hi there! I've been reading all of your comments and am just AMAZED by the positive response! Welcome to everyone that is new here and thank you to anyone that was here before and decided to stay! ❤☺ Besides that, some people have had some questions regarding the Notion template, SO: 1. This is the link (the same one is in the description box): jeweled-troodon-650.notion.si... 2. When you click on the link (I tried it on multiple different devices, and it worked each time, so if it doesn't work for you I'd encourage you to try again) a new tab should open up and on there, in the upper-right corner, is a button that says 'Duplicate'. 3. If you click on that, Notion should automatically open your account and copy the template in there. 4. Now you can edit it however you want :) (5. This is not really an additional instruction I just wanted to apologise for forgetting to swap out the pronoun 'she' with 'them' at some points. I turned the template I used myself into a general one by deleting all the things I had already filled out and swapping out the pronouns, but I missed a few - obviously correct that and customise it so that it suits your needs) Let me know whether it works for you 🌞 Once again: I love y'all and thank you for all of the amazing support!!
I loved this video, you're so funny with the BG3 thing. I TOTALLY relate to the whole wanting friends that maybe have issues but that come together to fix those issues and work to better themselves. I always wanted that SO BAD (and the reason why i get obsessed with games like Dragon Age and BG haha), thank you for this lovely video and this message. You are very funny and sweet :)
New sub thanks for this video, you are so excellent at videography and editing, this is beautiful. I think we would love a Making Of This video explaining like where cams go and editing program opinions would be so cool. Also the content itself is lovely. Thank you, thank you for living this life
@@twicebang4556 it's actually depends, if there's nothing wrong about yourself you dont harm yourself or others, then acceptance is key. if not then you have to change yourself to be better not harming yourself or the others.
you can do this! stepping out of your comfort zone even a little makes it easier every time. maybe try to celebrate little wins, cause all progress is progress and soon you'll start to realise that making steps to get to where you want to be comes more naturally. you create your story, i have definitely been there but honestly sometimes you just need to do things that you know will grow you (but are scary), because often, they turn out to be not as hard or fear-inducing as they seemed. sending love :)
I realized the problem with my daydreaming just last year- daydreaming isn't necessarily bad but when I actually thought about it, the person I am in my daydreams is perfect- she's everything I want to be and instead of working towards becoming that person, I daydream that I'm already her.. this has affected my life and I've wasted soo many years. I've realized that I'm nothing like that person I'm just a pathetic lazy girl who can't achieve anything I'm so disconnected with reality
You're going to be just fine. Trust me. The fact that you're already aware of your situation is already a step closer to your goal. Take this as someone who thought the same thing about herself 1 year ago:) Back in 2022 I was heavily dependent on my daydreams, always thinking that I don't need to improve my reality since I have my fantasy world anyways and I thought that's enough. Oh boy, God woke me up and all I have to say is there was so much work that needed to be done through me internally. Needless to say it's 2024 now and I don't daydream about a desired reality anymore because I'm already working through getting that life and I'm finally improving myself. I have learnt to Love myself and Others. Improving and being happy with life... It's certainly not impossible at all. Though I must admit, It's hard and it takes lots of work, it's very worth it:) You got this. I believe in you. 👍🌺
@@Imakeawesomeeditsforreal I´ve taken the first step, and that's being aware that I have this same issue with daydreaming that you're all mentioning . I'm tired of it and if you are okay with sharing your process, I would like to know which things helped you to overcome this problem, also I would like to thank you for your kind words and sharing your story :3
@@anagy20 You're very welcome. What helped me the most is Working through myself consistently, thinking about positive things and having positive affirmations about myself, (I was told to do it many times but I always thought the idea was ridiculous cause that advice was too cliche, but now that I've tried it myself, I realized it was cliché for a reason 😂) and of course, being patient with myself. And Embracing my present and Completely eliminating daydreaming about my future because I know my future is completely dependent on what I do now in the present. And constant praying to God helped me a Lot. ❤️ I wish you the very best in your Journey and I hope you'll be able to overcome your trials. ❤️🙏
@@iCharlyprime Can you give me some tips on editing? Maybe share how you learned to edit. The minute details like, how you write the script, is there a template you use, how to put effects in video, which software and how exactly, how do you figure out what cuts to use like when to zoom in etc. Cuz that's what is hard to figure out. You can make a whole video out of it. Or a series. Not that it is absolutely necessary. Anyway, I loved your video. I am also a daydreamer. Learning to edit and starting to make videos would take me closer to my daydream self so I'm working on it. I would definitely try out your notion template from this video. Thank you for making this.
Omg precisely this!! It genuinely has to be the most well-edited video I've seen in genuinely... years. It's like a well-funded documentary made by professionals at their craft. Great script that catches your attention, and background music to keep a vibe, and little sound effects and pictures and text to really add the cherry on top. I'm not a video editor in any way myself, so I'm just in awe honestly because still I can notice that this was so good!!
For most of my life I've had this subconscious notion that certain parts of my life "don't count" because they wouldn't be entertaining/interesting for the plot of a fictional narrative. I've started reminding myself when I feel that way, that every moment still counts and deserves to be beautiful, deserves to be art. This character sheet process seems like a really good way to implement that!
I recently understood a basic assumption i had, which was weird to experience. I always had the feeling that if I disagree with someone’s request they will either attack me or resent me, so whenever I disagree it comes out aggressive (but it’s full of fear). So this time, i disagreed with a senior at my job (in an aggressive assertiveness you may call it ) and i was expecting him to raise his voice or argue back, instead he just asked one more time with a very calm and caring voice, it got me by surprise. I still didn’t accept it, so now i was expecting him to resent me. The next day i stumbled him in the corridor, i said hello (considering he might just ignore me), again he said hello back with a kind manner. Now that shattered my assumption, i disagreed and that was it. Yet my way of disagreeing has yet to catch up with this shift. But it’s a weird feeling to think that how many more assumptions like this guide my day to day life.
life challenging your basic assumptions that you never even thought to question is wild, i know the feeling... here's to slowly untangling all the lies we've been telling ourselves! :D
My assumption is that I think ima looser? Even when my parents actually talks good things about me there relative mostly . Also on more If u say NO to someone asking for help would make you totally rude and away from them. But it doesn't 🙏
Yeah this is huge, I struggle with this too but with criticism. Emotionally its like an attack, or like I’m being punished. Probably due to some kind of trauma. Taking antidepressants has helped.
@@CrystalRose1111 Same here! I think mine is also a learned behavior from trauma. It's like a irrational defense mechanism. I plan on trying therapy again, but I'll try to be more honest and write down what I can so I can get out of this accursed mindset once and for all. I hope you'll be able to achieve the same! 💚
As a 38 year old who has finally in the last 6 months felt like the version of myself I’ve always wanted to be, I am rooting you on and am so proud of you! It takes a lot of work to not put up with your own bullshit and get out of your own way but it’s worth it ❤
as a girl who’s currently in a whirlwind of change in my life and frequently wanting to run far away from it (and being obsessed with bg3 the past month 😭) i’m so happy the algorithm threw this incredible video on my feed. Instant follow!
For anyone suffering from social anxiety. I had it in highschool and it was really bad. Not only I feared my classmates but I was so scared to talk to my family that I became a hermit. If you really want to improve your social skills and not be anxious trust me get out of your room, take time away from your phone and talk to who's infront of you. In that way you gain a friend, when you made one you start to practice to socialize with that person. Soon enough you'll start to realize your social skills are improving. As someone who's introverted talking was the only way to heal my social anxiety.
in the past, people wouldn't have to put so much thought and curation into identity because they had stability and community relationships that shored up who they were (and wanted to be) over time. our current world takes away a lot of that stability and ability to maintain long-term community, and we're left kinda floundering
I’ve been thinking about this so much recently. I really miss that feeling of community. Especially now that I’m not in school, I feel like I’m floating out in space, and I have no idea who I am.
I believe it's not true. Even in that society, people suffered from emotional distress and committed suicides. Why do we see books with such dark content, like Dostoevsky's or Kafka's? If you're different from others, if you feel bad, it makes you even more nauseous that there are constantly people around with whom you have to interact - it's disgusting and awful
of course there were difficulties and feeling estranged in the past as well, but our modern capitalist, post-internet world has physically separated people to an extent they never have been before. also both those authors lived post-industrial revolution, which laid a lot of the cultural roots for our current lives
@yael5067 Yes exactly! To add to that, I think the intense reflection on identity is due to isolation. We are made to be social and when left alone we turn into ourselves. Our opinions of ourselves are merely our own reflections of others’ perceptions! And since our modern world is so isolated, alone, and withdrawn we(may)end up with an askew perception of ourselves. It’s the side effect of not receiving others opinions, essentially we’re all stuck in an echo chamber. Community is key, and in our modern world I notice that the concept of community is dying. I mean when was the last time anyone saw kids playing outside? Their mothers or relatives sitting on the steps chatting? Not really happening anywhere sadly. Almost all neighborhoods I see look like ghost towns. On a more positive note, similar to the point of the video, why don’t we act as the changing force? Reverse the introverted tendency of our modern society, actually take the step forward? When I was in highschool, after finishing my homework I would sit outside with a book/sketchpad/notebook etc and I would just chill for a few hours. I would strike up convos with people passing by or I would greet them. Essentially just acting open and friendly, which most people really enjoy. So (if your neighborhood is safe of course and if you also have the time of day)why don’t more people try this? Be the one who initiates that sense of community in ur neighborhood or wherever you live. Best of luck! Pax Vobiscum
Great video!! This is literally psychology CBT (cognitive behavioral treatment, one of the most effective mental treatments we have), except you actually addressed the behavior aspect instead of just the cognitive mindset. So many people overlook that, so really glad to see that addressed
This video is truly like an answer of my prayers.I have this problem of maladaptive daydreaming since childhood, where i not just daydream but i suffer too a lot in my imagination.I have been praying a lot to get rid of this problem.I am going to implement this from now.Thank you charly for making this video.
