I disagree. Sure, dumber people tend to think about things less and rely more on their gut but thinking in and of itself does not make you smart, plus unchecked rumination can lead to mental illness. Being busy doesn't necessarily mean you're accomplishing anything, that's sort of like putting ten marbles in a cup and thinking as long as you keep shaking the cup to keep the marbles in motion you somehow have more than 10 marbles. You can increase your knowledge base, mindfulness, and reasoning skills (and functionally that would make you smarter) but that's just refining what you already have, you're still working with a finate amount of processing power. Some people are just "magically smart," born with a mind that has a higher processing capacity to reason and process the world. I, for example, am unfortunate enough to have an IQ that qualifies me as "intellectually gifted" and I did nothing to earn it. Yes I do probably think about things more than most but when I think I understand things deeper; I breezed through school with zero effort and just to entertain myself I sometimes tried to make assignments harder such as writing essays to fit the tune and structure of tv theme songs like the Brady Bunch. I used to drive teachers nuts because they'd give us an assignment and I'd raise my hand and tell them I couldn't do it. They'd ask why and I'd tell them the assignment was built on a faulty premise, then explain that in order to do the assignment as directed we had to assume certain things were true and those things had to also be built on things that were true, but if any of those things weren't true then the entire assignment was at best impossible and at worst an exercise in madness. Frankly I wish I was neurotypical because that's what the world is set up for, it honestly sucks, but 2.5% of the world is intellectually gifted, which doesn't mean they do anything with it or are benefited all that much by it, but it does make someone magically smart.
@Keith-e5f That's a very good point. A lot of people can't shut their brain off and end up missing out on a lot of sleep and so they're constantly tired, irritable, and suffering brain fog. Also, studies have found that rates of mental illness are a lot higher in women than in men. The leading theory as to why (as least the last time I looked into it) is that many women think about things so much, play them over and over in their minds stressing themselves out, that they literally think themselves unwell. This theory was arrived at, I believe, by surveying women being treated for mental illness and looking for common denominators. While thinking is certainly necessary, I find it interesting that people who think too much become unwell while people who intentionally think very little (those with dedicated meditation practices) are rated the people who are the happiest, most content, and have the greatest sense of peace. The mind is a great servant but a horrible master.
OR maybe they overthink because THEY CARE SO MUCH, because THEIR VALUES ARE SO STRONG, thereby making them HIGHLY EMOTIONAL, STRONGLY DRIVEN, unwilling to make a mistake as a result of a poorly made decision. Hence the overthinking, because they are so determined to overcome how strongly they feel about something. Emotion is energy in motion. Like a hurricane. Hence the spiraling. I believe you're right: it IS difficult living life as an overthinker. But for many of us it's not because we are emotionless; it's because emotion-full. In other words: We care. A LOT.
you are absolutely right, I facing the same problem, but when I talk to someone about it they already have their answers on buddy listen to me anymore.
Wait.. this doesn't make sense. Men are are known for being logical, while women are known for being emotional. Yet, women are much more indecisive than men.
Women were allowed to be indecisive. In ancient times an indecisive man still needs to protect the tribe. Men had no choice and resorted to improvisation if a decision could not be made. I'm sure a social filter came through for those that could formulate a plan and implement it, ie; fence around village, over those that would argue over wicker, logs or stone, but regardless, them men had to act regardless of the decision. Women can't make a decision because they are stuck in the emotional side of things and can't get to a logical solution. My penis carries a lot of emotion and I would absolutely build a fence, a moat, and a village and collect food if it gets to have fun. We might not consider it an emotion, but I'm almost positive a man wanting to get some is how we went from the stone age to the moon. Lol😂
As a man, it’s not that women are more emotional, because in my experience, it’s the opposite. Men are incredibly emotional, they just don’t display emotions openly because of social rules. Women, on the other hand, are expected to display emotions openly, and as such, they’re better equipped to be aware of them and to be able to keep them in check. You’ve confused social rules about display of emotions for having the experience of emotions. Men are the most emotional by far. That’s why you don’t see women out there getting into fights, killing each other, road raging, and all the other things that men are known for doing - all of those things are highly emotional behaviors and a result of failure of self-control and self-regulation of emotions. Those are things that women, as a population, are experts at and men are basically socially required to be emotional idiots.
Oh boy; you described me almost to a tee; my problem is that my left side often battles with my right; I can be too emotional at times, leading me to unwise decisions; other times I overthink things to the point where I don’t or can’t make a decision… not a good way to live; been doing it all my 59 years though. I guess that’s why I’ve never truly been completely satisfied with my life, even though I’ve been blessed with a good life compared to most people.
