Signs a guy is starting to care about you | When to take things to the next level
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Signs a guy is starting to care about you | When to take things to the next level
Women always want to how to tell if a guy likes them. While sometimes “like”isn’t enough there are definitely better times than others to jump in bed with a new love interest. Most women jump in bed too early and regret it later. They go off of what they feel, instead of what they’ve seen from a man. They are so focused on their fantasy they let it control their reality. This ultimately does more harm than good. Wait for signs a man cares about you. Wait for signs of thoughtfulness and consideration, if you’re tired of just being another notch on a man bed post.
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Be alone, gain a relationship with your Maker, improve yourself, mental health, well being, and PRACTICE PATIENCE! THE MOST HIGH WILL SEND YOU YOUR SPOUSE.
Amen to that!
This is where I’m at. Love that you posted this. 🙏🏾
Amen 🙏🏽 I agree 💯 im doing that myself! Waiting on God he can do better than i can ! U are on point 🙌🏽🙌🏽God bless you 🙏🏽
@@jamiewilliams3938 and I'm waiting on conrona.. ok wow old fokes wisdom. when their done with their fun.and their dirt.. I'm not about too be doing all this waiting. grown people do grown shit. and that's the bottom line. don't have to wait on God to show you everything.. you ain't Blind. he gave you sight and good senses so use them.
Indeed!!
How he treats you is how he feels about you. Simple.As.That.
I disagree. A lot of men are wise to signs and will deliberately do things to hide their feelings.
@@anonimothy5979 touché. I would argue that hiding your true feelings for fear of being vulnerable is different than what I was thinking of when I said what I said. I’m thinking more along the lines of men not prioritizing their partner, showing a lack of regard or concern for their partner and her feelings, not being willing to communicate and compromise, etc…are examples of him clearly showing he doesn’t care about the relationship, or doesn’t care nearly ENOUGH. So that being said I feel if he truly cared for the female, he would put more effort into the relationship, when a man truly loves and cares for a woman, he won’t want to do anything that could potentially cause him to lose her. Even if it means putting his ego and pride to the side, because that’s usually the main reason a man hides his true feelings in the first place.
If that were true there wouldn't be any victims of disloyalty. There are plenty of men and women with dual personas in their relationships and they tell themselves it's better to lie than tell you the truth. Immaturity is a big issue. My ex treated me fine in person around family and friends sometimes went overboard, but he still was out in the streets doing the opposite of what he was showing me.
@@rheamickens9132 Some also picked up that habit through what they'd consider learning experiences. If showing their true feelings got them called clingy, too emotional, weak or some other name, they may hide things for the purpose of not scaring off new pursuits. On another note, many are advised by so-called experts that women chase men who seem like they're not interested. Therefore, many of them will act indifferent, thinking it's a stimulant to get the women curious or attentive to them. There are all sorts of reasons why men will treat women differently than how they actually feel about them. But overall, yes, you're right. If a guy is head over heels with his partner, it should be evident. But to me, it's "should be" rather than always is.
@@yolandacasey66 Agreed
‘Before you jump in a man’s bed, you need to be in his head’ 🙌🏾 Kev is PREACHING on this good Sunday!
I love this
Don't jump into his bed until he marries you. It the safest
@@ambomateijennifer7207 💯THIS THE ONE‼️ I wholeheartedly agree with abstaining from sex until marriage (even though that doesn’t mean married ppl don’t stray, I’d hope infidelity wouldn’t be an issue)
I just wanna comment this too!
😁 I love the rhyme anyway..😁👍💯✨✨❤️😜
Like take candy from a baby
Why is dating so challenging. I pray everyone in this comment section find someone who truly cares for them.
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Exactly, thank you
I think it's because we attach to people when we shouldn't, it's emotional intelligence. And basically self love and self respect, that not many have to themselves and others
Thank you! I hope that you receive the same. ❤️
Amen and May You find à Man that love everything about you
i gave up 3 years ago. no one wanted to take me on a date or spend quality time with me, so i just decided to be alone. not the best feeling but it's better than getting hurt.
