SHOULD I GET AN INDUCTION | Only Get LABOR INDUCED After Answering These Questions

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    DON’T GET LABOR INDUCED TILL YOU HAVE THESE THREE QUESTIONS ANSWERED! Getting an induction can be a tough decision to make. It’s not just a matter of should I get an induction or not, but is it the best for me and my baby? If you are wondering when to get induced, what questions to ask before an induction of labor, or the best reasons for an induction then you need to watch this video about an induced labor and delivery.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 649

  • @taylorm5108
    @taylorm5108 3 роки тому +751

    My baby is gonna know your voice more than my own at this point.

  • @anastasiakholod2222
    @anastasiakholod2222 2 роки тому +216

    My OB was telling me that it was new research that proved that it is necessary to induce at 39 weeks. So he scheduled an appointment for induction for me even though I felt uncomfortable doing it. Luckily my baby boy decided himself when to come out. Exactly 24 hours before induction. You can not imagine how happy I was!!!

    • @ajam4988
      @ajam4988 2 роки тому +14

      Congratulations! There is research that says induction at 39 weeks is safer than at 41 weeks and have lower outcomes of C section but I would at least like to go to my due date!

    • @anastasiakholod2222
      @anastasiakholod2222 2 роки тому +4

      @@ajam4988 Agree! Completely! Or at least not feeling to be forced doing it or judged if you do not want that. Some women are fine to be induced before due date.

    • @jenniferromero571
      @jenniferromero571 Рік тому +12

      They can not force you.

    • @kasandramckenna3250
      @kasandramckenna3250 Рік тому +2

      It is not that it’s required however the study he is referring to is the Arrive Study which has shown that induction at 39 weeks reduces the risk for complications during labor and specifically emergency C-Section. He may follow this guideline as your provider.

    • @iradukundacynthiaamal
      @iradukundacynthiaamal Рік тому

      Congratulations! Sooo happy for you!

  • @katielubbers1210
    @katielubbers1210 Рік тому +48

    I know this video is 2 years old, but I am 36 weeks + 5 days today. At my last appointment, my OB suggested an induction at 39 weeks. No reasons given other than scheduling. I have felt so uneasy about it because of the horror stories I've heard, and started researching it. Thank you for videos like this! No induction for me unless necessary!
    Now going to binge all of your other videos! 🎉

    • @KasumiSan1989
      @KasumiSan1989 11 місяців тому +1

      How's going? I will have induction next monday...

    • @drlevette
      @drlevette 8 місяців тому +2

      Same just happened to me. I'm 36 weeks. I was told...not asked.

    • @Davefitz04
      @Davefitz04 5 місяців тому +2

      Wow change doctors!!! That’s terrible!

    • @lailamrabtitenani
      @lailamrabtitenani 2 місяці тому +2

      @@drlevetteI was told the same and just replied politely that I would like to deliver when the baby decides, due date or later works perfect to me, I am not going to rush just because she said so.

  • @rebekahl3061
    @rebekahl3061 2 роки тому +86

    Great video-
    My personal experience is that it’s very worth the wait. The babies are getting everything they need right up to the time they are ready to come. All five of my babies including twins were born past their due date. All natural childbirth and very healthy at birth.
    I went into labor naturally.
    It was a beautiful experience.

    • @juliat9211
      @juliat9211 Рік тому

      What was the latest you carried your children?

    • @Zazezoo
      @Zazezoo Рік тому +1

      Well, my sister and friends baby were too tall/ big. If it worked for doesn’t mean it’s safe for every woman. Hence the Video and advise .

  • @danielaconrad7073
    @danielaconrad7073 3 роки тому +107

    It’s like you heard me?! Had my 40 week appt Tuesday. No signs of labor whatsoever, of course doctor discussed induction and I let her know I want more time. Honestly , Induction scares me as I want my body to go into labor on it’s own and do this as natural as possible..
    Thank you for this :)

    • @Barbie227243
      @Barbie227243 3 роки тому +9

      Same, 40 weeks and 6 days today. Ultrasound and non stress test tomorrow so I will definitely be asking these questions.

    • @danielaconrad7073
      @danielaconrad7073 3 роки тому +1

      @@Barbie227243 Good luck! Let me know what your doctor says! Interested !

    • @Barbie227243
      @Barbie227243 3 роки тому +1

      @@danielaconrad7073 Thanks! 😊 Good luck to you too!

    • @rebekahmcdermott5504
      @rebekahmcdermott5504 3 роки тому +8

      As long as you and baby are healthy, your placenta and amniotic fluid levels are looking good, you should be perfectly fine waiting. Your body will go into labour on its own soon enough at this point 😊

    • @rose0634
      @rose0634 3 роки тому

      Hello you could try this
      ua-cam.com/video/PmwRWTr4zuk/v-deo.html
      I did some long walks and tried the above exercises, and went into labour after a few days

  • @diamondh
    @diamondh 3 роки тому +125

    I was told after an ultrasound on my due date that my babe was going to be 11.5 lbs. I was so scared I accepted the induction and had a terrible feeling about it the whole time. He was born at 8.5 lbs and it still bothers me that I fell victim of such ignorance on my part.

    • @berniemaclaw
      @berniemaclaw 3 роки тому +10

      Doctors are telling me baby will be big, but I suspect she will be fine and not as large as they are predicting. All non stress tests have been fine.

    • @nadinenock1992
      @nadinenock1992 3 роки тому

      How early did they induce you?

    • @Farxadiyoguul
      @Farxadiyoguul 2 роки тому +11

      ☹️ It’s ok, you at least know now that you can’t always trust doctors.

    • @brendabeans4986
      @brendabeans4986 2 роки тому +30

      It's really sad that we have to do sooo much research so that they don't take advantage of us! It's a seriously messed up system

    • @justathumb
      @justathumb 2 роки тому +9

      i was encouraged to try for a vaginal birth even though my bub was estimated to be in the 88% for size, and two weeks overdue (and only getting bigger). After gently trying to coax her out through 4 days of multiple induction methods (the foley balloon finally succeeded), i dilated fast, but was stuck at 7cm for 12 hours. turns out she was too big to fit through my pelvis, which was probably why i never went into spontaneous labour. it became extremely painful even though id had an epidural, from the pressure against my pelvis. i had an emergency c-section, and she turned out to be 9.2lbs, in the 90% for size. for such an unexpectedly medical process, i couldnt have asked for a more positive experience. the staff were patient and reassuring the whole way. it went as well as it could have, and i'm so grateful for that. always ask questions, but i hope you can find trust and comfort in the staff too, if it turns out you need medical interventions.

