@@OneTopic Scp agent white fox here and I’ve gotta say you are amazing oh wait I just revealed I work for the scp foundation on UA-cam again (In the background) O5-6 “SERIOUSLY THIS IS THE FIFTH TIME” me “sorry O5-6”
There actually IS a difference, in the first one she admits that she's in a toxic relationship, because she literally can't talk with anyone of the male gender
I thought it meant “girl” as in an immature person and “woman” as in a mature one. so like if you’re immature and new to relationships you would stay in a toxic one, but if you’re mature about it you just block them and leave. basically my interpretation was “only real women don’t stay in toxic relationships”
It’s this. In the first example, an immature “girl” is not confident in her own agency, and has to refer to a (possibly nonexistent) boyfriend to reinforce that she is unavailable. In the second example, a self-confident, self-actualized “woman” feels strong and safe enough to say no on her own behalf, and remove (block) the irritant.
I think it implies that the first one makes an excuse. But honestly, both are valid ways of getting someone off your back. It can be really hard to constantly feel like a villain just because you don’t want to get hit on.
Something that I think about often is that in The Addams Family, Morticia and Gomez are portrayed as a married couple who love and support each other unconditionally and are in a very healthy relationship because the show wanted to portray the family as the opposite of "normal" and at that time it was very popular for married couples on tv to constantly fight and/or have miscommunications
I can totally understand this in the context of the '60s (the original series). Being on one another's level as equals was subversive as hell. It fucked with established gender roles, and established gender roles were _sacred._ Remember, they had _fucking won World War 2._ Bitching and quarreling, double standards, all of it was considered a small price to pay for being the kind of real man and real woman that could fill the roles of a husband and a wife that society had in mind.
As a woman that "Independent woman = BAD" thing is "This person needs to trap their future partner in the relationship because they already know they won't choose to stay" and makes anyone with a brain cringe. Believe people when they tell you who they are.
Exactly, these people are more than likely insecure, and can’t understand the concept that just because someone goes against what you say, or doesn’t talk to you for a day, doesn’t mean they don’t love you. They want a mindless girl who’s a complete pushover, that will almost never say no😂
“when you’ve been dating for 6 years and he still hasn’t proposed” girl you can propose. i’ve never understood why the woman can’t propose to the man, that makes no sense
Kinda reminds me of that group of Spanish people I talked with, I accidentally said "I love the taste of humans" instead of "I like you people" And they were very nice about it, But they couldn't NOT teach me how to say "Yeehaw handsome cutey, let me ride you tonight." I have since forgotten how to say that, But at least I know how to say "I am (and always will be) an airplane."
Peruse r/pointlesslygendered to buy funny-cringe joke gifts to your trans friends 😂 I didn’t have the money to buy it but I showed my trans-fem friend that I tried to buy them “women-beer: the beer for women” and we both died laughing
If I had a nickel for every time I saw a 'Super Straight' take an LGBT+ comic and completely twisted its message for their own agenda, I'd have two nickels which isn't a lot... ...But it's horrific it happened twice, right?
"Modern dating is impossible for men like me" is just another way of saying "I can't use women as sex objects/slaves/incubators anymore! And it makes me mad that I can't own them as property!"
Its an issue for them cuz they're stuck in the 1800s. I guess they haven't heard the news that women are now considered human beings. But it's not their fault they just haven't received the telegraph
As someone who is a straight man (but not to worry, I'm not the super kind). I love being the little spoon and can't stand the taste of beer! Screw gender stereotypes!
That girl who publicly asked her boyfriend why he hadn’t proposed to her gave me second hand anxiety, could you phucking imagine being like that?? I would shrivel and die!!!
I'm pretty romantic, but tbh the only reason I'd ask someone to marry me is "yo, wanna save taxes together?" And to make sure we can visit each other in hospital etc. when something happens. There's still so much stuff that depends on your marital status, but my love for them is not amongst it.
I want an update from the guy whose friends called his flat "too feminine," because I bet good money they mysteriously always insisted on hanging out at his place after that
I love when straights/super straights recolour a comic, because you can always be certain that the situation they are saying happened did NOT happen, ever.
I have literally never seen a woman online or irl claim she's super straight, in my experience they have always been straight dudes who think all trans women look like really low effort drag queens, and don't know trans men exist.
Make up scenario, get triggered when someone calls you out for it. Generalize an entire group as the perpetrator then whine about cancel culture to the echo chamber that is politics in extreme today. Rinse and repeat until you get famous for having "controversial" opinions. Sound familiar?
@@jossebrodeur6033 that's the point, no originality and certainly no self awareness is found where these people congregate. Anyone who doesn't want you to think or ask why isn't gonna be good for you.
Cmon man, is it really fair to say that a straight guy could always end up saying some really effed up shit like "I can fix you" when the person is saying no and that no other gender or people with other orientations are capable of doing things like this that shitty people just do in general. I got recommended this video, so yeah I'm an outsider who probz isn't welcomed here, but don't you think you guys are being a little bit heterophobic if not extremely biased? If the comic originally depicted a straight guy acting like a jerk pressuring an ace woman for sex when she was saying no then is it really out there to say that sometimes a transwoman might act this way to a lesbian, another ace woman, or a woman who just want to date a cis male? Or are women in these scenarios supposed to be told to "just suck the dick, otherwise you're being a bigot" cuz that sounds pretty rapey if you ask me.
I had a dude start hitting on me and for some reason thought giving me a talk about how women over 25 are unattractive, old, used up, And so on. Was a complement to me? Like, "women are terrible! But not you" the pleasure I got from telling him I am a 32 year old lesbian was far better than anything he could give a woman. (Guy looked genuinely shocked that I didn't look like a wrinkly old grama)
@@SartorialDragon Also the ones that talk about how they are a nice guy, and complain that women only want to date jerks. Completely oblivious that they have it backwards: a _self-professed_ "nice guy" is projecting an insincere facade, while those "jerks" he disparages are treating women like actual humans and speaking with them honestly.
I might complain about how difficult it is to date women from time to time, But that's mainly me venting about the fact that there's very little competition in the gay men category compared to the straight women, So for every match I have to sift through a lot more women who have absolute deal breakers in their profile then men with similar profiles. Resulting in a lot of pleasant exchanges on one end and a perceived lack of interest on the other.
Yeah. Putting other women down and then backhandedly "complimenting" me is not a compliment, it just tells me you're judgemental and mean. It doesn't make me feel special, it makes me feel like if i change at all or get older (which is unavoidable) that you'll think I'm disgusting too. Why tf would anyone think that's flattering? Edit: directed at the gross man, not OP, just in case it wasn't obvious.
that's beyond disgusting to pervert and demonize a trans person (or rather the whole community) by using an asexual comic. Its like next level lgbtq+ hatred.
@@wingy6060 the plagiarism is akin to thinking that saying 'butt' is saying a swear word. Like very minor in my mind compared to the hate crime that was made. I just feel bad that they didn't really change the signature of the original artist. Having your name tied to a butchered and corrupted version of your work can scar you.
The passive aggressive couple had me just laughing. I was with my bf for over 6 years, he didn't propose, so I proposed myself, and he said yes. We've been married just under 2 years, and I'm so glad I asked. If she wants it so bad, then she should do it herself.
I mean, it's totally fair to not feel comfortable doing it yourself. I wouldn't want to propose, because I just don't feel comfortable with it. I want my partner to ask me, and I'm sure plenty of men feel the same as I do and want to be the ones to ask. Obviously this girl doesn't feel comfortable asking, and it seems like the boyfriend has reservations, anyways. Unfortunate situation.
I may be a trans asexual lesbian, but straight people being wholesome is nice. P.S. that "superstraight" comic that was just a hateful plagiarism of a wholesome ace comic hurt me on a lot of levels. Thanks for the cleansers
Regarding the women being the big spoon thing, my partner absolutely loves being the little spoon even though he's bigger than me. He says it makes him feel wanted and safe.
I'm 5 foot and the person I'd like to be with is 6 foot and wider than me... I know they enjoy being the little spoon. I don't know how I'm going to do this lmao
When I get hunk of healthy masculinity, OT is one of the first people I think of. He’s masculine and still has compassion and kindness for everyone, and isn’t afraid of appearing feminine. I think that’s the essence of true masculinity.
Honestly, I think I started watching his videos because he reminds me of my fiance in the sense that they're not afraid to stand up for humanity, and like doing silly voices. Jamie too, he's really wholesome. And funnily enough, my fiance proposed after we were together for over 6 years, and I'm not taking his name, nor does he make me be the small spoon. I really appreciate when people don't force gender roles on others. I've seen that way too much before, so anyone I get that vibe from gets my respect. Masculinity doesn't mean being assertive and dominant 100% of the time.
@@NonaMoreau i mean not really, femininity is by all means the opposite of masculinity. You cannot be masculine while being feminine, the very idea of it is contradictory.
As the creator of Aces Wild that 'superstraight' recolour still makes me want to vomit with rage. Edit: aww, and thank you OT for saying my work is wholesome ^w^
@@rivahoukes1554 I get that, the premise is “literal Neonazis created an ‘identity’ to try to co-opt at least part of the LGBT+ movement for transphobic purposes”, but my initial reaction to your comment was literally just “WHY IS THIS FITTING?! IT’S DISGUSTING!”
Couples are couples. There were these two in my class last year, they were dating, their desks one behind the other, I sat near one of them. When the school year started i found out they broke up. Sorry for randomly bringing them up but it feels so weird and unrealistic that those two broke up, they were so cute.
I actually love how this video jumped around from toxic posts to wholesome posts and just new people and new things you wanted to share with us, OT. It was a blast from start to end!
The guy in the "He hasn't proposed yet." tiktok really needs somebody to ask him to blink twice if he's in a hostage situation... because he sounds like a hostage.
That Andrew Tate bit is a surprising amount of clarity and understanding from him, and is a notion many of his fellow chauvinists don't understand: Nothing is more manly than two manly men making manly love.
The moment I saw Clark Kent hugging his son, I flipped out. Not because he's hugging his son, no. Because people literally took a picture from DC to attack this wholesome moment.
I remember in high school just hearing girls talking about their crushes and one would just casually talk about how she follows him when he isn’t looking…girl that isn’t quirky that’s how to loose a guy and tank your reputation. I really don’t know how these girls didn’t think about how creepy it would be if a boy was doing that to them and then stop.
