When You Shouldn't (and Should) Want Your Ex Back - Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy
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You can want your ex back all you want but at the end of the day you can't force someone to be with you especially if they don't want to be with you.
Smartest thing I've read on here thus far.
Very true!!! There was a reason the relationship didn't work out. No use in trying to force something on someone who doesn't want it!
Dalia Madrid I agree. This is true
Dalia Madrid true
want him back or Friends guess it may be"he wants to get back her". Infact people feel shy to say their own, so they like to say that in reverse. Friend I don't know who are you and why you are sending such kind of stuffs in my mobile. Friend please settle your problems with your him/ her by discussing with them, don't be shy. And please don't confuse others with your problems. Thanks friend for your understanding. All the best.
Here's how I realized I did NOT want my ex back, even though my heart ached so bad I could not get out of bed for 5 days: I made a list of the negative and positive things about my ex. There were 24 negative things and 4 positive things. That did it for me.
Swankster I'll give that a shot! thanks!
Swankster I'll give it a try but like... sometimes I think I can't do better.
Swankster I had 53 bad things -_-
Swankster sorry that happened to you wow, what you put. that must suck, but you'll find someone better that will make you stronger.
86 bad things and not even 1 i must be mad to want him back
Many of you don't want your actual ex back. You're grieving the loss of who you WANTED them to be.. who you thought they were. You're grieving a ghost! Sometimes relationships end prematurely over fixable issues. However, you deserve someone who doesn't have to lose you 1st to value you. Missing someone or feeling the pain of their loss is NOT confirmation that you 2 belong together. Only go back if it logically, emotionally, morally & spiritually makes sense for you both to be together. Going back shouldn't be a pain-management thing.
Your comment saved me. Thank you so much
Beautifully said
This
That’s so true, because with me I was missing the person he was and how I wanted him to be! Plus my ex is very confusing and not at all honest with me, and also doesn’t know he wants in life and doesn’t really know if he’s into girls 😏. Has recently given me the whole I’ll still be there for you attitude but I’m learning to be strong and just move on 💪 in other words don’t let him back when he’s been cruel and confusing to you.
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heres the thing no matter what anybody tells you, your gut knows what the right answer is. Taking back an ex is not a stupid thing to do if your gut is telling you its right. Likewise if you have feelings of uncertainty listen to them, listen to YOU. ultimately you're the one living with this decision so don't allow other people to make you feel bad or wrong for wanting someone in your life.
Wow, that was the best advice ever, after searching for hours on the internet
But how are you sure that the ''guts'' are talking or maybe your feelings?
I love this advice! Brave!
better advice than the video!!
Dafuq is this, so if ur ex cheated on u multiple times but ur heart still wants him ur telling them to just go back and accept that ex??? All the while ignoring ALL the other potential options out there, that is for sure going to be better?
You can miss someone but not want them back. That’s something we all need to know & remember
i dont think i want my ex back, i think im just lonely and miss the good days we had. but honestly there was alot of bad in our relationship.
we have nothing in common and we dont share the same values and i do not trust him at all. i love him, but i know its over. he will never change and ill never be the person he wants.
We recently started talking agian before i realized that we werent right, i just need help telling him goodbye now...
Allison Omg you sound like me here.
I'm in the same situation!! But we are not talking
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Exactly how I feel I love him but we ain’t good together too toxic im very lonely so that’s why I’m missing him
I’m in the same boat
I do miss my ex, but he has hurted me to my core. My mother told me if its meant to be it will be.. She also stated that sometimes it takes a long separation to realize and understand the depth of what love really is, to remind them how much they mean to each other, and for both of the individuals to mature on their behalf before building a life together... I beg to differ, but I'm praying I move on and move on quick!
+Alexis Martin Me too, people who are here talking about forget all that move on theory are delusional. I have tried several times broke up and took him back over and over in 4yrs. He NEVER changed! Each time it got worse. So I am a big believer in LETTING PPL GO!! and moving on!! I'm moving on and happy.
Alexis Martin jeez our mom must be cousin 😂 hahahahah my mum says the same, I do believe that you'd rather move on and if they come back when you did not expected well you can choose rather you want it or not
Your mother is an idiot
@@meeksluv i am in this situation right now. Still struggling to remimd myself the harm did to me and that he wont change... Just curious after two years are you over the ex? Do u feel better?