  • @LysHeaster
    @LysHeaster 3 роки тому +155

    I had an induction without an epidural with my first baby back in February. I absolutely LOVED my induction process and I would prefer it again with my next baby 💛💛💛

    • @Melaniemayday
      @Melaniemayday 3 роки тому +32

      If you don't mind me asking, what method did they use to induce you? Thanks!

    • @symoneprice4980
      @symoneprice4980 3 роки тому +8

      Could you explain why? I'm on my second and id like more info on this. I was induced with my first.

    • @celestebeale7946
      @celestebeale7946 3 роки тому +1

      Following

    • @jodyrelle08
      @jodyrelle08 3 роки тому +16

      Wow I hated it! I know for a fact the induction made my contractions worse.

    • @LysHeaster
      @LysHeaster 3 роки тому +1

      @@Melaniemayday Pitocin

  • @John-xi6jr
    @John-xi6jr 3 роки тому +63

    Praying I make the right decision really I'm hoping the baby comes naturally..I want a natural birth. Through the grace of GOD I was able to have that with my last pregnancy. I've been hearing that being induced makes the pain worse. 😕 I know nothing is too hard for my GOD. So I'm praying everything just happens naturally. With my last pregnancy I felt no pain while pushing..I'm praying HE comes through again...

  • @sharpstringsct
    @sharpstringsct 2 роки тому +16

    39+6 today! I’m torn on what to do-I’m on the hospital’s induction list but I think I’d rather wait until 41 weeks unless medically necessary.

  • @barbabordel
    @barbabordel 3 роки тому +10

    I am so confident with my birth plan, I want it unmedicated. My only fear is being induced as I know it can make things harder for you plan to work out. Thank you for this video!

  • @AshleyChavez-oq4es
    @AshleyChavez-oq4es 6 місяців тому +2

    This video helped me feel more confident on my choice to not do the suggested induction. The only reason was simply because my baby is measuring big…. Baby and I are completely healthy and safe; we will be waiting for when he wants to make his appearance! Thank you for your videos!

  • @mayragalicia7527
    @mayragalicia7527 3 роки тому +20

    I was 39 weeks when I got induced due to intrauterine growth restriction. I was so distraught because I had planned to do a natural birth without epidural and I had heard that the pain is much worse when getting induced. I held on for as long as I could but I was not dilating much and my contractions were 1 minute long and back to back. I ended up getting the epidural and after 6 hours I was finally told I was ready to push. I didn’t feel a thing after the epidural. The anesthesiologist tried to put the needle in 4 times and had to keep giving me more anesthesia because I kept feeling the needle go down my spine. It was awful. BUT it is true that once you have your baby everything that you go through is worth it! My baby weighed 5 lbs and was pushed out super quick with no tearing ! I’m pretty small so I think I’m someone that has small babies. Next time if my baby measures small I will want to let my body go into labor naturally because my baby was completely healthy !

    • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
      @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 2 роки тому +4

      worth it, sure. everyone says that. but why risk so much? it's insane what med staff treat as normal. crazy dangerous.

    • @femaligned
      @femaligned Рік тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience! My doc also wants to induce due to small size, but baby is healthy otherwise so I want to wait. ❤

    • @leticiaribeiro910
      @leticiaribeiro910 Рік тому

      ​@@femalignedmy doctor wants to do the same for me for the same reason at 39w.
      How did it go for you?

    • @femaligned
      @femaligned Рік тому +1

      @@leticiaribeiro910 at my next checkup, I ended up having higher blood pressure than usual and elevated umbilical cord activity, so I decided to induce. I do not regret my decision. Induction process began at 9pm and baby was born 8pm the next night. My epidural was perfect. Baby was actually smaller than the ultrasound estimated at 5 lb and 15 oz. Baby was healthy.

    • @MrEvldreamr
      @MrEvldreamr Місяць тому

      Sorry yoy went thru that. Nobody told me the epi would lay me out. Or that getting induced would cause IMMEASUEABLE PAIN.
      I tell everyone not to get induced and to wait, as long as possible. Trust baby before your doctors (assuming you are healthy)

  • @maloryfordbooks
    @maloryfordbooks 3 роки тому +27

    I was induced due to BP at 39+5 with my daughter and likely will again with this baby. It was a really quick experience for me (wish I had gotten that epidural way sooner though 😂). I was really against induction to begin with, but it guaranteed a healthy baby. But I'm totally against it with no health issues. Great questions.

  • @cherry-lq9zj
    @cherry-lq9zj 2 роки тому +13

    The induction process for me was an absolute nightmare. Every time I think about my birth experience I wish that I gave my body a few more days. I had started to contract a bit on my own the morning of my induction at 41 weeks. My OB told me that I could go into the appointment, that the staff would check out baby, and then I would be able to decide whether or not I would get induced or not. I feel like I didn't really get an informed choice. I think the staff just wanted to get it over with, and I don't blame them because I really didn't speak up. But now that I am a nurse myself I know how important it is to ask the questions and make sure that the client is informed. I ended up having a failed vac and then a bedside forcep removal as the OR was not ready for an emergency section. It was very traumatic and I feel that if I just gave myself a few more days my baby and my body would have been ready. Both my baby and I were healthy. I wish I asked these questions and was told that it was okay to go a bit past 41 weeks.

    • @MrEvldreamr
      @MrEvldreamr Місяць тому

      Same. I hated it. It was a nightmare aand i dont trust doctors bc of it

  • @youngjoochoi5510
    @youngjoochoi5510 3 роки тому +11

    Thank you really. I am at 36wks and was wondering why my doctor recommended induction at 39 wks during last visit. Your videos help me a lot
    .👍

  • @lisemartino1995
    @lisemartino1995 3 роки тому +28

    Doula here: if you at 42 weeks, and you are both healthy, there is no definite reason to be induced - and you can say no - but you can ask for more regular assessment. Use the BRAIN acronym: Benefits, Risks, Intuition (what do YOU feel), Nothing (what if we do nothing, even in the short term?) You can’t have both - placenta is not functioning properly AND your baby is going to get too big. At 42 weeks the risk to negative outcome for the baby is 1.55 in 1000 (BMJ 2000) . Think of it like fruit on a tree, not all will ripen at the same time.
    I’m not saying don’t induce, I’m saying think about the pros and cons, because induction has its own risks.

  • @AbeniRenePhotography
    @AbeniRenePhotography 14 днів тому

    I’m really glad to be able to hear more info about this. I’m currently 29 weeks, and my baby has FGR. I’m only 5’1” and my husband is only 5’4”, so it’s not surprising. My husband also had FGR. Our boy is healthy and active and passing all stress tests, movement tests, blood flow tests, etc… he’s just very small. The doctors have brought up the idea of inducing at 37 weeks, but I want to avoid if it’s unnecessary. We are both healthy as of now! I wanted a natural birth at a birthing center, but I’ve been highly advised to stay at the hospital because he’s so small. This is our first baby, so I have no reference as to what is normal for me, but I’m praying everyday that I’ll be able to make the right decision when it comes time. If anyone has a similar story they’d like to share, I’d love to hear about it!

