@@mollys7319 It’s kinda reasonable if you think about it. I doubt most people who haven’t seen this know this video exists, and not many are gonna go scrolling back 2 years to find it. Reposts so people can easily see things again because there are so many videos makes sense (plus more animators/artists get a chance) but I understand why you would be bothered by that or think it’s lazy and such.
@@gektoast4968 yeah that’s true and I completely agree, but I still kiiiinda feel like reposting old videos is a bit lazy. Yes not everyone may not have seen the old video, so putting it out there again is a way to get it viewed more, however I feel like they could of expanded on it and have a bit more information about the Myers Briggs test. I just feel like they could of gone into a bit more detail and explained it more. Especially because the Myers Briggs test is not actually a proven scientific thing, it’s normally just used as a fun/silly type thing. They made no disclaimer explaining it’s not proven, or anything. I also wished they would of talked a bit about the controversy about that test, because it is vague and it types people by letters rather than using the cognitive functions. They could of just gone into a bit more detail about it all, instead of posting the same video again, it just feels like they didn’t bother
@@mollys7319 it's aight . You can believe or not , i don't really care . I'm just stating the result i got from my test but if you want you can even go ahead and allot me a different mbti personality
@@ymir2372 and what test did do you? Let me guess... the 16Personalities website? The Myers Briggs test is incredibly inaccurate anyway and tends to mistype people. It types people with the letter dichotomy rather than using cognitive functions. So many people in these comments believe they are an INFJ but they actually aren’t.
INFJ's like fancy things not to show off or anything like that. We INFJs get those things for ourselves because we actually appreciate the finer details and craftsmanship of the fancier stuff in life. Also, INFJs in general like to work and earn their things, so it feels super satisfying when we get that fancy thing we've been genuinely admiring and enjoy it.
lol when i "look in the mirror", metaphorically, I do find it funny how I like nice things but I usually dont buy/wear them because I dont like the feeling of "envy" and I dont take compliments well. Example: I didnt buy Oakley Glasses to show off my earnings to others. I bought them because they look nice and they seem durable. if im going to make a commitment, Im going "all out" with it.
Well I USED to care about those things. A few years ago I started my minimalism journey (which does WONDERS for our infamous anxiety by the way) and giving less importance to social pressure, consumism, brands…. I still like to have quality items and I value that my (few) things have the aesthetic I like. But it doesn’t have to do with prices, brands or tags.
Me who buy fancy things because I admire them for so long find them interesting but never use or rarely use them and find happiness in little things Some random people: look at them showing off too much Me: stay calm on the outside My mind and my anxiety: wtf who is showing off I just wanted to enjoy things that I bought
I think the hardest part of being a rare personality type, is that you understand everyone else, but nobody understands you. To me it doesn't matter what you label it. The infj is but a single label for a very complicated and beautiful person. When you have a personality like that, you already know you don't fit anywhere and people have no idea how to deal with your authentic self. As a child what felt like being an exile hurt. As an adult I understand that not many are comfortable being unable to hide, or lie about who they are. Being transparent and vulnerable is truly terrifying to a large portion of the population, who only survive because of the social masks they've learned to wear.
Yes, INFJs are very complicated. It's true when you understand everyone else, but nobody understands you. And when you try to find people who can satisfy your needs/standards, you end up with nobody, (or at least I do). I also don't have much ideas on how to deal with my authentic self, I literally feel like walking on contradictions as if I was pulled to the left and right directions constantly. I want this, but I also want the other option, lmao
I once received a “comment” during an argument with my close friend: “I think I need more time to understand you. Longer than expected.” That hurt so much and I still haven’t got over it.
INFJ: everything is perfectly organized, my plans are made and now it's time to- Mom: hey aunt Hilda is going to come for the weekend! INFJ: *panik* my plans have been shattered!
Fun fact: INFJ are perfectionist about they self, but they are procrastinators Edit: Holy Molly, i see It just now, more then 1MI likes, it's the frist one of my comments that have so many likes, thanks guys
My coworker is such an INFJ. She uses a different tone of voice when talking to different people- Almost like she adapts to them. And she's always writing things down in her agenda. I wonder how good she is at reading peoples' emotions..including my own.
I was VERY SUCCESSFUL (bio tech medical device sales) - an outgoing introvert, most would not ever classify me as ‘shy’. But I would always quietly leave the after hours Party to get some reboot time in my hotel room. I made a boatload of money, yet as an empath, felt guilt for the high cost to ill human beings the medical inventions I sold were. I am complicated and been divorced twice. Both exes took 100% of the fault (both screwed up royally) yet I realize now how hard I was to be intimate with. They both told me years later that they still loved me. Crazy AF, huh??
Personally I don’t like being an INFJ because it’s easy to connect with people because you can understand them, and change ur actions to better connect with them. However this is pretty draining after a while. On the other hand it’s rare, very rare that you effortlessly connect with someone who understands you in that same way. So in the end you get to know a lot of people but not many people get to know you and it gets pretty lonely ngl.
1. They’re the rarest MTBI type. 2. They put the “book” in bookworm. 3. They know how to climb the social ladder. 4. They see things and understand them. 5. They love a good puzzle. 6. They’re classy AF. 7. They make routine un-boring.
One of my personal INFJ struggles is that I seek someone similar to myself in meaningful relationships. I expect people to treat me the way I treat them and when they don't I feel disappointed, but I shouldn't expect people to be like me for my own good, given that my personality type is so rare.
@@ejharriettegarcia5253 Exactly.. I treat people the way I want to be treated (Im always very caring, check up on people when they're going through a rough time, give them little gifts that remind me of them) and even though I do that because I want to, its sad when you get nothing in return.
@@ware0081 I'M NOT ALONE 😭..... But now I'm learning to balance things out.. Expectations hurt me. I don't initiate a convo anymore, i let them do it. I only give advice or tips if the person asks for it. And I minimize my outgoing energy if i know it's not worth to be doing for.. Hehe, it seriously helps me tho.
As an INFJ I would say we all have a tinge of pride in ourselves and hate ourselves for having that pride. Like we think we're cool but as soon as we glance at ourselves in the mirror we instantly regret feeling confident. Or that is just me-
As an INFJ it is actually hard when you know everyone's mood....I mean, there's people with radical change. They charge when you talk to them or any slight movement can change everything. It is terrifying...
I’m an ENFP and I get it ❤️ You guys are amazing at staying composed though, that’s what I really admire about you. But I don’t like how you hide a lot of what you’re feeling and don’t address it with anyone but yourself; that breaks my heart 💔
as a HSP, this sentence is amplified and it's much scarier and it makes me mentally exhausted easily. Yet, they still go around saying i'm special even though i'm trying to talk to someone without burnout
As an INFJ one of the most hurtful things a close friend had told me was "not everyone wants to accommodate to your level of sensitivity" and it just breaks me apart. Truth be told that having a high level of sensitivity is more a curse than a blessing :'(
This is so true, recently I'm at peak sensitivity and sometimes it's for the good like we can empathize with others but most of the times it's for the worst, in the end i feel drained being sensitive about things that don't really matter in long time. Personally I'm not enjoying being an INFJ.
I'm an elderly INFJ-A and still get the you are too sensitive comments. You do learn to keep it more to yourself. I've literally saved people's lives by "seeing" they were in distress and pulling them aside to have a deep personal talk. No one who has ever called me too sensitive knows that. But I do. My youngest child has had the same experience and is probably also INFJ which reminds me that it was more difficult when I was younger.
Its funny how on the outer we might seem as organized and that we have everything planned in detail, but internally we are a mess and tripping over any object in the room
INFJs are literal angels. Y'all are so compassionate and kind- I love you guys 🥺💕💕 -infp Edit: woah I wasn't expecting all this love xD I have three infj best friends (yeah I'm pretty darn lucky xD) and from what I've gathered, the thing they're worst at doing is taking care of themselves. Please remind urselves that ur loved, yall are amazing people who deserve the world. If you're going through something rough right now (as some of the comments hint), it's okay, things will get better even if it takes long. Please look after urselves and do open up to the people you trust without thinking you'd be a burden to them, cuz ur not 💗 I think I just made this comment way too long XD AND OMG GENSHIN FANS??? 👁👁 HELL YEAH!!!!
As an INFJ "when you understand everyone else, but nobody understands you" I think its because we don't understand ourself. To the point we expect others to understand us... As an INFJ I have been trying to work on communicating better what I think I possibly could be feeling. Also trusting someone to just listen and not judge. idk just my thoughts.
I can relate, and as another INFJ I can confirm that sometimes we ourselves can not understand our own thoughts and emotions. So I agree that this is quite true for several people.
