I’m crying so much with this song bc im overweight and it’s so hard feel comfortable with myself if everybody is judging me. Maybe they not even look at me but te anxiety makes me thinks that :(
Antonia stay positive beautiful, it should never matter what anyone else thinks. society has such a prominent vision on how every female should look. skinny, tan, short, etc etc. as long as you can love yourself for everything you come with (any mental illness, personality, looks, etc etc) that’s all that should matter💕🥺
This song really made me cry:( I relate to this so much, tbh I’m a little over weight and I’m trying to work on it and loving my body more but it’s so hard:/ my moms ex boyfriend was extremely mentally abusive and would always comment about my looks, saying stuff like “a girl shouldn’t wear stuff like that” or “you need to change that’s to much” and it’s really grown to affect how I see myself now. I now wear lots of baggy clothes to stop people from seeing my real figure because I don’t feel comfortable with it so I think people will see the same thing I see. I’m working on feeling better about my own skin though 🥺
I’ve found your music recently and have completely fallen in love with every song. You have a beautiful voice and each and every song has a beautiful meaning. Please never give up music💘
When I was 10 I would cry in anger in dressing rooms because I didn’t like the way I looked. I thought I was gross. And when I was 6 I looked at the other girls and just wanted to be like them, I didn’t like anything of my body my skin my hair my face my arms. I’m learning to love myself so I’m able to love others as well.❤️
Yesteraday my teacher asked me "it's hot out here and you're wearing Pants and hoodie" and she was assuming that I was self-harming until I showed her my arms. It really do be like that sometimes and I ain't gonna stop wearing my hoodie and pants all season, I felt that song
please don't hurt yourself. God created you and put you on this earth for a reason. You might think you're alone but your not. Please don't ruin God's beautiful creation.
"It's okay to not feel okay. But it's not okay, to always feel that way". Not my words. One of my fav quotes though. If you notice someone in pain. Try to help them. If you ignore them, then we won't blame you. A lot of people don't know what to do in those situations. But if you tried... Don't let guilt consume your very thoughts because you couldn't do more. Put a smile on your face instead, live to share their story. You can also help others that way.
This line : „Nobody question in december but 5 month later“ i know. I wrote a Song because depressione and Self-Harm. In my Song is the line „Nobody ask me in November but a Few months later“ 🥺❤️
You could easily see this from two points of view: 1. Hiding your body because you are insecure and hate people seeing your body. 2. Having self harm marks/cuts on your arms and feeling like you need to hide them. I just want to say that if you relate to no. 2 then just know that you don't have to hide your scars. They are signs or a fight and you shouldn't feel ashamed of them, you're so brave and I love you 💕
I am personally struggeling with number 2 and I'm still continuing my fight but its so hard. I don't know how much longer I can keep up with it. But thank you so much for your kind words
I want to point out another reason. It would still count to number 1 since the phrasing still fits but I know that everyone would probably only think of body insecurities with the first one. But I think mental insecurities, especially socialwise, would apply to it as well. For me at least, because I feel much safer with long sleeves on, showing as less skin as possible. It's like my armor. To hide from people, making myself as inconspicuous and invisible as possible, and to handle my habit of having to fumble on something with my hands when I'm nervous or scared. I don't hate my body at all but I still feel so uncomfortable and vulnerable when wearing short pants or dresses or even just a shirt without my jacket on (I've gotten better btw, that's me speaking from two years ago), judging me, eyeing me, seeing me. And I lie about the reason. Because it's just the easier thing to do than explaining why something is like it is.
i have struggledwith self harm and always wear long sleeves no matter what, i read some comments and apparently its about weight issues, it just goes to show that this is such a good song bc you get multiple things from it!
I think it's about both to be honest it could be about anything "to cover up what I don't like" a lot of people don't like a lot about them and who knows what the song really is talking about one or the other or both but that's why I love it and ugh now it's seeming like I am disagreeing with your comment (okay I'm not I am agreeing) I'm bad at words anyway I guess I'm done
So I know this song is about body image but I actually saw something on this where someone interpreted it as a song about self harm and it's honestly really moving even though you didn't intend that because I really relate to that feeling of just lying and saying you're cold
This was so beautiful and relatable. My parents always wanted me to dress “modest” however it turned into shaming me about my body (my chest, curves, and long legs) so I cover up. In the dead of summer I wear oversized sweatshirts and my mom would say “Are you trying to look like a lesbian?” I keep my sexuality to myself but others continue to get on me about how I dress or look so thank you for this amazing song.
