BTT #89 - Average Single Mothers - Above Average Demands
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- Опубліковано 17 січ 2021
- In this before the train wreck, we take a look at single mothers with some examples, what their true value is on the marketplace, the sense of entitlement, why that is, and how men can avoid making a train wreck out of their lives by putting rationality ahead of lust and adopting a mindset that facilitates their own mental point of origin.
We will be taking call ins on this show from men & women, so subscribe, and hit "set reminder" on UA-cam to watch live.
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Jesus christ and you facilitate race mixing.
Will do! Do you have a specific channel to ask questions we have?> I am new to your channel
I’m 44, never married and no kids. People have tried to tell me i have no choice but to get with a single mommy 😳. I have ZERO desire to be around another mans kids
Facts. Don't listen to nobody just live your life and avoid singke moms like tge plague they are
Enjoy life, brother
@@alphapimp0073 there always have 3 men in their orbits some even have 4 🍆😂
Ditch those people ASAP!
Plus its very difficult to raise someone else's kids.
I’ve dated a few single moms in my life and this man is absolutely right STAY AWAY
I ended with one unfortunately a friend of mines lol !!!
This channel saved me a lot of trouble in my life. I was engaged to a single mom, saw this content, opened my eyes, and dumped her. Truly before the train wreck.
If you listen closely, do you still here her screech at night?
Dating after 40 has made me absolutely hate single mothers. HATE.
So happy I found this community a while back life has been great ever since thanks again 💯
You know they’re probably white supremacists right
@@theclassicsnob5670 what are you talking about?
@@GotUrRain I think you know
@@theclassicsnob5670 people can be proud of whatever race of their own, and no one have any problems with that, i'm not white, and find rich's advices for men's outlook for life are applicable to men of any race, education, and political views
seems like when a man puts himself first he is a white supremacist.
Why do I get the feeling that all 3 callers won't heed his advice.
Its because advice does not help. People are not ready to do the work. You need to keep watching these videos many times to get it in to your subconsious mind.
If you plan on having kids then plan carefully. If you don't want kids then don't have any. Its a choice. 🙏🙏🙏
My advice to the guy dating the single mum with the 20 year old kid, who's in the way all the time and behaves badly, would not be to break it off with her. But to break it off with him. Don't go round her house anymore and tell her why. Only see her away from him. Put in some boundaries. If she don't like it, THEN you break it off with her.
Man no joke I laughed right before you when she tried to blame you for staying in her abusive relationship. I'm not saying that she wasn't abused but almost every girl I've ever met online has been abused in a relationship. It's like a prerequisite. She needs to take ownership for her mistakes. She's just looking for someone to blame.
A women take ownership of for their mistakes 😹
all women use the victim card, never talked to a woman whose ex didn't abuse her
A lot of it is projection too. They tried to change a guy by being abusive and he wouldn't take their shrt so they call him abusive. Big red flag as we all know, chick's that talk bad aboit their ex
Reality is, she enjoyed getting bnged by the alpha, she just got disappointed he left her right after, so how does she frame it in a way it's not her fault? Oh yeah, let's just say he was abusive, anything to avoid accountability
C'mon man we don't know a better joke than that😂😂😂
The first caller sounds like she doesn't believe anything she's saying
Agreed 100%
it sounded like she was answering every question with a question...
She’s 21
Man I had a short LTR he called me a c#*t 5 times over 2 months all while I was paying for half his living costs. Mother never once corrected her son. This child, who has a m/illness, was like a wet blanket of misery over the house, for about 4 years. He threatened her, and punched in my kidney while my back was turned, she supported him, not me.
NEVER get involved with a single mummies. It is like making a deal for the Devil
The crazy ex is a big issue. Even bigger than the kid. Her judgement? Well, some lunatics can play the long game. Whether women like it or not, a lunatic ex means they're damaged goods. If you get involved, that guy is a direct threat to your health, wealth and reputation. The kid is one albatross around her neck, but the crazy ex is another and he's also around your neck. You don't know what techniques she uses to the placate the guy and you don't know what she might tell him about you. You may not learn the reality until you're well involved. Single mothers are a red alert on multiple fronts and should be avoided at all costs.
BS. The "crazy ex" was 99% of the time made that way by the single mom. And she'll do the same to you if you give her half a chance.
