My favourite is when a transphobe encounters a fully transitions trans person who mentions they are trans and they try to mis gender them by using the right pronouns 😭
Yep. Like they can only see trans as "men with beards in dresses" and "lesbian who's pretending to be a man". Like HRT does the same thing as puberty, it works you dingleberries.
@@digitalian99Completed transition, this could mean many different things for different people because not all people do that same things during their transitions. They probably mean people who have gone on HRT and have had gender-affirming surgeries. Pretty much just a trans person that passes.
The part where the lady's like "There's 8 billion genders" reminds me of a meme that said that genders are a scam made by bathroom companies to sell more bathrooms
Gender is actually a "scam" made by millions of years of mammalian reproductive instincts, leading to hormones in the human body that influence gendered behavior in a fetus' developing brain in utero. So, not actually a scam, but a fact.
Oh 100% bathroom companies are scamming capitalists who created the concept of gender to make money. Screw gender, 1 gender neutral bathroom will save money and be fine for everyone!
It pissed my transphobic mom right off when I smile proudly and say “thanks!” after she tries to insult me with “you look like a _man.”_ Always made me giggle, maniacally might I add
Fun History Fact: Some tribes/cultures actually wouldn't name kids at birth. The name you got was often earned or given based on what you did or liked later in life.
If you set Gender to zero, it causes a glitch that instead causes Gender to become the highest possible number. I've been contacting the developers of gender, they're currently too busy dealing with mushrooms to fix this.
Fun fact! Dolly Parton wrote a song about how a trans person discovering themselves and transitioning is just like a Christian discovering Jesus and becoming born again. It's called Travelin Thru.
Omg I haven't heard anything from Dolly in a long time, might need to give that a listen soon when I'm in the mood for music. Thanks for the info kind person
“Gay people need God!” Gay people: “Okay then, I’ll go to church!” “You aren’t allowed in the church because you’re gay!” Like seriously, CHOOSE! Do we need god or are we not allowed in church?
@@フィッシュラスyeah but tbh many Christians are lgbtq+ either way many of the so good Christians called that say they are saints and juzged gay are sinners xd
@@saowerpatchkidzz nope I’m honestly sick of trans men cherry picking being a man , it’s not all no period and not having to shave . You can be as manly as you want but the second that draft is called your name won’t be on it , you will get to be safe at home saying how oppressed you are why me and everyone else with a Y chromosome are getting shot
@@uranian-Umbrathey’re talking about how u wrote your (indicates possession) instead of you’re (you + are). Usually i don’t really care about this type of grammar error though
"sometimes doctors are just wrong", I've felt I was nonbinary my whole life, then in my late 20's I found out I'm intersex. I absolutely love it when someone throws "you cant be neither, it's biological" or some such drivel. It's fun to use it as a teaching moment.
I know I'm replying to something from months ago, but YES. There are MANY intersex conditions, many of which are not visible externally or even based on the internal organs. I'd guess that lots of intersex people live their entire lives without being diagnosed. Not to mention, even cis people aren't all built the same. You can be cis and have a hormone imbalance, causing beard growth on a woman or breasts on a man. Bodies are complicated, minds are complicated, and I don't think it's a stretch that we, as highly complex beings, have a spectrum of experiences with both of them. I mean shit, shelf fungi have 17,000+ sexes, dunno why we'd be expected to slot neatly into one of two boxes every single time.
Kind of love the idea of having literally every British trans guy start auditioning en masse and supporters demanding they cast any one of them at whatever studio currently owns the James Bond franchise
the one with the scientists reminds me of a saying: "arguing with an idiot is like playing chess with a pigeon. they will throw the board over, shit on everything and prance about as if they had won."
@@Kyrusisgone yea they are. even when they are little and the eyes and beaks look way too big for the featherless body covered in spikes (that will become feathers) and they actually look like really ugly little deamons.. but CUTE ugly little deamons.
I think it would be neat if like parents who did an gender reveal when their kid was a baby did another one after their kid came out as trans. A "We Were Wrong" reveal mayhaps
That reminds me of the parents that don't care about what gender their babies are, but people pressure them into having a gender reveal, so they have one but are just like "Ta-da! It's a human!" or "Yay! We're having a baby!"
Fun Fact: Tatsuya Ishida has been kicked off Patreon because of his abusive behavior to his supporters. His attacks on LGBTQIA community and the Scientific community are well documented. It's hit the point where he can't make money even with advertising nor merch.
I actually used to read Sinfest years ago. I genuinely thought it was satire with how obviosly wrong some of the characters were. I only learned maybe a year or two ago about how controvercial he is since I stopped reading it (and webcomics in general) around 15 years ago.
Sinfest was one of my first Webcomics. I am sure it was satire at the start. I read it for so long and visited it again a few years ago. Damn, did the author go down a rabbit hole. Sad, really. Edit: read it like in the 00s/early 10s
I still read the webcomic because it was also my first webcomic (besides homestuck). Not that I support the radical feministic / transphobic views, I read it to I guess know what those kind of people are capable of imagining ;^^ i.o. Know thy enemy as you know thy self :)
@@zard5930he went radfem to terf to alt right weirdo in the last 10 yeara, but before that a lot of it was satire, and good, and well meaning. And then something broke his brain
I saw a tweet recently that said that if "cis" offends people so much we could use another established terms as Hetero and homo. In that case being trans would be heterogender and what we now call cis would be homogender. And honestly that is just way too funny.
Literally the exact reason why I started laughing uncontrollably, especially since miku has been seen as an LGBTQ icon by (almost) the entirety of the Fandom. Also yes, transphobic vocaloid should be a sin.
I remember in high school, I wore a dress one day (trans man, but dresses are pretty) and my friend's parents, attempting to be transphobic, said that I needed to stop pretending to be a girl. That little comment made my week.
Spoilers: they were trying to be aggressively supportive and didn't want to see a man forced to wear something their birth sex might dictate in a given country
omg this makes me smile whenever I post images in my blog with dress and makeup on (drag reasons), some random bigots come by and say stuff like "you will never be a woman/you're a man"
I (they/he pronoun user) once got a comment that said I needed to “embrace my masculinity” from a transphobe that clearly thought I was AMAB and it was the most affirmed I’ve felt in a while
Ditto. Like good job transphobes, you just affirmed a trans person. I've gotten so many variations on this. Like good luck misgendering me when you don't know my gender.
I've met masculine as hell trans women too, masculinity and femininity have nothing to do with your gender, so whenever someone tells me I need to be feminine I'm like "cool...but I'm talking about my gender, not what I like to wear"
These types of transphobes are even funnier when they try to give trans men tips on being more manly. Like, thanks for the workout routine, glad to know my big d energy is enough for you to approve of my gender lmao.
@@dinxidoe I use they/he pronouns, but still go by my stereotypically feminine birth name. So they will lose their minds trying to figure out my "real gender", aka my assigned sex. I've had a ridiculously large number of people flat out refuse to use my name and demand my "real" one, and it's like "I can't help you, I don't have any other name". Like go ahead, ask whoever you want, stalk my social media, you're not gonna find another name that's not a nickname. Though it is pretty validating to be told that no matter what I do I'll never be a woman and they refuse to address me as one no matter what I say. Which was especially funny on my period. Also like, ok, that's what I want you to do? Why would I argue? And they don't even figure it out when I agree with them that I'm not a woman, most of them have assumed they had a "breakthrough" and got me to accept my "real gender".
The guy at 7:47 is named Walter Masterson, he pretends to be an extreme republican and goes to their events to troll them using their own points. Chanting "We hate Women!" at an anti abortion rally, saying how "We need to stop our kids from learning!" Ect. He's a massive troll and makes some great content.
I like the one where he tricked a Republican to be pro-communism by simply saying all his points are anti-communist. Bro even said that Unions aren't good enough all on his own. It hurts😭 so much could be done if they weren't ostensibly stupid.
I honestly don't even know what bigoted point the woman was going for. Like in a lot of these, you can tell in what way they're trying to be transphobic or homophobic, but everything she said was just like "cool, based."
As a Christian bisexual I was so scared to talk abt my bisexuality to my youth leader. When I told her I was gay and how I was scared my church congregation would hate me if they found out she just said “your brothers and sisters in Christ are supposed to love you regardless of sexuality” that conversation with her was one of the best things I think I’ve done in my life ❤
If you're Christian then you believe that God created you, meaning you were made this way by God's hand. Something I as an atheist understand, but most religious people don't get about their own religion
My grandmother commented in a somewhat upset tone that I was spending so much time with LGBTQ people, after recently coming out to her as bi/ace and trans. She said it like they're the reason I'm queer. No, bud, they're the reason I'm OKAY being queer. I figured out most of it by myself enveloped in fear of my family's retribution. Gay friends dont make ya gay, they just let you BE gay. And that's a beautiful thing.
My mum (who is now accepting and supportive most of the time, even though she can be ignorant about how shitty society can be to us), actually doubted I was really trans but just "wanted to be" because I had trans friends. That was a wild time. Interestingly, my first and strongest supporter and the first person I came out to, was my grandpa. I was 99% sure my mum would be okay eventually but I came out to my grandpa first because I knew that he would have my back 10000% if I needed it.
Exactly. If I had found the queer community sooner, I probably wouldn’t have spent my teens and 20s being the outsider without friends and feeling like somethings wrong with me. It probably would’ve made things a lot easier and I might’ve figured out my gender and sexuality before my 30s. So I’m so glad that the community is so visible now and kids can figure things out (or just know that there are other options besides cishet) way earlier than me
@Pa5an1 I didn't know trans men existed! Until I was about 24? 25? Took me a bit more to realise "wait wait that's me!" Was about 17? When I learnt about bisexuality. And didn't even know about asexuality (demisexuality) for a while after I figured I was trans. And all that was thanks to internet and queer people online. I don't know if it would be easier if I knew I was trans when I was younger but at least now I know why I felt like that and why I never fit in.
I used to support that group but now i am QUESTIONING how it that group works now because in this one video i saw. This guy filming interviews at a LGB event got kicked out for not telling the event creators what there talking about. It seems more like controlling other peoples speech and way of thinking.
Welcome to the wholesome corner of the internet, I'm a trans man (sorta nonbinary leaning) and also just wanna enjoy some peace amonst all the craziness lately. People are just people imo and that's ok, you shouldn't need to fit into any specific box to be accepted or fit in long as you choose to be a good person ^^ Also here's a cookie if you want it: 🍪. Sorry it tastes like pixels, it's the only flavor I have in stock rn ^^'
Welcome, dear fellow! If you enjoy your stay here I'd like to recommend some other very lovely corners of the internet: The Click (a cishet as far as I'm concerned but a very sweet one) Jammidodger (trans and bi) Emkay (one of the lectors is a trans lesbian and her name is Lexi) Enjoy your stay! :D
As another cisman I completely agree. I found this channel through the click when I was going through a dark time(divorce and depression). These clips helped me get through it and taught me things I didn't know about the LGBTQ+ community. Even discovering things about my own identity(well therapy for my depression helped too), quite comfy being demi(both romantic and sexual).
I still can't figure out how did they want it to sound hateful, it's like a comment in this vid said, I look from every side and from every sight it's sweet
I'd be fine with them getting the terminology correct every single time. You see, they're aiming at what they think is a weak point in a defensive line. What they fail to realize is that most people that are trans have experienced so much hate directed at them that they're about as well protected from verbal trauma as a modern M1 Abrams MBT with the SEP3 add-on armor kit is protected from incoming tank cannon rounds. If you want to disable that kind of armored vehicle, you have to attack the top, sides, or rear, you're not getting in thru the front. Likewise with trans people, the way to "attack" them is with compliments that are true. You'll know you hit something important when they become unable to form a coherent sentence. For some reason I can't understand, the word "cute" is like loading APFSDS (aka sabot) ammunition. Go ahead, call a trans person cute. They're expecting hostility, and when you hit them with kindness, the armor just folds. Just remember, you catch flies with honey, you catch wasps with vinegar. All you'll find if you start spouting hateful things is more people spouting hateful things, and that path leads eventually to a jail cell (all it takes is one wrong move at a hate rally and the whole group gets locked up for attempted terrorism, because violent words lead to violent actions, and violent actions are punishable by law). If you use positive emotions instead, you find happy people to hang out with that are well adjusted and capable of being functioning members of society despite whatever adversities they may be going thru in life.
@@44R0Ndin "about as well protected from verbal trauma as a modern M1 Abrams MBT with the SEP3 add-on armor kit is protected from incoming tank cannon rounds." Based Comparison
Pre-birth gender assignments really are a guess, because up until I was born, everyone swore up and down I was a boy. Turns out, every time my mom had her ultrasound done, my umbilical cord just so happened to be between my legs
My mom was told I was going to be a boy, but she "knew" I would be a girl because she had dreams about me and everything was pink. She was *technically* right, but at the same time, seeing as I am a trans man, she was also wrong and did actually have a boy 😂
I recently told my sisters that I think that I may be a trans man. They were supportive. I'm also certain that transphobes are just cavemen that found the internet.
@@spear-throw-legacy Just what I thought. There were probably plenty of open & progressive cave people, as the continued survival of our species should attest to. Transphobes have deliberately chosen to ignore learning & decency; I wish they wouldn't, but...
