WHY HOLLOW SPEAKS IN THE 3RD PERSON | FINALLY ANSWERED | TRIGGER WARNING
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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2020
- NOTE: NØBØDY IS SPELLED WITH THE O’S SLASHED OUT AND THERE IS A REASON FOR THAT AS WELL, HOWEVER WE CANNOT DISCLOSE THAT YET. IF YOU WRITE NØBØDY’S NAME, HE REQUESTS THAT THE O’S ARE SLASHED.
The answer to the mysterious question of why Hollow speaks in the 3rd person. It’s trauma. Very much Trigger Warning for this bad boy, because it’s about our trauma holders. We don’t mention specific traumas, but we talk real details about our DID.
These are the other videos Hollow has been in:
The Blue Shelf:
• HOLLOW’S BLUE SHELF | ...
Alter intro: • MEET MY ALTERS | PART 2
The Blue Box:
• HOLLOW'S BLUE BOX | Wh...
Alters Try Videos:
• MY ALTERS TRY HELIUM |...
• ALTERS TRY SPICY CHOCO...
Unboxing:
• UNBOXING FEAT. SWITCH ...
The Livestream Nøbødy was in:
• COME AND CHILL | drama...
[Our links are under revision, but we posted a bunch of stuff on Etsy yesterday, with more to come. It’s taken a lot of time and spoons to get around to posting these creations, and they’re pretty cool, so here’s the link for that:
www.etsy.com/shop/AetherianCr... - Розваги
to make an ø on the keyboard, hold alt and press o
I did it first time. I wouldn't DARE disrespect their system
Holy SHIT I had no clue you could do that
it didn't work for me so i just copy and pasted your ø. thanks :)
hmm... I guess it works differently on a Mac. Google says “hold down the Control and Shift keys and type a / (slash), release the keys, hold down the Shift key and type an o” hope that helps
On a Mac, press option and o to make an ø.
Hearing "you're legit no matter what your system looks like" really made me feel better. We used, and still use fiction and media to escape reality and as a result of that, we have a lot of introjects, they make up over half of our system. But since there are so many introjects, we often feel less valid as a system. So thank you so much for this, it really helped us keep our head up. Much love to your system
as a singlet that also used fiction and media to escape, this makes so much sense to me and you are all so valid.
We feel, over half of our system is fictives and it's been really werid trying to deal with everything lol - keg
Our Host is really connected with a specific series called Sanders Sides. We have all of the main characters besides Thomas. Wow.
-Aliza
@@nova.a.star89 so do we! We have almost everyone but deceit and thomas
@@vampirepossum8544 hahaha we got snek boi suckers!
-Remus
Thank you for sharing. Please let Hollow, NØbØdy, and everyone else know that they are appreciated and loved. Wishing you health, safety and happiness from the UK
Same. Love from all of us in the UK 🇬🇧
Please let him know that he is loved
Don't share your trauma if you don't want to. If people are curious about the kind of trauma that causes D.I.D. there's plenty of books out there for them to read to understand it better. It's a very specific kind of trauma that occurs repeatedly, throughout childhood that causes this; and honestly, if people are here to hear your trauma then they're here for the wrong reason.
I don’t think they would share unless they wanted to and a lotta systems that do share do it to help other systems like us.
I totally agree it took me nearly 20 years to come to terms with my trauma. Tell my family, get help, seek comfort and build a support system. I don’t know what would happen if It came back to me before I was ready. And having hundreds of people wanting to tell about it) so I really respect this channel for being so strong to help educate others. I Do not have DID but I do have many ways to cope with my traumas that some people don’t understand (mainly regression and Sometimes I need to seek seclusion Even from my husband and kids.. which makes me feel selfish sometimes ) and being on this channel makes me feel a little more understood.
Sending hugs, shoulder pats, and a smile to those who need it
Thanks and you too
Nøbødy sounds interesting! Hope we get to see more of him at some point (only when he's comfortable though)
I know it must be difficult to explain but I some how understand. I have BPD and have some imaginary friends that show up during rough times. They don’t front the way they do for DID, they just come and hang out until I calm down. But listening to DID speakers helps me understand how these “friends” came about. Also why, DID is not JUST having imaginary friends. I hope that stigma goes away, because even when you do have “just have imaginary friends”, they might be trauma based.
