No, no, no, in the hotel situation the OP definitely is NTA. Who do these step kids and his wife think they are? If they can’t share nicely, the one being singled out needs her own space.
Yeah. I can certainly see why "playing favourites" gets brought up when it comes to step kids, but at the same time, you have to look after your own kids as well. Add to that that it's clear the step-daughters were up to something and them sharing a room when his daughter gets one to herself punishes them, as they should be for such a display. NTA definitely. Good dad.
As an individual in the care system, that one if bloody horrible and she’s the reason why it is such a horrible system for anyone involved, 1000000% TA. Disgusting human being.
24:54 "Am I the A-hole For Ending the Video Here?" Everyone sucks here. You're the asshole for getting my hopes up for one last story, and I'm the asshole for not checking the timestamps and falling for it.
Story 1: BF needs to put his foot down and tell his family to get your name right or stfu Baking story: LITERALLY WHY WOULDN’T THAT WOMAN USE A SPOON?!?
or she could have just put the custard in a separate bowl and eat it with her finger from there like it's not that hard. Which makes me believe that she just didn't want her bf to be helping out his sister
they chip away at my faith in myself man. i'll be like "oh nah NTA" and then everyone's like "YTA. you're the worst person i've ever seen. i hope you burn." and i'll realize i missed like two words that were 100% crucial to the story
It’s immediacy bias. Spend more time consuming positive content or getting readings from places like Smosh where they’re providing sane, normal person commentary along with the reading.
For the hotel situation, it baffles me the level of hypocrisy when she says “you’re playing favorites” when she is playing favorites by letting her daughters sleep in the bed and his daughter sleep on the floor. Why doesn’t she let one of her daughter’s sleep on the floor. It would be the same thing right? They can just “suck it up” right? 😒 ugh some people are just so annoying…
Jesus Christ, the gold digging test guy is delusional. 1) she saw papers on the bed and picked them up. Did it have "bank statements" emblazoned on the front? Good lord 2) he picked an expensive restaurant and asked his elementary school teacher gf to pick up the tab and was surprised she got mad 3) she gave him expensive gifts and got mad when she asked why she never returned the favor? Good god
people that are actually rich more often than not don't go around showing off how rich they are and tend to live like normal people. celebrities are not normal people as an aside.
21:43 - Definitely NTA - but he needs to be willing to deal with the fallout, which can last a long time. People in power don't like being questioned. It's going to cost a lot in the long run. I would suggest finding support groups that have been through similar situations - he's going to need it.
That sister who wants to adopt is looking for a slave... They're expecting a teenager to be just happy about living in the garage and being treated as a servant? HELL no. This isn't Cinderella. Its hard enough to get a teenager who hasn't lost a parent to do what they're told, do they think a hardened orphanage kid is going to be easier?? Heck if they force them to live in the garage I get the feeling that kid is just going to pack up and head right on back to where they came from and tell child protective services themselves.
Story 2 is absurd. That woman is a toddler. Just ask to help make your own bottle of it for you to eat for yourself or make your own bottle by yourself. No reason to waste so much food. I think she is doing it on purpose for some reason.
Why did “Janet” need to tell her boyfriend she wasn’t preparing a turkey. Didn’t he notice that she wasn’t spending hours in the kitchen, or you know got in the car without a giant goddamn cooked turkey? Did he not ask if he could help? He was intentionally oblivious until it got awkward for him.
he wasnt in the room during the discussion so unless op left out a detail intentionally then its safe to assume the bf had no idea what she had planned
She didn't tell her bf that Janet would be bringing over the Turkey... What the person did was poison the relationship between her son and the GF.... with the goal of convincing her son to get back together with hsi HS sweetheart... If he wasn't willing to tell his family to respect her... no relationship is going to last for him. He'll become bitter and not blame his family for his lack of "dating" success... until he makes a post on Reddit.
The fact that that person in the end had to pay 13 Grand just to prove he was innocent is a massive flaw in the legal system. To have to give up all your savings to the point of not being able to pay for your bail is nonsense.
