What I've learned, as a woman, is that having a life and de-centering men will make you do everything he is saying, naturally, without even realizing that you're doing. I am a very busy woman and I also really enjoy my alone time. So I naturally create tension in my relationships with men because they can sense my ability to distance myself from them. Most of the men I try to date seem to be very emotional over me and very confused about my feelings for them. Mostly because my responsiveness is unpredictable, I am very flirty and emotionally vulnerable one day and MIA the next. But its not a game for me, its just that dating is very low on my list of priorities so its what I am doing naturally. It will take a man to REALLY stand out for me to do more or invest more. But even then, I still do less.
I think that all men want is to be a hero and help someone, if they can. So when your heart is tugged thru sympathy for a woman, that’s that. I know a man who actually married his neighbor because she literally showed up on his doorstep in a rainstorm wrapped in a blanket with her two toddlers huddled against her, because her boyfriend had thrown the 3 of them out of his house. If that doesn’t bring out his protective nature, don’t know what would.
Sounds like a mix of understanding someone's personal bias, insecurities and need for pleasure makes them fall in love. I'm not the type to exploit that or take advantage. But shits interesting. Alex did it again!
Not all. Some have ADHD (like myself) or abhor routine of any kind (like myself) ..and I have been complimented on my genuineness multiple times. Consistent? Not on one thing in my life 😂 those who love me understand though. 🎨
I was having a bad day until Father Alex got to the “cat” story!!! I literally spit my food out, laughing so hard😂🤣😂Thank You Father Alex for lifting my spirits up today🙏🏼🙏🏼
I really feel like it just clicks with me,the way you explain things. Honestly, I don't even really do the manipulation part. The way you explain it all just allowed me to express my emotions and stop with people pleasing and acting all nice all the time. I just sit with hiw I feel and how I want to act instead of always being the bigger person.
Okay hold on because sometimes the unpredictability piece is not on purpose. I just had someone tell me “you can’t talk to me for hours one day and barely the next”…he’s like you gotta taper me down. But the reality is I’m not an everyday talker and I think I was drained but also busy. And Alexxxxx omg you are always spot on. I can always tell someone is insecure with our relationship when they start comparing or asking certain questions but then I know they actually care about the relationship…they are indicators
10:54-57 GOLDEN editing. ps: Girl who didnt want to be touched the next day was going against herself, and hanging with a guy when she ought to have been doing her own thing next day.. since, it's not like ur living t/g.. She wasn't listening to herself. Date day, work/obligation/Personal day, date day.. Not date day and then date day, consecutively.. Tht shows she really wanted to be somewhere else tht following day.. and was choosing a guy ovr herself. Been there, done tht, bought the tshirt.
And I’ve done the projection thing too…I thought it was chemistry or love at first sight because I felt myself falling in love as we were kissing like my soul was leaving my body, I was in a trance. But in reality I was projecting the relationship that didn’t go anywhere months before that lol but that takes self reflection
Man the way u just explained how i fell in love with someone and we wasnt even committed was just dating 🥲🥲youre literally the best at this keep it up and thank you for the video 👏🏾 🙏🏾❤️
We have many soulmates... Both platonic and romantic. First loves are often called the 'phantom ex' that nobody compares too... But they're a fantasy, and an ex for a reason 🙏
Hi Father Alex - I think you should do a follow on video wherein you explain what exactly you mean by “consistency”. It’s important to not forget that consistency is not just in “connecting regularly (physically or on the phone)”etc;.,.. “consistency” is also: consistency in energy levels, in vulnerability, in generosity, in respect, in admiration, in support etc A guy can call you at 8pm every day and see you three times a week like clockwork but be ugly and deeply‘inconsistent’ in so many other ways… It’s very layered I guess…
22:30 I know for a fact that his ex's do have brown eyes and hair just like I do...does that mean that he's only projecting instead of healing or does the attraction towards me only have someone to do with his kind of type
kts the connection to the past issues unresolved, and wishing to resolve, but you cant resolve conflict w a new person when the conflict is a past person,,,,,,, let it go,, and move on you deserve better than to battle w the past conflicts, move forward life will always bring you better,,,,,,,,, Believe it !