Don't listen to them! You be yourself and don't let people tell you who you have to be. Wear what your comfortable in and enjoy, Your Beautiful just the way you are! 🌺
{LYRICS:} I got my long sleeves on Baggy and way too long Nobody has questions in December But 5 months later, all I hear is Aren't you warm? Aren't you sweating up a storm? Are you aware that it's hotter than hell out here? Maybe I would dress for the weather if I would feel better But I have to tell them all I'm freezing No matter the season It feels so good to hide To cover what I don't like And I'll be doing fine until I step outside And somebody asks me again Aren't you warm? Aren't you sweating up a storm? Are you aware that it's hotter than hell out here? Maybe I would dress for the weather if I would feel better But I have to tell them all I'm freezing No matter the season No matter the season It really gets to me That I can't answer truthfully Aren't you warm? Aren't you sweating up a storm? Are you aware that it's hotter than hell out here? Maybe I would dress for the weather if I would feel better But I have to tell them all i'm freezing No matter the season No matter the season
KatieIsntReal I used this to learn the words when I can’t listen to it out loud also sometimes it’s easier to read them like this than one line at a time. I hope this helped
You are beautiful. Inside and out. I used to wear jackets all year through middle school. Even if it made me pass out from the heat. My mom would tell me to just take it off, but it was much more than she saw. I found someone that loves me for me. And it all changed. Not all the way. But i feel comfortable around him. And i dont care when im around him. Find yourself. And it will be over hun ❤ Find yourself. And you wont need to be freezing Love : paul
This song is probably the song I relate to the most out of all the songs I’ve ever listened to. I have a ton of clothes and I used to love dressing up wearing dresses and tops and nice shoes and jewelry. But I gave up on everything. I’m sad and I just don’t want to try anymore. I want to relax for a bit. So now I wear hoodies, jeans/leggings, converse, and sometimes a cap. In the winter no one ever really comments about it but as summer gets closer people always say I’m crazy for wearing a hoodie. My excuse is “it might be hot outside but not inside where we are spending most of the time.” It’s not that I hate myself I love myself so much. I’m just incredibly sad and lonely. Maybe someday I’ll start dressing up again but right now I feel not only comfortable but safe in my hoodies and converse.
*_Hey, so.. Know that you're worth alot, we're all human in the end, I'm here for you and many other people are but you may just not realize it. Know you're not alone, you're beautiful, you're YOU. That's what makes you different, don't bottle up your emotions, this is how you were made, you might not be comfortable in your own skin but it doesn't matter. You'll get through this timing, we all felt like that once in our life but you'll get over it, trust me, it's just that period of a time when you're starting to grow, me as a 12 year old I can relate._* *Hope everything gets better for you! Stay Strong. :) x*
I saw your tik tok and wanted to see the whole song. I absolutely love it and its so relatable. Your really inspiring and i thank you for my new favorite song.
This song makes me feel so much better bc I used to cut my wrists so I have scars and I wore hoodies and long sleeves for 3 years straight even in the summer so nobody could see the scars but when I got a job at a certain place I wasn’t allowed to wear long sleeves and people started seeing the scars and judged me for it so I covered up again and got a new job where I could wear a jacket but now I don’t care if they like me or not for it bc I’ve realized that I’m not the only one that has this problem
I DID NOT CONE HERE FROM TIKTOK I'M TRULY A FAN OF YOU AND I LOVE YOU SO MUCH I ALWAYS REPLAY YOUR SONG DOWN LOW AND SING IT WORD FOR WORD EVEYWHERE I GO
i know this song is mostly about body issues, but it’s helped me a lot with self harm. i’m really anxious showing my scars and this song made me feel so much better. i always wear a hoodie & pants in 80-90 degrees and it honestly sucks. it’s comforting knowing so many people relate.
this is my first time hearing this song and i'm already crying. I used to be much more comfortable with my body but now i always feel the need to cover up my body with hoodies and baggy sweatpants. I'm nonbinary and i'm extremely insecure about my boobs. They give me a lot of dysphoria and without a binder, sometimes layering sports bras until my shoulders hurt and wearing huge sweatshirts is the only way to make them disappear. Thank you for making this beautiful song
I love this song sooooooooooo much and I love your voice definitely gonna have this song on repeat crazy how relatable it is and I think I found my new favorite artist 🥰
I just want to appreciate your style and way to tell story's and your life experiences it's inspiring me and many other every single time we hear something of your masterpieces. Thank you Sara for sharing your music with us
I didn't Come her bc of Tiktok But The Fact That My sis Used to play this song. It was so Good to Listen While It's Raining , Idk why i feel like im gonna cry everytime i hear this song actually. Like A Memories Flashbacks on my Brain. I feel like crying. "Are you aware , that its hotter than hell out of here".
The moment she said I got my long sleeves on, I looked at my arm and pulled my sleeve, I knew this would hit hard, but I am just crying in bed alone at 2 in the morning because I can't sleep and found this in my spotify suggestions, be strong Sara! We all love you, and mark my words one day this girl will reach to the moon
I like to interpret this as a song about self-harm because i can really relate. Where i live it gets so hot but i would always have hoodies on. Im about 2 weeks clean tho :D But either way, this song is so beautiful 🥺
I feel that, hiding scars is a lot of weight to carry on ur shoulders. I've been hiding my scars for a while now, and i once talked to my parents about my suffering but, they didn't react the way i expected them to.
Saw this on my fyp on TikTok and I came here to listen to the full video. I love this song. It means soo much and it must of been so hard for you to work up the courage to post something that’s so close to your heart but somehow, your voice and the piano just give off a radiant vibe and I love it. Keep it up and never let go of your dreams and goals
I came form tiktok and it's like a signal. I was just thinking about how I don't dress the way i would like bc of my insecurities, it's really sad the only person that put limits it's myself. I freaking love the song
aye i’m a trans male as well, just a bit of advice save up a bit, talk to a supportive friend, use that money and buy a binder, and get it sent to that friends house. also there is great videos on how to bind correctly. also if your family is supportive i am sure you can also ship it to your house ofc)) quick note do NOT buy a binder of amazon, stay safe buddy!