U gotta get back out there
You do have to get back out there, but what you just said is the truth..But those men wasn’t the one meant for you!!! So thank GOD you didn’t put anything into the men that wouldn’t put anything into you!!!! So keep going and GOD will bring the right man… I’m in the dating scene and it’s horrible, but that’s okay because I learned that I’m not going to settle, listen because people reveal to you who they are, when you listen and don’t try to fit people into what you want ..
I totally understand that. I'm intentionally not dating right now. I have learned that yeah, those guys I was with made some dumb choices, but I did too. I contributed to my broken heart. So I have to learn what not to do in the future and just work on me in general. That is why I like his videos. It really gives me info I need to make better decisions about future relationships. Anyway, I get why you have given up but if you ever change your mind, i really think it's worth it.
Thanks, I really appreciate the advice
Now you're right where you should be. Patiently waiting. At times we are forcefully trying to navigate the road to a fruitful relationship and wonder why we keep hitting so many pot holes in the road? Just patiently wait and continue to manifest yourself.
The day after I met my sweetheart of 3 years, he called me while he was out fishing. When I asked him if he had his bluetooth in, he told me he didn't have one and he was holding the phone with his shoulder while throwing casts.
He did this for 2 hours. I know it doesn't sound like much but the fact that he would fuck up his neck and shoulders just to get to know me still warms my heart 🥲
And of course, I made him step into the 21st Century and get himself a bluetooth 😂
Just asking.....3 years?? Are y’all married now🙂
No. Not everyone's end goal is marriage. We are both divorced with grown children and we are enjoying ourselves. Maybe, maybe not 🙂
@@marciaboland6103 I gotcha 🙂
What a cute story
Love it! 💐
“Before you jump in a man’s bed, you need to be in that man’s head” 📝 😂
Narcissists will do both! Beware! ⚠️
It’s important to not invest too much emotionally in a guy in the beginning. In the beginning he’s not being himself because he thinking with his other head. You’re simply getting acquainted with his representative. Wait until they get over the ‘obsession’ and see the REAL them.
Very accurate 🎯
you speak truth tho! ☝🏽
So true
Brilliant
Some what true. All men don't actually lead or operate with their small head. Grown men who are genuinely looking for a wife can and do separate wife material from play things and they generally don't give play things real time or attention of interest.
To be clear!!!!🚩🚩 I believe in waiting for a real commitment, but women are barely even getting a second date and a few conversations before they are in bed now days. Everyone isn’t sexually conservative. Even so, if you must jump in bed, at least try to get some sign or signal of emotional substance first. That’s the point of this video. Not to encourage premature sex.
Period💜🙏🏾
100% that was understood at least for me
@Cherish God Amen to that!!! I liked that "mind fu@k..." that's absolutely true!!
Really great video, Kev.
I've tried it and it worked.
This man is a Godsend to the dating scene of this generation.. 😇
I texted this guy " I need help". Just kidding around. He responded two minutes later. "I'll be there in 30 minutes. I wasn't at home, I had to rush home and think of something quick.
Hello i recommend you to Dr James he helped me stopped the abuse of my narcissist and manifested my specific person..
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Text him via whatssap 💯💯
He passed the test...lol. He's a keeper🙂
Doesn't it feel good to have someone like that 🤩🥰.
YES! I used to date someone who would give me a small gifts but they were a means of control and I did not understand the difference between gift-giving for control and gift-giving for care. I'm in a relationship now where it is new yes but it would seem I get gifts from care and concern as opposed to control. For example my ex would give me a piece of jewelry then try to use the dollar amount to justify his lack of doing dishes or sweeping the house. Yes my new boyfriend lives far away but when I told him my socks had holes I laughed about it and said I need time to stitch them and before I knew it there were a few new pairs in my mailbox. I can't tell you how sweet that was to me. I don't know what he spent on them and it really does not matter to me just the fact that I told him my socks have holes and he provided me with socks made me feel very secure in the fact that he is concerned for me and my person and not a dollar amount
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He is a keeper. I say that this is the sweetest thing ever.