Yeah, I might be smart 🤔 but my MDD, OCD, ADHD, & SAD (social anxiety) really mess me up in life ...I have to rely a lot on my faith, medicine, eating right, and especially friend support to not overthink. 🤷
Interesting , I used to be the same but was highly self motivated, when I was widowed young (55) I basically stopped giving a F about most things and it destroyed my motivation.
I love videos that make me feel better about my worst faults. Even though I don't overthink because I'm smart, I'm just too stupid to think clearly like everyone else.
A truly "high-functioning" brain , (individual) , possesses a balanced left/right relationship. Each complimenting the other , rather than one overpowering the other. Balance , as in everything , is the key to optimization.
david hume a few centuries ago went on about passion through reason. while the rest of the world were arguing whether you should base your decisions on logic or emotion, he was undermining both parties claiming it was actually emotions that use logic to make decisions.
That's interesting! I read in the book "The Power of the subconscious mind" that only positive emotions drive a man to success. At times our ration logical brain couldn't process the Universe' s way of getting things done. That's the reason why an uneducated guy with faith in God prospers because he leaves the decision making on the higher intelligence of the universe and he just takes action towards his goal and let's God do the rest. A logical person wants everything to be planned according to his rational thinking process. But, his rational thinking maybe flawed because his experiences depends on his surroundings and his past experiences
How about PTSD triggered intrusive thoughts that cause overthinking that seem like problem solving that was present at the time of the trauma....or something like that 😔
Truly smart people can effectively use both the right and left brain. They may make many decisions by gut feeling. Which can keep them from overthinking.
All the smart people I ever knew, knew exactly how to make decisions and what decisions to make. It's because of this sort of "impaired" emotion that allows them to think abit more logically. If you run solely on emotions then you tend to make the worst decisions. Think someone killing or hurting someone else out of anger or jealousy. Or think of someone acting out in fear. I don't know that smart people overthink, I think it's the not so smart more emotional people that overthink. I'm not close to smart, and I overthink a lot.
In my experience, decision making based on emotions has nearly always led to disaster. And from what I witness in others the same is true. We just had an election to determine who our leader would be and that decision making process was rife with emotions. Nearly half the country decided the leader should hold office based upon gender and ethnicity, not proven qualifications. Another example that I find very curious is despite the advances and availability of contraception, abortion is a hotbed of emotion. Logic would dictate that society should expand, that every person has the opportunity to contribute, yet interrupting that is preferential. So I disagree- emotions hinder rather than promote.
because they see (or imagine) several steps ahead... and there's usually potential pitfalls in important decisions no pun intended, but you're overthinking this fairly simple concept
I'd like to add something to the content of the video... those who have faced long-term trauma who were already [healthy] Left-Brain dominant get paralyzed (eg. "paralysis by analysis" or hoarder mentality), still have Right-Brain emotional capacity but is often over-exaggerated or subdued, person specific. Great video, escaping into one's own mind is a perfect refuge, familiar place of comfort.
From that perspective, it's also shown that we live in a world of incomplete and imperfect information yet often must make timely choices in spite of that. So things like intuotion, gut feel, emotion, etc. act to cut through the "analysis paralysis" of a purely information and logic based process in that context of incomplete and imperfect information.
I suffer from overthinking to the point where it's been difficult to make a decision. What brings me out of that predicament is when I ask myself how I feel about it. Getting in touch with my feelings cures analysis paralysis. Thanks.
Maybe it is similar to music, which pushes emotions, can help you exercise or do things, if it is music that inspires you to get moving. I wonder how that guy reacts to music.
In my opinion, the most important intelligence is emotional intelligence. The most important decisions in our lives are made based on our emotions and controlling those emotions to make decisions is the key to making things go well. Greetings from Spain.
It’s the worst part of our intelligence. Every bad decision that people end up regretting comes from that side of the mind. Every woman that emotionally initiated divorce because they thought the grass was greener elsewhere made the decision based on emotions and they have destroyed families and the mental health of half our children and now we all get to watch western society implode. That’s what happens when we use our emotional intelligence. You did when you made this ridiculous statement.