I love this video too! Although for most if us watching, daydreaming might be a big problem, it doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing in all. I think having a great imagination and a mind that is able to dream big and wonder is a great gift to have. Don’t look at having an imagination as a problem, instead let’s just learn to better moderate it to a more healthy balance while still allowing ourselves with a time and place to let our imagination run wild. ❤
Thanks a lot! I'm struggling a lot with this daydreaming. It's literally become my life. So it came to the point when I'm talking with myself or have imaginary conversations with close ones instead of like actually talking to them, bruuuh. You saved my last month of the year❤ Just wanted to say it out loud to really let you know how I appreciate your work and consider it as an important topic❤❤, if you care about my opinion haha)) P.S. English is my second language, haha
yeahhhh, been there, super relatable😭 good luck in living in reality more, it's actually really pretty and just as exciting as daydreams, hope you learn to see that again!! :D
as a fellow dnd and notion girlie, my notion landing page/dashboard is loosely set up like a dnd character sheet and i have all my "stat blocks" for different aspects of my life: - strength is strength workout plans - dex is mobility workout plans - constitution is mental health goals, affirmations, gratitude log etc. - intelligence is personal library of articles, notes/typical second brain stuff, and things i want to learn more about - wisdom was more for books i was reading/want to read, links to different video essays, notes/quotes that i found to be thoughtful or profound, and things in life i want to understand better - charisma is all about relationships with myself and others (self-date ideas, CRM with friends birthdays, etc.) i also have a lore category that contains my hobbies and skills, inspirations, daily journals, etc., my HP is a habit tracker, and all my goals were sorted into main quests or side quests! my notion is VERY MUCH a work in progress right now, but if it ever looks presentable to the world i'll put it out there lol. but i figured this might give you/any other dnd girlies some notion inspo!
I’m someone who makes OCs for every piece of media I watch, elaborating on them so much and giving them beautiful stories. finally I can take that love for character making and writing, to improve myself for the new year! Thank you for this new perspective!
GIRLLL. GIVE ME THE LINKS?? OR USERNAME, Are you in ao3? I’ll take anything with Original character, there’s always so little OC works, let alone good story on top!!😭😢
this 14 minute video has helped me SO much more than dozens of other "motivational" videos, it's allowed me to actually put my goals into action very quickly with a non-complicated plan and has given me actual direction instead of a general idea tysm for making this video and ty for making the template free idk how u dont have more subscribers
It feels good to watch someone so real. Happy to see so many people who relate to you in the comments, makes me believe I CAN find female friends to talk about D&D and share notion templates with! I'll definitely share this 😊
I usually don't comment on videos, but honestly this one just spoke to me. I've been living my daydreams for most of my life (I've kinda self diagnosed myself with maladaptive daydreaming tbh y'all). So yeah! I have a persona that I use pretty often when I enter a fictional world, so I think I'll be using them as a base. I'll definitely try this coming year (2024) to try and become like my persona (and a couple other favorite characters of mine hehe) ANYWAYS I HOPE Y'ALL GET TO ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS ♡! LEZZGO!
my biggest thing is that while i do want to become my daydream persona, it’s a lot scarier to do in real life 😭 in my daydreams there is no rejection unless i choose for there to be! but in real life ppl can perceive me and form their own opinions on me and i hate it :(
Can you people STOP SELF DIAGNOSING?!?! "Maladaptive daydreaming is familiar to me' or "I experience some core symptoms of [whatever it is]" like it is seriously so annoying when 1 out of 2 people say they're NeUrOdiVeRgEnT ..but it's not really diverging from the norm if if *is* the norm eh? Yeah. Stop.
@@Observing-NPCs who’s gonna diagnose me?? my imaginary therapist??? i maladaptive daydream … i know i do. i really don’t need to pay a doctor to tell me that
As someone with maladaptive daydreaming (and a ton of mental disorders yipee) this is actually so wholesome and helpful, I'll point out about the self compassion, my therapist always remember me that i have to treat me with the same care and compassion i treat everyone else, because if no one else is taking care of me at least i should do, it wont always be easy, pat your shoulder, cry a little and keep going!
You won me at the minion making of the "just be yourself" because this quote is so well intentioned but so stupid. Our brains are designed to survive and save energy, just being yourself without having who you want to be in life in your mind will just make you end up doing the bare minimum to exist and not going after your dreams or goals
" ASK YOURSELF WHAT WOULD YOUR IDEAL SELF DO IN THIS SITUATION". 5:07, I asked myself this question and then immediately I cut this video and went to study. thanks a lot I don't know what the rest of this video contains but this much is useful to me
I'm obsessed with fantasy RPGs and i always play fierce, menacing, powerful female characters. Yet in real life i am such a pushover. I'm currently trying to summon the courage to end it with an alcoholic, addict boyfriend who takes a lot of my money. It's bad. I don't know what the hell is wrong with me. I, too, daydream about being the sort of woman who would simply leave when boundaries are being crossed.
girl GET OUT! i grew up w an alcoholic father & the first man i fell in love with (surprise) was a raging addict and alcoholic himself. you need to get away from him!!! and i hope you already have!!! i know from experience.
I was just thinking about how I can change as a person, I usually fantasize A LOT about being better and having my desired life and personality but I never do anything and everything stays in my imagination, This video motivated me to finally make a change.
Your video is genuinely inspiring and came to me at the right time. I just finished reading a self-help book (You Are A Badass) and while I don't necessarily agree with everything in it, it has reframed my perspective to allow me to change my life. That was the mindset shift I needed and your video is providing me the actionable tactics that I need (and actually feel more connected to as a needy person myself). Thank you for sharing the gift of you to the world!
@@dianaicnaiad The book can feel a bit ableist at times and assumes some base level of access to opportunity which I am in a fortunate enough position to be in to change my life. I absolutely love the book and have been recommending it to people in my life and at the same time I recognize that no perspective is perfect. Everyone is different and in completely different circumstances so while a shift in mindset is life changing there is no one size fits all approach.
I specifically appreciate that you discussed following up a shifting mindset with the BEHAVIORS!! this is exactly where im at right now and its super uncomfortable at first but I know that it's necessary to show my brain that the old storylines aren't conducive to the life i want to live! amazing video!!!
Words cannot describe how proud I am of you and how grateful I am to be able to have such a talented, smart, caring and strong person in my life! This video is truly inspiring and I'm already on my way to use this template to the fullest. I can't wait to see what comes next in this journey! Love you, Gorge!!
@@erenikorllos9747”my go-to (add word)” means the thing that you usually have/do etc. In this case, „my go-to treat” means the treat you usually get for yourself, whether it’s food or anything.
Hey what a great video. It is on point with everything I learned in therapy. I actually scripted my life and wrote a new definition of what my life was gonna be, then I started chasing it despite fear, and lo and behold, I improved MASSIVELY. I'm talking "overcoming an existential crisis with panic attacks and DPDR" Massively. That is the way indeed, you expose the exact same things I have EXPERIENCED that work. Go at it!
This is like one of the only 2 or 3 motivation videos that feels like it actually gets me. Everything out there seems so vague, like if you just manifest enough and know what your goals are then you just instinctively should know what to do. But my mind doesn't work like that and it hasn't been getting anywhere .. this video gave me the inspiration and motivation I've been needing for so long. Thank you !!
i never found someone as relatable as you and such a coincidence that i created my own character lately that is chaotic, unpredictable and brave ( i live with fear almost my whole life )
I'm DMing a new campaign soon and I was taking to my players about reworking some of their character goals because "running towards something is better motivation than running away." Then I thought about that for a second. Realized that I had abandoned everything I really loved just to avoid the possibility of failure. Now I'm in the process of reworking my entire life. 😅 I really related to your "if no one else is gonna throw me an intervention, I'll do it myself." I wish us both good luck on this journey!
Daydreaming is something that ive been struggling for as long as i can remember, and because of it, it has severely interfered in my selfsteem and in daily experiences (EXPECIALY in friendships). So this video rlly changed my perception on the situation, thanks
I've recently learnt about people creating alter egos for improving their lives and this video by far is the most practical and inspiring one on this topic. Thank you for the video and the character list!
Something that has helped me is I had to admit that I'm actually ruining my life by not changing my lazy habits and not doing things that would actually propell me toward my goals. Telling myself, "I have to get over this," instead of "I need to get over this," pushes me to really do something about my dreams and goals. Might not work for everyone, but sometimes I need internal pressure pushing me to focus on what has to be done, to live the life that will benefit me--which is not always what I want. (and when I say "want," I'm not referring to desires that will make me happy long-term, but "wants" that are harmful, like tubs of icecream or scrolling on my phone. Things that hold me back from my goals.)