For real, this is the weirdest ass shit I've ever heard of. If someone who had a crush on me said they'd been following me for a while watching me I'd 180° and flee
These are called “societal double standards,” and it’s the same reason women win 99% of custody cases in divorce and also get the alimony 99% of the time.
Fun fact about me that nobody asked for : Me and my straights friends went to pride once, and they asked me why i invited them if they were not queer, i told them "Because Pride is not only for Queer people, is for people to celebrate any type of love, sexual, romantic and platonic, it doesn't matter if you're straight, queer or trans, you deserve the right to love and to be loved, and i love you guys" So yeah some straights are Ok.
@@KougajiCalling Yeah, we were not able to go to pride this year, so we zoom called each other, and we talked about what we love about each other and what we love about ourselves, i love my friends.
9:35 "I don't *need* you, I *want* you" is one of the best things my partner ever said to me. I can't imagine how anyone could see that as a bad thing.
Loving someone out of choice and not necessity is not something thats crossed my mind as being that big a difference till now, yeah thats actually very sweet.
Someone told me that they said that to their partner which was theoretically sweet but they also described them doing so like the douchy hipster in community college writing classes who write barely disguised versions of themselves WOULD say such a thing. "You can be replaced with relatively little trouble to me. The fact that I haven't means that you're doing something right."
@@ashen_roses Oh haha, yeah, I see. But that's not something a real person would say to their lover - at least not in my world :-) For us it was more like: "Although I could definitely survive on my own, I choose to be with you because you enrich my life and I want to be a part of yours." Or something like that.
Yeah and it's funny how these language differences work sometimes, like is a male chicken called a cock(erel) because that's the word for penis and it indicates masculinoty, or is 'cock' a word for penis because it started out as the most virile (and aggressive) of birds? The peacock makes more sense if you know the female is called a 'peahen' - you're literally applying both the feminine *and* the masculine word for the chicken and adding 'pea' to it (though why on earth you would associate a bird that ostentatious with peas is anyone's guess)
Forgive me, please, but as a hyper-verbal individual who is also straight, romantic and hopelessly cynical, I only got hung up seeing Carlo and Sarah. What don't they understand about each other? What can they never really share? Does love just have to be simple all the time? Is it ever? And what happens when/if Carlo acquires English fluency? He won't exactly be the exotic mystery I assume Sarah fell in love with. Maybe they won't want to hear what the other one has to say anymore. Anyway, the cuteness, tho it's obviously there, is lost on me.
@@RatPfink66 I'm sorry this sounds more like projecting a bad view on a couple that is quite frankly minding their own business. As a person in a multilingual relationship myself it's just fun to share with each other the differences in languages and even coming to find out who certain words are the way that they are. Sure it might lose its novelty online, but these people seem to have found solace in each other, regardless of language barrier. I'm sorry you see this so cynically, I hope you find someone that you can find such joy with and broaden your horizons
Seeing what they did to that Aces Wild comic made me vibrate with RAGE! Those comics are some of the best ways I have found to help allo friends and family understand what it means to be ace.
It also pissed me off too. I'm allosexual, but Sally Vinter's work really helped me understand what being asexual is like. Seeing her work twisted by transphobes is really infuriating. It wasn't the worst thing this video showed (the Baby Shirts hold that dishonor), but it really made me angry.
The story of woman who wanted her boyfriend to propose was a f**kn roller coaster, she’s a nascar driver, they met when she was 14 and he was 18, and have dated for 6 years, when did they start? I have so many questions this has given me mental whiplash!
I know! They honestly both look really young to have been dating for 6 years. And depending on what ages they started dating... girl, there are laws about that! But the fact that she felt the need to film it and basically invite all sort of judging comments on the guy when he looked so miserable... a person mature enough to be married wouldn't go that route, I think. They'd privately ask the person whether the really have the same goals and ideas for the future. Like some of the others of today's items were so much more overtly vile, but she just gave really sus vibes.
I love how, in the end, it went from "wtf is wrong with straight people" to "aww, wholesome cute little tiktoks about cute little people, ESPECIALLY about this specific couple where this dude can't say so things and it's freaking cute af". I love OT and his wholesomeness
That's actually a great idea and a gift I'd accept, in that case it's pretty wholesome annnd kinda funny imo because I'm sure that wasn't the original intent of it but yeah... I'll take that and use it for good instead, thanks guys lmao
My interpretation of 4:10 based on my own experience and that of ppl around me: A "girl" uses having a boyfriend as an excuse to not have to outright tell you that she isn't interested, even if she doesn't actually have a boyfriend. It's often (if not always) self-protection, because the "no" comes from another guy and not from herself. A "woman" just straight up tells you that she is not interested and leaves you to deal with your emotions on the matter. But to say that one is a girl (= not mature) is some toxic shit, imo. While I am all for telling someone off honestly (harsh or gently, depending on how they approached you), in many cases you are putting yourself in danger by hurting their ego. Do what you gotta do to stay safe.
One time, my fiancé was on the phone with me while he was walking from his class in the middle of a storm and he saw a girl who couldn't get to her car because she didn't have her umbrella. He immediately told me to hold on and walked that girl to her car with his umbrella and told her to be safe on her way home. I was so proud of him in that moment, but there are toxic girls out there who said that he shouldn't have done that and that I should be mad at him?! For being a good person?!
"But making up a whole new sexuality just to exclude trans people is a little bit strange.." gosh I love Jamie hahah, the way he said that was perfect geuejgebee
@@awakarikatase If that was the case, Pan wouldn't... really have a reason to exist. That and thats the main difference I've seen from most Bi/Pan people.
the tiktoks of the couple 15:20-18:11 were so wildly uncomfortable! i felt so bad for him that she was using her platform to guilt-trip and shame him into proposal despite all that he's given ...and then she dropped the "we met when i was 14 and he was 18! 🥰" at the end and i've never felt more emotionally conflicted in my life😬
Ikr? And what the hell was with putting his whole information out there like "Oh yeah! He's recovering from quitting tobacco so like, give him a break guys! 🤪" Addiction can be a very sensitive topic for folks to talk to their loved ones about, let alone thousands or millions of complete strangers on the internet! It was not at all necessary for her to say all that, and it's probably harmful over-sharing like that which is the reason he hasn't married her.
@Starstar it's only a 4 year age difference, and she would have hit puberty around that time, 4 is about the bare minimum, although it's a stretched minimum.
No, but I actually have a sweet story about the "man birthday" card. When I went to university and transitioned and came out to my friends, for my first birthday being out I got one of those cards off my mate as a really jokey, on-the-nose way of being affirming. It was really sweet. I still have it 9 years later! 💜
Trans affirmation and maybe some healthy and explicitly not transphobic cis joking around (meaning stuff like getting your dad a Mother’s Day card or your cis female friend a “this is for manly men” gag gift in a context where everyone is comfy in their ID and with the jokes) are the only real uses for those over-the-top gendered products lol. I’d be lying if I said I haven’t bought Dr. Squatch and grinned at the intro email 😄
@@ApocalypticEmu Cut to my mom buying me (and my dad and brother) Dr. Squatch products for Christmas stocking stuffers like a month and a half after coming out as enby, my sister complaining about not getting any (got some other soap brand instead), and my mom saying that that's because "it's for men."
This myth of the rise of the single male is screwy. I'm nearly sixty. There's been just as many miserable disgruntled single men every decade of my life. The unwashed and unbrushed in stained clothing, reeking and stinking and asking "why won't you love me? I hate you!" It isn't new at all.
Its funny, you can say this about all of these hateful groups really, racist, homophobes, transphobes, they all want to pretend their a recent trend and that this is all evil anti critical thought stuff, and it's just like do you not remember just like 6-7 decades ago when it was common television to bash gay men and women, or further when it was common to bash African American men and women, and treat women like property, your opinions aren't new, their just way less acceptable now so now they get you into trouble,,, trouble that could be avoid if you stopped pretending that the world is a stagnant mass of unchanging reality, fun fact, our knowledge and understanding of everything changes every day, were in the process of redefining gender and sex on the biological level as we've learned just in the last few years that both things dont exist on binaries anywhere in the animal kingdom, even among those land mammals who do have sexual dimorphism, not to mention the fact it made global news that one of the last wild tribes of orangutan's are entering the stone age now and we may exist to see another ape species achieve intelligence to our level, I don't know how these facts would lead someone to want to keep clinging to outdated info, we have super computers in our pockets people, if the world was meant to stay stagnant we would have never even left the jungle ourselves let alone been able to see another species actively start heading towards a crash course with our own evolutionary path, so it's very much a "ugh you guys aren't special, your not new, you just keep saying the same thing your great grandpappy said just to a different demographic, this isnt new freethinking behavior like you say it is"
It's only different now because on the internet they can band together and there are parties that are interested in keeping them disgruntled for profit.
@@mjamin9124 yeah, mental is so easy to mess up, Statistically speaking I'm more likely to go insane than not, But living life in spite of that fact just feels so much better Than spending your days worrying about your future.
My (unnamed) friend just told me that the girl he just started dating dating is mad at him because he experimented with dudes 5 years ago and wasn't "upfront about it. The straights are indeed a strange group.
Had a straight guy told me that it was super hot that I was a transman ... but that I needed to never get a d!ck because he wouldn't ever be touching it or interacting with it and I was like "Well as someone with literally no interest in you, that was never going to happen anyway" and he was SO MAD that I was taking away his fiction right to touch a part I didn't have. Like he didn't even argue that until that he should have me or my lady bits - no no no, he was mad that I was denying him the right to deny touching my currently non-existent manhood.
The '6 years and he hasn't proposed yet' girl makes me physically cringe. Good on the guy for being clear about that she's bothering him with it, but unfortunately she doesn't seem to get it
She was literally like "so many of you are being mean to my boyfriend and you shouldn't because he's the best" THEN WHY ARE YOU SLAGGING HIM OFF ON SOCIAL MEDIA??! Like she's clearly doing it to be passive aggressive towards him
& then she started listing all the things they're doing together (owning a house & businesses), & I started wondering why exactly she's so hung up on marrying him.