If an "imaginary friend" has free will (act on their own) and a sense of self then they're a real person. We know several systems who thought they just had imaginary friends, but turns out they were headmates and real people
You don't need to switch to be a system, and there's even a diagnosis in the ICD (international DSM) called partial DID, when the system rarely/never switches, and mostly uses blending/influence. So it must be prevalent enough to count for it's own diagnosis
@@WolfgangDoW Oh, wow, I had never heard of partial DID. Thank you for mentioning that, it actually fits me a lot, more than a lot of things I had considered and finally ruled out.
@@SykeligKaos22
ICD-11 partial DID: icd.who.int/browse11/l-m/en#/http%3a%2f%2fid.who.int%2ficd%2fentity%2f988400777
Seeing someone else with BPD post about the imaginary friend dissociation might be one of the most validating things I’ve ever read thank you 🌸
I kinda have this for me too, but they do take control
Is that weird? I seriously don't know if I just have really bad dissociation or am some kind of system, it's weird. I only switch, when I am really triggered and I can still see myself, but I can't control my body and feel totally different..
woah! looks like they all read everyone’s suggestions. don’t forget to remember that all of you are valid 💖
I love the true crime explanation I am not gonna say what it is for those who don’t want to know it.
Yeah, I loved it too! I've actually read about it somewhere 🌚
Yeah it was a grim but cool mental picture
@@hellmind1304 samee
Lots of hugs and love towards Hallow & NØbØdy. As well as the rest of the system
- Night & the rest of the Fallen Stars System
Hi Aether, thanks for putting out this video. It’s actually refreshing to hear terms like “you don’t have to smile if you don’t want to”...
I’ve been asking my friends for a couple weeks now if they can unfocus they’re eyes, as I only realized this year that that’s what happens when I zone out. I can’t express how shocked I was hearing you describe the same process I went through to adapt this... I hope you guys know how much you validate me and so many others that watch your videos. Can’t wait for the upcoming vids, as always, on your guys’ terms. ❤️
Wait this isn't a thing people can do on purpose? I thought everyone could do it and some of us did it while dissociating.
Can you do that with sounds too?
Unfocus
Jennifer Lenfestey thats exactly what my only friend who related to me asked lol! Yes, it can feel like my ears are listening through a closed door, like hearing music from another room, but I think specifically to myself it’s more intense with visuals because of my own circumstances.
@@lalaluv093 I can do it on purpose, and I don't have a dissociative disorder. I thought everyone could?
Is this is anyway related to like slightly crossing your eyes? Like not full cross eyed but like you’re starting to? If you do it really quickly, it’s like a camera lense refocusing.
Or like if you have something near your face (like being on your phone) and you can’t focus and there are like two different offset versions which you can see through?
I have no idea if it’s like any of these things but they’re the only things I can relate it to.
Feeling the autistic +DID thing here too. Makes emotions and therapy a cluster for sure! Love you guys 💜💜💜
~HyperGalactic System
Ain't that the truth
Same here! Autistic OSDD system here.
I want to hug you so bad... I felt like I was watching myself through a mirror. I understand now so many things about you all and myself. I accidentally was a little bit triggered and had some derealization ...am... but I'm happy on certain way. Thanks for sharing... kisses from chile!🙋♀️
You probably hear this all the time - and maybe don't like it because you didn't choose to be in your position with DID- but you are sooo strong. It blows my mind how much you all have had to endure but i hope you slowly and safely heal through it all. Lots of love 💖💖
Dude! I'm so glad you guys got back to posting. I wish you all great luck in your journey to discovering yourselves. I'm just a regular guy, with regular guy problems. I never imagined people were so complex and this world being so much more complicated as well. Thank you Acrylic and Aether, you opened up my eyes and determined me to try to make the world a bit better with the things i know
Hey man yeah these guys are inspiring you but it's all you. Most "regular guys with regular problems" Could care less about stuff like this.
Wait y'all have mirrored alters too?! Thought we were the only ones 😂. It's cool to learn about Hollow and Nøbødy, the analogies really helped/made sense 😊. Hope y'all are doing well!
I see you guys. I am so thankful that you've survived to see today. It's so hard being an RA survivor and learning 'the language' as you put it. Just typing it puts a lump in my throat.