As a quad dom, i.e. one who has been tested to not have a dominant lobe, I will attest that there is great value in emotional intelligence. The issues that drive motivation often stem from the ability to pecieve cause and effect chains. I often explain this by pointing out that there are more than just teo quantum states in Schrodinger's cat, but more often people simply default to the "two most likely". From my perspective the ferret rescued the cat from a hidden trap door the moment it was placed inside.
This video is very important to me... I noticed that it became very hard for me to make desiccations and making any move, I can't do anything at this point, I'm powerless. I wish I could get some help but some some reasons it is not possible at this moment. I'll appreciate for any further information for how to get out of this.
I dont know! But do something. Something good hopefully. I mean, you might as well make your environment a better place to live, for yourself and others. Ultimately, I’m just as bad. Not sure about being smart though lol. But I’m working on it! Best of luck👍
Smart people often show compassion. One reason they think. To see were most people could benefit. Best gift a person can give to the world is becoming more conscious but not more emotional.
You forgot the last button! But, we are called smart because we think a lot. Probably started from birth, or for some reason. And with all the chemicals nowadays, injected and eaten, our brains get very easily damaged and blurred. The same with all those TV series with manipulating pictures and suggestions. (Like your last button)
Tony Wright's ebook called RETURN TO THE BRAIN OF EDEN is about the left side of the brain being used too much. When that side is disabled in an accident, the person improves a lot because the right side is the better side.
Over thinking and emotions...interesting, I agree...the entire human structure was designed to be in a balance...an example...a man cannot fall in love with a woman by just thinking to do so but rather driven by emotions and thinking is the process of strategies building the approach towards the woman. As for me... my world of thoughts is a place without traffic lights. Thanks for sharing this wonderful clip...PEACE!...🌹
Wise words. Balance is required in all things. E.g. ego also requires mastery especially when it inappropriately tries to protect us. Ego is often manipulated and used against us enmasse too.
Life is hard. We work too much, don’t get rewarded enough for hard work, which makes it hard for someone like me to relax and be social. Always worried about finances, car and rent situations, etc. This coupled with emotional trauma from divorce and not seeing your own kids is enough to kill a man. Should not be surprised if we need emotional healing, but find it hard to find.
Chessplayers have the expression "Think long, think wrong". Useful for detection, but shallow nevertheless. Your discussion here improves on that but stops short of being complete. The description of the emotional component in motivation raises the question "From where does my deepest emotion arise?" Notice where I stop asking about that and find a perfect place to go, to leave it. Very telling.
The more you think, the more you get confused. The more you get confused, the less you can think. The less you think, the less you get confused. So why think? Lady, keep thinking process simple and all will be ok. The more you analyze anything critically, the more you put yourself in a rut. Simplicity is the key 😊
Lately this has been happening a lot to me . I have my moments of Great motivation and I make a list of goals and as I make this list I keep adding to my list until it is unrealistic then I overthink what's the most important on the list then I sit there and ponder 🤔 many routes and what is important to me. I think I need real love and sex from a woman that makes me feel alive it's been so long and I think that is what I'm lacking
Well I am smart and I get spooky dreams so much real that when I wake I'm like this terrible thing happened but actually it was just a dream and everybody's fine, I'm afraid that I hear voices sometimes which are very bleek so they don't hinder with thought process. More terrible thing is that my mother history had two brillant people with schizophrenia. I'm somewhat depressed about that too
If you examine the clearly most intelligent people on the planet right now, youll note that they are also emotional people. Those who overthink are actually dysfunctional and axious - and not just intelligent.
Sorry, but the psychologist at the VA started purposely canceling appointments and so did their contractors that didn’t show up and got paid anyway so you’re really not worth talking to anymore. The mental health system is a huge part of the problem in this country.. You don’t get any business unless you convince everyone that they’re sick.. I sat there for years with valid complaints against people and instead of them being held accountable I’m being held accountable for how I react naturally. We have felons running this country and I ran against them in 2020 and watch both political parties cheat. I’m retired military and I warned the world about COVID-19 five weeks before it hit the United States and they deleted 10,000 tweets and then physically attacked me over and over again. Have fun because it’s only gonna get worse.
I called 988 to have them immediately hang up on me without answering the phone and now they just dumped the call because they can’t answer a single question about why narcissist criminals are running this nation and everyone is willing to lie. It’s all of you.