I never thought I could be able to put into words how I felt in my life and you just did it for me. Thank you so much. Straight from TikTok. You have a beautiful soothing voice I’ve already sent you to my friends. ❤️
This is so relatable. Summer is coming and I'm scared of going outside because I feel fat and I'm trying to lose weight but it's not that easy and I'm scared someone is gonna judge me if I put on a pair of shorts 😞 I feel so comfortable knowing that I'm not the only one feeling like this. We're doing our best so I hope whoever is reading this rn is doing great, and if you're not, remember that everything is gonna be better one day in the future ✨ Ily 🥺✨
I like that the song could mean anything, because you didn't specify. So, you could take it for cutting, Gender Dysphoria, being self conscious of your body, or etc. ^^ That way we can all relate to it and feel heard/like our problems matter. You're such a beautiful, lovely person!!
Found this song on tiktok when you first posted it there . And it hit me so hard and filled my head with memories . I had anorexia for 8 years . I remember wearing gloves in school and literally bringing blankets everywhere wearing it like a cape to keep warm , in the car , to doctors appts , in stores . I barely left the house . I remember one time I did with my mom to target , and we bumped into someone I knew at the school I went to before I dropped out because my health was too unstable to stay there , and her jaw dropped and eyes went wide before quickly composing herself and making small talk before walking away. My mom stopped me and literally had to explain to me her reaction about my appearance because I just didn’t see how sick I was . It’s bizarre now 2 years into recovery (still have struggles I’m not in the camp of people thinking you can be fully cured without having thoughts sometimes) but am weight restored , looking back through old photos sometimes looking at them scares myself , and sometimes I miss it. I struggle with anger at my past self for letting it get as bad as it was (which is crazy because I was 13 when it started ) but now I have osteoporosis and arthritis and malabsorption issues that they say are just permanent affects of what my body went through. Most of my friends now didn’t even know me back then , and thinking that they only know how I look now is weird because I somehow never feel like I can talk about my ed struggles because I look normal now even though 21 now and I was sick for a huge chunk of my life and it was a really big deal I feel like because no one would assume it, I’m not valid . But I can still vividly remember all the bad things about it, I was sent in and out of treatment like a revolving door and would gain weight and loose it when I got home every time and during the time I had gained I’d look back at being underweight through rose colored glasses , now I can see how it actually was. Being freezing all the time wanting the houses inside temp to be like 73 degrees because I couldn’t get warm , falling out hair , bruises , body aches , dizziness and fainting , being tired all the time , headaches not being able to walk much or climb stairs , eventually premature organ failure , chronically low electrolyte and nutrient levels , etc etc etc . The thing that affected me most was just all the freedom and independence I lost. Because I was so sick and in treatment constantly to keep me alive , I sat and had to watch life go by leaving me behind , watch my friends graduate , miss weddings , funerals , spent several of my own birthdays in the hospital even my “sweet 16” lost friendships , got so behind in school and then had to drop out, had to miss out on the first years of new family members lives , and missed the last years of some family and friends I was closest too, missed events , pride , the last warped tour, lost trust with people I care about . They were so sure I would die . But I went back To school last year . And now I’m waiting for my diploma in the mail (covid had me finishing school at home) and I’m going to college something I never thought would ever be able to happen because of Ed. I still can’t say I love my body, I haven’t got there yet, I’m more in a stage of dissociating and not really thinking or feeling like my body is my own and not really focusing or looking at it. It’s not perfect but I’m able to just see it as needing to feed it for its functions without any physical labels including beautiful or ugly or fat or skinny attached . Just a body a vessel for my brain and heart that I do value . When I was in treatment the way that people would try to motivate me to get better was to tell me that I should care about myself , that I could die and tell me all the things that I was harming in my body etc etc , that never helped because I didn’t care about my body . The way I was able to change my thoughts was to focus on what my body made me able to do . And the things I had to be healthy to be able To do, goal focused , like finishing school , going to college , activism , playing with my dog , and volunteer work. All the things I loved , and how getting better would help my brain function to without being overwhelmed by thoughts about weight and food , like writing poetry and journalism (which I’m now going to college for ). To anyone who actually read through this giant essay, and your struggling currently know I love you, I’m proud of you for still being alive for continuing to fight and I know that you are worth life , I know you are worthy of food and of care and of love and I know you have things to offer to this world . I’m proud of you
i am transgender (ftm) and i also struggle with self harm and my weight. i always wear baggy clothes to cover all my cuts, my wrong body and all i dont like (coz of my weight). this song makes me wanna cry so much.
Every time I hear your songs I want to give you a hug! I love you and your music, I can relate to almost all of your songs, like they were writen from my life experience.
Not a long time ago I used to cut myself. It’s summer now, and I can’t stand the look of my arms. I wear long sleeves. Thank you so much for your songs, you are amazing, I love you❤️💞
I am underweight and I have been bullied for that in my Swedish school... I started wearing oversized clothes all the time and they didn't stop.. even my ex best friends started bullying me... "you are too skinny, you need to eat" they said and everyone else said "you are ugly" I wanted to change school and gain weight so bad but I couldn't change school, and when we started online school I started eating all the time, and I gained 12kg in a very short time which wasn't good... but they were still bullying me in classes. When we started school I weighted 53kg and I was so happy that they won't bully me anymore. But... they stopped for a while then they came back at me all at once... I have no friends at school.. I always sit alone and my heart is broken. I always cry before sleep... I am losing weight and now I am back to 46kg... now I will change school and I really hope I'll get better 🖤
This song deserves to be heard. It's not one of those pointless rap songs where the rapper just mumbles, and its not one of those sappy fake love stories. This is a song that talks about real issues that more people face than what meets the eye. For some people this is a style choice, and for others its a habit impossible to break. I think more people should make music about actual first world problems. This song made me sob and realize I'm not the only one.. So thanks for that.
after wearing pants and hoodies for 6 years straight my body has adapted and I don't feel that warm outside during the summer so I find it really annoying when people complain about me wearing a hoodie like its not your body, it's because of people like you that I'm wearing hoodies year long anyways
I felt so comfortable dressing when I was younger. Now I'm still young, and would rather suffocate in polyester than show anyone I have big thighs and a stomach.
