The #1 Reason Why Men Initiate Divorce!
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I can tell you why i divorced my wife.
Lack of accountability!!! I got tired of having to apologize for the things SHE did, just to keep the peace.
Same here no accountability....
They do not possess accountability... like a computer is not downloaded in them
I man should absolutely never apologize to keep the peace. This is the definition of being a weak beta provider.
It's 2022, if you want to get married and keep you balls, you have to be prepared for war.
Seriously? I don’t know what the deal with that is. If they do apologize it’s something like “I’m sorry you’re offended by that” …pathetic
That was the reason I divorced mine.
The fact that so many people mentioned infidelity highlights just how much of a problem it is in society.
Getting cheating on by your girlfriend is the principle nowdays.
It just highlights how pussified men are
@@ricardoh87 nah women always had it in them. Society has just given them free reign to act on their worst impulses. They hate conservative and religious societies for a reason. It forces them to behave.
It’s always been a problem for men at least female infidelity is on the rise however
@@schwarzmann1 women complain it’s been a problem with men. But now I have my doubts. 30% of men are sexless and women are more promiscuous than ever. Not to mention, in my experience half the time they claim they were cheated on it was actually the woman who cheated or just made up the claim for sympathy.
I initiated divorce in 2020. Best decision I ever made. It wasn't about cheating, it was about her laziness, lack of support and too damn masculine/feminist.
F that.
No regrets.
Same situation with me, I think soon the divorces will be about the switch and bait and how there ugly personalities come to light after a ltr, for a women to be worthy of marriage she needs to be logical and not easily influenced, good luck with that
Good for you. Never look back.
Yeah I’m in the same boat).. but my problem is that .. she’s RICH !!.. super loaded.
That means she probably cheated without you knowing..
Good for you brother !💯
I can tell you I filed for mine. I did it when one day it was like I suddenly saw how awful she truly was. Just so controlling and disrespectful.
@Jim Ferrante it’s been about 3 years now. I got 50/50 custody of my daughter. Have a lot better life now. Really I couldn’t be happier that I did it, only thing I wish is that I did it sooner.
Did you not see her character before you got involved with her?
@@loissorensen3109 nope, looking back on it now no I really didn’t.
@@williamanthony2941- That's because she hid it until she needed it. Once the marriage starts the countdown begins, as far as I can see it now, looking back. "Take Care".
Mine was much the same, except their was cheating thrown in at the end that pushed me over the edge, I tried staying to keep the family together, but it started affecting my kids, so that was it. I have my 2 100% of the time because I told her there was no way in hell my kids were living with anyone other than me, court documents say we have 50/50 because I would have needed a super solid reason to get 100%. I could now go for 100% because, 1 she hasn't been in their lives, 2 drugs, 3 criminal. All happened after the fact though.
I divorced my wife after years of hoping the disrespect ignoring and overall behavior of prioritizing others over her family and making it seem like other men were in her life. Never caught her but didn’t mean it didn’t happen. I debated and analyzed for quite awhile before I left. Gut wrenching plus all the money I had to pay. It’s a real kick in the teeth to see someone who you do everything for not really care about you. That was 10 years ago and I suffered by leaving while she got paid despite contributing nothing . She acted like she didn’t even care. She knew she was getting paid and probably hoped she could tolerate me a little longer so the assets would keep building . I’ll never marry again and if not for the two daughters who prefer to live with me over mom I would be even angrier but divorcing is something men have to do once they realize their wife could honestly care less other than for what you provide money wise
so true
man i love this. a blue pilled guy finally comes over to the rp after his wake up call
did you ever slap her or hit her ? were you the dominant one in that marriage ? if you raised your voice did she stoped talking ?
Bro this gave me chills, I thought I might have wrote this!!! Going through something with my wife extremely similar to this. God bless bro & take care. 😢
My ex took my kids away by gaslighting them and poisoning them against me
I know of one man who has custody of his children. She set his house on fire with him and the kids inside.
