@@unstoppableplayz6948 Yeah, so many young men are conditioned to take women's BS because "they're emotional", but nah, we need to cut that shit out, show Boys that they shouldn't undervalue themselves to women just cause they're female. This way we hopefully end up getting less men who take cheating women back.
Bro I actually would advise NOT to trust the gut.. That's unreliable as hell... It's not based on facts, it's not based on observation, it's not based on truth. Sure, sometimes your feelings can confirm suspicions or the reality but it's a 50/50 thing. For me, in my view, I trust no one. Human nature is what it is - unreliable. I can only trust someone when I'm at deaths door and say "This person never betrayed me. This person sticked with me. This person was loyal and a friend". Morbid or a sad thing?! For me it's just a fact and serves me well, serves me veryyy well. If I don't trust, I'm always prepared for the worst.. And if the worst doesn't happen, then I didn't lose anything. I actually won something. It's a 'no lose strategy' you see
I thought about this a lot and it’s a weird one. The logical red pill guys come together and tell each other to act upon how they feel. The red pill community makes you paranoid about women (they are all out to get you etc) and then you get told to listen to your gut. Of course your feeling won’t be good from the get go when you meet a new woman with that mindset. Even if you meet a woman with only green and no red flags you will still have this voice in your head telling you that she is out there to get you
@@zakzwijn8410 Give it time, it will pass. And when it does, it is the most satisfying feeling in the world. Being able to operate with the truth always at your disposal and without any emotional hindrance/side effect that came with it in the beginning. And better yet... it actually makes you appreciate women more than ever. They really are so much fun when you are fully informed on which ones are worth keeping the company of.
Now I understand why for thousands of years women's sexuality was suppressed, they knew it was like Pandora's box, they understood once opened it's all hell breaks loose.
It's not necessarily that w0men's sexuality was suppressed as a conscious action or policy, it's rather that cultures without sexual restraint actually never survived long term. Read Sex and Culture by J.D. Unwin. It's from 1934. He studied civilizations spanning 5000 years, and found a correlation between cultural achievement and sexual restraint. There has not been a single instance of a society becoming civilized unless it has also been absolutely monogamous, and there are no instances of societies retaining their culture after relaxing their sexual restraint. The western world is headed for the same result, and we will be reduced to a mere footnote in history because of it. And anyone can see at this point that there are certain sub-cultures within the western world right now that are very fruitful and are multiplying, and they also happen to put hard restrictions on w0mens sexuality.
I knew of a guy, who found out his GF was cheating way back in the mid 90's. He took her on a 250 mile trip, then pretended to visit the shopping mall toilet. Instead he jumped in his car, drove back home 250 miles and dumped her at the shopping mall.
Happened to me in 2018. She claimed it’s polyamory but really…she wasn’t. She tried to cover up sleeping with her coworker. Went as far as gas lighting and gone on the deep end with every possible excuse. Luckily had no kids with her so I divorced her immediately. Red pill saved me and never looked back. Stay true to your self gentlemen!
how the hell it can be polyamory if both the partners are not okay with that let alone know that this shit is happening. the girl is really doing next level of mental gymnastics
I was that clueless guy 4 years ago, it's still tough coming to terms with how stupid and blind i was. I recognize so much of this, being the side chump, taking care of the kids while she's out having fun, being the good dad, getting the cold shoulders, it was all there and i didn't see any problems with it at the time. It's a tough pill, but boy is it necessary.
A lot of the time we don't want to seem pushy and rock the boat we want to see the best in others. Question what made the red flags dismissible or not easy to see?
@Mark Park facts, if you are deceived, it simply means you don't operate like them. Its not your fault that they are shit. But it is damn sure your fault if it happens again. Its their mistake, its your lesson. Learn it then burn em.
What did you do to change the transcript? Have you recognized your role so you don't end up with another woman doing that? I've realized that there's very few women who won't cheat. Society has created a system to let them do it with minimal repercussions... If you ask about things or make any comments about it... You lose.