Bruh yesterday at lunch I was asking if we could sit in the shade and one of my closest friends said “u wouldn’t be so hot if u didn’t dress emo all the time. Why r u wearing jeans” and I just felt insecure the rest of the week cuz it was like 74 degrees
I always wore sweaters in elementary cause I've always felt insecure about myself, I still do that in highschool since everybody looks slimmer then me..but im working on my self to become more confident for myself. I hope everyone that goes through this good luck because its not easy💓
i love trying clothes on but the moment i see myself in the mirror i want to cry and sometimes my mom goes in the dressing room with me and and she gets mad when i say i can’t wear anything because i hate myself and she’s like “ur just a teenager and don’t give me that attitude”
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i came from tik tok and this song is so good! it’s sounds like a song i’d hear on the radio
Riley Peterman it’s beautiful 😍 became my favorite song
Me too
Me too ❤
Me
Me too
I’m crying so much with this song bc im overweight and it’s so hard feel comfortable with myself if everybody is judging me.
Maybe they not even look at me but te anxiety makes me thinks that :(
Antonia stay positive beautiful, it should never matter what anyone else thinks. society has such a prominent vision on how every female should look. skinny, tan, short, etc etc. as long as you can love yourself for everything you come with (any mental illness, personality, looks, etc etc) that’s all that should matter💕🥺
You cover up cause your over weight I do it cause I’m too skinny
@@jillmont3342 same here :/
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AMAZING TALENTED AND STUNNING
WE LOVE U !! BE POSITIVE KEEP UR HEAD UP BEAUTIFUL
🤗❤
clarita omg I’m crying. Thank u so so so much. u don’t know how much i needed this
This song really made me cry:( I relate to this so much, tbh I’m a little over weight and I’m trying to work on it and loving my body more but it’s so hard:/ my moms ex boyfriend was extremely mentally abusive and would always comment about my looks, saying stuff like “a girl shouldn’t wear stuff like that” or “you need to change that’s to much” and it’s really grown to affect how I see myself now. I now wear lots of baggy clothes to stop people from seeing my real figure because I don’t feel comfortable with it so I think people will see the same thing I see. I’m working on feeling better about my own skin though 🥺
s t x r m i i s k i e z thank you so much!🥺
YES PROSPER KING/QUEEN YOU GO YOU ARE AMAZING AND DESERVE TO BE YOURSELF AND WEAR WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANT!!!!!💙💕💙💕💙💕💙💕💙💕💙💕💙💕💙💕💙💕💙
Addison Draws 💞💜
You're a 10/10. Just start with accepting yourself. And listen to Demi Lovato with Ashley Graham. Really inspiring.
Dont give 2 shits cuz no one is perfect and u dont have to look like a “model” it is ur body. U do whatever u want.
I’ve found your music recently and have completely fallen in love with every song. You have a beautiful voice and each and every song has a beautiful meaning. Please never give up music💘
Ikr sameeee she deserve to be famous already
Amen . She's the best :)
When I was 10 I would cry in anger in dressing rooms because I didn’t like the way I looked. I thought I was gross. And when I was 6 I looked at the other girls and just wanted to be like them, I didn’t like anything of my body my skin my hair my face my arms. I’m learning to love myself so I’m able to love others as well.❤️
You should watch the lyrics video from BTS the title ist Love youself .. it really helped me maybe it will help u too
Win’s winwin same.
I like how people call us attention seekers, but we wear long sleeves to hide our scares. :/
I was about to comment something similar lol
They would call us attention seekers even more if we wouldnt do it
I don't even really self harm anymore but I still have scars that are extremely visible.
@@samoakley6693 i still self harm but its on my legs so its not visible but i also got some old scars on my arms.
I hope that you are all doing well! I am here for you 💜
Yesteraday my teacher asked me "it's hot out here and you're wearing Pants and hoodie" and she was assuming that I was self-harming until I showed her my arms. It really do be like that sometimes and I ain't gonna stop wearing my hoodie and pants all season, I felt that song
Itchy Watermelon I’ve been wearing hoodies and pants all year round since 4th grade, I’m in college now :(
You say it like it's a bad thing she's worried about you
please don't hurt yourself. God created you and put you on this earth for a reason. You might think you're alone but your not. Please don't ruin God's beautiful creation.
@@_Shaia_ actually I didnt and would never cause I'm too scared lol but thank you^-^
@@Jiakhirodhur777 relatable I have thoughts of it but I have the lowlest pain tolerance and I'm scared
"It really gets to me that I can’t answer truthfully"
I felt that…
I’ve seen some comments on “oh your so beautiful why are you insecure” anybody no matter the body can be insecure it’s just sad that we are insecure😔
"It's okay to not feel okay. But it's not okay, to always feel that way".
Not my words.
One of my fav quotes though.
If you notice someone in pain. Try to help them.
If you ignore them, then we won't blame you.
