEr”
And Death is an eternal coma.
@@inactivechannel3004 sounds better ganna do it
@@sumdude-named-lemon you shouldn’t fear death, It’ll come and go when it’s your time. It’s best just to stare it in the eyes.
@@emmatheangeldevil3473 your correct unus annus helped me change my mind
That is some deep shit right there
yo you need somebody to talk to
I’m so sorry you had to go through this abuse, Illy! You deserved much, much better. Glad you can talk about these topics so openly and help so many people!
I was raped at the age of 9. This hits hard. Whoever is currently dealing with this, I’m so sorry. You’re not alone.
holy crap i hope you are doing well
"AgE iS jUsT a NuMBer"
*And prison is just a room*
"AgE iS jUsT a NuMbEr"
999
Ya know what else is a number
*911*
AnD A hOle Is juSt A pLacE
And the electric chair is what he deserve
666
"Age is just a number"
And a gun is just a hightech slingshot
Yeah lol
I made a similar post but i didn't intend to copy it
Not really a slingshot. It’s not slinging anything. Rather propelling through an explosion. I get the analogy though.
I mean...it is...
I'd say that a gun is just a high tech, but still non-lethal slingshot!
@@thebutterscotchkid2481 not a slingshot though. It's not slinging anything rather housing and then propelling. I like get the analogy though.
Aww poor girl. Please keep yourself safe. We are giving you all of our love and support ❤️❤❤
You're the first animator I've watched that's a UA-camr to actually give educational content in a video. Thank you for your bravery to make this. Much love from Fiji 🇫🇯✨
Age is Just a Number
You Know What else is a Number
911
for real its not that hard to inform the authorities of a predator instead of dating them for 5 years
That's nine hundred and eleven
for real @Dumbass the author explained in her comment that she contacted a lawyer and the police, who both told her she didn't have enough evidence and that if she tried to bring him to court SHE would go to jail instead bc the only thing she could prove is that she sent him nudes, which count as CP
@@dumbass1775 have you ever been in that sitiation
@@sylviawelch4819 thats now though. if she contacted authorities back then she coulda got him but oops she didnt know wtf 911 was at 15 years old.
"age is just a number"
yeah and jail is just a room
lolllll
Foxicorn Games ❤️
Exactly
Very well put!
Yep.❤
I think the whole world needs to hear stories like these, just so people in that situation can realise what they are going through and learn how to do something about it. Thank you for being so brave, Illy. It means a lot for the people that understand.
thank you for posting this.
i’m a victim of the same thing, and i always thought my story didn’t count sense it was online. but this lets me know that it DOES. it took my young childhood away, from 12-14 i was always getting harassed and had to stay up late bc they demanded to call me or for me to send photos etc. at the time he was “14” when we first met, turns out he was 15. so he was 17 by the end of it, but it was “ok” bc he was still a minor. it makes me sick to know this has happened to other people.
right now i’m 15, i still haven’t told my family bc it terrifies me. but i am going to trauma therapy for it. he cannot contact me anymore bc i blocked him on everything, changed my usernames/make new accounts. i even moved so that he wouldn’t know where i lived anymore. this stuff is serious, terrifying, and when you’re young you don’t think it’s as bad as it actually is and you play down ur feelings to js say “oh it’s ok bc….”
thank you for sharing your story, for people like me and way more will know that they’re not alone. i’m thankful to god that i didn’t stay long and had a way to get out. i’m so sorry you didn’t, but i’m so glad you’re out now. much love ❤
"age is just a number"
So is a prison sentence.
Also a jail is just a room
@@frequency726 also overused
So true, so true😓😔💔
But I still don't think a 16 year old should not be allowed to date someone older. Just saying.
BWBWAHHAHAHAHA DKSJSKS LMAO
"I was 13, just like many of you watching"
Me as a 21 year old watching this: "...well then"
Newbie Jun also you (maybe): is that creepy.....?
I'm almost 12 :>
I'm 11......
@@ms0_u same
『MaríaSol』 you should stop commenting ur age...
Thank you so so much for talking so openly about such difficult topics. And thank you so much more for telling us your personal
story in such detail. I‘ve heard warnings about these topics, but never have I seen what grooming actually can look like and how easily a predator can manipulate a child.
All of this must have been incredibly difficult for you, back then when you were still just a kid as well as now, telling this story and coping with such awful memories.
Many people don‘t understand how vulnerable a person is during their teens, teenagers often seem old enough to deal with things alone but they really aren‘t. And making them think that they have to deal with problems like this alone because „they are old enough“ might be a problem with our society, even though I feel like it is progressively getting better.