You guys are all full of strength and bravery. I understand the pain of doubles, and how they got there. Sending Hollow and Nobody our whole-hearted support 💙💛
Yay I'm new! I love hollow and one of my new alters is like hollow but she does speak in 1st person. I love you guys! Hope hollow is doing good!
Edit: our new alters are rose (who I'm talking about) and lilac her twin
Edit: we hope nøbødy is okay as well
Hello, Moca system here.
No, it's not moca like the coffee, it's a foreign word with a much deeper meaning.
I need you guys' help. I'm the host of my system of 18. We're an osdd1b system by the way in case it'll make a difference. Here's the problem. I've done something pretty stupid and self harming today, nothing major but I kept going on refusing to listen to my protector or my gatekeeper. You know how it is, sometimes you just want to do your thing without 15 people imposing, commenting and sharing their opinion. Anyway, I ended up feeling quite guilty for doing what I've done (shocking I know), and my gatekeeper lashed out at me quite badly. I've never seen him like that, he was livid, but fair enough, he had a reason to. I kept saying I was sorry and I wouldn't do it again, but he continued to yell at me angrily. I could feel my right hand ( I'm a lefty by the way, but he seems to be in control of the right side of my body when he fronts) twitching and moving up and I tried to control it, but at some point he literally slapped me! Like physically smacked me, full force. I had the print of my hand on my face, that's how strongly he hit me. Both my protectors became really alert and told him he went to far, but didn't actually defend me, thinking it was deserved. My co-host, the alter I'm closest with, got really mad, but both my main protector and my gatekeeper told her to stay out of it and eventually send her away in her room (in my inner world).
I was absolutely shocked and felt very vulnerable. As an additional punishment my gatekeeper told me that he wouldn't have allowed anybody else to front throughout the evening, when I was supposed to go to work, even if I needed it. He said "since you can't be bothered to listen to me when I try to protect you I want you to see what it feels like being without your system backing you up" . He kept his word and even when I would dissociate he wouldn't allow anybody out. Feeling so alone and exposed it's actually awful, and I'm really scared he will keep the gate closed.. I don't know, he's definitely a protective alter, but he's got this harshness about him. Sometimes it's necessary, especially with the kids, but he never got physical before. My protectors don't seem to be too worried, they're not enjoying it but they're not interfering.. I don't know, is this normal or should I be worried about it? Did anything similar ever happen to you guys?
Thank you for the video, hollow is a cutie and now that we know more about his personality and his origins it makes him even more special.
Lots of love to all the system
Posie
Wow is this intense 😶
Your gk is likely expressing how you would like to punish yourself/ the anger you have towards yourself about self harming. Forgiving yourself is a very important part of moving forward and continuing to work on self harming. You can tell your gt the as much. Together you guys need to work on forgiving yourself(s) and each other for what happened. Punishing you and beating yourself up is only furthering the problem. If gt needs a way to get out anger there's tons of stuff online about how to do that, but my personal favorite is venting. Best of luck to y'all in your recovery.
@@lalaluv093
Ok why do you have to be straight away so kind and wise and figure out things that we didn't know and opening new paths towards our healing. Who said you were allowed. Who gave you permission.
Lame jokes aside, I do think you have a point.. even though it wasn't physical self harm, I should have mentioned it, we've been working on that for a long time, it was something that I knew it would heavily trigger me, since it's dangerously related to our trauma. I don't even know why I did it, I suppose I was trying to test the boundaries and see how far could I get before I'd get hurt. It clearly backfired. But that's just me literally every second of my life.
Thank you so much for giving us something to really think about. When he's a bit calmer I'll definitely ask him to read your answer.
Hope you'll have a beautiful day ( or night if you're in the UK with me) you really deserve it.
Posie of the Moca system
Dear @@lalaluv093
Thank you for your kindness and consideration. I am nevertheless obligated to let you know that I will deal with my system the way I feel is more suited and appropriate. I do consider my system's safety and interest as my main priority. Not all of them respond to the same treatment in the same way and I need to keep this in consideration when managing potentially harmful situations. If you're part of a system as well you'll understand where I come from. Best wishes
Jeff, gatekeeper of the Moca system
P.s. please forgive me for any grammatical errors, English is not our first language
Who could dislike Hollow? Really? Hollow is best boy.
Oh! I guess I'm a mirrored alter. I'm the "more functional" version of the old host... There are some key differences (she's very empathetic and br////nw//sh//d, I'm a low-empathy person and aggressively analytical). We probably have ASD too but diagnosing ASD in females is like, impossible apparently, so that's something we should work on exploring...?