A lot of people don't know what to do in those situations.
But if you tried... Don't let guilt consume your very thoughts because you couldn't do more.
Put a smile on your face instead, live to share their story.
You can also help others that way.
This line : „Nobody question in december but 5 month later“ i know. I wrote a Song because depressione and Self-Harm. In my Song is the line „Nobody ask me in November but a Few months later“ 🥺❤️
Mo Rina can i find your song somewhere ?
Did you film it? Can I listen to it?
You could easily see this from two points of view:
1. Hiding your body because you are insecure and hate people seeing your body.
2. Having self harm marks/cuts on your arms and feeling like you need to hide them.
I just want to say that if you relate to no. 2 then just know that you don't have to hide your scars. They are signs or a fight and you shouldn't feel ashamed of them, you're so brave and I love you 💕
I am personally struggeling with number 2 and I'm still continuing my fight but its so hard. I don't know how much longer I can keep up with it. But thank you so much for your kind words
I want to point out another reason. It would still count to number 1 since the phrasing still fits but I know that everyone would probably only think of body insecurities with the first one. But I think mental insecurities, especially socialwise, would apply to it as well. For me at least, because I feel much safer with long sleeves on, showing as less skin as possible. It's like my armor. To hide from people, making myself as inconspicuous and invisible as possible, and to handle my habit of having to fumble on something with my hands when I'm nervous or scared. I don't hate my body at all but I still feel so uncomfortable and vulnerable when wearing short pants or dresses or even just a shirt without my jacket on (I've gotten better btw, that's me speaking from two years ago), judging me, eyeing me, seeing me. And I lie about the reason. Because it's just the easier thing to do than explaining why something is like it is.
or 4) you're scared of getting sexually assaulted/stared at/catcalled
thank you! i'm number 2 and i agree. they are battle scars. They don't define you, but they show what you have/can gone through.
I’m both
Who else is here because they saw her video on tiktok promoting it?
Me!
Me
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Why youtube don't let me give more than 1 like to this piece of art💖💖💖😍
i have struggledwith self harm and always wear long sleeves no matter what, i read some comments and apparently its about weight issues, it just goes to show that this is such a good song bc you get multiple things from it!
Me too I’m the same way I struggled with self harm but when it was about weight I still related to it through self harm
I think it's about both to be honest it could be about anything "to cover up what I don't like" a lot of people don't like a lot about them and who knows what the song really is talking about one or the other or both but that's why I love it and ugh now it's seeming like I am disagreeing with your comment (okay I'm not I am agreeing) I'm bad at words anyway I guess I'm done
Deuteronomy 31:8💙
So I know this song is about body image but I actually saw something on this where someone interpreted it as a song about self harm and it's honestly really moving even though you didn't intend that because I really relate to that feeling of just lying and saying you're cold
This was so beautiful and relatable. My parents always wanted me to dress “modest” however it turned into shaming me about my body (my chest, curves, and long legs) so I cover up. In the dead of summer I wear oversized sweatshirts and my mom would say “Are you trying to look like a lesbian?” I keep my sexuality to myself but others continue to get on me about how I dress or look so thank you for this amazing song.
Anna Gervasi fuck what anyone thinks. you love who you love. if you’re comfortable w who you are as a person, that’s all that should ever matter💙
Don't care about anyone!!
We are all with you
People who don't understand will never understand!!
Therefore don't worry what others say
Awwww, I'm so sorry...Just because you dress a certain way doesn't make you a lesbian, and even if you are a lesbian that's okay too!
Don't listen to them! You be yourself and don't let people tell you who you have to be. Wear what your comfortable in and enjoy, Your Beautiful just the way you are! 🌺
My mom also did this to me even when I said that I felt insecure
Who came from somewhere OTHER than TikTok? 🙋🏻♀️
Meee I clicked the video as soon as she released it I love her music sm
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@@hellothere8336 Me too I was scrolling through reels :)
I saw her on an animatic xD
i saw the tiktok on insta, does it count?
{LYRICS:}
I got my long sleeves on
Baggy and way too long
Nobody has questions in December
But 5 months later, all I hear is
Aren't you warm?
Aren't you sweating up a storm?
Are you aware that it's hotter than hell out here?
Maybe I would dress for the weather if I would feel better
But I have to tell them all I'm freezing
No matter the season
It feels so good to hide
To cover what I don't like
And I'll be doing fine until I step outside
And somebody asks me again
Aren't you warm?
Aren't you sweating up a storm?
Are you aware that it's hotter than hell out here?
Maybe I would dress for the weather if I would feel better
But I have to tell them all I'm freezing
No matter the season
No matter the season
It really gets to me
That I can't answer truthfully
Aren't you warm?
Aren't you sweating up a storm?
Are you aware that it's hotter than hell out here?
Maybe I would dress for the weather if I would feel better
But I have to tell them all i'm freezing
No matter the season
No matter the season
What is this for?
KatieIsntReal I used this to learn the words when I can’t listen to it out loud also sometimes it’s easier to read them like this than one line at a time. I hope this helped
Imagine writing the lyrics under a lyrics video😂
@@gkb_kult i couldn't see the lyrics on the video so seeing them in the comments was helpful
@@weewoo3892i couldn't see the lyrics on the video so seeing them in the comments was helpful
You are beautiful. Inside and out.
I used to wear jackets all year through middle school.
Even if it made me pass out from the heat.
My mom would tell me to just take it off, but it was much more than she saw.
I found someone that loves me for me.