That really has some Big D energy, right? I fine with not winning that contest because I've never been competitive, but I love seeing other trans girls winning and thriving. 😻
I'm cis straight male, or whatever it's called. I'm not exactly educated in what these words are. I'm just here to say that I personally don't care what you identify as. You be you and you be who you want to be. Gay is cool, trans is cool, bi is cool, lesbians are cool, pans are cool, etc. Have fun, people.
"Cis is a word the transgenders invented!" I stan this conspiracy in which we, the trans, invented Latin and then just slept on it for like 2700 years so we could be like "You actived my trap card!" in the Year of Our Lord Two Thousand and Sixteen.
I mean... That does seem to be supported by the fact that Cisalpine Gaul is a tiny part of northern Italy, while Transalpine Gaul is fricking everything across the Alps between the Pyrenees and the Rhine. It was all just clever foreshadowing!
same! especially by trying to dehuamise using "it". Tough luck, I'm excited when people use these pronouns for me! A lot of people are worried about hurting me and thus shy away from doing so as they're taught to use these pronouns for things and animals of unknown gender. Well, thanks to rude people or funny local dialects, I get my gender affirmed by using a pronoun set of my preference 💖😂
I accept any pronoun but strictly fem ones and it's honestly hilarious how confused people can get over calling someone it and them just being like "thanks buddy ^^" though I've also just been unironically called that in person once because she tried and legit forgot what I said was fine and it was... Amazing. That was a great day ^^
It's a little amusing, and maybe a little sad, when someone believes they've offended me by getting it wrong and they get all flustered and I'm just like yeah I want black beans on my burrito please.
Honestly the 8 billion genders idea is so based. Like everyone experiences gender differently and some people might be more similar but it will never be exactly the same and everyone has their own gender personal to them and I think that’s beautiful.
@@kamikeserpentail3778 yes! That's what the phobes don't get usually, cathegories and constructs are just something our brains do to be more efficient / save energy, it's not "objective reality" as they like to say... it's just a... "shared subjectivity", i'd say? There's probably a word for that but i can't remember...
right??? and she is technically correct that “gender” is a word coined by academia to describe a person’s relationship to their identity and expression. like she’s accidentally incredibly based.
True, everyone experiences it differently and has their own criteria. So it would make sense and I wouldn't mind if it was limited to medical records for the male female binary(doses need to be different for a fair number of medications)
For those who need to hear it not by accident, trans men ARE men, trans women ARE women, and my littl non binary peeps are lil beans. have a good day :D ❤
Alternatively, let's bring back titles. You get names based on your feats and achievements. You'd get shit like "jayce the speedrunner" and "joey the glizzy gobbler" Either that, or you can be names based on your job or something. "Johnny Walmart cashier" or whatever.
Ya I learned a bunch of cultures usually give children temporary names until they reach a certain age where they then settle on permanent name given to them based on their personality. I also like that system better.
I go by a femme version of my name rather than my government, and I'll probably never officially change it cos I don't wanna update all my billing and identification information 😹 But yeah, it's not uncommon for people to just go by a pseudonym, artist handle, what have you. Feel free.
@@dirtypagan5793that actually sounds amazing, ofc I’ve learned to love my name but when I was younger I rlly wanted a lore unique name, I think more cultures should start doing that
yeah a lot of cultures change their names under various circumstances!! I'm a cis woman but I've always hated my name. I'm currently living under my preferred name and want to change it at some point! Humans should get at minimum one free name change, to use when reaching adulthood.
People existing does prevent going outside and enjoying things though. Like if you go outside and get run over that is not enjoyable. if you go to a park to get some quiet time in nature and there are people blasting music you hate on speakers and shouting that is not enjoyable. If you go out and get hatecrimed that is not enjoable. That's the exact thing that makes going outside and enjoying things impossible.
20:00 For those who don’t know, a lot of intersex people are assigned male/female despite not having exclusively male parts or female parts. A lot of the time this is because the intersex part is only internal, but looks normal external, and other times this is to make the child “normal” and try to make them less likely to be bullied over something they’re born with (this also results in mutilation of intersex babies in, again, an attempt to make them “normal.” A lot of this comes from a misplaced desire to help their children, but it is absolutely heartbreaking.)
This is actually huge. Like, there's a good chunk of folks that are born with both (in different levels), and that get mutilated when they are born. People are like, "THERE ARE 2 GENDERS, YOU EITHER HAVE A DICK OR A PUSSY. My sibling in Christ, if it wasn't because of those mutilations, people with either or weirdly none would be hella more common; whilst still being rare.
My favourite was the 8 Billion genders one because that's technically true. Since gender is a social construct, we all have our own unique perception of gender.
Perception of gender has never been stagnant. It differs per culture and changes over time. And even within the same time periode and culture people can still have very different interpretations of it
Saying "gender is a social construct" is the equivalent of saying "I don't believe in hormones" or "I don't believe that mammals evolved reproductive instincts." It's an idea that deserves to be in the garbage bin right alongside creationism.
@@AlexReynard”A social construct is a concept that exists not in objective reality, but as a result of human interaction.“ Hormones and reproductive instincts are not social constructs, instead being in objective reality, so how can either of those be related to the wide spectrum and social construct that is gender? One thing which is In objective reality is biological gender/sex, which is also a spectrum, not just male or female, seeing as intersex people exist. So if you were talking about gender, then your point doesn’t make sense, and if you were talking about biological gender/sex then it does make a bit more sense on its own, but is not at all related to what you replied to. Are you able to maybe specify a bit more what you are talking about?
@@jtduruss "Hormones and reproductive instincts are not social constructs, instead being in objective reality, so how can either of those be related to the wide spectrum and social construct that is gender?" Gender has ALWAYS been primarily biological. It's only been since around the 1960s that academics started saying it was cultural, not biological. And now that idea has gotten so widespread that people think of gender as primarily cultural, and biology has nothing to do with it. That's equivalent to, 'Height is obviously a social construct. So what are tape measures even for?' The thing we are measuring has always objectively existed, even if the word we use for it has drifted away from its original definition. "One thing which is In objective reality is biological gender/sex, which is also a spectrum, not just male or female, seeing as intersex people exist." You are mistaking the existence of a birth defect- a fluke- as a third gender. It's not something new on the spectrum; it's something going wrong. Sex/gender is binary because it exists for purposes of reproduction. Egg+sperm=baby. Intersex people do not fit anywhere in that equation. It's nature fucking up, same as when people are born with a hereditary disease. No fault of your own, but you're going to live your life like this. Nature is amoral and indifferent to our suffering. Eye color is a spectrum. Hair color is a spectrum. Because those are secondary characteristics not bound to a purpose, so there can be more variation in them without it affecting our natural selection. A defect in the reproductive system is a much bigger deal. To put it another way, the soft serve machine dispenses chocolate and vanilla. You can mix the two, but that's not a spectrum. It's just the only two flavors you have, in different proportion. And if the machine starts dispensing water one day, that's not a new third flavor, it means the machine is broken. To make it even simpler, color is a spectrum, because there are many colors on it. Sex/gender is grayscale at best.
@@AlexReynard Gotta admit, when I was writing my comment I was completely just not thinking about what amount of people that are/aren't identifying with what they were assigned at birth. It completely flew over my head that the majority of people are identifying how they were assigned at birth, and how that is most definently related to hormones and what not. I completely get your point here. Though culture is still at least partially related to gender in my opinion, but its more related to how people see the mental part of gender and how people present outwardly more then anything else. I honestly forgot about how being intersex is a defect in biology and just not supposed to happen. That does just make sense and I dont know how I forgot. I was thinking about how you need repopulation in evolution but not about how intersex people are involved in that I guess. One other thing I want to say (which I for some reason completely skipped in my first comment) is looping back to the "Gender is a social construct". This sentance for me (and I'm assuming others as well) is talking more about the cultural and mental parts of gender and the norms surrounding them, and less about the hormones and other stuff that can effect it. That was the entire reason I started writing the first comment and yet I just completely forgot to put it in. Anyways I would like to say one more time that your points do make sense and reminded me of stuff so thanks for that, and have a good whatever time it is where you are.
The funniest thing about the 'gender reveals are pointless' post at 0:52, is 1. The person who started the gender reveal thing regrets it, and only did it because she'd had a bunch of miscarriages and she was celebrating getting past the safe mark. and 2. Her child came out as trans (she is incredibly supportive).
As far as I knew, her child wasnt trans, just GNC? Which the mum still pointed out in the post about it as part of the reason the stereotypical emphasis on gender is so silly. But perhaps my info is out of date and they came out as trans more recently?
@@voidbreather7405 the white stripe is for nonbinary people, though gender nonconformity can also be a part of that, and I don't think anybody (except for maybe some exclusionists, who have a problem with everyone anyway) would have an issue with a GNC person who doesn't necessarily consider themself otherwise trans still identifying somewhat with it and wanting to use the flag. Some GNC ppl may feel they fall under the trans umbrella, and some may rlly feel they don't - some nonbinary people don't even identify with the word trans (that's why ppl often say trans and nonbinary, bc some do and some don't. Broadly speaking, nonbinary falls under the trans umbrella, but it's also complicated and personal). There's also the matter of GNC trans people too - as in, like a binary trans butch, or a trans man who likes to wear makeup and skirts, so I wouldn't necessarily say the white stripe ISN'T for those sorts of things, you know? But as is, all ive heard, and all im seeing upon searching it now to double check, is that the stripes were intended to represent transmascs, transfemmes, and those outside of the binary. Sorry for the exhaustive response. TL;DR - kind of. It's technically for nonbinary people, but it's not necessarily wrong for gnc people to identify with it (and transness in general, if they aren't otherwise nb/binary trans) either, I'm not a cop, least of all a gender one
It’s not pointless, there are intersex individuals, but no "transgender" individuals, just people seeking attention, wanting to fit in, or going through a tough time. If you don't agree then I can prove it to you
The whole "you're not allowed to call me cis" thing sounds such an awful lot like (I don't know if this is just here in Brazil) those veiled racists who get offended by being called white, or insecure homophobic men who all-out curse at people who call them hetero.
7:51 omfg I love this guy. He infiltrated conservative gatherings and stuff and pretends to be conservative so he can use their logic to either show how stupid they are or to get them to support good causes Edit: Someone asked, his name is Walter Masterson so you don't have to open the replies
Ive never really understood changing rooms, like am I supposed to be comfortable changing in front of someone because we have the same gender? Cant we just have stalls?
Fr like just because we all have the same gender dose not mean we’re comfortable taking our clothes off in front of them, we aren’t that close most of the people in that room don’t even know each other and you want them to be comfortable changing in-front of them, he’ll no they didn’t even allow the girls to change it the bathroom stalls that were there
I can’t imagine how terrible it would be to have had something like ( you know..) happen to you and then have to show your body to tones of people, even if nobody is looking it would still be absolutely horrible and also for people who are insecure about their bodies Sure it would be as traumatizing but still it would be horrible for them
Fun fact: My mom is in a bible study group, and one of the subjects they talked about was debunking some of the verses Christians use in said bible to fight against homosexuality. For instance, I vaguely remember my mom telling me and the rest of the household family over dinner about how one of the verses speaks ill of two guys having an affair, a relationship between *brothers.* “Ah yes, those harmless transgender brothers are such a big problem, but not the fact that they share the same mother and would share the same children if they were opposite genders. In fact we encourage them to make babies *as siblings* since we’d rather them be heterosexual!”
alright but hear me out, i'm a christian but i'm still trans. i'm not going to change who i am for what i believe and i'm not going to change what i believe for who i am. now THIS. this is just..?
@@iamanunus9141 no dont worry you're good! i just thought its funny how people try to harm other communities with badly constructed segments of their faith xd
A good GOOD chunk of Christian story is filled with religious people of power using said religion to their own advantage, specifically kings that forced the churches to do their biding in basically indoctrinating the population to make them more easily exploitable or straight up taking all of the donations they gathered to further fulfill their riches? Yeah, there’s plentiful of examples of bad people using religion to their advantage both in ancient story and modern times, I had seen many stories of many religious leaders doing some rather very VERY illegal stuff using their positions of religious power as fronts to their evil schemes Which is all pretty ironic since doing this exact thing is considered one of the worst offenses you can to do God lmao
i remember i was just chilling at school and a kid bumped into me and one of their friends were like "say sorry to her!" and another was like "her!? that's clearly one of those _train genders_ !" and that honestly made my whole day 😭😭
Shout out to that one McDonald’s worker who wanted to misgender me so badly that she asked my dad what was my real gender My dad replied, “uh medium fries?” 🥳❤️
My discovery as a trans woman was kinda weird and very late in my life (I was 29). I went from being hateful to discovering myself. For over 2 decades of my life I was always taught to hate gay and trans people because I was told they had mental illnesses or were insane. For a long time I held that mentality that I couldn't be trans or gay. One time when I was in the hospital for trying to off myself I was seeing a psychologist and I was explaining my situation to him and how I felt and he goes "It sounds like you may have gender dysphoria." I froze and thought hard about it going through my memories in my head for like a week before I realized I really was trans and gay. After I accepted that I felt so much better all the bitterness and hate I felt went away and felt more like myself then I ever had before. All my depression and downer mood went away. Life has never been better for me since then.