This video was so joyful and positive even though it comes from a place of discomfort and not liking the life someone lives in right now. I know this feeling so well and to be honest: you inspired me so much! I will definitely try the notion page you linked and set new goals for each week. It seems like a more structured approach than daydreaming daily about how life could/should be like. This video was so healing for me and I just subscribed to you, because I really am looking forward to the next video
10:33 this about "basic assumptions" is SO true!! My psychologist just 2 days ago talked with me about it! That my near-constant belief w everyone that "You're growing frustrated with me, but you're hiding it. But I know it's there, and if I don't soothe you you will explode eventually." *#1* step to deal with the assumption in my journey was to learn to *_ask_* those I'm close with when this feeling happens, instead of spending so much extra energy stressing and fawning unnecessarily. But my basic assumption still ruled freely here, as in my brain it feels like "This(being upset) is something you're not supposed to talk about, but you are supposed to be aware of it. So when the other person says they aren't upset at all at me, that just means that I need to follow along and reply and _pretend_ outwardly like it isn't true, while *_still_* taking it into account as something true (do fawning&soothing behaviors)." *#2* (now) is to try to just... not listen to it. Because by always asking (and still not believing the answer I'm given), I was *_still_* affirming that it _might_ be true, when realistically it really probably isn't. But gosh it's scary!! It's a lot to think about how many assumptions like this there are that I'm not aware of having! A lot of the time it feels like this one gigantic messy spiderweb. But I know that I have made a huge amount of progress in the past 5 or so years. So I will try to bear the feeling of being slightly uncomfortable, to grow past these harmful patterns!
Hey! I'm reading the book Cognitive Behavior Therapy, by Judith Beck. This therapy approach is guided by changing the patient's core beliefs (for example, a patient believes that the world is scary and this makes them anxious) and one of the best ways to do this is guide then to have them have experiences and see with their own eyes that their thoughts about the world were wrong. So I see that the activity you show us in your video is a way of realizing these core beliefs and changing them, documenting and being healed in some way (dealing with your hug problem is a good example). PS: English is my second language, if I said something wrong don't blame me, just tell me. I'm still learning :)
As someone who also loves BG3, adores Astarion a definitely normal amount, and has been struggling with self-realization, I greatly appreciate this! I am largely happy with who I am as a person, but my accomplishments are lacking, and I haven't been able to place exactly why that is. I think that breaking things down in those character sheet terms will help me identify what I want/need to improve that will allow me to change it. Challenging some basic assumptions and allowing yourself to gently test and settle into the values and qualities that you are developing is crucial, and I appreciate the examples. Genuinely, thank you! This is enlightening and it gives me some good ideas on how to improve myself! *At the risk of being a tad bit cringe, but deciding 'what the hell I'll do it anyway' given a common appreciation of the drama king himself:* "This is a gift, you know. I won't forget it." On a related note, nice Astarion picture! Your brother did well lol 😂
omg this video just got randomly recommended to me and I decided to give it a try, but ended up staying for the whole thing! The production is amazing and you've said the words I needed to hear. I really like this idea of creating a character for myself. Definitely gonna use your template! Thank you very much for this video!!
Hey, I loved your video. It was funny, well edited and full of creativity. However, I had to stop in the middle because I wasn't ready to practice everything you said. Change can be scary. there was a point where just the tough of putting everything you said in practice on my life gave me anxiety and I start to hyperventilate
i like how we all unapologetically delulu for Astarion. But on a serious note - girl, i have just discovered you, and now i'm questioning where have you been all these time? And i have to give special credits for editing. Chefs kiss
As a girly who is experiencing loads of change this season of my life and feeling myself becoming something new but still not being sure *what* that new person is like; this video came like a godsend♥️ thank you
?????? hey people already talked about the quality of this already, but this legit like a books worth of information. i have this habit of skimming many books at a bookstore, and this is absolutely one that i would sit and read properly and slowly again. like actually this is going to help me be both kinder to myself and do the things i want to do. i also may or may not have cried at "give yourself grace like you would someone you love" bit. thanks for the amazing content
Haha damn. I relate hard core. The gochujang in the fridge, the face masks. The existential crisis about being addicted to video games. I've been on a similar journey. I applaud your effort to move forward with actions and intention and wish you well.
I too have been obsessed with bg3 and astarion these past couple months 😂😭 ive always lived in my head since i was a kid.. escapism via imagination and daydreaming of a better self overruled everything. But despite my love for anything that fuels this (ahem astarion………) too much of it pushed real life to the back burner. For about 2 years now ive been feeling severely stuck in life but your method makes it so much more fun and less daunting. Thank you!!
Hi! this is the first video of yours I've ever come across and I just wanted to thank you! This video felt like a gentle undercurrent that's pushing me towards all the change I've daydreamed of making. I'm going to become a kinder, more patient and forgiving person who loves relentlessly and takes the time to be kind to all! (Think Tanjiro from demon slayer!) Thanks again for this!! I really, really appreciate it!
Hi, I'm back 3 weeks after watching this video, downloading the notion template and doing nothing with it and now I am ACTUALLY going to get started. Thank you for this because it makes SO much sense that I couldn't get it out of my head.
amazing amazing AMAZING video. your mind, your energy, your creativity is inspiring. you addressed some thoughts that i genuinely thought were exclusive to me and my experience in this nutty world. i immediately started daydreaming about filling out the template. mentally, i was creating a character who would actually get out of her head for once and do life irl. physically, i was starring out the window at the clouds. so i literally clocked myself for living even simple experiences through my imagination and came to write you a damn comment because you deserve it AND that's something i want to do; let other people know that their experience, knowledge, artistry and existence is incredible and impacting. i usually make compliments and comments in my head and feel satisfied with that, but i know the version of me that i wanna be today would make a physical effort in sharing my praise. cheers❤
The way you bring all of my favourite humorisms into one video so naturally is sending me. Not the fleabag and Icarly coded, fanfic reading, Astarion simping older sister you never knew you needed. Slayed the execution, the subscribe button has never been pushed with this much intent.
I used to do this as a kid, but kind of gave up because it was too far of a stretch of who i was really. When i was watching this video i thought to myself, "what if who i want to be is an asshole" but after watching the part about your character not fearing rejection or judgement i realised thats what i actually want for myself. I didnt want to be an asshole (i feared it!) I just wanted to be someone that wasn't afraid of judgment and not be a peoole pleaser. Thank you really for that example. The words you used was a small change but fixed my wrong perception of my ideal self, so now I won't be afraid of my own character 😅❤🎉
This was the best edited and scripted video I watched all year! Girl you will be going places! The priest comment made me spit coffee all over my screen xD
As a man I saw the same type of trend in myself (in thinking and in opening up myself to anyone), and I'm really glad to see fellow people opening up ONLINE about being who they are or want to truly be
I rarely comment on videos, especially not on one of these about how to improve yourself but your thumbnail and the title just spoke so much to me and this is the first video that inspired me to really be my own dream person, thank you so much! 🥰
This is the best video I have seen in a while. I dare to say, its the best video from all the "transformation & change" videos. The editing is great, the connection between character creation and archetypes is stunning. And I love the warm, welcoming and playful energy you radiate. Thank you
This hit me on a personal level! Ive got in a university (in my country it considered as ivy league) and im the first generation who made it but i actually dropped out after two weeks because i didn't want to study my major. And my mom didnt let me tell anyone because everyone would be ashamed of me. I'm studying for university enterance exam again and i feel bad. Because im almost 19 and i have no passion or anything. And i dont feel like i can success this year. I'm feeling very bad for the past few months and regretting every decision ive made.
hey, 19 is very young! i cant imagine how hard it must've been to drop out after all that pressure and to live with it now. but you made a decision for yourself, supporting your heart, and i really admire that! that's brave and active and bold. a gap year is fine, just be sure to keep yourself busy, you'll discover many things that can lead you forward :D it'll be vague for a while, but clarity will come soon! hope you ace that exam
i have acually never felt so seen from a self-help video before i absolutely will be downloading that notion template my pre-college confidence glow up is going to be insane
I LOVE THIS VIDEO. So much. It’s like you found a way to pick into my brain that really makes me want to make changes without just seeing it as a road of impossible hurdles. It’s pretty straightforward and motivating. Gives me hope about life tbh
This is exactly what i need to wake me up. It's been in my watch later list like many other hundred videos, and I'm glad that I choose to watch this video. Been living in my head for years, afraid of change and to let of comfort even though it's been killing me inside. daydreaming and never trying to make it into the reality and real me.
I actually really like this video a lot. It's got some really actionable steps and it allows you to really focus on what you really want out of your life (something that I'm only realizing now). One thing I would add to this is that I feel what would make starting this journey a lot easier is actually grieving the fact that who you are right now isn't who you dream to be at the moment. That you allowing yourself to emotionally feel grief in that you can't live in this fantasy in your head forever and feel happy. I think learning to first accept the scuffed person that you are now and forgiving yourself in the moment is key to moving forward. Overall really great video, gonna try this out when I get the chance. Thank you!
This is a really interesting frame of mind. I liked the day to day things being considered like hobbies and relationships. Makes the process a lot more grounded and realistic. Great video!
26 year-old French boi determined to make the most of 2024 here, this is so well explained and funny I'm gonna have to give this a try! Thank you for such a great video and for providing the template.
I am so proud of you for doing this and for making your Notion template available for free for other people to use. Also, LOVE the way you filmed and edited this! It must have taken a lot of time and effort, but it turned out amazing!
Great video! Also a quick tip for everyone: Don't set yourself goals that are dependent on someone else to achieve. For example: "I want to be liked by more people"or "I want to get this job" rather formulate the goals like this: "i want to meet more people"-"i want to apply for this job". Because you cannot control what others do, only your actions. This way you avoid setting yourself up for failure even if you did everything right/according to your character/wise mind.
Great video! I love this playful take on personal development. You are completely right. Personal development doesn't need to be some sort of toxic-hustle-hellscape that it sometimes is portrayed as. It can be fun, playful, and wholesome! Thanks for sharing this!
