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If A Man Is EMOTIONALLY Unavailable, He Will DO THIS!
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- Опубліковано 19 сер 2024
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Anyone else done with men right now?! 🙋🏽♀️
🙋🏽♀️ 😔 I am deciding if I should continue my 2 years with this ex military man who is very stoic and has no time for emotions, none whatsoever because he is a happy man and doesn’t need to save anyone and according to him he doesn’t need a woman he just simply enjoys my company so long as I am constantly positive and motivated even thru adversity. It’s been tough love with him but I’m learning so much, I just hate being a woman sometimes and feeling emotions 🥴
1:26 Me. They want you to be available when they want to see you or think about you.
Yes tired of the emotionally unavailable men
@@cassandradixon7489exactly. Power play!
@@taraminsalee6374smart woman you tried and followed your intuition. You have opened the path for a great man to come along now 🙏🏽
Where does this emotional unavailability go when they are trying to lure you into their trap!!! Frustrating, exasperating, and devastating 😢
My ex told me at one point in the relationship that the thought of considering someone else’s feelings was exhausting. I wish I had paid more attention to that confession!
Sounds like a Narc!
@@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529, yes, highly narcissistic for sure!
My exhusband was never moved when I would cry, which rarely happened.
That was ah stone age man ?
I didn’t notice in the beginning how emotionally unavailable my boyfriend was… he just seemed a bit introverted. We both had pretty awful divorces in the past and we were happy to not argue. But after awhile, I realised I was keeping stuff inside because I was scared of confrontation. But later, I got a bit more brave and started telling him how I felt and noticed he would either deflect, was almost emotionless, and/or would give me the silent treatment. Problem was that this didn’t happen that often and we really enjoyed our time together. Fast forward 4 years and he has gotten really cold, blames me for his response. He decided he was done with the relationship and completely blames me. I tried talking to him many times and he says nothing. It is so incredibly hurtful. I don’t know why I still love him after all this…😢
Let it go if he will not seek therapy I had a man who done that defecting my emotions or things he would do that would hurt me move on
One hand can,t clap
Once red flags are noticed
Don,t prolong another failed relationship
4:10 totally agree with this point, firstly, you never know the personal battles a person has to go through and secondly, people *can* change, however, this is a choice that they need decide on in order to make progress in the relationship
Hurt People, Hurt People.., And it takes two very strong willed/minded people. Healthy communication, patience, kindness, understanding and THE WANT TO CHANGE... It can never happen any other way or for any other reason.
So true!!
Can you do a video of why men are emotionally unavailable for their wives but not to other women
These videos are sooo helpful for me because I grew up in a family that never taught me about relationship skills because my parents are conservative. Thank you for spreading your wisdom Stephen, you’ve helped me understand better
Same here, but I have recently learned that father‘s don’t give up the game to their daughters out of fear their daughters will look at them differently. that’s why there’s so many clueless women even those whose fathers were present.
That's me right there. I love my father and he was always there, but I wish he warned me about boys and men and how evil and manipulative they could be toward me.@@Dogscatsbikes
Conservative views have nothing to do with relational skills. There are conservatives who are deeply relationally healthy and progressives who are relationally immature/damaged. It's about attachment style, not conservative/progressive.
@@healthyfreckle I can’t speak for the OP but I don’t think she meant conservative political views. For example, my Middle Eastern parents are very conservative in their way of life and politically, they are Democrats. My parents never talked to me realistically about sex or drugs. They just said don’t have sex until you’re married and if you ever do drugs, we will disown you. By the way, it didn’t work.
I am so blessed that my relationship is based upon trust, honesty and an openness between both of us to always share our emotions and feelings. We are in love and I have never been happier. Thanks for all the positive and knowledgeable content it truly helped my man and I find one another ❤
he always said, my feelings are my responsibility and he said also, that he has no remote control over my feelings/emotions. There is some truth in that, but all in all - I care how he feels , I mean he is my loved one, so if and how he feels about even stuff I do or idk whatever, it is all important to me... I always thought it is how it always works for everyone..that we care for each other and for our feelings , like if you feel upset over something I did/or did not do , then I will see what I can do for betterment of situation because I love you, not to shrug and say- ah you go figure it out, i dont care and not gonna do a thing...what is that..
mine told me to my face he feels nothing, he is no longer emotionally attached to me, and he made sure he spelt it out through his every actions.