"to work on communicating better what I think I possibly could be feeling"... this is so true, I sometimes also feel guilty for being honest then thinking about what I just said and guilt tripping myself that im being an a-hole or expecting too much. We just dont know our own emotions and id love if someone has figured out a way for us to understand ourselves better without paying for a therapist lol
They copied the same audio from an old video they made. They just copy and recycle old videos. Sorry but I think this channel has become a bit lazy and a lot of people need to start realising ua-cam.com/video/bNuxqVuV018/v-deo.html
Listen, almost no real INFJ or INTJ is proud to be INFJ or INTJ. And the person described in this video could be any other type, because they don't use functions!
@@mollys7319 yeah i realized this video was duplicated or with the same video/audio. kinda disappointing, i wanted to see what more facts they can bring or find out about us.
INFJ SECRET: they can see each person in a crowd and what they're doing..... 🧐 And then they find out people's passwords, but people trust them :) Edit: Thank you for so many likes!! I've never got this many! 🤍🤍🥰
As an INFJ-A, I definitely recognize myself in these facts. ❤️ Been struggling with my own identity for a long time because I'd never fitted anywhere, been too emotional and a perfectionist, understood people just by looking at them, avoided conflicts and feared to take the call, etc. Once I took the test and did a small research, I realized there was nothing wrong with me. ❤️
Sane type here but "turbulent". Also struggled with my identity all life before recently "opening my eyes" due to a breakout from depression. Just came across this field of psychology yesterday, and the thirst for the truth drove me to dig out everything within a day. Was in denial of the first test result until more research revealing the undeniable. Its just... Me...
Same thing happened with me i was thinking why I'm different what's the problem with me why I'm not fitted anywhere but today I got my answer but it suckes when you understand everyone but they can't understand you, I don't wanna be rare🤧
I'm an INFJ-T with people-pleasing tendencies from childhood trauma... As an adult, this has worked to my advantage in a social setting at work because I get along with everyone and can adapt to my coworkers' emotions. But when it comes to working, I feel stretched thin taking on others' work to ensure everything is perfect and everyone is happy.
I've never been described as timid, I've always been described as intimidating or scary. When I went homeless last year they called me "super scary guy"
1) I'm pretty sure those statistics are old 2) Many personality Types can enjoy reading and everyone has hobbies besides this usually applies more to INFPs, ENFPs and sometimes ISFPs 3) Many personality types try to climb the social ladder I'd say ENFJs and ESFJs more so than INFJs 4) I'll give you this one although this can also work for other personality types 5) This also applies to many types 6) This also does 7) I'll give you this
This is pretty accurate, and another fact: in friend groups we’re generally the therapist friend, so you get a lot of dirt on people that you rarely use.
I found out about a year ago that I was an infj!! Today, one of my friends found out she was as well and I’m so happy. It feels like we understand each other so well :)
I'm an INFJ and I think the mysterious INFJ comes from our desire to understand but not being really understood. Like, I really like to talk about every day things but sometimes, I just want to talk and discuss deeper issues for hours on end which puts people off, even the people who love me. I keep looking for new and new things that can be common ground between me and others but end up being disappointed everytime.
It was then quarantine days when someone suggests me to try the personality test. At first I didn't mind the result but after knowing that it's the rarest personality, I'm shocked by the result. All I know is that the test helped to know myself better. Anyway, I love the contents in your channel. Keep it up and belated Happy New Year!
Just a short story time: As an INFJ, when i sense someone pretending to be an INFJ makes me puck ( a college schoolmate did fake to be INFJ to look "cool")
Bro- T H I S It really irritates me tbh, this one classmate of mine really likes to lie like- *Every* *Single* *Time* She's just like your college classmate just sayin' XD - Your fellow INFJ ^^
@@ado9679 People like to be "unique". It seems like a plague, to me. People try to be an INFJ because channels like this throw out too much "fluff" and make us seem like were are some kind of "perfect Angel" or something. WE ARE NOT. I only realized im an INFJ by studying the "Dark Side". I watch these vids in attempt to improve myself. Sure, on the outside the INFJ may seem like someone to aspire to be, but on the inside is a raging storm on the edge of destroying the world. All do to the fact of how flawed humans really are. They are selfish, ignorant and easily manipulated. All we want is harmony, but it will never happen.
I get the impression this channel types by 16Personalities' letter dichotomy instead of using cognitive functions. The common cosensus on Holden Caulfield is that he is an INFP and only in the letter dichotomy the two types might look like each other, on the functions side they are actually completely different. Some of the things mentioned are in fact common in INFJ types, but others describe INFPs a lot better.
Yeah exactly!! This channel keeps everything so vague. They didn’t even explain that the 16Personalities website is so inaccurate and types by letters, instead of the cognitive functions. I wish they had explained this in the video but they didn’t. 😒 they keep everything so vague and over simplified. The Myers Briggs isn’t even a proven real thing anyway, and a lot of psychologists tend to not use it in their work. I am gonna unsub from this channel because they keep everything mainstream and don’t explain things that are true
I'm an INFJ. I am really organized with my shelf, the books is arranged meticulously. In my wardrobe, it is arranged per color. Even when I do the laundry. I also love having planners. I create detailed colorful-written plans for the next few years. My things are few but has quality, and neatly arranged. However, after a few weeks it'll be all in a mess, I forget where I put things and I have to reorganize them. My plans are often unrealistic (at the end I have to plan it all over again) Sometimes I replan them too many times because I fail to accomplish them. Why?? Am I really an INFJ? I can't understand myself for so many other reasons.
Psych: infj is very rare Everyone: I'm that!!!!! Edit: Woah was not expecting 100 almost 200 likes thx guys XD Also pls stop saying "of course there's gonna be infj people here" Cuz I heard it the first time and it was just a joke so chill
Actually INFJ aren't much rarer than other personality types. INFJs make up 1.5% of the popularity. ENTJs 1.8%, INTJs 2.1%, ENFJs 2.5%, ENTPs 3.2%, ESTPs 4.3% and INFPs 4.4%. (Please notice that these numbers may not be 100% correct. Source: "MBTI Manual" by CPP)
No, that’s not true! It’s not everyone. It’s just those people who actually thought they might be an Advocate but needed one person to begin with outing him/herself as an INFJ so they find the courage too. As it was already pointed out, you might feel like an outsider being an INFJ. That’s why INFJ‘s gather on the same place, since they can finally speak out what they have been thinking for a long time and are not outsiders anymore.
Because being so curious about ones nature, makes search these topics. Im tired when someone points out the comments of an infj vid being full of infjs... what do you expect?
Probably a half of people who says is an INFJ is not (maybe an INFP or another) The popular test on internet is not an accurate source, is better to learn about this method and analyze yourself. The test usually says INFJ to a lot of people incorrectly.
Yea that's why I took it into my own hands and looked into myself. But that requires a lot of self-knowledge so I recommend anyone go to a psychiatrist or something
I took the test and came out as infj. I was confused at first and thought it made a mistake because I recognized myself as a guy that uses his brain more than his feelings so I though I was an intp. But then I read a few more things on the Myers Briggs test and I realized I do use my feelings to make so much decisions. Then I accepted myself as an infj. Also I came down to the least liked comments since all the ones with a bunch of likes are probably fake infj Congrats I recognize you as an infj too
Pls everyone who did the mbti test read this!! If you did the 16personalities test there's a 60-70% chance that you are mistyped. That test doesn't have cognitive functions which means that the website is not really mbti(and the plus -T or -A is not a part of mbti). You should do the keys2cognition test. That is the most accurate test I think. (Coming from an ISTJ getting mistyped a lot as ISFJ or INTJ even got INFJ once) And INxxs are the most likely to be a mistype but almost everyone gets mistyped at least once with the 16personalities test. (Btw the key2cognition test it not long 42 short questions but if you are not perfect at english it might be hard to understand what is it asking. I used google to understand and it still wasn't clear what is it so yeah XD ) Btw thanks if you read this, I haven't watched the video yet so idk if they talked about the test. I just saw almost everyone saying that they are INFJs and probably did the 16personalities test because it's the most popular. So yeah bye (Sorry if my grammar is bad :") and I'm not trying to say that no ones here is INFJ, just letting you know that the 16personalities test is inaccurate.)
Thanks for your comment, I’ve taken many tests but not heard of the keys2cognition before I don’t think. I already know I’m an ENFP and have since the beginning of my MBTI journey. Luckily 16 personalities has always been accurate for me, but studying the functions afterwards was rewarding.
sooo I have tried the test and they were right about everything except the sensing part... yeaaaa pretty sure i've always had random thoughts and theories come to me and be turned out right instead of using my brains soooooo I wouldn't call it that accurate but i'll keep this on the back of my mind
As an INFJ it's sometimes tiring to always understand people when they don't. Even if I know that something is not my fault, I try to look at others' pov and feelings and thoughts, I liked this about myself but not always, I try to treat equally when for a group project or anything, listen to every opinion,...sometimes when I'm not on good terms I feel the need of someone who can understand me but there ain't anyone around me than me:) And I rarely share my thoughts or feelings with anyone coz I somehow know that they will never be able to look at things in the way I do. IT'S JUST ME AT THE END I FEEL COMFORTABLE When I see a lot of people have this personality type from different countries, races, religions😊...I'm happy to find myself in you even though we have never met with each other or might never be.