And it all changed.
Not all the way. But i feel comfortable around him. And i dont care when im around him.
Find yourself. And it will be over hun ❤
Find yourself. And you wont need to be freezing
Love : paul
Thanks Paul
Thank you Paul. (Sighs helplessly) With things the way they are lately, it would be so damn easy to lose myself.
This song is probably the song I relate to the most out of all the songs I’ve ever listened to.
I have a ton of clothes and I used to love dressing up wearing dresses and tops and nice shoes and jewelry.
But I gave up on everything. I’m sad and I just don’t want to try anymore. I want to relax for a bit. So now I wear hoodies, jeans/leggings, converse, and sometimes a cap.
In the winter no one ever really comments about it but as summer gets closer people always say I’m crazy for wearing a hoodie. My excuse is “it might be hot outside but not inside where we are spending most of the time.”
It’s not that I hate myself I love myself so much. I’m just incredibly sad and lonely.
Maybe someday I’ll start dressing up again but right now I feel not only comfortable but safe in my hoodies and converse.
DreamerGirlZ that’s one of the excuses I use as well
*_Hey, so.. Know that you're worth alot, we're all human in the end, I'm here for you and many other people are but you may just not realize it. Know you're not alone, you're beautiful, you're YOU. That's what makes you different, don't bottle up your emotions, this is how you were made, you might not be comfortable in your own skin but it doesn't matter. You'll get through this timing, we all felt like that once in our life but you'll get over it, trust me, it's just that period of a time when you're starting to grow, me as a 12 year old I can relate._*
*Hope everything gets better for you! Stay Strong. :) x*
Love the song 😭
She is so beautiful, I can’t believe she has insecurities. I’m so related to this song, it is literally my life in a song. Love this song.
We’ve all got insecurities. Some of us are just more willing to be open about them.
I saw your tik tok and wanted to see the whole song. I absolutely love it and its so relatable. Your really inspiring and i thank you for my new favorite song.
This song makes me feel so much better bc I used to cut my wrists so I have scars and I wore hoodies and long sleeves for 3 years straight even in the summer so nobody could see the scars but when I got a job at a certain place I wasn’t allowed to wear long sleeves and people started seeing the scars and judged me for it so I covered up again and got a new job where I could wear a jacket but now I don’t care if they like me or not for it bc I’ve realized that I’m not the only one that has this problem
This is so good I can’t believe there’s not a million views this is like professional skill wise it sounds so good omg
I felt this on a whole freaking other level 😭
message to the person that is reading this
💫✨YOUR BEAUTIFUL DONT CHANGE NO MATTER WHAT ✨💫
Thank you 🥺
thanks ily :)
nou omg-
If I wanna change im gonna☺🥺
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I really needed to hear that.
I DID NOT CONE HERE FROM TIKTOK I'M TRULY A FAN OF YOU AND I LOVE YOU SO MUCH I ALWAYS REPLAY YOUR SONG DOWN LOW AND SING IT WORD FOR WORD EVEYWHERE I GO
Thank you for this song. I knew I wasn't alone, but this makes me feel so much better about my many insecurites. Wonderful song, great job.
This is why I love winter 😢
This and smaller than this are my favorites of yours, I relate a lot and I think they are great :)
i know this song is mostly about body issues, but it’s helped me a lot with self harm. i’m really anxious showing my scars and this song made me feel so much better. i always wear a hoodie & pants in 80-90 degrees and it honestly sucks. it’s comforting knowing so many people relate.
Remember, you’re all beautiful and don’t need to hurt yourselves in anyway because you’re God’s perfect creation. God bless y’all ❤️
Actually related to this song when I was younger you’d never see my in just a t shirt
this is my first time hearing this song and i'm already crying. I used to be much more comfortable with my body but now i always feel the need to cover up my body with hoodies and baggy sweatpants. I'm nonbinary and i'm extremely insecure about my boobs. They give me a lot of dysphoria and without a binder, sometimes layering sports bras until my shoulders hurt and wearing huge sweatshirts is the only way to make them disappear. Thank you for making this beautiful song
I’m so sorry. Dysphoria is hell.
I love this song sooooooooooo much and I love your voice definitely gonna have this song on repeat crazy how relatable it is and I think I found my new favorite artist 🥰
it's august the 11th, i'm in a mental hospital and i can relate to this song way too much
Hey luv, I hope you're doing a lil better today ❤️ trust the process
I just want to appreciate your style and way to tell story's and your life experiences it's inspiring me and many other every single time we hear something of your masterpieces. Thank you Sara for sharing your music with us
"No matter the season" is still my favorite song from Sara Kays 💜
I didn't Come her bc of Tiktok But The Fact That My sis Used to play this song. It was so Good to Listen While It's Raining , Idk why i feel like im gonna cry everytime i hear this song actually. Like A Memories Flashbacks on my Brain. I feel like crying.
"Are you aware , that its hotter than hell out of here".
This song really hits home for me like it's words I could have said like my soul is singing it
This is part of one of my playlists- it's so amazing even my dogs love it
The moment she said I got my long sleeves on, I looked at my arm and pulled my sleeve, I knew this would hit hard, but I am just crying in bed alone at 2 in the morning because I can't sleep and found this in my spotify suggestions, be strong Sara! We all love you, and mark my words one day this girl will reach to the moon
Did you write the lyrics?
It's perfect.
