I just wanna share it here. Almost 3 years ago, my boyfriend got me pregnant but he told everyone (including his parents) that I was just raped. The truth is I was indeed a rape victim but that was before I met him. I was so broken that he used my dark past to cover up what he called a "mistake". Now I'm raising my son alone but I'm not sad anymore. To anyone out there who are suffering from a toxic relationship, I hope and pray for your strength and healing. You got this. Edit: Thank you so much for all your kind words and support 💙. Me and my child are doing well. I also decided to cut off my communication with my child's father because I don't want my child to feel unwanted. I just want to pour all the love that I can to this child. I just wish that no one would have to go through the same pain. If you are someone who is currently in a moving-on phase, I wish for your healing and happiness. When the time comes, I hope you can finally say that you are not sad anymore. Keep safe everyone. Once again, thank you.
I hope there was some form of parental DNA testing done, so that he pays child support or something. If he declines this kind of testing and his parents see his response, that's all the proof his parents need that he is the father. I'm sorry you stumbled into a situation that the other person wasn't willing to address truthfully in the process, with you. You're very courageous to take on being a single parent. 💛 I hope the guy grows up enough mentally to realize what he's going to miss out on, before the child has grown into an adult.
I really admire your strength..... You are a strong woman and you will be fine but trust me it not be anytime soon but he will come back around when he realizes what he lost ...Karma will serve him right
I’m still sad y’all…but I’m going to play this song everyday as I’m getting dressed, doing my hair and getting ready for my day until I’m not sad anymore ❤️
@@anywaywithaaliyah7472 you'll get there, baby steps♥️sending lots of hugs your way I thought I wasn't sad anymore till I heard this song.. Seems I'm not there yet too
I think I'm gonna clean my apartment Get rid of all the things that I don't need Come and pick 'em up if you want them I'll leave 'em right by the door I don't want it no more, hmm I think I'm gonna go to a party Hang out with the friend you worried 'bout And I don't have to say I'm sorry For something I didn't do And making it all 'bout you So hey, what's the use being sad over you? Now I can't seem to remember being broken (Ah, ah, ah) And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore I'm gonna reconnect with my old self I like the way I was before we met I'm gonna buy a one-way ticket Go places I've never been 'Cause I can do anything, hmm Go out on a Monday, spend all of my money Sticking 'til the afternoon I've got all of this time now, when you're not around And I'm not running after you, you took up all my space And it feels so good to say Hey, what's the use being sad over you? Now I can't seem to remember being broken (Ah, ah, ah) And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore I think I'm gonna throw me a party Dance around the kitchen like I never got hurt, never gave up my heart It doesn't feel like I loved you at all Hey, what's the use being sad over you? Now I can't seem to remember being broken And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore
Finally found the song that best describes my emotion right now. I was in a toxic relationship and I'm very glad that I finally get over into it. I'm genuinely happy bringing back my old self.
It has got to be one of the hardest things Im working on. Finally made the finale walk out on April 26th. He hasn't messaged me once. My heart is broke. To actually finally realized our whole life, our beautiful family, everything I thought we had, he felt nothing. Only time he felt something was when he was out "night fishing". So far I have been made aware of three girls he has cheated on me with. One of them being my best friend. She is another one I walked away from. 💔💔❤️❤️
I am mad I didtt find this song while I was going through that painful healing process. Loooove it. She sings for so many of us here.I pray God heals your heart, whoever is reading this.
Yesss!! This song heals! It’s my life’s theme right now. His control is gone! “Because what’s the use in being sad over you? When I can’t seem to remember being broken” ? I finally realized the reason I can’t remember is because he never really broke be at all. He just convinced me he did! Nah, I was feeling broken because I was with a complete ass. Ass gone= the promise of better days soon!! I’m not sad anymore just healing and that is better than being with him.
To everyone coming out of a relationship or have recently lost someone, the pain probably feels like a darn tsunami right now but I promise everyday that you wake up is another day the waves becomes weaker and will subside. The waves will keep coming but it’ll grow smaller and more manageable because you’ll be stronger to deal with them. You got this! 💖
2+ years and I still can't seem to shake it. also doesn't help I still have to see him because he's the father of 3 of my children. I pray for this feeling to be a faint memory one day..
This is what I'm aiming at this year. I don't wanna be sad anymore. I don't wanna cry in pain, wake up in the middle of the night sobbing silently coz I can't hold on the suffocating loneliness caused by being trapped in a horrible life. But not now!!! I no longer cry coz my life is getting better now. I manifest it!!!!