haha you make me laugh so much,,,,, thanks for that,, we All know youre not closing the channel,,,,, hihihiihi cute,,, but Effective right? wink hihihihiihi you say this near the end of all of your sales pitches, sweetie,,,,,, but id love to, however im on a limited budget, and i wish n hope n pray to find a way to actually get one of your courses,,,, cos i think youre Awesome,,,,,, a rare thing,,,,, youre intellectual, love that, youre smart, well read, logical, and just an al round good person and the very best is youre Natural n true to Your Self,,,,,,,,, keep it up, sweetheart! all the very best to you may the infinite divinity, bless you beyond your expectations,,,,,,, xo Amen
What does it mean when someone acts hot and cold but so do I, literally because of my anxiety and stuff, but I do really like them, does it still mean they really don’t like me nonetheless? I tend to think they just feel the same but am I just delusional?
Sexual chemistry is what we feel for a person we want to be intimate with. When this is an in-person experience, it's believed that we are responding to the person's pheromones, the hormones that help us understand how someone will be as a mate
What I've learned, as a woman, is that having a life and de-centering men will make you do everything he is saying, naturally, without even realizing that you're doing. I am a very busy woman and I also really enjoy my alone time. So I naturally create tension in my relationships with men because they can sense my ability to distance myself from them. Most of the men I try to date seem to be very emotional over me and very confused about my feelings for them. Mostly because my responsiveness is unpredictable, I am very flirty and emotionally vulnerable one day and MIA the next. But its not a game for me, its just that dating is very low on my list of priorities so its what I am doing naturally. It will take a man to REALLY stand out for me to do more or invest more. But even then, I still do less.
What do u mean by MIA?
@@ninaziva4639 MIA stands for Missing In Action…it’s a term used in the military mostly to describe when someone disappears.
Adhd has the same effect lol have been accused since I was a teenager of toying with their emotions while really I was and still am a space cadet
@@ninaziva4639missing in action
@@ninaziva4639 missing in action
“Here’s the non toxic way to do this….actually okay let’s start with the toxic version.” Yes king
😂😂😂
😂❤
crack analogy always gets me lmao
That had me dying 😭
Crack analogy is top tier
😂😂😂😂😂
I want to be someone's crack😂😂😂
Same
I think that all men want is to be a hero and help someone, if they can. So when your heart is tugged thru sympathy for a woman, that’s that. I know a man who actually married his neighbor because she literally showed up on his doorstep in a rainstorm wrapped in a blanket with her two toddlers huddled against her, because her boyfriend had thrown the 3 of them out of his house. If that doesn’t bring out his protective nature, don’t know what would.
"What's the one thing consistent about a crack head? Doing crack!" 😂😂😂😂 yoooo
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Sounds like a mix of understanding someone's personal bias, insecurities and need for pleasure makes them fall in love. I'm not the type to exploit that or take advantage. But shits interesting. Alex did it again!
Inconsistent people are either not interested or they are playing emotional games.
Don't entertain those that are emotionally immature
Not all. Some have ADHD (like myself) or abhor routine of any kind (like myself) ..and I have been complimented on my genuineness multiple times. Consistent? Not on one thing in my life 😂 those who love me understand though.
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@a.b.creator preach yes fellow adhder! They think we are following a strategy when it is just distracted chaos 😅
Alex we can get married for two weeks if you’d like
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😂😂😂😂
I was having a bad day until Father Alex got to the “cat” story!!! I literally spit my food out, laughing so hard😂🤣😂Thank You Father Alex for lifting my spirits up today🙏🏼🙏🏼
I really feel like it just clicks with me,the way you explain things. Honestly, I don't even really do the manipulation part. The way you explain it all just allowed me to express my emotions and stop with people pleasing and acting all nice all the time. I just sit with hiw I feel and how I want to act instead of always being the bigger person.
Love that you match the accent wall.
7:17 too busy to do crack 🤣
Ok so without going straight to hell caught me off guard 😂
I absolutely adore your accent, stances, and diction. Thankyou for sharing!
YA tell tht to the girl in elementary school!