I feel like some girls forget that THEY CAN PROPOSE THEMSELVES like, if it’s two girls in a relationship, are they gonna wait cuz there’s no man to propose? No. It’s not a big deal girl 😂
Okay BUT, knowing lesbians (and being one) Lesbians will literally be living together FOR YEARS and do intimate couple things, and just assume that they see each other as “just friends” Proposing is literally impossible if you cant even fathom that the woman you LIVE WITH wants to be with you
On that "difference between a girl and a woman" one, whatever the intent was, what *I'm* getting from it is that it's a sign of maturity to distance yourself from people because it's *your* choice and not because someone is making you do it. The girl is being controlled; the woman is doing it herself and more assertively. So it's actually a really good lesson in teaching girls to be autonomous people with their own feelings, desires, and dislikes. Again, probably not the intent, but that's what it *should* be saying. :D
That's what I saw, but not before the use of 'girl'. That kinda made me feel uneasy. I would have guessed the intent was that the girl was dating and the woman wasn't. If she isn't dating, she has been corrupted by feminism or whatever. That, or the girl has been brought up to not be so rude as to make the boy feel unwanted, instead sparing his feelings and the humility.
I sorta read it as when you don't feel comfortable just saying no so you have to lie about being in a relationship to make someone back off because they'd just keep bothering you otherwise. And then you get more confident and just outright say no without needing to give a reason.
The thing is, women get harassed if we say we're not interested, but saying you have a boyfriend usually gets guys to back off even if it's a lie. Because, you know, can't mess with another man's property or whatever /s
It actually might be the intent, but as other commenters have stated, the problem comes from people not being able to take no for an answer. and blocking once doesn't always work. Can I block you five different times under five different names after telling you no straightforward WHILE I ALSO HAVE A PARTNER/SPOUSE, but the guy still doesn't take no for an answer, because no doesn't mean no unless I already "belong" to someone else. So I have to state that I belong to someone else or make it explicitly clear that that someone else or some other intimidating (usually male) someone else will defend me if needed. It's stupid, and I haven't had to do it myself, but I've seen others who've had to. It's really gross. Usually I can get away with a "fuck off" and a block if someone gets REALLY persisitant beyond the initial "no", but not everyone is so lucky. Not everyone (and not always guys, women are like this too) takes no for an answer, multiple times. It's dumb and I still haven't figured out a way to get it through the thick skulls when they aren't wanted.
I took it as the gf leaving the flirting up for discussion. Instead of "being true to her man" she's like "I'm not allowed to talk to other guys" which then leaves an opening for the other guy to talk to her still and makes the bf look like a controlling jerk. The woman stays "true to her man" by quickly shutting the guy down and blocking him? My views may be biased though. I dated a narcissist. This was one of his many rules. I wasn't allowed to talk to anyone, but I also wasn't allowed to say it was because of him.
Think of it more like when someone says/does something stupid and instead of getting embarrassed or angry you ask "Are you feeling ok?" to put them in their place
Me and the wife watch you and click every day, usually when we're going to bed. We realized there's a huge chance that one of y'all's videos is the first video our newborn ever saw after she was able to see
I love watching the growth of OT as he begins to understand internet culture and sex jokes... There's something oddly wholesome about this pure individual learning these things and trying to be "hip with the kids" In this household, we love OT
@@AHHHHHHHH21 - I (sarcastically) wish! I’m 5’0, the shortest woman (or anything) in my family and friend groups. Others should feel the difficulty of reaching high shelves!
That wedding invite one reminds me of something that happened when I came out as trans I thought one of my my friends was supportive until I started presenting femme, then he stopped making eye contact and even talking to me. I tried reaching out several times, all to no avail. Then one day he knocks on my door, looks me in the eye and says "I'm sorry, we can't hang out any more. I'm a married man and you're a single woman" Dafuq?!
The thing that makes this hurt so much to watch is the complete lack of sincere love and respect between these people. Can't imagine being in a relationship like that.
Its always so obvious too, they treat that kind of relationship as the norm and how things should be, i know theyre pretty bad people but thats gotta break your heart to see and hear
I saw “aces wild” and excitedly thought this was an ace/aro comic strip, only to then read the rest of it. Gonna check out the original author now, whoever did that recolor is a demon.
The original one was so important, about how you can't force someone who doesn't feel attracted to you in that way, to develop those feelings because you like them. You can't really force anyone to develop feelings for anyone, but there's a difference between a choice or preference, and not feeling that kind of attraction at all.
Just a little story to share in the comments. Once I was complaining to my (now ex) about how offensive and transphobic 'superstraights' are and he asked what it meant. I explained and he told me that he IDENTIFIED WITH IT.
@@Christopher_Gibbons I thought maybe my explanation wasn't good enough and he was confused, so I went into detail and did some extra research to make it clear, but he understood and still agreed with it
Reminder that all of y'all are valid (except for super straights) and deserve to be happy. Stay safe, eat food, destroy gender norms (or don't if you like fittin them, or do if you don't like the pressure but still enjoy them), drink water and get sleep.
Everyone else except for straights deserve validation. Straight people never had to be oppressed, had rights taken away nor have had to live in fear of being hate crimed.
The slushee girl (6 year not proposed) reminds me of women who go crazy at weddings and want to catch the bouquet to "send a message" to their boyfriends. I hate this tradition, last time I went to a wedding we were a group of "nope, don't want to catch it". We gathered a bit too far, bride somehow managed to send the bouquet right in our direction and none of us grabbed it. 'Send a message' gang was giving us the death stare. Fun times.
My friend threw her bouquet right after the ceremony before we went to the reception... well it landed on the windshield of her father's car an due to the force it just dissolved. 😅
I remember going to weddings & having to participate in the garter tradition. As someone who is unmarried & frequently unpartnered, I was careful to never catch it.
At 12:52 I cannot express enough how much I hate “you’re drunk? Stop being an alcoholic.” I’ve lost family members from alcohol and it’s not as easy as “I’m going to quit” it takes work and effort to actually quit and it’s a easy battle to lose.
im literally an alcoholic, and it sucks too much, if i could just quit and manage to stay sober i would. I have started and stopped so much, it hurts to even recount the days after a while. We aint doing it like that because it is fun. And also, barely anyone helps, people keep offering me stuff so much. Eventually i break and drink it, then feel bad af about it and the person does not feel any guilt. i then have to restart.
@@arielruby13 I hope you get the support you need. I've heard that to solve this problem, it's almost never the alcohol and the drinking that's the problem... it's the people, the places, the problems, the stress and temptation you have to deal with, especially if you are self-medicating for something that is otherwise unaddressed. I believe in you, and know it's not your fault. you're doing everything you can. They say that changing other things in your life will help. Decorations, hangout spots, friends, even. Even sleeping backwards in your bed can help a little. Good luck.
@@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice yeah, its been hard here lately. i went thru many changes in a few years, had some trouble coping with it all, plenty of health issues, abusive relationships, financial struggles, mental illnesses poorly treated and more. I have cut out some toxic people, went to therapy (still going), i am trying to figure out better ways to cope with it all. Its harder to change spots, i did switch bars but literally cant leave it all behind - as a queer person, every social place we have is a bar. I can stay sober at bars, but it takes more strenght to keep doing it for longer (not more than a few months at a time, i then cave and restart).
@@arielruby13 Ahhh. In my town, we have a lot of queer houses that are alcohol-free for that reason. There are a lot of people trying to quit, and it helps not to have it around. I really hope you communicate to the people around you that you're really trying to quit and shouldn't be offered anything, and I hope they listen. Sometimes support from others is the only way. And if they don't respond well, I'm so sorry. It could help a bit if you HAVE to drink, try to drink as healthily as possible.. Drinking low-percentage drinks, slowly, having lots of water and food with it, etc. It can help a lot. I used to just drink vodka all the time for fun like a lunatic, and I always felt fine because I had lots of water as I was drinking. Thankfully that didn't go on for too long. If nothing I'm saying is helping, I understand. You're already doing everything you can. I hope it gets better soon.
I heard yesterday that the “super-straights” are trying to turn June into not only Pride Month, but “Super Month” at the same time. I wish I was joking, I really wish I was.
i feel so bad for the dude. like, they have so much stuff together and she's still all "but i want a ring!" and it sounds like with how much they own _together_ , separating might be more trouble than its worth... at this point
I love this format of mixing in wholesome videos with the not-okays; it’s a lot more uplifting and keeps my faith in humanity from withering away too fast
I'm not bossing anyone around but it would be nice to have this in other channels, whenever i watch one of those videos i always felt like i needed to go out and just... Chill out. Neurodivergent brain sucks sometimes.
The Venn diagram between parents who make weirdly sexual merch for their kids and parents who name their kids “tragedeigh” names is just a circle at this point lmao
My favorite statistic ever is the fact that more people are having a difficult time dating because we now collectively have higher standards. It's better to learn to live happily single than to put up with a toxic partner/spouse. I think people are more easily able to recognize toxicity, gaslighting, controlling behaviors these days because we often openly talk about these negative behaviors and also because the majority of households are now dual incomes so people have the financial independence to leave that garbage behind. We're no longer in the era of abused housewives who are being prescribed barbiturates in order to cope with their sad inescapable lives.
YES! I love how these days, it's not financially imperative to have a spouse. People are less exploitable emotionally. Wanting a man is way better than needing a man, because you don't need to stay with a bad one for fear of economic problems. (except people living in poverty with bad social systems)
I would like to think we have higher standards. But I don't have that kind of faith in humanity. Our standards may be stricter, they damn sure are more exclusive, but they are probably no higher. The heart wants what it wants, and what it wants, 97 times out of 100, is a type: an archetype, a phenotype, a stereotype.
@@drakesilmore3760 Everyone wants something different, but that image of what they want is going to be, of necessity, an archetype. It's just a way to focus attention on whatever you're really looking at, mental shorthand in a way. If you want a woman, do you want a femme or butch? If you want a man, do you want a "manly man" or a more urbane type? Of course, then most of us open ourselves to something more ... general. I wouldn't have looked at my spouse twice if I had stuck with the archetypes I thought I wanted, but I decided to try for something different, like a palate cleanse, after a Bad Relationship, and got really really really lucky. (Did I mention how lucky I was when I looked outside of my own bubble? I'm really lucky. 😊)
Especially since anyone if only looking at the bad parts of any community can be painted as awful.. we need to remind ourselves a few dozen terrible people in a group of about fifty good ones shouldn't immediately dictate that the whole group is scum.. so I'm also happy that he does so cause at the end of the day it's what we feed our minds that shape our views on certain individuals
I was trying to take a picture of a CLEARLY PURPLE dress earlier and the camera kept changing the color to blue. Is this how OT feels everytime he sees his hair on camera? It's so frustrating!