  • @BigNoonie25
    @BigNoonie25 6 місяців тому +5

    I was 38 Weeks pregnant when i got induced with my first born son my experience was the best i only got induced because my bag was in larged but my delivery was the best.... Im now 32 weeks pregnant with my daughter and ready for her to come my body hurts bad

    • @kiesha2k11
      @kiesha2k11 Місяць тому

      Update? Hope everything went well for you & baby ❤

  • @peacewithin_108
    @peacewithin_108 2 роки тому +4

    My midwife is pushing me to be induced at 39 weeks because I’m 41. This is my first child. She said the placenta is known to die off faster with advanced maternal age. I don’t want to be induced and I feel I’m being lumped into a general idea that my womb isn’t safe just because of my age. I don’t have any health concerns and my baby has measured normal the entire pregnancy. I’m more than worried that I have no control. I love these videos because I feel more empowered, but the pressure is still there from the medical team.

  • @LibertyHope95
    @LibertyHope95 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this info! My doctor has been mentioning induction since 38 weeks even though my baby and I have been perfectly healthy and shown no risk. I’m now “41 weeks 2 days” and they are continuing to push it even though we are still showing no signs of risk. I personally think their due date is two weeks ahead of what it actually is and it’s crazy how I’m having to persuade them to keep pushing off induction when we’re perfectly healthy.

    • @mommyAA224
      @mommyAA224 8 місяців тому +1

      I'm currently 37 weeks and my doc recommends I get induced in 2 weeks, a week before my due date because my baby is "measuring small" when I normally give birth to smaller kids 5lbs 7lbs and 6 lbs. When I asked why she said to avoid a still birth and that was it. I'm feeling nervous about it but I've been feeling good throughout my whole pregnancy so idk what the deal is. My fiance and I are pretty small people so we aren't meant to have 8-9 lb babies. At my last ultrasound they said he's weighing at 5 lbs rn which is how much my first born weighed at birth and the doctors didn't have any concerns then. So I'm just confused about the whole thing.

  • @Mandrussa
    @Mandrussa 3 роки тому +18

    I was induced at 40 weeks for high blood pressure. I progressed with the pitocin and unmedicated. Unfortunately at 10cm with a lip at the 11'oclock position that wouldn't subside, my doctor broke my water which caused my contractions to become back to back with no break so they turned off the pitocin and my son's heart rate dropped from 140bpm to 60bpm and it never came back up. I pushed 2 times trying to get him out but my doctor had to call a crash c section. I struggled a lot with the thought that maybe if I had been medicated, maybe I could I have handled the back to back contractions so they didn't have to turn the pitocin off but either way I'm thankful I kept an open mind and trusted my doctor, my son was born unresponsive but only needed a small whiff of oxygen to get him going. Almost 3 weeks postpartum and we're both doing well 😊

    • @BridgetTeyler
      @BridgetTeyler  3 роки тому +3

      So happy you and baby are doing well now, Mama ❤️

    • @kkff8044
      @kkff8044 3 роки тому

      Oh bless you both

    • @humanbeing3946
      @humanbeing3946 3 роки тому

      Can you explain what exactly did you mean by "a lip at the 11 o'clock position that wouldn't subside"?

    • @Mandrussa
      @Mandrussa 3 роки тому +1

      @@humanbeing3946 from what I understood from my doctor, I was 10 cm dialted but instead of being a full 10 cm all the way around, there was a lip that they could feel (at the 11'oclock position) when they checked me for dialation. I think it's called an anterior lip. I had this happen with both pregnancies. The first time they were able to pull the lip aside while I pushed (the doctor this time hadn't told me where the lip was) and I had a natural birth. With my second however they were unable to hold it because of the difficult positioning of the lip.

    • @MrEvldreamr
      @MrEvldreamr Місяць тому

      @@Mandrussa dont feel bad. Labor regret is common. And i struggled for a very long time with my decisions to five birth.

  • @RhiReviews
    @RhiReviews 3 роки тому +8

    I had my first spontaneously at 39+5. It ended up a traumatic birth.. After 18 hours of back labour, he was born by forceps due his heart rate plummeting multiple times during the pushing phase. The forceps caused a bit of damage - part of my pelvic floor muscle tore away from the pubic bone area, and I’ve got between a stage 2 and 3 prolapsed bladder and uterus. With my second baby, I was induced at exactly 38 weeks due to repeated reduced movement, measuring small/behind and there being little to no fluid left around baby. I was initially nervous and unsure about induction, as I just felt bad forcing him out. But it ended up being almost therapeutic for me (after my first labour experience), and it was clear that it was actually best for him to come out early (I lost no waters during entire labour, he did measure on the small side, and the placenta showed signs of breaking down). I went in overnight, had the balloon put in and slept the whole night. It fell out in the morning and I was 3cm. They start pitocin and after a short 2 hour labour, my son came out in just 3 pushes with no tearing at all. Was a much easier recovery too.
    I’m now in a funny position where I’m 31 weeks pregnant and baby is doing great so far, but my prolapsed bladder is getting quite bad and uncomfortable. On some days (TMI) it starts to budge out of my vagina by the end of the day. It’s making me wonder about induction again (around 38/39 weeks), as I don’t want to damage it any further. I’d prefer to have a spontaneous labour, but don’t think I’d be happy to go past 40 weeks when I’m already getting this much pressure at 31 weeks!!

  • @lydiacerdhe4060
    @lydiacerdhe4060 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for talking about this!! I was told in the last appointment that my baby was measuring big and that my chances of shoulder dystocia would be higher. They made me come in 2 weeks later for a stress test and ultrasound and found baby is healthy, everything looks normal and when I tried talking about my birth plan, it was just kind of dismissed a bit.

  • @kleinemaus6094
    @kleinemaus6094 2 роки тому +11

    I'm going to say the ugly side of things that no one likes to admit out loud.
    Doctors have been known to push induction to accommodate their personal schedule.
    High BP does NOT mean you have ore eclampsia. I've had 3 pre e babies, one with no pre e. Pre e is thought to be caused by deficiencies in protein intake (you need around 100grams a day, supplement protein shakes) iron, magnesium, and calcium. The only way to diagnose it is when proteins are present in your urine, which is tested for regularly and why you pee in a cup every appointment.
    Interventions are often "precautionary" but entirely unnecessary.
    Babies measure big. It's an imperfect science. All of mine measured 9 lbs + at 37 weeks. Two out of four were 8 pounders, the other two were 6 pounds and 7 pounds. Our bodies were made to accommodate baby (save extreme circumstances where the pelvic bones are essentially fused- this is RARE) and I've known plenty of women who have birth to 10 pounders with no issue.
    Forcing your body into labor early can extend your labor, which brings in needing more pit, then an epidural because pit contractions are unreal for most women.
    I have personally overheard, several times in several different OB offices, Doctor's talking about convincing their patient to get induced or even have a C section because they needed that patient load cleared before they could go on vacation. I've personally heard doctors discussing the payout difference between vaginal birth and c section (c section pays upwards of 8k to the doctor). I've personally heard doctors being dismissive of their patient's concerns in order to make things more convenient and expedient for them.
    Go in informed. Ask questions and don't be intimidated by any attitude you may get for asking.