I deconstructed all of your bullshit. I saw mental health counseling for years just to be lied to and have them modify my medical records and when I caught them, they stopped answering anything, even though I’m the federal government.. all enemies for an in domestic and both political parties have been reported to the United Nations as criminal terrorist organizations because that’s exactly how they operate or you wouldn’t have a felon about to take office who has not been held accountable for his crimes to include manslaughter of 600,000 Americans that I absolutely know was done on purpose because I’m the one that warned everybody. There’s paperwork into three letter agencies all the way up to the United Nations, and no one‘s answering a single question when I am a trained disaster response, professional from the government.. ha ha have fun because they already stole everything that I had when I reported them for crime to include my house
I’ve got all the paperwork sitting right here and complaints into the department of homeland security that I sit there and send them emails every day. John Fetterman wouldn’t answer a single question but instead sent me an LGBTQ letter saying that they’re working on humanitarian issues when I was reporting manslaughter and election interference and have the paperwork that they could easily go in and look at.. there is no excuse
i think action happens after what i think of as intention formation. something like how capital formation facilitates the start of a new business. you need time to think about an idea, which starts a new neural circuit. intention formation of one idea strengthens neural circuitry of that idea along with natural dopaminergic pathways making it more likely to eventually occur.
Smart is to take every thought captive as I think scripture discussed and not letting them take your peace. This is a spiritual decline in regard to overthinking which will tend to even more spiritual problems. Another example would be anxiety, ego or pride as some. Even potential offensive thoughts leading to spiritual attacks, chastisement or the pain that can be a part of healing and restoration.
The thing you taught me is, we have to respect our individual personal agency as well as other's personal agency. We can grow and learn in a positive direction or in a negative direction. But, at the end of the day, everyone has to take ownership of their own personal agency and not to develop codependency and unhealthy patterns. It is a challenge, but not an obstacle.
Well that accidental discovery is inconclusive. If that happens with people without access to their right side of their brain, what happens to people who don't have access to the left side of their brain? Would they live life as irrational animals, only going by their pure impulsive desires?
Smart people often overthink because stupid people often don't think at all.
Smart people are also screwed because they are surrounded by not so smart people. This equals a level of depression that is inevitable.
Makes you lonely.
Can 2000% relate
@@alfasiger4178better to be lonely than lower yourself down.
Currently suffering from this.
I relate
They're smarter because they're always thinking, they're not just magically smart.
I disagree. Sure, dumber people tend to think about things less and rely more on their gut but thinking in and of itself does not make you smart, plus unchecked rumination can lead to mental illness. Being busy doesn't necessarily mean you're accomplishing anything, that's sort of like putting ten marbles in a cup and thinking as long as you keep shaking the cup to keep the marbles in motion you somehow have more than 10 marbles. You can increase your knowledge base, mindfulness, and reasoning skills (and functionally that would make you smarter) but that's just refining what you already have, you're still working with a finate amount of processing power. Some people are just "magically smart," born with a mind that has a higher processing capacity to reason and process the world. I, for example, am unfortunate enough to have an IQ that qualifies me as "intellectually gifted" and I did nothing to earn it. Yes I do probably think about things more than most but when I think I understand things deeper; I breezed through school with zero effort and just to entertain myself I sometimes tried to make assignments harder such as writing essays to fit the tune and structure of tv theme songs like the Brady Bunch. I used to drive teachers nuts because they'd give us an assignment and I'd raise my hand and tell them I couldn't do it. They'd ask why and I'd tell them the assignment was built on a faulty premise, then explain that in order to do the assignment as directed we had to assume certain things were true and those things had to also be built on things that were true, but if any of those things weren't true then the entire assignment was at best impossible and at worst an exercise in madness. Frankly I wish I was neurotypical because that's what the world is set up for, it honestly sucks, but 2.5% of the world is intellectually gifted, which doesn't mean they do anything with it or are benefited all that much by it, but it does make someone magically smart.
Fair enough.
That actually went through by brain after i posted that but i was too lazy to change it. Thanks for correcting me. ✌️🤓
And since they're always thinking, they don't get much rest.
@Keith-e5f That's a very good point. A lot of people can't shut their brain off and end up missing out on a lot of sleep and so they're constantly tired, irritable, and suffering brain fog. Also, studies have found that rates of mental illness are a lot higher in women than in men. The leading theory as to why (as least the last time I looked into it) is that many women think about things so much, play them over and over in their minds stressing themselves out, that they literally think themselves unwell. This theory was arrived at, I believe, by surveying women being treated for mental illness and looking for common denominators. While thinking is certainly necessary, I find it interesting that people who think too much become unwell while people who intentionally think very little (those with dedicated meditation practices) are rated the people who are the happiest, most content, and have the greatest sense of peace. The mind is a great servant but a horrible master.