@@trashboat6818 no it just means that you are straight and would not date trans people (there is nothing transphobic about that, it just a preference, just like how it is not sexist to be a homosexual) edit: yeah i understand that you don't need to make it an entire sexuality i get it already now pls stop replying to me
15:19 If my girlfriend did that I would break up with her on the spot. On camera even, I don't care. A marriage fostered out of peer pressure and guilt could never end well.
Same, I'd probably not even be in that relationship long enough to get to that point, Because when I address a red flag I expect to be taken seriously. Regardless of if you're gonna change your behaviour.
the irony of youtube *not monetizing this video* by ‘accident’ for days 😂
i’m glad they finally got to it but sheeesh i was trying to take a couple days off!
i hope you all like this one 💜 i’ll be back soon
btw super wholesome TikToks for those who stay until the end 💜
Lmao
@@atransdragonwithaflamethro7255 incredible name
@@OneTopic Scp agent white fox here and I’ve gotta say you are amazing oh wait I just revealed I work for the scp foundation on UA-cam again (In the background) O5-6 “SERIOUSLY THIS IS THE FIFTH TIME” me “sorry O5-6”
Jamie: *judges you Britishly*
Click: *mocks you Swedishly*
OT: *laughs at you in Canadian*
Exactly!
Queer Kiwi: Judges you Kiwily
Me: *laughs in Cascadian*
And if this bothers you, you get a t-shirt that says, "I can say 'duh' in three languages".
Vincey: is wholesome in Aussie
There actually IS a difference, in the first one she admits that she's in a toxic relationship, because she literally can't talk with anyone of the male gender
Either that, or she feels like she has to justify turning someone down by name dropping another guy instead of just saying no for herself
I thought it meant “girl” as in an immature person and “woman” as in a mature one. so like if you’re immature and new to relationships you would stay in a toxic one, but if you’re mature about it you just block them and leave. basically my interpretation was “only real women don’t stay in toxic relationships”
It’s this.
In the first example, an immature “girl” is not confident in her own agency, and has to refer to a (possibly nonexistent) boyfriend to reinforce that she is unavailable.
In the second example, a self-confident, self-actualized “woman” feels strong and safe enough to say no on her own behalf, and remove (block) the irritant.
Yeah, thought so too
I think it implies that the first one makes an excuse. But honestly, both are valid ways of getting someone off your back. It can be really hard to constantly feel like a villain just because you don’t want to get hit on.
Something that I think about often is that in The Addams Family, Morticia and Gomez are portrayed as a married couple who love and support each other unconditionally and are in a very healthy relationship because the show wanted to portray the family as the opposite of "normal" and at that time it was very popular for married couples on tv to constantly fight and/or have miscommunications
Yikes, i hadn't thought of that. But yes, Morticia & Gomez are super sweet.
Fellas is it goth to *like* your spouse??
@@SartorialDragon "Fellas, is it goth to like your spouse?"
STAAAHHHHPPPP XDXDXDXD That made me wheeze so hard- XDXDXD
I can totally understand this in the context of the '60s (the original series). Being on one another's level as equals was subversive as hell. It fucked with established gender roles, and established gender roles were _sacred._ Remember, they had _fucking won World War 2._ Bitching and quarreling, double standards, all of it was considered a small price to pay for being the kind of real man and real woman that could fill the roles of a husband and a wife that society had in mind.
Morticia and Gomez are couples goals.
Doesn’t hurt they’re financially stable
As a woman that "Independent woman = BAD" thing is "This person needs to trap their future partner in the relationship because they already know they won't choose to stay" and makes anyone with a brain cringe. Believe people when they tell you who they are.
That's pretty much it. Misogynistic men know they're unlikable pieces of shit and the only way to get people to stay in their lives is to trap them
Exactly, these people are more than likely insecure, and can’t understand the concept that just because someone goes against what you say, or doesn’t talk to you for a day, doesn’t mean they don’t love you. They want a mindless girl who’s a complete pushover, that will almost never say no😂
“when you’ve been dating for 6 years and he still hasn’t proposed” girl you can propose. i’ve never understood why the woman can’t propose to the man, that makes no sense
pfft! took my husband 10 years to finally pop the question. this girl needs a life and a better hobby.
legit what i was thinking, girl wants to get married so bad then just propose to him, it's not hard i promise.
Because we live in a society 😩
Shhhh she's shy
My mom was the one to propose in my parents relationship. She actually beat my dad to it lol. Its really adorable imo.
Carlos was honestly so sweet; he's not comfortable with the language so he's desperately trying not to offend anyone. It's really cute.
Peacock 🥰
It really is, i wanted to show him what searching up peacock shows so he knew for sure XD hes so sweet
And racists will still call him slurs and be offended anyway, assuming he's in America.
The “then what is a sea man” part was my favorite. He’s so wholesome!
Kinda reminds me of that group of Spanish people I talked with,
I accidentally said "I love the taste of humans" instead of "I like you people"
And they were very nice about it,
But they couldn't NOT teach me how to say "Yeehaw handsome cutey, let me ride you tonight."
I have since forgotten how to say that,
But at least I know how to say "I am (and always will be) an airplane."
I think the "man birthday" one would be a much funnier card to get for a trans man for his coming out day.
Yoooo holy shit you actually fixed it.
@@infinityblayde1973 He did it.
How did you even think of that?
Peruse r/pointlesslygendered to buy funny-cringe joke gifts to your trans friends 😂
I didn’t have the money to buy it but I showed my trans-fem friend that I tried to buy them “women-beer: the beer for women” and we both died laughing
If I had a nickel for every time I saw a 'Super Straight' take an LGBT+ comic and completely twisted its message for their own agenda, I'd have two nickels which isn't a lot...
...But it's horrific it happened twice, right?
You missed the "which isn't much" part. Still good tho
@@unbekannternutzer25 Thanks for the save
@@StormVII no worries
The hateful people are also uncreative and have to resolve to stealing for their agenda
Imagine my shock
@@slimetank394 ...The bigoted anti-gay take on Hamilton comes to mind.
"Modern dating is impossible for men like me" well he should try being modern, maybe that might yield better results
"Modern dating is impossible for men like me" is just another way of saying "I can't use women as sex objects/slaves/incubators anymore! And it makes me mad that I can't own them as property!"
@@AngelinaParker Fun Fact: Women were not property in many countries before the emergence of Christianity and Islamic extremism.
Yeah... that dude was just posting red flag after red flag with that rant.
"Og need hit women with club, drag back to man cave."
Its an issue for them cuz they're stuck in the 1800s. I guess they haven't heard the news that women are now considered human beings. But it's not their fault they just haven't received the telegraph
As a lesbian blacksmith who loves your content I am here to provide armor and tools for our battle against the algorithm!.
I'm ace, Can i get a couple hunders Sword totaly not for invading sweden.
@@Abbysal_creature wait I thought it was Denmark, did the plan change? I don’t wanna be late again!!
Ah perfect I'd like one.......two I'd like two axes
I call the short sword!!
@@ApocalypticEmu fam you missed it, we already overthrew Denmark’s goverment
"I hate the word homophobia. It's not a phobia. You are not scared. You are an asshole." -Morgan Freeman (love him ❤)
Yo, if anyone ever says "it's good you're a virgin", I definitely believe they're gonna sacrifice me.
The only time it is acceptable to say that it should be about a drink, not a person.
@@LakinMae5 ooh yes. Virgin mojitos are my absolute favourite! I wouldn't be able to have them if they weren't (underage)
"It's good you're a virgin marry sculpture provider for local churches during Christmas!" - someone talking to a person that can sculp statues
ground me all you want
nothing will revirgin the olive oil
In seriousness, virgin only counts in mixed drinks and hand grenades
@@tjtheknowledgeseeker7878 I'm sorry, HAND GRENADES!?
As someone who is a straight man (but not to worry, I'm not the super kind). I love being the little spoon and can't stand the taste of beer! Screw gender stereotypes!
My partner loves being little spoon too! I'm quite happy to oblige, I think it's actually really cute! 😊
@@themisfitowl2595 it feels so good being hold like that! It always cheered me up when I had a hard day.
Yes, screw gender stereotypes!
(You sound so cute 🥰✨!)
Counter-argument, getting two people to snuggle with you and being the middle spoon is the best of all.
@@sarahr8311
I'm for being the little spoon, but yours is not a bad idea either... ✨
That girl who publicly asked her boyfriend why he hadn’t proposed to her gave me second hand anxiety, could you phucking imagine being like that?? I would shrivel and die!!!
That is a fancy way to straight up kill someone with social anxiety
Like, if that's a problem, girl, then either talk to him in private and come to an understanding, or leave him. Don't publicly shame him.
And her second video was somehow worse. Like dude, nobody is worth putting through with that sort of thing.
I'm pretty romantic, but tbh the only reason I'd ask someone to marry me is "yo, wanna save taxes together?" And to make sure we can visit each other in hospital etc. when something happens. There's still so much stuff that depends on your marital status, but my love for them is not amongst it.
If you ask a dude to do something then 100% he's gonna do everything but that. mwhahahhah
I want an update from the guy whose friends called his flat "too feminine," because I bet good money they mysteriously always insisted on hanging out at his place after that
I love when straights/super straights recolour a comic, because you can always be certain that the situation they are saying happened did NOT happen, ever.
I have literally never seen a woman online or irl claim she's super straight, in my experience they have always been straight dudes who think all trans women look like really low effort drag queens, and don't know trans men exist.
Make up scenario, get triggered when someone calls you out for it. Generalize an entire group as the perpetrator then whine about cancel culture to the echo chamber that is politics in extreme today. Rinse and repeat until you get famous for having "controversial" opinions. Sound familiar?
@@chey7691
Sounds like every conservative influencer that has ever existed, yeah.
@@jossebrodeur6033 that's the point, no originality and certainly no self awareness is found where these people congregate. Anyone who doesn't want you to think or ask why isn't gonna be good for you.