I recently found the personality test and believe I am an INFJ-A. I am 20 years old and the most helpful kid in the family, or the "doormat" by other relatives and people, as well as the most misunderstood by everyone in the family because I am always experimenting with new " crazy" ideas and am the go-to person when in need. Six months ago, my family discovered that indeed I have a friend with whom I communicate. My siblings began to celebrate for me, but internally I know they were laughing at me. When I hang out with small groups of people, I appear to be an energetic extrovert until my therapy service ends and I become drained from it. Because my target group is an introvert like me, it becomes boring and awkward. So, I start a deep relevant topic that is turned into a debate in which I agree with everything they say but they disagree with my nuances as INFJ to further help them elaborate their points and I am misunderstood and wrongfully labeled ahhhh. The other people believe they have won the argument, but I am thinking internally that I should have let them suffer in awkwardness and boredom because I have lot of fun stuff going on my mind. I think it is critical to get idea who you are so that you can suffer less and stop believing there is something wrong with you. By the way, Quilbot is what I use to paraphrase my words so that I can be understood lol. I'll end here, thank you for reading, and I hope you find some comfort, my fellow INFJs.
I'm an INFJ-T (according to the results from taking the test twice from last year and this year). One thing I struggle the most is feeling easily overwhelmed when things don't go the way I wanted it to. I also feel extremely restless when I haven't accomplished a single task for the day (may it be trivial or important). In addition, I can't keep my surroundings clean and organized if my mind is still busy and messy
AN EVEN BIGGER POSSIBILITY than all the INFJ stereotypes on this video: Many people watching this aren't INFJs but are rather INFJ wannabes looking for the slightest similarities in themselves to fit the INFJ mold. Confirmation bias. Practically EVERYONE in the comments section of INFJ videos claim they are INFJs, which makes you wonder if it really is the rarest type. All personality types are awesome in their own way.
EXACTLY! As an INFJ myself, I'm only here to know more about myself, not see bullsh*t about how special I am! I'm a struggling person trying to get through life and my personality doesn't help sometimes. Thanks for posting this comment, I appreciate it
Its because INFJs are one of the few personality types drawn to this type of research. We actively seek out insightful information such as this. It helps us understand ourself even more in order to make us better equipped to help others.
@@TysonMakoaWickesthat may as well be true. However, it can also come across as insinuating quite dismissively and presumptuously that those who don't flock to the comments sections of these videos are likely not INFJs.
Im here! Lol ive watched a couple of videos now after finding out im an infj-a and i cant believe how accurate they are but this one for sure takes the cake. Watching it with my partner and were both laughing and smiling at this on how it is. ❤ It
I was pretty excited for this series when you introduced it since I love this channel, but this info wasn't the best in my opinion. This description is like a mix of INFJ and XXFP or XXTP. Please research more for your next episode!
Exactly the video was so vague. But also don’t forget,personality types are not a proven real thing anyway. So many personality types share similar traits, so I highly doubt you can group a personality. We as humans all share similar traits and characteristics. Also the Myers Briggs test is actually kinda controversial, it types people by letters rather than using the cognitive functions. This video should of explained it better, also another thing to mention is they completely copied the audio from an old video. From this one- ua-cam.com/video/bNuxqVuV018/v-deo.html They have done this before too. They just tend to repost old videos and never explain things in great detail. In my opinion it just seems like they make videos just to get views at this point 😞
As an INFJ with ADHD Inattentive Type, I am not well-organized, however I have found some simple cornerstones of organization that keep my life afloat and avoid too many disasters. Also, as a frugal person, I don't really identify with the "enjoying the finer things of life" bit. Although I do want to look good and not too slovenly, I won't drop too much money or time on things I see as superficial, like expensive wine or clothing or shoes. EDIT: Thinking more, I think the "finer things" bit is highly individual. I will spend a lot of money on things that I care about, i.e., my niche interests and things where I recognize value. But even there I will apply my frugal values.
Ever since I found out that I am an INFJ-A, I couldn’t stop readingd and learning more about myself. I agree about the book part, I find myself able to kill time so easily-but I need to be unbothered as well
Having ADHD and being INFJ at the same time makes life really difficult. Like all these things are spot on but at the same time I have a hard time with organizing cause ADHD makes me unable to focus and make me unorganized.
Hello ! I wanted to thank you with all my heart !💖 Your Channel gave me the 1st Answers Discarding my True Condition. Only thanks to your videos about psyche i was able to find out . I Have C-PTSD by Narcisstic Abuse by my own Family💔 but also how to heal and what steps to make to accomplish my dream to be free❤🔥 its been around 5 Years since i started to therapy on my own. I found out about half year ago i am INFJ-T . Infact that means : INFJ is around 1 % of society , also C-PTSD is around 1.5% . Im a 1% in a 1% . there are many videos out there about beeing the chosen one . Everybody wants to be the one ! But infact beeing the one is the most difficult hard and painful life. So im not even proud of beeing so called chosen one. i gone through hell and i did hate it . Its like i am 31 now. and i was dead for 30 years. Thats no fun ! . Even better now i know all these things thanks to your channel aswell. I granted ability to become a thriver !!! im nolonger a surviver !!! THANK YOUU SOOO SOO MUCH !💕💕💕💕
I took the MBTI test and got INFJ. I'm not the type to organize things, honestly I procrastinate when I feel like it. Also I don't know if it's just me because even though I haven't exeprienced anything related to other's problems, it feels like I understand what it feels like to be in their situation and it helps me in comforting them given that I understand the situation they're in. That's why my friends always asks me for an advice when it comes to their relationships (although I haven't been on any since I was born, funny right?). Btw Happy New Year guys have a blessed year, stay positive and never give up, we survived 2020, I'm pretty sure we will survive this one as well.
@@ladyfoxwf1075 INFJ could be organized and messy at the same time. But there must be a reason why we procrastinate to organize. I'd love to organize and do my homework, but I'm a new mom, and I have to do all of that, and babysitting tho. So I'm exhausted everyday, even I often forget to having meal. My home is messy, but I can't stand about dirty room. Another reason, we have no time to do it. Or we often distracted by many things, ex: social media, even this video, about INFJ in UA-cam. We could just watch about MBTI all day, especially for our type. I took MBTI test 6 times, and 3 times I got INFJ, and 3 times I got INFP. My husband is INFP, and we're so much different, even though we have similarity in a few aspect. He's so messy, the worst of worst messy. He randomly did homework in the middle night if his mood was good. I can't stand his randomly honestly. That's why I do all of the homework. And I believe that I'm INFJ 100% through this situation (it's one of difference). (I'm sorry for my bad English).
I’m an INFJ and one thing you said in this video that I have that I know all of my family thinks I shouldn’t be is a therapist. I have an issue to where I say sorry to often because I want to take away other peoples problems, and blame it on myself. I can also feel other peoples’ emotions like a super power. And of course I like the finer things in life, as long as they are comfortable UwU. Thanks for this video. You guys inspire me so much.
We cant force anyone to understand ourselves..cuz people only think according to their current mental state and the only thing we can do is to understand and express ourselves and just stay happy being an infj🤝✌
Some of these things are correct. But when I get busy I don’t have time to read or solve puzzles 😭. Having a part-time job and going to college can be very draining.
Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. Take really good care of your sleep patterns, diet and leisure time: I ended up with a chronic atypical depression for doing that (college+part time job, a ton of stress)
I've been taking the MBTI test every few years since I was about 13 and I've always been an INFJ, and I'm 22 now 😊 Loved this so much, it's definitely spot on for me 👌
I am an INTJ, I took the test like so times, and sometimes I tried to cheat into something else, surprisingly I am still INTJ. But one or two of these INFJ traits seems relate on me. Number 6. Buying best quality stuff is always my thing, I love it when people compliment me wearing expensive or branded stuff on my body. Number 3. When it comes to social life, I know how to encourage people to help me get my goals. I don't understand how is this could happen, MBTI result really confused me.
I confided in a friend not too long ago about the fact that I didn't feel very well in my class even though I was laughing a lot and getting along with everyone. I told her that for me to feel close to someone who is my friend was to have shared something much deeper,what I hadn't done with my classmates and which finally hurt me when I came home at night. My friend didn't understand me and I felt even worse...
I’m the type of introvert who acts like an extrovert around their friends so everyone thinks they’re an extrovert and assumes they love to be around people 24/7 T^T
One of the toxic things I hate as an INFJ-T is being a perfectionist, as it is one of the major reasons I procrastinate. Whenever I am not satisfied with my work, it totally upsets me. Even the tiniest mistakes bother me! I just hope that someday I will overcome this (toxic) trait. :((
You know my teacher does say (from personal experience) that perfectionism = procrastination. Basically it goes hand in hand with each other. I wonder if they're also an INFJ?