I think your mum just said what Matthew said. - Sometimes - being the key word here. In that 1/10 case scenario. 9/10 it's not like that and you need to move on and find someone who fits better. Hope you're okay now :)
I had my ex back. Biggest mistake in my life :D But also one of the best because I have my wonderful kid sleeping next to me right now. Screw the ex. Continue fresh.
I had my heart broken a few months ago and I had to let him go because he wanted to be friends. I watch Matthew's videos anytime I feel vulnerable and want him back. He wasn't worth my time because he didn't value me. Don't ever stay with someone who doesn't do what they say they will do and doesn't have the same values. There is a person out there who will be there for you.
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I don't like this popular pessimistic view.
The truth is: it depends on the reason for the breakup.
More often than you think, both parties think they broke up for misunderstanding what the other party meant.
But because of people saying stuff like this they never even try to fix stuff, instead they immediately start moving on.
JJvH thank you.
I gpt dumped because pf videos like this lol noe theyre running nack and im sat here trying to let a video tell me what to do. Turns put when i listened and talked to him. I understood what went wrong and its easily fixed. If id have listened to this. Id have never given him the chance or heard him out.the minute he touched my face again i instantly knew it was meant to be.
@@Lacieluxe I wish she would let me see her I know if she did she would know she's making a mistake ,I took care of her for almost two years she was my everything I she was on my mind every second of the day never a action without thinking of her,the way she looked at me I know our loves real, if we could just feel the beat of each others hearts ,I miss her so much, I stopped talking to her but I can't stop thinking of her she was supposed to be my future we were supposed to get married she was my family.
Yep. It’s sad.
@@Lacieluxe did it work out?
This video put whether or not I want my ex in perspective. He's not a good communicator and I am. So even though we had an amazing connection I want someone who can come to me with problems not run away from them and give up! Thank you Matthew!! 💜
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I absolutely want this person in my life again
I dont even want to call them an “ex”
Im not lonely. Im not reliant. I’ve grown as a person since our relationship.. we often said during the breakup that we met at the wrong time; which makes sense because it was high school
I just want them back in my life
I dont need a relationship to be happy, i just want this person by my side
Did u get back together?
I feel it the same way. But both of us need time to heal
What happened? Please don't leave us hanging
Yes! We did. We've been together for a year in september, and 16 months all together from our previous time together. The relationship is so healthy and loving, im really blessed to have this back
@@tinfoiltreasurer that's good to hear. Thanks for updating us ❤
My ex wants to get back together after 6 months apart... Told me he wants to treat me how I deserve to be treated and said that letting me go was a huge mistake and I'm what he wants. He didn't cheat, just ran away from the commitment...
I don't know what to do.
If he run away from the commitment because it scared him at first, but now realized he does want to build some future with you and you are the person for him, and there were no other serious issues between ye, like you said there was no cheating etc. I think you could give him a chance if you still love him, but make sure to be clear you are looking for commitment and not just playing around so he knows exactly what he is getting into. Talk about it before agreeing to get back together to see what your expectations for each other are.
You don't let someone of value go. Tell him to kick rocks.
Like a bitch right
If he didn’t cheat give him another chance. It’s ok if he got scared. He’s human too... sometimes we forget that
This is what I did to my ex too
My old boyfriend came back after his 1st divorce and again after his 2nd divorce and now again after he has been single for 7 years-- I have known him for 35 years-- this will never end. LOL!!
Oh nooo, he sounds like bad news
Toxic!
NO-- I am vegetarian and an acrobatic Yoga instructor-- he would have to change too much. Like come to terms with his need to control me, manipulate me and call me and get his results on his clock at any moment of time, He needs to call someone else to get his supply! I am sure there is someone who can be available to him on his terms. Because HIS terms are what everything is-- His Movie, of Himself and you are filling a part in his movie. and you better get your wallet out-- because you are going to have to dress the part and get breast implants.. DONE!
I am whole food vegetarian-- no dairy, meat or processed foods-- i think it does matter-- I don't see this Narc anymore, but they do want to bring you down, and hold you down and deconstruct your progress and pick you apart and call all parts of you worthless-- this is what they need to do in order to feel better about themselves being alone.... SICK!
this comment is literally how i fell about my ex!!