Cmon man, is it really fair to say that a straight guy could always end up saying some really effed up shit like "I can fix you" when the person is saying no and that no other gender or people with other orientations are capable of doing things like this that shitty people just do in general. I got recommended this video, so yeah I'm an outsider who probz isn't welcomed here, but don't you think you guys are being a little bit heterophobic if not extremely biased? If the comic originally depicted a straight guy acting like a jerk pressuring an ace woman for sex when she was saying no then is it really out there to say that sometimes a transwoman might act this way to a lesbian, another ace woman, or a woman who just want to date a cis male? Or are women in these scenarios supposed to be told to "just suck the dick, otherwise you're being a bigot" cuz that sounds pretty rapey if you ask me.
I had a dude start hitting on me and for some reason thought giving me a talk about how women over 25 are unattractive, old, used up, And so on. Was a complement to me? Like, "women are terrible! But not you" the pleasure I got from telling him I am a 32 year old lesbian was far better than anything he could give a woman. (Guy looked genuinely shocked that I didn't look like a wrinkly old grama)
As a 50 year old gal with 3 grown kids, I find this extremely amusing! (Side note: like most adults in my family, I look a bit younger than my age. 😁)
I can't believe toxic men have such unrealistic standards for women, then whine about nobody wanting to date them.... zero self awareness
@@SartorialDragon Also the ones that talk about how they are a nice guy, and complain that women only want to date jerks.
Completely oblivious that they have it backwards: a _self-professed_ "nice guy" is projecting an insincere facade, while those "jerks" he disparages are treating women like actual humans and speaking with them honestly.
I might complain about how difficult it is to date women from time to time,
But that's mainly me venting about the fact that there's very little competition in the gay men category compared to the straight women,
So for every match I have to sift through a lot more women who have absolute deal breakers in their profile then men with similar profiles.
Resulting in a lot of pleasant exchanges on one end and a perceived lack of interest on the other.
Yeah. Putting other women down and then backhandedly "complimenting" me is not a compliment, it just tells me you're judgemental and mean. It doesn't make me feel special, it makes me feel like if i change at all or get older (which is unavoidable) that you'll think I'm disgusting too. Why tf would anyone think that's flattering?
Edit: directed at the gross man, not OP, just in case it wasn't obvious.
that's beyond disgusting to pervert and demonize a trans person (or rather the whole community) by using an asexual comic. Its like next level lgbtq+ hatred.
Not to mention it could also be plagiarism because they kept the name of the comic and the style but just changed the shirts and some words
@@wingy6060 not "could be", it's literally is plagiarism.
yep
@@wingy6060 the plagiarism is akin to thinking that saying 'butt' is saying a swear word. Like very minor in my mind compared to the hate crime that was made. I just feel bad that they didn't really change the signature of the original artist. Having your name tied to a butchered and corrupted version of your work can scar you.
Also- @ the super straights- trans people do not want you
The passive aggressive couple had me just laughing. I was with my bf for over 6 years, he didn't propose, so I proposed myself, and he said yes. We've been married just under 2 years, and I'm so glad I asked. If she wants it so bad, then she should do it herself.
I mean, it's totally fair to not feel comfortable doing it yourself. I wouldn't want to propose, because I just don't feel comfortable with it. I want my partner to ask me, and I'm sure plenty of men feel the same as I do and want to be the ones to ask. Obviously this girl doesn't feel comfortable asking, and it seems like the boyfriend has reservations, anyways. Unfortunate situation.
I may be a trans asexual lesbian, but straight people being wholesome is nice.
P.S. that "superstraight" comic that was just a hateful plagiarism of a wholesome ace comic hurt me on a lot of levels. Thanks for the cleansers
Oh hey I’m a trans asexual lesbian too!
@@aarasko straight with extra steps
@@synctrox9679 this aint a transphobic place, buut she aint staright
@@voomvoom4522???
@@almostTOTALLYvix sure bud whatever helps u sleep at night white knight
Regarding the women being the big spoon thing, my partner absolutely loves being the little spoon even though he's bigger than me. He says it makes him feel wanted and safe.
Aww 💖💖
As a straight male I love being cuddled as the little spoon
It can also be practical. Try spooning someone with long, curly hair that gets in your mouth all the time! *bleh*
I'm 5 foot and the person I'd like to be with is 6 foot and wider than me... I know they enjoy being the little spoon. I don't know how I'm going to do this lmao
Aaaaww❣️❣️
When I get hunk of healthy masculinity, OT is one of the first people I think of. He’s masculine and still has compassion and kindness for everyone, and isn’t afraid of appearing feminine. I think that’s the essence of true masculinity.
Being feminine is like the opposite of masculinity
@@scootboot69420 A way to tell on yourself 😌
He's a real life JoJo character.
100% masculine, but in a somewhat flamboyant way
Honestly, I think I started watching his videos because he reminds me of my fiance in the sense that they're not afraid to stand up for humanity, and like doing silly voices. Jamie too, he's really wholesome. And funnily enough, my fiance proposed after we were together for over 6 years, and I'm not taking his name, nor does he make me be the small spoon. I really appreciate when people don't force gender roles on others. I've seen that way too much before, so anyone I get that vibe from gets my respect. Masculinity doesn't mean being assertive and dominant 100% of the time.
@@NonaMoreau i mean not really, femininity is by all means the opposite of masculinity.
You cannot be masculine while being feminine, the very idea of it is contradictory.
I feel so bad for the kids who realsized their parents made them wear the most inappropriate shirts.
As the creator of Aces Wild that 'superstraight' recolour still makes me want to vomit with rage.
Edit: aww, and thank you OT for saying my work is wholesome ^w^
It must have been disgusting to have your work mangled like that.
They seem to like recolouring LGBT+ comics to their own ends.
Yea that’s so horrible! I’m rlly sorry! It especially hit a nerve because I myself am asexual
@@Lilithksheh7723 seems appropriate for them tho...
@@rivahoukes1554 I get that, the premise is “literal Neonazis created an ‘identity’ to try to co-opt at least part of the LGBT+ movement for transphobic purposes”, but my initial reaction to your comment was literally just “WHY IS THIS FITTING?! IT’S DISGUSTING!”
I may be a gay trans male but seeing these wholesome straight couples bring me so much joy. So cute!
Couples are couples.
There were these two in my class last year, they were dating, their desks one behind the other, I sat near one of them.
When the school year started i found out they broke up.
Sorry for randomly bringing them up but it feels so weird and unrealistic that those two broke up, they were so cute.
@@raffaelefrau9789 sometimes that happens.
I actually love how this video jumped around from toxic posts to wholesome posts and just new people and new things you wanted to share with us, OT. It was a blast from start to end!
i REALLY appreciate this. i’ll try to do some more varied videos in the future, too. 💜
When they were talking about getting ice cream... that sunset at the end, though.
Completely agreed! It was perfect timing for me to have the palette cleansers in the places they were in 😊❤ Lovely video!
who doesn't love fun
@@OneTopic Aw that'd be awesome! I always enjoy it when there's even one new thing i learn from these videos you, Click and Jamie make! 💜
The guy in the "He hasn't proposed yet." tiktok really needs somebody to ask him to blink twice if he's in a hostage situation... because he sounds like a hostage.
Or maybe blink twice to confirm he's really alive and not her conjured fleshling.
"Why haven't you proposed to me yet?"
"Because I am breaking up with you."
Would have been the perfect answer.
I honestly was half expecting this, cause she kinda deserved it for calling him out on her social media like that. Not cool of her at all.
I KNOW RIGHT???
That Andrew Tate bit is a surprising amount of clarity and understanding from him, and is a notion many of his fellow chauvinists don't understand:
Nothing is more manly than two manly men making manly love.
That's what the Greeks thought too
Especially Spartans
Very manly. Bonus manly points if gym bros
I really thought that clip was a YTP edit
@@Galimeer5 The Romans understood this too.
The moment I saw Clark Kent hugging his son, I flipped out. Not because he's hugging his son, no. Because people literally took a picture from DC to attack this wholesome moment.
Me, knowing nothing about comic books: why is Superman hugging himself???
@@The1nvisibleJeevas Superman has a son called Jonathan Kent. Jonathan Kent looks like his dad. Hope that helps. Sorry if it doesn't.
@@philipjohnston5822 thanks, fam
@@The1nvisibleJeevas No problem.
@@philipjohnston5822 idk why I thought Superman was infertile. Maybe cause of the “alien” thing.
I feel like the best way to explain almost everyone's reaction to this subreddit is just:
👁 👁
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Agreed this can be so hard to watch. T-T
I remember in high school just hearing girls talking about their crushes and one would just casually talk about how she follows him when he isn’t looking…girl that isn’t quirky that’s how to loose a guy and tank your reputation. I really don’t know how these girls didn’t think about how creepy it would be if a boy was doing that to them and then stop.
For real, this is the weirdest ass shit I've ever heard of. If someone who had a crush on me said they'd been following me for a while watching me I'd 180° and flee
@@UndeadRed @Oswald, Are you two saying you've actually heard a girl admit they were stalking a dude, like in a bragging kinda way?
@@evantywelwyn6443 I think he meant that IF it happened he would be creeped out
@@amalnation4021 okay sure, that definitely makes sense.
These are called “societal double standards,” and it’s the same reason women win 99% of custody cases in divorce and also get the alimony 99% of the time.
some guy: what should i change?
one topic: change your friends! 😁
also his laugh just brings such a smile to my face. hes such a positive person
Do cats also work as friends?
@@Diskaria nope! cats are family, not friends, and cats are always allys, so no need to change your cats :)
@@Diskaria Cats are the family that always accepts. They may not have the words, but they will let you know what they think and feel.
Fun fact about me that nobody asked for : Me and my straights friends went to pride once, and they asked me why i invited them if they were not queer, i told them "Because Pride is not only for Queer people, is for people to celebrate any type of love, sexual, romantic and platonic, it doesn't matter if you're straight, queer or trans, you deserve the right to love and to be loved, and i love you guys"
So yeah some straights are Ok.
That's beautiful!
@@KougajiCalling Yeah, we were not able to go to pride this year, so we zoom called each other, and we talked about what we love about each other and what we love about ourselves, i love my friends.
Allies have been very much welcome to attend pride, especially back in the 1990s when everyone hated us.