Oh my goodness, Charlie, my sister sent me this video. I just have to say how amazing I think it is - your creativity, editing, niche, specificity, humor, personal experience, all of it..incredible (and I never really comment on UA-cam videos)!
I’m saving this video to so many playlists because as life hits me, one change after another, I think I should change too. And this sounds like the EXACT kind of approach I’m already working on, so thank you for the notion sheet to help me refine it
when i heard of dissociative identity disorder i was really lonely in my life. so, inspired by alters in a system, i invented characters in my head that would come help me with different things i could not deal with. one would deal with school, the other with sports, the other with self preservation. it was really nice. as i grew more confident and had more friends i lost these very late imaginary friends. i kind of miss them now.
I am 1:28 minutes into the video and I am just blown away by your creativity in the filming and editing process! It is so refreshing to see! Can't wait to see the rest of the video :)
I was trying to find this video for hours! I remember watching it last month and it made an impression. Probably one of the best videos I’ve seen on UA-cam
This video blew me away and I immediately shared it with a bunch of my friends. I love your energy, self awareness and insight and I was subscribed and notifications on quicker than I have ever before! Can’t wait to see your journey!
I had this video in Watch Later for a month because it's always scary to watch things that might call me out, but I finally decided to watch it and I think it's amazing. It's obvious that you really thought about it, I love the idea you came up with, I love your vibe, and it's so nice that you shared the template! I'm gonna try it (already started listing characters and it's not Aang in mine but Zuko😂) and see what comes out of it. Thank you for this❤
3 WEEKS UPDATE: Well, it's kinda not that productive in the beginning, but at least everything became more clear and organized in the mental/mind way. The system of "Who I wanna be in this week" is really useful as those crazy full schedules do not work for me. So it's a really good way to create a new habit!! Also, I may say, that it can open new horizons - to challenge you for something new. In my opinion, it can be an incredible solution for some problems such as stagnation or uncertainty in life. Because it may bring you another way of thinking, another idea, another information. You don't know until you know. So far I concentrated on my fitness life - dances, cardio, pilates. That also affected good on my sleep, visual appearance(make up), socializing, self-esteem, confidence - mostly thanks to dancing(dancehall female btw). Connecting with loved ones, including myself, as I have spent some quality time. Thanks a lot! Hope everything will work fine in the 2024 too
Oh, I know all too well why I need these fantasies. They rescue me from a reality that's unbearable. The paradox is that the more you escape reality, the less chance you have to change it. Yet, I've always felt that changing anything is impossible. Fantasizing, a habit since childhood, has evolved into a lifestyle. They become so intrusive, arising spontaneously whenever I'm even slightly bored or sad, which is always. Washing dishes, I fantasize. Sitting on the toilet, I fantasize. Just waking up, and I'm already somewhere else. I'm so oblivious to my surroundings that I constantly bump into furniture. If I'm walking down the street, I can get lost in thought so deeply that only when I "snap out of it," I realize I've been going in the wrong direction for several minutes. Sometimes, it's frightening. Sometimes I regret having to return to reality and can't stay in fantasies forever. I've pondered on what makes them worse than reality, and the only downsides I found are having to leave them and their unreality. But what does reality even mean? Does it matter when the emotions experienced from them feel as real as can be? Fantasies hardly differ from memories of real events; in the end, all that remains is the memory. Perhaps, as I age, I'll start losing my memory and think that all my fantasies were indeed part of life
Your system is actually helping me at the moment ! This character sheet allows me to focus on what I've been wanting to be without realizing ! It's fun to think of myself as the mix of my favorite characters, and it might be the key for me ! I usually struggle with taking a step back while reflecting on myself, but I lose less energy finding excuses because I look at what I could be instead of what I am failing at. My ideal character traits are Composed, Androgynously Stylish, Kind, Unfazed, Strategic Speaker, Earnest (I used the word "composed" for general emotional management, and "unfazed" specifically for dealing with other people's opinions). It's crazy how I never realized that's what I wanted to be. Spontaneously I would have went with something like "original, smart, honest, creative..." but those are the compliments I used to get as a kid. Oops :o
dude i had no idea of your existence but got this in my recommended, 10 seconds in and THE CINEMATOGRAPHY I was floored, and then I find your channel name is iCHARLY? IMMEDIATELY SUBSCRIBED cuz clearly this is a fraction of top tier content. You're amazing! Cant wait to watch more vids from an ICON.
oh my god. this video describes EXACTLY my mindset right now, but to get to this point, it took me nearly 6-7 YEARS of having my own characters. bg info: i am an artist, and have had original characters for as long as i can remember. but around when i was 15-16, i started noticing that their patterns of behaviour heavily mirror mine, and that their traumas and etc are very similar to my own experiences. they were also a projection of how I WANT to see myself, how I SEE myself, what are my most intense emotions and stress responces, etc. in the age of 15, i also started questioning myself on who am i and what i want to do in this life. this lead to awful and big depressive episodes(even if there would be no war in ukraine, because i am an ukrainian refugee and this DID affect my mental health, i think the Intensity of these episodes would be the same, because my biggest worry at these times were "who am i and what i want to do?"), because i thought that i need to know myself in a way, where i could describe my personality in words and that i should've had a concrete plan for my future. as the time passed on, ive had this realisation about my characters. that is - that they represent me and who i am. and because i struggled with my sence of identity, ive decided to take my main character's persona and put it on myself. took his name and sence of fashion, his body language, etc. at first, yes, it did feel liberating and like everything clicked, but then comes the depersonalisation. i started experiencing depersonalisation episodes, and at first, i thought it was simply because i dont see my character in myself in the sence of appearance. but after some time of thinking, something hit me - it was mostly because he and i are still different people and have different reaction mechanisms due to different life experiences, and THAT was the main problem. i did not associate myself fully with him, because i was still that person who i was all those years, just with a different appearance. and that's where the mental work began. i am right now only on the beggining of this journey, because this realisation came to me not that long time ago. basically, i do everything that the author of this video says(im sorry, i dont know her name since its the first video ive ever seen from her), but i just keep it in my head and just internalize all this process. at max, i write it down to my best friend, but only when it comes to sudden realisations which i have. so this video was great for me, because it gives me the hope that i am not insane lol. knowing that there are people that use the same principle puts my mind at ease, since it feels like people who ive told all this think i am insane. thank you so much for this video :)
it's so good to see how people are more open about the daydreaming experience subject. It's one of the things used to do to protect myself when i was in trouble or having a bad time with my parents. Your video helped me to see things in a diferent point of view :)
The video just randomly popped up on my homepage but the Hozier in the intro got me:). Gonna go watch it and write more after upd: thank you so much!! The video was really great, I’ll start to create my own character soon. I hope you have a nice day❤️
This is a wonderful concept. The way you explain everything without it feeling overwhelming. I absolutely love that you hit so close to home. You have excellent camera work and you're so naturally funny. This video was exactly what I needed to watch before the new year starts. ❤️
hi there! I've been reading all of your comments and am just AMAZED by the positive response! Welcome to everyone that is new here and thank you to anyone that was here before and decided to stay! ❤☺
Besides that, some people have had some questions regarding the Notion template, SO:
1. This is the link (the same one is in the description box): jeweled-troodon-650.notion.si...
2. When you click on the link (I tried it on multiple different devices, and it worked each time, so if it doesn't work for you I'd encourage you to try again) a new tab should open up and on there, in the upper-right corner, is a button that says 'Duplicate'.
3. If you click on that, Notion should automatically open your account and copy the template in there.
4. Now you can edit it however you want :)
(5. This is not really an additional instruction I just wanted to apologise for forgetting to swap out the pronoun 'she' with 'them' at some points. I turned the template I used myself into a general one by deleting all the things I had already filled out and swapping out the pronouns, but I missed a few - obviously correct that and customise it so that it suits your needs)
Let me know whether it works for you 🌞
Once again: I love y'all and thank you for all of the amazing support!!
I loved this video, you're so funny with the BG3 thing. I TOTALLY relate to the whole wanting friends that maybe have issues but that come together to fix those issues and work to better themselves. I always wanted that SO BAD (and the reason why i get obsessed with games like Dragon Age and BG haha), thank you for this lovely video and this message. You are very funny and sweet :)
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This video is amazing work ^^
Also...
You are really beautiful. :)
New sub thanks for this video, you are so excellent at videography and editing, this is beautiful. I think we would love a Making Of This video explaining like where cams go and editing program opinions would be so cool. Also the content itself is lovely. Thank you, thank you for living this life
hey!! the link isnt working for me, not sure if its just me or?
Always remember: you cannot hate yourself into someone you‘ll love
So true! Did that, did not work, acceptance is better :)
damn that speaks to me in a deep level
@@veryironicveryhistrionic I don’t disagree, but what part about this mindset is dangerous?
@@twicebang4556 it's actually depends, if there's nothing wrong about yourself you dont harm yourself or others, then acceptance is key. if not then you have to change yourself to be better not harming yourself or the others.