I felt uncomfortable in my own body until a couple of years ago, at 28, I was like oh I wasn't a man this whole time and now i can see myself in the mirror
So happy and proud of you for growing as a person! part of growing up is breaking out of the ideas you were taught and deciding for yourself what's right and what's wrong. It's honestly sad how many trans people try to commit suicide. Nearly half of all trans people who consider suicide (84% i think). Still, so proud of you!
I had a kinda similar journey, I was a week away from turning 30 when I googled asexual to win an argument with a friend, the realization when I learned about the aroace community was massive. I took 2 weeks to reevaluate my life and all the had I had been raised to believe and rejected it. That's how I found this community, I was looking for someone to explain all the things I didn't understand about being queer and I found OT and have become such a better/nicer/more accepting person.
The homosexual in church one was too relatable, I’ve been trying to find a local queer friendly church for years and the closest I’ve found was 3 hours away and it was magical but it’s too expensive to get there regularly
Do they offer online worship services or study groups? A lot of churches started doing that during the Covid lockdowns, mine included (we're a United Methodist Reconciling Ministry). I know it's not the same as meeting in person, but it's still a great way to stay connected with people. Good luck in your search!
still stuck at my church 😅 only queer there. it's not awful, but it's definitely isolating. i heard there used to be more gays, but they've all stopped going because of hostility... people are pretty nice to me so either people have changed, i'm making a difference, or i'm being delusional and being "one of the good ones". either way, people aren't outwardly homophobic (to my face at least) and i'm doing my best to stay strong in my faith so ✌️
I don't go to a queer-friendly church, but I'm eternally grateful to the other two queer people who go to my church, it's so comforting to know that someone there doesn't hate the identity that I have to keep secret
Yeah seriously. Luckily for me, there's a church I go to that has a lesbian pastor. I mean, the other church I go to is as homophobic as heck, but at least there's one...
@@rules7317 If you don't identify as cis you are trans, since that is a binary (unlike gender, which is a spectrum). Cis mean you identify with the gender you were assigned at birth fully, while trans means you don't. Identities that fall under transgender also include genderfluid and agender.
@@UnkillableJay i understand what the term cis means but I reject the label and I dont want it used when talking about me. Just like I understand what the term woman and man means.
I hacked a homo/transphobes facebook and made some changes. I added a pride boarder to her pfp, gave her pronouns, set her status to widowed/single, and made her employer planned parenthood
I used to have a homophobic neighbor that would say “whenever a rainbow is out a gay person got married” and it was so funny to me everytime because bro tried so hard to be homophobic and just failed 💀
Omg 😭😭 It’s so funny how homophobes/transphobes only jokes are “AAHHH RAINBOWS” Or “EWW PRONOUNS” And like half the time they’re not even slightly offensive 😭
@@LadyTamayosNo.1fangirl Well the point is that baby in the womb cant be they/them for an example. All thoose pronouns YOU choose when you get past 18. Before that its either a “pole” or a “hole”
@@tjenadonn6158 Nah you just call them your nephews/nieces/niblings and hope nobody notices. Or at least hope that the intended audience of James Bond Jr doesn't.
The whole 'no gays in the church' thing is kind of an interesting comic because that whole deal started when priests were raping children and christians/catholics thought "oh it must be because gay" But now in the future, and that people have been openly talking about the churches issues, gay people are welcomed because gay people were never the problem. If anything, being open about sexuality helps educate and thus protect children.
Because parents naming kids can suck, I think everyone should get one free legal name change in their life that they can redeem any time after their 18th birthday.
The best part of being a cis woman, is seeing trans women who are just completely ecstatic about something, like “skirt goes spin!!!!” and realising that, yes, skirt does “go spin!!!” and as a cis woman, I don’t have to be embarrassed or feel childish for rediscovering that joy! Most cis women learn the fact that “skirts go spin!!!” as small children, and then, when we get older, we’re told we can’t spin, cuz it’s “childish”, but trans women are doing spins with such glee and wonder, that it’s made me realise that I, as a cis woman, can do it too! That type of unrivalled, childlike, joyous wonder has no age, and wether you’ve just discovered it, or rediscovered it, it’s always valid!!! Also, it’s not a “only women go skirt spin!!!”, it’s a “if you’re a person who wants to make your skirt go spin, and you’re wearing underwear, you can do it!”. Might wanna do it alone or with people who are okay with it, if you do it without underwear. And no, kilts are not skirts, and I’m not knowledgeable enough about the topic to say wether a kilt can go spin, so I’ll leave that to the experts!
@@birdbrainiac that’s why I clarified that you shouldn’t spin commando unless it’s in private and only with people who are okay with it X’D Of course thongs are a bit of a grey area there too X’D I’d add those under commando, just in case X’D
@@R_violi the LGBT lore grows. As the Asexuals invade denmark and the Trans people get more confused about which bathroom to use according to the straights. will the pansexuals ever walk into a kitchen normally? the answers to all the questions will be answered, as the journey continues...
@@jeonginsbabybreadcheeks Basalt is a rock that contains iron, while obsidian contains little. Soul sand allows you to make basalt from lava + water. This means souls contain iron, as evidenced by vexes.
I mean sometimes people just need that support. Its good to encourage others no matter their sexuality unless.. you where doing that to spite him... then well hope your future builds up better karma..
There's a comedian in the UK called Francesca Martinez. She also happens to have Cerebral Palsy. I like to quote her statement: "Normal is a setting on a washing machine."
Booster seat? My ultimate dream is to be a streamer or something but ever time I go live, I’m a couple centimeters shorter or taller than last time and see who notices
A bit ago there was an incident in London, ON where a group of teens managed to grab the pride flag off of the flagpole and burn it. Later when they got convicted of a crime, people thought that it was because of the fact they burned the pride flag. People were mad that that happened, because burning flags in Canada is protected under free speech. But what some people didn't realize was that it wasn't their flag. They had committed vandalism, and that was why they were convicted of a crime, not because they burned the pride flag.
I’ve seen a lot of people say stuff under this one video I found like "if they burned the American flag no one would care" and like it’s not a crime because of the flag, it’s because it’s a persons property that isn’t yours
That's happened a few places in Canada, and it's like... Arson on schoolgrounds, starting a fire during a fire ban, and stealing a flag are all still things you can get charged for.
as a trangender dude living in a VERY transphobic (but somehow NOT homophoic... yeah idk) household, these videos make me feel a lot better about myself. if i came out to my family i would be kicked out and i would have nowhere to go. i thought i could come out to my friends but they didnt except me... they just looked at me a laughed... so thanks for these fun videos! they make me laugh everytime :) I also just donated $5 to the LGBTQIA+ fundraiser!! ( i would donate more but im broke rn LMAO)
7:53 I actually like what she is explaining. The idea of being "me" gendered and if a bunch of people vibe in my direction we can be a group of "women" genders, but the only one who gets to define me is myself.
Omg, the "I'm not cis, I'm normal!" thing reminded me of an ex-friend of mine. When someone asked him "are heterosexual?" He responded with: "NO! I'M STRAIGHT! I'M A MAN!" Some ppl are so dang insecure lmao😭😭
The reason I like the progress flag varient more than the "add more stripes" version is that it shows the difference between what the colors stand for. The rainbow part is about a sexual orientation, and the triangle part is about how one exists in the world (trans or POC). The fact they're together on the same flag sends the message "we're in this together" while the difference in how they're presented shows that they aren't the same thing (ie being trans isn't a sexual orientation). ...I hope that made sense outside of my head? lol! I agree with you though, it's fine to prefer one over the other because it's just a flag, if you like an aesthetic roll with it!
I really like that design, and I really like the "original" one, but I think maybe I prefer the progress one because it feels like it includes me in general more? Like, the addition of trans colours... But I mean, everyone has their preference? And as long as it doesn't end up being a hateful bigot style tantrum, that's absolutely fine and normal? ALso I really liked your explanation! It makes so much sense and I will definitely try to remember it to explain to others if I ever need to!
My only gripe with the progress flag is that, the more you add the more you exclude, y’know? In adding the trans flag it felt like it implied we _weren’t_ included on the rainbow prior. I know that most definitely was not the intention, but it just feels like this idea of “If we weren’t included before and now we are, does that mean some non-binary people still aren’t included? Are intersex people not included? Are asexual or aromantic people not included?” I just like the idea that the rainbow on its own is there for absolutely everybody, as opposed to solely being for sexual orientation. I’m so sorry that this is sort of incomprehensible, but I do totally respect the use of the progress flag by those who prefer it, especially because it does actually serve a really good purpose of highlighting POC and trans people.
My way of showing cis vs. Trans: If i were to cisport myself, i would stay here. Instead, I will transport myself, as you are insufferable, you (context needed for swear)
Transpoting myself is something I try to avoid, I'm lazy and I'm asocial (not antisocial, because I don't hate the idea of being social, but a-social, as in "I don't need social interactions to survive"). In fact I'm so asocial that I'm also Asexual and Aromantic.
I tried to do some mental gymnastics at some point. Then I realized that it's not necessary, trans men just being men and trans women just being women is both supportive and straightforward.
Although Star Trek's transporter technology is still beyond our reach, I've invented the next best thing: a cisporter. You get in it, press a button, and you're still in the same place.
Yeah. Though, technically trans and cis have a connotation of being on one side of something, with trans technically meaning “across,” e.g. Cisalpine Gaul and Transalpine Gaul. Same as how cisgender refers to people who are on the side of gender the body they were born into reflect, and trans people are not. I apologize for the random Latin tangent
As much as I like accidental ally moves, I more like it when out of touch people still make genuine attempt to show support, like I know a local church who one pride put up a pride flag, but the rainbow was upside down, then this year they placed out a rainbow bench. it's little things like that that give me hope in people.
I've seen a lot of people put the rainbow upside down. I seem to remember that being a lot more common a decade ago and it was seen as the Christian rainbow was red at the top, and the LGBT rainbow was red at the bottom, but that may have been me as a teen noticing patterns and making up my own reasons.
I'm really getting tired of the "they stole the rainbow from god" thing. How about you give Iris her skateboard back so that she can go deliver Sappho's party invite to Artemis and her huntresses! Or Heimdall his bridge back so his 9 mothers can go poly it up with Odin again! The rainbow has older roots then you, stop your nonsense!
whats funny is that it was exactly THAT what i learned in biology class way back. my teacher said something along the lines of "in short, dna and chromosomes are so evolved and also complex it makes absolutely no sense to still categorize just in male and female since basically every 7 billion human being has their own gender." and my teenage brain took that and run with it and 2 months later i realized i was ✨trans✨
Yeah, same. Not only do DNA and chromosomes matter in terms of gender. There's a lot of mechanics in our bodies that control that (like hormones and the brain) but also sociocultural reasons. It's complex, it's interesting, and it's beautiful.
I love rewatching OneTopics videos when I need reminding of good humans and goofy humans exist. So it is indeed a good way to start off all the winter festivities, and to refresh ourselves with after all the festivities have ended. Let's try and make 2025 a better and more wholesome year. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️❤️🩹🕊☮️✊️
As an agender fellow who thinks that the world would be a lot better without gender, I’m so glad that so many people agree. EDIT: Okay, I didn’t expect this comment to blow up. I do want to clarify that I’m being a little facetious here. I think people can have very positive experiences with gender, and I fully support that. I don’t actually think the immediate and complete abolishment of gender would be a good thing. There’s lots a nuance to deal with, which makes it beautiful in my opinion. Also, to people saying that archeologists will identify my bones, 1) that’s sex, not gender. I am fully aware that I have a sex (I don’t have sex though, not for me). And 2): I missed the part where that’s my problem.
Assigning a name at birth makes a certain amount of sense as your parents need to call you *something*, but yeah the way it’s treated as immutable by some people is really weird
Honestly, the concept of naming a child comes from the high amount of deaths at infancy and the belief that without a name the soul wouldn't be able to find its way to where it belonged (also prevalent in the Christian beliefs, interesting how that works), and because of how birth itself is one of the more dangerous things we go through during our lives (both giving birth and being born), hospitals are required to ask the parent for a name to call the child incase of worst case scenario (and to be better able to differentiate between children would there be cases of twins etc being born). So it's not really about the parents needing a name to use to refer to the child either as they could use words child, spawn and few other words until they've figured out a name that'd fit the personality and temper of the said child (this is actually why the trope of a child being named or their name being revealed to them way after birth does exist in literature), it's the hospitals and the government needing this information to be able to tell how many people live in the country and whether or not the people can be sustained by the said country (hospitals needing the information to help the family incase of death and the after care of the mother as after birth depression is very common). This has been useless trivia I know, but never get to use even in trivia games because it's never a question in them. Man... if only those games had more questions about oddly specific things I know of. Oh also the reason why I know about this is because I wanted to know why I was named the way I was only to be told that I had been born way early, had very short life expectation and thus my parents were asked for a name and they quite literally went with the first name they could think of. 26 years later I am going by the name they both agreed on being the name they would've eventually agreed on had it not been such a dire situation. Life is wack and someone clearly cursed me to "live interesting times".
