The Emotions Men Need Feel To Keep In Love With You LONG TERM

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
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  • @trv0094
    @trv0094 24 дні тому +37

    The typing is so satisfying.. mistakes, backspaces and all 🙂‍↔️✨

  • @thepopculturedilettante1194
    @thepopculturedilettante1194 22 дні тому +10

    I’d rather reframe your first two points as just one “respect”
    Long term loyal relationships are based on respect. My father said once “I could never have cheated on your mother, I respected her too much to ever do that to her”
    That one sentence completely changed my entire perspective. Find someone who respects you. And that you respect. And honestly, you shouldn’t have to work hard for that or manipulate that. Respect yourself, and only stay with people who also respect you.

  • @gotrinigirl76
    @gotrinigirl76 22 дні тому +8

    Cheating being ok is crazy🤢

    • @mimekodesigngroup853
      @mimekodesigngroup853 22 дні тому +2

      Forgivable, not OK.

    • @LadyofLeisure.
      @LadyofLeisure. 3 дні тому

      @@mimekodesigngroup853 never forgivable because I could never look at the person the same way. Yuck

  • @RubGoddess
    @RubGoddess 24 дні тому +9

    It's not ok to cheat because you've been together for a long time, unless there's an agreement

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  24 дні тому +14

      Look man I always said cheating is not okay but every time I talk to couples who've been together for more than 10 years. They've all experienced some form of cheating. So unfortunately I got to take that into account as well. It seems like the longer you've been together the more space you have to forgive.

    • @RubGoddess
      @RubGoddess 24 дні тому +4

      @@MindfulAttraction2.0 it's the way you said it and it's not ok, it's a relationship killer almost always, and you're only as sick as your secrets

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  24 дні тому +9

      True, but I expect you guys to understand that. That's not what I mean LOL. But I think I should make that a little clearer. Okay so you're right

    • @RubGoddess
      @RubGoddess 24 дні тому +3

      @@MindfulAttraction2.0 😘

    • @user-zh6ud2bd5t
      @user-zh6ud2bd5t 23 дні тому

      Where’s your link?

  • @kentporterfield3968
    @kentporterfield3968 24 дні тому +7

    Not out tha window lol😊😊😊 I gotta say, very creative! I love it!!!!!

    • @PinkQB
      @PinkQB 15 днів тому

      😂😂😂love it!

  • @dits2007
    @dits2007 24 дні тому +45

    Ugh... I understand it all, but have no energy for those games. Cant there be just peaceful and uncomplicated relationships?

    • @TR-ii3xu
      @TR-ii3xu 24 дні тому +16

      Interesting that you see these as games. I see these as foundational to a healthy sense of self and building strong and healthy relationships.

    • @freeagentgirl23
      @freeagentgirl23 24 дні тому +14

      Get in the game or get out. The thing is that you HAVE played these games before but you didn’t know. You probably liked a guy before but not that much so you didn’t text him back so fast. Then a couple of weeks later you fall for him. That’s a game you were playing without knowing.

    • @jelizabethpetrie6656
      @jelizabethpetrie6656 24 дні тому +8

      Playing games in the beginning is fun & the uncertainty makes it intriguing. And walking away shows ya both the other option. Which is good. Teaches one, what is your priority? How much does this relationship matter to your life?❤ Contrast (shadow shows you the difference from your light) 🌗

    • @Peace-lt8bc
      @Peace-lt8bc 24 дні тому +2

      Yes however it's rare. Good luck out there

    • @Vanillaaxo
      @Vanillaaxo 23 дні тому +1

      Oh Go somewhere else karen

  • @Kp-ez2xc
    @Kp-ez2xc 24 дні тому +6

    Pls make a video about signs a guy is obsessed with his ex still

    • @Ashtarot77
      @Ashtarot77 24 дні тому +6

      Number 1 sign. He keeps mentioning her during conversations when they've split ages ago.

  • @PrettyAngel3355
    @PrettyAngel3355 24 дні тому +6

    The lofi legend of Zelda beat tho 7:55

  • @MsZuegig
    @MsZuegig 23 дні тому +3

    The music recently hahahah❤ father alex you're funny ngl

  • @maliktormei283
    @maliktormei283 23 дні тому +4

    So hard compromising the sex part as i have high drive😅
    Father Alex pls do contents for more sexual subjects

  • @mpch6298
    @mpch6298 10 днів тому

    Alex, great vid but please keep your old music, the slow one. Other pieces don'tmatch and are distracting.