@Raven Clock I've just learned that i love this term of endearment
That put a smile on me
the cleansing content in-between and at the end really helped to recover from the insanity of those other people, thank you for the lightheartedness
9:35 "I don't *need* you, I *want* you" is one of the best things my partner ever said to me. I can't imagine how anyone could see that as a bad thing.
Loving someone out of choice and not necessity is not something thats crossed my mind as being that big a difference till now, yeah thats actually very sweet.
The only people who see that as a bad thing need to be 'needed' because no-one would ever want them
Yeah realizing the difference was what got me out and emotionally abusive relationship
Someone told me that they said that to their partner which was theoretically sweet but they also described them doing so like the douchy hipster in community college writing classes who write barely disguised versions of themselves WOULD say such a thing. "You can be replaced with relatively little trouble to me. The fact that I haven't means that you're doing something right."
@@ashen_roses Oh haha, yeah, I see. But that's not something a real person would say to their lover - at least not in my world :-)
For us it was more like: "Although I could definitely survive on my own, I choose to be with you because you enrich my life and I want to be a part of yours." Or something like that.
Oh man, that guy who wanted any woman to leave her family to marry him...she had to become exactly what he wanted...that was super creepy!!
That was the attitude right up 'til the late 19th Century in the Western world, and still practiced in other areas of the world.
@@jacklow9611 That's actually what Roman marriage law was about, which family the woman belonged to. It was fucked up then and it sure is now.
May Kratos find him and that cursed post and let the blades of chaos tear him to shreds
As a fellow italian I understand all the mistakes the guy from the wholesome couple does XD
Yeah and it's funny how these language differences work sometimes, like is a male chicken called a cock(erel) because that's the word for penis and it indicates masculinoty, or is 'cock' a word for penis because it started out as the most virile (and aggressive) of birds? The peacock makes more sense if you know the female is called a 'peahen' - you're literally applying both the feminine *and* the masculine word for the chicken and adding 'pea' to it (though why on earth you would associate a bird that ostentatious with peas is anyone's guess)
As a fellow Italian, me too XD
As a fellow italian myself, me too XD
It was really funny when he Told the new phrase he learnt from her cousin ❤️
Forgive me, please, but as a hyper-verbal individual who is also straight, romantic and hopelessly cynical, I only got hung up seeing Carlo and Sarah. What don't they understand about each other? What can they never really share? Does love just have to be simple all the time? Is it ever?
And what happens when/if Carlo acquires English fluency? He won't exactly be the exotic mystery I assume Sarah fell in love with. Maybe they won't want to hear what the other one has to say anymore. Anyway, the cuteness, tho it's obviously there, is lost on me.
@@RatPfink66 I'm sorry this sounds more like projecting a bad view on a couple that is quite frankly minding their own business. As a person in a multilingual relationship myself it's just fun to share with each other the differences in languages and even coming to find out who certain words are the way that they are. Sure it might lose its novelty online, but these people seem to have found solace in each other, regardless of language barrier. I'm sorry you see this so cynically, I hope you find someone that you can find such joy with and broaden your horizons
US-based UA-cam flagging Briths "can't" as a swear is amazing ignorance.
Seeing what they did to that Aces Wild comic made me vibrate with RAGE! Those comics are some of the best ways I have found to help allo friends and family understand what it means to be ace.
:) its only aggressive when u r the victim is it now 😐
It also pissed me off too. I'm allosexual, but Sally Vinter's work really helped me understand what being asexual is like. Seeing her work twisted by transphobes is really infuriating.
It wasn't the worst thing this video showed (the Baby Shirts hold that dishonor), but it really made me angry.
@Viper you called?
Sammmmme I love Aces Wild! It’s awesome! There’s a comic dub on UA-cam.
@@aceofspades3257 :0
The ace of spades!!!
The story of woman who wanted her boyfriend to propose was a f**kn roller coaster, she’s a nascar driver, they met when she was 14 and he was 18, and have dated for 6 years, when did they start? I have so many questions this has given me mental whiplash!
I know! They honestly both look really young to have been dating for 6 years. And depending on what ages they started dating... girl, there are laws about that! But the fact that she felt the need to film it and basically invite all sort of judging comments on the guy when he looked so miserable... a person mature enough to be married wouldn't go that route, I think. They'd privately ask the person whether the really have the same goals and ideas for the future. Like some of the others of today's items were so much more overtly vile, but she just gave really sus vibes.
I love the hypocrisy with not wanting someone with kids to date, and wanting a woman to raise your kids
One is a whore and the other is married
I think he meant future children they might have together, not _his_ children.
I love how, in the end, it went from "wtf is wrong with straight people" to "aww, wholesome cute little tiktoks about cute little people, ESPECIALLY about this specific couple where this dude can't say so things and it's freaking cute af". I love OT and his wholesomeness
Ot is so done he's started to add wholesome intermetions and i am so here for it
Honestly I love it!
Intermissions :)
@@joebloe4734 Actually, if it's more Carlo,"intermetions" might be correct...
I think OT should do a video about the straights being okay. Just a bunch of wholesome folks like Carlo and Sarah
Oh, he will. He usually does one as a form of brain-bleach following doing these Str8s being Not Okay.
Yesss. I want to see more of them 🥺 and similar people
We truly need that
He does dive into r/straightsbeingok on occasion
I think it'd be funny if the man-birthday card was actually ment for Trans to signify their transition day.
Best kind of plot twist
Unironically peak
This is actually really cute hang on-
That's actually a great idea and a gift I'd accept, in that case it's pretty wholesome annnd kinda funny imo because I'm sure that wasn't the original intent of it but yeah... I'll take that and use it for good instead, thanks guys lmao
This is the most likes I've ever had. Thanks guys
My interpretation of 4:10 based on my own experience and that of ppl around me:
A "girl" uses having a boyfriend as an excuse to not have to outright tell you that she isn't interested, even if she doesn't actually have a boyfriend. It's often (if not always) self-protection, because the "no" comes from another guy and not from herself.
A "woman" just straight up tells you that she is not interested and leaves you to deal with your emotions on the matter.
But to say that one is a girl (= not mature) is some toxic shit, imo. While I am all for telling someone off honestly (harsh or gently, depending on how they approached you), in many cases you are putting yourself in danger by hurting their ego. Do what you gotta do to stay safe.
One time, my fiancé was on the phone with me while he was walking from his class in the middle of a storm and he saw a girl who couldn't get to her car because she didn't have her umbrella. He immediately told me to hold on and walked that girl to her car with his umbrella and told her to be safe on her way home. I was so proud of him in that moment, but there are toxic girls out there who said that he shouldn't have done that and that I should be mad at him?! For being a good person?!
"But making up a whole new sexuality just to exclude trans people is a little bit strange.." gosh I love Jamie hahah, the way he said that was perfect geuejgebee
Especially when we got that already. Hence why Bi and Pan are different.
@@chrisonewiththesalt bi and pan don't exclude trans people tho?
I'm confused, might be misunderstanding what you're trying to say tho
@@awakarikatase Bi does, Pan doesn't.
@@chrisonewiththesalt being bi does not exclude trans people tho
If ur bi, you can still like a trans guy, girl, or anything in between
@@awakarikatase If that was the case, Pan wouldn't... really have a reason to exist.
That and thats the main difference I've seen from most Bi/Pan people.
the tiktoks of the couple 15:20-18:11 were so wildly uncomfortable! i felt so bad for him that she was using her platform to guilt-trip and shame him into proposal despite all that he's given
...and then she dropped the "we met when i was 14 and he was 18! 🥰" at the end and i've never felt more emotionally conflicted in my life😬
Ikr? And what the hell was with putting his whole information out there like "Oh yeah! He's recovering from quitting tobacco so like, give him a break guys! 🤪" Addiction can be a very sensitive topic for folks to talk to their loved ones about, let alone thousands or millions of complete strangers on the internet! It was not at all necessary for her to say all that, and it's probably harmful over-sharing like that which is the reason he hasn't married her.
@Starstar Cool pfp! King Alfor, right?
So consequences of his own actions??? 🤔
So much manipulation and toxic energy from that couple. Watching those videos made me physically uncomfortable
@Starstar it's only a 4 year age difference, and she would have hit puberty around that time, 4 is about the bare minimum, although it's a stretched minimum.
As a straight cis person, I apologize to the LGBTQ+ community for these people
Like, for f*ck’s sake people, the community wants to be LEGAL, not MANDATORY
We’ve done nothing wrong
No, but I actually have a sweet story about the "man birthday" card. When I went to university and transitioned and came out to my friends, for my first birthday being out I got one of those cards off my mate as a really jokey, on-the-nose way of being affirming. It was really sweet. I still have it 9 years later! 💜
Only way to properly use gendered stuff is to use it for affirmation of your binary transmates tbh
Okay, it makes sense in *that* context.
Trans affirmation and maybe some healthy and explicitly not transphobic cis joking around (meaning stuff like getting your dad a Mother’s Day card or your cis female friend a “this is for manly men” gag gift in a context where everyone is comfy in their ID and with the jokes) are the only real uses for those over-the-top gendered products lol.
I’d be lying if I said I haven’t bought Dr. Squatch and grinned at the intro email 😄
this is the only acceptable use of that card that's really sweet
@@ApocalypticEmu Cut to my mom buying me (and my dad and brother) Dr. Squatch products for Christmas stocking stuffers like a month and a half after coming out as enby, my sister complaining about not getting any (got some other soap brand instead), and my mom saying that that's because "it's for men."
The "*boop* alright get outta here" is literally my favorite part of every video!
alright, get out of here
💜
This myth of the rise of the single male is screwy. I'm nearly sixty. There's been just as many miserable disgruntled single men every decade of my life. The unwashed and unbrushed in stained clothing, reeking and stinking and asking "why won't you love me? I hate you!" It isn't new at all.
