I can't believe some people act so classless! What are the things you've seen people do that are without class? Find out the 10 Things That Tell You HAVE Class here: ua-cam.com/video/lDnEtYPgsZw/v-deo.html Learn how to live a more fabulous future by taking part in my FREE workshop: fabulousfutureformula.com/ As always, thank you for watching
1. Diana airing royal family dirty 2. You Anna putting picture of Prince Harry on your Thumbnail for likes and also talking negative things about other people
I’m 34 with 3 kids.. have been watching Anna for 3years and have adapted everything I learned from her-- kid you not, so many people have been complimenting how I carry myself without trying hard.. I just simply say thank you.. so thank you Anna for being such a unique person for us women❤
I'm 56 and in a touring Rock Band!! THANK GOD I found Anna earlier and studied her fashion rules! I do my best to follow her suggestions and I have a standard for silk onstage as it feels great! Always looking for my "WOW" colors!
Yes, being classy is not the same as being rich. My husband and I are not rich but we make a comfortable living. I don’t buy luxury bags or shoes or clothing. But I do buy clothes that fit well, are timeless, and modest. I also sit and speak like a lady. I don’t slouch, and I walk with confidence. I speak kindly and respectfully to others. These are all things my parents taught me.
@@tinamartina1801 You’re clearly on the wrong channel, but that isn’t true. I can tell because you’re looking for excuses instead of applying Anna Bey’s teachings and seeing the changes happen.
I remember a colleague ranting because his wife secretly bought luxury bags. He's not mad about the expense. It's about her not disclosing it and being a desperate social climber. I heard they divorced.
The classiest people I know are empathetic, compassionate, unselfish and honor those around them. You definitely need to brag about your new doggy! 😆😍☺️Teddy is a precious Angel. ❤
I absolutely love this story about Queen Victoria. This classy behaviour was summed up by Jesus Christ, too. "Love your neighbor as yourself". Yes! Compassion is SO classy.Try and leave every interaction with the other person feeling valued.♥️🇨🇦
Honestly Anna, you’re my biggest inspiration. When you started your UA-cam nobody was talking about old money or high society. Now; it’s trending like the plague. That says a lot. That you’re causing people to talk, to reflect, and to shift courses because it’s possible. I’m proud of you and I thank God that you took the leap of faith and started your channel inspite of all the setback
Thank you so much, Anna, for emphasizing compassion as a major component of class. True class makes the world a better place. And warmest congratulations on your newest family member--Teddy is beyond adorable.
I worked for really old money families in Manhattan. The men were not around much, but the women were always extremely smart, kind, well rounded and well traveled, never wore anything with logos or flashy jewelry, many got blowouts and manicures but no polish, they walked everywhere on the UES (car and driver were to take the kids to school and classes) and did not brag. Example: instead of saying they were going to their mansion in the Hamptons , they would say “we are going out East for the weekend”. If someone is very flashy, braggy = new money.
If they're flashy it could mean they have a Leo rising 😉. (Like me) Seriously, I really try to live within my means. Example: I have a leopard print coat but it's not designer.😊
Very accurate. Understated elegance, subtle grace; courtesy and manners; a distinct penchant for archaism: all of these characteristics exemplify old money. Sadly they are declining at a precipitous pace due to social media & the loss of traditions 😔
A dog owner etiquette video would be great! Especially a video on hosting etiquette if you have a dog or other pet. I agree with everything you said, and I am happy you highlighted compassion. Compassion and gratitude often get left off the list, but for me, they say everything.
God YES PLEASE!! Gosh so many rule breakers are rampant! Can we talk about etiquette and rules involving service dogs ? People often treat our service dogs for their petting or taunting pleasure. It's so upsetting to see people being so disrespectful when we have put in so much hard work and time and resources into getting our dog legitimately certified and not just some where online where you can pay a fee and get "certified".
Agreed, some people treat pets like they’re children but we need to respect reality and remember they are actually animals and don’t need to go everywhere
This was such a good video. I was brought up in Destin Florida and I’ve seen so many people with money. Money means nothing without kindness. I could care less who has what. Some of the wealthiest people in that town lived modestly but were genuine. Their were so many people faking rich and they were rude. Class has zero to do with money and handbags and things. Class is someone who in genuine and kind and caring.
A few things that come to mind before even watching the video: being rude, staring at people, gossiping, bullying, behaving like a narcissist, lacking empathy, lacking curiosity about the world and about learning and understanding new things. In terms of materialistic matters I think it comes down to hygiene, and being resourceful. Respect is a key word for class. Respect for your body, for other people, for nature, for your environment.
And - believe me when I tell you this - there are super wealthy people (more than you would imagine) who are miserable & typical every day people who are happy & secure in their loving families.
My grandmother taught us that ladies and gentlemen always try to make others feel comfortable in their presence. That includes ourselves and our own boundaries to maintain comfort for everyone
Healthy self - esteem means to regard yourself with respect, appreciation and awareness, which means you have bounderies, compassion and therefore class. One more point, to judge others on their appearance instead of character means lack of class too.