I was born in Seattle in 1973, where I grew up. Japanese-American. Male. A typical nice guy, good guy, and a nerd. So, when I'm 25, all of these desirable women pass over good guys like me, and they get pregnant by, and sometimes even marry Chad and Tyrone. "Chad and Tyrone are SO much more manly, studly, fun, and exciting," they say. Then, Chad and Tyrone abuse them (which I DON'T condone). Chad and Tyrone leave them and the kids, and leave them hanging out to dry. THEN these single mothers want her and her kids to be "rescued." Who do they FINALLY go to, to rescue them? The Ichiros, the Changs, the In-Chuls, the Tuans, and the Khamphengs! (I am Japanese-American, so I can say these things). To my fellow Ichiros and Changs: If they won't take us in their prime, we should not take them in their decline!!
Single mothers always got snacks!🤣🤣🤣🤣
My experience with single moms, of which I never ever even looked at (including my ex-wife), is that I almost always connected with the children as friends. That pissed them off.
My brother was dating a single mother. She had a 5 year girl. My brother was with her about 9 months. She was telling a story and let it slip she had another child (son) from a previous relationship. Was not even gonna mention it 🤔
Been listening to BTT since almost the beginning (and then backplayed the episodes I missed). It's really great to have the call back format in. It creates a longer and more free form listening that often raises issues that otherwise may have been missed and hearing live real life examples adds value to the content of the advice.
I’m always learning from you, and recommend your work to my friends. You deserve millions of subs
Dated two single moms the worst experience of my life never again learning alot from this channel working on myself and working alot and hitting the gym eating right taking time to not make the same mistake over again
"Trying not to knock her up" I am flabbergasted at this level of stupidity.
If I was a baby in the womb and a genie came to me to give me one wish - one thing I can control about my birth/upbringing it would be "I want my parents to be married and stay together forever." Being born and raised in a nuclear intact family is the best predictor of EVERYTHING that matters - happiness, health, grades in school, mental health, future relationship success, income, etc. And it cuts across all other variables. Race, culture, or whatever.
Damn dog you're getting around!
Definitely. My baby momma said that her "happiness" was the most important thing and I frequently got in the way of it... so "get lost!" nevermind that our daughter needs her father.
Please bring back the single mom voice, classic!
Another great podcast Rich! Love you bringing back the callers.
I cannot stand the fact that there are so many single mothers
Are you UK John? It’s to easy to get a house and benefits for the single mommy’s! Add the social media with all the thirsty guys boosting there ego.
@@BuffaloBilly69 No I’m in the U.S
Can you stand the fact that there are so many single dads?
@@user-lz2mt5nc9e no 50 percent of men do not have kids
@@alphapimp0073 So there are fewer single fathers in your opinion? That makes no sense, who made the single moms pregnant?
I think these call ins and trainwreck videos are Rich at his very best. If you want to see the consistency of message of Rich's book vs what he says to callers and advice given, or even interactions in general then it's right here. Bravo and personal thx from me Rich.
So pleased I listened to this. I am now going to put videos out over the next week of a higher quality. Chasing goals on my purpose!
Love your vids 😎 I always hit the like button before I even watch the vid. You helped me stay away from toxic women lol. My favorite line from you is "Woman don't care about our struggles, They hand out at the finish line and pick the winners 😁 THANK YOU 🙏
@ Rich, you were both frank and very kind with your questions, analysis and advice for HC, the 21-year old girl from NZ.
Yes, Rich, the calls are definitely a great feature for this show!
Im happily married, but damn I love how Rich is helping the male community. Bravo sir..
More like profiting off their insecurity and selling them soap
@M P Women here. After watching his few video and reading some comments, I've realized how wonderfull person my husband is😅 we were always good much but life happens so we had some hard years but still together and overally happy. My husband is nothing close to those bitter men here. Great father and husband. I am lucky women. So yes, in some way he've helped me to see what's out there left for other😅
good appraisal of hc. Straight talkin' Rich - good to see it from the other side
I ordered The Unplugged Alpha im so excited to read it. Learned a lot from you and Darius M. Have put the Alpha mindset to work and much better off.
Rich this is pure Gold. I’m pushing my friends at the gym to purchase your book for their teen boys. Life saving!