This is definitely me. Honestly this is my main problem with drawing. I'm such a perfectionist that if I draw something however basic and I don't get it 100% right I'll erase it and have to do it all over again.
Also have this problem when drawing (traditional art). I can always somehow find something to improve on, endlessly. Also with the turbulent trait, I improve quickly from intense reflections. It's all about positivity and self awareness though, it got me through plenty of tight situations.
I honestly don’t care what type I’m, but it’s sure helpful when you can explain why I have felt different my entire life. I know I’m an INfJ. I’ve taken an actual MBTI test. Not to mention everything that I’ve researched all comes back to the INFJ and I click well with others on here who are INFJ
I'm one and this is spot on. But I have never considered myself classy. Other people might. I've heard "confident individualism." I definitely identify as that. As a minimalist, I don't acquire too many things but I love what I do have because it makes me comfortable and happy.
The only thing I cannot really approve is the classy thing. I like things minimalistic, yes, but I also love oversized sweaters etc. and often not formal clothes
@Jeanne Prado & @Makenzie Check Frank James' channel. He covers all 16 personality types (including ENFP) in funny skits & does a great job at it. Let un INFJs have our time in the sun rn, finally don't feel so alone anymore😌
Hi, ENFP. I loooooovvvee ENFP people. Well, at least to my adopted son. Knowing that he is ENFP and I am INFJ makes all clear why we so longing for each other ... despite how different we are one to another. 😁
don’t take it the wrong way but i feel like everyone talks about infjs and all the other types are kinda forgotten because they’re less “special”, i think it would be interesting to know about other types too :)
I knew that it will be annoying for other types. Mainly because INFJs are rare and somewhat different than all other types, I think that is what attract people so much. INFJs don't talk about their personality often, its the other personality types that like to talk about them. ❦︎
She probably won’t be doing more videos about other personality types because here is the same video audio from an old video. They just copy old videos because they ran out of ideas ua-cam.com/video/bNuxqVuV018/v-deo.html
I almost never share my problems, and one of the most hurtful things that I ever heard from someone was "you're telling this just to be pitied, but no one really cares" from my friend
And indeed yes some yts or most are introverts but tend to look really social extroverts. For ex me. (Im in a diff acc but i havt a yt, im not popualr so dont ask)
Happy World Introvert Day everyone! :) If you're an introvert, comment below.
Thank you💝
Thanks ❤️
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I'm an inteovert
Fun fact about infj: well organized outside, messy inside
I feel seen😂👏
Oh God so true 🤣
Yup lol 😆
@@mollys7319 It’s kinda reasonable if you think about it. I doubt most people who haven’t seen this know this video exists, and not many are gonna go scrolling back 2 years to find it. Reposts so people can easily see things again because there are so many videos makes sense (plus more animators/artists get a chance) but I understand why you would be bothered by that or think it’s lazy and such.
@@gektoast4968 yeah that’s true and I completely agree, but I still kiiiinda feel like reposting old videos is a bit lazy. Yes not everyone may not have seen the old video, so putting it out there again is a way to get it viewed more, however I feel like they could of expanded on it and have a bit more information about the Myers Briggs test. I just feel like they could of gone into a bit more detail and explained it more. Especially because the Myers Briggs test is not actually a proven scientific thing, it’s normally just used as a fun/silly type thing. They made no disclaimer explaining it’s not proven, or anything. I also wished they would of talked a bit about the controversy about that test, because it is vague and it types people by letters rather than using the cognitive functions. They could of just gone into a bit more detail about it all, instead of posting the same video again, it just feels like they didn’t bother
Infjs are rare until it comes to the youtube comment section
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@QMOs calm down , i'm an infj too
@@ymir2372 a lot of people who claim to be an infj, actually aren’t one.
@@mollys7319 it's aight . You can believe or not , i don't really care . I'm just stating the result i got from my test but if you want you can even go ahead and allot me a different mbti personality
@@ymir2372 and what test did do you? Let me guess... the 16Personalities website? The Myers Briggs test is incredibly inaccurate anyway and tends to mistype people. It types people with the letter dichotomy rather than using cognitive functions. So many people in these comments believe they are an INFJ but they actually aren’t.
INFJ's like fancy things not to show off or anything like that. We INFJs get those things for ourselves because we actually appreciate the finer details and craftsmanship of the fancier stuff in life. Also, INFJs in general like to work and earn their things, so it feels super satisfying when we get that fancy thing we've been genuinely admiring and enjoy it.
Mmmmmm 💖
lol when i "look in the mirror", metaphorically, I do find it funny how I like nice things but I usually dont buy/wear them because I dont like the feeling of "envy" and I dont take compliments well.
Example: I didnt buy Oakley Glasses to show off my earnings to others. I bought them because they look nice and they seem durable. if im going to make a commitment, Im going "all out" with it.
Well I USED to care about those things. A few years ago I started my minimalism journey (which does WONDERS for our infamous anxiety by the way) and giving less importance to social pressure, consumism, brands…. I still like to have quality items and I value that my (few) things have the aesthetic I like. But it doesn’t have to do with prices, brands or tags.
You know what I love this comment
Me who buy fancy things because I admire them for so long find them interesting but never use or rarely use them and find happiness in little things
Some random people: look at them showing off too much
Me: stay calm on the outside
My mind and my anxiety: wtf who is showing off I just wanted to enjoy things that I bought
I think the hardest part of being a rare personality type, is that you understand everyone else, but nobody understands you. To me it doesn't matter what you label it. The infj is but a single label for a very complicated and beautiful person. When you have a personality like that, you already know you don't fit anywhere and people have no idea how to deal with your authentic self. As a child what felt like being an exile hurt. As an adult I understand that not many are comfortable being unable to hide, or lie about who they are. Being transparent and vulnerable is truly terrifying to a large portion of the population, who only survive because of the social masks they've learned to wear.
Yes, INFJs are very complicated. It's true when you understand everyone else, but nobody understands you. And when you try to find people who can satisfy your needs/standards, you end up with nobody, (or at least I do). I also don't have much ideas on how to deal with my authentic self, I literally feel like walking on contradictions as if I was pulled to the left and right directions constantly. I want this, but I also want the other option, lmao
we either lower our standars quite a bit or we end up alone.
@@vrath2423 👌✨ (I lowered my standards then ended up alone, lmao)
I once received a “comment” during an argument with my close friend:
“I think I need more time to understand you. Longer than expected.”
That hurt so much and I still haven’t got over it.
Beautifully said. Spot on.
INFJ: everything is perfectly organized, my plans are made and now it's time to-
Mom: hey aunt Hilda is going to come for the weekend!
INFJ: *panik* my plans have been shattered!
😄 thats so me
lol same!
Sameee. I get so irritated but i never show it cause all i planned was only in my head and nobody new i had plans with myself Lol
Yep
ive found my people
Fun fact: INFJ are perfectionist about they self, but they are procrastinators
Edit: Holy Molly, i see It just now, more then 1MI likes, it's the frist one of my comments that have so many likes, thanks guys
I agreeeeeeeeeeeee
Lmaooo i feel attacked
@@lrizqiyah568 XD
If this isn't accurate, then i dunno what this is XD
But- frfr this is ACCURATE
Yup definitely me
My coworker is such an INFJ. She uses a different tone of voice when talking to different people- Almost like she adapts to them. And she's always writing things down in her agenda. I wonder how good she is at reading peoples' emotions..including my own.
I was VERY SUCCESSFUL (bio tech medical device sales) - an outgoing introvert, most would not ever classify me as ‘shy’. But I would always quietly leave the after hours Party to get some reboot time in my hotel room. I made a boatload of money, yet as an empath, felt guilt for the high cost to ill human beings the medical inventions I sold were. I am complicated and been divorced twice. Both exes took 100% of the fault (both screwed up royally) yet I realize now how hard I was to be intimate with. They both told me years later that they still loved me. Crazy AF, huh??
@@davisholman6518 introverts don't have to be shy, being introverted means you quickly get exhausted socially
Oh lord.
Remind her she doesnt have to force herself, but if she feels the need, shes doing great.
Cause this is what I need to hear 🤣🤣
@@dolliexzo She got annoyed at someone for, like, the first time in her life the other day. I was worried for her.
That's why I'm watching this video too I'm assuming that someone I know is an infj and I'm really interested and curious about it lol.
Personally I don’t like being an INFJ because it’s easy to connect with people because you can understand them, and change ur actions to better connect with them. However this is pretty draining after a while. On the other hand it’s rare, very rare that you effortlessly connect with someone who understands you in that same way. So in the end you get to know a lot of people but not many people get to know you and it gets pretty lonely ngl.
very true.
it's like being an actor.
it's not real for us .
it's special for them.
and an interesting experience for us.
but we're very lonely.