I was in a very toxic abusive relationship for nearly 20 years. I got out , Thank you Jesus!! This song is so me, almost every lyric is what I have been through or conversations had… cleaning my apt, connecting with the person that I was before this toxic person entered my life…. Not being sorry for something I didn’t do… etc!! God uses music to get right to the core of the heart. “It is for freedom the Christ has set us free”. Amen! Now to live my life to the full! 💗🥳
Listened to this when I was really broken and promised to return here when I’m no more sad and here I am happy, much better and strong. ❤ Thanks again for this song it really helped
[Verse 1] I think I'm gonna clean my apartment Get rid of all the things that I don't need Come and pick 'em up if you want them I'll leave 'em right by the door I don't want it no more, hmm I think I'm gonna go to a party Hang out with the friend you worried 'bout And I don't have to say I'm sorry For something I didn't do And making it all 'bout you [Chorus] So hey, what's the use being sad over you? Now I can't seem to remember being broken (Ah, ah, ah) And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore [Verse 2] I'm gonna reconnect with my old self I like the way I was before we met I'm gonna buy a one-way ticket Go places I've never been 'Cause I can do anything, hmm Go out on a Monday, spend all of my money Sticking 'til the afternoon I've got all of this time now, when you're not around And I'm not running after you, you took up all my space And it feels so good to say [Chorus] Hey, what's the use being sad over you? Now I can't seem to remember being broken (Ah, ah, ah) And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore [Bridge] I think I'm gonna throw me a party Dance around the kitchen like I never got hurt, never gave up my heart It doesn't feel like I loved you at all [Chorus] Hey, what's the use being sad over you? Now I can't seem to remember being broken And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore [Outro] I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore.
"i'm gonna reconnect with my old self , i like the way i was before we met" ^this is literally one of the best feeling evr, when you find yourself again after your world revolving around sum1 else for so long.
@@iamclaramae omG Queen u replied sorry I’ve been on digital detox just got back! 🌸🌸🌸 much love from the islands of the Philippines 🏝 Pls don’t stop making music. Since I was in college, I’ve been ur silent but avid fan. You’ve been an inspiration to me. Now that I have a professional job u are still my go-to playlist. 🌷🌷 all the best!
I hate attaching emotions to songs, but I'm here because my heart got broken and I feel like I'm in the last stage of healing. I'm just here to ascertain that I'm NOT sad anymore. It felt like it'll take me forever to get here 💓
I think I'm gonna clean my apartment Get rid of all the things that I don't need Come and pick 'em up if you want them I'll leave 'em right by the door I don't want it anymore I think I'm gonna go to a party Hang out with a friend you were worried 'bout And I don't have to say I'm sorry For something I didn't do Ain't making it all 'bout you So, hey, what's the use being sad over you Now I can't seem to remember being broken And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore I'm gonna reconnect with my old self I like the one I was before we met I'm gonna buy a one-way ticket Go places I've never been 'Cause I can do anything Going out on Monday Spend all of my money Sleep into the afternoon I got all this time now When you're not around and I'm not running after You took up all my space And it feels so good to say Hey, what's the use being sad over you Now I can't seem to remember being broken And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore I think I'm gonna throw me a party And dance around the kitchen like I never got hurt, never gave up my heart It doesn't feel I loved you at all Hey, what's the use being sad over you Now I can't seem to remember being broken And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore
Finally someone talking about how to deal with oneself and love oneslf rather than being broken. Break up is hard, but learning from bad experiences and toxic relationships is batter to mention.
My bestfriend was such a bubbly person, so full of life, two weeks prior his death he shared this song! We buried him 2 days ago...now this will be my song now!
Lyrics I think I'm gonna clean my apartment Get rid of all the things that I don't need Come and pick 'em up if you want them I'll leave 'em right by the door I don't want it anymore I think I'm gonna go to a party Hang out with a friend you were worried 'bout And I don't have to say I'm sorry For something I didn't do Ain't making it all 'bout you So, hey, what's the use being sad over you Now I can't seem to remember being broken And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore I'm gonna reconnect with my old self I like the one I was before we met I'm gonna buy a one-way ticket Go places I've never been 'Cause I can do anything Going out on Monday Spend all of my money Sleep into the afternoon I got all this time now When you're not around and I'm not running after You took up all my space And it feels so good to say Hey, what's the use being sad over you Now I can't seem to remember being broken And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore I think I'm gonna throw me a party And dance around the kitchen like I never got hurt, never gave up my heart It doesn't feel like I loved you at all Hey, what's the use being sad over you Now I can't seem to remember being broken And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment When I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore I'm not sad anymore, no more now I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you But I'm not sad anymore
This song gives a person hope, especially after another caused them so much pain… in so many different ways. Thank you for this beauty. Unfortunately this world makes sick people. Sick people make others sick….