That’s another level of crazy, wow
What in the world...? 😳 😳 😳
my dad's ex wife did that, but nobody could prove it
I got custody of my 3 kids and have been raising them solo for the last decade. My ex started doing drugs, got 2 DUI's with the kids in the vehicle, and started getting in trouble with the law. She even went to the CPS meeting high. This was a win for me as I hated her. She always threatened to take the kids away and not let me see them if I left her. I just had to give her the rope and let her hang herself. Karma's a bitch. Getting a divorce from her was one of the best things that ever happened in my life.
Shows why he got custody though
For me it was more simple. She started disrespecting me in public more often, then started cutting me off from sex.
Sorry, brother. I hope all is well.
@@rs7458 Oh yeah, that was 5 years ago so much better now after the divorce.
@@antonthemanton3065 Ahahahahaha!!! That's the stupidest reason for divorce ever. You're a big cry baby.
bingo!! when they lose respect for you its all over....its never about "love" its about respect...
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and evvvvver andah andy, ever wonder whyyy yoosah stayin dis reasons? Hmm. what.
Oh. Oh, Yeah. Buddy boy. (ahhhem)
I divorced my wife in 2001. She put me in jail on a false charge. The case got dismissed 6 months at 10:20am. thank God. And the same day I filed the same week. She did me a favor by not showing up for divorce court.
because men get destroyed in divorce (lose money, house and kids) it takes criminal behaviour before he will leave the marriage
Takes so much time and effort by a guy to build a relationship worth keeping. I put up with so much before she filed no fault divorce. Sucks having to entertain another woman’s entitlement to get into another relationship
Agree 👍
Relationships should come easy. The problem is that they don't come easy because Whamen are not friendly.
It's simply not fun to spend time with them when they become more demanding than a guy friend and always knowing in the back of your head that if you put resources on her, sooner or later she's gonna leave. Odds are so against us.
Proof that Women only want the title of a Wife without understanding what VOWS are😕
@@tanen7221
Precisely
did you ever slap her or hit her ? were you the dominant one in that marriage ? if you raised your voice did she stoped talking ?
When you’re attempting to level up financially and realize she’s a deterrent.
I started a small business and made the mistake of the other 2 minority owners are married. Holy shit they can't do ANYTHING without their wife and kids permission it's pathetic
Since my divorce I now have money
@@manager4409
Oof. Thats insane 😓
My wife got a low level part time job and after that, she spent every waking minute she could there. We had two small children, and I had a full time job, and when I got home I had to take care of the entire house and the two children, while she was out at work, and she would not come home until 3:00 in the morning. She had a total break down of any marital responsibility what so ever. She would have these big emotional blow ups, where she would tear everything out of the closets, leave it piled up where she threw it and at the same time tell me she was going to cut me off at the knees, and I was not going to have a leg to stand on. After several years of this crap, I finally told her....while you are at work tomorrow, I will be filing for a divorce. What happened? She went to the police, filed a false PFA against me. I was removed from my own house the next day by 10 police officers, they put me in county prison, and when I got out (in January) I had no where to go, no one to call, I had no car, no coat. I was put on the street like a dog. I was barred from seeing my two sons for over a year. I was barred from my own home, which was in my name, not hers. She moved her co worker boy friend into my house and my two sons had to witness them having sex on the living room floor. Five other men I worked with at my engineering firm were also going thru similar situations, but mine was the worse. That was 25 years ago, and my body still trembles as I write this.
You went through some serious trauma. 25 years ago, might as well be 25 minutes. I suffer some mild PTSD from my wife's affair 23 years ago. Hope you are doing well.
You knew about her before you were getting married to her. I am always confused when men say this.
@@drakedrones That is because you apparently are unaware how women lie and hide their past. It is a reality you learn after it is too late. Once you sign the contract with her and the government, then that is when the real education begins. And its not a one off either, I have come to understand that women are inherently dishonest, its their nature. I simply realize that what ever they say and do is disingenuous. People like this can ruin a lot of lives. All I know is God was watching, she suffocated to death for 5 long weeks from Covid and then her family had her reduced to ashes.
You were not the type of man she dated in her prime, is it not? The guy who smashed her on the living room floor most certainly did not accept any of her crap. Why would he? See the problem?
I hope you are well and karma paid her a visit for you.