    • @maycee4888
      @maycee4888 Рік тому +3

      Thanks for this. There really are nasty doctors out there who will humiliate you for being informed. There was once a doctor who told me (since I was asking a lot of questions) to "can you stop googling stuff" like they literally want an ignorant patient.

  • @leticiaestrada1805
    @leticiaestrada1805 3 роки тому +19

    You helped me so much during my first pregnancy answering all my questions thank you ☺️💖

  • @johannaschmidt3860
    @johannaschmidt3860 8 місяців тому

    This is brilliant, thank you so much! I am facing the question of induction with no reason given other than "we like to deliver small babies early". And your 3 questions + greyzones are so educational and empowering. Going back to the hospital today to have this discussion, so Thank you so much for preparing us well.

  • @ksstar9719
    @ksstar9719 2 роки тому

    I absolutely love the way that you speak and explain things. It’s comforting and validating yet factual and quite honest. I bet that you have amazing bedside manner. Keep up the great work!

  • @caitlinmenger8716
    @caitlinmenger8716 Рік тому +1

    I wish I had seen these videos before my sons birth 4 years ago. I had the WORST doctor who admitted she was nearing the end of her shift and wanted me out before then lol she convinced me to get pitocin saying I wasn’t dilating fast enough, and then when she was doing a cervical exam she “accidentally” broke my water, then she promptly told me I should try to push WAY too early. I outlasted her shift and I refused to push because I knew I wasn’t ready. And I didn’t actually give birth until 4 or so hours after she left. If I were more educated and confident, I would have strongly advocated for myself because I was a totally healthy mommy with a healthy baby and pregnancy and there was no reason what so ever for any of her “help”.

  • @britt__182
    @britt__182 3 роки тому +10

    37 weeks pregnant here!! Thank you for this

    • @myiad.1706
      @myiad.1706 3 роки тому +1

      Im 36+2! Congratulations momma!

    • @themcnears
      @themcnears 3 роки тому +1

      39 🙋‍♀️

    • @aann7132
      @aann7132 3 роки тому +1

      9+2 😅

    • @JessandKhloe
      @JessandKhloe 3 роки тому +1

      38+5 I’m getting induced in the morning due to preeclampsia!

    • @britt__182
      @britt__182 3 роки тому

      @@JessandKhloe best of luck to you!!💕

  • @jenniferfarmer7882
    @jenniferfarmer7882 3 роки тому +11

    What other tests need to be done to measure baby growth besides just an ultrasound?

  • @siennasomething3796
    @siennasomething3796 3 роки тому +3

    Great information. I’m being encouraged to induce at 39 weeks because baby is measuring large, I live 2 hrs from the hospital and I have been known to labor quickly. Feeling nervous about the induction.

    • @hannah_demps998
      @hannah_demps998 2 роки тому

      I am in the exact situation. Baby is currently weighing 7lbs at 34 weeks and we live 2 hours away therefore induction has been encouraged. What did you end up doing?

  • @justathumb
    @justathumb 2 роки тому +12

    it's strange, i actually had the opposite experience - my baby was suspected to be in the 88%...but actually ended up being in the 95% 😱 so BIGGER than they thought. they let me go to 41 weeks before inducing (as is the standard in Canada), which ultimately resulted in 4 days of labour and an emergency c-section, as she was too large to fit through my pelvis. i was a little sad that they didn't mitigate the risk of her size by taking her early, as I didn't get to experience a vaginal birth as a result, and now don't know if I ever will. So the risks and benefits really run both ways with size.

    • @BATOOLESK
      @BATOOLESK Рік тому

      Oh wow iam having my first baby now in ontario , i didnt know i cant be induced till 41 weeks

    • @helloliggy
      @helloliggy Рік тому

      If you don’t mind me asking how many pounds was your baby at 41 weeks?

    • @cloebloss
      @cloebloss Рік тому

      I’m in the US and my baby was 9lbs by his due date but if he didn’t come on his due date they would have induced me a week later which seems crazy cause I probably would have needed a c section!! I managed birthing normally but it was super painful because he was sunny side up and no one helped me navigate or suggest different laboring positions😢. After epidural I was on my back the whole time which just made the back labor pain WORSE cause all the pressure was on my back

  • @espem88
    @espem88 Рік тому +1

    My first pregnancy, the triage nurse accidentally broke my water during a cervical check at 39 weeks. I was admitted and given pitocin even though I asked to not be given it. The nurses lied to us instead of simply educating me and husband on why pitocin was necessary in order to reduce the chances of needing a C-section due to having my water broken with such little dilation (lowering chances of infection).
    My OB is now REQUIRING me to have an elective C-section because my daughter was born with a very slight shoulder dystocia (stuck less than 30 seconds, no maneuvers needed, 1st degree tear, no birth injury). My second baby is measuring right on for size, no macrosomia. So now I am dealing with finding a new OB who will listen to me (I don't want nor need a C-section) and delivering at a different hospital entirely. Doctors are pushing inductions and C-sections at all time high rate, it should be criminal.

    • @wendymtzc
      @wendymtzc Рік тому +1

      I’m so sorry to hear, it’s so frustrating how hospitals and doctors push procedures just for the sake of convenience

  • @broccolipropaganda
    @broccolipropaganda Рік тому +1

    I am 39+3 today. Luckily nobody is trying to induce me. In Switzerland, if there is no health risk for baby or mother, they let you go up to 40+10 weeks until they induce you.

  • @jeannettenapoleon2753
    @jeannettenapoleon2753 3 роки тому +1

    Great scott! When I just heard that Bridget lives in San Francisco, I about cried! Had I known that last month when I was in Oakland, I most assuredly would've looked her up! Love that energy, sunshine and wisdom! An excellent role model as I venture into the world of doulas myself!

  • @tymom9313
    @tymom9313 Рік тому +1

    I've had 4 elective inductions & hope to do things more natural this time around!