Honestly I realized I didnt ultimately want my ex back half way through your no contact break up video. The whole idea that I was wanting someone who didn't want me, couldn't communicate honestly and sober, and treated me like annoying dog crap she stepped in. But then I still feel loneliness and nostalgia for the rare good times. In those feelings it helps that you have so many videos reexplaning why its important to value yourself and how to do that in emotional moments. Thank you for your confident words that you share with us.
I got Matthew's get the ex back program the next day after my ex broke up w me. It was the most difficult 6 weeks of my life but having the audio book as my best friend really help motivate me during the tough time... I joined personal training, I started salsa lesson, I reflect and really think about what I want in life. I still want him back but Matt's program makes see how strong I am and even if I don't get him back, I will be ok too.
Every steps in the Ebook was amazing and even though the no contact period for me was a bit tricky because my ex msg me almost every single day since the break up. But I keep Matt's advice and always reply with kindness and warmth. Just like the Ebook says , it would either get your ex back or get you over your ex and become a better, stronger version of yourself. I am loving the positive changes and thanks to Matt, last weekend I met my ex for the first time and the next day he ask to get back together because he has never loved someone this much♥️
Joy Chang how long did it take from the start of no contact to your bf asking you to get back with him?
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I watch this over and over and it make me realise that i dont want my ex back. Thank you for this video. I just love it.
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You are giving us real advice which we women don't want to believe, we are afraid to face the reality! What you are telling that is the reality
Danish this is how I feel too honestly
Use both your heart AND head. There's a reason why it ended, regardless of who left. Sure, the feelings are still there but how can you be sure if the past issues won't come back when you reunite. He may not be the right one and the time you're WASTING to get him back, you could very well use to meet Mr. Right. the sooner you eliminate Mr. wrong in your life, the sooner you get to Mr. Right. time is important, it won't wait for anyone, it keeps ticking away.
None of these applied to me. I want my ex back because he took care of me and wants the best things for me. We just had rough fights.
me too
now shes gone. and i want her back.
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It's really about how both of you can communicate wanting the same future and having the space for both of you to grow.
Very good advice. There's nothing wrong with having good memories of someone but realistically you have to move on.
SuperNashum...thank you for your comment, you are right, we are in different wavelengths. I finally left him, he's emotionally immature and abusive.
So, I dont have an ex that I need to worry about, but I wanted to see this anyway. I clicked on the link in the description, and watched a probably 30 minute video that gets you nowhere. It's like he talks slowly intentionally so you spend so much time on there just to say "buy my program!".
Yep
I do missed my ex and want him back because I do love him so much. But I know I would never ever take him back (if he come back) because he has hurt me way too harsh which I never thought of him would be so irresponsible and hypocrite.
hey Mathew you made very valid points about why not to get back with an ex. it really is also about choices we make and situations we accept. I love your videos because it's information we all know but you just help to reiterate our actual own senses which we all tend to ignore. I feel a break up happened for a reason....take notice of that reason and enjoy moving forward to meeting that person who really will compliment your life and you there's..dont waste time on a liar a cheat and person with no values. remember you are worthy .
But it hurts so much!
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jananni123456789 it hurts, it's really uncomfortable but it's necessary. You deserve the stars and the moon when you've given someone your world. You can do it.. I'm also saying this to myself. You're not alone.. I know I'm 2 years late but this is for anyone
jananni123456789 that’s why we need to take the decision ASAP ...after what happened with my ex I didn’t believe in second chances at all
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You are amazing Matthew! I have read your books and I have been following you since day 1! I feel like I have more self esteem now than ever. I'm greatful to have such a great life coach ;) greetings from Germany. Yagmur
I love this filming location, especially the red chair. The shot of the building down the street is great.
After telling my Female Counsellor that I was considering going back yet again to a dysfunctional relationship out of Loneliness..
She shared some wise words..
“ A flame in a fire is beautiful to look at, but you don’t want to touch it “
.. and that did it for me, never looked back. Just needed someone with more common sense to set me straight.