Coincidentally, I found this song the day after i FINALLY started healing from the path of self destruction i've been on that was caused by a really bad heartbreak. I love that this song presented itself to me today.
@@hunnybacket3189 Yeah, i'm doing okay. I still think about her every single day, but I'm finally medicated for my PTSD and clinical depression... it's not much, but as my friend once said, "A little progress is still progress." thanks for commenting. thanks for caring...
I'm at my lowest right now and I so wish I can relate to this song. I don't know why I clicked on this song when it's completely the opposite of how I'm feeling. I hope one day I can listen to this song with a happy face. :)
Trust me you'll feel better one day. It will take time but don't worry. Grief whatever you feels like. But don't forget that you have a beautiful life forward. Beautiful days and beautiful people will come along. You're worth it 💙💜💛🧡
believe it or not, this song really helps me get rid of me thinking about my ex, I have been hurt so bad by him but still misses him for the last 2 years now I'm not sad anymore and I think its time for me to move on with better life without hates
This song is so amazing. I quit a toxic job, and even though I’m broke, I don’t feel sad. I’m just riding my bike, feeling the fresh air-it feels incredible-and listening to this song, which makes me love myself again. Now, I have a new job with great vibes. 🎉
"i dont need to say sorry for something i didn't do.. making it all about you" *Everyone who was in a toxic relationship, where his partner tried to control and devalue him/her, can feel this lyrics* 🙌
Finally after all these dark months, after all the crying I can say easily now that I'm not sad anymore! I fell in love with her voice, I fell in love with how strong am I as well. Thank you so much for making beautiful music ❤
There's always something endearing, pure and refreshing about your songs Clara. 🤗 That's why they always put me into a good mood; a feeling that also makes me want to stick my arm out of the car window. You are definitely in a league of your own, and have every reason to be very proud of this new gem. 💎🇸🇪💛
Clara blows up and im so happy for her. I've been there wondering why she only had 2000 subs while her musics spoke so loud, and now she's getting what she deserves
Listened to this before we broke up and after ❤ im not sad anymore "Im just mad at myself for being dimb enough to love you". That line speaks the most truth for me honestly
Love this. It represents healing for me, and the concept as well as her voice is beautiful. Love to everyone who is still going through that healing process xx
To whomever reading this you've cried your last cry about that situation. Get ready to live a happiness healthier abundantly blessed & prosperous life.I speak peace over you. GOD has covered up & protected.😇🙌🏽🕊
I love her so much! From 'Unmiss you' to 'Alright' to this song, felt like she described my own story. I am glad to see she is doing good. She is literally my favourite artist of all time
This is to all who lost love in the middle of finding love ❤ Always put yourself first and love yourself cause it's only you who understands yourself. Don't be sad for what happened but have hope that you'll find someone who'll never hurt you ❤
I escaped nearly 13yrs of severe abuse from my ex husband. Im dealing with the court stuff for the divorce and custody of our kids. I got a 4yr protective order against him and I have the kids thankfully. When I heard this song it hit home for me very much. I am free now and so are my kids. I wasted a decade trying to prove myself to an abuser and for what? Now I prove myself for my kids and me only. And no Im not sad anymore, I am just mad at myself for wasting so much time and love on someone so undeserving. I love this song :)
The best feeling ever when you finally become yourself again ❤️❤️❤️ .Happiness all the way to everyone reading and if you are healing it will get better when you least expect .Toxic people play the victim when they have projected their bad behaviour in you but the best revenge is you being happy again and choosing you to love you .❤️❤️❤️❤️
Finally see the world with light no more depression, you have to realize that your mine causes you to think negative thoughts that aren’t true. I don’t need him, I am living everyday happier than I ever was with him.
Such a beautiful song❤️ Hoping whoever is going through such emotions get recovered soon, life is beautiful,nd it goes on, these r just experiences to make you stronger than before..
I love hopeful songs instead of sad songs. Sure, you can connect with sad songs. But the line between sadness and happiness feels a lot better, and it feels like giving yourself instructions and something to look forward to.
I feel " freedom " , never give u chance , I feel nothing, happy and alone 🌸❣️ Let you go , world not change if I lose you , focus just for me and every me ❣️❣️
After a sad heart 💔. I rediscovered my aura and learned to Love and cherish all that matters... while holding onto hope that the right person will come my way...
I don’t think I could ever find a better song to dedicate to my girlfriend about her and our love. She struggles with depression and self image. And this song brings tears to my eyes. It’s so beautiful and speaks leagues about how amazing she is. Thank you John Legend.