Well obviously they had a fantasy of being the evil stepsisters. Seriously that one commentor said "This ain't Cinderella" but the stepfamily sure acted like they were wanting precisely that dynamic. _Why marry the guy if you/your daughters don't like his kid?_
24:00 Should make a deal: You'll take your website down, but they must fire the detective & pay you back & clear your charges. The detective ruined your life without conclusive evidence. Keep a listening device around when they visit in case things turn ugly, because it's straight from the source it's reliable information. If they find it and question it, reply that you're copying their ability to abuse their body cams. Don't detectives work with police and thus can access security cameras and similar stuff?... there were cameras disproving their claim, right?
The one with the hotel room. Why would you book a room with only one bed for three people? Would have made more sense to book two rooms both with two beds each, that way the parents and one of the children could sleep in there, the other room for the other two with each at least getting their own bed for the night other than the parents.
From my experience, in the US hotel rooms often have one single bigger bed that a couple/ 2-3 children can sleep in without getting crowded. For older teenagers, this might not be enough space to be comfortable, so they really should have tried to get at least one more twin bed in any of the rooms
10:26 you know that in most hotels you can just ask and theyll provide a mattress? And even an extra bed frame sometimes, especially if its a fancy hotel? And it'll get arranged any time of day within 20 mins? ESH
I mean, if person is obscess with eating with her hands, she probably has an eating disorder. He probably should have given her some hints that she needed a therapy (if they can possibly afford it), but from another point of view, she is capable adult, and it's her responsibility to keep her issues under control enough to not create serious problems for people around or to seek help if she can't.
Seems like a stretch of armchair psychology. Obsessed seems overreaching, because she doesn't have a problem with anything else. Falling apart at op's command to "stop eating" the fillings does speak to some kind of sensitivity to the topic though.
Question, though: why do you give leeway to a 24-year-old woman who acts like a child, but not the 60-year-old woman? ‘Just saying, age shouldn’t matter when they’re both supposed to be adults 😕
"you'll never understand what it's like to be a rich man" I GUFFAWED. 🤣🤣🤣 Aw, poor baby, it must be so hard. 😂
Bro going to be rich, and single
It must be so hard to not have to worry about finances ever :( so sad :( poor rich people
@@kooskoos12345meh, I can kinda see it, not knowing if somebody likes you for being you, and not you money
Every ESH is like "Sure, they tortured you for ten lifetimes in the fiery pits of hell but you didn't have to call them poopy heads."
No, no, no, in the hotel situation the OP definitely is NTA. Who do these step kids and his wife think they are? If they can’t share nicely, the one being singled out needs her own space.
Yeah. I can certainly see why "playing favourites" gets brought up when it comes to step kids, but at the same time, you have to look after your own kids as well. Add to that that it's clear the step-daughters were up to something and them sharing a room when his daughter gets one to herself punishes them, as they should be for such a display. NTA definitely. Good dad.
As an individual in the care system, that one if bloody horrible and she’s the reason why it is such a horrible system for anyone involved, 1000000% TA.
Disgusting human being.
I can’t believe how many of these stories end with basically the whole family siding with the real AH. That sucks
24:54 "Am I the A-hole For Ending the Video Here?" Everyone sucks here. You're the asshole for getting my hopes up for one last story, and I'm the asshole for not checking the timestamps and falling for it.
Story 1: BF needs to put his foot down and tell his family to get your name right or stfu
Baking story: LITERALLY WHY WOULDN’T THAT WOMAN USE A SPOON?!?
or she could have just put the custard in a separate bowl and eat it with her finger from there like it's not that hard. Which makes me believe that she just didn't want her bf to be helping out his sister
Man I gotta stop reading these. These stories slowly chip away at the faith I have left in humanity.
they chip away at my faith in myself man. i'll be like "oh nah NTA" and then everyone's like "YTA. you're the worst person i've ever seen. i hope you burn." and i'll realize i missed like two words that were 100% crucial to the story
Same.