You are so sincere and honestly connect with the emotions of the listeners.That's why I think you are AMAZING.❤
You sound like Daniel Radcliffe :) Thank you for your adivce. He left me two months ago... For someone else. After FIVE years of an amazing relationship
Swan182 I’m in the exact same position as you were except we were together for 3 years. I feel so replaced and it breaks my heart because it was amazing, just like yours. For you personally, when did it start getting better? Or easier to accept?
@@kiakaha110 got dumped 1 month ago after a 1.5 years of an amazing relationship and I thought it was gonna last a lifetime. But you know what, I am huge believer in KARMA and if your ex left you for someone else, I'm sure one day your suffering will be your ex's suffering and just multiply the pain. your ex will understand what you have been through and till that day comes, become the best version of yourself and show that person what its been a huge loss for your ex. best. revenge.ever
He will come back sorry but u will be on holiday falling inlove lol
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Some people are confused what it means missing your ex
Sometimes We miss our ex as in we miss THEM
But sometimes you dont miss the person...you just miss the memories you made with them
I needed to hear this so badly, thank you! I left my boyfriend for a few big reasons and now he wants me back today. I was just starting to weaken and think I can change him, but no you are right. His issues are too big and it was dragging me down. Very hard to stop the video there but that was what I needed to hear :) Thank you. Moving on now :D
Eta - but I'll be back to hear the rest when I'm feeling stronger! super curious lol!
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my ex broke my heart, disrespected me every single time, treated me like an animal, but i choose to stay nice and clam with her. But at the end i decided not to be with someone like her again in this life. but i still care for her and still miss her everyday.
Sorry to have hurt you. You reminded me of my boyfriend. He said I disrespected him all the time, treated him like a dog and he always chose to be nice and calm with me. Until he broke up with me.
It's about 3 weeks since we stopped contacting each other. He broke up with me and I melted down. Until now, I'm better and I realised how much wrongs I have done but I know that talk is cheap, apology can only proven with actions. I didn't beg him and chose to give him space and respect for as long as it takes.
I wanted to say him how sorry I am by becoming a better and bigger person. A version no. 2. Even so, I know clearly that I would have lost him forever since that day already. Nevertheless, I'll continue to try my best to pick myself up.
I wanted my ex back. What was sad was that that relationship was toxic and abusive. I was so young that I didn't recognize that person wasn't right for me. And I wanted him. I waited. I went to the gym. I got a degree. I worked hard to be closer to someone that that person wanted. All that growing I did.. And he still didn't want me back. So, three years go by and I decide to start dating again. It drove my ex crazy. So crazy that he wanted me back. And I took him back. And I loved him. I still do. But the grown me. The independent me that be was suddenly attracted to, was finally mature enough to see that it eadnt healthy. 3 years..
If someone is bad enough to take them from you, you never had them in the first place, so move on.
I'm glad I saw this video. I've been battling this urge to stick around with someone I once had an amazing connection with, but don't anymore. That one night he and I hung out was a memorable night, and I've been clinging on to that night ever since. I know I shouldn't cling on to just one night of chemistry, attraction and connection but I can't help it. Now, ever since then, the guy has been absolutely stale. He keeps coming back and talking to me though, which is a little confusing, but it's just plain old boring now. I find myself sticking around hoping we'd have another interesting night again but we never do. It's just awkward, boring, plain and stale with him in terms of conversation, attraction and everything else, and we tend to argue and frustrate each other. I don't know what happened, and why we just had one night of emotional and physical connection and chemistry. However watchign this video confirmed the fact that I really should move on ,rather than make excuses and wait for another amazing night with him. I am not usually like this with guys, but with him, I am, and I hate it. Thanks for this video Matt :) Time to stop making excuses and tell myself it was just one night!
Yes!!! True blue excellent video. Prayer, Bible study, and this video has helped me from getting sucked back into this person's life. We don't share the same morals, values, goals, on n on. He hurts me, and thrn later apologizes...it has been a never-ending cycle. I'm completely done for the sake of my sanity.
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True, he has the same schtick at the end of another one of these topic videos. It's more recent too, like within the past few weeks or so (I think). I tried to watch the special 2nd video and it ended up being more marketing. LOL It's ok, though. If I need a reminder I go look at Matthew's free videos about the man not valuing you, and the one about feeling regretful about having dumped him.
He came back but now I feel less interested in him. I dont want myself go through same cycle. He is so heartless and a narcissist.