OR maybe they overthink because THEY CARE SO MUCH, because THEIR VALUES ARE SO STRONG, thereby making them HIGHLY EMOTIONAL, STRONGLY DRIVEN, unwilling to make a mistake as a result of a poorly made decision. Hence the overthinking, because they are so determined to overcome how strongly they feel about something.
Emotion is energy in motion. Like a hurricane. Hence the spiraling.
I believe you're right: it IS difficult living life as an overthinker. But for many of us it's not because we are emotionless; it's because emotion-full. In other words: We care. A LOT.
Thank you for saying this. I know people that this describes perfectly.
you are absolutely right, I facing the same problem, but when I talk to someone about it they already have their answers on buddy listen to me anymore.
A wise man can appear clueless, but a clueless person can never be wise 😇
To succeed in life, all you need is ignorance and confidence. I have the opposite, I question everything, so get stuck on the launch pad.
Wait.. this doesn't make sense. Men are are known for being logical, while women are known for being emotional. Yet, women are much more indecisive than men.
Women were allowed to be indecisive. In ancient times an indecisive man still needs to protect the tribe. Men had no choice and resorted to improvisation if a decision could not be made. I'm sure a social filter came through for those that could formulate a plan and implement it, ie; fence around village, over those that would argue over wicker, logs or stone, but regardless, them men had to act regardless of the decision. Women can't make a decision because they are stuck in the emotional side of things and can't get to a logical solution. My penis carries a lot of emotion and I would absolutely build a fence, a moat, and a village and collect food if it gets to have fun. We might not consider it an emotion, but I'm almost positive a man wanting to get some is how we went from the stone age to the moon. Lol😂
As a man, it’s not that women are more emotional, because in my experience, it’s the opposite. Men are incredibly emotional, they just don’t display emotions openly because of social rules. Women, on the other hand, are expected to display emotions openly, and as such, they’re better equipped to be aware of them and to be able to keep them in check. You’ve confused social rules about display of emotions for having the experience of emotions.
Men are the most emotional by far. That’s why you don’t see women out there getting into fights, killing each other, road raging, and all the other things that men are known for doing - all of those things are highly emotional behaviors and a result of failure of self-control and self-regulation of emotions. Those are things that women, as a population, are experts at and men are basically socially required to be emotional idiots.
Those people have forgotten to ask themselves, 'What do I feel like doing? What would make me happy or fulfilled? '
Smart is a relative term, everyone is smart in their own way.
Very arbitrary it is
Oh boy; you described me almost to a tee; my problem is that my left side often battles with my right; I can be too emotional at times, leading me to unwise decisions; other times I overthink things to the point where I don’t or can’t make a decision… not a good way to live; been doing it all my 59 years though. I guess that’s why I’ve never truly been completely satisfied with my life, even though I’ve been blessed with a good life compared to most people.
Nailed it, same boat!
At 48, I’m realizing I am similar to what you describe.
Certainly not in the smart catagory, but I overthink like a m.f.
Me too
Yeah, I might be smart 🤔 but my MDD, OCD, ADHD, & SAD (social anxiety) really mess me up in life ...I have to rely a lot on my faith, medicine, eating right, and especially friend support to not overthink. 🤷
Interesting , I used to be the same but was highly self motivated, when I was widowed young (55) I basically stopped giving a F about most things and it destroyed my motivation.
@@silverdale3207You were 55 when widowed?
@@gowtham6822 Yes, she died of Cancer, she was only 47, I'd been friends with her since she was 17 and we were a couple the last 20 years.
I love videos that make me feel better about my worst faults. Even though I don't overthink because I'm smart, I'm just too stupid to think clearly like everyone else.
A truly "high-functioning" brain , (individual) , possesses a balanced left/right relationship. Each complimenting the other , rather than one overpowering the other. Balance , as in everything , is the key to optimization.
That meant nothing to Einstein. Nor to me
Seeing the trees, not buying. But seeing the forest, point taken.
david hume a few centuries ago went on about passion through reason. while the rest of the world were arguing whether you should base your decisions on logic or emotion, he was undermining both parties claiming it was actually emotions that use logic to make decisions.
Analysis to paralysis.
It's paralysis by analysis
Para-analy'sis?
@@stonefox9124 Fair. However you say it, it is the same result.
@@losmazeman analysis paralysis
That's interesting! I read in the book "The Power of the subconscious mind" that only positive emotions drive a man to success.