Being in love to someone who constantly hurts you only to realize there are lot of fishes in the ocean if you dive in. Men are, perhaps, replaceable. Tyyyy clara mae, added to my favorites.
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"I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you but I'm not sad anymore"
Now that hits different
Definitely:)
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My favorite line
Thanks
:'((
I just wanna share it here. Almost 3 years ago, my boyfriend got me pregnant but he told everyone (including his parents) that I was just raped. The truth is I was indeed a rape victim but that was before I met him. I was so broken that he used my dark past to cover up what he called a "mistake". Now I'm raising my son alone but I'm not sad anymore. To anyone out there who are suffering from a toxic relationship, I hope and pray for your strength and healing. You got this.
Edit: Thank you so much for all your kind words and support 💙. Me and my child are doing well. I also decided to cut off my communication with my child's father because I don't want my child to feel unwanted. I just want to pour all the love that I can to this child. I just wish that no one would have to go through the same pain. If you are someone who is currently in a moving-on phase, I wish for your healing and happiness. When the time comes, I hope you can finally say that you are not sad anymore. Keep safe everyone. Once again, thank you.
wish you all power girl
wish you all the best.
I hope there was some form of parental DNA testing done, so that he pays child support or something. If he declines this kind of testing and his parents see his response, that's all the proof his parents need that he is the father.
I'm sorry you stumbled into a situation that the other person wasn't willing to address truthfully in the process, with you. You're very courageous to take on being a single parent. 💛
I hope the guy grows up enough mentally to realize what he's going to miss out on, before the child has grown into an adult.
I really admire your strength..... You are a strong woman and you will be fine but trust me it not be anytime soon but he will come back around when he realizes what he lost ...Karma will serve him right
You're so strong!!!so sorry about what happened to you!!love and light❤❤❤❤❤
I’m still sad y’all…but I’m going to play this song everyday as I’m getting dressed, doing my hair and getting ready for my day until I’m not sad anymore ❤️
Good habbit
Yaaaay do it girl!
i will do the same😌
@Easter Mukora awwww. Your comment literally made me cry. but. Just a little. We’re almost there 🤍
@@anywaywithaaliyah7472 you'll get there, baby steps♥️sending lots of hugs your way
I thought I wasn't sad anymore till I heard this song.. Seems I'm not there yet too
Saving this song for when I can truly say that I am not sad anymore. I'll play it in full volume!
🙏😚
same here
yes, I'm waiting too for that moment, I'll wait here with ya
@@iamclaramae hihi
@@julesishere7836 Aww, yes. Already working on it! :)
This sound is so wonderful. The person who is reading this comment, I wish you great success, health, love and happiness!
I think I'm gonna clean my apartment
Get rid of all the things that I don't need
Come and pick 'em up if you want them
I'll leave 'em right by the door
I don't want it no more, hmm
I think I'm gonna go to a party
Hang out with the friend you worried 'bout
And I don't have to say I'm sorry
For something I didn't do
And making it all 'bout you
So hey, what's the use being sad over you?
Now I can't seem to remember being broken (Ah, ah, ah)
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
I'm gonna reconnect with my old self
I like the way I was before we met
I'm gonna buy a one-way ticket
Go places I've never been
'Cause I can do anything, hmm
Go out on a Monday, spend all of my money
Sticking 'til the afternoon
I've got all of this time now, when you're not around
And I'm not running after you, you took up all my space
And it feels so good to say
Hey, what's the use being sad over you?
Now I can't seem to remember being broken (Ah, ah, ah)
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
I think I'm gonna throw me a party
Dance around the kitchen like I never got hurt, never gave up my heart
It doesn't feel like I loved you at all
Hey, what's the use being sad over you?
Now I can't seem to remember being broken
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
thank you!!!!!
We low-key love the humans that send lyrics in the comment section
I'm not sad anymore!!
Thank you so much
thanks for the lyrics
*Clara mae is underrated af! I hope she gets the recognition she deserves!*
True ✅
Fr mann.... I'm listening to her since i was a teenager 🤍🤍
As long as we recognize her in our own little worlds. The whole world doesn't really matter. ❤❤
So true
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If you're reading this, i promise you it will be alright. Just trust yourself
Finally found the song that best describes my emotion right now. I was in a toxic relationship and I'm very glad that I finally get over into it. I'm genuinely happy bringing back my old self.
Life put us through this sometimes to test ourselves and make us strong! Keep truly to yourself :)
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
me too.. i'm totally happy when me n my ex breakup.. now, im happy with my own life..