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I wish I had found your channel years ago, ny self esteem would have been better and I'd have put myself first rather then others and possibly had more value to my ex husband rather then him leaving our family for someone else. I know now my own value and what I deserve. Thank you
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This guy recently decided to stop partying and grow up. He got a good job and was working on himself when we reconnected-we met at a job the previous summer. We got into a romantic relationship and then he decided that he still needs to work on him and he can't have a relationship right now. I went on a trip and when he found out I came back to town he asked to hang out. We did and we defiantly didn't act like "friends". A week later he decided to not to continue the romantic relationship. That I'm great and what not but he can't get into a relationship for a "long time" until he gets to where he wants to be on his own, but he continuously said he didn't want to lose me completely because he needs some one like me in his life but we just need to be friends. I cut contact completely. It's been a week. Now what? Is there no hope?
What was the finale
Taylor Johnson I'm curious how things go after 1 year now
Update?
Sometimes getting back to an ex isn't a good idea because you are only repeating the sad chapter of your life. If you like to move forward then move to another chapter of your life because it's hard to fight for the same old that you knew already that isn't working anymore.
Reasons for why you shouldn't:
1. You're lonely 1:35
2. You have a great connection 2:08
3. You're attracted to them 2:31
4. You think their bad habits will change 3:06
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I tried dating after we separated. But it didn’t feel right. My husband is on my mind almost 24/7. My heart is his. I’ve tried so hard to move on, move forward and get over him but quite honestly, I feel like he really is the only one for me. Every date I went on felt like I was cheating, every man I talked to felt like I was cheating. Clearly I’m not because we’re not together anymore but he’s my other half, he made a mistake and for whatever reason he decided to leave after it. I love this man with everything I have despite his affair and his mistake. I want so badly for us to try and rekindle, to see if our marriage is worth saving. To me, it is or I wouldn’t have married him. I believe in us so much I’m willing to do whatever it takes to just try
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Could anyone else just fall asleep to Matthews voice? It's so calming to me. Could you make a video just singing "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star" for me to fall asleep to?
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Never ever go back. It ended for a reason and it won’t change. Get someone way better and move on.
Sometimes people just want what they can’t have...
I am a true follower & fan of yours, wanted to say thank you, not because of your time and dedication to your videos, but I believe I can talk for a lot of women here and say that you have opened our eyes. Thank you so much
Do you have any advice about how to react to someone in a high value way who has treated you badly. Person I was seeing who is also in my social circle so it's inevitable we will come face to face again. I want to covey strength and dignity when he approaches me. I also don't want to pretend im OK with being treated badly.
I would love it if Matt answered this! Good question.
How I would react? I would just keep my high level, and be polite and nice as I am always, but stay cold and unfriendly at the same time...if that makes sense. I think this way you don't show that you are ok with him treating you badly, you actually show you have dignity, you have no reason to be angry or get back to him or something..he hasn't hurt you, you actually don't even care :) so he is simply someone you know, but totally unimportant. I think this is the best way to react, I'm doing this, and so far, everything has been ok :)
***** really well said and I totally agree with you! Have a great day :)
I’m not trying to get my ex back. Rather, after avoiding him for 4 years, I decided to try to be cordial because we have so many mutual friends and hobbies. Fast forward 1 year, he asked if I’d cuddle with him and we were in public and I’d been single for 9 months, so I said yes. 10 days later (2 days ago), we were at a weekend party and he asked if I wanted to hear some music and we shared AirPods and end up cuddling at the party for what felt like 3 hours. I’ve managed to not go home with him and thus managed to not sleep with him. That’s why I’m here - wondering if after 4 years (he was 26 and is now almost 31), if he grew up.
Same
Best thing you said in this entire video is = people dont change 👍
Thank you so much Matthew! Your videos are the only thing helping me getting over my recent breakup.
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It's exactly what I needed to here
Feeling lonely but I refuse to watch the rest and will return when things are looking up
*sighs of relief* this video helped me chill out about my situation.
The second Hussey told me to pause this vide and move on, I did it. In my case I have a desire to go back with him but deep down I know it's better for me & I need to move on, Thankyou Hussey.
One question Mathew : We women like to hear how great and beautiful we are however men hate it when we ask the questions that leads them to say what they really think/love about us ...How can you get your significant other to tell you what your ears want to hear ?