At times our ration logical brain couldn't process the Universe' s way of getting things done. That's the reason why an uneducated guy with faith in God prospers because he leaves the decision making on the higher intelligence of the universe and he just takes action towards his goal and let's God do the rest. A logical person wants everything to be planned according to his rational thinking process. But, his rational thinking maybe flawed because his experiences depends on his surroundings and his past experiences
Truth!
How about PTSD triggered intrusive thoughts that cause overthinking that seem like problem solving that was present at the time of the trauma....or something like that 😔
“The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence.”
― Charles Bukowski
Truly smart people can effectively use both the right and left brain. They may make many decisions by gut feeling. Which can keep them from overthinking.
Because smart people think and plan for all possible angles of result. I have this and I'm fine with it. subbed.
Without emotions we don’t have values??? Emotions are eg fear, anger, etc but values are eg truth honesty, loyalty ie not emotions.
I cannot even getg a good nights sleep sometimes, most days actually
Alan Watts said it best “A person who thinks all the time has nothing to think about except thoughts”🙏
All the smart people I ever knew, knew exactly how to make decisions and what decisions to make. It's because of this sort of "impaired" emotion that allows them to think abit more logically. If you run solely on emotions then you tend to make the worst decisions. Think someone killing or hurting someone else out of anger or jealousy. Or think of someone acting out in fear. I don't know that smart people overthink, I think it's the not so smart more emotional people that overthink. I'm not close to smart, and I overthink a lot.
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In my experience, decision making based on emotions has nearly always led to disaster. And from what I witness in others the same is true. We just had an election to determine who our leader would be and that decision making process was rife with emotions. Nearly half the country decided the leader should hold office based upon gender and ethnicity, not proven qualifications. Another example that I find very curious is despite the advances and availability of contraception, abortion is a hotbed of emotion. Logic would dictate that society should expand, that every person has the opportunity to contribute, yet interrupting that is preferential.
So I disagree- emotions hinder rather than promote.
Analysis paralysis
Well, in my case, my emotions motivate me to NOT do nothing
because they see (or imagine) several steps ahead... and there's usually potential pitfalls in important decisions
no pun intended, but you're overthinking this fairly simple concept
I'd like to add something to the content of the video... those who have faced long-term trauma who were already [healthy] Left-Brain dominant get paralyzed (eg. "paralysis by analysis" or hoarder mentality), still have Right-Brain emotional capacity but is often over-exaggerated or subdued, person specific. Great video, escaping into one's own mind is a perfect refuge, familiar place of comfort.
From that perspective, it's also shown that we live in a world of incomplete and imperfect information yet often must make timely choices in spite of that. So things like intuotion, gut feel, emotion, etc. act to cut through the "analysis paralysis" of a purely information and logic based process in that context of incomplete and imperfect information.
Am I smart
Because I screwed up my life with overthinking
I think it is the quality of thoughts which matters
You are so beautiful
I suffer from overthinking to the point where it's been difficult to make a decision. What brings me out of that predicament is when I ask myself how I feel about it. Getting in touch with my feelings cures analysis paralysis. Thanks.
Emotions destroyed kingdoms, strong men kept them up. Facts don't require emotions.
Value requires emotion. Absolutely nothing would have any value without emotions. Categorically immutable reality "logicians" fail to grasp.
Maybe it is similar to music, which pushes emotions, can help you exercise or do things, if it is music that inspires you to get moving. I wonder how that guy reacts to music.
What an incredible awareness. Oops, there goes my emotional thinking.😀
In my opinion, the most important intelligence is emotional intelligence. The most important decisions in our lives are made based on our emotions and controlling those emotions to make decisions is the key to making things go well. Greetings from Spain.
It’s the worst part of our intelligence. Every bad decision that people end up regretting comes from that side of the mind. Every woman that emotionally initiated divorce because they thought the grass was greener elsewhere made the decision based on emotions and they have destroyed families and the mental health of half our children and now we all get to watch western society implode. That’s what happens when we use our emotional intelligence. You did when you made this ridiculous statement.
Yep. Emotions regulate motivation. No doubt.
As a quad dom, i.e. one who has been tested to not have a dominant lobe, I will attest that there is great value in emotional intelligence. The issues that drive motivation often stem from the ability to pecieve cause and effect chains. I often explain this by pointing out that there are more than just teo quantum states in Schrodinger's cat, but more often people simply default to the "two most likely". From my perspective the ferret rescued the cat from a hidden trap door the moment it was placed inside.