Shoutout Rich, thanks for inspiring me to start my channel. So much knowledge from this one channel, thanks
You had me at 1:09:55. Spilled my beer, thank you Rich.
at least the asian girl is serious and trying to better herself. she doesnt party, goes to school,. I like that you suggested that she amp up the feminity, looks and body.
She should become a lesbian
Beauty.
Kindness.
Empathy.
Loyalty.
21:50 Hit me up, am near Wellington NZ white 38 Y/O male, grew up in HK and like asian girls. . openly and proudly stating that you are not a feminist just earned you your first foot in the door.
For a second I thought I was listening to a Kevin Samuels broadcast. Imitation truly is the highest form of flattery.
Applause for that girl calling
Brave to call but I feel this is how clueless women are all over. No hard hitting questions asked but man she had no idea how to answer what she brings to the table. Channels like this are at least finally teaching men how the dating marketplace really works instead of confusing people about how it "should" be.
I wish I would have started to watch your videos before I would have remarried. Going through my second devorce. What a shot show
You know, it’s great that a 21yo girl has watched Rich’s channel for five years. We should be celebrating this, because she at her age is a rare, rare breed in today’s world. If she heeds the advice and continues to shut out the societal conditioning she should be okay. Kudos for having the ‘balls’ to ring in, too. Good job.
It's great she listens in but she seemed to have learnt nothing.
@@0ccam5Raz0r
She was nervous. Understandably. She still spoke better than some guys in their 30’s who ring in.
@@VoiceOfThe but she made all the mistakes that Rich has warned against all along? You could tell Rich was being kind as she was detailing how she had mentally narrowed her own dating market with the same old feminist unrealistic ideology. Any average girl that believes her value has increased with age and education hasn't listened.
Fair play for calling in but after 5 years of listening they were the same classic mistakes any modern woman makes.
@@0ccam5Raz0r it's not that I believe my value has increased, it's more than I can't control who I like and don't like. I thought I could "overcome" being hypergamous and not be so shallow, but I can't. So I asked for advice.
I also don't want to put all my eyes in one basket. If things fall apart, I need to be able to pick myself up, right?
@@hannachoi3084 Hannah, the harshest truth Rich hid from you was when he said the men you liked were the "top 10%". If you've heard him before he's said many times that guys in the bracket you're looking for are actually more like top 2%. He was trying not to completely discourage you with a stat like 1 in 50.
Bottom line: The more you earn and the older you get, the less you'll accept and the less you'll be accepted.
I'm not bashing you. Fair play for listening in and calling RC. The problem is not necessarily your intentions but the system and the embedded ideology that society is enforcing and you're subconsciously adopting.
I don't know what you look like but Rich said average. Nothing wrong with that but there's a problem if you're a 5 but find men who are 6s or 7s don't cut it.
21 still gives you time but don't wait it out.
We need more content!! Love this channel man
some men have a very difficult time saying no to women, espeically hot women - they are programmed to be susciptible to guilt and sex and both can be extremely powerful.
Pure gold pure gold especially the conversation given by the young woman
My ex wife claimed her ex husband was abusive and left her and her 1 year old. Turned out to be all lies and the man was a marine and stationed overseas. I didnt find out til years and 2 kids later and we divorced. She took him for 8 years back child support and took me for child support on 50/50 custody. She has since remarried and claimed not only was he abusive but I was abusive. Ive been in and out of court for 6 years now whenever she wants something and I dont give in. This channel hits everything spot on, please dont make the same mistake I did and follow the advice of Your fellow man who has been there. Keep up the good work and keep the videos comin
This is such a great episode.
Great honest advice to HC, hope she listens and follow some of that.
That part about the single mother looking to the child as a source of unconditional love sent chills down my spine for personal reasons. Twice in my life I was in relationships with adults raised by single mothers and seen how that mentally poisons the minds of children and unfits them for later relationships.
The first was my first fiancé. Yes, the mama’s boy effect can happen to daughters too. The second was my first boyfriend (yes, I’m bi). Whether son or daughter, the mother can’t bare to let the child go and sabotages the relationship.
It’s called “emotional incest” where the single mother latches onto the child as a surrogate for a romantic relationship. Like the mantis, she ends up devouring her own child.