Start telling and loving yourself ... And you won't need him anymore to say it.
LilLion1818 Agreed!!! I tell my girlfriend every day how amazing and beautiful she is but unless she believes it herself it won't matter. How can you expect others to truly love you if you cant truly love yourself. Self-love (no pun intended) is far more important than 'getting' the love from others :)
You help me so much, Matthew!! YOu are great! So wise, so clever! Love from Brazil ! Wish you come here some day
What if you had a good relationship, and you nor the person had no issues, but they are going through a lot of family issues, a lot in life and just want to learn to love themselves & focus / get their life together?
Makayla Kelly someone should want to struggle and evolve with you, I say hear them out give them a chance, but don’t withhold on dating or seeing new people (in hopes of being with them)
Makayla Kelly the only question I struggle with..since I’m letting time heal to get over him is, what if I still love him and I am with someone, obviously I won’t hurt the other person...
You must be 'Very Proud' to know that you are helping so many people in their lives. Absolutely Fantastic!!!!!!!!! X
You helped me actually
I dnt want him back 😁😁anymore
He's not the one
Thanx Matt
As a guy, who had a relationship 4.5 years and has been broken up for 8 months and want her back. Only because the issues are fixable in my mind.
3:20 "Don't get me wrong I'm a big believer in change, that's why I do what I do" but most people don't change :) Bro if you really believe that then why do you do what you do, if as you say "most people don't change" then who are you affecting with your work, your videos, your podcasts, your products, etc. When you make a statement like that it almost sounds like you're in the business of selling hope - something to consider when you make statements like that :)
Realist talk
Thanks for the video, made me realize that the person i have been with is not right for me and i should not want him back.
Spoilers: Don't go to the link to see the video- it's literally 10 minutes of padding and zero substance besides 'download the thing'. You're welcome.
I'm grateful for some of the advice in these vids, but not the bait-and-switch. That just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
He just broke up with me. Right person, wrong time (I think). We've decided to be friends but I'm still heartbroken. I'm kinda hoping he comes back when he's finished sorting his life and head out.
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But what about during the Pandemic when there are hardly anyone else takin the risk to get to know someone new???
I was with my ex for 8 years! We grew up together ! He told me he doesn't see me romantically and that he doesn't love me anymore. I hate these reasons maybe I'm in denial but we had a connection we made each other feel special and I do feel betrayed. He asked me to stay friends with him and to still hang out... I told him it would be too painful and that I was going to have to say goodbye I'm devestated. Maybe he was afraid of staying with his high school sweetheart maybe we didn't want the same things in life. I'm just always going to feel sad that he didn't love me the way I thought he did. I would love to have him back but as the saying goes if you love something set it free or something like that.
Penelope Vargas going through the exact same except I agreed to stay friends... it’s both good and bad. Have you guys seen each other again since your post?
I really needed someone to talk this into me!!!!
Thank you!!!!!!!!
Dear Matthew, I do not comment usually, but I would like to you say that your map "to get your men back" is so challenging that I don not want to go there and is more challenging than doing finance and controlling with all this excel sheets and all other analysis. But one I just know for sure is just be who you are at first place, stick to your goals and smile is enough. The other thing I am bad in dating, but usually men does not think that, and they want to see me again, why? I am not standard, I make a fun and just want to hear guy. They love that, and sometimes they are scared from me, while I am independent, smart, I am doing every day yoga, I am eating healthy...sometimes they want to go to Wikipedia, to google when I say smth., and it is hard sometimes to satisfy such a girl, but I think that I am normal. Thank you for videos they make me smile and I know that I am doing good at the end. :)
Okay... Has anybody clicked on the ExBackRoadmap thing? What do you guys think? The entire video feels like some kind of life insurance commercial, and for reasons unknown, Matt looks like a rigid wax-doll with White Walker eyes and absolutely no soul? And why was it so corny? I'm not used to this.
Great connection, attraction, loved his energy, felt like we had a similar mindset. He left with no real reason, we met and connected again until he went away for 6 months. Fast forward and when I next saw him I was so nervous, not only that it felt like the past 6 months and all the progress hadn't happened. We were close for the next month it was like are we, aren't we although he wasn't saying and was being a little inconsistent. We have the same circle of friends so have crossed again since where he actually said he didn't want a relationship but chatted to me for the next month, calling me and messaging me even when he was out. Honestly, I could have taken him back after the third of getting close after the break up but now I don't know if I can take anymore.