I love conversations about class, grace and elegance. Kindness, compassion and helping others is extremely classy and elegant thing to do. Only doesn’t make someone classy. It’s what you do with it to make the world better and equitable for others. It doesn’t take much to have class. Being thoughtful, caring and kind and have confidence that you are doing what you need to do.
I love this! As a server I have dealt with so many people-even wealthy people-who are not only rude and act like like I’m a slave, but don’t want to tip. Thank you, Anna!
People without class also have absolutely no respect for others whether its the way you talk to someone or even listen to others. No manners is another one. Judgmental of others is also without class. You don't know what the other person is going through. Great video and yes, a person with the utmost class loves animals!
I love the saying money doesn't bring you class! I have seen it with people, co-workers and even family members. Being kind to the staff is always a MUST. Welcome Teddy- You are soo adorable!
I get so many compliments from many people when I’m out the way I dress and the way that I carry myself, the past 3 years that I have been following Anna my life changed so much. Thank you Anna Bay❤❤❤❤
Anna, Teddy is darling! In addition to classy people being kind to animals. Classy pet owners do not assume that everyone wants to hold their pet. I have allergies, and therefore I love pets from a distance. 💖
Class is all about how you treat other people, across the board. Making others feel comfortable when you interact with them. Going out of your way to be kind to someone who might need it. Maintaining your boundaries, but deflecting attacks on them with humor, perhaps. Lovely video, Anna. Good luck with the adorable Teddy!
Making people feel comfortable could be a sign of people pleasing attitude, no need for humor so you could be seen as nice. Class means healthy mindset which equals to be firm at times because being assertive is healthy. Reciprocity is also important to understand, you see people for what they are, not for what you want them to be. Demanding kindness or going over the board with kindness often means insecurity and not healthy self-esteem. Act apropriately in given situation, not going out of your way to be kind, because kind is something you either are or not, it doesn't have a scale as many seem to think.
@CD-lr4su I am not concerned about that reference in the least. Harry and Meghan are living and dying by their actions, not anyone's skin color. Harry's behavior was used as an example; I think they are peripheral to this channel and the points Anna is trying to make about our own outlook and behaviors and what they say about us.
@C D he spoke about he's experience after years of leaks from the Royal family to the British tabloids. At least harry came out spoke instead of using tabloids reporters to get he's message out. The Royals do indeed speak, they use the tabloids like the daily mail and telegraph to do that. So Anna saying the Royals cannot reply is false. They have been speaking/leaking stories about Harry and he's wife for years. Royals are dysfunctional. Nothing classy about them.
Hello Anna, I agree with the points you made. Generous people usually live longer and are happier, even if we don't have much there's always something we can give: kind words, a genuine compliment when appropriate... You said it all "Please" and "Thank you" are simple and yet powerful words. Displaying good manners and treating others with consideration and respect is a must no matter the social class or type of car we drive, that's possible for anyone! It reminded me a Bible advice "Do to others what you would like them to do to you" [Matthew 7:12]. Thank you for the video and for introducing us to the new member of the family :) xx
I’m so glad my family teach me manners at young age as everyone has said to my family that I’m kind, an angel & a star! I come from Asian & western culture I had discipline & my family are quite strict, traditional & religious. They teach me to be respectful, charitable, grateful & be myself even if people who don’t have manners & kindness so I would say I fit in having class😊 I really hate showing off so I’m always humble & donate often to charity people who need it more than me, I’ve been following you Anna for long time it’s been educational & is interesting also I learnt new things so thank you for sharing ❤
What I've learned in my own developmental journey is that class is really all about having integrity and elegance is about being your most authentic self. Neither work if you're coming from a performative space ❤
My favorite quote is from the Ritz Carlton, "Ladies and Gentlemen serving Ladies and Gentlemen." Thank you Anna, for another wonderful video. Kisses to Teddy!
Tack för en fantastiskt bra och lärorik video.🙏 Jag ska erkänna att det var några av punkterna som jag verkligen behöver "ta tag" i. Man blir nog lätt lite blind för hur man själv beter sig i vissa situationer ......
You so melted my heart with your “Precious Dog”. I see your videos and I am grateful to hear all your advice. Thank you Ana Bey , for what you are doing for women. Inspiring and generous.
I've seen people do each and every one of these things my entire life. I recognized this behavior when I was young and knew what they were doing. A good reminder to evaluate myself and make sure I'm not doing any of them.
I got really impressed by the story of Queen Victoria. And you made my day with the explanation of "not accurate reconstruction"! You looked extinguishingly beautiful in this video. Thank for sharing all that!
Yes Anna. ONCE AGAIN you have nailed it. Kindness and compassion are often seen by insicure peole as a form of weakness and lack of character. Nothing more wrong. Character comes out when needed. Basta. Your dog is too cute. Benvenuto!