Also, "DID with booby traps"? Same with being a CSA system. Man, I wish I was able to go to weddings without dying a lil'. We also struggle with smiling at everything because of ~trauma~.
So excited to see what you folks post next! Hugs (or whatever you& prefer)!
Adding the mental and physical mapping that is different when born with autism, it does make sense for a system to be much bigger and closed off. Many kids I've worked with who have autism and other disorders/conditions have incredible abilities to compartmentalize and separate tasks, feelings, or personal opinions in their brain. On top of that the struggle to match their expression to the typical world only further isolates you and can push you further into a comfort imaginative world that does understand you. It'd be so interesting to hear more about how this has helped or hindered you in your life when it is safe and healthy to talk about.
I'm so sad, that you are a RA system. Nobody should go through what you all have endured. You are rlly strong my friend!
Hollow is a favourite because we have all collectively adopted him as our smol blue boi. Must protecc the bean. We love him.
I’m interested in hearing more about the over protective protector, to see that they were the beast all along is interesting, when your ready of course. Much love to all of you!!!
You guys are amazing as a system we recently or should I say our host discovered he had DID and your channel has helped him a ton! Keep the great work and stay safe my dears. Sending love and hugs - Jessica
You're just amazing! You're doing so well at adapting & it gives me such hope & confidence. Thank you for being here for us.
Thank you for being brave enough to share all of this with us. I'm beyond words. Sending all the comfort and strength that we can
Thank you for the sweet messages at the end and about all systems being valid. I send love, hugs (if they’re comfortable with it), a pat on the back and / or a friendly smile to anyone in your system who needs it. Thank you for sharing this. 💕
figuring out rules and booby traps in a system is always a trip, stay safe you guys ❤️❤️
Your channel is so important & I truly appreciate the work you do fir people trying to connect.
💚💜 No words, other than to say we're sending all the love and support.
I love Hollow and Nøbødy 💙💛 My favorite color is also blue, but like an electric/neon blue. I have BPD and unhealthy coping mechanisms have been a big part of my life but I am getting help. My therapist has actually started looking at outpatient care due to the severity. When Hollow fronts for videos I feel a connection that is hard to discribe. I too unfocus my eyes to avoid things that are too difficult to deal with among other things I won't get into. I want to sincerely thank all of you for sharing your lives inner and outer worlds. Due to y'alls videos I have learned to be a better person even when seriously struggling with my mental health. I hope to see more of Nøbødy, though I have no idea for videos. I love both systems dearly and am so grateful y'all are here and willing to share what y'all can. It has truly changed my life for the better.
I love you guys feel more freedom to be chill and then it hasn't sacrificed the quality of ur content at all!
Pov: you come to watch this video on your recomended and find out this account has already watched this video (like button pressed), but you don't remember watching it.
So happy to watch new uploads again :) Glad you guys are getting through! can't wait to catch up with ya'll and the acrylic chasers in a live stream!
The whole "dance around it" thing. We used to have much heavier restrictions as a kid than we do now. Like we used to have to say "can not" instead of "can't". Not sure the reason for that one.
This is the first video I saw when I opened the app.....you have done more than a good job at answering the question...i love how articulate you are.....sending lots of love and hugs your way💞
Thank you. Theres a lot more we'd like to say... like how this was specifically helpful but seems to not be a thing right now. I'm sure you get it but thanks again. You're words are valued.
Thank you Misha, I really appreciate your presence and this video : )
Omg, I just got to know about this channel yesterday night, and I am addicted. I love each and everyone of you. Love the content very much too 💛💛
Keep it up 👍🏻
Always happy to see a new video! Hollow is adored, sending him and all of you love xxxx
I'm a lil singlet here with ptsd. I really appreciate y'all as it helps me with what I've been through and I learn so much from a really great community 💙
Love your Chanel and Thank you all for sharing this and helping others💗💗💗
Omg thank you so much for this. We’ve just realised in the last two days we have the same thing going on with a few alters. They mirror or one alter is in front and seems more easily digestible trauma but turn them around you see the front of the other alter who actually holds the depths of the horrific trauma. We also have an alter that speaks pretending to be one of our higher protectors. But we have a hunch it’s not him but someone keeping their identity hidden from us for protection of our psyche. Omg this makes so much sense so Thankyou for sharing! We thought maybe our imagination was going too far so hearing this is a relief ☺️🙏 thankyou!!! We have a labrynth in our inner world and now recognise our alter Bobbi’s drawings show alters front and back attached and all the puzzles and cryptic messages. Finally all making sense. Wow. We relate so much to everything you’ve spoken of. Thanks so much for sharing
Thanks for sharing what you could. Its hard when you don't think anyone will listen or care... I still struggle with finding the best people to tell.