My ex told me that when I broke up with him and said we could fix it. I broke up because I thought he was emotionally unavailable and then he told me, hes no longer attractive to me romantically. So he confirmed all my fears. Which made it easier to let him go.
Yes, this is so good!! I just ended a relationship becus he was still grieving and I felt I had to put a stop to not knowing if he was ready ❤
I see a lot of ppl just trashing and bashing men in this state….i don’t see anyone talking about how men in this state can move past this. Some of us recognize where we are and actually want to be better.
Tbh I’m emotionally unavailable and I own up to it. But what people fail to realize how many times was I played and lied to and cheated on? Girls have told me they would never leave or do anything that would hurt me but when the sh** hits the fan what do they do? Take a wild guess. Sometimes a “villain” is a victim whose story is untold. But if I have to deal with a hurt woman I have to “suck it up”
@@peterjrcoolidge Same goes for men when s hits the fan. BS, lies. Women don't do that. You are a liar, I don't buy it. Yes, could say the same about you. Women did probably because she got tired of getting it done to her first. Also maybe you should look at not being so shallow. Such BS, men have been like this forever. Stop blaming women you assholes! BS, lies. Own up to it! You have been assholes since the beginning of time! It wasn't dealing with a woman. Sorry not sorry. Also doesn't work that way buddy. Women react to men. That's the nature. That's how it works. Blame yourselves. Yes buddy, if women have to, so do you.
Thank you for finally quantifying this! W
With each of every unavailable guy, they were not affected by any of my emotions. For the worst ones, they didn't care behind the distress behind my words or unwilling to uncover what I said in order to understand me. For the decent ones, they'd politely decline any invitation to further understand me or would make it clear that another woman has captured their genuine interest.
Thank you FROM MY HEART AND SOUL for explaining this!!!
My man says he's not going to babyfy me..and he says I need to get strong but his excuse for not being emotional or having time to spend with me is because he works and goes to school
I'm not looking for a Man right now
Not supposed to look. He will find you. Continue to focus on you.
But consider this healthy relationship is a two way thing
As a woman you have to make yourself available to
You both have to meet half way
This is an "on-time" video! Thank you, Stephan!
When i was emotional and cried out of frustration or anger... my ex would find this attractive and jump on me. Now that i look back... does he like seeing me in pain? My ex is very stoic but would help the homeless around the corner than to help me with my frustration towards him.. or anyone else. I guess what i was looking for was empathy. That should have taught me something long ago. Very dissmissive are major flags!
That is very disturbing!!!
This video is very helpful!! This gives us a solid understanding of how to be better versions of ourselves before entering into relationships. 🙏🏽
He said that to me for me not to tell my problems to him cos he’s got so much going through in his life that he doesn’t need the stress
I have met a very bad guy been with him for 10 years, it is horrible
Ha 😂 ha 😂 are I serious ? A bad guy and you stayed with him
For 10 years ? Crazy u
Crazy good!! Thank you ☺️
Thank you for this Video it’s very helpful to listen to it’s very interesting..
I believe I’m in a emotionally abusive relationship.. 😞
Why is it that you know you are in such a situation but you choose to stay in it . I believe you will find the man of your dreams out there but that will come true only if you master the courage to step out of this relationship you ought to do so for your peace of mind
They call me emotionally unavailable. I am just at a peaceful place and don't like drama. A lot of women feed off drama, thats why they like the "bad guy" per say. Dating a calm and relaxed man is hard for them. I am not a pushover either. I just won't go back and forth with you. We GROWN ADULTS.
BS, wrong, we don't like drama. very very very very few if any do.
Hmmmm interesting!
some random woman and man do not communicate well and therefore, the man may not be into that woman. But, the woman will be like >
I AM DONE WITH MEN!
and other women: YEAHHHHHHH!!!!!!
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I think it’s wrong to label someone emotionally unavailable just because you don’t get the response or reaction out of them that YOU want. Example I’m currently going through… I talk can have deep conversations but as have happened multiple times while sitting listening to my gf talking or venting about something I wait an listen but when I talk she blurts out YOUR EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE you don’t know how to comfort or show empathy. I think women weaponize this emotionally unavailable statement and you support it. Men talk and show emotion and not all men are the same and yet yall demonize men when they do try to talk and listen or try to understand. Smh
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This is BS