My friend gives me sweet little gifts. When a man is thoughtful. That is an A plus for me. Not expensive gifts but. It's just the thought for me.
NEVER let a man control you. If he's giving you conditions with the gifts, like, "You can have this 14k white gold necklace, I bought it just for you, but you gotta stop talking to Mark at the office, or I'll take it back". That kinda thing is about power and control. When a man gives you gifts without conditions, it goes a li'l somethin' like this: "Melissa, dear, hey stop what you're doing, I bought you something." Pulls out that hot pink Gucci bag you were eying at the Gucci store in the mall a few weeks ago, and when you ask what the occasion is, his answer is, "Well, I saw you lookin' at it, I know you wanted it, but I wanted to surprise you." and no conditions, he did it out of love. Nice men surprise their women with stuff they know their women like, and mean guys who just want a ticket to push you around will throw that gift in your face every time you argue. A man who throws material possessions in your face when you fight is a man who is using you like an RC car. Just wants you to be his puppet while he controls the strings. RED FLAG. Let him take that gift back if he throws it in your face. In fact, if he says stuff like, "If it weren't for ME, you wouldn't have that!" then the best response to that, is to grab that item and throw it at him, and then say, "You're not my father, you're not my boss at work, and you're nobody who has power and control over me. But, you know, you're right, if it weren't for you, I wouldn't have that, so with that being said, take your gift and this relationship and shove it up your ass. I'll buy my own shit, I don't NEED nothing from you." And walk into the other room. Cry, if you have to, but don't let him see you cry, becaue that's another freak show thing that controlling and abusive men do is use your vulnerability against you. You deserve a man who will buy you a gift "just because" or because he thinks you're very special and you mean the world to him and maybe giving you a gift is his way to show he appreciates whatchu do for him, and how you love and care for him. NEVER let a man throw things in your face if he bought them for you. Like I said, tho, if you're ever in that situation again, take that damn necklace off, and throw it at the bastard, because he can't put a price on you being treated how a woman SHOULD be treated. Because you always were, still are, and always will be worth MORE than that stupid necklace. Even if it is 14k gold. Good luck in your new relationship.
I love your name BTW. My name is spelled just like yours (on legal documents, of course), but I personally don't like the original spelling of the name "Melissa", so I put my own twist on it, and put in a "Y" and kicked the "I" to the curb. It's an Aquarius thing, we hate being like others. Eventually, when I find out how much it costs to have a name change, I'm going to legally change it to "Melyssa", because... Well, I think it looks prettier spelled that way.
Or that he's only after your body🙄🙄😏
"before you JUMP in a man’s bed, you gotta be in his HEAD”
GOLD
Men can not fake anything for long my good sis. You have to be more careful with yourself when YOU like someone. Just because you feel that way doesn’t mean he does. It’s nice to have a good gauge of how he expresses himself and if he’s genuine. Also, setting standards IS important. Set standards that are not aligned with financial, or material. Emotional and sustainable standards like respect, care, consistency, and obligation are a good few.
I always say be upfront what you want. If the new friendship is somewhat genuine then it means maybe in a month you see eachother 2or3x therefore in between the communication should be open for knowing eachother first. And it's in between here that you state what you want in detail ... and what you stand for and simply ask him what he wants n explain your stance..... people who see eachother too much signal a lack of something imo like they don't have things to do hence more likely to be time wasters too...but i also tell women don't be afraid to ask the tough questions to these men and when they answer LISTEN and take stock !!!!
@@misselle1430 it’s always to eachs own. I know I want to see my romantic interest very frequently in order to keep momentum. But definitely ASK and LISTEN for what they say, and WATCH what they do.
You are a blessing..😇
Men usually become soft or feminine when the start to get feelings or in love 🥰
Yes, you are right about everything. My guy is constantly buying me outfits, planning outings. and doesn't have the best work schedules so he is consistent with our commitments. I am not used to this because I haven't seen this since my college years. He texts throughout the day and calls every day. I give him everything he deserves because I've seen his struggle and it is similar to what mine once was.
He's emotional and so am I-very different than what I'm used to. I appreciate where we are. I'm grateful too!