See, the problem is that you have faith in humanity
…. “On purpose”
It’s immediacy bias. Spend more time consuming positive content or getting readings from places like Smosh where they’re providing sane, normal person commentary along with the reading.
W for the father in the 3rd story most probably saved his son from an emotionally abusive and manipulative stepmom and stepsister👍👍
For the hotel situation, it baffles me the level of hypocrisy when she says “you’re playing favorites” when she is playing favorites by letting her daughters sleep in the bed and his daughter sleep on the floor. Why doesn’t she let one of her daughter’s sleep on the floor. It would be the same thing right? They can just “suck it up” right? 😒 ugh some people are just so annoying…
It's not fat shaming. it's food safty and handling.
YTA Brandon, how dare you do somethin as heinous as deceiving me
Jesus Christ, the gold digging test guy is delusional.
1) she saw papers on the bed and picked them up. Did it have "bank statements" emblazoned on the front? Good lord
2) he picked an expensive restaurant and asked his elementary school teacher gf to pick up the tab and was surprised she got mad
3) she gave him expensive gifts and got mad when she asked why she never returned the favor?
Good god
people that are actually rich more often than not don't go around showing off how rich they are and tend to live like normal people. celebrities are not normal people as an aside.
21:43 - Definitely NTA - but he needs to be willing to deal with the fallout, which can last a long time. People in power don't like being questioned. It's going to cost a lot in the long run.
I would suggest finding support groups that have been through similar situations - he's going to need it.
girlfriend dipping fingers is infuriating
That sister who wants to adopt is looking for a slave... They're expecting a teenager to be just happy about living in the garage and being treated as a servant? HELL no. This isn't Cinderella.
Its hard enough to get a teenager who hasn't lost a parent to do what they're told, do they think a hardened orphanage kid is going to be easier?? Heck if they force them to live in the garage I get the feeling that kid is just going to pack up and head right on back to where they came from and tell child protective services themselves.
Story 2 is absurd. That woman is a toddler. Just ask to help make your own bottle of it for you to eat for yourself or make your own bottle by yourself. No reason to waste so much food. I think she is doing it on purpose for some reason.
Why did “Janet” need to tell her boyfriend she wasn’t preparing a turkey. Didn’t he notice that she wasn’t spending hours in the kitchen, or you know got in the car without a giant goddamn cooked turkey? Did he not ask if he could help? He was intentionally oblivious until it got awkward for him.
he wasnt in the room during the discussion so unless op left out a detail intentionally then its safe to assume the bf had no idea what she had planned
She didn't tell her bf that Janet would be bringing over the Turkey... What the person did was poison the relationship between her son and the GF.... with the goal of convincing her son to get back together with hsi HS sweetheart...
If he wasn't willing to tell his family to respect her... no relationship is going to last for him. He'll become bitter and not blame his family for his lack of "dating" success... until he makes a post on Reddit.
Because it still isn't the best move to go cold turkey on the person you want to spend your life with (rimshot)
Ya know...
I hear about this stuff and can only think "Man it's nice being single and not having to deal with that kind of nonsense."
In the story about the fake house key, the mom totally exposed herself for bringing it up first. That husband is a bit too much of a mommas boy.
Last one: yes you are, I wanted a longer video
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The fact that that person in the end had to pay 13 Grand just to prove he was innocent is a massive flaw in the legal system. To have to give up all your savings to the point of not being able to pay for your bail is nonsense.
Those step kids didnt wanna share a bed with the daughter but got mad when she got her own bed? Wtf do they want?
Well obviously they had a fantasy of being the evil stepsisters.
Seriously that one commentor said "This ain't Cinderella" but the stepfamily sure acted like they were wanting precisely that dynamic. _Why marry the guy if you/your daughters don't like his kid?_
17:13 unless you're making a ton of ruckus when you get home, he needs to shut up.
I love how 15 minutes in EmKay completely gave up on censorship and just said "asshole" uncensored.
Add the other people's testimony to the website 😂 they ruined your life and got your son taken. They do not deserve anything they ask for.