True..... sometimes its kind a hard to split them
if you are informed.. know alot of history, psychology, politics...
anything like that...
then you're *even more* cut off from everyone around you.
Go on a blind date with an INFJ personality, it will be better
Why do I relate to this even though I'm an enfp
1. They’re the rarest MTBI type.
2. They put the “book” in bookworm.
3. They know how to climb the social ladder.
4. They see things and understand them.
5. They love a good puzzle.
6. They’re classy AF.
7. They make routine un-boring.
@Yuziferry source?
i am proud that i am an INFJ after this video
@Yuziferry this was in november 15 2019 tho- i mean it might be possible
@@_ros.e.s_2823 hi.. im the thinker version a.k.a INTJ
Im and infj
I dont like reading and. Were not really social ;-;
One of my personal INFJ struggles is that I seek someone similar to myself in meaningful relationships. I expect people to treat me the way I treat them and when they don't I feel disappointed, but I shouldn't expect people to be like me for my own good, given that my personality type is so rare.
ye right
@@ware0081 we're the same... It's pretty tiring looking for people that do not know how to reciprocate the kind of treatment we give to them. 🙁
@@ejharriettegarcia5253 Exactly.. I treat people the way I want to be treated (Im always very caring, check up on people when they're going through a rough time, give them little gifts that remind me of them) and even though I do that because I want to, its sad when you get nothing in return.
Heardddd that. It's rough. I hope you find someone too
@@ware0081 I'M NOT ALONE 😭..... But now I'm learning to balance things out.. Expectations hurt me. I don't initiate a convo anymore, i let them do it. I only give advice or tips if the person asks for it. And I minimize my outgoing energy if i know it's not worth to be doing for.. Hehe, it seriously helps me tho.
As an INFJ I would say we all have a tinge of pride in ourselves and hate ourselves for having that pride. Like we think we're cool but as soon as we glance at ourselves in the mirror we instantly regret feeling confident. Or that is just me-
Same!!
Yup, this is 100% true -Fellow INFJ
Same bro SAmeeeeeee!!
I just wanna be humble u know?, Like I don't want any pride, if u feel me, u feel me
Why is this so relatable HAHHAHA i feel awkward and shy after feeling confident, it always makes me think ‘was that too much?’
I'M AN INFJ!! CHEERS TO ALL INFJ'S OUT THERE!! HAPPY NEW YEAR AND HAVE A PROSPEROUS YEAR
THIS GOT SO MANY LIKES?!!! lmao ok thanks, ig
Sounds like this video will be the INFJ's hang spot.
@@Psych2go totally
👋
@@Psych2go THANKS FOR BRINGING US TOGETHER!!
Does the type change with a time? Or it will be the same for your whole life?
As an INFJ it is actually hard when you know everyone's mood....I mean, there's people with radical change. They charge when you talk to them or any slight movement can change everything. It is terrifying...
Yeah and exhausting too. That’s why I like being on my own and in nature!
Especially when sometimes you know people enough to even understand what they are thinking ... it's exhausting yea
I’m an ENFP and I get it ❤️
You guys are amazing at staying composed though, that’s what I really admire about you. But I don’t like how you hide a lot of what you’re feeling and don’t address it with anyone but yourself; that breaks my heart 💔
as a HSP, this sentence is amplified and it's much scarier and it makes me mentally exhausted easily. Yet, they still go around saying i'm special even though i'm trying to talk to someone without burnout
Not with any infj buddy
As an INFJ one of the most hurtful things a close friend had told me was "not everyone wants to accommodate to your level of sensitivity" and it just breaks me apart. Truth be told that having a high level of sensitivity is more a curse than a blessing :'(
This comment speaks to me. One close relative of mine told me those words as well 🥲 *virtual hugs*
I think is a blessing since you can appreciate thing that others dont. At least that is how I see it as an INFJ myself.
This is so true, recently I'm at peak sensitivity and sometimes it's for the good like we can empathize with others but most of the times it's for the worst, in the end i feel drained being sensitive about things that don't really matter in long time. Personally I'm not enjoying being an INFJ.
I protect my sensitivity and don't flaunt it but your friend's comment seems a little abusive
I'm an elderly INFJ-A and still get the you are too sensitive comments. You do learn to keep it more to yourself. I've literally saved people's lives by "seeing" they were in distress and pulling them aside to have a deep personal talk. No one who has ever called me too sensitive knows that. But I do. My youngest child has had the same experience and is probably also INFJ which reminds me that it was more difficult when I was younger.
INFJs really like psychology 😄.
Hi, there INFJs 👋🏻.
Hello same! I'm truly fascinated in psychology and like understanding others very deeply
True😀
Hello there! 👋😄
Hiii ha
I dunno if all INFJs do or not
(Or even most of them)but I definitely DO OMG!!
As an INFJ, I hate being described as a magical unicorn lol but the rest was pretty spot on.
Honestly!
According to internet memes, it's the ENFP type that is the "magical unicorn". :P
@@JokerCrowe right
Same ~~~
Bruh ya
Im glad
Its funny how on the outer we might seem as organized and that we have everything planned in detail, but internally we are a mess and tripping over any object in the room
I could relate to this.
INFJs are literal angels. Y'all are so compassionate and kind- I love you guys 🥺💕💕
-infp
Edit: woah I wasn't expecting all this love xD
I have three infj best friends (yeah I'm pretty darn lucky xD) and from what I've gathered, the thing they're worst at doing is taking care of themselves. Please remind urselves that ur loved, yall are amazing people who deserve the world. If you're going through something rough right now (as some of the comments hint), it's okay, things will get better even if it takes long. Please look after urselves and do open up to the people you trust without thinking you'd be a burden to them, cuz ur not 💗
I think I just made this comment way too long XD
AND OMG GENSHIN FANS??? 👁👁 HELL YEAH!!!!
That is so sweet!
i love your mbti too
Thanks so much
Awwh thank you so much!
Thank you
As an INFJ "when you understand everyone else, but nobody understands you" I think its because we don't understand ourself. To the point we expect others to understand us... As an INFJ I have been trying to work on communicating better what I think I possibly could be feeling. Also trusting someone to just listen and not judge. idk just my thoughts.
I can relate, and as another INFJ I can confirm that sometimes we ourselves can not understand our own thoughts and emotions. So I agree that this is quite true for several people.
As an INFJ myself don't want to change, i don't want to be better at communicating, it feels safe that way...
Same
"to work on communicating better what I think I possibly could be feeling"... this is so true, I sometimes also feel guilty for being honest then thinking about what I just said and guilt tripping myself that im being an a-hole or expecting too much. We just dont know our own emotions and id love if someone has figured out a way for us to understand ourselves better without paying for a therapist lol
Psych2Go: *makes infj video*
Comment section: "HERE THEY COME!"
😆 Yeah I see it
It’s because we are the internet and apparently just want people to know we exist
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They copied the same audio from an old video they made. They just copy and recycle old videos. Sorry but I think this channel has become a bit lazy and a lot of people need to start realising ua-cam.com/video/bNuxqVuV018/v-deo.html
Most of them r just ISFJ
Even if INFJ is not the rarest type, I'm still proud that I'm INFJ
Same
They copied the same audio from this video. They just copy videos ua-cam.com/video/bNuxqVuV018/v-deo.html
Listen, almost no real INFJ or INTJ is proud to be INFJ or INTJ. And the person described in this video could be any other type, because they don't use functions!
@@mollys7319 yeah i realized this video was duplicated or with the same video/audio. kinda disappointing, i wanted to see what more facts they can bring or find out about us.
Same
Whenever I feel bad about myself, I go watch INFJ videos to remind me that I am special.
😂🤣😂
That is true.
You have no idea how powerful you are
@@rashid4143 how?? I'm rare but I don't wanna be because there is so many difficulties I have to face🤧 today i knew I'm infj, 😫
Me too 😂😂
yaa sme here . i think all of us were like that
Fun fact:
2% of world population (7 billion)
= There are 140 millions INFJ. 😄
Btw, I'm an INFJ-T. 🌈
I'm a INFJ-T too!
@@carolina1358 😄👋🏻
140 million ;)
@@Diamant254Music Thanks, I miss calculated 😂.
I am an infj-A
Who else here recognises themselves as an INFJ
Me
Me
ii do!
@@ashenedrose non binary infj squad:D
Yep
INFJs in real life: *non-existent*
INFJs online: *literally every second person*
'cause everyone wants to be a fucking unicorn. Cause they don't even know, what it actually feels to be like one.
Cos we are probably overthinking about things so we distract ourselves by coming here to understand why XD
Lol, so true
@@antonsheggi Sorry, man you are not one of them.
@@antonsheggi You are most definitely not an INFJ, sorry.
INFJ SECRET: they can see each person in a crowd and what they're doing..... 🧐 And then they find out people's passwords, but people trust them :)
Edit: Thank you for so many likes!! I've never got this many! 🤍🤍🥰
@Sara Amara if that’s not relatable for me I don’t know what is
The biggest fact out there involving everyday of my life 👍
The same for ENFP’s but disorganised and tend to be less composed.