Hey, Don’t beat yourself up about you situation, at all! Most of us have been in a similar situation in our relationships to some degree. IMO, the biggest part of the problem is, the western males are still being taught & expected to follow the pre 1950s rule book and women since 1960 are using the the 1960 onwards, revised annually to suit their own needs rule book. Fortunately, finally, the internet has given us platforms, to share & learn how to navigate, in this shit show of the modern world! We are now finally understanding, that we are allowed to stand up for ourselves. We are now being shown by example by these content creators that it’s not us that changed the game, so all we also need to move within the new guidelines. All I can say to any guy going through this is, “PLAY HARD BALL” from the start, and when you know the indiscretions are happening (it doesn’t matter how good you are women will always want more) put you exit plan into action! The first time is the hardest, then when you see that they don’t have anywhere near the power that they think they have over you, it gets easier and easier (although it’s very draining on mind & spirit & resources). The part that women hate about men the most, is that we can come back from nothing & still succeed! Good luck and best wishes to all of you.
Guys. If your woman will ever cheat on you in a marriage. Don't be silent. Divorce her and make sure every one of her friends and relatives knows that she is not trustworthy!
This is so spot on. I was so blindsided by her cheating b/c we had been together for almost 20 yrs. I stupidly thought: there is no way in hell she would do anything like that to me, b/c I had been a great father, husband and provider. So wish I knew this stuff before I got married, or even during marriage. But you don't even know about the red pill, until you encounter the catastrophic event that is divorce, and you go looking for it.
In a lot of cases, trauma leads to the red pill, yes. But sometimes, it's just a nagging feeling of "there is something about this whole dating and relationship deal I am not seeing here" and that curiosity alone can lead to many guys learning from the mistakes of others before going through it themselves. Red pilled teens are the most fortunate men on the planet.
I'm casualty of my own ignorance too. I became red pilled AFTER it was too late to safely jump ship. Now I'm educating myself with Rollo's channel and books in order to best prepare my son as he approaches 11yrs old. Eventually I'll let him read the books, but for now I'm giving him more general concepts and keeping things fairly simple. I'm not "black pilled," but in today's society the results will probably be the same.....................enjoying my freedom in a life without chaos and drama. IF a quality woman does cross paths with me someday, I'll be much better prepared to vet her, and very hesitant to commit to an LTR.
My ex cheated after 24 years of marriage. I wish I had a dollar for everytime she accused me of cheating. I would deny and by the way - I never cheated. She divorced me. Just have to move forward. She did irreperable emotional damage to my 2 daughters that they hold on to till the present.
With my exwife i knew she was cheating but I played like I didn't know until I could move out. Then she was shocked and said I abandoned her. This is very deep, to realize your wife feels like she's cheating on the other guy with you. Insane.
@@nikola4370 lol, right. I should have kept acting like I didn't know her mannerisms and change in attitude and stayed to be played. Some men aren't observant, I am even though I didn't say anything.
@@GraveRave yeah, I left cause it was eating at me and before I did something to change our lives for the ultimate I left. Still not over, trying to get custody of my son cause she wants to move states with him to be with the guy. It's always something dealing with a extremely selfish person.
Happened when I was 18 after 3 year relationship. Was going to ask her to marry me. He was one of my best friends. She didn’t know if she was pregnant with his kid or mine. Everything Rollo says is true. I was red pilled a long time ago. I’m 52 now.
Remember. As RT says, red pill is not a verb. It is a state of understanding women so that you won’t hate. It has less to do with them than about you, and how you create and stay in your own frame. Women are like children, and just like children, they will self destruct without supervision.
She left me for him btw. I forgave them later and moved on. They married and had a kid. She cheated on him and he grabbed the kid and took off to another state. I got some huge lessons early in life.
Damn, very sorry that happened to you mate, betrayed by 2 people close to you? That's insane. And she cheated on him too, but it's weird he'd even trust her despite her obvious knack for huge deception
Damn. This is profoundly true. Been through exactly this! I, her husband became the one she felt like she was cheating with. The patterns repeat throughout this community because they are universal. Men, strive to be the best version of yourself. Become the highest value man you can be, keep that perspective, know your best, live your best and do not compromise yourself for momentary pleasure or long term companionship. Peace men.
stop fighting for these town bicycles, take this from a woman; my gender is pure evil. Don't even bother with 95% of females. They are community property. Don't spend money on them, father their kids, etc and focus on yourself. Studies prove over 70% admit to cheating (and tho remain simply lie) and uk studies prove at least 30% of men are raising kids they DON'T know are theirs. You trying to claim items in the local landfill as your equal, please do humanity a favor and stop.
Women want "equality" and yet during a divorce the man gets f'd because the courts see the female as a "victim". What insane world am I living in? Either women are "possible" future victims or we're all equal. I swear, I say it all the time, women want cake and eat it too. And men are too f'ing horny and stupid to call them out on their bs. No, you are NOT my equal. If someone is breaking into my house, its not a flip of a coin who gets to go downstairs and put their life on the line.