What I am supposed to do then
im sick of the fact that everyone’s life is moving forward and i’m just always stuck in the same place due to my fears and anxieties
I believe you can take a step forward ✋🏾☺️
oh shit. that hit was too close to home
you can do this! stepping out of your comfort zone even a little makes it easier every time. maybe try to celebrate little wins, cause all progress is progress and soon you'll start to realise that making steps to get to where you want to be comes more naturally. you create your story, i have definitely been there but honestly sometimes you just need to do things that you know will grow you (but are scary), because often, they turn out to be not as hard or fear-inducing as they seemed. sending love :)
@@t6hrusthank you♥️♥️i'll try to remember this thought and apply it everyday
@@secretthirdthing22 you are so welcome! you’ve got this 💗
my girl just rebranded CBT as a DnD character sheet and its doing more than any therapist ive ever had has done
As long as it doesnt turn into dungeons and something else
RIGHT
I realized the problem with my daydreaming just last year- daydreaming isn't necessarily bad but when I actually thought about it, the person I am in my daydreams is perfect- she's everything I want to be and instead of working towards becoming that person, I daydream that I'm already her.. this has affected my life and I've wasted soo many years. I've realized that I'm nothing like that person I'm just a pathetic lazy girl who can't achieve anything I'm so disconnected with reality
your way too harsh on yourself, concentrate on your skills and practice them
You're going to be just fine. Trust me.
The fact that you're already aware of your situation is already a step closer to your goal. Take this as someone who thought the same thing about herself 1 year ago:)
Back in 2022 I was heavily dependent on my daydreams, always thinking that I don't need to improve my reality since I have my fantasy world anyways and I thought that's enough. Oh boy, God woke me up and all I have to say is there was so much work that needed to be done through me internally. Needless to say it's 2024 now and I don't daydream about a desired reality anymore because I'm already working through getting that life and I'm finally improving myself. I have learnt to Love myself and Others. Improving and being happy with life... It's certainly not impossible at all. Though I must admit, It's hard and it takes lots of work, it's very worth it:) You got this. I believe in you. 👍🌺
@@Imakeawesomeeditsforreal I´ve taken the first step, and that's being aware that I have this same issue with daydreaming that you're all mentioning . I'm tired of it and if you are okay with sharing your process, I would like to know which things helped you to overcome this problem, also I would like to thank you for your kind words and sharing your story :3
damn i relate i little too much
@@anagy20 You're very welcome. What helped me the most is Working through myself consistently, thinking about positive things and having positive affirmations about myself, (I was told to do it many times but I always thought the idea was ridiculous cause that advice was too cliche, but now that I've tried it myself, I realized it was cliché for a reason 😂) and of course, being patient with myself. And Embracing my present and Completely eliminating daydreaming about my future because I know my future is completely dependent on what I do now in the present. And constant praying to God helped me a Lot. ❤️ I wish you the very best in your Journey and I hope you'll be able to overcome your trials. ❤️🙏
im amazed with how well-edited and produced this video is!!
Thank you!! I really appreciate it 🌞
I came here to say that!
exactlyy!!
@@iCharlyprime Can you give me some tips on editing? Maybe share how you learned to edit. The minute details like, how you write the script, is there a template you use, how to put effects in video, which software and how exactly, how do you figure out what cuts to use like when to zoom in etc. Cuz that's what is hard to figure out.
You can make a whole video out of it. Or a series.
Not that it is absolutely necessary.
Anyway, I loved your video. I am also a daydreamer. Learning to edit and starting to make videos would take me closer to my daydream self so I'm working on it. I would definitely try out your notion template from this video.
Thank you for making this.
Omg precisely this!! It genuinely has to be the most well-edited video I've seen in genuinely... years. It's like a well-funded documentary made by professionals at their craft. Great script that catches your attention, and background music to keep a vibe, and little sound effects and pictures and text to really add the cherry on top. I'm not a video editor in any way myself, so I'm just in awe honestly because still I can notice that this was so good!!
For most of my life I've had this subconscious notion that certain parts of my life "don't count" because they wouldn't be entertaining/interesting for the plot of a fictional narrative. I've started reminding myself when I feel that way, that every moment still counts and deserves to be beautiful, deserves to be art. This character sheet process seems like a really good way to implement that!
I've had it too.
I recently understood a basic assumption i had, which was weird to experience.
I always had the feeling that if I disagree with someone’s request they will either attack me or resent me, so whenever I disagree it comes out aggressive (but it’s full of fear). So this time, i disagreed with a senior at my job (in an aggressive assertiveness you may call it ) and i was expecting him to raise his voice or argue back, instead he just asked one more time with a very calm and caring voice, it got me by surprise. I still didn’t accept it, so now i was expecting him to resent me. The next day i stumbled him in the corridor, i said hello (considering he might just ignore me), again he said hello back with a kind manner.
Now that shattered my assumption, i disagreed and that was it.
Yet my way of disagreeing has yet to catch up with this shift. But it’s a weird feeling to think that how many more assumptions like this guide my day to day life.
life challenging your basic assumptions that you never even thought to question is wild, i know the feeling... here's to slowly untangling all the lies we've been telling ourselves! :D
My assumption is that I think ima looser?
Even when my parents actually talks good things about me there relative mostly .
Also on more
If u say NO to someone asking for help would make you totally rude and away from them. But it doesn't 🙏
“We’re not enemies, we just disagree” one of my favorite strokes lyrics🤣💀
Yeah this is huge, I struggle with this too but with criticism. Emotionally its like an attack, or like I’m being punished. Probably due to some kind of trauma. Taking antidepressants has helped.
@@CrystalRose1111 Same here! I think mine is also a learned behavior from trauma. It's like a irrational defense mechanism. I plan on trying therapy again, but I'll try to be more honest and write down what I can so I can get out of this accursed mindset once and for all. I hope you'll be able to achieve the same! 💚
As a 38 year old who has finally in the last 6 months felt like the version of myself I’ve always wanted to be, I am rooting you on and am so proud of you! It takes a lot of work to not put up with your own bullshit and get out of your own way but it’s worth it ❤
Could you guide me??
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as a girl who’s currently in a whirlwind of change in my life and frequently wanting to run far away from it (and being obsessed with bg3 the past month 😭) i’m so happy the algorithm threw this incredible video on my feed. Instant follow!
what's bg3
@@nalbinalbii888 the game baldurs gate 3 mentioned in the video
@@madhattermegs9574 ahh i see ty
We are not alone 🥲
Same! Hello, friends 👋
For anyone suffering from social anxiety. I had it in highschool and it was really bad. Not only I feared my classmates but I was so scared to talk to my family that I became a hermit. If you really want to improve your social skills and not be anxious trust me get out of your room, take time away from your phone and talk to who's infront of you. In that way you gain a friend, when you made one you start to practice to socialize with that person. Soon enough you'll start to realize your social skills are improving. As someone who's introverted talking was the only way to heal my social anxiety.
in the past, people wouldn't have to put so much thought and curation into identity because they had stability and community relationships that shored up who they were (and wanted to be) over time. our current world takes away a lot of that stability and ability to maintain long-term community, and we're left kinda floundering
I’ve been thinking about this so much recently. I really miss that feeling of community. Especially now that I’m not in school, I feel like I’m floating out in space, and I have no idea who I am.
@@wizardlizard55555you are so real for this, i feel exactly the same...:( also just finishing uni and life's just so empty now
I believe it's not true. Even in that society, people suffered from emotional distress and committed suicides. Why do we see books with such dark content, like Dostoevsky's or Kafka's?
If you're different from others, if you feel bad, it makes you even more nauseous that there are constantly people around with whom you have to interact - it's disgusting and awful
of course there were difficulties and feeling estranged in the past as well, but our modern capitalist, post-internet world has physically separated people to an extent they never have been before.
also both those authors lived post-industrial revolution, which laid a lot of the cultural roots for our current lives
@yael5067 Yes exactly! To add to that, I think the intense reflection on identity is due to isolation. We are made to be social and when left alone we turn into ourselves. Our opinions of ourselves are merely our own reflections of others’ perceptions! And since our modern world is so isolated, alone, and withdrawn we(may)end up with an askew perception of ourselves. It’s the side effect of not receiving others opinions, essentially we’re all stuck in an echo chamber.
Community is key, and in our modern world I notice that the concept of community is dying. I mean when was the last time anyone saw kids playing outside? Their mothers or relatives sitting on the steps chatting? Not really happening anywhere sadly. Almost all neighborhoods I see look like ghost towns.
On a more positive note, similar to the point of the video, why don’t we act as the changing force? Reverse the introverted tendency of our modern society, actually take the step forward? When I was in highschool, after finishing my homework I would sit outside with a book/sketchpad/notebook etc and I would just chill for a few hours. I would strike up convos with people passing by or I would greet them. Essentially just acting open and friendly, which most people really enjoy. So (if your neighborhood is safe of course and if you also have the time of day)why don’t more people try this? Be the one who initiates that sense of community in ur neighborhood or wherever you live.
Best of luck!
Pax Vobiscum
Great video!! This is literally psychology CBT (cognitive behavioral treatment, one of the most effective mental treatments we have), except you actually addressed the behavior aspect instead of just the cognitive mindset. So many people overlook that, so really glad to see that addressed
yessss! I knew it was a form of CBT, sooo awesome.
The "what I want" *lifts astarion portrait* SENT ME TO SPACE
This video is truly like an answer of my prayers.I have this problem of maladaptive daydreaming since childhood, where i not just daydream but i suffer too a lot in my imagination.I have been praying a lot to get rid of this problem.I am going to implement this from now.Thank you charly for making this video.
I love this video too! Although for most if us watching, daydreaming might be a big problem, it doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing in all. I think having a great imagination and a mind that is able to dream big and wonder is a great gift to have. Don’t look at having an imagination as a problem, instead let’s just learn to better moderate it to a more healthy balance while still allowing ourselves with a time and place to let our imagination run wild. ❤
I feel this!
how’s the journey going?