I thought I'm a creep but I'm not the only one HAHAH
Ohh I thought it's normal.
As an INFJ-A, I definitely recognize myself in these facts. ❤️
Been struggling with my own identity for a long time because I'd never fitted anywhere, been too emotional and a perfectionist, understood people just by looking at them, avoided conflicts and feared to take the call, etc. Once I took the test and did a small research, I realized there was nothing wrong with me. ❤️
same
Sane type here but "turbulent".
Also struggled with my identity all life before recently "opening my eyes" due to a breakout from depression. Just came across this field of psychology yesterday, and the thirst for the truth drove me to dig out everything within a day. Was in denial of the first test result until more research revealing the undeniable. Its just... Me...
@@juice_lime5114 that’s literally me, same story and all. You’re not alone
but what is your reason?, do you want to change the world?, do you have a deep understanding of life??
Same thing happened with me i was thinking why I'm different what's the problem with me why I'm not fitted anywhere but today I got my answer but it suckes when you understand everyone but they can't understand you, I don't wanna be rare🤧
Infj is like coloring inside of the lines, but by scribbling a crayon everywhere inside of them.
Omg it's literally what I do when I was a kid!
Happy introvert day fellow people who are watching UA-cam instead of interacting with people!
Good one :0
My excuse is that I just woke up I’ve already made a choice to be home instead of going out today :)
Haha happy introvert day
They copied the same audio from this video. They just copy old videos ua-cam.com/video/bNuxqVuV018/v-deo.html
I did come here to be attacked 💀💀💀
I'm an INFJ-T with people-pleasing tendencies from childhood trauma... As an adult, this has worked to my advantage in a social setting at work because I get along with everyone and can adapt to my coworkers' emotions. But when it comes to working, I feel stretched thin taking on others' work to ensure everything is perfect and everyone is happy.
YOOOOO IM A INFJ-T
"They look like timid when you first meet them but they never shy away from a good challenge"😎 love that
Aiya amanga
I've never been described as timid, I've always been described as intimidating or scary. When I went homeless last year they called me "super scary guy"
1) I'm pretty sure those statistics are old
2) Many personality Types can enjoy reading and everyone has hobbies besides this usually applies more to INFPs, ENFPs and sometimes ISFPs
3) Many personality types try to climb the social ladder I'd say ENFJs and ESFJs more so than INFJs
4) I'll give you this one although this can also work for other personality types
5) This also applies to many types
6) This also does
7) I'll give you this
Couldn't agree more👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻🍃
Being an INFG with ADHD is one of biggest pranks God ever played on me
NO ME TOO I HATE IT
We were so powerful that god had to nerf us XD
@@pradyumniyer5141 lol love your words #hugs
I feel like, some level of ADHD is part of me as an INFJ. I get too distracted with my thoughts
similar to enfp
This is pretty accurate, and another fact: in friend groups we’re generally the therapist friend, so you get a lot of dirt on people that you rarely use.
I found out about a year ago that I was an infj!! Today, one of my friends found out she was as well and I’m so happy. It feels like we understand each other so well :)
I am an INFJ and yes I am so organized and love reading books spending my life exploring into something got my interest.
I'm an INFJ and I think the mysterious INFJ comes from our desire to understand but not being really understood.
Like, I really like to talk about every day things but sometimes, I just want to talk and discuss deeper issues for hours on end which puts people off, even the people who love me.
I keep looking for new and new things that can be common ground between me and others but end up being disappointed everytime.
INFJ's are just too observant, and they keep what they know to themselves.
I LOVE Y'ALL!
After watching this, I'm proud to be say that I am an INFJ.
That's really awesome! How long ago did you discover that?
It was then quarantine days when someone suggests me to try the personality test. At first I didn't mind the result but after knowing that it's the rarest personality, I'm shocked by the result. All I know is that the test helped to know myself better.
Anyway, I love the contents in your channel. Keep it up and belated Happy New Year!
Yeah Me too 😤🔥
Same ☺️
It’s called the Barnum effect. Look it up.
I am INFJ, and i feel proud to be that. I am also very enthusiastic for knowledge and learning new things.
The problem solving thing made me as an INFJ starting my career as a programmer. It’s actually sooo much fun for me to solve problems the whole day :D
I'm also an INFJ getting a bachelor's and later master's in computer science! The problem-solving aspect is fun for me too :D
That is really cool :)
I am almost done with my bachelor's now too!
"I wanna be an infj"
No, you don't
people don't know how much of a burden it is, but i love my life anyway ;)
@@Gracek1135 wait I got a reply-
Wdym it's not so bad once you find people you can trust
@@kraykee 😆
@@kraykee there is more to it
Just a short story time:
As an INFJ, when i sense someone pretending to be an INFJ makes me puck ( a college schoolmate did fake to be INFJ to look "cool")
Haha no mames.
Bro- T H I S
It really irritates me tbh, this one classmate of mine really likes to lie like-
*Every*
*Single*
*Time*
She's just like your college classmate just sayin' XD
- Your fellow INFJ ^^
How could you pretend to be an infj?
Oh they want to pretend to be one, but being one is whole different story..
@@ado9679 People like to be "unique". It seems like a plague, to me. People try to be an INFJ because channels like this throw out too much "fluff" and make us seem like were are some kind of "perfect Angel" or something. WE ARE NOT. I only realized im an INFJ by studying the "Dark Side". I watch these vids in attempt to improve myself.
Sure, on the outside the INFJ may seem like someone to aspire to be, but on the inside is a raging storm on the edge of destroying the world. All do to the fact of how flawed humans really are. They are selfish, ignorant and easily manipulated. All we want is harmony, but it will never happen.
I get the impression this channel types by 16Personalities' letter dichotomy instead of using cognitive functions. The common cosensus on Holden Caulfield is that he is an INFP and only in the letter dichotomy the two types might look like each other, on the functions side they are actually completely different. Some of the things mentioned are in fact common in INFJ types, but others describe INFPs a lot better.
Yeah exactly!! This channel keeps everything so vague. They didn’t even explain that the 16Personalities website is so inaccurate and types by letters, instead of the cognitive functions. I wish they had explained this in the video but they didn’t. 😒 they keep everything so vague and over simplified. The Myers Briggs isn’t even a proven real thing anyway, and a lot of psychologists tend to not use it in their work. I am gonna unsub from this channel because they keep everything mainstream and don’t explain things that are true
I would say almost all of these points are talking about INFPs.
@@RoseyCreations No they weren't.
I'm an INFJ. I am really organized with my shelf, the books is arranged meticulously. In my wardrobe, it is arranged per color. Even when I do the laundry. I also love having planners. I create detailed colorful-written plans for the next few years. My things are few but has quality, and neatly arranged. However, after a few weeks it'll be all in a mess, I forget where I put things and I have to reorganize them. My plans are often unrealistic (at the end I have to plan it all over again) Sometimes I replan them too many times because I fail to accomplish them. Why?? Am I really an INFJ? I can't understand myself for so many other reasons.
Enjoying a book with a cup of coffee in my quiet room is all I'm asking for as an INFJ ☺️ ☕📚
Psych: infj is very rare
Everyone: I'm that!!!!!
Edit: Woah was not expecting 100 almost 200 likes thx guys XD
Also pls stop saying "of course there's gonna be infj people here"
Cuz I heard it the first time and it was just a joke so chill
Yeah
Actually INFJ aren't much rarer than other personality types. INFJs make up 1.5% of the popularity. ENTJs 1.8%, INTJs 2.1%, ENFJs 2.5%, ENTPs 3.2%, ESTPs 4.3% and INFPs 4.4%. (Please notice that these numbers may not be 100% correct. Source: "MBTI Manual" by CPP)
No, that’s not true! It’s not everyone. It’s just those people who actually thought they might be an Advocate but needed one person to begin with outing him/herself as an INFJ so they find the courage too. As it was already pointed out, you might feel like an outsider being an INFJ. That’s why INFJ‘s gather on the same place, since they can finally speak out what they have been thinking for a long time and are not outsiders anymore.
Because being so curious about ones nature, makes search these topics. Im tired when someone points out the comments of an infj vid being full of infjs... what do you expect?
there is 7 billion people in this earth, and if 2% of its population may be INFJ means that 140 million people aprox. are INFJ, so cut it.
Probably a half of people who says is an INFJ is not (maybe an INFP or another) The popular test on internet is not an accurate source, is better to learn about this method and analyze yourself. The test usually says INFJ to a lot of people incorrectly.
Exactly. This video is so vague and the popular test is incredibly vague too. People need to really dig deeper and research about it.