Interesting and informative as always. When I think about old money and class uniting in perfect harmony a picture of HM Queen Elizabeth II springs immediately to mind. She nailed it.
This was a great video, Anna! I always think people lack class when they never ask you single a question. I’m always asking folks questions because I’m genuinely interested in them. When someone is always talking about themselves it is such a turn off!
Can I just say you picked the perfect name for Teddy! I immediately thought “teddy bear “ when I saw him! He is just so adorable- what a little blessing he must be!
I used to think that even if you knew someone for a long time, you should stick by them. But she kept on displaying very uncomfortable behavior. Kept making me feel uncomfortable, and finally I had to cut ties. I did this in person, and as kindly as possible, but still. If hanging out with a person brings you down, and causes anxiety more than fun, you can cut ties no matter who the person is, or how long you've known them.
Loved it, especially “support others embarrassments” and “kind to animals”. I had never thought about those two things in relation to having class but both are so true.
I really Love when you tell virtuos things being classic and stylish, braging and being meen to animals is not class. You seem to be a really Good person ❤❤❤
I love this video! I think every young person should have to watch it in school and write a personal response to each point. I believe etiquette and class should be taught at home but some reinforcement at school couldn’t hurt. Teddy is sooo cute! He’s growing so fast.
I stopped following the channel a while back but this video is changing my mind. Great message about class being about how you behave. Showing kindness, having empathy, being compassionate. ❤
I love love your tip about confidence in yourself and not caring about impressing anyone. I am not always perfect, I choose what I wear, eat and do for myself and it does make me feel classy and confident.
I would make this video mandatory for everyone to watch. I am so glad that so ,,powerfull,, woman like you shares also those kinds of values, that our society miss so often. ❤ great job Anna
Wat fijn dat we nog iets kunnen leren van russische vrouwen...Want haar moeder is een russische uit Estland...Anna is een echte russin wat uiterlijk betreft😍
You remind me of my elegant grandma.. when you talk I feel like she’s giving me this message. Thank you for your content 💛 you’re my favorite UA-cam channel
I’m a preschool teacher and for a part time job I’m a catering server. I come across a lot of classless wealthy people. They are so rude to us and when we are passing hors d’oeuvres like they can’t be bothered instead of just saying no thank you.
Great info! Many of those things are what I teach in "charm" classes for pre-teens. Having class and good manners will open more doors for you than money will. Also...your doggie is precious!
Anna, Teddy is ADORABLE!! I'm an animal lover in general but I confess I'm very partial to dogs of all kinds. Your points are so clear and so right. Thank you for another great video.
I really love this. Harry did us a favor. He demonstrated that just because you live in a very nice house doesn't mean you're not a shack inside. The thing about what a lot that you and others teach is basically how rich people get rich. You have to have wisdom and decorum. You have to know when to keep your mouth shut. How to say things. Those people end up with money. Like you said. Only certain kinds of people should have access to The trick is to be that kind of person. When you get there, what you need will come. I wish I were your age. Or younger even. I wish I'd been smart enough to pay attention to these things when I was growing up. But it's never too late. I like the old money style because it's not terribly pretentious. It looks good. Wears well. You get your money's worth. But it's not showy. Doesn't draw attention For the wrong reasons. And I do aspire. Thank you for making videos like this.
It is true, it's hard to find genuine friends in this age where EVERYONE is connected and is friends with you on social media. Many assume true friendship from that, while also many more use that connection.
Bravo Ana, this was a breath of fresh air in today's society!!! Yes, compassion is key in all interactions and I feel you cannot have class if devoid of empathy. I am SO happy you have your longed for Teddy. If you spell Dog backwards.....well I feel it's the closest you get to God 9n earth. Dogs show all endearingly exquisite attributes. This videos was gorgeous love love loved it❤ Thank you
I don’t want to minimize all these classy tips! But the last one is sweet 😊. I couldn’t get enough of your new pup. He’s precious! Enjoy his company and loyalty!
Love these pointers! I have always been an observer and much more of a listener than a talker and recently went on a first date with a new fella and he refused to pay. That for me is a person who is tactless and has no class whatsoever. I personally dislike people who boast, talk endlessly, dislike animals and show no compassion or empathy. That for me is a person who lacks refinement and better to be alone than being with someone like that. Also, in my experience people are very good at putting up a pretence but their true colours eventually show and I always have the courage to walk out.
@@dr.christopherjohnson935 Hi Dr. Johnson, Thank you for your message. Yes, I am safe. I live in Canada but am from India. I wish for safety, peace and positivity as well :) Thank you, M
Glad to tune into such positive content. I was a forced catholic birth to narcissistic parents where there was no love, empathy or compassion. When I was younger my first impulse was to be harsh or obnoxious to people, like my father. It made me feel low class. I had to really work at being nice to people because it did not come naturally. Glad to say that after extensive personal work and converting to Buddhism, I can now handle difficult situations with confidence.