Keepin Ms. Lady🙂
Beautiful 😍
This is what I am experiencing at this very moment. I told him yesterday that sometime you have to give me some time to get used to how you treat me. I know that sounds crazy but when you been constantly treated bad it's like you get condition to be treated that way. There has been so many time I had to catch myself from crying because of the way he treats me lol 🥰😍. Sending much love and blessing.
Wats his sign sis? lol
@@toileonard6032 I’m so ready for that experience. I know I’m gonna react the same way. As a good woman I’ve always been hurt, betrayed, and taken advantage of. I’m getting to know this new guy who seems to wanna offer me all the love and affection I’ve never received. I hope this is it because I’m ready and I deserve it!! I know it’s gonna be emotionally rewarding after all the pain I have endured.
“ Idont believe awoman should be in a man’s bed before she is in his head..”
Wow! Kev dropping bars here🥺
This is what I absolutely love about the LDR I’m in right now. He was obsessing before we even met. Sending me money to help with bills, etc. I didn’t even have to ask him. And when we finally met, the obsession was just as real in person. We obsess over each other during the weeks we have to go before seeing each other again. It’s so nice, because he gets to fully know my heart, instead of going purely for my looks like most men. I pray that he’s my forever ❣️
Men are thoughtful in the beginning because they’re ruled by lust. When the lust fades - he’s not at all working for the relationship. That’s a turnoff . He already got what he was after , so he stops doing anything to keep building the relationship ...
Don’t sleep with the jerk I would make them wait if they can’t then that says everything about him you don’t need him buy a vibrator way less headaches.
That's only if you gave in and gave him what he wanted in the first place. If a man is only out for sex and you're doing the things @Kevin Hicks recommended, they'll either move on past you, or stick around to show you that they're real.
Let's not put lipstick on a pig and act like we're not complicit in our own heartache MOST of the time by ignoring red flags and going after the d**k against our better judgment because high key,, we are as bad as men when it comes to lacking the self discipline to wait!
@Priscilla if a guy tells you that he doesn’t want a girlfriend but still wants to date snd have sex then listen to him I’ve been down this road and thought well maybe he will come around eventually and he never did I ended up getting really hurt. I guess it was my own fault I liked him a lot..
@Priscilla true yes I did learn a huge lesson but the bad thing is I now trust nobody it’s hard enough for me to meet anyone decent. I’m older and choices are scarcer I’m kinda just giving up it’s all too much work maybe I’m over thinking too much
Learn to wait them out. If you already know what they are after, don't out "hope" into the equation. Either back away and not get sexual, OR if you do, make sure you reasonably predict what you can get and not feel cheated/played..
No sex for 2 years. That's my time-frame. No rush for sex!!! I don't let...the words..."I LOVE YOU" phase me. Words are wind. I want to see consistency of his actions and respect. No toxicity! If he really cares and truly loves, he will wait.
Why not just say no sex before marriage ?...
@@a.m.thomas9366 Because that wouldn't be realistic. Not for me. No rush for a marriage proposal. My first marriage proposal was around 3 1/2years. Marriage still failed. My standards are now much higher. Say he(current boyfriend) meets my expectations of the 2year marker, then👍👍even though we're not married, yet. If he proposes in 5 years, I will say Yes. He met all my important expectations. One more thing...fully aware there should be no sex before marriage....but no one is perfect. We ALL sin each and everyday.
That’s ridiculous
@@Wishfulthinking-vp6tz thanks for your opinion. Unfortunately, upstairs matter, not downstairs🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@@micheboohawaii9430 nah they both matter trust me
I like how you’re saying “Not Conservative” that’s a great way to not say offensive words about certain types of women.
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"Get in his head before getting in his bed"
I luv it!
basically I just have to look out for someone that is caring and focused on me and wondering about me/ considerate about me ! :)
Deep conversation is definitely the ice breaker it shows a men your mind frame and how well you listen to them and understand them
Before you jump in da bed, get in his head. Kev u DA best!
I'm a Virgo and I absolutely value and love when the Virgo man I'm talking to notices and brings back past details to show his thoughtfulness. It's incredible and YES everytime I notice!