Sending love to Nøbødy and Hollow in particular, but the rest of the system as well. Thank you for opening up about this, I can't imagine it was easy for you guys and I'm thankful to have a better understanding ❤
I’m sending lots of kindness and warmth your way, I hope you are all doing well whenever you read this. Thank you for telling us this information even though it was hard, I appreciate it and I hope you know you are loved and valid 😊❤️
sending virtual good vibes and happiness your way! Trauma is a difficult thing to deal with and its never easy. I wish you sooo much happiness and that you all in your system find a healthy way to cope with whatever it is you maybe facing within.
I really appreciate this video. I appreciate your openness. The info in your video’s and the video’s of other systems helps me in my work. So thankyou.
We totally get this!! We have deeper level alters to. Thank you for this video!!
This absolutely makes sense (and I mean wow brains are weird right?) And thank you for having the courage to open up about this. All of it.
And I totally get the humour thing, nobody takes me seriously even when I'm trying to get help so 👌
Also the eye thing!! I have maladaptive daydreaming disorder, not DID, but my characters are metaphors/talismans for stuff I don't understand and trauma etc. The one who represents most of the worst stuff has always had vision problems. He had prostetic eyes at first that would cut out whenever he had a trauma episode. I didn't really know why that was a thing, but now it makes sense. It's symbolic of me not having any memories of my trauma, and the fact that I only felt safe enough to express those feelings at night.
Hey, thanks for that! ☺️
Welcome tarrence.thanks for being brave and sharing the harder intel.take care and stay safe.
Years ago I realized that we spend the first chunk of our lives adapting to challenges for which we are unready, and the latter half overcoming the obstacles created by our maladaptive coping mechanisms.
I feel that for some fortunate unfortunate folks, it can be a fairly straight forward process in which they simply apply cbt or dbt to adjust their thinking and behaviors and then they’re good (of course I don’t mean to diminish anybody’s experience as it could still take years and what can seem like mountain ranges of effort, but it’s still a linear equation).
I feel that with disorders of the dissociative variety it can be more like the horror movie Cube, where you can try to work with one alter, but if you’re not in the (what can be really tiny) goldilocks zone for having enough challenge for progress but not too much that it’s overwhelming, the cubes in your system realign and you’re presented with a different alter.
Then you factor in the nesting dolls of alter variations.
On the very minimal plus side, there is the opportunity to have more balanced values compared to singlets. I say this because in my experience folks who are polytheistic can be on average more tolerant and respectful of different opinions and viewpoints than those who are monotheistic and I attribute this to having to consider the different perspectives of multiple deities within one’s inner dialogue, compared to monotheism where there is ‘one word.’ Having multiple deities buffers the damage inflicted if one your interpretations happens to be quite flawed; having ‘one word,’ and having a flawed interpretation/parochial guidance means you can be quite obstinate/intolerant when it comes to interacting with others who do not share your beliefs.
So glad u made this vid. It's been very quiet on the did front in my feed, since the dissociadid events. I often wondered how autism and did interact; would you mind doing a vid of some of your experiences?
His so sweet and kind and I hope he is happy and loved by all of us. ❤️
i am a new goblin. i am not a system (as far as i know?) but i find information on DID so interesting. i absolutely love hollow. hes so sweet and innocent. i look forward to learning more about DID from you all and meeting more of your alters in future videos. i cant possibly understand the hell that happened to put you in the position of having DID but the fact that you are still here and fighting through your stuff to live a full and happy life is amazing.
Knowing that we are a system is fairly new. There are currently 5 of us that we know of. Hearing that we are valid helps. Thank you. Sending love and well wishes to whoever may want or need it💜
Hi Misha! Nice to hear more about Hollow and NØBØDY! Fascinating to hear about Alters which mirror each other. It would be interesting to hear, how Autistic Systems are different from Non-Autistic Systems in the future.