Infidelity, dishonest, gaslighting and her being a full blown narcissist is what made me separate and file for divorce.
100%!!!! I initiated divorce because I had to get away from the environment. She didn’t want to shake off the opiates. Been separated for a few months now, all I do is exercise, take nutritional supplements and haven’t felt this good in many years. Still not sure how much the divorce is going to cost me but my life has definitely improved. I’m not dating and really just concentrating on myself. Oh and it was a grey divorce, as mentioned in the video.
did you ever slap her or hit her ? were you the dominant one in that marriage ? if you raised your voice did she stoped talking ?
I have two friends that divorced their wives and I’ll give you a hint why. “Pills are good! Pills are gooooood.”
Great dumb and dumber reference lmao I literally read it in Jim Carey’s voice. “Check please!”
@@andrewwestman2407 lol
That was my reason. Got custody of my son now she’s on child support. If your wife is strung out on drugs you have all the leverage in divorce and custody
@@Coffeendonuts glad you got your kids man but sorry your ex fell apart ok ya.
@@lorddeathspit1124 ya it’s hard man. He was born addicted. If I thought I could have gotten away will unaliving her I would have
Why men initiate divorce ? is this even a question LOL
When u see that your "soulmate" is doing everything to be bad for u, whats the point on keeping paying for her.
Women in this generation of ignorance are just.. useless.
Same with men
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What really sucks, she is a criminal or addict or both, she still takes half his money, and gets child support. What will it take for courts to actually side with a man in the divorce?
She won't get child support because she won't have the kids. If she gets a criminal record and is in jail and has a documented drug problem, no court in the United States can give the kids to her as long as the father isn't doing any of that.
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My reason was simple. I wanted a kid, my ex wife at one time tolled she thought she didn't want to have another. And I basically said to myself, why would I give her my security, and potentially pay her alimony if we made it to 10 years. So I decided to divorce her before it was to late. And find a women who would have my child.
Why didn't you ask her before the marriage how many kids is she willing to have .And plus woman have to go through the pain of having a kid not men .I don't think this is a good reasons for divorcing .I mean you not the one who has to suffer carrying that child in ur stomach for 9 month then push it out
Guessing spousal neglect. No sex
My kids are very young, after iv done my farther duties, im out. She won't even see it coming. Iv already started planning it. But im just serving time at moment for the little ones. Stay strong lads 💪
Lol
I assume you've tried talking about it then?
How long will you wait? I mean, until how old the children are?
If any of your kids are boys, get a copy of the Rational Male book to give to them when they hit about 16. Prepare them, ’cause the world’d gone nuts.
@@eurosalamander I will definitely teach my boy, all the things my father never taught me
I left after 16 years because my wife checked out of the relationship. We were roommates. She was working and had no energy left for me. I was tired of pretending to be in love. We were not the same people who got married 16 years before. We both sucked at communicating. She was overweight. I felt unauthentic so I left.
Dude this sounds like my situation. It's not that it's bad. I feel like we're friends. Roommates. We're not who we were 15 years ago
Very interesting….I have a neighbor/ acquaintance who has been through a divorce and admitted to loosing custody of her young kids for a time. This would explain so many of the missing pieces of the whole story. Of course this is not a matter that she would ever openly discuss. Now she has partial custody and, “has her act together”, but to me, she really seems on the edge still.
Disrespect, hen pecking, and lack of support for my goals/mission. Just didn't work for me and took a long time to realize how bad it was.
In the start of 2017 I came across Tom Leykis on youtube.
I was looking for answers.
I sat in my car for hours listening, and I just knew I could not go on with my insane marriage.
Leykis is LEGENDARY. A pioneer. Always illuminating & refreshing. His radio shows were remarkable on many levels.
💪🙏
Can someone recommend a Leykis video to dive into?
@@jmssms9080 I think one of the most eyeopening episode must have been the Cryptonite episode. The first consept of woman “hitting the wall”.
The Treat the like dirt episode really challenged my views.
leykis is where my red pill journey started like 11 years ago. found him randomly while searching for divorce laws and statistics when I noticed people getting divorced left and right and tons of marriages are shit. life changing stuff
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Money problems!!! Their wife spends WAY too much money!!
