Fundamentals of Grief after Suicide

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  • @seanx4095
    @seanx4095 5 років тому +4

    Thank you. My best friend ended his life in 2001, 18 years on still not a day goes by where I don't think of him. It's a life sentence, the pain never goes away! It has changed me and the way I look at life, the Sunday7th October 2001 changed my life forever!

    • @robbiecotner3666
      @robbiecotner3666 Рік тому +1

      Same I lost my friend in 2002. I don’t even notice the anniversary because it’s part of my daily thoughts, not something that comes and goes.
      You are missed John and your friends loved you.

  • @pammyt360
    @pammyt360 2 роки тому +5

    I’m a mother of a child who died by suicide and I wish often that I could do elective suicide. Prepaid my living kids, then got to leave. I’m sure they are stressed and tired of seeing me suffer. It’s complete hell and torture.

    • @samb8364
      @samb8364 2 роки тому +4

      Be kind to yourself Pam. I know the hurt and suffering you’re going through. I have flashes of my partners death. I sometimes think by dying i might join her. One day maybe I will , but it won’t be on those same terms. The world can be a dark place, my partner is my light and she guides me. Please reach out if you feel like you’re in a dark place. Know that you’re not alone.

    • @rotomwash0355
      @rotomwash0355 Рік тому +1

      This is where you lean heavy on your husband, the father of your kids. I pray he holds you close and you to he. Life is tough to get through alone.

  • @lisagiorgi3958
    @lisagiorgi3958 3 роки тому +6

    On 1-21-2011 I shot myself in the head. I still have that bullet in my head. My family disowned me and I suffer more surviving, than I did trying to die. My story is complicated, however I come from a respectable and decent life. I've never thought I had depression, as I was beautiful, popular and charming. I believe I stuffed down sadness, as a child and that dormant darkness surfaced. I don't think it's a disease. I believe it's our soul that is damaged and is ultimately why we can't heal. Any thoughts? I'd be honored to privately chat.

    • @cirrus393
      @cirrus393 2 роки тому

      I hope you're doing better now. My dad lost his life to depression last week and I'm completely lost at the moment. I think you're right, his soul was damaged from childhood and we've only learned now that he may have contemplated this for many years.

    • @rotomwash0355
      @rotomwash0355 Рік тому

      Lisa, I'm part of the people sorry to hear of your suffering. Sad to learn of your action - no judgement - and wish to be part of the chorus of people that support you.
      Life is hard and none of us escape it untouched by strife. I don't have answers for you personally but can offer to interact, to listen.
      Cheers mate. Here's to today finding you with a better balloon, a better domino, a better set of cards, something better, inside. Hugs, chief.

    • @kylekeen3497
      @kylekeen3497 Рік тому

      I'm sorry you had to go through that

    • @jcimsn8464
      @jcimsn8464 10 місяців тому

      Trauma and sadness can be impossible to overcome.

  • @beachblue6808
    @beachblue6808 11 місяців тому

    My husband and vest friend of 27 years. Struggled for his whole life with depression. He self admit himself in a It behavioral center under a baker act. Somw how he passed away there. I don't know if he did it to himself if they medicated him wrong,but this is the worst struggle in my whole life. You think that they're safe and a facility like that and watched over. They didn't discover him dead for twelve to fifteen By the estimate of the autopsy. I can't believe I dropped him off there.

  • @paulmiller6647
    @paulmiller6647 Рік тому +1

    Thanks very much in regards to the presentation of this video a quick note I've already subscribed. Best of thanks for the presentation.

  • @tinamann3400
    @tinamann3400 Рік тому +1

    Thank you ! It helps so much to listen and learn I’m not crazy !

  • @lilafeldman8630
    @lilafeldman8630 Рік тому +1

    I wish that I could have had a doctor like this when my father died.

  • @kyleray9633
    @kyleray9633 7 років тому +1

    Thanks for putting this together.