I feel you girl. We're strong. Everything will be okay ❤
The hardest part is feeling so stupid , but we have to forgive ourselves to heal.
"it doesn't feel I loved u at all"
"can't seem to remember being broken"
"I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love u"
I felt that 🥺🖤
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In my case we have a kid but I finally move on he up all alone
Same
When you learned to accept the fact that people come and go eventually you won’t be sad anymore 😊❤️
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@@MelomaniacEarth hey😊
True
It has got to be one of the hardest things Im working on. Finally made the finale walk out on April 26th. He hasn't messaged me once. My heart is broke. To actually finally realized our whole life, our beautiful family, everything I thought we had, he felt nothing. Only time he felt something was when he was out "night fishing". So far I have been made aware of three girls he has cheated on me with. One of them being my best friend. She is another one I walked away from. 💔💔❤️❤️
@@cherypennell2319 things maybe hard for you right now but soon you'll be ok.. Just keep moving forward 😊
"I'm not sad anymore" these lines ..many can feel it...🥀❤️
😍🙏
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That true 😊
She needs more recognition
She's so underrated aaaaaaaaa
THIS SONG IS A MASTERPIECE
I am mad I didtt find this song while I was going through that painful healing process. Loooove it. She sings for so many of us here.I pray God heals your heart, whoever is reading this.
hope you are better now girl, life goes on and always be grateful
Anybody coming out of a narcissistic relationship eventually can relate to this song. It's absolutely what I needed ❤
thats damn truuuuuue
Absolutely true
Can relate
Currently suffering trying to get out.
Yesss!! This song heals! It’s my life’s theme right now. His control is gone! “Because what’s the use in being sad over you? When I can’t seem to remember being broken” ? I finally realized the reason I can’t remember is because he never really broke be at all. He just convinced me he did! Nah, I was feeling broken because I was with a complete ass. Ass gone= the promise of better days soon!! I’m not sad anymore just healing and that is better than being with him.
From “unmiss you” to this
She has come a long way from whatever was making her sad!
😍🙏
@@iamclaramae omg she replied
I love you so much
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To everyone coming out of a relationship or have recently lost someone, the pain probably feels like a darn tsunami right now but I promise everyday that you wake up is another day the waves becomes weaker and will subside. The waves will keep coming but it’ll grow smaller and more manageable because you’ll be stronger to deal with them. You got this! 💖
Thank you 💗
love this
unless you don't and it doesn't
2+ years and I still can't seem to shake it.
also doesn't help I still have to see him because he's the father of 3 of my children. I pray for this feeling to be a faint memory one day..
power boost bby...
This is what I'm aiming at this year. I don't wanna be sad anymore. I don't wanna cry in pain, wake up in the middle of the night sobbing silently coz I can't hold on the suffocating loneliness caused by being trapped in a horrible life. But not now!!! I no longer cry coz my life is getting better now. I manifest it!!!!
I was in a very toxic abusive relationship for nearly 20 years. I got out , Thank you Jesus!! This song is so me, almost every lyric is what I have been through or conversations had… cleaning my apt, connecting with the person that I was before this toxic person entered my life…. Not being sorry for something I didn’t do… etc!! God uses music to get right to the core of the heart. “It is for freedom the Christ has set us free”. Amen! Now to live my life to the full! 💗🥳
Wow I am going through this. I am happy me and my kids and enjoying life now x
Listened to this when I was really broken and promised to return here when I’m no more sad and here I am happy, much better and strong. ❤
Thanks again for this song it really helped
[Verse 1]
I think I'm gonna clean my apartment
Get rid of all the things that I don't need
Come and pick 'em up if you want them
I'll leave 'em right by the door
I don't want it no more, hmm
I think I'm gonna go to a party
Hang out with the friend you worried 'bout
And I don't have to say I'm sorry
For something I didn't do
And making it all 'bout you
[Chorus]
So hey, what's the use being sad over you?
Now I can't seem to remember being broken (Ah, ah, ah)
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
[Verse 2]
I'm gonna reconnect with my old self
I like the way I was before we met
I'm gonna buy a one-way ticket
Go places I've never been
'Cause I can do anything, hmm
Go out on a Monday, spend all of my money
Sticking 'til the afternoon
I've got all of this time now, when you're not around
And I'm not running after you, you took up all my space
And it feels so good to say
[Chorus]
Hey, what's the use being sad over you?
Now I can't seem to remember being broken (Ah, ah, ah)
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
[Bridge]
I think I'm gonna throw me a party
Dance around the kitchen like I never got hurt, never gave up my heart
It doesn't feel like I loved you at all
[Chorus]
Hey, what's the use being sad over you?