I am one of them! it’s not one reason…… when a women is disrupting your dream men leave!
I initiated the divorce- at my wife''s request. Wonder if that happens often enough to be statistically significant. I think it was George Gilder who noted that in longer marriages a main reason women file for divorce is because 'I'm not happy' and for men the main reason was 'I can't make her happy'.
Yup... mine wanted to, but couldn't figure out how, so I had to do it.
I fell for the same trap once. The 'i couldn't make her happy" narrative is the pinnacle of blue pill thinking
I initiated the Divorce. 10 years Happily un-married! I don't have someone nagging and blaming me for things i never did. Right or Happy? I went the Right direction, and I'm very happy! Stand up for yourself fellas and fear no woman or man.
Alot of guys I know kept their wife after catching her cheating 2 or even 3 times before deciding to divorce them.
Fuck that...one time and I am out.
@@Wrathofkala A friend of mine said he caught his wife cheating 3 times, the 3rd time he tried driving off a highway overpass. His parents convinced him it was time for a divorce. My cousin got cheated on twice before he left.... sad stuff man.
@@antonthemanton3065 That's brutal. Society doesn't care about men either. Our suicide rates are through the roof and no one ever talks about it. Sorry for your friend and cousin.
Narcissism!
Drugs and criminality are the reason because that’s the only way men can win a custody battle or not get cleaned out.. Speaking from experience.. FLAWLESS VICTORY 💪
full custody and kept everything 🥳
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My ex-husband divorced me because he fell in love with a beautiful Russian spy named Natalia while he was stationed in Kabul (2001 -2002). He told her that he was divorced. She emailed me if that was true. I was bewildered. Realizing that he lied, she confronted him. He filed for divorce, but she dumped him anyway and got married to someone else. The only casualty was our little baby which he called a "Collateral Damage". I am now married for over 15 years to the man of my dreams and my daughter has a loving stepdad and a half sister.
6:06 is when he finally gives the answer
I filed for a divorce in Nov of 22 and have been in such a bad place since sad depressed lonely and I hope that one day I can snap out of it and just be happy again.
For me it was the constant nagging and drama. Also, she had an obsession with her mother and made "friends" (in toxic relationships, divorce etc) who clearly did not want to see her marriage succeed. She had become a liability!
It took Rollo 6:00 minutes to say DRUG ABUSE
If men ARENT divorcing their wives for cheating....they are simps that don't deserve respect. Always drop her to the curb the moment she cheats. If ALL men did that....these horrors would straighten up.
Correct! Drug abuse is the number 1.
I left my ex (We weren't married) after she stood in front of me asking to hit her after a minor argument. I had read the rational male 3 years prior and it was easy for me to just walk away because I had the knowledge.
@zia not sure about the question but it was because we should get rid of the 3 cats when we were in between places because they were a mess and scratched all of her mothers furniture, aside from that she was used to here ex's hitting her and being drug addicts so I dodged a bullet by leaving her.
So wise..... Good for you for dodging that bullet. Imagine if you married and had a kid with her
I just divorced my wife after five months of marriage and a five year relationship due to her leaving me twice after we got married, constant nagging, emotional abuse, gaslighting, prioritizing her cats and her family over me and my needs, lack of sex, and not contributing to bills or rent despite her having a solid career as a dental hygienist. All of that came out after we got married, although there were hints of those red flags in the five years prior. The uncontested divorce cost me $800, and I don’t have to pay her anything. Thankfully no kids and no combined finances.
Drug abuse still implies that it boils down to violating the "it's cheaper to keep her" rule because she becomes an economic and legal liability in that case
... that saying is confirmed through its converse
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Damn, astonishing that most men divorce for those extreme reasons while for women is "I am not happy", irreconcilable differences.
I will never marry and will have complete control of my kids, my girlfriend, and my lovers. Its scary to read the traumatic experiences of so many men. Thank you manosphere for putting the work out there.
Your girlfriend soon will insist for marriage and she will eventually leave you .Because a lot of women want to get married
A girl I was dating told me she was a alcoholic.... I was outta there.