When I discovered your videos a few months ago, I was still thinking about this topic, but there are better things to do for myself now, and move on. 🌷✨
Thank you for this advice, I've contemplated whether or not being with my last partner would be a smart decision. However with what you have mentioned maybe they aren't for the right reasons, better to let go and explore new and better opportunities...
Matthew, my boyfriend just broke up with me again.. we had a really bad start and he is very hurt about it and can't let it go and it's been 2 years. I don't know what to do.. I love him but everyone around me says he is terrible for me but I deep down I feel like he is the one.. he says he needs time but I want to get him back quicker than he wants. I don't know what to do.
I am very much enjoying your clips nowadays. you are very thoughtful person I guess. thank you for all the videos.
"Go for the DEVIL you KNOWWW"
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You are truly amazing. By listening to your videos , I have learned a lot about relations and received the courage to move on , because it was time. THANK YOU!!
I left at 4:22- Thank you Matthew :)
Thank you @matt for the input, this reinforces my thoughts and feelings. You're a voice in my head. I'm so grateful for you.
You don't really believe we're going to pause the video at 4:09!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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The "move on" and "let go" philosophy is just an other approach in life, for some it works for some not. Having detachment wings is a great skill but trying to make a relationship work is as important. So many people did "let go" and "moved on" to the ocean of nowhere, for the reasons you said, after some years they realized they are not capable to find someone else clean of these reasons. Depends how ready ones is in taking a risk. Risk of regret, risk of loneliness.
It's true: you want your ex back only because you feel lonely.
Yep, it happens to the best of us. But, being lonely is not a good enough reason to get back with an ex. Period. Stay strong people. It's onwards and upwards from here on!
I broke yp with him because we were too young. Because I was too scared of the people's eye of how'll they judge us when we are together. I have to say I made the right decision. Time passes by, I've met tons of boys but I my feelings kept coming back to my first love. I want him back, maybe not now but someday, when our hearts are ready, when our friendship grew stronger and when we are living our dreams.
He's too precious to me that I have to respect his decisions. I was happy that he's happy. I just want him back because I wanna take care of him, be the right girlfriend that I never was back then and because he's still dear to me.
As much as I hated hearing this I needed to
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Great relationship advice in general on this channel! But when you click on the link you get a cheap and grandiose sell of "solving all your problems and having the dream life " style. About half an hour of saying nothing at all. Pretty distasteful.
My ex and I broke up 10 years ago. He left me. I still love the guy, but there were a lot of issues back then. He talks about getting back together now. I have considered it, but I just can't see it being the right decision right now. There is another guy who I really like, we are just "hanging out" right now, but we enjoy each other's company. Just feeling it out.
My ex is one of the " nine out of 10 " thats why he wanted us back and i was "1 out of 10" thats why i wanted the relationship back..could there be anything more pathetic than this??
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I really appreciate your videos, advice, articles. But you know something? That great connection and that strong passion, attraction is what makes you fall in love and finally love someone. I have read a lot from you and i appreciate that you want to protect women but you choose always sensibility over sensitivity. What i mean is that, as you said in one video, one plus one is aways two, when someone treats you right, makes you his priority ect that's the man for you. This is obvious Mat. The thing is, that you don't necessarily fall in love with that guy but with a person that you have the great connection and the big passion. I don't find easily people to connect in a deeply level or even interest me, so that's why it's hard for me to think I'll find someone like the guy i dated. Because i had a psychic connection with him. He was scared and he dissappeared. But don't rush to tell me, that if he was crazy for me he would stay. Because it's not black and white. He had dealed with a great drama in his family and noone was there for him and he lost his faith in people, as he said. The same attitude, that of indifference experienced from his ex too. I was scared too and i have my issues too and probably if everything was going great i would have left and in the start i was thinking a lot about that. So, if he leaves it's not always because he is not in love or not worth it. And by the way, he came back to me, because i knew....
I know in my heart I don't really want him back. What I want is the jumbled mess in my head to go away so I can have 'me' back and live MY life again. 🍒
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