Its funny, you can say this about all of these hateful groups really, racist, homophobes, transphobes, they all want to pretend their a recent trend and that this is all evil anti critical thought stuff, and it's just like do you not remember just like 6-7 decades ago when it was common television to bash gay men and women, or further when it was common to bash African American men and women, and treat women like property, your opinions aren't new, their just way less acceptable now so now they get you into trouble,,, trouble that could be avoid if you stopped pretending that the world is a stagnant mass of unchanging reality, fun fact, our knowledge and understanding of everything changes every day, were in the process of redefining gender and sex on the biological level as we've learned just in the last few years that both things dont exist on binaries anywhere in the animal kingdom, even among those land mammals who do have sexual dimorphism, not to mention the fact it made global news that one of the last wild tribes of orangutan's are entering the stone age now and we may exist to see another ape species achieve intelligence to our level, I don't know how these facts would lead someone to want to keep clinging to outdated info, we have super computers in our pockets people, if the world was meant to stay stagnant we would have never even left the jungle ourselves let alone been able to see another species actively start heading towards a crash course with our own evolutionary path, so it's very much a "ugh you guys aren't special, your not new, you just keep saying the same thing your great grandpappy said just to a different demographic, this isnt new freethinking behavior like you say it is"
It's only different now because on the internet they can band together and there are parties that are interested in keeping them disgruntled for profit.
lmao they've just gotten louder with the internet
You meet guys like this even mentioned in Jane Austen's books from the 1800s so yeah...
As one who's on the edge of becoming one of those people (mental problem)
Do you have any advice ?
As an AFAB minor, the “get an uneducated young woman” people are very wrong.
didn't expect to realize I never got enough healthy physical affection from my dad like this lmao
Hope you’re ok man
@@JackJawFish got some mental conditions but im doing pretty well in my life rn, thank you
Same
@@mjamin9124 yeah, mental is so easy to mess up,
Statistically speaking I'm more likely to go insane than not,
But living life in spite of that fact just feels so much better
Than spending your days worrying about your future.
My (unnamed) friend just told me that the girl he just started dating dating is mad at him because he experimented with dudes 5 years ago and wasn't "upfront about it.
The straights are indeed a strange group.
Some people feel insecure about the prospect that the competitor pool is doubled lol
I just really don’t understand that. It makes no sense to me. Like why? Why does it matter? You feel left out?
Had a straight guy told me that it was super hot that I was a transman ... but that I needed to never get a d!ck because he wouldn't ever be touching it or interacting with it and I was like "Well as someone with literally no interest in you, that was never going to happen anyway" and he was SO MAD that I was taking away his fiction right to touch a part I didn't have. Like he didn't even argue that until that he should have me or my lady bits - no no no, he was mad that I was denying him the right to deny touching my currently non-existent manhood.
I love how Super Straights think that we, as trans people, would ever WANT to date them in the first place.
It's not what super straight is about tho
True, mental and physical illnesses attract each other.
@@Elro_othen what is it
Who said we did?
@@MissSavinaKitTeen Well if you didn't it makes all those images you lot keep making incredibly silly.
17:21 girlie, nobody hates your boyfriend, they hate you💀
The '6 years and he hasn't proposed yet' girl makes me physically cringe. Good on the guy for being clear about that she's bothering him with it, but unfortunately she doesn't seem to get it
She was literally like "so many of you are being mean to my boyfriend and you shouldn't because he's the best" THEN WHY ARE YOU SLAGGING HIM OFF ON SOCIAL MEDIA??! Like she's clearly doing it to be passive aggressive towards him
Oh absolutely... until she revealed that they started dating when he was 18 and she was 14 🤢
@@apinkchameleon I...may have skipped that bit 😬😬. I found it too cringe
@@apinkchameleon 🤮
& then she started listing all the things they're doing together (owning a house & businesses), & I started wondering why exactly she's so hung up on marrying him.
I feel like some girls forget that THEY CAN PROPOSE THEMSELVES like, if it’s two girls in a relationship, are they gonna wait cuz there’s no man to propose? No. It’s not a big deal girl 😂
Okay BUT, knowing lesbians (and being one)
Lesbians will literally be living together FOR YEARS and do intimate couple things, and just assume that they see each other as “just friends”
Proposing is literally impossible if you cant even fathom that the woman you LIVE WITH wants to be with you
On that "difference between a girl and a woman" one, whatever the intent was, what *I'm* getting from it is that it's a sign of maturity to distance yourself from people because it's *your* choice and not because someone is making you do it.
The girl is being controlled; the woman is doing it herself and more assertively.
So it's actually a really good lesson in teaching girls to be autonomous people with their own feelings, desires, and dislikes.
Again, probably not the intent, but that's what it *should* be saying. :D
That's what I saw, but not before the use of 'girl'. That kinda made me feel uneasy. I would have guessed the intent was that the girl was dating and the woman wasn't. If she isn't dating, she has been corrupted by feminism or whatever.
That, or the girl has been brought up to not be so rude as to make the boy feel unwanted, instead sparing his feelings and the humility.
I sorta read it as when you don't feel comfortable just saying no so you have to lie about being in a relationship to make someone back off because they'd just keep bothering you otherwise. And then you get more confident and just outright say no without needing to give a reason.
The thing is, women get harassed if we say we're not interested, but saying you have a boyfriend usually gets guys to back off even if it's a lie. Because, you know, can't mess with another man's property or whatever /s
It actually might be the intent, but as other commenters have stated, the problem comes from people not being able to take no for an answer. and blocking once doesn't always work. Can I block you five different times under five different names after telling you no straightforward WHILE I ALSO HAVE A PARTNER/SPOUSE, but the guy still doesn't take no for an answer, because no doesn't mean no unless I already "belong" to someone else. So I have to state that I belong to someone else or make it explicitly clear that that someone else or some other intimidating (usually male) someone else will defend me if needed. It's stupid, and I haven't had to do it myself, but I've seen others who've had to. It's really gross. Usually I can get away with a "fuck off" and a block if someone gets REALLY persisitant beyond the initial "no", but not everyone is so lucky. Not everyone (and not always guys, women are like this too) takes no for an answer, multiple times. It's dumb and I still haven't figured out a way to get it through the thick skulls when they aren't wanted.
I took it as the gf leaving the flirting up for discussion. Instead of "being true to her man" she's like "I'm not allowed to talk to other guys" which then leaves an opening for the other guy to talk to her still and makes the bf look like a controlling jerk. The woman stays "true to her man" by quickly shutting the guy down and blocking him?
My views may be biased though. I dated a narcissist. This was one of his many rules. I wasn't allowed to talk to anyone, but I also wasn't allowed to say it was because of him.
if i meet someone who wants me to be like a "normal girl" im not gonna ever talk to them.
I think we answered the question “are the straights okay?”, a long time ago, and at this point it’s just masochism
Did it become masochism in the 80s or 90s
@@daisyjoy242 since Anti LGBT people existed
Think of it more like when someone says/does something stupid and instead of getting embarrassed or angry you ask "Are you feeling ok?" to put them in their place
@@Ilovewomenandmenwithbigmuscles Oh I misread your comment lol.
Nah. Masochism is suffering i consented to and thoroughly enjoy. The straights are not my kink :P
Me and the wife watch you and click every day, usually when we're going to bed. We realized there's a huge chance that one of y'all's videos is the first video our newborn ever saw after she was able to see
A great start for her!
“If you let her be the big spoon the She will look down on you”
GOOD
STEP ON ME QUEEN
REAL
😂😂😂
Honestly, i lose respect If a Guys masculinity IS that frail He feels threatened buy which way you hug and cuddle . . .
y e s
I never understood those people who are like "if you date me, you can't have friends of the same gender" or anything like that
I love watching the growth of OT as he begins to understand internet culture and sex jokes... There's something oddly wholesome about this pure individual learning these things and trying to be "hip with the kids"
In this household, we love OT
"If you give her the big spoon eventually she'll look down on you"
This man has clearly never heard of a humiliation kink
Or perhaps even... tall women
@@SpaceCase1701 no way, that couldnt exist, women physically cannot be taller than 5 foot!!!
@@AHHHHHHHH21 - I (sarcastically) wish! I’m 5’0, the shortest woman (or anything) in my family and friend groups. Others should feel the difficulty of reaching high shelves!
@@Ajehy lol
@@AHHHHHHHH21 wait...no..NO..NOOO- **turns into a spec of dust**
That wedding invite one reminds me of something that happened when I came out as trans
I thought one of my my friends was supportive until I started presenting femme, then he stopped making eye contact and even talking to me. I tried reaching out several times, all to no avail.
Then one day he knocks on my door, looks me in the eye and says "I'm sorry, we can't hang out any more. I'm a married man and you're a single woman"
Dafuq?!
Well. At least he was supportive? 😅 But daaaaamn that marriage can’t be healthy
Oh damn, this dude has been nearly TOO SUPPORTIVE 🤣 how is that even possible bruuuuuh-
That is just screaming he has a toxic wife if the wife isnt allowing her husband to hang out with you
@@kyghosty9545 Either that, or he doesn't allow himself to be friends with other women.
@@Kartoffelkamm More likely it's some kind of toxic mindset or relationship he was forced into.
You seems like a wonderful person to meet and know irl! Love the boop and gentle "get outta here" at the end, it's kind of cute
The thing that makes this hurt so much to watch is the complete lack of sincere love and respect between these people. Can't imagine being in a relationship like that.
Its always so obvious too, they treat that kind of relationship as the norm and how things should be, i know theyre pretty bad people but thats gotta break your heart to see and hear
I saw “aces wild” and excitedly thought this was an ace/aro comic strip, only to then read the rest of it. Gonna check out the original author now, whoever did that recolor is a demon.
Thats an insult to demons right there. That person is so pathetic that nothing could even compare to them.
The original one was so important, about how you can't force someone who doesn't feel attracted to you in that way, to develop those feelings because you like them. You can't really force anyone to develop feelings for anyone, but there's a difference between a choice or preference, and not feeling that kind of attraction at all.
Don't insult the demons man, they accept everyone in hell, regardless of sexualities, race or status.
@@ieatcheese361 shut up
@@syd6654 make me
Just a little story to share in the comments. Once I was complaining to my (now ex) about how offensive and transphobic 'superstraights' are and he asked what it meant. I explained and he told me that he IDENTIFIED WITH IT.
oh no
oh no
oh no no no no
Thank goodness you threw the whole boyfriend out.
THATS TERRIFYING NOOOOO 😭😭😭😭
Well how did you explain what they are?
@@Christopher_Gibbons I thought maybe my explanation wasn't good enough and he was confused, so I went into detail and did some extra research to make it clear, but he understood and still agreed with it
I love these videos, it always makes me feel so much better
Reminder that all of y'all are valid (except for super straights) and deserve to be happy. Stay safe, eat food, destroy gender norms (or don't if you like fittin them, or do if you don't like the pressure but still enjoy them), drink water and get sleep.