I told my trans daughter that a name is like a present given by your parents. If you don't like it return that shit and change it for something you like.
i asked my parents why they even named me *this name* and they said, "cause it sounded nice" THEY DIDNT EVEN KNOW WHAT IT MEANT and now that I've been thinking about a new name, they get all offended and confused, like "why would you want to change your name you have a perfectly good one (that they still don't know the meaning of)" like dude. chill.
I knew a cis guy that changed his name just based on the sole fact that he didn't like the name he was given. It's not new that people change their name lmao
I feel like it'd be really cool if people practiced the DnD elven tradition of choosing an "adult name" and being assigned a child name at birth. Maybe that's the genderfluid nerd in me, but it's nice to have the choice about what people call you because names have meaning and weight
The wrestling thing always confused me. I’m a cis girl and wrestled partially throughout school. And it was always a unisex sport. Sure we were in a small town but if a girl wanted to wrestle, they just let her know that you’d also be wrestling the boys. I was one of two girls on my team and while we practice with each other we also practice the guys and wrestle other guys in our region. So I don’t see what the problem is with anyone trans wrestling anyone because it’s a sport about strategical body movement. My school didn’t separate wrestling by gender until I already stopped wrestling in 2021, And a lot of schools didn’t have this problem until people got up in arms about Oh no somebody’s trans. Oh no someone wants to feel comfortable in their body.
For anyone curious by the end of my wrestling I was able to lift a 270 pound guy over myself and slam him to a mat. I’m 120 pounds myself and that’s what strategical body movement can do. Yeah, I really don’t understand the wrestling problem with this. Honestly I wish more sports were like that.
Pretty sure sports were only separated by gender in America when girls started outperforming the boys, and the men got jealous. Can't remember where I read it, but seeing your comment makes me want to look it up again. Looking at professional scores, it really does NOT make the difference transphobes think it does.
Thats not 100% of the time but with most sports thats only person on person strategic advantige yep. another exsample from my school was with a girl who did football and she out preformed the boys so bad she wasnt alowed to play in high school thay siad it was becase of "biological differences that could get her hurt" but I think other wise well in some sports one gender may have an advantage it dosent change the effort and hard work they put in to be there let them be there.
The only reason to separate sports by gender is if you assume genders are equivalent to weight classes, which is something you can disprove by going outside and glancing at a few people.
If my gender was represented by those little colored stick people it would end up looking like a biblically accurate angel. Genderfluid seems even more awsome now lol
I'm picturing you as a ring of lines alternating between pink and blue, with maybe some extra colours peppered in for good measure. Does that sound about right?
8:30 Walter Masterson is actually very much an intentional ally, he trolls conservatives and poses as a conservative for staged interviews. Very wholesome.
My mom was told there was a 75% chance I would turn out to be a boy, and yet she was convinced I would be a girl. I was born female but am transitioning to male. So they were both right, technically 😅
My favourite is when a transphobe encounters a fully transitions trans person who mentions they are trans and they try to mis gender them by using the right pronouns 😭
Yep. Like they can only see trans as "men with beards in dresses" and "lesbian who's pretending to be a man". Like HRT does the same thing as puberty, it works you dingleberries.
or when they use trans women as examples of traditional cis women
just curious, what is a full transition?
@@digitalian99Completed transition, this could mean many different things for different people because not all people do that same things during their transitions. They probably mean people who have gone on HRT and have had gender-affirming surgeries.
Pretty much just a trans person that passes.
My favorite Was Elon tweeting that he is not cis 13:38
The part where the lady's like "There's 8 billion genders" reminds me of a meme that said that genders are a scam made by bathroom companies to sell more bathrooms
Gender is actually a "scam" made by millions of years of mammalian reproductive instincts, leading to hormones in the human body that influence gendered behavior in a fetus' developing brain in utero. So, not actually a scam, but a fact.
Oh 100% bathroom companies are scamming capitalists who created the concept of gender to make money.
Screw gender, 1 gender neutral bathroom will save money and be fine for everyone!
Big Bathroom at it again 🙃
Big Toilet has an agenda we cannot ignore
“5 replies” meanwhile, the 2 replies that are here:😐
As a trans man, « you don’t even look like a girl » is the best thing you can ever tell me by accident
You don’t even look like a girl. You’re now one of the boys. Thems the rules. You must live up to the bro code now. Part of being the boys.
Well you don't king. Slay
It pissed my transphobic mom right off when I smile proudly and say “thanks!” after she tries to insult me with “you look like a _man.”_ Always made me giggle, maniacally might I add
I mean, you don’t even look like a girl!
as a trans ally, you don't even look like a girl
I love people trying to be transphobic by saying "trans men are not women" and "trans women are not men". As a trans man, I feel happy about this.
LMAO
hell yea brother
are trans man a woman being a man and the same with trans woman
@@MirageofHope-w8w trans women were assigned male at birth and became women later, trans men are the opposite way
@@MirageofHope-w8w trans man aren't a woman being a man, trans man are man and trans woman are woman
Fun History Fact: Some tribes/cultures actually wouldn't name kids at birth. The name you got was often earned or given based on what you did or liked later in life.
Should've made that standard everywhere
Heracles go brrrrr
WHICH TRIBES?!?!?!?!?! 💯💯💯
Over in Europe we didn't name them immediately because a lot died a few days after birth.
Am I the only one think of the Star Wars clone troopers after reading this?
The two extremes of accidental ally: No gender and 8 billion genders.
It's like that one comic- they gotta kiss
@trashcat4886 that comic gives me warm fuzzies
@@trashcat4886 hehe
If you set Gender to zero, it causes a glitch that instead causes Gender to become the highest possible number.
I've been contacting the developers of gender, they're currently too busy dealing with mushrooms to fix this.
i love it when transphobes define gender to have an area of -1098 [a wire hit my keyboard so now its -1098 instead of -1]
Fun fact! Dolly Parton wrote a song about how a trans person discovering themselves and transitioning is just like a Christian discovering Jesus and becoming born again. It's called Travelin Thru.
God's sake, we do not deserve that sweet southern angel! I've never once heard of her being hateful. I'm ftm, def gonna go give this a listen 😭🙏❤
Travelling through, as in being in transit?
Omg I haven't heard anything from Dolly in a long time, might need to give that a listen soon when I'm in the mood for music. Thanks for the info kind person
Just gave it a listen - it’s 16 years old 😳 how did I not find this beforehand??
Based Dolly Parton
“Gay people need God!”
Gay people: “Okay then, I’ll go to church!”
“You aren’t allowed in the church because you’re gay!”
Like seriously, CHOOSE! Do we need god or are we not allowed in church?
maybe they mean Thor, the God of Thunder?
I think they mean to stop being gay first
@@フィッシュラスyeah but tbh many Christians are lgbtq+ either way many of the so good Christians called that say they are saints and juzged gay are sinners xd
who said you werent aloud in church lol
Don't go to church. The religion isn't real
As a trans man, I am loving how many of these posts keep saying trans men are men. It makes me happy.
@@Jtd1138We might!
@@Jtd1138 this is ironic right? (not a joke I’m very bad at picking up on tone)
you will NEVER be a woman. you are a MAN. CONGRATULATIONS on COMING OUT
@@saowerpatchkidzz nope I’m honestly sick of trans men cherry picking being a man , it’s not all no period and not having to shave
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You can be as manly as you want but the second that draft is called your name won’t be on it , you will get to be safe at home saying how oppressed you are why me and everyone else with a Y chromosome are getting shot
@@Jtd1138 You know that you don’t _have_ to serve in the army in America right? As an American citizen you have the right to just say no.
Transphobes: there's no gender!
Me, an agender person: YES THANK YOU!
YOOOO another agender that's crazy 🤯 I don't see it very often and I get so excited when I do 💀
Was looking for THIS EXACT comment
@@Drasosil SAME!! 🤭
Yeah gender sucks (I’m nb)
Got a gender non conforming party down here 👯
I love when people say “I’M NOT CIS, NO ONE IS CIS, I’M NORMAL” like congrats bro I support you for coming out your so brave
...............…...*you're. Sorry😊
well im cis so im weird i guess
@@gillipop1 ???
OMG A FELLOW FROG
@@uranian-Umbrathey’re talking about how u wrote your (indicates possession) instead of you’re (you + are). Usually i don’t really care about this type of grammar error though
"sometimes doctors are just wrong", I've felt I was nonbinary my whole life, then in my late 20's I found out I'm intersex. I absolutely love it when someone throws "you cant be neither, it's biological" or some such drivel. It's fun to use it as a teaching moment.
Like the advanced biology versus basic biology
it should be illegal not to tell ur children they're intersex idk it seems off
I know I'm replying to something from months ago, but YES. There are MANY intersex conditions, many of which are not visible externally or even based on the internal organs. I'd guess that lots of intersex people live their entire lives without being diagnosed. Not to mention, even cis people aren't all built the same. You can be cis and have a hormone imbalance, causing beard growth on a woman or breasts on a man. Bodies are complicated, minds are complicated, and I don't think it's a stretch that we, as highly complex beings, have a spectrum of experiences with both of them. I mean shit, shelf fungi have 17,000+ sexes, dunno why we'd be expected to slot neatly into one of two boxes every single time.
Welp, as an English trans man, I guess it is my duty to audition as James Bond
Look. that role has to go to Idris Elba. Fight me.
i saw a post on tumblr with that screenshot saying "elliot page has the opportunity to do the single funniest thing in film history" and like yea
@@paulhammond6978they’ll probably make more incarnations of James Bond so OP and Idris Elba can have their turns playing James Bond.
Kind of love the idea of having literally every British trans guy start auditioning en masse and supporters demanding they cast any one of them at whatever studio currently owns the James Bond franchise
We should make it a trend, every time they say a character can't be a woman, make him a trans man and cast trans actors for the role
the one with the scientists reminds me of a saying: "arguing with an idiot is like playing chess with a pigeon. they will throw the board over, shit on everything and prance about as if they had won."
I know the one “ If two people are ranting no one can tell whose the fool “
It's all fun and games until someone starts playing Hatoful Boyfriend.
The only difference is pigeons are adorable
@@Kyrusisgone They are pretty cute
@@Kyrusisgone yea they are. even when they are little and the eyes and beaks look way too big for the featherless body covered in spikes (that will become feathers) and they actually look like really ugly little deamons.. but CUTE ugly little deamons.
"I gay married this man preemptively bc the government will make me do it eventually" is the funniest satire i love it
And 23:15 The girl speaks English well. 23:53 He speaks Vietnamese to her and complains about having to do that.
I cannot see how that's anything but hilariously and willfully pro-queer.
I’m still genuinely confused about the sketch was it satire about conservatives or actually intended to support their point I have no idea
I saw a video that said "they bullied me because i was homophopic" and all i thought was "serves you right"
Thought the same, also, saw the reaction of Jamie and he made a pretty good point, the video NEVER explains why she is homophobic
@@RitaVicenteMillan oh ok
I think it would be neat if like parents who did an gender reveal when their kid was a baby did another one after their kid came out as trans. A "We Were Wrong" reveal mayhaps
That reminds me of the parents that don't care about what gender their babies are, but people pressure them into having a gender reveal, so they have one but are just like "Ta-da! It's a human!" or "Yay! We're having a baby!"
If my son decides to I will
a "wait actually" reveal
sounds perfect
A "we did a whoopsy!" party
Fun Fact: Tatsuya Ishida has been kicked off Patreon because of his abusive behavior to his supporters. His attacks on LGBTQIA community and the Scientific community are well documented. It's hit the point where he can't make money even with advertising nor merch.
I actually used to read Sinfest years ago. I genuinely thought it was satire with how obviosly wrong some of the characters were. I only learned maybe a year or two ago about how controvercial he is since I stopped reading it (and webcomics in general) around 15 years ago.
Sinfest was one of my first Webcomics. I am sure it was satire at the start. I read it for so long and visited it again a few years ago. Damn, did the author go down a rabbit hole. Sad, really.
Edit: read it like in the 00s/early 10s
I still read the webcomic because it was also my first webcomic (besides homestuck).
Not that I support the radical feministic / transphobic views, I read it to I guess know what those kind of people are capable of imagining ;^^ i.o. Know thy enemy as you know thy self :)
Something something "GO WOKE GO BROKE" something something.
@@zard5930he went radfem to terf to alt right weirdo in the last 10 yeara, but before that a lot of it was satire, and good, and well meaning. And then something broke his brain
I saw a tweet recently that said that if "cis" offends people so much we could use another established terms as Hetero and homo. In that case being trans would be heterogender and what we now call cis would be homogender. And honestly that is just way too funny.
They'd be offended by homogender too cause "What?! I'm not HOMO!!!!" lol
omg that's amazing lol, took me a minute to realize
I would support this, so I can finally be homo all the way around.
Ah shit, I don’t wanna be hetero
Well that puts a new spin on "No Homo"
How DARE they use vocaloids to be transphobic. Miku would never do such a thing.
Do that should be a sin
Literally the exact reason why I started laughing uncontrollably, especially since miku has been seen as an LGBTQ icon by (almost) the entirety of the Fandom. Also yes, transphobic vocaloid should be a sin.