🎶👏💜
Im so obsessed in this song now.😫❤ i cant stop playing it
Added to my playlist💕it reminds me so much of myself but at the same time makes me feel better in my body knowing I’m not alone thanks so much
Your music is therapy... Thanks for showing me I'm not alone..
I like to interpret this as a song about self-harm because i can really relate. Where i live it gets so hot but i would always have hoodies on. Im about 2 weeks clean tho :D
But either way, this song is so beautiful 🥺
Keep it up, you’re doing great❤️❤️
I'm so proud of you for being clean for 2 weeks! I know that it's hard sometimes, but I'm so proud of you. Keep your chin up, youre doing great!
I recently started cutting and that’s really inspiring tysm 🥺
Omg I am crying right now because of the way I relate to this…
i’m terrified for warm weather to come. i don’t want my family to see my scars
I feel that, hiding scars is a lot of weight to carry on ur shoulders. I've been hiding my scars for a while now, and i once talked to my parents about my suffering but, they didn't react the way i expected them to.
Are of your songs are so relatable in the saddest ways
You are an amazing singer and I can't wait untill your singing at concerts
Saw this on my fyp on TikTok and I came here to listen to the full video. I love this song. It means soo much and it must of been so hard for you to work up the courage to post something that’s so close to your heart but somehow, your voice and the piano just give off a radiant vibe and I love it. Keep it up and never let go of your dreams and goals
Beautiful song, really speaks to me in relation to self-harming
I came form tiktok and it's like a signal. I was just thinking about how I don't dress the way i would like bc of my insecurities, it's really sad the only person that put limits it's myself. I freaking love the song
This song just hits differently 🥺
As a trans male, this song connects to me on a spiritual level. I wish I could wear sweatshrits any season, but when it gets too hot out, I can't.
aye i’m a trans male as well, just a bit of advice save up a bit, talk to a supportive friend, use that money and buy a binder, and get it sent to that friends house. also there is great videos on how to bind correctly. also if your family is supportive i am sure you can also ship it to your house ofc)) quick note do NOT buy a binder of amazon, stay safe buddy!
cooper Thanks :)
I can’t stop listening to this song!!!!!!! I love it so much
I never thought I could be able to put into words how I felt in my life and you just did it for me. Thank you so much. Straight from TikTok. You have a beautiful soothing voice I’ve already sent you to my friends. ❤️
She needs more recognition:) I love her voice
oh my god..... this is so perfect
when you come back to this song every day bc it's so good and just see it grow and getting the recognition it deserves 😭🥺
That's exactly how I feel in the summer... Losing weight is not really my thing
same
This is so relatable. Summer is coming and I'm scared of going outside because I feel fat and I'm trying to lose weight but it's not that easy and I'm scared someone is gonna judge me if I put on a pair of shorts 😞
I feel so comfortable knowing that I'm not the only one feeling like this.
We're doing our best so I hope whoever is reading this rn is doing great, and if you're not, remember that everything is gonna be better one day in the future ✨
Ily 🥺✨
I like that the song could mean anything, because you didn't specify. So, you could take it for cutting, Gender Dysphoria, being self conscious of your body, or etc. ^^ That way we can all relate to it and feel heard/like our problems matter. You're such a beautiful, lovely person!!
Found this song on tiktok when you first posted it there . And it hit me so hard and filled my head with memories . I had anorexia for 8 years . I remember wearing gloves in school and literally bringing blankets everywhere wearing it like a cape to keep warm , in the car , to doctors appts , in stores . I barely left the house . I remember one time I did with my mom to target , and we bumped into someone I knew at the school I went to before I dropped out because my health was too unstable to stay there , and her jaw dropped and eyes went wide before quickly composing herself and making small talk before walking away. My mom stopped me and literally had to explain to me her reaction about my appearance because I just didn’t see how sick I was . It’s bizarre now 2 years into recovery (still have struggles I’m not in the camp of people thinking you can be fully cured without having thoughts sometimes) but am weight restored , looking back through old photos sometimes looking at them scares myself , and sometimes I miss it. I struggle with anger at my past self for letting it get as bad as it was (which is crazy because I was 13 when it started ) but now I have osteoporosis and arthritis and malabsorption issues that they say are just permanent affects of what my body went through. Most of my friends now didn’t even know me back then , and thinking that they only know how I look now is weird because I somehow never feel like I can talk about my ed struggles because I look normal now even though 21 now and I was sick for a huge chunk of my life and it was a really big deal I feel like because no one would assume it, I’m not valid . But I can still vividly remember all the bad things about it, I was sent in and out of treatment like a revolving door and would gain weight and loose it when I got home every time and during the time I had gained I’d look back at being underweight through rose colored glasses , now I can see how it actually was. Being freezing all the time wanting the houses inside temp to be like 73 degrees because I couldn’t get warm , falling out hair , bruises , body aches , dizziness and fainting , being tired all the time , headaches not being able to walk much or climb stairs , eventually premature organ failure , chronically low electrolyte and nutrient levels , etc etc etc . The thing that affected me most was just all the freedom and independence I lost. Because I was so sick and in treatment constantly to keep me alive , I sat and had to watch life go by leaving me behind , watch my friends graduate , miss weddings , funerals , spent several of my own birthdays in the hospital even my “sweet 16” lost friendships , got so behind in school and then had to drop out, had to miss out on the first years of new family members lives , and missed the last years of some family and friends I was closest too, missed events , pride , the last warped tour, lost trust with people I care about . They were so sure I would die . But I went back
To school last year . And now I’m waiting for my diploma in the mail (covid had me finishing school at home) and I’m going to college something I never thought would ever be able to happen because of Ed. I still can’t say I love my body, I haven’t got there yet, I’m more in a stage of dissociating and not really thinking or feeling like my body is my own and not really focusing or looking at it. It’s not perfect but I’m able to just see it as needing to feed it for its functions without any physical labels including beautiful or ugly or fat or skinny attached . Just a body a vessel for my brain and heart that I do value . When I was in treatment the way that people would try to motivate me to get better was to tell me that I should care about myself , that I could die and tell me all the things that I was harming in my body etc etc , that never helped because I didn’t care about my body . The way I was able to change my thoughts was to focus on what my body made me able to do . And the things I had to be healthy to be able
To do, goal focused , like finishing school , going to college , activism , playing with my dog , and volunteer work. All the things I loved , and how getting better would help my brain function to without being overwhelmed by thoughts about weight and food , like writing poetry and journalism (which I’m now going to college for ). To anyone who actually read through this giant essay, and your struggling currently know I love you, I’m proud of you for still being alive for continuing to fight and I know that you are worth life , I know you are worthy of food and of care and of love and I know you have things to offer to this world . I’m proud of you
Kenzieisawkward 💜
Hey, i am from TikTok, but i am really happy that it helped me find such a cool artist :) all the best!
