I finally escaped the narc after 10 looong years. I got an onset of severe stomach problems and total tightness in my neck and back. From the stress of living with him. Our 1st court date is 13th. I'm praying God goes before me and makes a way where there doesn't seem to be a way. I plan on not even looking at him cuz that will really get at him. He hates when I ignore him. Lord give me strength and boldness. I thank God for helping me escape.
Prayers up for You ❤🙏 I was finally divorced in July 2024. Get good rest and keep talking with God. I gave him Zero eye contact, I stopped all communications and I allowed my attorney to help handle it all
I can’t! This is literally spot on!! Thank you David E Clarke!! You are helping SO MANY woman - me being one of them. Thank you for speaking the absolute truth!! Divorced a few months ago and it was the hardest thing I went through in my life, but God was faithful the entire time. I have grown in Him so much during this time and have learned to lean on Christ so much more. Being away from my ex is such a blessing- it was hard but worth it🙏🏽❤️
He agreed to the divorce and now wants to stay in my life,he said hes not worried about money,its worrying after 20 years of being abused what he is playing at,turning up with food etc that ive not asked for,hes got his own place and completely forgot the physical and mental abuse its strange all of it
❤❤ Exactly, i blamed myself when he #discarded me terminated our relationship. Then attacked me. Accused me of being disrespectful. Lacking empathy. When it was him who was disrespectful and lacked empathy. I was left in grief, fear, trauma and anxiety. Uncertainty and no income, no job, and threats of being made homeless in Spain.
My trick was to wait for HIM to file for divorce! Coincidentally, I received an envelope from a lawyer’s office which my ex saw and assumed I had filed. He hit the roof! I never saw him so angry. Little did he know, the envelope contents regarded a different matter and I didn’t file at all. I didn’t know he had been shopping for a lawyer (we were separated at this point) and he must have assumed I beat him to the punch. Once he filed (3 months after I got the envelope referenced above), he was so nice. I was so nice too - the entire time we were going through the divorce process. It was easier to be nice than to argue. I got most of the material possessions I wanted anyway (since I had bought most of them). However, once the divorce was done, I cut him out of my life completely and he tried like hell to get ahold of me (calling family and what few friends I had left). He tried emailing and all kinds of other ways to reach me but his emails were filed directly into a trash folder and calls/texts were blocked. Playing along benefited me most in the end. ❤
He has said multiple times in prior podcasts that he means either sex. He uses “he/him/ masculine terms” only because it is usually women who contact him.
I finally escaped the narc after 10 looong years. I got an onset of severe stomach problems and total tightness in my neck and back. From the stress of living with him. Our 1st court date is 13th. I'm praying God goes before me and makes a way where there doesn't seem to be a way. I plan on not even looking at him cuz that will really get at him. He hates when I ignore him. Lord give me strength and boldness. I thank God for helping me escape.
Prayers for you, Beverly!
Prayers up for You ❤🙏 I was finally divorced in July 2024. Get good rest and keep talking with God. I gave him Zero eye contact, I stopped all communications and I allowed my attorney to help handle it all
Praying for you! You can do this.🙏❤
Thank you so much for being a voice for victims of abuse..
I can’t! This is literally spot on!! Thank you David E Clarke!! You are helping SO MANY woman - me being one of them. Thank you for speaking the absolute truth!! Divorced a few months ago and it was the hardest thing I went through in my life, but God was faithful the entire time. I have grown in Him so much during this time and have learned to lean on Christ so much more. Being away from my ex is such a blessing- it was hard but worth it🙏🏽❤️
Divorce finalized after 11 years. I was discarded the last 3 years. I'm peaceful. Starting over in life without the narc. 🤗
He agreed to the divorce and now wants to stay in my life,he said hes not worried about money,its worrying after 20 years of being abused what he is playing at,turning up with food etc that ive not asked for,hes got his own place and completely forgot the physical and mental abuse its strange all of it
I was okay with giving them more material possessions just to get out. I know not everyone can do that. But my peace meant more than anything.
Stay close to God, thats how you will get through the nightmare divorce process from these demons
Yup and mine was a cop
I just started the process and this is so accurate, both my son and I are having health issues. I’m scared this is going to kill me.
Is there a way to get a narc to discard you and your children? We’re divorced but he’s putting our children through hell. Prayers plz 🙏🏼❤️
Look at your state rules. At some point, children can decide not to see him. My state let's eleven year olds make that decision.
❤❤ Exactly, i blamed myself when he #discarded me terminated our relationship.
Then attacked me.
Accused me of being disrespectful.
Lacking empathy.
When it was him who was disrespectful and lacked empathy.
I was left in grief, fear, trauma and anxiety.
Uncertainty and no income, no job, and threats of being made homeless in Spain.
Thank you, I needed to hear this message.
Thanx Dr Clarke. I am going to start the process of divorcing..
Control or destroy.
Yes, so sad.
I am married to a covert narcissist for 44yrs. Finally divorcing him. 😢❤
My trick was to wait for HIM to file for divorce! Coincidentally, I received an envelope from a lawyer’s office which my ex saw and assumed I had filed. He hit the roof! I never saw him so angry. Little did he know, the envelope contents regarded a different matter and I didn’t file at all. I didn’t know he had been shopping for a lawyer (we were separated at this point) and he must have assumed I beat him to the punch. Once he filed (3 months after I got the envelope referenced above), he was so nice. I was so nice too - the entire time we were going through the divorce process. It was easier to be nice than to argue. I got most of the material possessions I wanted anyway (since I had bought most of them). However, once the divorce was done, I cut him out of my life completely and he tried like hell to get ahold of me (calling family and what few friends I had left). He tried emailing and all kinds of other ways to reach me but his emails were filed directly into a trash folder and calls/texts were blocked. Playing along benefited me most in the end. ❤
All PTSD
Divorcing or separating ...prepare for their nasty
Why does the Narc always have to be a He or Him? Kinda one sided
He has said multiple times in prior podcasts that he means either sex. He uses “he/him/ masculine terms” only because it is usually women who contact him.