24:00 Should make a deal: You'll take your website down, but they must fire the detective & pay you back & clear your charges. The detective ruined your life without conclusive evidence. Keep a listening device around when they visit in case things turn ugly, because it's straight from the source it's reliable information. If they find it and question it, reply that you're copying their ability to abuse their body cams.
Don't detectives work with police and thus can access security cameras and similar stuff?... there were cameras disproving their claim, right?
The one with the hotel room. Why would you book a room with only one bed for three people? Would have made more sense to book two rooms both with two beds each, that way the parents and one of the children could sleep in there, the other room for the other two with each at least getting their own bed for the night other than the parents.
From my experience, in the US hotel rooms often have one single bigger bed that a couple/ 2-3 children can sleep in without getting crowded. For older teenagers, this might not be enough space to be comfortable, so they really should have tried to get at least one more twin bed in any of the rooms
NTA for 6th story we can clearly see how his mom is a 60+yo spoiled brat lmao and a creepy one at that
Sounds to me like the brother testing his gf is the real gold digger
mom in the first story creepy as hell and who chooses some random holiday over their SO, that guy wasn't the one OP
19:50 - I think he is. Rich people are like... incessant leeches.
obligatory "not all rich people"
@@TheGhostFart Obligatory "Yes all rich people."
"AITA, i killed a kids mother and father but it was on accidents oops 😅😂
Just a silly little accident, just a happy little accident😝😜
"NTA, I'm sure they were bad parents anyways"
"Info, how did you manage to crash a car into the second floor?"
7th story the OP is a grown ass adult smh how does that BF think he can infringe on his personal life?
How does his _mom_ think it's perfectly acceptable for a mere _boyfriend_ to treat her adult son like a child?
for the 8th story may no one get an SO as paranoid as that pimp🤣🤣
Pigs do be oinking
I thought RSlash did a good entitled voice. EmKay is officially the king of the karen voice.
Also god damn, 23 is an adult, that wouldn't be cool even if he was the guys parent. Cause 23 is a grown ass adult.
24:55 YTA. There was ZERO reason why you would need to do that. ZERO
5:18 …that is slave labour . Working for shelter and food
The woman who wants to Foster basically one Cinderella and not a child
NTA for 5th story she fucked around and found out
“Mistakes can happen” like bro what a cope put
Former fost kid here honestly most of us would have loved that over the standard physically and or sêxual abuse.
I hope they update the website
24:55 NTA; You had made a sufficient video :)
Ok
I want to make out with you passionately,I hope one day we can dance under the moon while slow jazz plays in the background
@@hahatype yes so inspirational
8:52 Candace 😂
Sorry
Wish i knew that guys website from 24:00 so i could put more traffic to it.
15:04 HOLY SHIT HE SAID ASSHOLE HE DIDNT SAY A HOLE OR BUTTHOLE HE SAID ASSHOLE!!!!
YTA for finishing the video
Another video!
YTA
im not satisfied with the video
10:26 you know that in most hotels you can just ask and theyll provide a mattress? And even an extra bed frame sometimes, especially if its a fancy hotel? And it'll get arranged any time of day within 20 mins? ESH
I mean, if person is obscess with eating with her hands, she probably has an eating disorder. He probably should have given her some hints that she needed a therapy (if they can possibly afford it), but from another point of view, she is capable adult, and it's her responsibility to keep her issues under control enough to not create serious problems for people around or to seek help if she can't.
Seems like a stretch of armchair psychology. Obsessed seems overreaching, because she doesn't have a problem with anything else. Falling apart at op's command to "stop eating" the fillings does speak to some kind of sensitivity to the topic though.
Question, though: why do you give leeway to a 24-year-old woman who acts like a child, but not the 60-year-old woman? ‘Just saying, age shouldn’t matter when they’re both supposed to be adults 😕
Early!!
All these stories suck. They are all NTA with little doubt. Can you mix them up?
They don’t make the stories, they just find the most interesting ones lmao 😂
Worry just had that thought after.. They looked and said nothing.. AITA?