Fearless at times. Creative and imaginative
This video is very important to me... I noticed that it became very hard for me to make desiccations and making any move, I can't do anything at this point, I'm powerless. I wish I could get some help but some some reasons it is not possible at this moment. I'll appreciate for any further information for how to get out of this.
I dont know! But do something. Something good hopefully. I mean, you might as well make your environment a better place to live, for yourself and others.
Ultimately, I’m just as bad. Not sure about being smart though lol. But I’m working on it!
Best of luck👍
The same things that stop us from making decisions stop us from finding help.
Women: let me just decide without thinking
Just keep emotion out of decision making when it comes to investments. Be aware of the emotion, yet don't act on it.
Smart people often show compassion. One reason they think. To see were most people could benefit. Best gift a person can give to the world is becoming more conscious but not more emotional.
i have a PHD in overthinking
How does this compare to ADHD with the
" invisible wall" and
" Hyper vocus ? "
some intrusive thoughts can be due to trauma ... You can be smart and then have parents that suck
This woman freaks me out. Every video I've watched from her is eerily insightful. Like, I'm checking for hidden cameras. 😅
You forgot the last button! But, we are called smart because we think a lot. Probably started from birth, or for some reason. And with all the chemicals nowadays, injected and eaten, our brains get very easily damaged and blurred. The same with all those TV series with manipulating pictures and suggestions. (Like your last button)
They just need to meditate every day. Then the right answer will always be clear. This is not a joke, and I'm not being coy.
Tony Wright's ebook called RETURN TO THE BRAIN OF EDEN is about the left side of the brain being used too much.
When that side is disabled in an accident, the person improves a lot because the right side is the better side.
Over thinking and emotions...interesting, I agree...the entire human structure was designed to be in a balance...an example...a man cannot fall in love with a woman by just thinking to do so but rather driven by emotions and thinking is the process of strategies building the approach towards the woman. As for me... my world of thoughts is a place without traffic lights. Thanks for sharing this wonderful clip...PEACE!...🌹
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Thanks, you're good at explaining this.
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They might sit there because they're happy to debate with themselves instead of communicating with those who have no consept of their arguments.
Wise words.
Balance is required in all things.
E.g. ego also requires mastery especially when it inappropriately tries to protect us. Ego is often manipulated and used against us enmasse too.
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infinite philosophers like me think beyond of average human's idea of last limit.
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That's so correct I completely agree, what could be the possible solution for this?
Most people in society are not gauged towards valuing logic, people are programmed to be impulsive and self serving
The theory of "two brains" is no longer used by neuro-biologists.
A lot of decisions should not be made with emotions. They have their place but should stay there.
You can overthink about me all day!
Life is hard. We work too much, don’t get rewarded enough for hard work, which makes it hard for someone like me to relax and be social. Always worried about finances, car and rent situations, etc. This coupled with emotional trauma from divorce and not seeing your own kids is enough to kill a man. Should not be surprised if we need emotional healing, but find it hard to find.
Chessplayers have the expression "Think long, think wrong". Useful for detection, but shallow nevertheless. Your discussion here improves on that but stops short of being complete. The description of the emotional component in motivation raises the question "From where does my deepest emotion arise?"
Notice where I stop asking about that and find a perfect place to go, to leave it. Very telling.
The more you think, the more you get confused. The more you get confused, the less you can think. The less you think, the less you get confused. So why think? Lady, keep thinking process simple and all will be ok. The more you analyze anything critically, the more you put yourself in a rut. Simplicity is the key 😊
She could of stated that the SMARTEST people use BOTH sides of Their Brain equally and ARE in BALANCE with themselves and others.
Wow, she's really good looking!😏
Lately this has been happening a lot to me . I have my moments of Great motivation and I make a list of goals and as I make this list I keep adding to my list until it is unrealistic then I overthink what's the most important on the list then I sit there and ponder 🤔 many routes and what is important to me. I think I need real love and sex from a woman that makes me feel alive it's been so long and I think that is what I'm lacking
Very possible.
A tremendous task awaits you in getting to that place in life.
God be with you.
Loneliness is the byproduct of a gifted mind.
Do you keep your daughter in a pod too??
It's chosen solitude over socialising
Well I am smart and I get spooky dreams so much real that when I wake I'm like this terrible thing happened but actually it was just a dream and everybody's fine, I'm afraid that I hear voices sometimes which are very bleek so they don't hinder with thought process. More terrible thing is that my mother history had two brillant people with schizophrenia. I'm somewhat depressed about that too
Being "Smart" is a very subjective term to describe anyone.