I'm in a man's head. He is awesomeness and I deserve this wonderful treatment after so many duds!!! Thank you Father!!!!
4:39 this is a good list of things you have managed to come up with. If a guy isn't ready to put this much effort, he might not be that interested and ACTIONS will show it, words are nothing if he doesn't act upon them.
Great video, wish you all the best ❤️
I must say your wife is very lucky to have a great man like you beside her.
Hey Kev! I got engaged! Thank you 😍🙏🏾
Congratulations!
Congratulations 🍾
@@taliagreer1643 Thank you!❤🙏🏾🕯
@@shanda01114 Thank you!❤🙏🏾
5:35 “until he’s concerned about her” hit it on the nail for me. That’s what truly separates from the rest.
Ladies , if you decided to sleep with him right away then you gotta have to separate your head from your heart , simple ! Means , lay out first what you really want and looking for and if you decided to sleep with him then get up and show him that he is not even that important if he won’t take any steps . It’s your body and you can decide whatever you want to do with it but don’t expect to any guy to commit with you even after you waited for months to commit with you but have a decency to kick him in the curb if you see red flags heck you can even upfront about anything to him and do not be afraid to show him that if he gives you a reason that he is not the right man you’re looking for that you can and willing to cut him for good !
The problem of this when a woman sleep to a guy it doesn’t matter if it’s on the first date or one year of seeing each other , the woman always becomes needy and clingy. Lay out all the deal breakers and all things that are acceptable and be firm about it and leave him. Don’t even spend your time over think about it but get up and show him that if he cannot follow through then you have options ! Men are so used to women crying and begging but if you are a confident woman you have no problem getting rid of all the men that showing white lies before and after sleeping with him ! If there’s no attraction to begin with why sleeping with him ?
Ladies, you are responsible how you handle things especially after sleeping to a guy ! Me ? If ever I decided to sleep the guy I am attracted with which I did in the past I just get up and do my things heck I don’t even call or text him not because I am playing games but because I let him lead after that and I don’t like calling and texting so it’s easier for me to fall in the face of the earth. There are so many good looking and good men for you to waste your energy blaming yourself why. If you sleep to a guy enjoy it and own the responsibility and consequences without blaming him or yourself but be very upfront ASAP what are you looking and expectations!
Women are much emotional than men so keep your emotions check and again, never let yourself go even after sleeping to a guy ! Date so many people at once and then choose the best to keep seeing them. If a guy treat you like an option then treat him like an option. If a guy treat you with disrespect then treat him the same way, if a guy is flaky to you then be flaky to him. Whatever he gives you should do the same and don’t treat him like a king if he is not proven anything to you other than sleeping with you !
Amen...love this comment. Been trying to tell these ladies to get some game..guys call it & mess up...treat them how they treat u...period...if he leaves ok..if he stay ok..but don't lose self cuz u sxd a guy & he left..u had fun & so did he...next time, the one, make him wait..Hopefully u like him...I liked this f-boy, but he was an imposter & don't think a lady like me could really like him...nobody clingy..I just like being all over my man...period...
I like your response. :)
Great advice for us ladies
WOW! You nailed it! I had a man who did every single thing on that "Examples of Male Feelings" list; and he was the "strong, silent" type. He's passed on now, and since him nobody (so far) has come even close to loving me the way he did.
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I'm SO sorry for your loss. 😢
Sorry for your loss🙏🏾✨.. you got to experience these things Sis what a blessing! A lot will die never knowing the feeling 😩
I'm so sorry for losing a loved one....mm much respect
This totally cleared something up for me and shifted my perspective on a new guy in my life after being single for nearly 10 months. On our second date, we went sand boarding. Sat for a break, talked about weightlifting. A specific detail I mentioned was that recently I'd been having carpal tunnel issues and couldn't grip the bar as easily anymore. He mentioned wrist straps could help to which I had said I knew nothing about, had no experience with but that I'd look into them.