Ikr coz sometimes I get matched with the INFP personality
MBTI is never a 100% accurate so yeah taking it as a fun experience is what it is
@@samaniazannatanisha7565 Yh sm
Myn said INFP-T
Yea that's why I took it into my own hands and looked into myself. But that requires a lot of self-knowledge so I recommend anyone go to a psychiatrist or something
I took the test and came out as infj. I was confused at first and thought it made a mistake because I recognized myself as a guy that uses his brain more than his feelings so I though I was an intp. But then I read a few more things on the Myers Briggs test and I realized I do use my feelings to make so much decisions. Then I accepted myself as an infj. Also I came down to the least liked comments since all the ones with a bunch of likes are probably fake infj
Congrats I recognize you as an infj too
It's almost eerie how much I resonate with this :")
Pls everyone who did the mbti test read this!!
If you did the 16personalities test there's a 60-70% chance that you are mistyped. That test doesn't have cognitive functions which means that the website is not really mbti(and the plus -T or -A is not a part of mbti). You should do the keys2cognition test. That is the most accurate test I think. (Coming from an ISTJ getting mistyped a lot as ISFJ or INTJ even got INFJ once)
And INxxs are the most likely to be a mistype but almost everyone gets mistyped at least once with the 16personalities test. (Btw the key2cognition test it not long 42 short questions but if you are not perfect at english it might be hard to understand what is it asking. I used google to understand and it still wasn't clear what is it so yeah XD )
Btw thanks if you read this, I haven't watched the video yet so idk if they talked about the test. I just saw almost everyone saying that they are INFJs and probably did the 16personalities test because it's the most popular. So yeah bye
(Sorry if my grammar is bad :") and I'm not trying to say that no ones here is INFJ, just letting you know that the 16personalities test is inaccurate.)
Thanks for your comment, I’ve taken many tests but not heard of the keys2cognition before I don’t think.
I already know I’m an ENFP and have since the beginning of my MBTI journey. Luckily 16 personalities has always been accurate for me, but studying the functions afterwards was rewarding.
eh don't worry I have enough people smarts to type myself. It's actually a lot easier and accurate in my opinion!
sooo I have tried the test and they were right about everything except the sensing part... yeaaaa pretty sure i've always had random thoughts and theories come to me and be turned out right instead of using my brains soooooo I wouldn't call it that accurate but i'll keep this on the back of my mind
Ahhh thank you! I took the test on the site you specified and I’ve confirmed I’m an INFJ now :)
Tbh i think it Just depends on the individual. I had infj on 16p with 55%j and 45% p, on keys2cognition it said that i'm infj/infp
As an INFJ it's sometimes tiring to always understand people when they don't. Even if I know that something is not my fault, I try to look at others' pov and feelings and thoughts, I liked this about myself but not always, I try to treat equally when for a group project or anything, listen to every opinion,...sometimes when I'm not on good terms I feel the need of someone who can understand me but there ain't anyone around me than me:)
And I rarely share my thoughts or feelings with anyone coz I somehow know that they will never be able to look at things in the way I do.
IT'S JUST ME AT THE END
I FEEL COMFORTABLE When I see a lot of people have this personality type from different countries, races, religions😊...I'm happy to find myself in you even though we have never met with each other or might never be.
I recently found the personality test and believe I am an INFJ-A. I am 20 years old and the most helpful kid in the family, or the "doormat" by other relatives and people, as well as the most misunderstood by everyone in the family because I am always experimenting with new " crazy" ideas and am the go-to person when in need. Six months ago, my family discovered that indeed I have a friend with whom I communicate. My siblings began to celebrate for me, but internally I know they were laughing at me. When I hang out with small groups of people, I appear to be an energetic extrovert until my therapy service ends and I become drained from it. Because my target group is an introvert like me, it becomes boring and awkward. So, I start a deep relevant topic that is turned into a debate in which I agree with everything they say but they disagree with my nuances as INFJ to further help them elaborate their points and I am misunderstood and wrongfully labeled ahhhh. The other people believe they have won the argument, but I am thinking internally that I should have let them suffer in awkwardness and boredom because I have lot of fun stuff going on my mind. I think it is critical to get idea who you are so that you can suffer less and stop believing there is something wrong with you. By the way, Quilbot is what I use to paraphrase my words so that I can be understood lol. I'll end here, thank you for reading, and I hope you find some comfort, my fellow INFJs.
I'm an INFJ-T (according to the results from taking the test twice from last year and this year). One thing I struggle the most is feeling easily overwhelmed when things don't go the way I wanted it to. I also feel extremely restless when I haven't accomplished a single task for the day (may it be trivial or important). In addition, I can't keep my surroundings clean and organized if my mind is still busy and messy
AN EVEN BIGGER POSSIBILITY than all the INFJ stereotypes on this video:
Many people watching this aren't INFJs but are rather INFJ wannabes looking for the slightest similarities in themselves to fit the INFJ mold. Confirmation bias.
Practically EVERYONE in the comments section of INFJ videos claim they are INFJs, which makes you wonder if it really is the rarest type.
All personality types are awesome in their own way.
I’m an ENFP wondering where the real INFJ’s are at
EXACTLY! As an INFJ myself, I'm only here to know more about myself, not see bullsh*t about how special I am! I'm a struggling person trying to get through life and my personality doesn't help sometimes. Thanks for posting this comment, I appreciate it
Its because INFJs are one of the few personality types drawn to this type of research. We actively seek out insightful information such as this. It helps us understand ourself even more in order to make us better equipped to help others.
@@TysonMakoaWickesthat may as well be true. However, it can also come across as insinuating quite dismissively and presumptuously that those who don't flock to the comments sections of these videos are likely not INFJs.
Im here! Lol ive watched a couple of videos now after finding out im an infj-a and i cant believe how accurate they are but this one for sure takes the cake. Watching it with my partner and were both laughing and smiling at this on how it is. ❤ It
I was pretty excited for this series when you introduced it since I love this channel, but this info wasn't the best in my opinion. This description is like a mix of INFJ and XXFP or XXTP. Please research more for your next episode!
Exactly the video was so vague. But also don’t forget,personality types are not a proven real thing anyway. So many personality types share similar traits, so I highly doubt you can group a personality. We as humans all share similar traits and characteristics. Also the Myers Briggs test is actually kinda controversial, it types people by letters rather than using the cognitive functions. This video should of explained it better, also another thing to mention is they completely copied the audio from an old video. From this one- ua-cam.com/video/bNuxqVuV018/v-deo.html They have done this before too. They just tend to repost old videos and never explain things in great detail. In my opinion it just seems like they make videos just to get views at this point 😞
I’m personally an INFP but I still watched this cause it seemed cool
Nice.
They copied the same audio from this video. They just copy old videos ua-cam.com/video/bNuxqVuV018/v-deo.html
Same! I am an INFP who is VERY interested in INFJs hehe. They are my favorite types, love you INFJs you guys are amazing ❤
Aww thanks. Props to you
Ayyyy I’m an INFP-T
As an INFJ with ADHD Inattentive Type, I am not well-organized, however I have found some simple cornerstones of organization that keep my life afloat and avoid too many disasters.
Also, as a frugal person, I don't really identify with the "enjoying the finer things of life" bit. Although I do want to look good and not too slovenly, I won't drop too much money or time on things I see as superficial, like expensive wine or clothing or shoes.
EDIT: Thinking more, I think the "finer things" bit is highly individual. I will spend a lot of money on things that I care about, i.e., my niche interests and things where I recognize value. But even there I will apply my frugal values.
Ever since I found out that I am an INFJ-A, I couldn’t stop readingd and learning more about myself.
I agree about the book part, I find myself able to kill time so easily-but I need to be unbothered as well
Having ADHD and being INFJ at the same time makes life really difficult. Like all these things are spot on but at the same time I have a hard time with organizing cause ADHD makes me unable to focus and make me unorganized.
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Happy New year, to all INFJs
We are magic for sure
Let's rock this year!! (Who's in?!)😊
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Im in! Happy World Introvert Day and Happy New Year to you too! 💕🎆🎊🥳
I'm in!
I'm already in! 💜
@@taetaechimchim930 sure!
I took the MBTI test and got INFJ.
I'm not the type to organize things, honestly I procrastinate when I feel like it. Also I don't know if it's just me because even though I haven't exeprienced anything related to other's problems, it feels like I understand what it feels like to be in their situation and it helps me in comforting them given that I understand the situation they're in. That's why my friends always asks me for an advice when it comes to their relationships (although I haven't been on any since I was born, funny right?). Btw Happy New Year guys have a blessed year, stay positive and never give up, we survived 2020, I'm pretty sure we will survive this one as well.
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I doubt you’re an INFJ
@@ladyfoxwf1075 INFJ could be organized and messy at the same time. But there must be a reason why we procrastinate to organize. I'd love to organize and do my homework, but I'm a new mom, and I have to do all of that, and babysitting tho. So I'm exhausted everyday, even I often forget to having meal. My home is messy, but I can't stand about dirty room.