  • @Iris-ijie
    @Iris-ijie 3 роки тому +2

    My due date will be on Sunday. Hoping baby will cooperate if not then I'll be patiently waiting ❤️

  • @s.mohammad2360
    @s.mohammad2360 2 роки тому

    I was induced twice.. for two different reasons. My biological mother told me, while I was pregnant and in the 3rd tri, that she had two still births because her placenta had "died" and the babies didn't come out in time. It scared the hell out of me and I found out much later on she lied, it was a different reason. I opted for an induction at 40 weeks 1 day and I wanted my baby to be here safe in my arms.
    My second baby had macrosomnia (he was to big) he was born 38 weeks and a few ounces off 9 pounds. It disappointed me because I was so hoping to go into labour naturally this time.
    But I'm lucky and thank God so so much, that I have two healthy children ❤️

  • @Aprilblue529
    @Aprilblue529 8 місяців тому

    I induced for my first daughter at 40week +2 days after being threatened by my OB that it’s necessary because I’m “old” (I was 33years old). Once my baby was born after induction, she had to stay in NICU for a week because it looked like she had a little bit of irregular breathing pattern but doctor couldn’t tell me why. When I was in NICU, there’s one young outside hospital doctor passed by my daughter, she asked me what’s wrong with her, I told her “I’m not sure but she has a little bit of breathing problem” then she checked on my new born daughter and read the details, she said “looks like she was born a bit early, this is very common symptoms that her lung was not ready yet”
    NO ONE told me about this from any team member of the hospital but this honest outside young learning doctor who was ok to tell me the truth. I regretted so much that I trusted my OB who just wanted to charge me extra money for induction and get her job done earlier so she could travel to Hawaii for her vacation I guess 🤷‍♀️ Don’t trust your OB, trust your body and your baby!!

  • @rb7454
    @rb7454 Рік тому

    1. Is there a medical reading for induction for mommas health and safety? Is she at risk?
    2. Is my baby healthy& safe ?
    3. Is my baby’s current home (placenta, fluid, uterus) safe and healthy?

  • @mikelyngreen7581
    @mikelyngreen7581 2 роки тому +1

    I’m 33 weeks and fetal medicine drs are considering trying to induce me my last weight check she was 3lbs 5oz at 31 weeks. I believe her weight is fine and should be given the chance to grow it’s still early

  • @gulnarakhamatova9556
    @gulnarakhamatova9556 3 роки тому +5

    i'm on 36th week now and today doctor asked me when i wanna be induced, like it's a done deal. She said because of my age (i'm 40yo) it's better for me to be induced. I'm healphy, i don't have bad lab results, so why i have to be induced?

  • @tinakovic2993
    @tinakovic2993 3 роки тому +5

    I'm currently almost 42 weeks and really feeling like everything is alright, but I'm not sure what to do!

    • @taylorlinn1406
      @taylorlinn1406 3 роки тому +3

      what happened mama?

    • @s.elizabeth1753
      @s.elizabeth1753 7 місяців тому

      What happend! I'm 41 weeks, and I don't want an induction I'm willing to go to 43 weeks

  • @amyiltzsch436
    @amyiltzsch436 9 місяців тому +1

    I’m getting induced at 37 weeks I have hypertension and preeclampsia I have a bit over a week to go

  • @Crazy3girl3
    @Crazy3girl3 3 роки тому

    I don’t have a choice , I’m having a Igur baby but nothing is wrong she is just small. No placenta or umbilical problems.

  • @dmsmiles4044
    @dmsmiles4044 3 місяці тому

    I have gestational diabetes in all my 4 pregnancies. I had an induction with my last 2. And they were my better births. My first birth was 3 days labour my second was 2 days. My 3rd and 4th was 6-8 hours. I had energy and strength for my last 2 labours. And i did hypnobirthing with 3. I had an epidural with my last 2 births (but only in the last hour of the labour).
    The last was an emergency induction which was hard and scary but still my best birth.

  • @crayolasun
    @crayolasun 3 роки тому +1

    I was induced at 37 weeks...I had pneumonia and am allergic to the pregnancy safe antibiotics they needed to use. I was terrified because baby was only measuring around 5 lbs. but I was going down hill health wise and I didn't have a choice. My OSATs dropped again during labor and I was a hair's breadth away from having an emergency c-section. Baby was born and weighed a solid pound and a half more than they were expecting and his lungs were thankfully, fully developed. Mama got pumped full of antibiotics and put on oxygen. We all made it out ok but I never want to go through an induction again if I can avoid it.

  • @shannersthered88
    @shannersthered88 3 роки тому

    My baby has a single artery umbilical cord and my doctor suggests inducing at 39 weeks just to make sure we dont push the placenta more than what's necessary. I have a bunch of non stress tests scheduled as well and they are watching the baby's growth closely.

    • @melissaostrihon1781
      @melissaostrihon1781 3 роки тому

      My first and now second baby both have SUA. For my first, I was never offered induction and declined additional monitoring. She is a perfectly healthy 7.5 years. This second baby, their primary focus has been my age (41) which means they're actively pushing induction and lots of monitoring. I am VERY upset by all this.

  • @kprn2796
    @kprn2796 3 роки тому +2

    My plan was to go natural but ended up getting induced at 39 weeks and 4 days due to safety reasons with travel. Ended up having an emergency c section due to baby being breeched. I’m glad I got induced due to me and the baby being monitored so closely and it didn’t take much for labor to start me luckily! Still plan on going natural in the future.

  • @sidrafathima4221
    @sidrafathima4221 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you for this one .🤗

  • @SilvijaAndonov
    @SilvijaAndonov 10 місяців тому

    37 + 3 week now and at the week 28 has been diagnosed that my baby has severe IUGR, less than a 5 percentile. The baby is measuring now 1860 grams and at this stage should be at least 3 kg. All tests has been done - Trisomia 21, 15,13, amniocentesis, TOrch and none of them showed bad results. Was checked by 5 doctors, nobody has a clear answer why is the baby measuring so small. After a conversation with a doctor today, they said that they prefer to induce the birth at 38 week as per the SOP for the small babys. This is in 5 days although all the ultrasound check ups show that the baby is doing well. I am kind of scared because, on one side I don’t know if it will be better for my baby to be delivered earlier, and on the other side I kind of don’t wanna mess up with the nature and take the baby out when she is not ready. It’s kind of good to know that I am not the only one who is in that grey area when it comes to induction.