Now I can't seem to remember being broken
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
[Outro]
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore.
❤️
Thank you so much.
"i'm gonna reconnect with my old self , i like the way i was before we met"
^this is literally one of the best feeling evr, when you find yourself again after your world revolving around sum1 else for so long.
To anyone reading this I hope you heal from whatever that’s causing you pain. I wish you well. Love yourself 🎉
Queen Clara is back on the track. And she's back with another good song.
🙏
@@iamclaramae omG Queen u replied sorry I’ve been on digital detox just got back! 🌸🌸🌸 much love from the islands of the Philippines 🏝
Pls don’t stop making music. Since I was in college, I’ve been ur silent but avid fan. You’ve been an inspiration to me. Now that I have a professional job u are still my go-to playlist. 🌷🌷 all the best!
"And I don't have to say I'm sorry, for something that I didn't do, making it all about you"
This.
Omg a Swiftie🥺. Hi sister
@@givenkupar5133 heyyy
Swiftie! Hey sista! The whole fandom needs to know about this song
@@dhritisingh9326 yessss🥺!!!!
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔
I hate attaching emotions to songs, but I'm here because my heart got broken and I feel like I'm in the last stage of healing. I'm just here to ascertain that I'm NOT sad anymore. It felt like it'll take me forever to get here 💓
Pole sana rafiki
Utapona kabisa with time...keep pushing through..sending hugs🫂
Beautiful song! 💙🙏
Perfect
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I think I'm gonna clean my apartment
Get rid of all the things that I don't need
Come and pick 'em up if you want them
I'll leave 'em right by the door
I don't want it anymore
I think I'm gonna go to a party
Hang out with a friend you were worried 'bout
And I don't have to say I'm sorry
For something I didn't do
Ain't making it all 'bout you
So, hey, what's the use being sad over you
Now I can't seem to remember being broken
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
I'm gonna reconnect with my old self
I like the one I was before we met
I'm gonna buy a one-way ticket
Go places I've never been
'Cause I can do anything
Going out on Monday
Spend all of my money
Sleep into the afternoon
I got all this time now
When you're not around and
I'm not running after
You took up all my space
And it feels so good to say
Hey, what's the use being sad over you
Now I can't seem to remember being broken
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
I think I'm gonna throw me a party
And dance around the kitchen like
I never got hurt, never gave up my heart
It doesn't feel I loved you at all
Hey, what's the use being sad over you
Now I can't seem to remember being broken
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
Thanks 🙏🏼🌹
wow so meaningfull
💙
Thanks
@@evhisepti11 okay 🤗
Finally someone talking about how to deal with oneself and love oneslf rather than being broken. Break up is hard, but learning from bad experiences and toxic relationships is batter to mention.
My bestfriend was such a bubbly person, so full of life, two weeks prior his death he shared this song! We buried him 2 days ago...now this will be my song now!
I'm so sorry for your loss, hope you're ok now.
I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope that life is going well for u and your loss a little bit easier to bear. ❤
Hugs ❤
🙃🥲lots of kisses 😘
I'm so so so sorry
How can i like this song a million times ?
Lyrics
I think I'm gonna clean my apartment
Get rid of all the things that I don't need
Come and pick 'em up if you want them
I'll leave 'em right by the door
I don't want it anymore
I think I'm gonna go to a party
Hang out with a friend you were worried 'bout
And I don't have to say I'm sorry
For something I didn't do
Ain't making it all 'bout you
So, hey, what's the use being sad over you
Now I can't seem to remember being broken
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
I'm gonna reconnect with my old self
I like the one I was before we met
I'm gonna buy a one-way ticket
Go places I've never been
'Cause I can do anything
Going out on Monday
Spend all of my money
Sleep into the afternoon
I got all this time now
When you're not around and
I'm not running after
You took up all my space
And it feels so good to say
Hey, what's the use being sad over you
Now I can't seem to remember being broken
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
I think I'm gonna throw me a party
And dance around the kitchen like
I never got hurt, never gave up my heart
It doesn't feel like I loved you at all
Hey, what's the use being sad over you
Now I can't seem to remember being broken
And hey, what's the time? 'Cause you're not on my mind
I'm just making sure I won't forget the moment
When I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
I'm not sad anymore, no more now
I'm just mad at myself for being dumb enough to love you
But I'm not sad anymore
THANK YOU 💜
TQ ❤️❤️❤️
💏
Thanks you !❤
Thanks
I love that “I can do anything.” I showed this song to my mom and she said I’m glad she’s not sad anymore.