This was real deep yet insightful. You killed it once again Father Alex 💯
Okay hold on because sometimes the unpredictability piece is not on purpose. I just had someone tell me “you can’t talk to me for hours one day and barely the next”…he’s like you gotta taper me down. But the reality is I’m not an everyday talker and I think I was drained but also busy. And Alexxxxx omg you are always spot on. I can always tell someone is insecure with our relationship when they start comparing or asking certain questions but then I know they actually care about the relationship…they are indicators
hes not good match for u if in his big age he gets mad bout it😂he doesn’t have life
Watching this 1.75x it adds to him being funny
ur work gets better and better yet it's always been top-notch ... 🙀🤯
I love Claire de lune. You’re such a rare crystal and I thoroughly enjoy listening to your talks.
You just have a vibe I just cant explain it wow
10:54-57 GOLDEN editing. ps: Girl who didnt want to be touched the next day was going against herself, and hanging with a guy when she ought to have been doing her own thing next day.. since, it's not like ur living t/g.. She wasn't listening to herself. Date day, work/obligation/Personal day, date day.. Not date day and then date day, consecutively.. Tht shows she really wanted to be somewhere else tht following day.. and was choosing a guy ovr herself. Been there, done tht, bought the tshirt.
Thanks!
IT'S LIKE A BIG SNOWBALL GAINING SPEED AND SIZE.. LISTEN TO IT. 12:14 ..Where was this adv when i was growin' up? i kno; u hear tht one all the time..
You are basically Shera7s son, who rebelled and left home.
Lmao
It makes me laughing ++++++
he doesn't agree with her
I’m pretty sure Alex is a Virgo and shera is a Pisces which makes so much sense 😂😂😂
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These contents and the way they’re delivered are awesome 😎
And I’ve done the projection thing too…I thought it was chemistry or love at first sight because I felt myself falling in love as we were kissing like my soul was leaving my body, I was in a trance. But in reality I was projecting the relationship that didn’t go anywhere months before that lol but that takes self reflection
Thisssss
Yeah you can wait on the physical stuff as a woman and preserve your discernment amen.
"Everyone likes me I'm crack" - howling 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Man the way u just explained how i fell in love with someone and we wasnt even committed was just dating 🥲🥲youre literally the best at this keep it up and thank you for the video 👏🏾 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you father Alex
You’re just too intelligent ❤
17:15 that happened to me, he said that if soulmates exist it would have been his first ex...and I would lie if I'd say it didn't hurt
We have many soulmates... Both platonic and romantic. First loves are often called the 'phantom ex' that nobody compares too... But they're a fantasy, and an ex for a reason 🙏
Hi Father Alex - I think you should do a follow on video wherein you explain what exactly you mean by “consistency”.
It’s important to not forget that consistency is not just in “connecting regularly (physically or on the phone)”etc;.,.. “consistency” is also: consistency in energy levels, in vulnerability, in generosity, in respect, in admiration, in support etc
A guy can call you at 8pm every day and see you three times a week like clockwork but be ugly and deeply‘inconsistent’ in so many other ways… It’s very layered I guess…
“That’s a red flag” a whole damn word!
Men love to control, we need to challenge this at times, especially if they get too comfortable or showing ⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️
this content is gold :)
you are very fun and witty❤❤
Man who likes cats is instantly better looking man.
I’m not interested in dating but I am fascinated by human psychology and Alex always has a fascinating take on things
❤ Narcissist Create Chemistry, Toxic people too!!! ❤ Are your Programs/ Lessons on Video?
Not Tyrone and his crew 😂😂😂😂
Thank you father Alex . Closing argument including Jesus 💪🏻💫
How to engage in a man’s emotions!?
Nice points, thanks for sharing your experiences. 🎉
Love the toxic advice lol 😂
22:30 I know for a fact that his ex's do have brown eyes and hair just like I do...does that mean that he's only projecting instead of healing or does the attraction towards me only have someone to do with his kind of type
Love the background music, can you link it?