Oh My God - the ending with the dog was so unexpected - that was my favourite part! I agree - Being Kind to Animals has always been a trait I use to gauge people in my life, whether family members, friends or workers or whatever. A person with no love for animals has a closed heart and that tells you everything you need to know bout that person..... I have dogs of my own yet seeing you with your new Dog absolutely warmed my heart! 🥰😍🐕
Hello, Anna - Love this vid ❤️ Thank you for sharing! I especially liked the points you made about being compassionate and kindness to animals. Life’s too short and we need more of that in the world.
Omg, I'm almost positive this is the second time my eyes/ears may have tricked me but I could have sworn I heard/seen a "Kardashian Kough" if you will.....Absolutely perfect... Love that...sneaky cheeky!!
Congratulations on your newest addition to the family! Teddy is absolutely adorable. Secondly, thank you for highlighting this topic. I truly enjoy your various content on etiquette and watching how far you have evolved as a person. Much love and support! 😊
congratulations on Teddy! your happiness is infectious. it’s so wonderful to see where you are today. through all social situations, you are always in my mind, and i have benefited from you words for several years now. i thank you.
My mom is from a very good family of modest means. She and my aunts INSISTED that we all conducted ourselves in a classy, kind, and respectful manner. Rudeness was not tolerated. I have a very large family, and it was impressed upon us that every thing we did reflected on us, and on our family.
Im glad Im good to saying thank you. Never complain or say anything negative. Only speak out to when someone is affecting you. I love your videos! Subscribed!
I can't believe some people act so classless! What are the things you've seen people do that are without class?
Find out the 10 Things That Tell You HAVE Class here: ua-cam.com/video/lDnEtYPgsZw/v-deo.html
Learn how to live a more fabulous future by taking part in my FREE workshop: fabulousfutureformula.com/
As always, thank you for watching
Good afternoon Anna! A vulgar moman is not a classy lady.
everyone should behave like anna or me
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Prince Harry ain't gonna like it 😂
1. Diana airing royal family dirty
2. You Anna putting picture of Prince Harry on your Thumbnail for likes and also talking negative things about other people
So glad this video was not all about Harry and your opinion about him. Anyways I enjoyed the other parts of the video
I’m 34 with 3 kids.. have been watching Anna for 3years and have adapted everything I learned from her-- kid you not, so many people have been complimenting how I carry myself without trying hard.. I just simply say thank you.. so thank you Anna for being such a unique person for us women❤
I'm 56 and in a touring Rock Band!! THANK GOD I found Anna earlier and studied her fashion rules! I do my best to follow her suggestions and I have a standard for silk onstage as it feels great! Always looking for my "WOW" colors!
And for us men, too!
Same thing happened with me. I was considered the loud one by people around me. Now, I m the proper one. Yay! Thanks Anna!
Good for you everybody.
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When someone talks negatively or poorly of me or my friends, I don’t acknowledge it and start speaking kindly of others and positive events.
Yes, being classy is not the same as being rich. My husband and I are not rich but we make a comfortable living. I don’t buy luxury bags or shoes or clothing. But I do buy clothes that fit well, are timeless, and modest. I also sit and speak like a lady. I don’t slouch, and I walk with confidence. I speak kindly and respectfully to others. These are all things my parents taught me.
yes, my parents taught me that too and we were not "rich" or "high society". it's about kindness, compassion, genuineness, and integrity. :)
saggia e molto piu'fine di gente che prima si ubriacava...poi i soldi...
@@twistedyoga7432 it is all about "blood" ,being 'rich' ,'high society' ,' classy' , 'skin colour', 'social status's,etc.
@@tinamartina1801 You’re clearly on the wrong channel, but that isn’t true. I can tell because you’re looking for excuses instead of applying Anna Bey’s teachings and seeing the changes happen.
I remember a colleague ranting because his wife secretly bought luxury bags. He's not mad about the expense. It's about her not disclosing it and being a desperate social climber. I heard they divorced.
The classiest people I know are empathetic, compassionate, unselfish and honor those around them. You definitely need to brag about your new doggy! 😆😍☺️Teddy is a precious Angel. ❤
I love your attitude 🎉. Real class.
I absolutely love this story about Queen Victoria. This classy behaviour was summed up by Jesus Christ, too. "Love your neighbor as yourself".
Yes! Compassion is SO classy.Try and leave every interaction with the other person feeling valued.♥️🇨🇦
That teaching is actually from the Hebrew scriptures, Leviticus 19:9-18. ❤️✡️
@@AdaraBalabusta And Yahshua/Jesus was a Hebrew teaching from and living a perfect example of Torah! ❤
Most likely a false story since it is told about Dutch Queen Wilhelmina and a Boer leader Paul Kruger, as well.
