Stephan, you are so right about this! My previous boyfriend was perpetually stuck in his feminine energy but I enabled his shenanigans by being a super woman who is highly educated, successful, and independent. That dude barely lifted a finger to be with me and I resented him for it. I dumped him and am now dating again. Wow! I have discovered that new potential boyfriends are very masculine and take great joy in being providers now that I am embracing my femininity. It’s been great! This change of mindset has been a game changer and I am still my awesome self!
In support of women. Some guys look at femininity as weakness. The men who are broke, busted, and disgusted are the ones that allow us to be strong and feminine most times bc it benefits them. Also, we have to be careful of effiminate men who are jealous/envious of us. However, I understand what you're talking about. ✌🏾
Proverbs 4:23 “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” A woman should be wise regarding who they open their hearts 💕 too.
Yes for the first point. - women need to live in their feminine state which encourages men around her to be more masculine. I've been studying this for years and it really happens. I'm married and not nearly as physically attractive as others but learning how to lean into being a high value feminine lady has really transformed my life in many ways, including my marriage.
The last woman I dated was feminine (in the beginning, before things fell apart). It didn't take me long to straight up tell her that her feminine energy had me 100% hooked, and I wasn't going nowhere. 😅
After my spiritual awakening, I realized we learn to use masculine and feminine traits. It's knowing how and when to use the traits. We are balancing wounded masculine and feminine traits in both men and women. It's about balancing the traits and using them as needed.
I grew up with my dad I’m not very feminine, I like tattoos piercings, skateboarding, speak my mind, but I also like to cook, nuture, and take care of my people so it’s a weird diversity
@@outsidethebox8406 i don’t think you can take away something someone enjoys such as me liking skateboarding all to get male approval. Plenty of guys like that I skateboard. There’s nothing wrong with having non feminine traits all the time.
One of the things that God has been healing me of while we're apart is that fear of vulnerability, because every bit of that is rooted in deep rejection. How can you receive love if at your core you don't believe that you deserve it? How can you accept a man's help with your life if you don't think you're worthy of it? You can't. He has a deep fear of being vulnerable because his trust issues were violated as a child, so God's got work to do in him, and since he's more than worth it I am more than willing to wait for him to contact me and return. But He also needed to change my heart in this. Like another poster, I'm highly educated and was taught by a dad who wanted boys how to take full care of myself. That just gets too lonely. It's constantly exhausting. I love the way Joyce Meyer put it: "If you put walls up, sure, you're protected from outside hurt. But while you're keeping others out, you're walling yourself IN, and that hurts just as much."
With my ex, I was trying to be more feminine in my receiving mode. He ended up resenting me, calling me a gold digger. I never asked for money or for him to buy me things. I always was appreciative and tried to pick up smaller tabs. Turns out he was a 50/50 guy...
I am comfortable being vulnerable and feminine but men perceive it as me being weak. Further, I am looking for a partner who makes decisions WITH me. I want a man who is so comfortable in his masculine energy, that he is also comfortable being in his feminine energy as well. I am happy to having him do for me…after we have decided TOGETHER the course of our life together.
I don’t buy into this masculine/feminine energy being the end all and be-all anymore. All of a sudden, dating is all about this dynamic. And it’s mostly women that need to change into a “receiver” as if we are empty vessels that need to have men pour into us to be real feminine women. This is stuff from the 50s and 60s by men that are not happy that they are not needed as much as women become more independent. Why don’t men support and love independent and strong women as they are instead of insisting we become someone who they feel “need” them. It’s all so silly.
Since society quit living with that dynamic families, relationships and dating have gone down the hole. Don’t get me wrong everyone can do what they like but It’s the truth. There are definitely men who are fine with strong, independent women. 😊
This is the way it was ordained by God, not society. When we realize that life only works and thrives within the order and system of God, is when we can actually get things back on track. We can’t control what we’re attracted to. Trying to get female-male dynamics to change after thousands of years of evolutionary biology is frankly, silly
Women and men was made to complement each other. Women need men and men need Women. That's nature. There's nothing silly about that. If Women is that independant why we can't have babies without men ? Even an independant and ultra succesful men would need softness of Women to Feel fullfiled. Men needs mother, women since their birth. And I think the concept of feminine and masculine energy emerge nowadays because there's rise of homosexuallity. Couple can be from the same sex but still, they can't have the same energy no matter what.