My dad was pretty much forced to file. My mom kept doing whatever she wanted but refused to file even though she wanted a divorce. My dad was also a narcissist that made life miserable though.
Wow and women will divorce a man because he unfortunately lost his job or she finds someone better. SMH🤦
"because she's crazy? She IS crazy, but nope" haha
The number one reason is drugs I am a good hard-working man with one child and I have been trying and trying because of the kid and I want to divorce because of the drugs
This is so true. I tolerated it with an ex-girlfriend. She cheated with 7 different men in 1 years and a half (excludes what i never found out), She got paid for Intercourse by 2 guys (I stayed) she was disrespectful (I stayed), she was broke (I stayed), but then she started abusing weed and alcohol so much, I eventually started working on myself and woke to the fact that I have to leave her. Yeah, I was the number 1 simp in the world at some point. She once came back from a dude who paid her for intercourse and a BJ and kissed me. 5 years of my life completely wasted, and it was my fault for not growing myself.
It is great to here you be so honest man!!
I too was also a major simp as well man!!
Stay-strong!
are you a child of divorced parents ?
@@ivanivanjo7407 , worse, my parents never even tried to get married. In fact I have never seen marriage, I know it from seeing a few of my friend's parents but I have never actually seen it
@@imovieee3666 than you have some subconscious traumas about family and marriage that you have to deal with....are you a believer..do you go to church...?
I can tell you I divorced and filed against my ex wife, I got tired of her coming home every day from work getting drunk and arguing about everything, then she left out home in the middle of the night leaving me and newborn 👶🏾 son! She and I went to a counseling session with the church and the pastor and his wife told my wife then to divorce me! I had to do this and now I’m still fighting for custody.
It's really interesting that for guys to divorce it usually takes drug abuse or criminality because what it shows is that guys know these are the only scenarios where they might actually have a fair shot in family court.
The number one reason should no freedom.
I divorced mine for cheating, lying, disrespect and spending. It kept piling up. Made her feel horrible for what she did so she signed the divorce papers quick before she could really think about it. I flipped the manipulation on her. Waive her rights to alimony and agreed to pay a reasonable amount for children support.
Respect and lack of gratitude
The bar is very high for men to initiate divorce, because men stand to loose a lot more, most guys will put up with a lot more crap than most woman will ever tolerate. From what I've seen of many others situations, I'd say that functionally dead marriages (tolerated by men via some form of escapism, such as sports, work or pornography) are much, much more common than successful marriages where both partners are genuinely satisfied. As a teenager, I never understood the pervasive cynicism of middle aged men, but now I totally get it, and today many guys develop this cynicism even before they get married, simply because feminist conditioning means that women increasingly don't even bother trying to hide their true nature.
Even for the recognition *Johnsonspy* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
Sex and respect
I would of said “ she’s no longer worth the effort”
Why is Coach Greg frozen in the background.
Drugs and crime! To me that shows the loyalty and duty of men that it takes extremes to break up a family. Women...it's Tuesday.
That's the way I got custody of my son
I’m sorry I’m just seeing this and today I have made up my mind to divorce my wife because of drugs
You can skip first 6 minutes.
My observations from life has been Nr1: A danger to the Children.
I “initiated” ie filed for divorce when she asked for a separation and I caught her lying and cheating.
To protect their assets!! Thier coin is closer to their heart.
Easy answer she doesn't deserve it!
*Brian hacks online* dedication to my case was evident from the moment he stepped in. His unwavering commitment to ensuring the best possible outcome was truly remarkable. With each step he took, it was clear that his genuine concern for my well-being was driving his actions. His dedication was not merely a job requirement but a heartfelt mission to bring about a positive change in my circumstances.
Lack of physical affection and sex. You are still required to court her and maintain her emotional intimacy needs - but sex - yeah, "I'm done with that." - This is why men leave. You don't kiss them, embrace them or appreciate them, and remove sex - it's the whole deal - The Wife's needs are important, men's aren't. She checked out and simply is not in the "relationship" any longer.
And of course when you find out she is giving it to some loser while withholding on you - it's done.
Nah, I prefer the divorce than the disrespect because I know I won't control myself.
She was unhappy. She said I was the problem. I was happier without her. Married 29 years. Slow learner.