When I was 13 I had a lot of suicidal thoughts; my „friends“ in school made me think the world would be better without me. Back then I felt so alone and I wasn‘t at all capable of reflecting and understanding that they were the problem, not me. I totally understand that you too weren’t able to understand what was happening to you at such a young age.
With 13 I always thought I was old enough for everything, but I really wasn‘t. I get why you tried to deal with this abuser alone, unable to fully leave the situation. I‘m sorry this happened to you, I can‘t imagine how awful it must have been for you. I‘m glad you were able to cut ties with this asshole and process everything to a point where you are able to publicly talk about it. Again, thank you so much for this video!
Wow, I’m so sorry that you had to go through ALL OF THIS!! I can’t imagine being in this kind of situation… Thanks for warning us all ❤
"age is just a number"
hell is just a place where people like harris go.
That's mean what did hell do to you
and 911 is too
Quote of 2020
It has 666 likes lol
ParasikeUwU ummmm Harris sexual harrass her he is not going to heaven god is against him he’s NOT GOING TO HEAVEN
"I was just a kid! I wrote Harry Potter fanfiction!"
I'm just going to say adios and run away because you ma'am, have just exposed me
Dawnfell Dawnfell oop-
Dawnfell Dawnfell
I- BYE
❤
This is a yikes
XD
I found out from my counselor that someone doesnt has to be older than you to groom you. I was in a relationship like this for almost three years in high school, but since he was my age, i was in denial that he was grooming and taking advantage of me.
Please stay safe and know the signs. Its can happen to anyone with any ages
Illymation, thank you for sharing this information this has prob helps so many people. You are a trooper Illy.
"Abuse is abuse, no matter what color you choose to paint over it."
-PantlessPajamaDoodles
@Logan Coppler shut up troll😒
@Logan Coppler God what a troll🙄😠
The only part that kinda was funny 6:37
@@Deedee.EDG. what did he say now he already said dumb shjt
@@Blueskies2513 he said "that's good"
“i was 13 like many of you watching” * ill be 22 in a month * well i officially feel old
Lol. Outed ourselves here xD
HA! I’m 28 ....
TrashPiece OfShit I'm 23 with a child's heart.
TrashPiece OfShit lol I just turned 13
me .. i'm already 22
Illy, I have went through SA around the same time as you did. Coming out and telling your story to everyone must’ve took a lot of courage to make this video. You are so brave for making this series and me and all of your fans love you very much, and thank you for sharing your story and spreading awareness 💕
Hi!! Im 15 and i watched this when it first came out, i rewatch it regulary when im going through the roster of all of your videos. Ive had multiple people try to do this to me in the last 5 years and I probably would have fell for it if it wasn't for watching this video. Youve made so much of a difference in the world, love your content ❤️❤️❤️
Am I the only one who's kinda worried about Harris's younger sister?
@@millie-kg8xk...
*what does that mean*
@@millie-kg8xk I know that you don't want to be mean but if he was 19 and she was 15 then most likely he raped her. I don't want to offend you and I'm not going to be a Karen but some people might think you're trying to be offensive. Just a heads up
No you're not
@@oliviamightbegay
*Holy the pepperoni pork cheesus*
@@neptune8168 Well, in alabama you can date your family
"Age may be a number, but so is your prison sentence."
-SorrowTV
ANCHOVIES- Sorrow tv
Oh i know who Sorrow tv is
Or age us just a number and prison is just a place
That's a well known joke. He didn't come up with that
yo i watch him too
TYSM for sharing your story so others can be aware of what may be happening to them. Im so sorry you had to go thnrough that and for that long too. Your so amazing
Thank you for talking about this. I went through this and its good to see people talking, educating, and supporting people when it comes to this kind of abuse.
“Age is just a number”
*Breathing is a privilege that you won’t have in a few seconds*
"911 is just a number"
"Prison is just a building"
@@cuddlefish7798 "The Electric Chair is just a Chair"
@@paloncito1158 a sword is just a sharp metal rod
Edit: And the number of volts going through an electric chair is also just a number.
And women are just people living their lives, but you don’t seem to say that, do u?
Lethal injection is just a liquid
In 2018 when I was 14, I was groomed by a man who was 28. A few weeks into it I grew emotionally strained from that relationship and ended up telling my teacher about it. I had no idea how manipulated and brainwashed I was, so the teacher told me to look up stories of other children who went through the same thing as I did, what happened to them, etc. I was busy that afternoon, so I did a quick search and downloaded all the videos, storytimes, and documentaries I found about child grooming... this being one of them.