@@AdaraBalabusta when you don't realize every disciple in the bible is a hebrew you make that differentiation unless your a pharisee
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Honestly Anna, you’re my biggest inspiration. When you started your UA-cam nobody was talking about old money or high society. Now; it’s trending like the plague. That says a lot. That you’re causing people to talk, to reflect, and to shift courses because it’s possible. I’m proud of you and I thank God that you took the leap of faith and started your channel inspite of all the setback
sooo true
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i can relatee, i'm agree 💕
Thank you so much, Anna, for emphasizing compassion as a major component of class. True class makes the world a better place. And warmest congratulations on your newest family member--Teddy is beyond adorable.
I worked for really old money families in Manhattan. The men were not around much, but the women were always extremely smart, kind, well rounded and well traveled, never wore anything with logos or flashy jewelry, many got blowouts and manicures but no polish, they walked everywhere on the UES (car and driver were to take the kids to school and classes) and did not brag. Example: instead of saying they were going to their mansion in the Hamptons , they would say “we are going out East for the weekend”.
If someone is very flashy, braggy = new money.
That is true class. My mum was like that and always humble, which I have to say am very thankful for. 👋👍🤩!
If they're flashy it could mean they have a Leo rising 😉. (Like me) Seriously, I really try to live within my means. Example: I have a leopard print coat but it's not designer.😊
Why no polish?
Go New Yorkers!!!
Very accurate. Understated elegance, subtle grace; courtesy and manners; a distinct penchant for archaism: all of these characteristics exemplify old money. Sadly they are declining at a precipitous pace due to social media & the loss of traditions 😔
A dog owner etiquette video would be great! Especially a video on hosting etiquette if you have a dog or other pet.
I agree with everything you said, and I am happy you highlighted compassion. Compassion and gratitude often get left off the list, but for me, they say everything.
#1 Don't let your dog pee or poo on someone else's property. Let them go in your yard first then walk them.
💯 agree.
God YES PLEASE!! Gosh so many rule breakers are rampant! Can we talk about etiquette and rules involving service dogs ? People often treat our service dogs for their petting or taunting pleasure. It's so upsetting to see people being so disrespectful when we have put in so much hard work and time and resources into getting our dog legitimately certified and not just some where online where you can pay a fee and get "certified".
Also, don't bring them into restaurants or where clothes are sold. It's disgusting.
Agreed, some people treat pets like they’re children but we need to respect reality and remember they are actually animals and don’t need to go everywhere
This was such a good video. I was brought up in Destin Florida and I’ve seen so many people with money. Money means nothing without kindness. I could care less who has what. Some of the wealthiest people in that town lived modestly but were genuine. Their were so many people faking rich and they were rude. Class has zero to do with money and handbags and things. Class is someone who in genuine and kind and caring.
amen!
Well said and true
"Anywhere from his genitalia to other royal members" 😂 you have me in stitches. Your personality and sense of humor is top notch hahah
You would think he is Camilla's son lol!
@@mcicalese58 😄So true!!
@@mcicalese58 she at least didn't MEAN to do it publicly. She was mortified. He is clearly under the influence of Look at Meeeeegan.
I can’t believe he talks about his peen. I know I’m not being classy but talking about that is way less so lol
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A few things that come to mind before even watching the video: being rude, staring at people, gossiping, bullying, behaving like a narcissist, lacking empathy, lacking curiosity about the world and about learning and understanding new things. In terms of materialistic matters I think it comes down to hygiene, and being resourceful. Respect is a key word for class. Respect for your body, for other people, for nature, for your environment.
I so agree.
And - believe me when I tell you this - there are super wealthy people (more than you would imagine) who are miserable & typical every day people who are happy & secure in their loving families.
My grandmother taught us that ladies and gentlemen always try to make others feel comfortable in their presence. That includes ourselves and our own boundaries to maintain comfort for everyone
Barbara Bush said that speaking about money is classless, whether you have it or you don't. Love this.
I love the fact that people show their kindness to the most vulnerable people and even animals! Thanks for the great video and Teddy is so cute 🥰
How precious is Teddy! 💜 Thank you Anna and I couldn't agree more. 🌸
Healthy self - esteem means to regard yourself with respect, appreciation and awareness, which means you have bounderies, compassion and therefore class. One more point, to judge others on their appearance instead of character means lack of class too.
I love conversations about class, grace and elegance. Kindness, compassion and helping others is extremely classy and elegant thing to do. Only doesn’t make someone classy. It’s what you do with it to make the world better and equitable for others. It doesn’t take much to have class. Being thoughtful, caring and kind and have confidence that you are doing what you need to do.
I love this! As a server I have dealt with so many people-even wealthy people-who are not only rude and act like like I’m a slave, but don’t want to tip. Thank you, Anna!
People without class also have absolutely no respect for others whether its the way you talk to someone or even listen to others. No manners is another one. Judgmental of others is also without class. You don't know what the other person is going through. Great video and yes, a person with the utmost class loves animals!
Absolutely. Been judgemental is lack of class.
I love the saying money doesn't bring you class! I have seen it with people, co-workers and even family members. Being kind to the staff is always a MUST.
