“It’s not really helpful to tell them they’re narcissists. Well, you can do what you want, I don’t care” laughed out loud at how fast the ENTP whiplash happened
The one ENTP I know have not had his feelings validated growing up. But he prefer not to talk about his upbringing (the bad parts), or his true own feelings, but sometimes he open his inner emotional door and become like child. It's so nice to experience something that emotionally authentic. It feels like I am being given a gift that I want to protect and shelter. BUT you guys are so damn hard on yourselves. It's funny, or not really "I refuse to make choices or decisions based on emotion/ feelings". But emotions are our compasses for an authentic life. Think about them and include them feel them. Not "One feeling to rule them al". You can be both rational and take emotions into account to make better decisions for the future. And it's okay to make mistakes. 🎉
I feel so seen, I have actually admitted that I like the people that even "the gays cant defend" 😭 it feels deeper than people pleasing. at least for me, I admire people that arent afraid to take up room and know exactly what they want, even if its perceived as obnoxious or even repulsive by others because in one part I see myself in their ability to provoke others, an unfettered version of it albeit. but also because I think on some levels its because dont know what I want and I enjoy watching people who do.. I don't know if that makes any sense lol Its awful I suppose but some of the most difficult people have a habit of shining, standing out in a crowd of timidness, of people who are afraid of even asserting boundaries let alone expressing themselves. It's like a gold coin in a see full of copper pennies, except it's very hot to the touch..
And the gold coin turns out to be fake and filled with old choclate that makes your stomach ache... I think we like to see that it is possible to not care about others feelings so much, but they take it to the extreme and actually intentionally hurt other people and the closer you are, the more you will be hurt.
Bro, your channel verbalizes a small discomfort that I had... I really appreciate it... And when I`m like, “Is this person possibly a fucking narcissist?”, I would ask my ESFP friend, and they're always give answer to me, “Eeeee! That's really creep!”
@@AdamPratar You are right. There is no sense of “fun” in relationship with them, only obligation. I think Ne-Ti is essentially an exploratory function, not for any specific purpose or outcome, but when we believe it's for some purpose, like "Who We Are" or "They will like me" can be a bit of a dangerous sign. The truth is... they actually don't have friends, so they mistakenly think that ENTPs accepted all. And about ur video: Some ppl have said u should edit it, but do what you want. ppl don't understand that editing is hard work. Personally, I like the way now, like a radio without bgm. u may have noticed, but There are a lot of ENTPs of UA-camrs. They know how to get attention. But they kill their hearts long enough to keep living up to the expectations of their viewers. Then they start to inhabit a sense of victimhood and start to resent the viewers. I've seen that happen quite a bit. So if you plan to do it long term, don't overdo it.
It's good to hear that people like it without editing aswell. I think there is a bit of authenticity lost if I edit it too. I'll probably end up doing both. Thanks for sharing your opinion 💛🌿
“It’s not really helpful to tell them they’re narcissists. Well, you can do what you want, I don’t care” laughed out loud at how fast the ENTP whiplash happened
The one ENTP I know have not had his feelings validated growing up. But he prefer not to talk about his upbringing (the bad parts), or his true own feelings, but sometimes he open his inner emotional door and become like child. It's so nice to experience something that emotionally authentic. It feels like I am being given a gift that I want to protect and shelter. BUT you guys are so damn hard on yourselves. It's funny, or not really "I refuse to make choices or decisions based on emotion/ feelings". But emotions are our compasses for an authentic life. Think about them and include them feel them. Not "One feeling to rule them al". You can be both rational and take emotions into account to make better decisions for the future. And it's okay to make mistakes. 🎉
This is my current journey and I think what you are saying is the most essential thing for us to understand. I really appreciate you for sharing🌿
🎉 I'm a fan of the lighting upgrade 🥳
Thanks c:
@@AdamPratar😉👌
I feel so seen, I have actually admitted that I like the people that even "the gays cant defend" 😭 it feels deeper than people pleasing. at least for me, I admire people that arent afraid to take up room and know exactly what they want, even if its perceived as obnoxious or even repulsive by others because in one part I see myself in their ability to provoke others, an unfettered version of it albeit.
but also because I think on some levels its because dont know what I want and I enjoy watching people who do..
I don't know if that makes any sense lol
Its awful I suppose but some of the most difficult people have a habit of shining, standing out in a crowd of timidness, of people who are afraid of even asserting boundaries let alone expressing themselves. It's like a gold coin in a see full of copper pennies, except it's very hot to the touch..
And the gold coin turns out to be fake and filled with old choclate that makes your stomach ache...
I think we like to see that it is possible to not care about others feelings so much, but they take it to the extreme and actually intentionally hurt other people and the closer you are, the more you will be hurt.
Bro, your channel verbalizes a small discomfort that I had... I really appreciate it...
And when I`m like, “Is this person possibly a fucking narcissist?”, I would ask my ESFP friend, and they're always give answer to me, “Eeeee! That's really creep!”
Glad to hear that! As I said in the video. If you are seriously contemplating the question, there is already sufficient reason to distance yourself.
@@AdamPratar You are right. There is no sense of “fun” in relationship with them, only obligation.
I think Ne-Ti is essentially an exploratory function, not for any specific purpose or outcome, but when we believe it's for some purpose, like "Who We Are" or "They will like me" can be a bit of a dangerous sign.
The truth is... they actually don't have friends, so they mistakenly think that ENTPs accepted all.
And about ur video:
Some ppl have said u should edit it, but do what you want. ppl don't understand that editing is hard work. Personally, I like the way now, like a radio without bgm.
u may have noticed, but There are a lot of ENTPs of UA-camrs. They know how to get attention. But they kill their hearts long enough to keep living up to the expectations of their viewers. Then they start to inhabit a sense of victimhood and start to resent the viewers. I've seen that happen quite a bit.
So if you plan to do it long term, don't overdo it.
It's good to hear that people like it without editing aswell. I think there is a bit of authenticity lost if I edit it too. I'll probably end up doing both. Thanks for sharing your opinion 💛🌿
U seem to super melancholy to be entp and slow talking. What’s your enneagram?
Mmmh i had a good and bad childhood?
Yeah, "bad childhood" is quite a simplistic statement. I think the part of having emotionally neglectful parents was more poignant.
I like the subject, and the analysis. But please use a script. You're rambling, and constantly using aahmmm... to think.
But then I have to make an EFFORT
U seem to super melancholy to be entp and slow talking.
My brother in Christ, please do jump cuts. Your pauses made it difficult to watch. You have good content, but the pace is a little unbearable
I do appreciate that, honestly. Will keep that in mind.
Besides that, I enjoyed your video. You have great things to say
@@aleckazamproductions8139 ty :)