10. Trying desperately to understand how I was "friends" with people I loathe and despise, and how I thought that was normal... 11. How on earth will I ever heal from the ceaseless life-long rage?
Excellent points,Ken. I know as an anxious attacher. I read some of the traits and characteristics that I should have and I don’t think that I have them. I’ve read quite a bit about about attachment from a clinical perspective and I do think that there’s other influences and other issues that shape our lives. Relationships are just so complex and if you look at them from a systemic point of view, then some people are going to thrive in some context, and others are not depending upon the context and the person. So I really glad that you mentioned this and it’s something I want to continue to keep in mind as I work with my own attachment issues and I work with others in a clinical setting. ❤
Ken could you please do a longer video on arrested development in DAs. I suspect this was the case with my ex, he had to take on many responsibilities as a child, then as an adult he seems to be running from responsibilities, including setting boundaries for the kids and being accountable in our relationship. Thanks, love your content.
‘Emotional adolescence’ 🙌
10. Trying desperately to understand
how I was "friends" with people I loathe and despise,
and how I thought that was normal...
11. How on earth will I ever heal from the ceaseless life-long rage?
Excellent points,Ken. I know as an anxious attacher. I read some of the traits and characteristics that I should have and I don’t think that I have them. I’ve read quite a bit about about attachment from a clinical perspective and I do think that there’s other influences and other issues that shape our lives. Relationships are just so complex and if you look at them from a systemic point of view, then some people are going to thrive in some context, and others are not depending upon the context and the person. So I really glad that you mentioned this and it’s something I want to continue to keep in mind as I work with my own attachment issues and I work with others in a clinical setting. ❤
Thank you for acknowledging other factors
Ken could you please do a longer video on arrested development in DAs. I suspect this was the case with my ex, he had to take on many responsibilities as a child, then as an adult he seems to be running from responsibilities, including setting boundaries for the kids and being accountable in our relationship. Thanks, love your content.