God this is a mood
I relate to this so much
Thanks a lot! I'm struggling a lot with this daydreaming. It's literally become my life. So it came to the point when I'm talking with myself or have imaginary conversations with close ones instead of like actually talking to them, bruuuh. You saved my last month of the year❤
Just wanted to say it out loud to really let you know how I appreciate your work and consider it as an important topic❤❤, if you care about my opinion haha))
P.S. English is my second language, haha
yeahhhh, been there, super relatable😭 good luck in living in reality more, it's actually really pretty and just as exciting as daydreams, hope you learn to see that again!! :D
Ahh heavy on sentences two and three. Sending positive energy your way for 2024!
i think u have maladaptive daydreaming
@@leoor1111 Maybe💀 But, well, it getting better
@@leoor1111Same. That’s kinda just autism
as a fellow dnd and notion girlie, my notion landing page/dashboard is loosely set up like a dnd character sheet and i have all my "stat blocks" for different aspects of my life:
- strength is strength workout plans
- dex is mobility workout plans
- constitution is mental health goals, affirmations, gratitude log etc.
- intelligence is personal library of articles, notes/typical second brain stuff, and things i want to learn more about
- wisdom was more for books i was reading/want to read, links to different video essays, notes/quotes that i found to be thoughtful or profound, and things in life i want to understand better
- charisma is all about relationships with myself and others (self-date ideas, CRM with friends birthdays, etc.)
i also have a lore category that contains my hobbies and skills, inspirations, daily journals, etc., my HP is a habit tracker, and all my goals were sorted into main quests or side quests! my notion is VERY MUCH a work in progress right now, but if it ever looks presentable to the world i'll put it out there lol. but i figured this might give you/any other dnd girlies some notion inspo!
if you ever do decide to make that template …send it over🫣🫣🫣 sounds epic
I’m someone who makes OCs for every piece of media I watch, elaborating on them so much and giving them beautiful stories. finally I can take that love for character making and writing, to improve myself for the new year! Thank you for this new perspective!
GIRLLL. GIVE ME THE LINKS?? OR USERNAME, Are you in ao3? I’ll take anything with Original character, there’s always so little OC works, let alone good story on top!!😭😢
@@KoreanStar-es8es OMG YOU WANNA READ? IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN ADD YOU ON TO SEND?
I WANT LINKS AS WELL
@@chipchrome1769 OMG ANYWHERE I CAN SEND THEM
you guys are giving me life rn 🤣
this 14 minute video has helped me SO much more than dozens of other "motivational" videos, it's allowed me to actually put my goals into action very quickly with a non-complicated plan and has given me actual direction instead of a general idea
tysm for making this video and ty for making the template free idk how u dont have more subscribers
It feels good to watch someone so real. Happy to see so many people who relate to you in the comments, makes me believe I CAN find female friends to talk about D&D and share notion templates with! I'll definitely share this 😊
So sorry, but if you don't mind me asking, what exactly is D&D and as I was typing I literally realized it's probably dungens and dragons...🤦😂
@@Melanie-c3j correct!
I usually don't comment on videos, but honestly this one just spoke to me. I've been living my daydreams for most of my life (I've kinda self diagnosed myself with maladaptive daydreaming tbh y'all). So yeah! I have a persona that I use pretty often when I enter a fictional world, so I think I'll be using them as a base. I'll definitely try this coming year (2024) to try and become like my persona (and a couple other favorite characters of mine hehe)
ANYWAYS I HOPE Y'ALL GET TO ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS ♡! LEZZGO!
my biggest thing is that while i do want to become my daydream persona, it’s a lot scarier to do in real life 😭 in my daydreams there is no rejection unless i choose for there to be! but in real life ppl can perceive me and form their own opinions on me and i hate it :(
@@lilacfields SAME THO LIKE PPL BE ANNOYING US WITH ALL THEIR OPINIONS FOR WHAT
Can you people STOP SELF DIAGNOSING?!?! "Maladaptive daydreaming is familiar to me' or "I experience some core symptoms of [whatever it is]" like it is seriously so annoying when 1 out of 2 people say they're NeUrOdiVeRgEnT ..but it's not really diverging from the norm if if *is* the norm eh? Yeah. Stop.
@@Observing-NPCs who’s gonna diagnose me?? my imaginary therapist??? i maladaptive daydream … i know i do. i really don’t need to pay a doctor to tell me that
@@Observing-NPCs maladaptive daydreaming isnt a diagnosis, its more like a symptom. you can notice symptoms in yourself without diagnosing
Girl. The editing! Perfection... the academy award goes to you.
As someone with maladaptive daydreaming (and a ton of mental disorders yipee) this is actually so wholesome and helpful, I'll point out about the self compassion, my therapist always remember me that i have to treat me with the same care and compassion i treat everyone else, because if no one else is taking care of me at least i should do, it wont always be easy, pat your shoulder, cry a little and keep going!
This is so similar to the premise of CBT therapy but for free!! I love that you actually gave a practical way to keep track of your progress as well
You won me at the minion making of the "just be yourself" because this quote is so well intentioned but so stupid. Our brains are designed to survive and save energy, just being yourself without having who you want to be in life in your mind will just make you end up doing the bare minimum to exist and not going after your dreams or goals
The amount of patience to explain every single topic thoroughly, the editing, the level of relatability, this video is just so good!
" ASK YOURSELF WHAT WOULD YOUR IDEAL SELF DO IN THIS SITUATION". 5:07, I asked myself this question and then immediately I cut this video and went to study. thanks a lot I don't know what the rest of this video contains but this much is useful to me
the editing, the production value, the relatability...i think I just found my new fav youtuber
olivia with ang’s arrow is something i never thought i needed but i’m happy it exists
I'm obsessed with fantasy RPGs and i always play fierce, menacing, powerful female characters. Yet in real life i am such a pushover. I'm currently trying to summon the courage to end it with an alcoholic, addict boyfriend who takes a lot of my money. It's bad. I don't know what the hell is wrong with me. I, too, daydream about being the sort of woman who would simply leave when boundaries are being crossed.
i'm rooting for you! :) i believe in your potential to be fierce and powerful. i'll be thinking of you!
You got this
girl GET OUT! i grew up w an alcoholic father & the first man i fell in love with (surprise) was a raging addict and alcoholic himself. you need to get away from him!!! and i hope you already have!!! i know from experience.
I was just thinking about how I can change as a person, I usually fantasize A LOT about being better and having my desired life and personality but I never do anything and everything stays in my imagination, This video motivated me to finally make a change.
Your video is genuinely inspiring and came to me at the right time. I just finished reading a self-help book (You Are A Badass) and while I don't necessarily agree with everything in it, it has reframed my perspective to allow me to change my life. That was the mindset shift I needed and your video is providing me the actionable tactics that I need (and actually feel more connected to as a needy person myself). Thank you for sharing the gift of you to the world!
what part of 'you are a badass' did you not agree with
@@dianaicnaiad The book can feel a bit ableist at times and assumes some base level of access to opportunity which I am in a fortunate enough position to be in to change my life. I absolutely love the book and have been recommending it to people in my life and at the same time I recognize that no perspective is perfect. Everyone is different and in completely different circumstances so while a shift in mindset is life changing there is no one size fits all approach.
I specifically appreciate that you discussed following up a shifting mindset with the BEHAVIORS!! this is exactly where im at right now and its super uncomfortable at first but I know that it's necessary to show my brain that the old storylines aren't conducive to the life i want to live! amazing video!!!
Words cannot describe how proud I am of you and how grateful I am to be able to have such a talented, smart, caring and strong person in my life! This video is truly inspiring and I'm already on my way to use this template to the fullest. I can't wait to see what comes next in this journey! Love you, Gorge!!
Love you more ❤️ (text me how it went ;;;) )
Can someone explain what does
"My go-to treat" means?
Idk what to write in this section
@@erenikorllos9747”my go-to (add word)” means the thing that you usually have/do etc. In this case, „my go-to treat” means the treat you usually get for yourself, whether it’s food or anything.
Hey what a great video. It is on point with everything I learned in therapy. I actually scripted my life and wrote a new definition of what my life was gonna be, then I started chasing it despite fear, and lo and behold, I improved MASSIVELY. I'm talking "overcoming an existential crisis with panic attacks and DPDR" Massively. That is the way indeed, you expose the exact same things I have EXPERIENCED that work. Go at it!
This is like one of the only 2 or 3 motivation videos that feels like it actually gets me. Everything out there seems so vague, like if you just manifest enough and know what your goals are then you just instinctively should know what to do. But my mind doesn't work like that and it hasn't been getting anywhere .. this video gave me the inspiration and motivation I've been needing for so long. Thank you !!
i never found someone as relatable as you and such a coincidence that i created my own character lately that is chaotic, unpredictable and brave ( i live with fear almost my whole life )
I'm DMing a new campaign soon and I was taking to my players about reworking some of their character goals because "running towards something is better motivation than running away." Then I thought about that for a second. Realized that I had abandoned everything I really loved just to avoid the possibility of failure. Now I'm in the process of reworking my entire life. 😅 I really related to your "if no one else is gonna throw me an intervention, I'll do it myself." I wish us both good luck on this journey!
Daydreaming is something that ive been struggling for as long as i can remember, and because of it, it has severely interfered in my selfsteem and in daily experiences (EXPECIALY in friendships). So this video rlly changed my perception on the situation, thanks
I've recently learnt about people creating alter egos for improving their lives and this video by far is the most practical and inspiring one on this topic. Thank you for the video and the character list!