A week later, our third date, we made plans to cook at my place. He arrived with all the ingredients and totally surprised me with a pair of those straps. Something I had completely forgotten about, but he hadn't. I was blown away.... mind you, not simply by the $15 gym equipment, but the fact that that man had paid attention, remembered, and thought enough about it to get them and surprise me with them to make my workouts better.
I'm 38 and he's 40, but we are both very introverted and he is incredibly shy and gets insanely nervous around me. To an awkward degree that I just wish I could scoop him up and ease his anxiety. So far we have only hugged at the end of our dates and only at my initiation. When that time rolls around he stands there nervously scared to do anything, so I just naturally open my arms and go to him. Well by the end of date 3 I was hoping he'd gain the courage to kiss me, sadly this didn't happen. We hugged. As he walked to the door, I decided to lean in for another hug and kissed him on the cheek attempting to slowly show him that I am comfortable with more.
Thank you so much for the way you explained things in this video because it made me feel so much better!
That is soo sweet😭😭 wishing the best for yall🥰
That sounds beautiful. I love it.
You’re doing great ❤️
Give us an update girl
I dated a guy in his early 60’s… he said that I have to show and teach him about feelings 🤷🏾♀️
Now when we call each other throughout the day…. He says to me to stay out of his head.
I will be sharing this with him. Thank you 🙏🏾
@@user-zx5xw4yw2e yes 😊
A woman can be in a man’s head because he wants to bed her, nothing more, there is a difference. Make them wait, the real deal will stick around.
Your tough love approach is great. Thank you for your direct honesty when it comes to men. You sound like my Dad who could have lost his "man card" for spilling the way men think and why they behave the way they behave. Your honesty is appreciated and refreshing.
Love this guy! He tells it like it is!! Gets straight to the point!!
Since I never had close friends to look in on me when I was in a relationship, I find watching videos like these is an opportunity to compare notes for the first time. All the boxes always check off as "bad relationship", and my thoughts and emotions sink. But I still watch to reinforce this wisdom I've been picking up. Thank God for this virtual community and the men on here who give fatherly advice because not everyone has the kind of friends and family that are watching out for their best interests.
I’m in love with my future husband 🥴I never saw a relationship coming wasn’t looking wasn’t in need of one lonely from time to time but completely focused on my self my goals and my children but my God this man!
Don't give up. Taking a break is a good thing. Take care of and re-evaluate yourself and then get back up again!
I’m hearing so much sense from your head and it is helping my love life greatly... thank you
Wow, this by far the best advise I have heard on this platform. You are very articulate and really touch on the real human vulnerabilities that most coaches downplay. You give real life advice not tactics and games advise. I love how you mentioned your wife in your example. ❤
This really made so much sense and cleared up my questioning. I feel like maybe he wasn’t attracted to me or had “friend zoned “ me because he wasn’t getting at me sexually but rather with gestures like bringing me coffee or having just moved, bright me a table that he thought I could use. Nothing extravagant but when it’s put as it means he is thinking about me while we’re apart, it changes how I feel the direction of the relationship was going…
So while he sounds like a keeper you were expecting sex rather than commitment 🤔
I was confused because I thought he wasn’t into me or wasn’t attracted to me , even though we get along great. I didn’t realize that the gestures were the way the attraction is being shown rather than a guy who is sexually forward
@@evillunacy9303 Yes I get that but sex is not love. Sexual advances derive from lust not love. If a guy is really serious about you and sees you in his future, his main focus will be in getting to know you and how to earn your trust in him not on sex. He realizes that sex is not important in these early dating stages and the focus is getting to know you better. Think about it🤔 if the only time a man expresses his love to you is through love making after a few hours of sex how does he continue to express his love outside of sex? How does he show his appreciation? How do y'all get along as the only time y'all are on good terms is when having sex🤔
And yes it is possible for a man to have sex with you and not be attracted to you at all. Not saying that's your case just felt the need to highlight it🙂
Just TELL IT!!!...RESPECT YOURSELF, so he’ll respect you! 🤭🤗‼️
Another great video from Kev!
A" good place to start is it if the man shows THOUGHTFULNESS"!