Absolutely adore Hollow, such a wholesome bean💙 Sending love to all of your system and the Acrylic Chasers as well. Extra love to Hollow and Nøbødy💙💛 Thanks to them for allowing part of their story to be told.
Thanks a lot for sharing, must be very hard to speak about these topics
I just found your channel. I’m sorry you had so much trauma. I don’t like it for you. Thanks for sharing. I find you very brave and fascinating!
Please thank Hollow and Nøbødy for letting you share some more of their lives with us. They are very important and very loved. If Nøbødy wants to do a video, how about one sharing some interests of his with us? or trying something new that he's interested in but hasn't gotten to experience.
I think the way your brain has organized things is very interesting, and also makes a lot of sense. it's trying to give you little glimmers of what's inside, without overwhelming you all. i hope the hidden alters are in safe places inside and are able to start their healing journey.
I just wanted to say to all of you that none of you owes anyone any explanation about your trauma, and especially not the internet. it took me a while after my trauma to teach myself that i could just ask for support when i needed it without having to explain why i was upset. i trained myself to say "bad memories" or it's the "date of bad memories" and then just say i didn't want to talk about it if they asked about it. you don't have to feel bad about saying that.
hey, I know you might not see this but to anyone reading the comments rn, plz answer this if you can. okay so basically my bf on 9 months (ish) claims he has DID. i totally support him and try to learn and understand him more and more each day. he only has maybe about 5 alters, w one of them being the main head of his system. recently, he has just switched into a “new” personality or alter. i don’t know how to go about this bc I am still new to it all. i also have it in the back of my mind that just mayyyybe he’s lying abt this new alter to see how I’d react. i love him so much and i just need some advice from someone who knows their shit. i don’t want to hurt him, but i just need to know how i can help him rn, and maybe some things to see if he’s being genuine. ❤️❤️ thank you sm
It just sounds like he’s got a new addition to his team! With it being 2020, people are getting new alters left and right, so it’s totally not far-fetched that this is just a new alter :) just remind him that you’re there for him, ask him what you can do to help him (since each system is different), and listen if he needs to talk- having someone there for you can make all the difference :)
-Tarrence
Acrylic And Aether Thank you so much❣️ will do:)
Thanks for sharing.i hope your healing is going well.we all love you and care for you.
Hey, sending you all lots of positive vibes! thank you all for sharing and opening up for us here. Your system is so complex, I love learning about it. Have a great day ❤️
I'm new here, so hi! I should really be sleeping right now, as I have to be up in just a few hours, but I saw this title and just had to watch. I don't have DID and seem to have a fairly normal for me life, but DID so interests me.
Thanks for doing these videos. As a Newly Diagnosed System you have no idea how Helpful these videos are to us.
Tonya/Shattered Bones System 🌸
Sending love and support. Wow....where Nobody hears their screams. You’re so brave.
I am not a system but I have alot of dissociation and sometimes talk to myself or think to myself in second or even third person this video makes alot of sense and has given me further understanding of my own mental health and how trauma effects it I can not thank you enough like I would keep it to myself so I didn't seem weird but now I don't think of it as weird again thanks so much
Sending positive vibes. Watching these vids helps me understand more about my DID diagnosis. The body is 23. But we don't have good communication with each other. Or an inner world yet or if we do the body isn't aware of it yet. And I just have been scared for a long time that if I try to communicate with them idk Everytime I do the body always starts to get super anxious and I don't even know why. So blahh
Hugs!! I am also always laughing / smiling when i talk abt shit that happened to me... hope everyone is safe
I would love if you made a tarot deck!!!! That would be such an interesting story if it follows the tarot theme with your life twist. So the journey of aether!❤️
Thank you for sharing this information. We all appreciate it! Especially saying we are all legit and valid.
My partner doesn't watch any DID videos but I did show them Hollow's Blue shelf and they really like him now too. Sending love to everyone in your system and your partner system. 🖤
Thank you Misha and the rest of the Aether system for being brave enough to put out content like this. It’s so encouraging to know that Soren, Hollow, and Nøbødy even allow you to mention them on this channel, and even say some (vague) details! Keep on keeping on, my dudes
Hello Aether system. Thank you for making this video. I'm sure it was hard to write and talk about this subject, and I want you to know it helped me understand a little bit more. - Singlet
you are so brave, wish you the best!