Another reason, we have no time to do it. Or we often distracted by many things, ex: social media, even this video, about INFJ in UA-cam. We could just watch about MBTI all day, especially for our type.
I took MBTI test 6 times, and 3 times I got INFJ, and 3 times I got INFP. My husband is INFP, and we're so much different, even though we have similarity in a few aspect. He's so messy, the worst of worst messy. He randomly did homework in the middle night if his mood was good. I can't stand his randomly honestly. That's why I do all of the homework. And I believe that I'm INFJ 100% through this situation (it's one of difference).
(I'm sorry for my bad English).
@@nonawinda8150 This is interesting because my cousin in an ENFJ and he procrastinates too. Your English is really good
I’m an INFJ and one thing you said in this video that I have that I know all of my family thinks I shouldn’t be is a therapist. I have an issue to where I say sorry to often because I want to take away other peoples problems, and blame it on myself. I can also feel other peoples’ emotions like a super power. And of course I like the finer things in life, as long as they are comfortable UwU. Thanks for this video. You guys inspire me so much.
It's so hard to make people to understand us, why can they do as we do..
We cant force anyone to understand ourselves..cuz people only think according to their current mental state and the only thing we can do is to understand and express ourselves and just stay happy being an infj🤝✌
INFJ: I wanted to say that the figure's hand details improved a lot, and I appreciate it.
Some of these things are correct. But when I get busy I don’t have time to read or solve puzzles 😭. Having a part-time job and going to college can be very draining.
Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. Take really good care of your sleep patterns, diet and leisure time: I ended up with a chronic atypical depression for doing that (college+part time job, a ton of stress)
I've been taking the MBTI test every few years since I was about 13 and I've always been an INFJ, and I'm 22 now 😊 Loved this so much, it's definitely spot on for me 👌
I am an INTJ, I took the test like so times, and sometimes I tried to cheat into something else, surprisingly I am still INTJ. But one or two of these INFJ traits seems relate on me. Number 6. Buying best quality stuff is always my thing, I love it when people compliment me wearing expensive or branded stuff on my body. Number 3. When it comes to social life, I know how to encourage people to help me get my goals. I don't understand how is this could happen, MBTI result really confused me.
I'm so proud of myself cause I'm getting emotionally stronger
Cheers from an hypersensitive INFJ!
YES!
i’ve never clicked so fast thank youuu🥺
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I confided in a friend not too long ago about the fact that I didn't feel very well in my class even though I was laughing a lot and getting along with everyone. I told her that for me to feel close to someone who is my friend was to have shared something much deeper,what I hadn't done with my classmates and which finally hurt me when I came home at night. My friend didn't understand me and I felt even worse...
I’m the type of introvert who acts like an extrovert around their friends so everyone thinks they’re an extrovert and assumes they love to be around people 24/7 T^T
I'm not very happy to be INFJ, the thought scares me for some reason. Well, Imma go off to Platform 9 3/4 now! See ya in 9 months!
well,its been 9 months,,,wya
One of the toxic things I hate as an INFJ-T is being a perfectionist, as it is one of the major reasons I procrastinate. Whenever I am not satisfied with my work, it totally upsets me. Even the tiniest mistakes bother me!
I just hope that someday I will overcome this (toxic) trait. :((
You know my teacher does say (from personal experience) that perfectionism = procrastination. Basically it goes hand in hand with each other. I wonder if they're also an INFJ?
this is why I hate and love my digitial design class, I can spend like an entire class period trying to make a brush pattern look good.
it's difficult to get this trait out of our system, and we only get to improve it a little in procrastination then bounce back to this trait--
This is definitely me. Honestly this is my main problem with drawing. I'm such a perfectionist that if I draw something however basic and I don't get it 100% right I'll erase it and have to do it all over again.
Also have this problem when drawing (traditional art). I can always somehow find something to improve on, endlessly. Also with the turbulent trait, I improve quickly from intense reflections. It's all about positivity and self awareness though, it got me through plenty of tight situations.
I honestly don’t care what type I’m, but it’s sure helpful when you can explain why I have felt different my entire life. I know I’m an INfJ. I’ve taken an actual MBTI test. Not to mention everything that I’ve researched all comes back to the INFJ and I click well with others on here who are INFJ
as a male INFJ.... I never realised exactly how rare I was. This was very entertaining and accurate, as per usual.
Thank you guys, you’ve inspired me to start my own UA-cam channel!🥰
Happy to see! What will your channel be about?
@@Psych2go its about social and philosophical topics, I also made a video about introversion 😍🤗
I'm one and this is spot on. But I have never considered myself classy. Other people might. I've heard "confident individualism." I definitely identify as that. As a minimalist, I don't acquire too many things but I love what I do have because it makes me comfortable and happy.
"They're classy af" w/ the wine just reminds me of Minghao. He really is an INFJ
Me too ,I thought of him immediately. I am an intj and everything in this video applies to me as well .Intjs and infjs are very similar .
The only thing I cannot really approve is the classy thing. I like things minimalistic, yes, but I also love oversized sweaters etc. and often not formal clothes
@@derstein2606 I agree, I like classy clothes occasionally but my go to clothes are usually comfy and practical .
INFJs dont have Te nor Si to like classy things. That is an STJ/NFP trait.
Me too!
Give spotlight to other personalities too. They all have their unique spot.
-ENFP
I love being with other people. But that does not make me a good talker. Extroverts can be shy.
@Jeanne Prado & @Makenzie
Check Frank James' channel. He covers all 16 personality types (including ENFP) in funny skits & does a great job at it.
Let un INFJs have our time in the sun rn, finally don't feel so alone anymore😌
Hi, ENFP. I loooooovvvee ENFP people. Well, at least to my adopted son. Knowing that he is ENFP and I am INFJ makes all clear why we so longing for each other ... despite how different we are one to another. 😁
thanks for saying this
I agree with this, I hate seeing infj glorified. I’m infj.
INFJ-A.. Definitely hit the points on not making the day boring and always learning and striving for goals... Which is why I'm here now 😁💯👍🏾💪🏾
don’t take it the wrong way but i feel like everyone talks about infjs and all the other types are kinda forgotten because they’re less “special”, i think it would be interesting to know about other types too :)
I believe she said They’re doing a series on all 16 types.
I knew that it will be annoying for other types. Mainly because INFJs are rare and somewhat different than all other types, I think that is what attract people so much. INFJs don't talk about their personality often, its the other personality types that like to talk about them. ❦︎
@@TheCleanLife0605 oh you’re right, my bad
They're doing a mini series on all types
She probably won’t be doing more videos about other personality types because here is the same video audio from an old video. They just copy old videos because they ran out of ideas ua-cam.com/video/bNuxqVuV018/v-deo.html
I carry a ready bag for every situation possible. Accidents, menstrual cycles, you name it.
I discovered thanks to this channel that I'm an INFJ ,i did tests but I never reflected in those personality , so thanksss!!!
It took me 49 years to discover my personality type. Thanks, I guess we are all gathered here now.
I'm INFJ and I love when everything is organized (makes me relaxed) but I'm also the least organized person you'll ever meet.
Yes, you have to be loose and free to be where you need to be. The loose cog that can fit anywhere just in time to stop disaster.
“They’re classy”.
Does this explain my love for clothes from the 1960’s?
I’m an INFP! I love INFJ’s! Such great friends! 😍💖✨✨✨
❤
We INFJs love INFPs too. I've had several INFP friends.
@@jessn.3851 true
INFPs always seem to find us INFJs
And we are far too classy to use "AF!"
I almost never share my problems, and one of the most hurtful things that I ever heard from someone was "you're telling this just to be pitied, but no one really cares" from my friend
Immediately clicked when I saw INFJ haha
Is anyone else an INFJ?
Me too🤣
INFJ-T here
no
when you said "organize" my sticky notes on the wall felt it
Absolutely relate to all of this, I’m an INFJ too! So glad to have a video about us
Introverts are more than extroverts where they feel they are understood
For example: UA-cam channels 😂😂
They do not like to use emojis
YASSS LMAO
@@elias0282 it's not like that...I am an introvert and I like to use emojis 😁
@@elias0282 sorta just depends on who you are my mother is an infj judt like me and uses tons, and TONS of emojis.
And indeed yes some yts or most are introverts but tend to look really social extroverts. For ex me. (Im in a diff acc but i havt a yt, im not popualr so dont ask)
This channel helped me with many things by the way i am an infj too
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All details of INFJs are so me, i am in deep shock
- shookt INFJ
SleepyBoi Kian take the test first
@@Ugh258 i did, like ages ago 🙄
@Christian probably
@Christian yeah, and hmmmm probably, who am I to judge :0
Oh my Goooood
It doesn’t even describe anything I don’t get it
Happy Introvert Day to everyone!!
Yes, I'm earlyy
Thanks & same to you ❤️
Wow! As a close cousin ENFJ, I related quite a bit to these! Especially the organizational, social climbing skills and making the routine un-boring. 😁