Great episode Rich keep it up!
I'd like to know when this podcast streams live so that I can attempt asking a question or at the very least 'smash that like button'. I sincerely appreciate the content.
That last dude, calling in for his homie, what a champ.. that's brotherly love. I hope he takes your advice and goes to the family courthouse.... thanks Rich.. truth bombs. The truth hurts folks.
if a guy being simped like that, i doubt he is going to listen to his friends advice.
Hey Rich. To quickly zoom in on Word hold the control button on the keyboard and mouse wheel scroll in and out.
Hey bud love your videos and it taught me so much. I can't have kids so adopted 1 and date a woman who has 3. I also have aspergers syndrome. The whole time I've had an attitude of fall in line or be seen as a failure. Its what I was raised on...with a social/autistic disorder and the inability to connect with anyone on an emotional level has hindered my ability to care about anything But also reaffirmed my ability to teach. The kids hate me but know I'm the law and both the parents have cucked to what I say. The kids might say they hate me but when it comes to brass tacks I'm the one they come to for advice, not to get pat on the head and just told the truth straight. I stated that one was about 20lbs over weight and she cried and called me horrible but has since lost all the weight and is average. Had the chat with the one boy about girls not being into fat kids and he is still fat but not eating as much snacks...I know I'm kinda the exception so I don't want anyone to think it can be like this cause it won't....ever lol but I say stand firm with your values and if your taking someone who has other kids don't be afraid to toss them aside for someone better when the time comes. Don't let them call you daddy...thats how they get you and don't ever care about them more then you...your own children or your family....as long as they know they are second best to your own kin and always will be they are only getting their owms medicine
Thanks i knew about Michael Hill! He was my professor in Oxford and told us about FBC14 algorithm!
Is he saying, "Don't get a degree and focus on beauty cues"? What if the guy decides to divorce her after giving 2 kids and marries his young secretary? Shouldn't she have some backup plan?
Also, housewives usually have long, drawn-out and very contentious divorces since their future is bleak without any job prospects and they want to get as much as they can from the divorce. Also, their market value goes down a lot as a single-mom without a job and Rich advocates not to date single-mon let alone single-mom without a degree or a job.
So, isn't it in our best interest to look for a girl with a degree and also has a decent job(not a stressful job or high career job) but also feminine and takes care of us and the kids?
I used to play the blame game, then I quit doing drugs. It was hard, but since no one had held me down and put drugs into my body, it was up to me to quit. I was the only person who could, or would stop me from taking drugs.
I do find it admirable that you're your own producer.
I never dated a single mother, I was raised in a single parent household. All I saw were red flags before I was redpilled, once you experience it for yourself it's hard not to ignore the telltale signs.
The problem with HC is that she's going to come out of university with a huge debt, she's likely going to want everything she said in the show plus someone to pay off her student loan. That's a HUGE ASK that not many men are willing to fulfill. She needs to focus on what's important, if she wants a family she doesn't necessarily need university.
Have you noticed that every time a woman calls, Rich's awareness mode goes to 100%? I can see the black alert message and lights screaming in his mind. This is the way, if you want to survive these days.
My dog was with me for 19 yrs., got 13 yrs. out of my truck, and 8 yrs. with my ex girlfriend. I loved 2 out of 3.
Absolute fire as always
1:05:49 " Okay when you see my hand do this and it goes up high on my body?!"
"That's not a good sign!" Classic Rich Cooper. Hahahaaa
Just because someone disagrees with your views doesn’t mean yours is right. I’ve read rational male. I’ve read tactical guide to Women. I can say Sean T Smith helped me out way more in distinguishing quality women. Rollo? Hardly at all
This is got to be my favorite video from Rich. I cant stop laughing. 🤣 Rich is just a savage dude.
Slot machine & V coming out LMAO..
@Alex Hish Your comment doesn't show here for some reason, so I will post in general hoping you will see it.