Because we evolved over millions of years to adapt to different roles. Our bodies and our instincts as social territorial mammals were designed for different roles.
It's not a 'product'. The elders taught us men have 3 powers, and were created to serve the female nation. Protectors Providers Pleasurers... Give me that man and I'm content. Cooking, making my house pretty, keeping it clean... IF he's loyal, attentive, kind, and I like him, I treat him like my king. As long as he keeps treating me like his queen. Yet to find this, personally, lol, but I like the idea. You know ?
Stephan I have warned people that sex destroys a relationship. A relationship should be based on Christ. Celibacy is so important in a relationship. Love should be the the foundation of the relationship.
Difficult when a strong capable lady who has own property and pays bills and digs gardens. Men like me as say my strength is sexy but then drop me as it repels them.
@ericablanton9006 I was a virgin when I got married and it still didn't work.. He told me he was too young to have gotten married, broken, and hope to one day find himself. Lord bless him. He spoke his truth can't be mad at that .. but you can find yourself without me tho.. God bless.
01) Being open and receptive. Open to love, open to compliments, open to men doing things for you. A man wants to fight for you, receive it.
Stephan, you are so right about this! My previous boyfriend was perpetually stuck in his feminine energy but I enabled his shenanigans by being a super woman who is highly educated, successful, and independent. That dude barely lifted a finger to be with me and I resented him for it. I dumped him and am now dating again. Wow! I have discovered that new potential boyfriends are very masculine and take great joy in being providers now that I am embracing my femininity. It’s been great! This change of mindset has been a game changer and I am still my awesome self!
❤am doing the same here😊and even men on the street now say hello to me or want to strike up a conversation, they’re complete strangers 😂
U said a lot but then again nothing at all. Give some details on what you changed
@@Tnc874 I already said what I wanted to. Use your imagination if my post isn’t detailed enough for your purposes.
In support of women. Some guys look at femininity as weakness. The men who are broke, busted, and disgusted are the ones that allow us to be strong and feminine most times bc it benefits them. Also, we have to be careful of effiminate men who are jealous/envious of us. However, I understand what you're talking about. ✌🏾
Proverbs 4:23
“Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”
A woman should be wise regarding who they open their hearts 💕 too.
Yes for the first point. - women need to live in their feminine state which encourages men around her to be more masculine. I've been studying this for years and it really happens. I'm married and not nearly as physically attractive as others but learning how to lean into being a high value feminine lady has really transformed my life in many ways, including my marriage.
The last woman I dated was feminine (in the beginning, before things fell apart). It didn't take me long to straight up tell her that her feminine energy had me 100% hooked, and I wasn't going nowhere. 😅
Do u mind sharing some examples?
After my spiritual awakening, I realized we learn to use masculine and feminine traits. It's knowing how and when to use the traits. We are balancing wounded masculine and feminine traits in both men and women. It's about balancing the traits and using them as needed.
It's balance.
Deep Message!!! I’m learning how to walk in my femininity ❤❤❤ I’ve been independent soo long 🥹
Embrace healing! Got it!❤️🙏🏽
Great video, and it could be said for both sexes. Men are as scared as hell of love and being vulnerable.😮
I grew up with my dad I’m not very feminine, I like tattoos piercings, skateboarding, speak my mind, but I also like to cook, nuture, and take care of my people so it’s a weird diversity
Do more of the latter.
@@sunshinesunflowerz1647 what’s the latter?
@@seizuregirlllllthe cooking & nurturing
@@outsidethebox8406 i don’t think you can take away something someone enjoys such as me liking skateboarding all to get male approval. Plenty of guys like that I skateboard. There’s nothing wrong with having non feminine traits all the time.
Absolutely true! Don’t change yourself if you are happy with who you are!
A full masculine man and
And an outright feminine woman in a relationship ?
Nothing sweeter that thst
Love will overpour
Like the NIAGARA fall
One of the things that God has been healing me of while we're apart is that fear of vulnerability, because every bit of that is rooted in deep rejection. How can you receive love if at your core you don't believe that you deserve it? How can you accept a man's help with your life if you don't think you're worthy of it? You can't.
He has a deep fear of being vulnerable because his trust issues were violated as a child, so God's got work to do in him, and since he's more than worth it I am more than willing to wait for him to contact me and return. But He also needed to change my heart in this. Like another poster, I'm highly educated and was taught by a dad who wanted boys how to take full care of myself.