That weekend was my 15th birthday, and my parents (who knew what was going on) tried to cheer me up with a long road trip. They didn't understand that I wasn't ready to be cheered up, so I was unintentially left alone to deal with my emotions while they enjoyed the vacation. The playlist I'd saved was my only outlet. This was one of the stories that stuck with me the most, and I was captivated. It helped motivate me to leave this individual, something I'm still thankful for. I'll never forget the feeling I had, listening to the audio for the first time while staring out the car window.
I was lucky. I ran into so many close calls in which I narrowly escaped being lured, enticed, and raped. I had adults in my life who I could trust. If I stayed any longer, the anguish this relationship already caused me would have been much worse, and it still affects me and my decision making at 17. I come back to this video every once in a blue moon and whenever I watch it, I feel grateful and loved.
Illy, you helped a little girl dodge a bullet. Thank you. ❤
you are so strong for going through that , i love you.
Sorry to hear that :(
No one can hurt you again. I'm so sorry we adult didn't protect our young children.
You are so strong for that, I am so disgusted this even happen. I hope you are doing better now.
@Logan Coppler What?
you’re truly an inspiration to all present and future generations and you’re a great person!
I had the same age gap (he had just turned 17 at the END of the relationship tho) and I’m so grateful he wasn’t like this… yes it was a relationship but honestly he never asked or demanded for pics,respected my time,privacy,alone time, and respected my boundaries. I’m so grateful for that because this… wow
"Age is just a number"
You know what also is a number?
*9-1-1*
IK SHES AN IDIOT
@@Ammar-qt8io no u
Guys I live in nc cool
ummuath hayani
Hey chill she didn’t know what to do keep in mind that this started when she was 13 and she felt like she had to talk to him daily and do all those things, please don’t call people idiots, thank you
You don’t really have the right to call her an idiot considering the fact you’ve probably never been in an abusive relationship
As a 17 year old who has a ton of online friends, some of whom are indeed 13, if i even thought of doing something like that I'd be disgusted with myself.
Ok
@@alabamahome5640 Ok
@@alabamahome5640 Ok
@@alabamahome5640 Ok
@@alabamahome5640 Ok
Illy after watching this video I have known to watch out for ppl so glad ur doing better now and stay strong remember your fans will always love and support you
"age is just a number."
You know what else is a number?
911 😊
I feel so sorry for this to happen to you =( I’ve been groomed by 2 people witch it is so awful to hear others who have ever been through this. Stay safe girl! ♥
Person- age is just a number
Me- yeah and prisons just a room
underrated comment
You know what else is a number? 911 lmfao
Everyone has already heard that one.
fbi just a person homie
Why are you so cold hearted
I just want to thank you I pretty sure you saved me from getting into a situation like this so thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
Thank you for making these videos, they are eye-opening, and I think you can feel happy knowing that the knowledge you spread will and probably already has done a lot of people a lot of good
“Age is just a number” - BSSSS
Ok and Jail is just building
Age is just a number...
and so is a sentence
I mean my parents have a 20 year age gap... but it’s true that age isn’t just a number
"Age is just a number" gets a meme "umm I think the f**k not u crusty a$$ bi-
Age is just a number. If you're a legal adult.
So is 911
"We're like Romeo and Juliet" Romeo was 16... JULIET WAS 13!!
Big yikes
Well there is a verison where romeo is like 34 and juliet is like 12
Gg Seawing 17
Except Romeo wasn't a pedo
Was he
Romeo thought Juliet was hot and nothing more
I’m sorry ml.. hopefully your better soon nobody deserves this, im glad your taking it with humor. Im glad your better soon but there are a a lot of people like Haris, and I hate how they get away with it. it happened to my best friend it was during the times you uploaded these videos it helped her alot through it and I was the first person whom she told. She was 13-14 at the time and her groper was atleast 24-25 at the time, he made her send pictures of herself and made her mental health worsen. I’m glad she told me and I helped her throughout it, we luckily caught his acts but he disappeared, I’m very thankful for you and others that help people who are in these situations thank you.
"aGE iS jUsT a nUmBeR"
and my knife is just a utensil
And mine is just a sharp piece of metal.
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
And mine is a very sharp 3 pronged fork that can return to my will.
And my shotgun is just a *mechanical* piece of metal.
And a flamethrower is just an extreme lighter.