Hatsune Miku does not talk to british people OR transphobes😎
"Miku does NOT talk to transhopic and homophobic people!"
It's not a real person anyway, lol
I remember in high school, I wore a dress one day (trans man, but dresses are pretty) and my friend's parents, attempting to be transphobic, said that I needed to stop pretending to be a girl. That little comment made my week.
HOW DO YOU MESS UP THAT BAD!? As a trans guy I love this!!
Spoilers: they were trying to be aggressively supportive and didn't want to see a man forced to wear something their birth sex might dictate in a given country
omg this makes me smile
whenever I post images in my blog with dress and makeup on (drag reasons), some random bigots come by and say stuff like "you will never be a woman/you're a man"
As a trans female of almost 2 whole months, I would like to say that as a trans man, you will never be a woman, and I will never be a man
You shouldn’t be pretending to be a girl though. What are you on to make you think you’re actually a girl? 😂
I (they/he pronoun user) once got a comment that said I needed to “embrace my masculinity” from a transphobe that clearly thought I was AMAB and it was the most affirmed I’ve felt in a while
Ditto. Like good job transphobes, you just affirmed a trans person. I've gotten so many variations on this. Like good luck misgendering me when you don't know my gender.
I've met masculine as hell trans women too, masculinity and femininity have nothing to do with your gender, so whenever someone tells me I need to be feminine I'm like "cool...but I'm talking about my gender, not what I like to wear"
@@waffles3629so many of them call me he because I go by she/they and it makes me giggle because I’m literally not amab
These types of transphobes are even funnier when they try to give trans men tips on being more manly. Like, thanks for the workout routine, glad to know my big d energy is enough for you to approve of my gender lmao.
@@dinxidoe I use they/he pronouns, but still go by my stereotypically feminine birth name. So they will lose their minds trying to figure out my "real gender", aka my assigned sex. I've had a ridiculously large number of people flat out refuse to use my name and demand my "real" one, and it's like "I can't help you, I don't have any other name". Like go ahead, ask whoever you want, stalk my social media, you're not gonna find another name that's not a nickname. Though it is pretty validating to be told that no matter what I do I'll never be a woman and they refuse to address me as one no matter what I say. Which was especially funny on my period. Also like, ok, that's what I want you to do? Why would I argue? And they don't even figure it out when I agree with them that I'm not a woman, most of them have assumed they had a "breakthrough" and got me to accept my "real gender".
The guy at 7:47 is named Walter Masterson, he pretends to be an extreme republican and goes to their events to troll them using their own points. Chanting "We hate Women!" at an anti abortion rally, saying how "We need to stop our kids from learning!" Ect. He's a massive troll and makes some great content.
I just discovered him yesterday and went on a bit of a binge. He's freaking awesome!
I was watching that whole thing going, "dang, either one or both of those two _HAVE TO_ be goofing, not serious... right??"
Nice!
I like the one where he tricked a Republican to be pro-communism by simply saying all his points are anti-communist. Bro even said that Unions aren't good enough all on his own. It hurts😭 so much could be done if they weren't ostensibly stupid.
I honestly don't even know what bigoted point the woman was going for. Like in a lot of these, you can tell in what way they're trying to be transphobic or homophobic, but everything she said was just like "cool, based."
As a Christian bisexual I was so scared to talk abt my bisexuality to my youth leader. When I told her I was gay and how I was scared my church congregation would hate me if they found out she just said “your brothers and sisters in Christ are supposed to love you regardless of sexuality” that conversation with her was one of the best things I think I’ve done in my life ❤
If you're Christian then you believe that God created you, meaning you were made this way by God's hand. Something I as an atheist understand, but most religious people don't get about their own religion
My grandmother commented in a somewhat upset tone that I was spending so much time with LGBTQ people, after recently coming out to her as bi/ace and trans. She said it like they're the reason I'm queer. No, bud, they're the reason I'm OKAY being queer. I figured out most of it by myself enveloped in fear of my family's retribution. Gay friends dont make ya gay, they just let you BE gay. And that's a beautiful thing.
My mum (who is now accepting and supportive most of the time, even though she can be ignorant about how shitty society can be to us), actually doubted I was really trans but just "wanted to be" because I had trans friends. That was a wild time. Interestingly, my first and strongest supporter and the first person I came out to, was my grandpa. I was 99% sure my mum would be okay eventually but I came out to my grandpa first because I knew that he would have my back 10000% if I needed it.
Exactly. If I had found the queer community sooner, I probably wouldn’t have spent my teens and 20s being the outsider without friends and feeling like somethings wrong with me. It probably would’ve made things a lot easier and I might’ve figured out my gender and sexuality before my 30s.
So I’m so glad that the community is so visible now and kids can figure things out (or just know that there are other options besides cishet) way earlier than me
@Pa5an1 I didn't know trans men existed! Until I was about 24? 25? Took me a bit more to realise "wait wait that's me!" Was about 17? When I learnt about bisexuality. And didn't even know about asexuality (demisexuality) for a while after I figured I was trans. And all that was thanks to internet and queer people online. I don't know if it would be easier if I knew I was trans when I was younger but at least now I know why I felt like that and why I never fit in.
School and social media made you gay. You were not born that way. Your grandma is right. You are gross!
I used to support that group but now i am QUESTIONING how it that group works now because in this one video i saw. This guy filming interviews at a LGB event got kicked out for not telling the event creators what there talking about. It seems more like controlling other peoples speech and way of thinking.
As a cis man who wishes that people could just let people live how they want, I am so glad I found this lovely corner of the internet.
Welcome to the wholesome corner of the internet, I'm a trans man (sorta nonbinary leaning) and also just wanna enjoy some peace amonst all the craziness lately. People are just people imo and that's ok, you shouldn't need to fit into any specific box to be accepted or fit in long as you choose to be a good person ^^
Also here's a cookie if you want it: 🍪. Sorry it tastes like pixels, it's the only flavor I have in stock rn ^^'
Welcome, dear fellow! If you enjoy your stay here I'd like to recommend some other very lovely corners of the internet:
The Click (a cishet as far as I'm concerned but a very sweet one)
Jammidodger (trans and bi)
Emkay (one of the lectors is a trans lesbian and her name is Lexi)
Enjoy your stay! :D
welcome to the safe space, from a genderfluid pansexual person :)
As another cisman I completely agree. I found this channel through the click when I was going through a dark time(divorce and depression). These clips helped me get through it and taught me things I didn't know about the LGBTQ+ community. Even discovering things about my own identity(well therapy for my depression helped too), quite comfy being demi(both romantic and sexual).
OT is lovely. idk how to explain it. Something soothing about the voice.
ngl I didn't realize that the "let the girl with the biggest dick win" thing was an _accidental_ ally, I thought they were just an ally 💀
Literally same
i know jordan peterson is an awful person so i just
am in disbelief he just. posted that
I still can't figure out how did they want it to sound hateful, it's like a comment in this vid said, I look from every side and from every sight it's sweet
Hold up. Let ‘em cook
Well hopefully I win >:3
My favorite is when they tell me "You'll never be a boy!" like thanks dawg that's my goal 😭
Can we never correct these people on the terminology of trans men and women. Let them be confidently wrong and helpful to us.
MAKE IT SO!
I'd be fine with them getting the terminology correct every single time.
You see, they're aiming at what they think is a weak point in a defensive line.
What they fail to realize is that most people that are trans have experienced so much hate directed at them that they're about as well protected from verbal trauma as a modern M1 Abrams MBT with the SEP3 add-on armor kit is protected from incoming tank cannon rounds.
If you want to disable that kind of armored vehicle, you have to attack the top, sides, or rear, you're not getting in thru the front.
Likewise with trans people, the way to "attack" them is with compliments that are true.
You'll know you hit something important when they become unable to form a coherent sentence.
For some reason I can't understand, the word "cute" is like loading APFSDS (aka sabot) ammunition.
Go ahead, call a trans person cute. They're expecting hostility, and when you hit them with kindness, the armor just folds.
Just remember, you catch flies with honey, you catch wasps with vinegar.
All you'll find if you start spouting hateful things is more people spouting hateful things, and that path leads eventually to a jail cell (all it takes is one wrong move at a hate rally and the whole group gets locked up for attempted terrorism, because violent words lead to violent actions, and violent actions are punishable by law).
If you use positive emotions instead, you find happy people to hang out with that are well adjusted and capable of being functioning members of society despite whatever adversities they may be going thru in life.
@@44R0Ndin "about as well protected from verbal trauma as a modern M1 Abrams MBT with the SEP3 add-on armor kit is protected from incoming tank cannon rounds."
Based Comparison
@@44R0Ndin I like the idea of just calling someone cute and they just get so flustered that they pass out like a cartoon schoolgirl with a crush.
@@44R0Ndin as a person in discord servers with several trans people, I can confirm that calling any of them cute causes instant flustering.
Pre-birth gender assignments really are a guess, because up until I was born, everyone swore up and down I was a boy. Turns out, every time my mom had her ultrasound done, my umbilical cord just so happened to be between my legs
Kinky
@@darthmaul216 ??????????
@@The21stGamerAgreed????
Dude! I just literally found out yesterday I was the same! All my baby stuff is blue because of it and now blue is my favourite colour :p
My mom was told I was going to be a boy, but she "knew" I would be a girl because she had dreams about me and everything was pink.
She was *technically* right, but at the same time, seeing as I am a trans man, she was also wrong and did actually have a boy 😂
I recently told my sisters that I think that I may be a trans man. They were supportive.
I'm also certain that transphobes are just cavemen that found the internet.
Don't insult cavemen like that. Transphobes are single cell organisms but less interesting.
Truth is not subject to one's beliefs.
glad to hear they were supportive!
@@spear-throw-legacy Just what I thought. There were probably plenty of open & progressive cave people, as the continued survival of our species should attest to. Transphobes have deliberately chosen to ignore learning & decency; I wish they wouldn't, but...
Nah, I've met cavemen. They're just as confused by transphobia as the rest of us.
5:35 "Oh I wonder what this'll be- HATSUNE MIKU????"
as a trans girl "LET THE GIRL WITH THE BIGGEST ____ WIN" is absolutely amazing
I agree
Hope you win girl
youre a man
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That really has some Big D energy, right? I fine with not winning that contest because I've never been competitive, but I love seeing other trans girls winning and thriving. 😻
I'm cis straight male, or whatever it's called. I'm not exactly educated in what these words are. I'm just here to say that I personally don't care what you identify as. You be you and you be who you want to be. Gay is cool, trans is cool, bi is cool, lesbians are cool, pans are cool, etc. Have fun, people.
See, you're one of the good ones.
This is based
based "I don't get it but y'all are cool" is such a great thought process
Isso foi fofo, mano
@@astralfroggood ones implies that the norm of Cis straight ppl is bad, and that's not true, the 'bad' ones are really loud
"Cis is a word the transgenders invented!"
I stan this conspiracy in which we, the trans, invented Latin and then just slept on it for like 2700 years so we could be like "You actived my trap card!" in the Year of Our Lord Two Thousand and Sixteen.
as a trans man, i can confirm i helped invent the latin language
@@willdboy07 based fr
I mean... That does seem to be supported by the fact that Cisalpine Gaul is a tiny part of northern Italy, while Transalpine Gaul is fricking everything across the Alps between the Pyrenees and the Rhine. It was all just clever foreshadowing!
@@RvEijndhoven "They thought we were hiding in the shadows. Watching from across the wild Rhine. Waiting to strike. But we are the shadows."
MMXVI
5:36 ARE THOSE VOCALOIDS?!1?!
THAT'S WHAT I THOUGH BRO 😭😭
PROBABLY?
wokealoids😨
@ 😨😨😨
I SAW IT TOO I DONT BELIEVE MY EYES....
The fun thing about going by any pronouns is seeing phobes DESPERATELY trying to misgender me, but not knowing how.
same! especially by trying to dehuamise using "it". Tough luck, I'm excited when people use these pronouns for me! A lot of people are worried about hurting me and thus shy away from doing so as they're taught to use these pronouns for things and animals of unknown gender.
Well, thanks to rude people or funny local dialects, I get my gender affirmed by using a pronoun set of my preference 💖😂
you are invincible to being misgendered
Me when they try to use „it“ to degrade me: YES YES YES DO IT MORE
I accept any pronoun but strictly fem ones and it's honestly hilarious how confused people can get over calling someone it and them just being like "thanks buddy ^^" though I've also just been unironically called that in person once because she tried and legit forgot what I said was fine and it was... Amazing. That was a great day ^^
It's a little amusing, and maybe a little sad, when someone believes they've offended me by getting it wrong and they get all flustered and I'm just like yeah I want black beans on my burrito please.
Honestly the 8 billion genders idea is so based. Like everyone experiences gender differently and some people might be more similar but it will never be exactly the same and everyone has their own gender personal to them and I think that’s beautiful.
Yeah, but we do still tend to categorize things in an attempt to understand them.
So we end up with less refined shorthand.
plus we already have categories like "femme" and "masc" for what could be considered "traditional gender expression"
@@kamikeserpentail3778 yes! That's what the phobes don't get usually, cathegories and constructs are just something our brains do to be more efficient / save energy, it's not "objective reality" as they like to say... it's just a... "shared subjectivity", i'd say? There's probably a word for that but i can't remember...
right??? and she is technically correct that “gender” is a word coined by academia to describe a person’s relationship to their identity and expression. like she’s accidentally incredibly based.