How to Fall in Love with a "Dark Triad Person" manual💀☝🏽
Basketball works for helping the self esteem and focus
Great vid 👌🏼
I’m loling about the cat dying and that whole situation 😂
Love your realness 🩵
Id love anyone who looks like Prince ,but it fades out quickly because , his energy is unmatched 😊
I want to see Alex with a nice haircut and groomed beard and dressed up 😇 btw, today's vid is 💣💥 !!! 🙏🏽
Yeah, me too! I bet he looks really hot dressed up!!
I think is about time he does 😅
The world isn't like that anymore
😏 Que Ridicula Ese Es Su Estilo.
@@ericabaysinger6343what, well dressed people are no longer in the world?
I agree
Loved this. ❤
😂😂😂Alex you’re hilarious
kts the connection to the past issues unresolved, and wishing to resolve, but you cant resolve conflict w a new person when the conflict is a past person,,,,,,, let it go,, and move on you deserve better than to battle w the past conflicts, move forward life will always bring you better,,,,,,,,, Believe it !
Is this a list to make them fall in love or the opposite ? Like should i be unpredictable or is that a red flag? Im confused lol
Concept great ! Please change soundtrack 😂😂😂
I love ❤️ this
❤ Are you doing the Meditation Retreat Yourself?????🎉
A virgo is talking
Coach how can I book a session with you. Not sure how to do this. Thank you
Please make a video about being friends with your ex for people who dont realise how toxic that is
good video
These games are toxic , please spare yourselves.
Triangulation is used by narcissistic abusers
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 everybody likes me I’m crackkkk u funny asf
Can you tell us where to go for the meditation retreat I’d like to gooooo
haha you make me laugh so much,,,,, thanks for that,, we All know youre not closing the channel,,,,, hihihiihi cute,,, but Effective right? wink
hihihihiihi you say this near the end of all of your sales pitches, sweetie,,,,,, but id love to, however im on a limited budget, and i wish n hope n pray to find a way to actually get one of your courses,,,, cos i think youre Awesome,,,,,, a rare thing,,,,, youre intellectual, love that, youre smart, well read, logical, and just an al round good person and the very best is youre Natural n true to Your Self,,,,,,,,, keep it up, sweetheart! all the very best to you may the infinite divinity, bless you beyond your expectations,,,,,,, xo Amen
Yep ❤
because the conflict is Familiar to them so they reconnect w past conflict,,,,,,,,,
What does it mean when someone acts hot and cold but so do I, literally because of my anxiety and stuff, but I do really like them, does it still mean they really don’t like me nonetheless? I tend to think they just feel the same but am I just delusional?
They could have an insecure attachment style, specifically 'ambivalent'
dalexis ots not a red flag, because I'm trying to land the guy and get married!!!
Will a sec w benefits ever become more
Can you make a video for single moms
Father Alex ❤😂
“Tyrone and his crew” had me screaming out loud 😂
Alex ander the great!❤
Alex pander the great!
You are responsible for letting her treat you like that so your ego hates her for it.
Fadda Alex is too 😍 cute
Summary
21:20 some girls love it when guys control them and go into their phones
True😂
What if they have ptsd? Does the consistency thing count or should they still be a crackhead even with ptsd?
Rest in peace inlove 😅
Rest in peace inlove 😅
@@johntom5563 🤣
truth 💣 s
17:30
lol she used your videos against you sir 😂😂😂😂😂
7:01
yeah that healing crap is a triple red flag
12:10
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Date bob the programmer☺️
ALEX thats one big chocolate bar behind you..yum.
Yes, indeed you sounds evil Sometimes 😂😂
You are so cute
😂😂😂😂😂
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
so insighrful
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Is chemistry a sexual attraction thing or how you two talk?
I think how you talk is connection, but I’m not sure , it’s just what I feel
@annyespinal8077 yea I can't tell either. Ik you can have extreme sparks w someone but the convos are awl or suck
Sexual chemistry is what we feel for a person we want to be intimate with. When this is an in-person experience, it's believed that we are responding to the person's pheromones, the hormones that help us understand how someone will be as a mate
Both…but usually starts sexually then speaking the same language
It's something as a magnet attraction and immediate understanding of small movements and half words from both sides...
Chile... Your head is a distraction!! I can't.....
Father Alex, I thought you practice polyamory. Why were you upset with the thought of your girl having another man in her house?😂