Welcome Teddy- You are soo adorable!
So excited for your new video, Anna! Treating others with no respect and thinking you are better than others = no class
I get so many compliments from many people when I’m out the way I dress and the way that I carry myself, the past 3 years that I have been following Anna my life changed so much. Thank you Anna Bay❤❤❤❤
Did you take the secrets of the elite women workshop? I am in it now
8:50 me too
Anna, Teddy is darling! In addition to classy people being kind to animals. Classy pet owners do not assume that everyone wants to hold their pet. I have allergies, and therefore I love pets from a distance. 💖
Do you know what breed Teddy might be
@@angelak6616 I think golden doodle /cavapoo
You are such a wise woman, Anna. Yes, you have class, you are very smart, you know how to impress, but you are so much more than that ❤️
Class is all about how you treat other people, across the board. Making others feel comfortable when you interact with them. Going out of your way to be kind to someone who might need it. Maintaining your boundaries, but deflecting attacks on them with humor, perhaps. Lovely video, Anna. Good luck with the adorable Teddy!
Making people feel comfortable could be a sign of people pleasing attitude, no need for humor so you could be seen as nice. Class means healthy mindset which equals to be firm at times because being assertive is healthy. Reciprocity is also important to understand, you see people for what they are, not for what you want them to be. Demanding kindness or going over the board with kindness often means insecurity and not healthy self-esteem. Act apropriately in given situation, not going out of your way to be kind, because kind is something you either are or not, it doesn't have a scale as many seem to think.
Love love this. I'm so happy the comments are not talking about clothes or wealth. Class is everything you describe
Wonderfully said !
@CD-lr4su I am not concerned about that reference in the least. Harry and Meghan are living and dying by their actions, not anyone's skin color. Harry's behavior was used as an example; I think they are peripheral to this channel and the points Anna is trying to make about our own outlook and behaviors and what they say about us.
@C D he spoke about he's experience after years of leaks from the Royal family to the British tabloids. At least harry came out spoke instead of using tabloids reporters to get he's message out. The Royals do indeed speak, they use the tabloids like the daily mail and telegraph to do that. So Anna saying the Royals cannot reply is false. They have been speaking/leaking stories about Harry and he's wife for years. Royals are dysfunctional. Nothing classy about them.
The more I watch Anna the more I like her! I am 52 working in health and beauty industry. Anna is right on! Kudos to you, Anna! 🎉
Teddy is so adorable and sweet❤️big congratulations with your new fur baby🦁 Love your channel and agreeing to all of the points.
What kind of dog is it? I'm not a dog person, so unfamiliar with breeds. Very cute!
Hello Anna, I agree with the points you made. Generous people usually live longer and are happier, even if we don't have much there's always something we can give: kind words, a genuine compliment when appropriate... You said it all "Please" and "Thank you" are simple and yet powerful words. Displaying good manners and treating others with consideration and respect is a must no matter the social class or type of car we drive, that's possible for anyone! It reminded me a Bible advice "Do to others what you would like them to do to you" [Matthew 7:12]. Thank you for the video and for introducing us to the new member of the family :) xx
What a great video! And #10 is sooo important!!! People that are not kind to animals are just not kind people! That is one of the biggest 🚩🚩🚩
Elegant, classy and well educated - that's all about Anna. Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤️
I’m so glad my family teach me manners at young age as everyone has said to my family that I’m kind, an angel & a star! I come from Asian & western culture I had discipline & my family are quite strict, traditional & religious. They teach me to be respectful, charitable, grateful & be myself even if people who don’t have manners & kindness so I would say I fit in having class😊 I really hate showing off so I’m always humble & donate often to charity people who need it more than me, I’ve been following you Anna for long time it’s been educational & is interesting also I learnt new things so thank you for sharing ❤
I love your point about Queen Victoria and compassion!
What I've learned in my own developmental journey is that class is really all about having integrity and elegance is about being your most authentic self. Neither work if you're coming from a performative space ❤
That's is it.
It’s also very much about treating everyone with great kindness.
My favorite quote is from the Ritz Carlton, "Ladies and Gentlemen serving Ladies and Gentlemen." Thank you Anna, for another wonderful video. Kisses to Teddy!
Tack för en fantastiskt bra och lärorik video.🙏 Jag ska erkänna att det var några av punkterna som jag verkligen behöver "ta tag" i. Man blir nog lätt lite blind för hur man själv beter sig i vissa situationer ......
You so melted my heart with your “Precious Dog”. I see your videos and I am grateful to hear all your advice. Thank you Ana Bey , for what you are doing for women. Inspiring and generous.
I've seen people do each and every one of these things my entire life. I recognized this behavior when I was young and knew what they were doing. A good reminder to evaluate myself and make sure I'm not doing any of them.
I got really impressed by the story of Queen Victoria. And you made my day with the explanation of "not accurate reconstruction"! You looked extinguishingly beautiful in this video. Thank for sharing all that!