The best weapon you can use to fight all the hurt is forgiving;nobody is perfect so just forgive and walk away
Thank you for ur advice I will do this ❤
This song is so healing. I’m crying tears of happiness now. I feel free
I hope she get the deserved appreciation very soon💙
This song gives a person hope, especially after another caused them so much pain… in so many different ways. Thank you for this beauty. Unfortunately this world makes sick people. Sick people make others sick….
Coincidentally, I found this song the day after i FINALLY started healing from the path of self destruction i've been on that was caused by a really bad heartbreak. I love that this song presented itself to me today.
are you better after 7 months?
@@hunnybacket3189 Yeah, i'm doing okay. I still think about her every single day, but I'm finally medicated for my PTSD and clinical depression... it's not much, but as my friend once said, "A little progress is still progress." thanks for commenting. thanks for caring...
@@tarayean5278 ❤️
❤when someone special makes you realize you matter still and your life still has a purpose.
YES Clare Mae is back with another exciting song
I'm at my lowest right now and I so wish I can relate to this song. I don't know why I clicked on this song when it's completely the opposite of how I'm feeling. I hope one day I can listen to this song with a happy face. :)
I am sorry you will get better
Hugs ❤
You will get there eventually, sending you hugs❤️❤️
Many hugs
Trust me you'll feel better one day. It will take time but don't worry. Grief whatever you feels like. But don't forget that you have a beautiful life forward. Beautiful days and beautiful people will come along. You're worth it 💙💜💛🧡
How does Clara always know the words that I feel in my soul and she vocalizes them. Literally. Thank you for making music. So grateful.
believe it or not, this song really helps me get rid of me thinking about my ex, I have been hurt so bad by him but still misses him for the last 2 years now I'm not sad anymore and I think its time for me to move on with better life without hates
You reject the good gys and miss the bad boys,you are reliable for your choices!
I know
This song is so amazing. I quit a toxic job, and even though I’m broke, I don’t feel sad. I’m just riding my bike, feeling the fresh air-it feels incredible-and listening to this song, which makes me love myself again. Now, I have a new job with great vibes. 🎉
Love this and when you finally get to a point where it doesn't hurt anymore.. takes time thankful our hearts have the ability to heal!
It's been 29seconds only,it's been uploaded and I'm already getting good vibes.
I clicked and saw 29 seconds too!
thank you😍🙏
There's is alot a peace and joy in this masterpiece
"i dont need to say sorry for something i didn't do.. making it all about you"
*Everyone who was in a toxic relationship, where his partner tried to control and devalue him/her, can feel this lyrics* 🙌
Love this !!!
20+ years with a narcissist, I'm ready to be happy , my self ... Shake off this sadness that clings like a skin ...
💔😭😭😭❣️🙏
Hugs ❤
Finally after all these dark months, after all the crying I can say easily now that I'm not sad anymore!
I fell in love with her voice, I fell in love with how strong am I as well. Thank you so much for making beautiful music ❤
Same here
Hugs ❤
@@cchithan hugs ❤
@@valerieshinia8526 thank you. Sending you love ❤️
There's always something endearing, pure and refreshing about your songs Clara. 🤗
That's why they always put me into a good mood; a feeling that also makes me want to stick my arm out of the car window.
You are definitely in a league of your own, and have every reason to be very proud of this new gem. 💎🇸🇪💛
Thank you Peter, that means a lot! 🙏
Clara blows up and im so happy for her. I've been there wondering why she only had 2000 subs while her musics spoke so loud, and now she's getting what she deserves
From all the broken ppl finding a way to heal from toxic ppl, thank you 😊
This song found me when I'm dealing with my hurt. Tks for this song, Clara Mae
It took me long enough but I can finally sing a song like this and smile, found this song at the perfect time! 👌
Me too 😊
Listened to this before we broke up and after ❤ im not sad anymore
"Im just mad at myself for being dimb enough to love you". That line speaks the most truth for me honestly
yep, same! I remember crying the whole way through it and now I sing it with a smile on my face!