Amazing love your sound!
i am transgender (ftm) and i also struggle with self harm and my weight. i always wear baggy clothes to cover all my cuts, my wrong body and all i dont like (coz of my weight).
this song makes me wanna cry so much.
this song is so soft and relatable
today was the worst day ever and this song... omg explained it all thx I cried a lot.
❤️❤️❤️ love her beautiful voice
I relate🥺😔 you’re so talented!
Its beautiful. She reminded me of somebody. Thanks.
I relate so much to this beautiful song, definitely subscribing for more (: 🖤🖤
Every time I hear your songs I want to give you a hug! I love you and your music, I can relate to almost all of your songs, like they were writen from my life experience.
Not a long time ago I used to cut myself. It’s summer now, and I can’t stand the look of my arms. I wear long sleeves. Thank you so much for your songs, you are amazing, I love you❤️💞
I hope you are doing well this summer
I love this song so much and it's very relatable. Thank you for making it 😭🥺
when someone asks "aren't you warm?"
me as a muslim gurl and wear hijab 24/7 : yeah but guess what hell is hotter👁️👄👁️
Relatable
I really felt that
Hahahaha
omg hahahhahaaha
masha allah sister, keep up the good work!!!
BEAUTIFUL AND UNDERRATED SONG!
I am underweight and I have been bullied for that in my Swedish school... I started wearing oversized clothes all the time and they didn't stop.. even my ex best friends started bullying me... "you are too skinny, you need to eat" they said and everyone else said "you are ugly" I wanted to change school and gain weight so bad but I couldn't change school, and when we started online school I started eating all the time, and I gained 12kg in a very short time which wasn't good... but they were still bullying me in classes. When we started school I weighted 53kg and I was so happy that they won't bully me anymore. But... they stopped for a while then they came back at me all at once... I have no friends at school.. I always sit alone and my heart is broken. I always cry before sleep... I am losing weight and now I am back to 46kg... now I will change school and I really hope I'll get better 🖤
Ughhh! This song is sooo good this should be in TVs, RADIOs, everything.... ughhhhh anyways I LOVE THIS SO MUCH OMG!😍😙💜
This is unfortunately relatable to many people 😢
This song deserves to be heard. It's not one of those pointless rap songs where the rapper just mumbles, and its not one of those sappy fake love stories. This is a song that talks about real issues that more people face than what meets the eye. For some people this is a style choice, and for others its a habit impossible to break. I think more people should make music about actual first world problems. This song made me sob and realize I'm not the only one.. So thanks for that.
after wearing pants and hoodies for 6 years straight my body has adapted and I don't feel that warm outside during the summer so I find it really annoying when people complain about me wearing a hoodie like its not your body, it's because of people like you that I'm wearing hoodies year long anyways
One of my favorite songs for sure💜💜💜💜
I felt so comfortable dressing when I was younger. Now I'm still young, and would rather suffocate in polyester than show anyone I have big thighs and a stomach.
my new fav song. i relate too much, i love it!!
Bruh yesterday at lunch I was asking if we could sit in the shade and one of my closest friends said “u wouldn’t be so hot if u didn’t dress emo all the time. Why r u wearing jeans” and I just felt insecure the rest of the week cuz it was like 74 degrees
I always wore sweaters in elementary cause I've always felt insecure about myself, I still do that in highschool since everybody looks slimmer then me..but im working on my self to become more confident for myself. I hope everyone that goes through this good luck because its not easy💓
She gives me a vibe of Alec Benjamin
I love this song
Did nobody else come here just by themselves and not from TikTok 💀
Love this song so much 🖤
Here we go again
I love this song sooo much🥺
i love trying clothes on but the moment i see myself in the mirror i want to cry and sometimes my mom goes in the dressing room with me and and she gets mad when i say i can’t wear anything because i hate myself and she’s like “ur just a teenager and don’t give me that attitude”
Kali :/ my mom never helped either she’d mock me not realizing how much it hurt
I love how she relates to real stuff. Not just a bunch of love stuff
This song is so peaceful 🫶🏼
I love this song so much it's so relatable and made me cry 🥺🥰