That just gets too lonely. It's constantly exhausting. I love the way Joyce Meyer put it: "If you put walls up, sure, you're protected from outside hurt. But while you're keeping others out, you're walling yourself IN, and that hurts just as much."
❤Embrace healing ❤ be receptive❤ embrace healing❤ be receptive❤ embrace healing❤ be receptive❤❤❤❤
With my ex, I was trying to be more feminine in my receiving mode. He ended up resenting me, calling me a gold digger. I never asked for money or for him to buy me things. I always was appreciative and tried to pick up smaller tabs. Turns out he was a 50/50 guy...
I am comfortable being vulnerable and feminine but men perceive it as me being weak. Further, I am looking for a partner who makes decisions WITH me. I want a man who is so comfortable in his masculine energy, that he is also comfortable being in his feminine energy as well. I am happy to having him do for me…after we have decided TOGETHER the course of our life together.
They perceive it weakness if you let them do you what you dont want. We have to balance openness and strong boundaries.
They perceive it weakness if you let them do you what you dont want. We have to balance openness and strong boundaries.
Talk about it, King 🙌🏾
I don’t buy into this masculine/feminine energy being the end all and be-all anymore. All of a sudden, dating is all about this dynamic. And it’s mostly women that need to change into a “receiver” as if we are empty vessels that need to have men pour into us to be real feminine women. This is stuff from the 50s and 60s by men that are not happy that they are not needed as much as women become more independent. Why don’t men support and love independent and strong women as they are instead of insisting we become someone who they feel “need” them. It’s all so silly.
Since society quit living with that dynamic families, relationships and dating have gone down the hole. Don’t get me wrong everyone can do what they like but It’s the truth. There are definitely men who are fine with strong, independent women. 😊
This is the way it was ordained by God, not society. When we realize that life only works and thrives within the order and system of God, is when we can actually get things back on track. We can’t control what we’re attracted to. Trying to get female-male dynamics to change after thousands of years of evolutionary biology is frankly, silly
Women and men was made to complement each other. Women need men and men need Women. That's nature. There's nothing silly about that. If Women is that independant why we can't have babies without men ? Even an independant and ultra succesful men would need softness of Women to Feel fullfiled. Men needs mother, women since their birth. And I think the concept of feminine and masculine energy emerge nowadays because there's rise of homosexuallity. Couple can be from the same sex but still, they can't have the same energy no matter what.
Because we evolved over millions of years to adapt to different roles. Our bodies and our instincts as social territorial mammals were designed for different roles.
It's not a 'product'. The elders taught us men have 3 powers, and were created to serve the female nation. Protectors Providers
Pleasurers...
Give me that man and I'm content. Cooking, making my house pretty, keeping it clean... IF he's loyal, attentive, kind, and I like him, I treat him like my king. As long as he keeps treating me like his queen. Yet to find this, personally, lol, but I like the idea. You know ?
So tired of the independent thing. I'm not and don't act as that but I wish not to work and be a housewife and work at my home not anywhere else
Youre such a genius
Well what if he’s always talking about he does everything for everyone that he’s there for everyone And it him they call to do things ?
Stephan I have warned people that sex destroys a relationship. A relationship should be based on Christ. Celibacy is so important in a relationship. Love should be the the foundation of the relationship.
Yes!! Absolutely right 🙏👑
❤
Go ahead & just put me in my place Stephan 😂😂😊❤❤❤
😂😅 exactly sis
❤️🙏🏾
Difficult when a strong capable lady who has own property and pays bills and digs gardens. Men like me as say my strength is sexy but then drop me as it repels them.
Not all men . I did it and he was upset as men got used to not pour in women anymore
True, but it takes the right man to make a woman feel safe to be in their feminine energy too.
Truth
I can do better
I can’t believe ur 45!? U look 31
#1 trait is being a virgin
Lol
Are you a Virginia Sir...lol
@ericablanton9006 I was a virgin when I got married and it still didn't work..
He told me he was too young to have gotten married, broken, and hope to one day find himself. Lord bless him. He spoke his truth can't be mad at that .. but you can find yourself without me tho.. God bless.
Sir…. You are delusional. Buy a dog 🐶
Are you serious?
If we understood what true love is, we wouldn't be afraid of it 💯 🤎