True, everyone experiences it differently and has their own criteria. So it would make sense and I wouldn't mind if it was limited to medical records for the male female binary(doses need to be different for a fair number of medications)
as an agender questioning person, seeing all of the transphobes talking about how there is no gender and no one has a gender made me smile...
when i say this i mean that you are your biological sex.
good luck on your journey
@@Sinx-Ce thank you
Same bro.
@@evilnigga444
Lmao I laugh because that’s a limited view of shit.
For those who need to hear it not by accident, trans men ARE men, trans women ARE women, and my littl non binary peeps are lil beans. have a good day :D ❤
love who you love, be who you be, and don't let anyone else take that away from you!
Lil beans? Nom
biologically you're still a man, so it doesn't change anything
Nah, biologically they will continue to be so.
I will eat the little beans
Assigning names at birth, AND THEN NEVER CHANGING THEM is, objectively, weird for humans. Lets normalize renaming ourselves
Alternatively, let's bring back titles. You get names based on your feats and achievements. You'd get shit like "jayce the speedrunner" and "joey the glizzy gobbler"
Either that, or you can be names based on your job or something. "Johnny Walmart cashier" or whatever.
Ya I learned a bunch of cultures usually give children temporary names until they reach a certain age where they then settle on permanent name given to them based on their personality. I also like that system better.
I go by a femme version of my name rather than my government, and I'll probably never officially change it cos I don't wanna update all my billing and identification information 😹 But yeah, it's not uncommon for people to just go by a pseudonym, artist handle, what have you. Feel free.
@@dirtypagan5793that actually sounds amazing, ofc I’ve learned to love my name but when I was younger I rlly wanted a lore unique name, I think more cultures should start doing that
yeah a lot of cultures change their names under various circumstances!! I'm a cis woman but I've always hated my name. I'm currently living under my preferred name and want to change it at some point! Humans should get at minimum one free name change, to use when reaching adulthood.
"Just because people exist doesn't mean you can't go outside and enjoy things." Truer words were never spoken, OT!
People existing does prevent going outside and enjoying things though. Like if you go outside and get run over that is not enjoyable. if you go to a park to get some quiet time in nature and there are people blasting music you hate on speakers and shouting that is not enjoyable. If you go out and get hatecrimed that is not enjoable. That's the exact thing that makes going outside and enjoying things impossible.
@@morgantrias3103 or they just have really bad social anxiety.
20:00
For those who don’t know, a lot of intersex people are assigned male/female despite not having exclusively male parts or female parts. A lot of the time this is because the intersex part is only internal, but looks normal external, and other times this is to make the child “normal” and try to make them less likely to be bullied over something they’re born with (this also results in mutilation of intersex babies in, again, an attempt to make them “normal.” A lot of this comes from a misplaced desire to help their children, but it is absolutely heartbreaking.)
This is actually huge. Like, there's a good chunk of folks that are born with both (in different levels), and that get mutilated when they are born. People are like, "THERE ARE 2 GENDERS, YOU EITHER HAVE A DICK OR A PUSSY.
My sibling in Christ, if it wasn't because of those mutilations, people with either or weirdly none would be hella more common; whilst still being rare.
And I'm saying this whilst having 2 friends that their families rejected surgery when they were born; and actually have both equipment downstairs,
It's also something the "anti child mutilation" crowd is 100% okay with
My mom is horrendously transphobic (and a bit homophobic), and these videos make me smile. Thank you, OT ❤
My favourite was the 8 Billion genders one because that's technically true. Since gender is a social construct, we all have our own unique perception of gender.
Perception of gender has never been stagnant. It differs per culture and changes over time.
And even within the same time periode and culture people can still have very different interpretations of it
Saying "gender is a social construct" is the equivalent of saying "I don't believe in hormones" or "I don't believe that mammals evolved reproductive instincts."
It's an idea that deserves to be in the garbage bin right alongside creationism.
@@AlexReynard”A social construct is a concept that exists not in objective reality, but as a result of human interaction.“
Hormones and reproductive instincts are not social constructs, instead being in objective reality, so how can either of those be related to the wide spectrum and social construct that is gender? One thing which is In objective reality is biological gender/sex, which is also a spectrum, not just male or female, seeing as intersex people exist. So if you were talking about gender, then your point doesn’t make sense, and if you were talking about biological gender/sex then it does make a bit more sense on its own, but is not at all related to what you replied to. Are you able to maybe specify a bit more what you are talking about?
@@jtduruss "Hormones and reproductive instincts are not social constructs, instead being in objective reality, so how can either of those be related to the wide spectrum and social construct that is gender?"
Gender has ALWAYS been primarily biological. It's only been since around the 1960s that academics started saying it was cultural, not biological. And now that idea has gotten so widespread that people think of gender as primarily cultural, and biology has nothing to do with it.
That's equivalent to, 'Height is obviously a social construct. So what are tape measures even for?' The thing we are measuring has always objectively existed, even if the word we use for it has drifted away from its original definition.
"One thing which is In objective reality is biological gender/sex, which is also a spectrum, not just male or female, seeing as intersex people exist."
You are mistaking the existence of a birth defect- a fluke- as a third gender. It's not something new on the spectrum; it's something going wrong. Sex/gender is binary because it exists for purposes of reproduction. Egg+sperm=baby. Intersex people do not fit anywhere in that equation. It's nature fucking up, same as when people are born with a hereditary disease. No fault of your own, but you're going to live your life like this. Nature is amoral and indifferent to our suffering.
Eye color is a spectrum. Hair color is a spectrum. Because those are secondary characteristics not bound to a purpose, so there can be more variation in them without it affecting our natural selection. A defect in the reproductive system is a much bigger deal.
To put it another way, the soft serve machine dispenses chocolate and vanilla. You can mix the two, but that's not a spectrum. It's just the only two flavors you have, in different proportion. And if the machine starts dispensing water one day, that's not a new third flavor, it means the machine is broken.
To make it even simpler, color is a spectrum, because there are many colors on it. Sex/gender is grayscale at best.
@@AlexReynard Gotta admit, when I was writing my comment I was completely just not thinking about what amount of people that are/aren't identifying with what they were assigned at birth. It completely flew over my head that the majority of people are identifying how they were assigned at birth, and how that is most definently related to hormones and what not. I completely get your point here. Though culture is still at least partially related to gender in my opinion, but its more related to how people see the mental part of gender and how people present outwardly more then anything else.
I honestly forgot about how being intersex is a defect in biology and just not supposed to happen. That does just make sense and I dont know how I forgot. I was thinking about how you need repopulation in evolution but not about how intersex people are involved in that I guess.
One other thing I want to say (which I for some reason completely skipped in my first comment) is looping back to the "Gender is a social construct". This sentance for me (and I'm assuming others as well) is talking more about the cultural and mental parts of gender and the norms surrounding them, and less about the hormones and other stuff that can effect it. That was the entire reason I started writing the first comment and yet I just completely forgot to put it in.
Anyways I would like to say one more time that your points do make sense and reminded me of stuff so thanks for that, and have a good whatever time it is where you are.
The funniest thing about the 'gender reveals are pointless' post at 0:52, is 1. The person who started the gender reveal thing regrets it, and only did it because she'd had a bunch of miscarriages and she was celebrating getting past the safe mark. and 2. Her child came out as trans (she is incredibly supportive).
As far as I knew, her child wasnt trans, just GNC? Which the mum still pointed out in the post about it as part of the reason the stereotypical emphasis on gender is so silly. But perhaps my info is out of date and they came out as trans more recently?
@@_.-_ Doesn't GNC technically fall under the trans umbrella? That's partially what the white represents, if I'm recalling correctly.
@@voidbreather7405 the white stripe is for nonbinary people, though gender nonconformity can also be a part of that, and I don't think anybody (except for maybe some exclusionists, who have a problem with everyone anyway) would have an issue with a GNC person who doesn't necessarily consider themself otherwise trans still identifying somewhat with it and wanting to use the flag. Some GNC ppl may feel they fall under the trans umbrella, and some may rlly feel they don't - some nonbinary people don't even identify with the word trans (that's why ppl often say trans and nonbinary, bc some do and some don't. Broadly speaking, nonbinary falls under the trans umbrella, but it's also complicated and personal). There's also the matter of GNC trans people too - as in, like a binary trans butch, or a trans man who likes to wear makeup and skirts, so I wouldn't necessarily say the white stripe ISN'T for those sorts of things, you know? But as is, all ive heard, and all im seeing upon searching it now to double check, is that the stripes were intended to represent transmascs, transfemmes, and those outside of the binary.
Sorry for the exhaustive response. TL;DR - kind of. It's technically for nonbinary people, but it's not necessarily wrong for gnc people to identify with it (and transness in general, if they aren't otherwise nb/binary trans) either, I'm not a cop, least of all a gender one
It’s not pointless, there are intersex individuals, but no "transgender" individuals, just people seeking attention, wanting to fit in, or going through a tough time. If you don't agree then I can prove it to you
@@Luz-he1uo I see that youve made some transphobic comments, which is actually kinda funny considering the fact that you have an owl house pfp
As a man dating a transmasc, trans memes always make my day
You and your boyfriend sound like great people!
@@michellelopez2170 thank you. I'm sure you're a great person to.
Ditto as a gal with an awesome transfemme gf!
@@PalisadePerytonDitto as a transgal with a gorgeous, beautiful, lovely transgal of my own. I love her so dearly...
i always forget transmasc means they turned into a boy instead of it meaning they havent came out of the closet yet but you just can tell at first
The whole "you're not allowed to call me cis" thing sounds such an awful lot like (I don't know if this is just here in Brazil) those veiled racists who get offended by being called white, or insecure homophobic men who all-out curse at people who call them hetero.
7:51 omfg I love this guy. He infiltrated conservative gatherings and stuff and pretends to be conservative so he can use their logic to either show how stupid they are or to get them to support good causes
Edit: Someone asked, his name is Walter Masterson so you don't have to open the replies
Wait what’s his name?
@@noia-43 Walter Masterson
@@wieldylattice3015 thanks
Omg I think I've watched him
@waltermasterson
Ive never really understood changing rooms, like am I supposed to be comfortable changing in front of someone because we have the same gender? Cant we just have stalls?
Fr like just because we all have the same gender dose not mean we’re comfortable taking our clothes off in front of them, we aren’t that close most of the people in that room don’t even know each other and you want them to be comfortable changing in-front of them, he’ll no they didn’t even allow the girls to change it the bathroom stalls that were there
I can’t imagine how terrible it would be to have had something like ( you know..) happen to you and then have to show your body to tones of people, even if nobody is looking it would still be absolutely horrible and also for people who are insecure about their bodies
Sure it would be as traumatizing but still it would be horrible for them
Wouldn’t*
same bro like i don’t even feel comfortable changing by myself why tf would i be better off with strangers
Fun fact: My mom is in a bible study group, and one of the subjects they talked about was debunking some of the verses Christians use in said bible to fight against homosexuality. For instance, I vaguely remember my mom telling me and the rest of the household family over dinner about how one of the verses speaks ill of two guys having an affair, a relationship between *brothers.* “Ah yes, those harmless transgender brothers are such a big problem, but not the fact that they share the same mother and would share the same children if they were opposite genders. In fact we encourage them to make babies *as siblings* since we’d rather them be heterosexual!”
Wtf
alright but hear me out, i'm a christian but i'm still trans. i'm not going to change who i am for what i believe and i'm not going to change what i believe for who i am. now THIS. this is just..?
@@nostalgcis Hey, I hope what I said didn’t hurt your faith or anything worse
@@iamanunus9141 no dont worry you're good! i just thought its funny how people try to harm other communities with badly constructed segments of their faith xd
A good GOOD chunk of Christian story is filled with religious people of power using said religion to their own advantage, specifically kings that forced the churches to do their biding in basically indoctrinating the population to make them more easily exploitable or straight up taking all of the donations they gathered to further fulfill their riches?
Yeah, there’s plentiful of examples of bad people using religion to their advantage both in ancient story and modern times, I had seen many stories of many religious leaders doing some rather very VERY illegal stuff using their positions of religious power as fronts to their evil schemes
Which is all pretty ironic since doing this exact thing is considered one of the worst offenses you can to do God lmao
i remember i was just chilling at school and a kid bumped into me and one of their friends were like "say sorry to her!" and another was like "her!? that's clearly one of those _train genders_ !" and that honestly made my whole day 😭😭
Shout out to that one McDonald’s worker who wanted to misgender me so badly that she asked my dad what was my real gender
My dad replied, “uh medium fries?”
🥳❤️
LMAO, THAT'S SO STUPID
Edit: context btw, the girl dedicated to misgendering the person is stupid
Turns out my dad thought she said “what is their real order” 💀
The most delicious of genders
My gender is also McDonald's medium fries. My pronouns are lovin/it.