He is loved!
we love you and are here for you !!!! :)
As a non DID person I find it very educational to see these kind of videos as it breaks down the stereotypes and stigmas that have been taught to me :/ keep up the good work! Hugs and head pats for those who are comfortable with them!
I am obsessed with y’all even more, now! I figured out I’m autistic myself as an adult a few years ago, and I’m figuring out how that’s affected how I dealt with having cancer as a kid. If you could share or explain anything that you come across, or figure out works for y’all, or anything, about trying to deal with trauma as an aspie, that would be amazing!!!
yesss make tarot cards!! so dope
I do not have DID but I have been discovering recently (over the past three years) that I am probably autistic. I hope you are all okay and am sending the best wishes from Germany
Something you should know as an autistic RA/MC survivor is that your autism likely saved you. Autism has all but been confirmed as a mind control dud. something about the way our brains work allowed us to break free and realize what was going on in a way that most NT's never do. Your unbelievably strong and brave for sharing this, thank you. ❤
Hugs for your system 🖤
been unpacking my trauma recently..it is alot of work...I too have a nobbady, Odo(bajorian for nothing)
We are also an RA system. Thanks for the video. 💚
You are the sweetest people/beings, and you all deserve happiness!!
Yes we often speak as mukltiple and third person apart from our host who sometimes speak in singular and first person
Honestly... I feel like asking why he speaks in the third person is kind of rude. :( I don't appreciate intrusive questions like that about me or my alters, especially if they don't know us personally. You didn't have to share this information, but thank you for sharing.
Also, I respect the fact that Nøbødy requests his name to be spelled like that. We have an alter who has a similar request with his name having an accent over the a (Ciarán). He gets very upset when we spell it without the accent. We also have a few alters with names that kind of "make sense now that we know" sort of thing as well... Like Mercy, No, Cuddles and Chance. Sorry I'm typing as I watch and commentating. LOL We also have quite a few mirrored alters! I was wondering if that was a thing that happened often with other systems. Like... when Lance integrated a few times, I guess the system wasn't ready for Lance to be gone... so it created a new one? We don't know. We have quite a few twins in our system. Etc. What's weird is that we just discovered a new realm. More like our realm merged with another. And it seems like many of the alters here are linked to alters from our old realm. I don't know if that makes sense? Sorry about the ramble!
- Eli
My first time seeing Misha :) I am so glad to see you ;)
I didn't realize that bit about unfocusing the eyes as a coping mechanism was a thing! I thought i was just weird lol. I disassociate often enough. At least that's what i think its called? Like you're partially not there; emotionally numb, dulled/dreamlike experience of everything around, rarely to the point of feeling tingly like i myself would go numb too. I've always had trouble feeling valid though cause i never physically went through anything.
(TRIGGER WARNING for this paragraph! Threats of violence/murder proceeds! and abuse) I was just second-hand threatened when a certain someone got out of jail and for the next oh 10 years aka the entirety of my pre-teen and teen years was afraid they'd find where my family had moved to and kill us all in our sleep....it was awful. During all of it, my mom was emotionally/mentally and verbally abusive and prone to gaslighting so that didn't help either.
I must say this kind of “realer” video is really helpful. As a singlet who has never really been around anyone who isn’t neurotypical it’s easy to not see the reality in things. Videos like this make me realize that even if I don’t think having DID is a happy go lucky time... that is still kind of what I think compared to the real deal. Also as someone who has just gotten out of a period of self diagnosing waaaaayyyyyyy too easily I know that videos like this help when one is trying to tell the brain to shut up.
Best of luck with your deciphering and I hope you find healthier coping mechanisms if you need them. I hope you all know you’re loved and appreciated, keep up the good work, see you in the next video.
Never stop posting plsssss
Great video, hope you’re all doing okay x
Please can you put the mute/alien on everything I ever watch?😁. Your so good at these videos, I hope to be able to raise awareness for ASD this well, in the future 👍
I’m sorry about what you went through. I know everything is deeper than it may be on surface level. The eyes of the trauma holders let’s me know that the abuse/abuser was so terrifying that it’s blocked from accessible memory. Hearing the RA reference helps me understand. A book that comes to mind. Help for the Fractured Soul by Candyce Roberts
I don't have DID but I still love your channel. Hollow is for sure my favorite alter and it makes me sad.