I’ve been following Anna for few years and I can say this is the most mature video so far regarding how to be classy. 👏👏
The old Anna is back! No more parading in freebee clothes but good information about demeanor and class! Thank you, stay on this track!
Yes Anna. ONCE AGAIN you have nailed it. Kindness and compassion are often seen by insicure peole as a form of weakness and lack of character. Nothing more wrong. Character comes out when needed. Basta. Your dog is too cute. Benvenuto!
Interesting and informative as always. When I think about old money and class uniting in perfect harmony a picture of HM Queen Elizabeth II springs immediately to mind. She nailed it.
There has been said so much true in this video. However, can we just all pause for a while and appreciate how cute Ted is? ❤❤❤ 🐶
This was a great video, Anna! I always think people lack class when they never ask you single a question. I’m always asking folks questions because I’m genuinely interested in them. When someone is always talking about themselves it is such a turn off!
Can I just say you picked the perfect name for Teddy! I immediately thought “teddy bear “ when I saw him! He is just so adorable- what a little blessing he must be!
I used to think that even if you knew someone for a long time, you should stick by them. But she kept on displaying very uncomfortable behavior. Kept making me feel uncomfortable, and finally I had to cut ties. I did this in person, and as kindly as possible, but still. If hanging out with a person brings you down, and causes anxiety more than fun, you can cut ties no matter who the person is, or how long you've known them.
Loved it, especially “support others embarrassments” and “kind to animals”. I had never thought about those two things in relation to having class but both are so true.
Thank you Anna, you show not only how to be classy but also how to be a good person and I love that on this channel!
I really Love when you tell virtuos things being classic and stylish, braging and being meen to animals is not class. You seem to be a really Good person ❤❤❤
I love this video! I think every young person should have to watch it in school and write a personal response to each point. I believe etiquette and class should be taught at home but some reinforcement at school couldn’t hurt. Teddy is sooo cute! He’s growing so fast.
I stopped following the channel a while back but this video is changing my mind. Great message about class being about how you behave. Showing kindness, having empathy, being compassionate. ❤
From this, I understood how classy my parents are, and how well they bought up me and my sister, as people with class. Feeling proud.🥰
Ohhhh….Teddy is adorable! What a precious little bundle of love. ❤
Wonderful words and advice about how to treat service people. Yes, compassion is everything!
I love love your tip about confidence in yourself and not caring about impressing anyone. I am not always perfect, I choose what I wear, eat and do for myself and it does make me feel classy and confident.
At the end, class is respect for yourself and for others .. and for animals of course 😻🐶💖
I would make this video mandatory for everyone to watch. I am so glad that so ,,powerfull,, woman like you shares also those kinds of values, that our society miss so often. ❤ great job Anna
Anna, I can not thank you enough for how much I have learned from you ❤ love from The Netherlands 🇳🇱
Wat fijn dat we nog iets kunnen leren van russische vrouwen...Want haar moeder is een russische uit Estland...Anna is een echte russin wat uiterlijk betreft😍
You remind me of my elegant grandma.. when you talk I feel like she’s giving me this message. Thank you for your content 💛 you’re my favorite UA-cam channel
I’m a preschool teacher and for a part time job I’m a catering server. I come across a lot of classless wealthy people. They are so rude to us and when we are passing hors d’oeuvres like they can’t be bothered instead of just saying no thank you.
Absolutely agree with you. Gratitude is so important and humility. 👍🏻🌹
My dear Anna. This video is about true moral for a peaceful life. We love your videos for that reason.
Great info! Many of those things are what I teach in "charm" classes for pre-teens. Having class and good manners will open more doors for you than money will. Also...your doggie is precious!
you could also call it dignity and self respect, great wisdom you are sharing, thank you
Anna, Teddy is ADORABLE!! I'm an animal lover in general but I confess I'm very partial to dogs of all kinds. Your points are so clear and so right. Thank you for another great video.
Oh my goodness Anna ❤️❤️❤️. You were so sweet when asking if you could brag about Teddy. My heart melted instantly.
I really love this. Harry did us a favor. He demonstrated that just because you live in a very nice house doesn't mean you're not a shack inside.
The thing about what a lot that you and others teach is basically how rich people get rich. You have to have wisdom and decorum. You have to know when to keep your mouth shut. How to say things. Those people end up with money. Like you said. Only certain kinds of people should have access to The trick is to be that kind of person. When you get there, what you need will come.
I wish I were your age. Or younger even. I wish I'd been smart enough to pay attention to these things when I was growing up. But it's never too late. I like the old money style because it's not terribly pretentious. It looks good. Wears well. You get your money's worth. But it's not showy. Doesn't draw attention For the wrong reasons. And I do aspire. Thank you for making videos like this.
I adore how you stated these. You have it all worded exactly right!