@@kannonsircy7748 lol
My discovery as a trans woman was kinda weird and very late in my life (I was 29). I went from being hateful to discovering myself. For over 2 decades of my life I was always taught to hate gay and trans people because I was told they had mental illnesses or were insane. For a long time I held that mentality that I couldn't be trans or gay. One time when I was in the hospital for trying to off myself I was seeing a psychologist and I was explaining my situation to him and how I felt and he goes "It sounds like you may have gender dysphoria." I froze and thought hard about it going through my memories in my head for like a week before I realized I really was trans and gay. After I accepted that I felt so much better all the bitterness and hate I felt went away and felt more like myself then I ever had before. All my depression and downer mood went away. Life has never been better for me since then.
I'm glad you managed to find who you are, wishing you success and joy!
So happy for u💜
I felt uncomfortable in my own body until a couple of years ago, at 28, I was like oh I wasn't a man this whole time and now i can see myself in the mirror
So happy and proud of you for growing as a person! part of growing up is breaking out of the ideas you were taught and deciding for yourself what's right and what's wrong. It's honestly sad how many trans people try to commit suicide. Nearly half of all trans people who consider suicide (84% i think). Still, so proud of you!
I had a kinda similar journey, I was a week away from turning 30 when I googled asexual to win an argument with a friend, the realization when I learned about the aroace community was massive. I took 2 weeks to reevaluate my life and all the had I had been raised to believe and rejected it. That's how I found this community, I was looking for someone to explain all the things I didn't understand about being queer and I found OT and have become such a better/nicer/more accepting person.
The homosexual in church one was too relatable, I’ve been trying to find a local queer friendly church for years and the closest I’ve found was 3 hours away and it was magical but it’s too expensive to get there regularly
Do they offer online worship services or study groups? A lot of churches started doing that during the Covid lockdowns, mine included (we're a United Methodist Reconciling Ministry). I know it's not the same as meeting in person, but it's still a great way to stay connected with people. Good luck in your search!
still stuck at my church 😅 only queer there. it's not awful, but it's definitely isolating. i heard there used to be more gays, but they've all stopped going because of hostility... people are pretty nice to me so either people have changed, i'm making a difference, or i'm being delusional and being "one of the good ones". either way, people aren't outwardly homophobic (to my face at least) and i'm doing my best to stay strong in my faith so ✌️
sadly it makes sense why theres little to no queer friendly churches
I don't go to a queer-friendly church, but I'm eternally grateful to the other two queer people who go to my church, it's so comforting to know that someone there doesn't hate the identity that I have to keep secret
Yeah seriously. Luckily for me, there's a church I go to that has a lesbian pastor. I mean, the other church I go to is as homophobic as heck, but at least there's one...
A little thing abt me I personally like to put cisgirl or ciswomen in my bio to hopefully show I'm a straight ally
"Cis was invented by the woke media!"
Me, who has basic chemistry knowledge: Are you sure about that?
What if someone doesn't identify as cis, do you label them cis regardless? And are they transphobic?
@@rules7317 If you don't identify as cis you are trans, since that is a binary (unlike gender, which is a spectrum). Cis mean you identify with the gender you were assigned at birth fully, while trans means you don't. Identities that fall under transgender also include genderfluid and agender.
@@rules7317 do you want the real answer or are you just continuing to argue about a prefix/adjective you refuse to understand?
@@UnkillableJay i understand what the term cis means but I reject the label and I dont want it used when talking about me. Just like I understand what the term woman and man means.
@@UnkillableJay also, I asked a question im not arguing.
I hacked a homo/transphobes facebook and made some changes. I added a pride boarder to her pfp, gave her pronouns, set her status to widowed/single, and made her employer planned parenthood
i joined a nazi steam group once and when the old admin left i got randomly assigned admin status, so it got rebranded into an lgbt furry group.🦊
Amazing job! Always nice to have friendly/pride supporting hackers! :)
@@foxdancemedia based
@@foxdancemedia Hah! Good one!
@@foxdancemediahell yeah.
Its amazing how many people hate being called cis. Like its someone getting mad for you calling them straight
What about straight people who dont identify as cis do you still call them cis?
@@rules7317 wouldn’t that mean they’re trans if they’re not cis? They’re just straight trans people then.
@@rules7317I don't think those words mean what you think they mean
@@rules7317no, Because they don't mean the same thing lol. Cis refers to sex, straight refers to gender preference.
@@pennyforyourthots straight is a gender?
Fun Fact:A god in greek and roman mythology named Apollo dated male and female humans😊
"You already have a flag, it's the American Flag. It's a symbol that it's for ALL people."
*cries in portuguese*
As a Canadian, this sort of thing would make me throw hands. Too many Americans think we're also Americans
We use ego as a substitute for solutions to our country's problems.
I mean, it's kinda true. America is SUPPOSED to be a nation for safe asylum and to be who you want to. That's the ideal anyway
Cries in Mexican
@@Jado_hahano no no no ur American now!!!
I used to have a homophobic neighbor that would say “whenever a rainbow is out a gay person got married” and it was so funny to me everytime because bro tried so hard to be homophobic and just failed 💀
Omg 😭😭
It’s so funny how homophobes/transphobes only jokes are
“AAHHH RAINBOWS”
Or
“EWW PRONOUNS”
And like half the time they’re not even slightly offensive 😭
@@NearsightedNarhwal Well it should not be offensive it should just show the trans/gay ppl the point😭
@@Slider450 what point ? =>
@@LadyTamayosNo.1fangirl Well the point is that baby in the womb cant be they/them for an example. All thoose pronouns YOU choose when you get past 18. Before that its either a “pole” or a “hole”
@Slider450 oh ok , thanks for explaining
Who cares what 007’s gender is, we’re all here for the thousands of national and international law violations committed under that callsign
Also the thousands of missed child support payments.
@@tjenadonn6158 Nah you just call them your nephews/nieces/niblings and hope nobody notices. Or at least hope that the intended audience of James Bond Jr doesn't.
Just make 007 the car. Cut out the human middleman.
@@bazzfromthebackground3696someome tried that once.. lot of weird legal battles came of it.
@@bazzfromthebackground3696literally the plot of cars 2
as a trans women that can never manage to find a video thats recent/good enough to actually comment, i am very bad with timing
Same, I'm just there like seeing what people did and I was not there to participate lmao
The whole 'no gays in the church' thing is kind of an interesting comic because that whole deal started when priests were raping children and christians/catholics thought "oh it must be because gay"
But now in the future, and that people have been openly talking about the churches issues, gay people are welcomed because gay people were never the problem. If anything, being open about sexuality helps educate and thus protect children.
It's funny how the protect the kids crowd never stop sending them to churches
Jews and Muslims are also anti-gay. Not just Christians
@stopgbtdid the ‘I’ stop working on your keyboard?
@@elcactusdelamuerte506No as they used it
@@TotalDramaHarold they used a 'j' instead of an 'i'
Elliot page being called male makes me so happy. Glad he’s getting the recognition he deserves.
I'm sad he wasn't in the Barbie movie he'd have been a great Ken (out of the many)
@@falconeshield true
@@falconeshield Sorry, I've not seen the film and not planning on it, are there multiple Ken? Are they Keni? (Like Cacti?)
@@Roadent1241 yes
@@Roadent1241 yes! There's also Allan! There's only one of him!
Because parents naming kids can suck, I think everyone should get one free legal name change in their life that they can redeem any time after their 18th birthday.
name changes should be free*
@@copenwiththestress No, because people in the government have to update all of their data systems on you. That costs time and money.
@@way2op4u_lol I guess that's understandable, how about one free change every like... Five years?
Changing my first name didn't cost anything, but it cost to get rid of my middle name, so guess Finland technically has that going for it
@@dark7859 No. Just no free name changes at all. Also who is getting name changes every 5 years 😂
"More dads equals less addiction!!!"... unless dad is an addict.
The best part of being a cis woman, is seeing trans women who are just completely ecstatic about something, like “skirt goes spin!!!!” and realising that, yes, skirt does “go spin!!!” and as a cis woman, I don’t have to be embarrassed or feel childish for rediscovering that joy! Most cis women learn the fact that “skirts go spin!!!” as small children, and then, when we get older, we’re told we can’t spin, cuz it’s “childish”, but trans women are doing spins with such glee and wonder, that it’s made me realise that I, as a cis woman, can do it too! That type of unrivalled, childlike, joyous wonder has no age, and wether you’ve just discovered it, or rediscovered it, it’s always valid!!! Also, it’s not a “only women go skirt spin!!!”, it’s a “if you’re a person who wants to make your skirt go spin, and you’re wearing underwear, you can do it!”. Might wanna do it alone or with people who are okay with it, if you do it without underwear.
And no, kilts are not skirts, and I’m not knowledgeable enough about the topic to say wether a kilt can go spin, so I’ll leave that to the experts!
I dont think it would be wise for kilts to go spin, since the tradition is to wear nothing underneath...
I love your comment.
@@birdbrainiac that’s why I clarified that you shouldn’t spin commando unless it’s in private and only with people who are okay with it X’D Of course thongs are a bit of a grey area there too X’D I’d add those under commando, just in case X’D
i’m nonbinary but brb gonna buy a skirt so i can spin
While the tradition *is* to go commando underneath, yes kilts *can* go spin, the physics is nearly identical. Clothes go spin!
YOU ARE SO COOL.
In this comment section, we provide love and support to all LGBTQ people, because we are deliberate allies
I may have misread love as lore...
@@R_violi the LGBT lore grows. As the Asexuals invade denmark and the Trans people get more confused about which bathroom to use according to the straights. will the pansexuals ever walk into a kitchen normally? the answers to all the questions will be answered, as the journey continues...
@@R_violigive me your minecraft lore kind sir/ma'am/human
@@jeonginsbabybreadcheeks Basalt is a rock that contains iron, while obsidian contains little. Soul sand allows you to make basalt from lava + water. This means souls contain iron, as evidenced by vexes.
Tf2 better
Once a guy told me that his sexuality was “normal” (aka straight). I responded by congratulating him and making sure he knew I fully supported him.
Lol nice
I mean sometimes people just need that support. Its good to encourage others no matter their sexuality
unless.. you where doing that to spite him... then well hope your future builds up better karma..
@@Luluthebluemoonyet for calling them the asshole were "homophobic" 🙄
There's a comedian in the UK called Francesca Martinez. She also happens to have Cerebral Palsy. I like to quote her statement: "Normal is a setting on a washing machine."
@@darksquall I love that lol
Booster seat? My ultimate dream is to be a streamer or something but ever time I go live, I’m a couple centimeters shorter or taller than last time and see who notices
A bit ago there was an incident in London, ON where a group of teens managed to grab the pride flag off of the flagpole and burn it. Later when they got convicted of a crime, people thought that it was because of the fact they burned the pride flag. People were mad that that happened, because burning flags in Canada is protected under free speech. But what some people didn't realize was that it wasn't their flag. They had committed vandalism, and that was why they were convicted of a crime, not because they burned the pride flag.
I’ve seen a lot of people say stuff under this one video I found like "if they burned the American flag no one would care" and like it’s not a crime because of the flag, it’s because it’s a persons property that isn’t yours
That's happened a few places in Canada, and it's like... Arson on schoolgrounds, starting a fire during a fire ban, and stealing a flag are all still things you can get charged for.
At first I was confused, but then realised it was Fake London.
WOOOOOOOOOO YEAAAAAAAAAAAH BABYYYYYYYYY ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST
@@TrueMaximumOutput What
"THERE IS NO GENDER! Only HONK!" -Jammidoger 🤣🏳⚧🏳🌈
Honk, honk said the little dinosaur one day!
no gender, only chaos
iconic
as a trangender dude living in a VERY transphobic (but somehow NOT homophoic... yeah idk) household, these videos make me feel a lot better about myself. if i came out to my family i would be kicked out and i would have nowhere to go. i thought i could come out to my friends but they didnt except me... they just looked at me a laughed... so thanks for these fun videos! they make me laugh everytime :) I also just donated $5 to the LGBTQIA+ fundraiser!! ( i would donate more but im broke rn LMAO)
Yeah, these videos are really fun to watch. Also sending some virtual hugs my fren
@@Luminous1Sky tysm 🥲💝
Supportive hugs to you. I hope you are able to get to a better situation someday. Till then, know that we accept you for who you are.
Please accept some mama hugs.
💙💗🤍💗💙
I'm really sorry you're in that situation. Sending love!
the fact that these posts are more supportive than my parents
7:53 I actually like what she is explaining. The idea of being "me" gendered and if a bunch of people vibe in my direction we can be a group of "women" genders, but the only one who gets to define me is myself.
20:57 I want this picture to be the basis of a really cute romantic comic please. Anyone, this offer is open.
right? like, im cis but I still actually love the idea of everyone having their own gender.
Omg, the "I'm not cis, I'm normal!" thing reminded me of an ex-friend of mine. When someone asked him "are heterosexual?" He responded with: "NO! I'M STRAIGHT! I'M A MAN!"
Some ppl are so dang insecure lmao😭😭
Don't they even know what heterosexual means? wtf
@@crypticlol I seems like it :/
Some people are so homophobic they don't even try to understand a single thing
One of my friends said something similar to that, he’s not homophobic or anything, he just didn’t know that heterosexual meant straight
@@01Hwd lmao
@@crypticlol yes
because some people unlike you arent chronically online
The reason I like the progress flag varient more than the "add more stripes" version is that it shows the difference between what the colors stand for. The rainbow part is about a sexual orientation, and the triangle part is about how one exists in the world (trans or POC). The fact they're together on the same flag sends the message "we're in this together" while the difference in how they're presented shows that they aren't the same thing (ie being trans isn't a sexual orientation). ...I hope that made sense outside of my head? lol!