I REALLY NEEDED TO HEAR THAT!
That made me delete the guys # 😂 literally zero thoughtfulness... idk why I needed him to tell me but I’m glad he did.
Keeeeeeeev!!! Loving the frequent uploads!
Also,
"Don't be in a man's BED, until you are in his HEAD".
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GREAT JOB KEV! 👍
I'm definitely taking notes on this video because I had a crush but it's definitely gave me The clarity that I needed.
Thank you!
You are doing such an excellent job as a relationship coach.
Please continue doing what you do.
That helped tremendously! Thank you brother 🙏🏾
Kevin,love YOUR advice. I feel that I CAN TRUST what you SAY! That's what makes you so good.
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I appreciated your thoughtfulness behind your words, and that if you missed something, you clarified it with written comments later. Very professional and informative. Great commentary. Thank you.
Thanks for watching
Keeping thier mind and heart and making the connection is the thing...real talk.
Thank you! your always come across as kind and sincere.
I like the idea of being attentive and not becoming complacent after wooing the guy or the girl if I may say. 🌸
Wait til marriage y’all. You are worth waiting for. God will bless that.
And men can be SUPER manipulative and know that many of you will drop your draws for a Chanel bag and a sweet line.
“Conservative” ain’t bad… my two cents.
Girl.. as someone whose now divorced, been through marriage counseling, group therapies, marriage retreats, fasted, prayed, ex ministry leader. I can tell you that waiting till marriage don't mean a darn thing. It's the person! And the connection. And a couples commitment to the connection
@@kheekan6841 it’s also about Obedience. I’m not saying abstinence is the secret formula to a successful marriage, marriage is still WORK I agree, but God blesses those who are obedient to his Word and no one will convince me otherwise. If you don’t think it matters that’s on you. To each his own sis.
@@AmbersWorld 🙄🤦🏾♀️the colonizers have my people...never mind smh. Ok good luck to u and hubby babe. Love and light 🧡
@@kheekan6841 sounds good!
Thank you Kev for this message 😊
Kev, you always on point. Thank you!
I really loves how you give extra information at the side while talking. Thank you
Your straight talk is so helpful, Kev! Thank you!
Great advice! So many women think that there Sex is the best Sex that he will have, fooling themselves into believing that in order to change the way that man feel about them, when all they have done was put themselves in the back of the line for meaningful relationship or situation. Stay Positive
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by imagining figures of light,
but by making the darkness: conscious.
Until you make the unconscious: conscious, it will direct your life
and you will call it fate.” ~ Carl Jung
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Beautiful Teaching Kev!!!
You give great advice. I'm married, but I enjoy listening to what you have to say cuz I like to check my advice to single girlfriends through the male perspective. Don't get discouraged. You will impact those who truly want a healthy and thriving relationship.
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I love your advice. I have a guy that is always wanting to listen and comfort me. Very supportive. We stopped being intimate over 2 years now and feel even stronger as friends. I think we have both moved on to a more mature point of our relationship. We don't see anyone else. He is saying I am who he thinks about. I believe what he says. He has never lied to me. I always tell him if he finds someone let me know. He feels the same. Breaking up is hard but losing a good man and friend is harder.
Thankyou for getting to the point in your videos!
This is a very well-rounded, respectful way to go about explaining this topic to people. You did an excellent job, making it understanding and palatable to most any audience.
Daaaay-uuuhhmmm!!! It was not a few minutes after sharing with God over a particular guy He's had on my heart asking Him, "Does this guy see something real with me? Has he forgotten?" God did speak in the affirmative, I got peace in my heart, and I was about to wind down for the night when I came across this, physical confirmation. This is totally truth right here! Because this whole thing right now is long-distance, this guy has definitely checked off the first three on the list at 4:42, the rest will manifest in the fullness of time. Thank you for sharing this!!
Never heard this point of view before. Great video! Thanks!
Goodmorning Kevin How are you thank you for your videos really helpful. Stay safe. You are an amazing help when it comes to men.