Wow. I was surprised, but I know what it's like living with a druggie and it makes perfect sense.
I left my wife because of disrespect and she made me feel empty in my own home. 3 kids, she dropped in weight and her health degraded. There were other things aswell
Drug abuse and criminality is a symptom of trust and faith
I know 5 guys in my workplace who have custody of their children.
All of them, and I mean all of them, have drug-addicted ex-wives. All of them.
Women will set the dominoes up in such a way that the man will break up with her, leaving her guilt free and escaping responsibility.
Because they’ve met someone else. Men rarely leave unless there’s someone else in the wings.
Men too, sleep with people outside marriage and acted like nothing wrong until one day he found someone younger and richer than his wife and file for divorce but tried not to pay child support so they made up fake stories about the wife.
I left my ex-wife 5 yrs ago. Had enough of her bs. Waited until she wanted a divorce so that she could pay for it, made no difference to me.
My wife has been ignoring me and disrespecting me for ten years. I am still holding up but have been thinking about divorce lately because the disrespect is getting worse.
my top 2 reasons is 1. peace and 2. i look at you as 100000% liability
Feeling unwanted or lack of appreciation.
If you ars reading this and you are a Christian, I want you to know that not even a legal paper work can separate two people who have been joined. The only ground for divorce is adultery and which God still expects us to forgive. The Bible says when you separate, remain single, no sexual affairs. Most of us ignore some red flags during courtship and most of us are not truly single before getting married, we want someone to come add to our existence which isn't suppose to be. You will be committing adultery if you divorce not on the ground of fornication/adultery and the go start sleeping with someone else because you feel you are divorced. God doesn't recognize paper work, you are still married in the sight of God.
Men initiate divorce when the marriage becomes sex less and the women completely gives up trying, essentially turning the relationship into being roommates and since women control access to sex, a man can only stay so long in a marriage when the wife has completely taken sex off the table.
Sex is health. Women have more health problems (pregnancy, menopause…) than men and therefor more often libido loss…
Men have to understand that women’s health and body is different than men…
Goggles fell off and couldn't take the abuse. Gave me an ultimatatum and called her on it.
I put up with all those listed, but drugs and crime was exactly what broke the final straw.....never looked back since
Makes sense actually, it would be easier to win over custody from a criminal
I divorced mine because I wifed a single mom and one day woke up.
My wife of 42 years has destroyed our marriage and it started with prescription drug abuse and has morphed into infidelity....I'm done
Its because im not happy with the marriage. Wife wasnt the type of wife I wanted after i got married. I still did everything that Im supposed to do, provide and protect. Even on many days when she doesnt clean and cook, where I take up the task, I never complained. All I get is a complaining, confrontational wife. In the end, she wanted a "break". From what?
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Old man here. I always thought that infidelity would be the #1 reason for divorce. I can only think of 1 man who initiated a divorce from his wife. My brother-in-law started to divorce his wife after 35 years of marriage. She lied about mishandling their money and disrespected him as far as raising their kids. They have 3 boys, 2 older boys who are drug @busers and have been in trouble with the law, in and out of jails and juvie. They have fathered at least 3 children out of wedlock as well. She keeps on spending money to bail them out and has totally ruined the family financially. He has his share of blame too. He should never have let her control the money in their family. The youngest boy is 16 and is not an abuser as far as I know. I don’t know if he will have to pay any child support for him. My brother-in-law is now on disability due to his bout with the wuhan virus. Their house has been wrecked due to the druggie boys fighting and is on the verge of being condemned due to lack of maintenance. They are in debt up to their eyeballs, and I see no way out of it for them. It’s almost beyond hopeless and I just feel terrible for him. He absolutely choose the wrong woman to marry, but it took this long for her to show her true colors.
100% his fault
They get tired and want peace in their life.
Drug abuse? *Gears Turning*
OH! Because that instigates everything else.
My ex stole from the family business- then lied to my kids.
That's crazy...guys will tough it out through almost ANYTHING, whereas if a woman even senses that you looked at another woman "wrong", she can create an argument and build resentment that she then uses to initiate the divorce. This is mind-blowing.