I agree with you though, it's fine to prefer one over the other because it's just a flag, if you like an aesthetic roll with it!
It also preserves the original rainbow flag and doesn't feel like it's been tacked on.
I really like that design, and I really like the "original" one, but I think maybe I prefer the progress one because it feels like it includes me in general more? Like, the addition of trans colours... But I mean, everyone has their preference? And as long as it doesn't end up being a hateful bigot style tantrum, that's absolutely fine and normal?
ALso I really liked your explanation! It makes so much sense and I will definitely try to remember it to explain to others if I ever need to!
I just think the progress flag is extremely ugly lmao, pink, white, light blue, brown, and black do not look good against a rainbow background
@ChespinCraft I don't think it looks bad and I like the entire message of it so personally, I love it.
My only gripe with the progress flag is that, the more you add the more you exclude, y’know? In adding the trans flag it felt like it implied we _weren’t_ included on the rainbow prior. I know that most definitely was not the intention, but it just feels like this idea of “If we weren’t included before and now we are, does that mean some non-binary people still aren’t included? Are intersex people not included? Are asexual or aromantic people not included?”
I just like the idea that the rainbow on its own is there for absolutely everybody, as opposed to solely being for sexual orientation. I’m so sorry that this is sort of incomprehensible, but I do totally respect the use of the progress flag by those who prefer it, especially because it does actually serve a really good purpose of highlighting POC and trans people.
the name dolores is like a pair of high heels where youre very likely to break your ankles and die but if you pull it off you become god
My way of showing cis vs. Trans:
If i were to cisport myself, i would stay here.
Instead, I will transport myself, as you are insufferable, you (context needed for swear)
I'll actually cisport myself on this couch here for quite a while longer...
Transpoting myself is something I try to avoid, I'm lazy and I'm asocial (not antisocial, because I don't hate the idea of being social, but a-social, as in "I don't need social interactions to survive").
In fact I'm so asocial that I'm also Asexual and Aromantic.
I tried to do some mental gymnastics at some point. Then I realized that it's not necessary, trans men just being men and trans women just being women is both supportive and straightforward.
Although Star Trek's transporter technology is still beyond our reach, I've invented the next best thing: a cisporter.
You get in it, press a button, and you're still in the same place.
Yeah. Though, technically trans and cis have a connotation of being on one side of something, with trans technically meaning “across,” e.g. Cisalpine Gaul and Transalpine Gaul. Same as how cisgender refers to people who are on the side of gender the body they were born into reflect, and trans people are not.
I apologize for the random Latin tangent
I'm a trans guy but every time I see "Abolish Gender" I'm like "YEAAAAH! LETS GOOOO!💪🏼 NO MORE GENDER!" Lol
Also, Glamboni 🖤🏳️⚧️
OMG he has Pancake emotes???? 😍
The people with the stop sign saying "stop gender" I'd go up to them and tell "heck yeah, I'm a gender abolishonist too!"
Wait what lol. Gender is a biological construct not something we made up. Are you going to murder everyone on this planet? Yikes.
You don't need gender to be you. You always will be you. Gender just helps. You rule, dude!
now I’m just thinking about a 30-person all-dad polycule raising a single child
More dads! More dads! More dads!
M O R E D A D S
Webtoons comic in the making lmao
Does take a village to raise a child yknow.
*Laughs in commune*
I got a pic with Ron Perlman at comic-con and it’s one of my most prized possessions, I love that man
As much as I like accidental ally moves, I more like it when out of touch people still make genuine attempt to show support, like I know a local church who one pride put up a pride flag, but the rainbow was upside down, then this year they placed out a rainbow bench. it's little things like that that give me hope in people.
I went out yesterday and saw the progress pride flag on someone’s house, made me smile a lil.
I've seen a lot of people put the rainbow upside down. I seem to remember that being a lot more common a decade ago and it was seen as the Christian rainbow was red at the top, and the LGBT rainbow was red at the bottom, but that may have been me as a teen noticing patterns and making up my own reasons.
I was babysitting kids and on there was a "I support gay marriage" magnet on the fridge. Made me just a little bit more happy.
I'm really getting tired of the "they stole the rainbow from god" thing. How about you give Iris her skateboard back so that she can go deliver Sappho's party invite to Artemis and her huntresses! Or Heimdall his bridge back so his 9 mothers can go poly it up with Odin again! The rainbow has older roots then you, stop your nonsense!
Wait, Heimdall has 9 mothers?
I believe there are a bunch of gnomes that are quite happy, now that the rainbow is gone so you can't get to their pot of gold. 😁
The LGBT+ rainbow isn't even God's rainbow smh. They're two completely different things with different colours, shapes, blending and more.
@@kittehgoyou mean leprechauns
@@kubamcmillan3078 Yes!, omg am I going to be in trouble for mismythical creatureing now?.🤔
whats funny is that it was exactly THAT what i learned in biology class way back. my teacher said something along the lines of "in short, dna and chromosomes are so evolved and also complex it makes absolutely no sense to still categorize just in male and female since basically every 7 billion human being has their own gender." and my teenage brain took that and run with it and 2 months later i realized i was ✨trans✨
Yeah, same. Not only do DNA and chromosomes matter in terms of gender. There's a lot of mechanics in our bodies that control that (like hormones and the brain) but also sociocultural reasons. It's complex, it's interesting, and it's beautiful.
Holy shit I didn't actually know this fact thats so cool
Been a minute since ive come to this channel for entertanement. Glad i came back to this lol- best way to start the festive season haha!
I love rewatching OneTopics videos when I need reminding of good humans and goofy humans exist. So it is indeed a good way to start off all the winter festivities, and to refresh ourselves with after all the festivities have ended.
Let's try and make 2025 a better and more wholesome year.
🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️❤️🩹🕊☮️✊️
As an agender fellow who thinks that the world would be a lot better without gender, I’m so glad that so many people agree.
EDIT: Okay, I didn’t expect this comment to blow up. I do want to clarify that I’m being a little facetious here. I think people can have very positive experiences with gender, and I fully support that. I don’t actually think the immediate and complete abolishment of gender would be a good thing. There’s lots a nuance to deal with, which makes it beautiful in my opinion.
Also, to people saying that archeologists will identify my bones, 1) that’s sex, not gender. I am fully aware that I have a sex (I don’t have sex though, not for me). And 2):
I missed the part where that’s my problem.
as an unlabled gender he/any, I second
I'm nonbinary and I also agree that gender should be completely abolished.
While I do agree, I find pleasure in the societal aesthetic I like (girl). I support you fully!
Same no need to restrict and limit our identities, we can just be us no need to label that
As a cis man, people should just vibe with who they are and not restrict themselves with labels
Assigning a name at birth makes a certain amount of sense as your parents need to call you *something*, but yeah the way it’s treated as immutable by some people is really weird
Honestly, the concept of naming a child comes from the high amount of deaths at infancy and the belief that without a name the soul wouldn't be able to find its way to where it belonged (also prevalent in the Christian beliefs, interesting how that works), and because of how birth itself is one of the more dangerous things we go through during our lives (both giving birth and being born), hospitals are required to ask the parent for a name to call the child incase of worst case scenario (and to be better able to differentiate between children would there be cases of twins etc being born).
So it's not really about the parents needing a name to use to refer to the child either as they could use words child, spawn and few other words until they've figured out a name that'd fit the personality and temper of the said child (this is actually why the trope of a child being named or their name being revealed to them way after birth does exist in literature), it's the hospitals and the government needing this information to be able to tell how many people live in the country and whether or not the people can be sustained by the said country (hospitals needing the information to help the family incase of death and the after care of the mother as after birth depression is very common).
This has been useless trivia I know, but never get to use even in trivia games because it's never a question in them. Man... if only those games had more questions about oddly specific things I know of.
Oh also the reason why I know about this is because I wanted to know why I was named the way I was only to be told that I had been born way early, had very short life expectation and thus my parents were asked for a name and they quite literally went with the first name they could think of. 26 years later I am going by the name they both agreed on being the name they would've eventually agreed on had it not been such a dire situation. Life is wack and someone clearly cursed me to "live interesting times".
based pfp, based opinion
I told my trans daughter that a name is like a present given by your parents. If you don't like it return that shit and change it for something you like.
i asked my parents why they even named me *this name* and they said, "cause it sounded nice" THEY DIDNT EVEN KNOW WHAT IT MEANT and now that I've been thinking about a new name, they get all offended and confused, like "why would you want to change your name you have a perfectly good one (that they still don't know the meaning of)" like dude. chill.
@@RZDraws I had heard of the “souls need names” thing but I didn’t know about the rest of it. Adding that to my beloved Weird Trivia Collection
I knew a cis guy that changed his name just based on the sole fact that he didn't like the name he was given. It's not new that people change their name lmao
I know someone who changed name in the same gender for some reason and after figured out they weren't their agab.
Ironically for me it was a two for one deal. Change gender to no and get a good name
I’m new and late here but as a transguy, I also love all the “trans men are men and trans women are women” posts because it’s true. 🖤
I feel like it'd be really cool if people practiced the DnD elven tradition of choosing an "adult name" and being assigned a child name at birth. Maybe that's the genderfluid nerd in me, but it's nice to have the choice about what people call you because names have meaning and weight
That honestly would be super cool!
I don't know much about Dnd aside from what I learned in Stranger Things, but this actually sounds super cool!
nerd. i love it
I used to think the same thing (and still do) when I played DnD as a kid -- long before I came out as trans.
"Megatron"
I think "assumed gender" makes more sense than "assigned gender" anyway
Yeah, it quite makes a lot of sense. It did took me a second to understand that statement 😅.
Yeah but then it gives Some People more space to do the "did you just assume my gender?!" bit 🙄
@@somegeese Well, "assumed at birth" anyway...
@@somegeese I assume a lot of things.
And then I try to correct myself when I'm wrong.
The wrestling thing always confused me. I’m a cis girl and wrestled partially throughout school. And it was always a unisex sport. Sure we were in a small town but if a girl wanted to wrestle, they just let her know that you’d also be wrestling the boys. I was one of two girls on my team and while we practice with each other we also practice the guys and wrestle other guys in our region. So I don’t see what the problem is with anyone trans wrestling anyone because it’s a sport about strategical body movement. My school didn’t separate wrestling by gender until I already stopped wrestling in 2021, And a lot of schools didn’t have this problem until people got up in arms about Oh no somebody’s trans. Oh no someone wants to feel comfortable in their body.
For anyone curious by the end of my wrestling I was able to lift a 270 pound guy over myself and slam him to a mat. I’m 120 pounds myself and that’s what strategical body movement can do. Yeah, I really don’t understand the wrestling problem with this. Honestly I wish more sports were like that.
Pretty sure sports were only separated by gender in America when girls started outperforming the boys, and the men got jealous. Can't remember where I read it, but seeing your comment makes me want to look it up again.
Looking at professional scores, it really does NOT make the difference transphobes think it does.
Thats not 100% of the time but with most sports thats only person on person strategic advantige yep. another exsample from my school was with a girl who did football and she out preformed the boys so bad she wasnt alowed to play in high school thay siad it was becase of "biological differences that could get her hurt" but I think other wise well in some sports one gender may have an advantage it dosent change the effort and hard work they put in to be there let them be there.
The only reason to separate sports by gender is if you assume genders are equivalent to weight classes, which is something you can disprove by going outside and glancing at a few people.
@stopgbt ok lol. go you I guess, you're not making a difference by commenting this everywhere 😄
5:36 WHAT ARE THE VOCALOIDS DOIN HERE 😭
If my gender was represented by those little colored stick people it would end up looking like a biblically accurate angel. Genderfluid seems even more awsome now lol
All of us are just going to show up to church like "what's wrong isn't this what you wanted"
I'm picturing you as a ring of lines alternating between pink and blue, with maybe some extra colours peppered in for good measure. Does that sound about right?
I think I'm a blob that's infinitely squishy that's a color only mantis shrimps can see
I think mine would be a piece of void vaguely shaped like a humanoid
8:30 Walter Masterson is actually very much an intentional ally, he trolls conservatives and poses as a conservative for staged interviews. Very wholesome.
He has a great sense of humor
FINALLY SOMEONE ELSE SAYS IT I LOVE HIM SO MUCH
My mom was told there was a 75% chance I would turn out to be a boy, and yet she was convinced I would be a girl. I was born female but am transitioning to male.
So they were both right, technically 😅
congrats c:
Those doctors were playing 5D chess all along
You pulled the ultimate mindfuck
Feel bad for your mom
@@player70477 imagine having someone’s gender identity effect you personally
My definition of being a man: Being respectful, not touching ANYONE unless allowed to, not trying to roof-ee a girl at the club, things like that.
Keep it up pal, you're a good person :)
@@sekritdokumint9326 thx. I also forgot to add "identifies as male" to that, but that's kinda implied