Something that has helped me is I had to admit that I'm actually ruining my life by not changing my lazy habits and not doing things that would actually propell me toward my goals. Telling myself, "I have to get over this," instead of "I need to get over this," pushes me to really do something about my dreams and goals. Might not work for everyone, but sometimes I need internal pressure pushing me to focus on what has to be done, to live the life that will benefit me--which is not always what I want. (and when I say "want," I'm not referring to desires that will make me happy long-term, but "wants" that are harmful, like tubs of icecream or scrolling on my phone. Things that hold me back from my goals.)
This video was so joyful and positive even though it comes from a place of discomfort and not liking the life someone lives in right now. I know this feeling so well and to be honest: you inspired me so much! I will definitely try the notion page you linked and set new goals for each week. It seems like a more structured approach than daydreaming daily about how life could/should be like. This video was so healing for me and I just subscribed to you, because I really am looking forward to the next video
10:33 this about "basic assumptions" is SO true!! My psychologist just 2 days ago talked with me about it! That my near-constant belief w everyone that "You're growing frustrated with me, but you're hiding it. But I know it's there, and if I don't soothe you you will explode eventually."
*#1* step to deal with the assumption in my journey was to learn to *_ask_* those I'm close with when this feeling happens, instead of spending so much extra energy stressing and fawning unnecessarily. But my basic assumption still ruled freely here, as in my brain it feels like "This(being upset) is something you're not supposed to talk about, but you are supposed to be aware of it. So when the other person says they aren't upset at all at me, that just means that I need to follow along and reply and _pretend_ outwardly like it isn't true, while *_still_* taking it into account as something true (do fawning&soothing behaviors)."
*#2* (now) is to try to just... not listen to it. Because by always asking (and still not believing the answer I'm given), I was *_still_* affirming that it _might_ be true, when realistically it really probably isn't. But gosh it's scary!!
It's a lot to think about how many assumptions like this there are that I'm not aware of having! A lot of the time it feels like this one gigantic messy spiderweb. But I know that I have made a huge amount of progress in the past 5 or so years. So I will try to bear the feeling of being slightly uncomfortable, to grow past these harmful patterns!
Hey! I'm reading the book Cognitive Behavior Therapy, by Judith Beck. This therapy approach is guided by changing the patient's core beliefs (for example, a patient believes that the world is scary and this makes them anxious) and one of the best ways to do this is guide then to have them have experiences and see with their own eyes that their thoughts about the world were wrong. So I see that the activity you show us in your video is a way of realizing these core beliefs and changing them, documenting and being healed in some way (dealing with your hug problem is a good example).
PS: English is my second language, if I said something wrong don't blame me, just tell me. I'm still learning :)
As someone who also loves BG3, adores Astarion a definitely normal amount, and has been struggling with self-realization, I greatly appreciate this! I am largely happy with who I am as a person, but my accomplishments are lacking, and I haven't been able to place exactly why that is. I think that breaking things down in those character sheet terms will help me identify what I want/need to improve that will allow me to change it. Challenging some basic assumptions and allowing yourself to gently test and settle into the values and qualities that you are developing is crucial, and I appreciate the examples. Genuinely, thank you! This is enlightening and it gives me some good ideas on how to improve myself!
*At the risk of being a tad bit cringe, but deciding 'what the hell I'll do it anyway' given a common appreciation of the drama king himself:* "This is a gift, you know. I won't forget it."
On a related note, nice Astarion picture! Your brother did well lol 😂
omg this video just got randomly recommended to me and I decided to give it a try, but ended up staying for the whole thing! The production is amazing and you've said the words I needed to hear. I really like this idea of creating a character for myself. Definitely gonna use your template! Thank you very much for this video!!
Hey, I loved your video. It was funny, well edited and full of creativity. However, I had to stop in the middle because I wasn't ready to practice everything you said. Change can be scary. there was a point where just the tough of putting everything you said in practice on my life gave me anxiety and I start to hyperventilate
i like how we all unapologetically delulu for Astarion. But on a serious note - girl, i have just discovered you, and now i'm questioning where have you been all these time? And i have to give special credits for editing. Chefs kiss
As a girly who is experiencing loads of change this season of my life and feeling myself becoming something new but still not being sure *what* that new person is like; this video came like a godsend♥️ thank you
?????? hey people already talked about the quality of this already, but this legit like a books worth of information. i have this habit of skimming many books at a bookstore, and this is absolutely one that i would sit and read properly and slowly again. like actually this is going to help me be both kinder to myself and do the things i want to do. i also may or may not have cried at "give yourself grace like you would someone you love" bit. thanks for the amazing content
Haha damn. I relate hard core. The gochujang in the fridge, the face masks. The existential crisis about being addicted to video games. I've been on a similar journey. I applaud your effort to move forward with actions and intention and wish you well.
I too have been obsessed with bg3 and astarion these past couple months 😂😭 ive always lived in my head since i was a kid.. escapism via imagination and daydreaming of a better self overruled everything. But despite my love for anything that fuels this (ahem astarion………) too much of it pushed real life to the back burner. For about 2 years now ive been feeling severely stuck in life but your method makes it so much more fun and less daunting. Thank you!!
girl i love this! this is such a great, creative way to choose yourself and build a happy life! i am so happy for you
Hi! this is the first video of yours I've ever come across and I just wanted to thank you! This video felt like a gentle undercurrent that's pushing me towards all the change I've daydreamed of making. I'm going to become a kinder, more patient and forgiving person who loves relentlessly and takes the time to be kind to all! (Think Tanjiro from demon slayer!) Thanks again for this!! I really, really appreciate it!
its a very gentle very sweet message, with some good energy too
Hi, I'm back 3 weeks after watching this video, downloading the notion template and doing nothing with it and now I am ACTUALLY going to get started. Thank you for this because it makes SO much sense that I couldn't get it out of my head.
amazing amazing AMAZING video. your mind, your energy, your creativity is inspiring. you addressed some thoughts that i genuinely thought were exclusive to me and my experience in this nutty world. i immediately started daydreaming about filling out the template. mentally, i was creating a character who would actually get out of her head for once and do life irl. physically, i was starring out the window at the clouds. so i literally clocked myself for living even simple experiences through my imagination and came to write you a damn comment because you deserve it AND that's something i want to do; let other people know that their experience, knowledge, artistry and existence is incredible and impacting. i usually make compliments and comments in my head and feel satisfied with that, but i know the version of me that i wanna be today would make a physical effort in sharing my praise. cheers❤
The way you bring all of my favourite humorisms into one video so naturally is sending me. Not the fleabag and Icarly coded, fanfic reading, Astarion simping older sister you never knew you needed. Slayed the execution, the subscribe button has never been pushed with this much intent.
I used to do this as a kid, but kind of gave up because it was too far of a stretch of who i was really.
When i was watching this video i thought to myself, "what if who i want to be is an asshole" but after watching the part about your character not fearing rejection or judgement i realised thats what i actually want for myself. I didnt want to be an asshole (i feared it!) I just wanted to be someone that wasn't afraid of judgment and not be a peoole pleaser.
Thank you really for that example. The words you used was a small change but fixed my wrong perception of my ideal self, so now I won't be afraid of my own character 😅❤🎉
This was the best edited and scripted video I watched all year! Girl you will be going places! The priest comment made me spit coffee all over my screen xD
As a man I saw the same type of trend in myself (in thinking and in opening up myself to anyone), and I'm really glad to see fellow people opening up ONLINE about being who they are or want to truly be
it's great that you want to start opening up to people you should start by telling me your social security number and credit card number.
when you get it@@millerrepin4452, pass it on to me pls
@@millerrepin4452 asdgfjk this is so fucking funny
Omg, your eyeshadow is sooooooooo good! It fits you so well!
I rarely comment on videos, especially not on one of these about how to improve yourself but your thumbnail and the title just spoke so much to me and this is the first video that inspired me to really be my own dream person, thank you so much! 🥰
PLS your editing is ........stunningly immaculate PRISTINE BEAUTIFUFLFLFLFLFLF and several other similar adjectives.....im blown away. honestly.
This is the best video I have seen in a while. I dare to say, its the best video from all the "transformation & change" videos.
The editing is great, the connection between character creation and archetypes is stunning. And I love the warm, welcoming and playful energy you radiate. Thank you
you can do it, sending you clarity and peace on your journey
The alt camera angles, side glances, and knowing pauses. Your comedic timing is incredible.
This hit me on a personal level! Ive got in a university (in my country it considered as ivy league) and im the first generation who made it but i actually dropped out after two weeks because i didn't want to study my major. And my mom didnt let me tell anyone because everyone would be ashamed of me. I'm studying for university enterance exam again and i feel bad. Because im almost 19 and i have no passion or anything. And i dont feel like i can success this year. I'm feeling very bad for the past few months and regretting every decision ive made.
hey, 19 is very young! i cant imagine how hard it must've been to drop out after all that pressure and to live with it now. but you made a decision for yourself, supporting your heart, and i really admire that! that's brave and active and bold. a gap year is fine, just be sure to keep yourself busy, you'll discover many things that can lead you forward :D it'll be vague for a while, but clarity will come soon! hope you ace that exam
Thank you so much for the template! structure is exactly what I needed on my journey!!
i have acually never felt so seen from a self-help video before i absolutely will be downloading that notion template
my pre-college confidence glow up is going to be insane
I LOVE THIS VIDEO. So much. It’s like you found a way to pick into my brain that really makes me want to make changes without just seeing it as a road of impossible hurdles. It’s pretty straightforward and motivating. Gives me hope about life tbh
This is exactly what i need to wake me up. It's been in my watch later list like many other hundred videos, and I'm glad that I choose to watch this video.
Been living in my head for years, afraid of change and to let of comfort even though it's been killing me inside. daydreaming and never trying to make it into the reality and real me.