  • @Aprilblue529
    @Aprilblue529 8 місяців тому

    I started getting these “sales calls” from the hospital I will deliver from the last day of 39 week. 6 calls a day!! to schedule induction. Literally inducing is business because they can charge extra 💵💵💵💵

  • @melissahuber7601
    @melissahuber7601 2 роки тому

    I’ve had 3 babies total,My last child,I was told I had to be induced if I didn’t have labor at my due date.I was 3 days overdue me and my child didn’t have any problems but they replied only my baby would get too big and I wouldn’t be able to give birth.his brother before him was almost 10 lbs.I rocked that birth but was still forced me saying they would give me a c section if I didn’t do it. He was only in the 9 lb range.if I ever get pregnant again I will not be forced to do something I know isn’t right and isn’t necessary

  • @jaclyn4098
    @jaclyn4098 3 роки тому +2

    I was induced because my water broke early. They said I only had 12 hours to go into labor before they would induce me. I fought and fought and made it to 28 hours before I finally gave in. It was the worst thing I ever did! It let to a cascade of interventions and ruined my birth experience. It was traumatizing. I hardly remember anything!

    • @karoosten232
      @karoosten232 2 роки тому

      I wish I knew more about this with my first! My water broke, no contraction, and they gave me pitocin like 5 hours later from my water breaking (not 5 hours in the hospital). I was begging them to slow down the dosages and they wouldn’t. I was not high risk and there was no sign of baby distress.

    • @reiloveable
      @reiloveable 2 роки тому

      Horrible and traumatizing.
      So sorry you had to go through this 😭

  • @joannamorganmenzies8658
    @joannamorganmenzies8658 3 роки тому +10

    I was induced at 10 days overdue (2 weeks ago) so I felt like it was time to get things moving, in hindsight I wouldn’t do that again unless medically really necessary. After they broke my waters it brought on the most intense and fast contractions and it felt like such an unnatural way to start labour, even if it was a fast one for it being my first baby. Never had an epidural but needed an episiotomy and suction on babies head to get him out. Wish I had let nature take its course and had a less intense and fast labour but I’ll know for next time😅

    • @mandyacting
      @mandyacting 2 роки тому

      May I ask how many weeks were you when you decided to be induced?

    • @mandyacting
      @mandyacting 2 роки тому +1

      I ask because I am at 40 weeks and 3 days

    • @joannamorganmenzies8658
      @joannamorganmenzies8658 2 роки тому +1

      @@mandyacting I was 41 weeks plus 3 days, I’d hold on if I were you, baby will come when ready, unless there’s a medical reason to get the baby out quickly then I personally speaking don’t recommended being induced

    • @mandyacting
      @mandyacting 2 роки тому

      Thank you for the advice! ❤️

  • @AleSoto29
    @AleSoto29 2 роки тому

    I kept being told my baby was on the bigger side and they want to induce me but according to the doc im healthy

  • @mechellleroux2
    @mechellleroux2 2 роки тому +1

    Great advice thank you. I have 3.5 weeks to go until due date!

  • @kutanra
    @kutanra 9 місяців тому

    I'm getting a sweep today (38+6) and if nothing is happening I'm having a balloon on Thursday because my baby's growth is slowing down and they think my placenta is starting to lose efficiency.

  • @jar8514
    @jar8514 10 місяців тому

    My doctor said I need induction as I’m having high pressure, but I am only 37 weeks and I never had high pressure, suddenly it started..

  • @MulataLinda8
    @MulataLinda8 2 роки тому

    I'm getting induced, but only because I'm in the "high risk age group". So they're recommending me to deliver no later than 40 weeks (I'm 39 weeks). I think the whole high risk thing is b.s. (for my condition at least) i have no pre-eclampsia, no gestational diabetes, no high blood pressure, baby isn't breached, so i dont feel that i have a need to get my labor started for me. I'd rather by body naturally start labor on its ownv

  • @mishelleilieva9657
    @mishelleilieva9657 Рік тому

    I am 40w today - buba and I are safe and healthy. I am stuck with 3-4 cm dilation for about a week now.
    Doctor suggested induction at due dat as baby is expected to be big. I agreed initially, but ultimately decided to give buba 4 more days. Hope she comes before this. Wish me luck🤞

    • @pineappleice100
      @pineappleice100 Рік тому

      What ended up happening?

    • @mishelleilieva9657
      @mishelleilieva9657 Рік тому

      @@pineappleice100 buba didn't want to come out yet 😁
      I got induced at 40 weeks + 4 days. Had a pretty quick labour - 4 hours with 10 minutes of pushing.

  • @ILYRJ18
    @ILYRJ18 3 роки тому +2

    I’m being induced at 39 weeks for chronic hypertension although it’s been controlled my whole pregnancy they are just being Precautious. Baby is also measuring a week ahead so I’m happy about that.

    • @embush
      @embush 2 роки тому

      yes im still unsure about this bc im in the same boat and dont know if its best

  • @malo3287
    @malo3287 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for all these wonderful videos and sharing your knowledge with us. Plz plz do a video on Strep B culture done during pregnancy. Mine came positive today and I have no idea what it is and what are the risks and how can I care for myself and my baby

  • @cozyness4eva954
    @cozyness4eva954 3 роки тому +2

    I got induced at 39+5 due to water rupture but my water didn’t fully break. Got started on Pitocin and didn’t have my baby till 2 days later . It was hell!

  • @aashaikh3463
    @aashaikh3463 2 місяці тому

    my wife is 43 years and she is pregnant for 38 week is started. the doctor says because you are 43 and you need to have Induced Labor. my wife wants to just normal delivery. my first daughter was born after 40 weeks 3 days normal delivery. please guide us and what will be your advice? Thanks regards we are living in the USA

  • @lleiker11
    @lleiker11 Рік тому

    I was just told I will be recommended to have an induction at 39 weeks because I am positive for Covid at 34 weeks. It is a mild case and her growth doesn't seem to be affected (she was already measuring on the larger side). Anyone else with this experience? I haven't met with my midwife yet in order to find out what the risks of not being induced are.

  • @seasonsoflife1324
    @seasonsoflife1324 Рік тому

    My doctor is pushing me to induce with my 5th baby he even told me if I don’t do it my baby have a chance of being still born. I am not swayed but I think gaslighting your patient should be an ethical issue which should allow patients to sue. Because it is not the best interest of the patient and it is manipulation. Why do you think there are so many people seeking mental health assistance? Someone in a position of authority should not “recommend” a procedure when there is no medical reason. I’m being seen weekly by my doctor and getting weekly ultrasounds. And they BOTH say my health and baby’s health is fine. Yet pushing me to get induce. No thank you. I’m stick to my decision. My baby will get here when she’s ready.

  • @shannonabney3401
    @shannonabney3401 2 роки тому

    The end of this video is🤌 Thank you for pointing out the maybe less talked about parts of the arrival study.

  • @samanthabrown2480
    @samanthabrown2480 3 роки тому +1

    I'm only 12weeks but I've been diagnosed with GD and have been told I will most likely need to be induced if baby is too big... I really don't want too induce if I don't have too...