His father cheated on his wife and he's not considered a shack inside. At least Harry never cheated on Meghan
It is true, it's hard to find genuine friends in this age where EVERYONE is connected and is friends with you on social media. Many assume true friendship from that, while also many more use that connection.
The editing, the subtle jokes, I love it
Also, it was absolutely worth watching till the end for Teddy 🥰 what a surprise
Teddy is adorable! Thanks for introducing us to him.
Bravo Ana, this was a breath of fresh air in today's society!!! Yes, compassion is key in all interactions and I feel you cannot have class if devoid of empathy.
I am SO happy you have your longed for Teddy. If you spell Dog backwards.....well I feel it's the closest you get to God 9n earth. Dogs show all endearingly exquisite attributes. This videos was gorgeous love love loved it❤
Thank you
TEDDY IS SO ADORABLE. pls have him in more videos!!!
You made some good points. You don't have to be rich or poor to have class. Also, your dog is so cute!
Your joy with Teddy is lovely. May you have many years together...the adventure begins!👄
Thank you for sharing the new addition to your family Anna! Teddy is adorable, and looks so happy! 🙂
I don’t want to minimize all these classy tips! But the last one is sweet 😊. I couldn’t get enough of your new pup. He’s precious! Enjoy his company and loyalty!
Compassion is class. Period! Thanks Anna.
God bless you! I wish more women would talk about empathy and compassion in the context of class. ❤❤❤
Love these pointers! I have always been an observer and much more of a listener than a talker and recently went on a first date with a new fella and he refused to pay. That for me is a person who is tactless and has no class whatsoever. I personally dislike people who boast, talk endlessly, dislike animals and show no compassion or empathy. That for me is a person who lacks refinement and better to be alone than being with someone like that. Also, in my experience people are very good at putting up a pretence but their true colours eventually show and I always have the courage to walk out.
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Anna, I love Teddy! And I love how you said "people with class are always kind to animals." Just another reason to enjoy watching your videos.❤
Glad to tune into such positive content.
I was a forced catholic birth to narcissistic parents where there was no love, empathy or compassion. When I was younger my first impulse was to be harsh or obnoxious to people, like my father. It made me feel low class. I had to really work at being nice to people because it did not come naturally. Glad to say that after extensive personal work and converting to Buddhism, I can now handle difficult situations with confidence.
Thank you for commenting, I had a similar upbringing and have struggled to be a better person.
Congratulations on your new 'baby.' I wish you years of happiness with him. Fur babies are so wonderful!
Oh My God - the ending with the dog was so unexpected - that was my favourite part! I agree - Being Kind to Animals has always been a trait I use to gauge people in my life, whether family members, friends or workers or whatever. A person with no love for animals has a closed heart and that tells you everything you need to know bout that person..... I have dogs of my own yet seeing you with your new Dog absolutely warmed my heart! 🥰😍🐕
When she brought the dog out I seriously thought she was going to say, "Number 10, people with class own a dog." Weird, I know.
My goodness, Teddy is too cute!! Ahhh, look at that little face! May God bless your four-legged baby ♥
Hello, Anna - Love this vid ❤️ Thank you for sharing! I especially liked the points you made about being compassionate and kindness to animals. Life’s too short and we need more of that in the world.
Omg, I'm almost positive this is the second time my eyes/ears may have tricked me but I could have sworn I heard/seen a "Kardashian Kough" if you will.....Absolutely perfect... Love that...sneaky cheeky!!
Anna Teddy is the cutest thing!
Very true. If you’re truly confident in yourself, you won’t try to prove to or impress anyone. It just shows.
Aww Teddy is so cute. I love ❤❤
Teddy is so cute! Congratulations on the new family member.
The way your voice got lighter and brighter and your smile bigger when you showed your dog was really refreshing to see.
Anna you truly bring value to this world. Keep up the good work! Hope young people follow and learn
He is so Precious! How Sweet! LOVE LOVE LOVE your Puppy!
I absolutely adore you and have so much respect for what you are a accomplishing here! Truly first class lady❤
Teddy is a sweetie-pie! Adorable! Thank you, Anna for showing him to us. ❤❤❤
Congratulations on your newest addition to the family! Teddy is absolutely adorable. Secondly, thank you for highlighting this topic. I truly enjoy your various content on etiquette and watching how far you have evolved as a person. Much love and support! 😊
congratulations on Teddy! your happiness is infectious. it’s so wonderful to see where you are today. through all social situations, you are always in my mind, and i have benefited from you words for several years now. i thank you.
My mom is from a very good family of modest means. She and my aunts INSISTED that we all conducted ourselves in a classy, kind, and respectful manner. Rudeness was not tolerated. I have a very large family, and it was impressed upon us that every thing we did reflected on us, and on our family.
You are intelligent and elegant. Agree with this subject especially! Thank you!
Im glad Im good to saying thank you. Never complain or say anything negative. Only speak out to when someone is affecting you. I love your videos! Subscribed!
I’m so with anna on this one..she’s teaching morals here