“Age is just a number”
And so is 1... 2... 3.... *shoot*
A
B
C
D
E
F
Gun
Dead
"If age is just a number, then sister amd brother is just a word."
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@@senzasmentalissues474 that's an incest meme
1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 paces, fire!
I’m so sorry you had to deal with all of this. It must have been very depressing. I want everyone that sees this comment to always know when they get kids you need to share all this information with them so this won’t ever happen. People are just crazy sometimes. I saw both parts and I’m so sorry u had to go through that. But it’s so nice of you to trust all your views and subscribers to listen to this very personal story of yours. ❤
even though it’s sad I’m glad there’s more awareness and education about signs of grooming and other stuff that can happen on the internet to let people know if this kind of thing is happening to them,thank you for telling your story ❤
F HIS PRIVACY 😂😂😂
Lol 🤣😆
That's gon be my new motto😂😂
And his chicken strips!
With all the things he's did he has no privacy! ☺
Hellokittysocutessss Family ssssffddwweeeer
The dislikes are probably from all ofHarrisons fake accounts
@Live 25 ok.
Live 25 cool victim blaming, dude
@Live 25 Well, she had no control. Imagine this was your life... how horrible it would be. If you're a teenager, child or adult. You are quite stupid, and need to learn. Not all people can stick up for themselves.
Live 25 Remember when she said she was scared that he would commit suicide? If she is scared how would she be in control of it? It’s not easy to do something when you are scared.
Live 25 she was a child!!!
AGE IS JUST A NUMBER BUT SO IS 911
At first, I thought this was a 9/11 joke
Can Can me too
jail is just a place
Can Can lmao same
AND HANDCUFFS ARE JUST BRACELETS.
'aGe iS jUsT a NumBeR'
yeah.. aNd jAiL iS jUsT A rOom
You know what else is a number? 9-1-1
I mean
You're not wrong
@@axothylest4417 God-dammit I was just about to post that :(
Well said.
@Gazaru Noaika wanna be? Whats your @. Could be any
Edit: wait.. its someone else wasnt it? OoF
I was in a situation like this for about a month before I cut contact, this was because I told my friend about some of the things the guy was doing. He got nudes from me, got me to do things I was extremely uncomfortable with, and threatened me when I broke up with him. Even though I'm out of that, I still feel the effects of that every day. The guilt of doing something so stupid. The agony of not being able to tell anyone without them either wanting details I am uncomfortable with or the embarrassment that could follow. I don't want to feel like just another victim, I feel like I'm too good for that, but it creates a cycle where I tell myself I'm fine, but then the bad memories pop up, and then I shut them down again.
My point is, you making this video is really helping me right now, you are expressing thoughts I've had for a while, and are a good source of understanding. Thank you.
5 years ago today this was posted and im proud. im 15 and this video really helped me when i was younger
Wow I'm so glad you're with Chris and not with somebody who... Looks... Like.... Me????
Oh no
IM SORRY those good Maaz looks just can’t be contained
**the illuminati music plays** conspiracy theory
hmmmMMMMM MAAZ WHAT?
TheAMaazing :00
Screams
i saw this video when i was younger and also on the internet talking to people. im grateful that you made this video so i knew and understood the dangers of talking to people online and in person in my every day life. thank you for speaking up and educating people about things other people dont talk about
"Age is just a number."
A knife is just a piece of metal.
TORTURE TIME BOYS!
And prison is just a room
9:46 Hearing her voice start to break sent shivers down my spine. This kind of abuse should NEVER be tolerated period.
It just makes me feel even more bad
nvm
I feel so sorry
@@Maid_Cafe yeah same
@@Julia.is.better_ same
"Age is just number" I always hated hearing that.
No. Age isn't "just a number". Age is the determination of how old you are based on how long you been alive. We use numbers to help count those.
If you are 34 years old then that means you been living for 34 years, not just "34". If I said "34" without any context, then that is just a number but not if it is used to describe the age of somebody.
I get some people like to use this to say "I don't care if we are ages apart, we still love each other". Which I don't mind if someone does as long as both people are legal age, they can date whoever younger or older than them above the legal age they want but age isn't "just a number" it's everything that I described above.
Just tell them that jail is just a room.
I say, "And prison is just a place"😊
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I am. So. So proud of you, we believe you and love you sm you're so strong and being brave enough to share your story can potentially save an help alot of people going through this situation. Thank you so much ♡
Illssa im so sorry. I went through something like it. Im very grateful you made this video. Im crying it brings back all the horrid memories.i hope everyone stays safe. And FAR away from these people.