    • @cassier.2
      @cassier.2 3 роки тому +1

      I had it with my first born and in this pregnancy, just watch your carb intake and get your fasting number under control ASAP. Usually you will start your diet and or medication at 28 weeks. It all depends on how your GD develops it could even be controlled by watching your diet and you won’t need medication. I had to watch diet and take medication but my son came naturally at 36 weeks (my water broke early) and was a healthy baby boy weighing 6 pounds 7 ounces. They had to give me pitocin since I wasn’t dilating after 4 cm. My baby girl will be induced at 39 weeks and 5 days and is measuring exactly where she should be at 39 weeks. I’m hoping she also comes naturally but the placenta matures faster with GD so it doesn’t help the baby if you go passed 40 weeks.So it could be that you have a healthy weighing baby if you stay on top of your carb intake and fasting numbers then your baby and you should be fine, highly recommended you walk for at least 20-30 min after every meal. It’s a bit more work but nothing that made my pregnancy experience bad. It also helps keep your weight gain under control which means less weight to lose after birth! You got this!!! ❤️

    • @cassier.2
      @cassier.2 3 роки тому

      I gave birth on Thanksgiving and my baby girl was 7lbs 2 oz. She is perfect!!

  • @jasmineanduaga8863
    @jasmineanduaga8863 3 роки тому +1

    I wish I would of seen this with my first pregnancy I was induced at 39 week (I was already 5 cm dilated) .. I’m currently 34 weeks 5 days pregnant and my doctor wants to induce me again at 39 weeks.

  • @Aqualauriz31
    @Aqualauriz31 3 роки тому

    I will be induce this Sunday the 16th, I have GD and velamentus cord. I'll be 39 weeks. Hopefully everything turn good. I want to wait but the doctors don't allow me.

  • @daniellemarie7059
    @daniellemarie7059 2 роки тому

    I was 2 weeks late with all 5 of mine, induced with 4 of them and 1 I went into labor the morning of my induction

  • @shannonclaire7800
    @shannonclaire7800 3 роки тому +1

    My first birth went well with no induction.
    My 2nd and 3rd my waters broke and within hours I got induced and both times I experienced a PPH.
    I’m pregnant again with my 4th and will avoid induction if I can

  • @deborahdiaz1924
    @deborahdiaz1924 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this video and making it easy to remember. I am wondering, do doctors usually check how much you’ve dilated as it gets closer to due date? Is it necessary? Is it invasive? (If you know what I mean, do they go up in there?).

    • @MZSTAR4YA
      @MZSTAR4YA 3 роки тому +4

      I have this same question. I have my 38 week appointment Friday and people are so shocked they haven't checked my dialation yet. I don't want them to and really don't see a need to. From what I heard you cAn be 4 cm and deliver in a week or be 1 cm and deliver in 3 days....

  • @jenniferromero571
    @jenniferromero571 Рік тому

    If I knew what induction would do to me and my body. How unnatural the pain would be. If I didn't have to have it to save my baby I would not have chosen ever to get induced.

  • @AdrianeRavon
    @AdrianeRavon 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you for this video! I’m currently about to go to my doctors appointment and my doctor is going to decide if I should be induced after multiple NSTs and ultrasounds. This is my first baby so I didn’t know what to ask and this video helped a lot. My baby is a bit on the small side but she’s passing all her tests with flying colors so I don’t exactly know what’s about to happen.. 😬🥴

    • @kendrabarrett17
      @kendrabarrett17 Рік тому

      If you don't mind me asking, how did your delivery go for you? I'm in the same position where my baby is small, in the 3rd percentile, but nothing is showing why she would be. Every test for me and baby has turned out fine and we're both healthy. I'm just worried about inducing her at 37 weeks but we're doing the same precautions as far as NST and Ultrasound visits 2x/week.

    • @AdrianeRavon
      @AdrianeRavon Рік тому

      @@kendrabarrett17 so I had a c-section 🙃 I was only there for a few hours before they told me they wanted to do a c- section because I wasn’t dilated at all. I actually had a terrible birthing experience because the doctor was rude and was rushing me to have it so please don’t be afraid to speak your mind like I was. If they make you feel uncomfortable then state that because you deserve to have a great experience. Also my baby girl was healthy no issues at all, she’s still small even though she’ll be 2 in 4 months but she is growing height wise and her doctor said she’s doing fine but I hope everything works out for you. Good luck mama! ❤️

    • @maycee4888
      @maycee4888 Рік тому

      @@AdrianeRavonhello! I am 38+5 today and before, i was told that my baby is in the smaller side. I had NST once and the result was normal. After that, i went back to my regular OB and she said that my baby was measuring 2.7kg at 38 weeks so it was quite normal already. I didnt go back for another NST after that, but the ultrasound was fine. I was wondering how did it go for you? Do i need another NST?

  • @chelsealittle8461
    @chelsealittle8461 3 роки тому +1

    U plan on getting an induction at 39 wks along as baby is a healthy weight because I live 50 min away from the nearest hospital and my last pregnancy I almost didn't make it to the hospital!

  • @dimm0k
    @dimm0k 9 місяців тому

    question is are they able to determine if placenta is functioning properly without removal/inducing?

  • @leahhoughtby9646
    @leahhoughtby9646 2 роки тому

    Got induced at 41 wks with my first. IVF and GD. Hated it, but also failed an NST the day before. Unfortunately, it's sort of looking like I might be going that way again this time around too.

  • @kendrajarry8161
    @kendrajarry8161 3 роки тому

    I’m 39 weeks rn. My last pregnancy was with twins and I was induced at 38 weeks. I used a midwife this time around and she hasn’t even mentioned induction with my twins they didn’t ask if I wanted one they just told me I was being induced. I didn’t know it was a choice but if I could go back I wouldn’t have done it. It was painful I was stuck in bed and wasn’t allowed to move.

  • @sanazehra1
    @sanazehra1 6 місяців тому

    Is it true that the first baby takes much time to deliver/ have contractions?

  • @clairestreyar8344
    @clairestreyar8344 3 роки тому

    I was induced at 41+3 and she wasn't born until 41+5 because my body didn't want to go into labor. Do women ever go over 42 weeks? I was worried it wasn't going to be safe much longer to stay pregnant past 42 weeks.

  • @lucianagawa3371
    @lucianagawa3371 25 днів тому

    Wow thanks ❤

  • @shatings5605
    @shatings5605 Рік тому

    Induction ordered due to my age 43 at 39 wks...no other health complications. Baby almost 8lbs at 38 wks (normal)... did I have a choice. Still vaginally birth

  • @roannalane5118
    @roannalane5118 3 роки тому +3

    I'm 40+5, I've had a stretch and sweep and I have 2 more until I get induced at 42 because I want my body to do it by itself but I also want to keep her safe

    • @wendyaristondo5690
      @wendyaristondo5690 3 роки тому

      Hi did you end up getting induced or did baby come naturally?