Why hello there validation dispenser, and just as I was running out too
@@Louisikov that's why I'm here!
@@eldritchabomination9726 Well just know you’re appreciated
@@Louisikov thank you, and so are you!
Everyone else except for straights deserve validation. Straight people never had to be oppressed, had rights taken away nor have had to live in fear of being hate crimed.
The slushee girl (6 year not proposed) reminds me of women who go crazy at weddings and want to catch the bouquet to "send a message" to their boyfriends.
I hate this tradition, last time I went to a wedding we were a group of "nope, don't want to catch it". We gathered a bit too far, bride somehow managed to send the bouquet right in our direction and none of us grabbed it. 'Send a message' gang was giving us the death stare. Fun times.
Lol, "scatter everyone!" Love it
Took me 15 years to propose 😂
My friend threw her bouquet right after the ceremony before we went to the reception... well it landed on the windshield of her father's car an due to the force it just dissolved. 😅
I saw a bride who solved this issue by tossing a Pusheen plushie to see who would adopt a cat next.
I remember going to weddings & having to participate in the garter tradition. As someone who is unmarried & frequently unpartnered, I was careful to never catch it.
my ace heart isn't even surprised that ace artwork was overtaken
My Aro heart is disgusted but also unsurprised
“Super straight” just makes me think of a teenage boy who saw a men’s health magazine and isn’t quite ready to confront the feelings he had.
At 12:52 I cannot express enough how much I hate “you’re drunk? Stop being an alcoholic.”
I’ve lost family members from alcohol and it’s not as easy as “I’m going to quit” it takes work and effort to actually quit and it’s a easy battle to lose.
im literally an alcoholic, and it sucks too much, if i could just quit and manage to stay sober i would. I have started and stopped so much, it hurts to even recount the days after a while. We aint doing it like that because it is fun. And also, barely anyone helps, people keep offering me stuff so much. Eventually i break and drink it, then feel bad af about it and the person does not feel any guilt. i then have to restart.
@@arielruby13 I’m sorry this is happening to you can I hope that you can get all the help you need 🫂
@@arielruby13 I hope you get the support you need. I've heard that to solve this problem, it's almost never the alcohol and the drinking that's the problem... it's the people, the places, the problems, the stress and temptation you have to deal with, especially if you are self-medicating for something that is otherwise unaddressed. I believe in you, and know it's not your fault. you're doing everything you can. They say that changing other things in your life will help. Decorations, hangout spots, friends, even. Even sleeping backwards in your bed can help a little. Good luck.
@@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice yeah, its been hard here lately. i went thru many changes in a few years, had some trouble coping with it all, plenty of health issues, abusive relationships, financial struggles, mental illnesses poorly treated and more. I have cut out some toxic people, went to therapy (still going), i am trying to figure out better ways to cope with it all. Its harder to change spots, i did switch bars but literally cant leave it all behind - as a queer person, every social place we have is a bar. I can stay sober at bars, but it takes more strenght to keep doing it for longer (not more than a few months at a time, i then cave and restart).
@@arielruby13 Ahhh. In my town, we have a lot of queer houses that are alcohol-free for that reason. There are a lot of people trying to quit, and it helps not to have it around. I really hope you communicate to the people around you that you're really trying to quit and shouldn't be offered anything, and I hope they listen. Sometimes support from others is the only way. And if they don't respond well, I'm so sorry. It could help a bit if you HAVE to drink, try to drink as healthily as possible.. Drinking low-percentage drinks, slowly, having lots of water and food with it, etc. It can help a lot. I used to just drink vodka all the time for fun like a lunatic, and I always felt fine because I had lots of water as I was drinking. Thankfully that didn't go on for too long. If nothing I'm saying is helping, I understand. You're already doing everything you can. I hope it gets better soon.
I vote in favor of more wholesome intermission on videos covering toxic subjects. You dropped them all at exactly the right times
I second this idea!
*FOR THE ALGORITHM!!* 💀🏴☠️
once more FOR THE ALGORITHM GODS!! 😂
Gutentag
FOR THE ALGORITHM!!
FOR THE ALGORITHM!!
Aces will take over Denmark
I think Super Straights are just the natural result of someone who was held 0 times as a child
I heard yesterday that the “super-straights” are trying to turn June into not only Pride Month, but “Super Month” at the same time. I wish I was joking, I really wish I was.
there was a Ton!! of 'reclaim the rainbow' from christian ppl i know... it was So So So heavily spread 💀
@@cosmic.raspberri Yeah thats honestly just so stupid.. its only unsefull as a joke and turns that religion into a laughing stock.
I think my brain just shutdown
@Viper CAN I HAVE ONE PLEASE
what is super straight?
i feel so bad for the dude. like, they have so much stuff together and she's still all "but i want a ring!" and it sounds like with how much they own _together_ , separating might be more trouble than its worth... at this point
I love this format of mixing in wholesome videos with the not-okays; it’s a lot more uplifting and keeps my faith in humanity from withering away too fast
Totally agree :).
I'm not bossing anyone around but it would be nice to have this in other channels, whenever i watch one of those videos i always felt like i needed to go out and just... Chill out. Neurodivergent brain sucks sometimes.
The Venn diagram between parents who make weirdly sexual merch for their kids and parents who name their kids “tragedeigh” names is just a circle at this point lmao
Healthy relationship palate cleansing for cringy content is so heckin appreciated - I'd love for all the videos on cringe to have this
I agree!!
My favorite statistic ever is the fact that more people are having a difficult time dating because we now collectively have higher standards. It's better to learn to live happily single than to put up with a toxic partner/spouse. I think people are more easily able to recognize toxicity, gaslighting, controlling behaviors these days because we often openly talk about these negative behaviors and also because the majority of households are now dual incomes so people have the financial independence to leave that garbage behind.
We're no longer in the era of abused housewives who are being prescribed barbiturates in order to cope with their sad inescapable lives.
YES!
I love how these days, it's not financially imperative to have a spouse. People are less exploitable emotionally. Wanting a man is way better than needing a man, because you don't need to stay with a bad one for fear of economic problems. (except people living in poverty with bad social systems)
I would like to think we have higher standards. But I don't have that kind of faith in humanity. Our standards may be stricter, they damn sure are more exclusive, but they are probably no higher.
The heart wants what it wants, and what it wants, 97 times out of 100, is a type: an archetype, a phenotype, a stereotype.
@@RatPfink66 What kind of archetype?
@@drakesilmore3760 Something that conforms to gender roles in a good way, I guess.
@@drakesilmore3760 Everyone wants something different, but that image of what they want is going to be, of necessity, an archetype. It's just a way to focus attention on whatever you're really looking at, mental shorthand in a way. If you want a woman, do you want a femme or butch? If you want a man, do you want a "manly man" or a more urbane type? Of course, then most of us open ourselves to something more ... general. I wouldn't have looked at my spouse twice if I had stuck with the archetypes I thought I wanted, but I decided to try for something different, like a palate cleanse, after a Bad Relationship, and got really really really lucky. (Did I mention how lucky I was when I looked outside of my own bubble? I'm really lucky. 😊)
Straights who are not ok: "STOP GROOMING OUR CHILDREN AND EXPOSING THEM TO SEX!"
The same straights: 3:30
I tell you a secret now... babies can't read. I know, shocking, but it's true.
Y’all r the ones who r mentally I’ll what are you talking about
horrifying tbh, don't give children sexual stuff. It's stupid. nobody is really exposing children to sex except for the makers of that type of merch
@@GODSAVEPUNKROCKNo you
I’ve seen shirts that sexualize breastfeeding such as “dad’s jealous that I had boob for breakfast” 😖
It is impossible to communicate how much joy your videos give me.
I really appreciate that you end these with wholesome straights. I always need a palate cleanser.
+
Especially since anyone if only looking at the bad parts of any community can be painted as awful.. we need to remind ourselves a few dozen terrible people in a group of about fifty good ones shouldn't immediately dictate that the whole group is scum.. so I'm also happy that he does so cause at the end of the day it's what we feed our minds that shape our views on certain individuals
@creepy-kitten I couldn't have said it better
@@creepy-kitty Yeah my thoughts about the LGBT exactly... for irl though. I do dislike the online community.
I was trying to take a picture of a CLEARLY PURPLE dress earlier and the camera kept changing the color to blue. Is this how OT feels everytime he sees his hair on camera? It's so frustrating!
Wait his hair is purple! I did make this comment in the beginning of the video
I'm color blind so I can't even tell what the difference between blue and purple is in the first place.
the hair dye is called Ultra Violet and it does sorta change depending on if youre under cool or warm lighting. Purple is a tricky color.
@@kehteh (not to be confused with ultraviolet, one word, which is not visible to the human eye
WAIT IT IS SUPPOSED TO BE PURPLE??
Super straights on their way to edit every lgbt comic to be about them: 🏃♀️🏃🏃♂️
no for real and they always think that we get mad that their "super straight"
please you aren't a target
2:23 ok I’ve seen a lot of weird stuff so I thought you can’t surprise me but if that real then y’all just proved me wrong and surprised me
It's cute that superstraits think any trans person would ever want to go out with them.
Or anybody
Cis het dude here. You're right
@@sprucebrine9theres no such thing as "super straight" tf are u tryna be the superhero for straight people or smth?
@@trashboat6818 no it just means that you are straight and would not date trans people (there is nothing transphobic about that, it just a preference, just like how it is not sexist to be a homosexual)
edit: yeah i understand that you don't need to make it an entire sexuality i get it already now pls stop replying to me
@@sprucebrine9 you don't need to make a sexuality for that 💀 Attention seeking behavior
The palette cleansing felt good. Didn't even realize how awkward everything was making me feel until there was the sweet relief of wholesome ❤️
15:19 If my girlfriend did that I would break up with her on the spot. On camera even, I don't care. A marriage fostered out of peer pressure and guilt could never end well.
Same, I'd probably not even be in that relationship long enough to get to that point,
Because when I address a red flag I expect to be taken seriously.
Regardless of if you're gonna change your behaviour.
Some of this stuff is unnecessarily intense and so very wrong. Good grief!
I needed that couple at the end so badly. Adorable!