I am on the radar, but I'm not interested. If I was interested in looks maybe, but I'm not, so I dismiss them. I have women trying to flirt all the time, but I cut it short and move on. Other than looks they have very little to offer. Their looks were making them go through life on "rookie level". I preffer women, who had to work towards something, instead of having it handed to them on a silver platter. BTW - what I described is half the girls (if not more) I went to college with. I honestly prefer women who are less attractive but inteligent and fun over those instagram influencer wannabes, who other than looks (adjusted by makeup) have nothing to offer. Looks fade, inteligence and personality does not. I like to travel, hike, backpack, lift, camp and I DO NOT like to go to overpriced hotels, restaurants and blow 10k on a trip to serbia to see a girl with a personality of a soggy biscuit.
HC... as a single professional guy in New Zealand, the market is awash with single women. But I like Asian chicks... the average Kiwi gal are far too entitled. Hit me up, if you can keep up.
Other than her race, she basically described herself as the average Kiwi girl...
Yeah brother, 19 in nz and it’s not easy going
are you making 200k a year and look 10 out of 10
The Fun Zone never ends..203 mph in a Ferrari WICKED!!!!
My sister had a great philosophy when looking for the desirable man to marry. She stated if i am going to be attracted to that man and want him to be attracted to me I have to become that woman who he will be attracted to. She found her man in college they both graduated in 1986 then got married, and have been married ever since, raised two boys and three girls 4 have graduated college with a B.S. degree or better with the youngest just finishing her first year of college.
Listening to the call with John an it all suddenly makes sense: These kind of guys are why Joe got elected.
There is a reason why in all ascending/advancing cultures the male-female traditional roles hold sway, and in all descending/declining cultures they don't. Which is also why Western Civilization has 2 generations to go, at best.
@@RK-db4oq Yeah. Looks like we're gonna have to do this the hard way. We could have done it the easy way but nope, hard way it is.
Nice try, but read about FBC14 algorithm first
Good stuff👌100% true
Rich your the best I can't stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"I'm married and my boyfriend" - did anyone else saw the underlined idea.
*un married
@@coleh7235 oh I misheard it then.
Thanks 😊
Raw dogging hahaha. Love the video
Great video. Hopefully more women call in for advice.
Good to hear the 7-11 year gap thing. My husband is 11 1/2 years older than me. We met on a Christian dating site and neither of us wants kids. Never had abortions either. The obvious key to finding the best partner is to look for someone with good character and morals.
Nikki H
Genesis 1:28,
God’s first commandment to us.
“Be fruitful and multiply...”
You cannot be Christian and ignore this commandment.
Bro you legend 👊
Nice video! What about FBC14 algorithm review?
the friend is Myron Gaines talking to an onlyfans girl
thanks for the heads up, making me realize there's really no accidental children, they were results of women who just can't make good hard decisions and take ownership of the results of their shitty decision making.
“I can get weed” haha i love it Rich
With what Twitter has been doing, should stay off of it.
Never get a Twitter account.
i never got a twitter account and from what ive seen its not a decision i should regret
Good. Show Mr Cooper
Love your channel, read your book, amazing! Quit the call ins. It’s too damn painful to listen to the callers
Alfa Romeo Giulia is a BEAST.
It has a Ferrari V6 engine and I would pick that car any day over a BMW M3.
I agree with about 95% of all this but to say a man who gets with a single is only ok with it because he's desperate or unable to have kids is like forgetting that a single mom is a person with a personality that someone can actually like I've seen it many times with friends and family so I know it's possible
It does happen, but it comes with you falling into her life, which means she pretty much runs everything. You have to accommodate to her lifestyle from her past choices she made, it can work. But it's almost so much work. Then just dating a single woman no kids
6:20 ... HILARIOUS
Like button smashed
That Jonathan dude has got his head on straight at age 24.
The only single moms a guy should ever consider are those whose kids are grown, gone and successful
Author, the best thing you can do is to invest in FBC14 algorithm and dont worry about rates
I wish I could afford Rich as my coach. Thank you for the content brother it helps me tons.
24:11
She likes masculine men, and yet she went into a relationship with a male feminist.
She complains about him, and yet she chose him, no taking of responsibility here, as usual
Russian bears? Great advice. My own advice to friends is ;guys as we age tend to kinda, sorta in a way sorta look like Sean Connary as he aged. Gals kinda sorta, in a way sorta look like Sean Connary as they age.
For Zubair at the end, check out a book Called Man 2.0 Engineering the Alpha by Adam Bornstein and John Romaniello... almost required reading list worthy...
You are the best Rich