Just found your channel today. Very interesting subjects. You got an overthinker here and a new subscriber 😊 Btw, you are a gorgeous woman.
If you examine the clearly most intelligent people on the planet right now, youll note that they are also emotional people. Those who overthink are actually dysfunctional and axious - and not just intelligent.
The more important question is why do dumb people under think so much? Lol
Sorry, but the psychologist at the VA started purposely canceling appointments and so did their contractors that didn’t show up and got paid anyway so you’re really not worth talking to anymore. The mental health system is a huge part of the problem in this country.. You don’t get any business unless you convince everyone that they’re sick.. I sat there for years with valid complaints against people and instead of them being held accountable I’m being held accountable for how I react naturally. We have felons running this country and I ran against them in 2020 and watch both political parties cheat. I’m retired military and I warned the world about COVID-19 five weeks before it hit the United States and they deleted 10,000 tweets and then physically attacked me over and over again. Have fun because it’s only gonna get worse.
I called 988 to have them immediately hang up on me without answering the phone and now they just dumped the call because they can’t answer a single question about why narcissist criminals are running this nation and everyone is willing to lie. It’s all of you.
I deconstructed all of your bullshit. I saw mental health counseling for years just to be lied to and have them modify my medical records and when I caught them, they stopped answering anything, even though I’m the federal government.. all enemies for an in domestic and both political parties have been reported to the United Nations as criminal terrorist organizations because that’s exactly how they operate or you wouldn’t have a felon about to take office who has not been held accountable for his crimes to include manslaughter of 600,000 Americans that I absolutely know was done on purpose because I’m the one that warned everybody. There’s paperwork into three letter agencies all the way up to the United Nations, and no one‘s answering a single question when I am a trained disaster response, professional from the government.. ha ha have fun because they already stole everything that I had when I reported them for crime to include my house
I’ve got all the paperwork sitting right here and complaints into the department of homeland security that I sit there and send them emails every day. John Fetterman wouldn’t answer a single question but instead sent me an LGBTQ letter saying that they’re working on humanitarian issues when I was reporting manslaughter and election interference and have the paperwork that they could easily go in and look at.. there is no excuse
And I thought I was just a Vulcan
Emotions are not logical and not smart. Emotion is just a feeling you cannot dictate anything with emotion.
Her explanation violates Occam’s Razor to such a degree that trying to listen to her put me to sleep.
This is why women are so decisive, because of an abundance of emotions. 🤣
Why no one is talking about how beautiful she is 😍
Wow this is so good!! I think logically and this makes sense to me!!
Thank you Olesya❤
Interesting. Thank you
i think action happens after what i think of as intention formation.
something like how capital formation facilitates the start of a new business.
you need time to think about an idea, which starts a new neural circuit.
intention formation of one idea strengthens neural circuitry of that idea
along with natural dopaminergic pathways
making it more likely to eventually occur.
I can tell you now from experience it’s also the dumbest ones that over think as well 😂
Definitely enjoyed this video
You may be right, I can't decide.
Im always ready to make sound, timely decisions absent emotions. Take a look around you at the results of emotional peoples decisions.
Maybe the chair was really comfortable and the popcorn was delicious.
Smart is to take every thought captive as I think scripture discussed and not letting them take your peace. This is a spiritual decline in regard to overthinking which will tend to even more spiritual problems. Another example would be anxiety, ego or pride as some. Even potential offensive thoughts leading to spiritual attacks, chastisement or the pain that can be a part of healing and restoration.
Being a brainiac, yeah..., I do have a tendency to overthink things.
That is a very interesting analysis.
So does that also to say that individuals who are indecisive lack the emotional part of the brain as well?
🥺😳This info is correct on every level. I know, because it is literally what's happening to me.😳🥺
The thing you taught me is, we have to respect our individual personal agency as well as other's personal agency. We can grow and learn in a positive direction or in a negative direction. But, at the end of the day, everyone has to take ownership of their own personal agency and not to develop codependency and unhealthy patterns. It is a challenge, but not an obstacle.
Helps that the woman in this video is gorgeous.
Genius status IS difficult.
People are selfish toward what they do not comprehend.
Well that accidental discovery is inconclusive. If that happens with people without access to their right side of their brain, what happens to people who don't have access to the left side of their brain? Would they live life as irrational animals, only going by their pure impulsive desires?
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