16 minutes ago hahaaa and he’s you do kinda notice that in the beginning it’s really lovey dovey he’s letting you know he thinks about you but then after your established the strong butterflies go away and he’s not as thoughtful but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t care as much anymore. I really could’ve used this about a year ago when I met that one guy. But still Thank you kev
This young guy is so wonderful with coaching and he do explained so well I just love listening to him , good job 👍
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I can really appreciate how intelligent you are and how well supported and logical the points that you make are. However, there was a time in my life that I used to care and worry about how a man perceived me and thought about me and did everything to ensure that a man felt a certain way about me before getting intimate with him. As a result, I became extremely bitter because I wasted a lot of time not enjoying my life because of it. And based on my individual experiences, I believe that it's fair to say that a woman should just grow to love herself and be content and confident in who she is and in her own company regardless of the way a man acts and responds to her. I think sometimes women make the mistake of giving a man too much power to validate them, when a person's character is not determined by how quickly they become intimate with someone. A relationship is what it is, and the people in it are who they are regardless of how it's initiated. Once the chase and the suspense of it is over, all that matters is if you're truly compatible and happy with the person you end up with.
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I love your response🙂
I love all that you said. Great job!
I love you. You speak with so much wisdom.
Thank you
This message was so needed for me. Thank you!
Thanks kev for all your tips on dating and relationships bless you x
You absolutely right.
Great message, be in his head bed his bed, I’ am a true believer of this
Thank you for the tips ! God bless
On point, as always!!!
I'm surprised that women forget that men are from mars, and women are from venus. Men are taught from a young age that showing vulnerability and emotion isn't "macho" and they are taught "don't cry, stick it out, brave face" and it's engrained in men from the beginning of their lives. Women are naturally more transparent with feelings than men are. The minute a man is comfortable getting emotionally vulnerable with you, then he's interested. If he's not, he's not gonna letchu in to the deepest parts of him unless you are a woman he considers being intimate with, and I mean emotionally intimate, not just sexually. For example, you're dating someone who doesn't live with you. He doesn't call or text all day, duh, because he might get fired, not because he doesn't wanna talk to you, BUT... The minute he gets home, and you know his schedule by heart, if he calls or texts you just to ask how your day was or to say "I miss you", he's definitely into you. If you go to the store walking by yourself around 9 pm, he will say something like, "I don't want you walking to the store that late again, if I'm not present to walk with you." or, "Be careful and text or call me when you get home." that kinda stuff. That's how a man shows he cares. Might not be all buying you roses and lingerie that you like, candles, movies and champagne, because some men would rather show you in other nonchalant ways that he's interested, and if he does NOT tell you to be careful walking alone to the store, to take a taxi instead because he'd feel more relieved, or say he doesn't want you out on the streets at certain hours of the night, then he could care less. There's a difference between liking you as a friend, liking you as a girlfriend, or just a bootayyyy call. Men who don't give one ounce of a shit about you are men who will not tell you about their day, act like it's not your business what he's doing when he's not with you, and will totally treat you like one of the guys. You women already know this, because your powerful intuition knows, your heart knows, but don't let your heart fool you to blindside you by ignoring your mind. Your gut feeling. If you're not sure, ASK HIM DIRECTLY. Be bold. If he says no, check him off your list, and holler out NEXT!
Thank you for this.
Thank you for your great advice.
There needs to be more amazing men like you!
Definitely a breath of fresh air.
Yes!
Great advice Kev
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Great point
Amen Amen, thank you !!
Thanks for your great advice God bless
Fabulous roundup .
Good Commentary🙂 as always
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OMG thank you I just ended it with someone on a dating site that I realized was not really interested in me other than physical! THANK YOU!!!
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You always give the best advice
Great video. I needed to hear these points. Just started dating again.
I need to slow down I give it up SO FAST 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ being sexually abused at a young age for so many years I thought it was normal......
Same you're not alone I thought if I did those things they would love me and choose me, well I was wrong. I've been by myself for about 12 years now. I'm waiting on a man who is filled with the love of God.
Tell yourself your a Fu*king worrier! You’ve got this👑
Thanks I needed this answer ❤
Be alone because you'll find you've been alone all along.