  • @YoungwildFree-o7v
    @YoungwildFree-o7v 24 дні тому +17

    Dalexis, I’ve been a fan for years and have loved your videos-they’ve been a huge help in building my confidence in dating. But I have to ask, WHY do you sometimes normalize toxic ideas in your content?
    In this video you mentioned that cheating in a long-term relationship is okay. This seems completely at odds with your overall advice to “walk away” if you ever face disrespect. Cheating in a long term relationship is disrespectful and should not be normalized in a monogamous relationship.
    I’m starting to think your advice changes when you change, and you understand the type of women you want in your life. Maybe cheating in a long term relationship is ok for you because you value threesomes or being open to multiple partners. But your ideals always change eventually, and some young monogamous women are left with your bad advice.
    In your older videos you would always advocated that having sex on the first date is fine and anyone who thinks otherwise isn’t worth your time. (I always rolled my eyes at that) Then, in 2024, you shifted to saying you now prefer waiting for sex. I really value your content-90% of it is fantastic and empowering. But when you make comments like these, it makes me question the message you're trying to send.
    Please be mindful that most of us are monogamous, and your audience may not share your views. Also young women are listening, and when they hear these toxic left field personal preferences of yours, it will influence them.
    I still love you, it’s just frustrating to hear.

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  24 дні тому +4

      I never advocated doing it on the first date.

    • @YoungwildFree-o7v
      @YoungwildFree-o7v 24 дні тому +4

      There’s so many videos of you talking about sex on the first date… “sex on the first date - what men think”, “When to have sex with a man you like”… etc. But maybe using the word “advocating” is what you don’t like about that sentence? I’ll change the word - “normalizing having sex early on” because you like to say “men don’t know if they actually like you before they have sex”.. that sends a similar message even if you’re not intending it to.
      All that being said, thank you for empowering women - keep it up and keep the videos coming, i still appreciate all the content you put out in helping women create a thicker skin.
      If you ever have an opinion like “cheating is ok in a long-term relationship” maybe don’t just drop that and move on? Explain that it’s your own personal opinion that comes from your own views on a non-monogamous relationship. That’s all!

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  24 дні тому

      Again, I know what I teach from head to toe, that is not what I teach. You are oversimplifying a nuance point that I make.

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  24 дні тому

      From 3:17 I clearly explained the concept. Again, you're oversimplifying something that I never said. And running with it. ua-cam.com/video/6y_SFnBCYKI/v-deo.htmlsi=y87h9CktrHjiuaAi

    • @fearless926
      @fearless926 24 дні тому +3

      He didn't say to have sex on the first date, he said in 2-3 weeks. And that's realistic, 90% of men won't wait more than that if they have options. Or they'll find someone temporarly and come back to you when you are ready, but that is more rare.

  • @PrettyYvy33
    @PrettyYvy33 20 днів тому +1

    Wat if u have never caught them bt u know they went to link up with someone, that's cheating to

  • @mdchic1979
    @mdchic1979 13 днів тому

    Why the funeral music in the background Alex 🙄

  • @judithstevens4323
    @judithstevens4323 23 дні тому +3

    WHAT? CHEATING IS NEVER ACCEPTABLE❗💯💯

    • @ashleyk4072
      @ashleyk4072 23 дні тому +2

      I cheated and really regretted it. It happens when you don’t know how to fix problems and hope they eventually change

    • @mimekodesigngroup853
      @mimekodesigngroup853 22 дні тому

      In sickness and health… Love permits forgiveness

  • @karolinah12
    @karolinah12 24 дні тому +4

    Why do you spell ?

    • @Ashtarot77
      @Ashtarot77 24 дні тому

      You mean sound out the words while typing? Don't you do that when you have to type out big words? 😅 I'm guilty!

  • @Cocohontas82
    @Cocohontas82 24 дні тому +1

    💎

  • @CarlaLige
    @CarlaLige 22 дні тому +1

    Stop using the F word - it has no meaning.

    • @mimekodesigngroup853
      @mimekodesigngroup853 22 дні тому +3

      I love it when Father Alex swears. The best lessons are learned through the expression of the words than just meaning of the words