I actually really like this video a lot. It's got some really actionable steps and it allows you to really focus on what you really want out of your life (something that I'm only realizing now). One thing I would add to this is that I feel what would make starting this journey a lot easier is actually grieving the fact that who you are right now isn't who you dream to be at the moment. That you allowing yourself to emotionally feel grief in that you can't live in this fantasy in your head forever and feel happy. I think learning to first accept the scuffed person that you are now and forgiving yourself in the moment is key to moving forward. Overall really great video, gonna try this out when I get the chance. Thank you!
This video is feeling like a having coffee with a friend and therapy at the same time. And editing is just *chef kiss*
This is a really interesting frame of mind.
I liked the day to day things being considered like hobbies and relationships. Makes the process a lot more grounded and realistic.
Great video!
spent an hour and a half filling out your list! this was great
avsolutly loved this, couldnt have come at a better time! thank you so much for the effort and love you put into this
So glad you liked it!!
26 year-old French boi determined to make the most of 2024 here, this is so well explained and funny I'm gonna have to give this a try! Thank you for such a great video and for providing the template.
incredible. love this 10/10. we love this existential era ✨😌
i've never related to anyone more than i relate to you GIRL I'M SO GLAD I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL
I am so proud of you for doing this and for making your Notion template available for free for other people to use. Also, LOVE the way you filmed and edited this! It must have taken a lot of time and effort, but it turned out amazing!
Heyy Can you please guide me how can I use this template?
Great video!
Also a quick tip for everyone: Don't set yourself goals that are dependent on someone else to achieve. For example: "I want to be liked by more people"or "I want to get this job" rather formulate the goals like this: "i want to meet more people"-"i want to apply for this job".
Because you cannot control what others do, only your actions. This way you avoid setting yourself up for failure even if you did everything right/according to your character/wise mind.
Great video! I love this playful take on personal development. You are completely right. Personal development doesn't need to be some sort of toxic-hustle-hellscape that it sometimes is portrayed as. It can be fun, playful, and wholesome! Thanks for sharing this!
Oh my goodness, Charlie, my sister sent me this video. I just have to say how amazing I think it is - your creativity, editing, niche, specificity, humor, personal experience, all of it..incredible (and I never really comment on UA-cam videos)!
I’m saving this video to so many playlists because as life hits me, one change after another, I think I should change too. And this sounds like the EXACT kind of approach I’m already working on, so thank you for the notion sheet to help me refine it
Same! Definitely saving it in my personal development playlist
This is probably the best video I've watched on UA-cam so far. In terms of content, video quality, editting.
I'm soooo proud of you!
when i heard of dissociative identity disorder i was really lonely in my life. so, inspired by alters in a system, i invented characters in my head that would come help me with different things i could not deal with. one would deal with school, the other with sports, the other with self preservation. it was really nice. as i grew more confident and had more friends i lost these very late imaginary friends. i kind of miss them now.
I was wondering if i should do it, im scared of it turning into a real disorder tho... Did you have these concerns?
I never thought I'd find a video and comment section that would help me feel "normal".
Thank you.....
I am 1:28 minutes into the video and I am just blown away by your creativity in the filming and editing process! It is so refreshing to see! Can't wait to see the rest of the video :)
I was trying to find this video for hours! I remember watching it last month and it made an impression. Probably one of the best videos I’ve seen on UA-cam
This video blew me away and I immediately shared it with a bunch of my friends. I love your energy, self awareness and insight and I was subscribed and notifications on quicker than I have ever before! Can’t wait to see your journey!
I had this video in Watch Later for a month because it's always scary to watch things that might call me out, but I finally decided to watch it and I think it's amazing. It's obvious that you really thought about it, I love the idea you came up with, I love your vibe, and it's so nice that you shared the template! I'm gonna try it (already started listing characters and it's not Aang in mine but Zuko😂) and see what comes out of it. Thank you for this❤
3 WEEKS UPDATE: Well, it's kinda not that productive in the beginning, but at least everything became more clear and organized in the mental/mind way. The system of "Who I wanna be in this week" is really useful as those crazy full schedules do not work for me. So it's a really good way to create a new habit!!
Also, I may say, that it can open new horizons - to challenge you for something new. In my opinion, it can be an incredible solution for some problems such as stagnation or uncertainty in life. Because it may bring you another way of thinking, another idea, another information. You don't know until you know.
So far I concentrated on my fitness life - dances, cardio, pilates. That also affected good on my sleep, visual appearance(make up), socializing, self-esteem, confidence - mostly thanks to dancing(dancehall female btw). Connecting with loved ones, including myself, as I have spent some quality time.
Thanks a lot! Hope everything will work fine in the 2024 too
Oh, I know all too well why I need these fantasies. They rescue me from a reality that's unbearable. The paradox is that the more you escape reality, the less chance you have to change it. Yet, I've always felt that changing anything is impossible. Fantasizing, a habit since childhood, has evolved into a lifestyle.
They become so intrusive, arising spontaneously whenever I'm even slightly bored or sad, which is always. Washing dishes, I fantasize. Sitting on the toilet, I fantasize. Just waking up, and I'm already somewhere else. I'm so oblivious to my surroundings that I constantly bump into furniture. If I'm walking down the street, I can get lost in thought so deeply that only when I "snap out of it," I realize I've been going in the wrong direction for several minutes. Sometimes, it's frightening. Sometimes I regret having to return to reality and can't stay in fantasies forever.
I've pondered on what makes them worse than reality, and the only downsides I found are having to leave them and their unreality. But what does reality even mean? Does it matter when the emotions experienced from them feel as real as can be? Fantasies hardly differ from memories of real events; in the end, all that remains is the memory. Perhaps, as I age, I'll start losing my memory and think that all my fantasies were indeed part of life
Your system is actually helping me at the moment ! This character sheet allows me to focus on what I've been wanting to be without realizing ! It's fun to think of myself as the mix of my favorite characters, and it might be the key for me ! I usually struggle with taking a step back while reflecting on myself, but I lose less energy finding excuses because I look at what I could be instead of what I am failing at.
My ideal character traits are Composed, Androgynously Stylish, Kind, Unfazed, Strategic Speaker, Earnest (I used the word "composed" for general emotional management, and "unfazed" specifically for dealing with other people's opinions). It's crazy how I never realized that's what I wanted to be. Spontaneously I would have went with something like "original, smart, honest, creative..." but those are the compliments I used to get as a kid. Oops :o
dude i had no idea of your existence but got this in my recommended, 10 seconds in and THE CINEMATOGRAPHY I was floored, and then I find your channel name is iCHARLY? IMMEDIATELY SUBSCRIBED cuz clearly this is a fraction of top tier content. You're amazing! Cant wait to watch more vids from an ICON.
oh my god. this video describes EXACTLY my mindset right now, but to get to this point, it took me nearly 6-7 YEARS of having my own characters.
bg info: i am an artist, and have had original characters for as long as i can remember. but around when i was 15-16, i started noticing that their patterns of behaviour heavily mirror mine, and that their traumas and etc are very similar to my own experiences. they were also a projection of how I WANT to see myself, how I SEE myself, what are my most intense emotions and stress responces, etc.
in the age of 15, i also started questioning myself on who am i and what i want to do in this life. this lead to awful and big depressive episodes(even if there would be no war in ukraine, because i am an ukrainian refugee and this DID affect my mental health, i think the Intensity of these episodes would be the same, because my biggest worry at these times were "who am i and what i want to do?"), because i thought that i need to know myself in a way, where i could describe my personality in words and that i should've had a concrete plan for my future.
as the time passed on, ive had this realisation about my characters. that is - that they represent me and who i am. and because i struggled with my sence of identity, ive decided to take my main character's persona and put it on myself. took his name and sence of fashion, his body language, etc.
at first, yes, it did feel liberating and like everything clicked, but then comes the depersonalisation.
i started experiencing depersonalisation episodes, and at first, i thought it was simply because i dont see my character in myself in the sence of appearance. but after some time of thinking, something hit me - it was mostly because he and i are still different people and have different reaction mechanisms due to different life experiences, and THAT was the main problem. i did not associate myself fully with him, because i was still that person who i was all those years, just with a different appearance.
and that's where the mental work began. i am right now only on the beggining of this journey, because this realisation came to me not that long time ago.
basically, i do everything that the author of this video says(im sorry, i dont know her name since its the first video ive ever seen from her), but i just keep it in my head and just internalize all this process. at max, i write it down to my best friend, but only when it comes to sudden realisations which i have.
so this video was great for me, because it gives me the hope that i am not insane lol. knowing that there are people that use the same principle puts my mind at ease, since it feels like people who ive told all this think i am insane. thank you so much for this video :)
best of luck to you!
it's so good to see how people are more open about the daydreaming experience subject. It's one of the things used to do to protect myself when i was in trouble or having a bad time with my parents. Your video helped me to see things in a diferent point of view :)
The video just randomly popped up on my homepage but the Hozier in the intro got me:). Gonna go watch it and write more after
upd: thank you so much!! The video was really great, I’ll start to create my own character soon. I hope you have a nice day❤️
I hope you have the most wonderful day too, thank you!! ☺️
6:42 I about burst a lung 😂 you're so real for that. On a serious note, I'm absolutely in love with this video 🤍
This is way too relatable (especially the Astarion part)
This is a wonderful concept. The way you explain everything without it feeling overwhelming. I absolutely love that you hit so close to home. You have excellent camera work and you're so naturally funny. This video was exactly what I needed to watch before the new year starts. ❤️