@@m3d_m20 im so proud of us :D
Love this. It represents healing for me, and the concept as well as her voice is beautiful. Love to everyone who is still going through that healing process xx
Gosh… I love this song! The lyrics, the video, everything 🥺❤️❤️❤️
"I like the way I was before we met"
Her songs deserve so much recognition they make me feel something 😭❤
To whomever reading this you've cried your last cry about that situation. Get ready to live a happiness healthier abundantly blessed & prosperous life.I speak peace over you. GOD has covered up & protected.😇🙌🏽🕊
“There’s danger in expressing” so true thanks cae for making me feel loved
I love her so much! From 'Unmiss you' to 'Alright' to this song, felt like she described my own story. I am glad to see she is doing good. She is literally my favourite artist of all time
Touches like a hug from a flower that's gradually blooming.🌻❤️
This is to all who lost love in the middle of finding love ❤ Always put yourself first and love yourself cause it's only you who understands yourself. Don't be sad for what happened but have hope that you'll find someone who'll never hurt you ❤
I really like the last part where she is dancing so freely
I knew this would be a banger. 🤩
STAY STRONG YALL
DON'T LET THEM WIN
YOU HAVE THE POWER
INSIDE YOU
YOU HAVE THE POWER TO BE HAPPY
YOU CONTROL YOU
NOT THEM
HAVE A GOD BLESSED DAY
I escaped nearly 13yrs of severe abuse from my ex husband. Im dealing with the court stuff for the divorce and custody of our kids. I got a 4yr protective order against him and I have the kids thankfully. When I heard this song it hit home for me very much. I am free now and so are my kids. I wasted a decade trying to prove myself to an abuser and for what? Now I prove myself for my kids and me only. And no Im not sad anymore, I am just mad at myself for wasting so much time and love on someone so undeserving. I love this song :)
Hope you get true happiness
The best feeling ever when you finally become yourself again ❤️❤️❤️ .Happiness all the way to everyone reading and if you are healing it will get better when you least expect .Toxic people play the victim when they have projected their bad behaviour in you but the best revenge is you being happy again and choosing you to love you .❤️❤️❤️❤️
Finally see the world with light no more depression, you have to realize that your mine causes you to think negative thoughts that aren’t true. I don’t need him, I am living everyday happier than I ever was with him.
Thank you for another beautiful song Clara!
💖
Even after two years, this song still sounds like gold 😭❤️
this is exactly what i needed
Dear Whoever Is Reading This I wish you love, peace, and happiness in everything you do as you journey through life. ❤❤❤
Such a beautiful song❤️
Hoping whoever is going through such emotions get recovered soon, life is beautiful,nd it goes on, these r just experiences to make you stronger than before..
The sound of raindrops gives me so much comfort and this song
I love hopeful songs instead of sad songs. Sure, you can connect with sad songs. But the line between sadness and happiness feels a lot better, and it feels like giving yourself instructions and something to look forward to.
New rules is also a good one to make sure you don't forget what you're doing it for. New rules is like a moving on from a break up guide.
I feel " freedom " , never give u chance , I feel nothing, happy and alone 🌸❣️
Let you go , world not change if I lose you , focus just for me and every me ❣️❣️
❣️💔
After a sad heart 💔. I rediscovered my aura and learned to Love and cherish all that matters... while holding onto hope that the right person will come my way...
She's like Paradise💞🥺
We are not sad because of love, we’ve a lot more
Wow that hook. Gosh is magical gives me hope
I don’t think I could ever find a better song to dedicate to my girlfriend about her and our love. She struggles with depression and self image. And this song brings tears to my eyes. It’s so beautiful and speaks leagues about how amazing she is. Thank you John Legend.
Love u for being there for her don't stab her
Being in love to someone who constantly hurts you only to realize there are lot of fishes in the ocean if you dive in. Men are, perhaps, replaceable.
Tyyyy clara mae, added to my favorites.
😍🙏
Made me cry with a smile and pure happiness
It's beautiful to see her journey and progress through her music. It makes me really happy no longer sad
Hoping the day comes when i’m not sad anymore but till then, I’ll listen to this.
Clara Mae ♥️
she's ed sheeran of her music ...never disappoints
😍🙏
It’s the rain at beginning for me!! The mood is set already for the song👌
Love is not stupid nor foolish.
It does not rant or hold a grudge against hate.
sound so related when you finally accept a break up and find peace with yourself💖💖💖
Great video and your voice is great! The only way out it through
This song accompanies me through the difficult time of breaking up with my ex. Thank you Clara Mae.
Hugs ❤
All I can say is WOW 🔥📌
I'm in love with this song. Thank you Clara.
I am in month four after my 30-year marriage ended unexpectedly. I can happily say that this is my four-month recovery song. I am not sad any more.
Power to you bruh , just focus on yourself for right now and if you ever want to date someone again go for it
This song found me in the exact moment when I'm dealing with alot of pain.
Dear Whoever Is Reading This I wish you love, peace, and happiness in everything you do as you journey through life.❤️❤️👍👍
To you too....
Warmest huggsss for those people who feel stress and sad , time heals. Fighting 💪
o
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Thank you so much 💓💗
Thank you.