  • @hopmanlisa
    @hopmanlisa 3 роки тому +4

    My first baby came with induction because of a relatively high bloodpressure (without further issues). Don't think he was ready, because he had trouble nursing. This resulted in a long fight to breastfeed as much as possible and giving as little formula as possible. With my second it started naturally als 40+3, but he was very big and got stuck with his shoulders (9.42 lbs). My first was also relatively big at 37+6 with 7,86 lbs. My second had pooped in my water, so he started with a lung infection i believe (great timing during this pandemic). I rather don't get induced, but I'm a little torn between both for my next baby. I'm really afraid of needing a c-section with a big baby, but I also want it naturally. I heard with every pregnancy the babies do get bigger, so I'm afraid...

    • @kleinemaus6094
      @kleinemaus6094 2 роки тому +1

      Babies getting bigger with each pregnancy is false ☺️ can it happen? Yes, but it's not because they are babies born after your first!
      For me:
      1- 8 lbs, 12 oz
      2- 6lbs, 12 oz
      3-7 lbs, 10 oz
      4-8 lbs, 110z
      My 8 pounders were my boys, other two my girls. My fourth was an entirely unmedicated birth, and this baby I'm currently pregnant with will be born at home, God willing!

  • @darkkstar
    @darkkstar 3 роки тому +3

    Really need this as I'm 40w tomorrow and I have it in my birth plan that I'm okay with an induction if I surpass my due date but now I'm starting to not want one/be on the fence and I want to experience the natural progression of labour

    • @JJJakubiec
      @JJJakubiec 3 роки тому +1

      Sweep works amazingly 👌

    • @darkkstar
      @darkkstar 3 роки тому

      @@JJJakubiec Does it really!? Cause my midwife has mentioned having one this weekend and I'm really hoping it kick starts things but I don't want to get my hopes up 🥲🥲

    • @rose0634
      @rose0634 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/PmwRWTr4zuk/v-deo.html
      You could try these exercise with some walks,
      Went into labour after a few days of doing the above

  • @sarrahconley3143
    @sarrahconley3143 3 роки тому

    I had gestational diabetes. I still think I shouldn't have induced.

  • @deziraemiller5999
    @deziraemiller5999 3 роки тому +1

    I had to get induced at 39 weeks due to gestational diabetes

    • @nawalchannelny
      @nawalchannelny 3 роки тому +1

      How was it ?, my induction is at 39 weeks too and I’m scared , I have gd too but I’m still hoping I can wait on my body to do it naturally

  • @LenaLovesgoodStories
    @LenaLovesgoodStories 2 роки тому +2

    Watching this from Germany, currently 41+0 and a bit worried about potential induction next week. Not sure I got you right, both in the video and the comments: is it really common in the US to suggest induction without medical indication at 39 or even 37 weeks? I mean... why? I know the little ones aren't technically preemies at this point any more, but they stock up on fat, store nutrients in the liver and everything... In Germany, the gynecologist association suggests to advice induction starting at 41+3 (given there aren't any other medical reasons). Anyone care to elaborate? Is it really for the timing convenience of hospitals as you mentioned could be the case in the video? That would be quite outrageous imo... :(

    • @beachbora1837
      @beachbora1837 Рік тому

      @lenalaubfrosch1623 I follow your point and also don't understand why they induce labor so soon in the US (with no medical issues behind for mama or baby). I am from Switzerland and it's the same as for you in Germany. I am going currently in my 40+5, yet if reached 41+3 my OB will plan an induced labor.

    • @smartismarti4049
      @smartismarti4049 Рік тому

      It is true unfortunately. Last time I gave birth in a US military hospital and they offered an elective induction at 39 weeks because we were getting orders to move soon. The US also has one of the highest rates of bad maternal outcomes, go figure.

  • @reiloveable
    @reiloveable 2 роки тому

    My baby was in posterior position and I was 39 weeks 5 days when I got induced to get my labor started.
    My doctors never took me into confidence or explained as to why induction is happening but I believe it was because of baby's posterior position? as I had been getting extremely weak contractions for almost a week.
    Please respond because my traumatic birth experince is really taking a toll on my mental health.

  • @bodyboardingchronicles602
    @bodyboardingchronicles602 3 роки тому

    Is this because of unexceptionable behavior from medical staff?
    How can a woman have natural birth?
    What steps to take to have a natural birth?

  • @sapanathapa733
    @sapanathapa733 3 роки тому

    Hi, I am 38 weeks, should I talk to doctor about induction? I am having insomnia so bad I couldn't sleep all night. It's my 1st baby.

  • @yonnahmae1157
    @yonnahmae1157 3 роки тому

    This was very truthful ❤️ thank you.

  • @swathishine
    @swathishine 3 роки тому

    Can you pls talk about cholestasis?

  • @ninamarie8421
    @ninamarie8421 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks so much this is very helpful! My doctor wants to induce me next week because I am overweight. I dont have gestational diabetes or high blood pressure, etc. And the baby isn't measuring too large. Is being overweight a good reason for an induction at 41 weeks?

    • @elyse443
      @elyse443 3 роки тому +1

      Yes. 41 weeks is plenty. You won’t find a doctor who doesn’t agree with yours. Your doctor is not an ignorant psychopath trying to hurt you.

    • @ninamarie8421
      @ninamarie8421 3 роки тому +3

      @@elyse443 yeah you're right I was just hearing so much on the internet it was clouding my judgement. I ended up going into labor naturally the day after I turned 40 weeks pregnant. I'm now focusing on reaching a healthy weight to set a good example for my daughter.

    • @elyse443
      @elyse443 3 роки тому

      @@ninamarie8421 omg! I seriously understand! The internet is so scary. 😂
      I have so many times where it has scared me like crazy. Then I try to remember to stop googling things. Lol
      Good luck with your weight journey. 😊

  • @amberlancaster7055
    @amberlancaster7055 3 роки тому

    My last 2 came on their own at 40 weeks and 37&2 this time I have IUGR and will be induced at 37&0 but I can already tell I’ll be lucky if we make it to 37 or I might go into labor on my own the same day as induction.

  • @chenskitchen
    @chenskitchen 9 місяців тому

    What about twin pregnancy

  • @llwil2003
    @llwil2003 Рік тому

    You did not mention mom’s age
    (40 my daughter).

  • @naomipitu4504
    @naomipitu4504 Рік тому

    Despite all normal and low BP readings at home, my BP is always elevated at the drs because I have anxiety when it comes to doctors. Its always been this way, but my providers are classifying me w gestational hypertension despite normal blood and urine work. They’re trying to push for a 37 week induction..anyone been in a similar position? Even my sister who has a heart condition w gestational hypertension is being let to go until 39 weeks. It seems they’re just trying to be overly safe than sorry but I still think it’s too soon! Help