This is so true. I broke up with my GF of 3 years. We got back together after 2 months. She told me she had slept 2 times with 1 other dude. I also slept with 2 other women so i didnt get too mad. I was the one who broke up anyway. But ofcourse it didn’t work out. Our relationship was not like before. She didn’t have the same attraction towards me. She even told me once that the other guy showed her that he wants her more than I do. It just went downhill after that. Once your girl has slept with another man it’s over 99/100 times
Mine went on a girl's holiday to Ibiza, met a dude and went back there to live, still in touch because we're pals and I forgave her. She also fully understands I moved onto far better women, introducing her to an Italian supermodel was a highlight.
I red pilled 15 years ago before I even heard of this guys books or channel. Everything he has said is true. Been married for the last 10 with a woman I don’t really love and in the back of her mind she knows it and is in denial. I however would never put myself in the opposite position in the relationship. Women won’t respect you.
@@SailorMoon37 I have a 9 yr old son with her. Neither of us have family where we live so we’re kind stuck for or at least until my son is a little older and can watch himself more
In Latin America culture we say "If a man forgives his wife for cheating once then he must resign to be cheated for the rest of his life..." And he is 120% right, when a woman loves and likes you, when she thinks she will be with you soon she gets w3t, so in the case when you touch and look for her she must be ready for you no matter what, but once she lost interest in you no matter what you do, is over...
What about it when the woman forgives the man for cheating? She’s just as stupid. If she stays, he’s going to keep cheating because he knows he can continue to disrespect her
@@SandraMartinez-gv1yf I'm not saying is right or ok to cheat a woman who loves a man, but there is a huge difference from both sides, for example, I can have segs with a woman who I hate and after that is done I don't feel any love for her, I still loving the woman who is with me, but when a woman cheats it means she is not loving her man the same as she used to, so when a man cheats she thinks is because he doesn't love her any more and that hurts her, and when a woman cheats is because she feels something for another man and that's something that can't be fixed, but if I cheat to my woman and she catch I can leave the other woman and still loving mine, but a cheating woman cannot love "her" man the same again, and is only disrespectful if the man treat the other woman the same or even better as he treats his woman, I mean a side woman never can be treated or spoiled as the home woman because the side one she doesn't deserve that privilege...
@Penderyn it was hard to keep my composure when the reality hits. Lucky for me, Rollo's and CRP's work lead me to better path, learning about human behavior and stoicism. It helps a lot
I can confirm all he is saying. I've been the guy women have cheated on their husbands with and I can tell you it's never just 1 time. It can go on for years in some cases so what does that tell you about her level of respect for her husband and marriage?
You don't see a problem with sleeping with a married woman? How much responsibility do men have for breaking up relationships? lol. If all dudes followed the bro-code there would be no problems
@@jeffreycfmok First off, I didn't know these women were married, they lied. As far as "bro-code" goes, there is no such thing. Guys will throw each other under the bus for pussy all the time. That's why this concept was created to try to temper it somewhat. My bro code extends to my friends and family. I don't know these guys these girls are cheating on. She made the vows to him, not me.
Its thanks to content like this ive learned to maintain a life outside of relationships and women. if stuff like this happens my hobbies, my career, my friends, and my family will still be there and life goes on. just accept and process that it happened, then keep on moving forward and never look back.
My ex wife accused me one day out of the blue of cheating on her. My best friend, who was a criminal behavioral analyst, told me that meant she was probably already cheating on me. IT totally explains all of the changes in her behavior. She had lost all interest in me. He was her true standard, and I was just the live-in paycheck. Thank God we had no kids.
100% valid, had the same experience. It's called projection, they do it in order to gaslight you and sometimes to convince themselves that you deserved it. No accountability whatsoever.
I have been both guys to the same chick. Lesson learned: If she cheated with you, she will cheat on you. Let that be another guy's problem, get the lay then move her along.
@@GUITARTIME2024 but how would you know. You meet her organically, she seems really into you, then you catch up with mates and she asks for a ride home, what she meant was back to your place. Then you find out many lays and a few weeks later she lives with another bloke. 🤷♂️
The redpill is hard to swallow but it is best. My ex girlfriend of 6 years started to cheat and when i found out i became the guy on the side. The new guy became the main guy after the split up. I have started my redpill journey and now its all so clear as day. I fuck casually but nothing serious. Simping for women should be a crime. 90 percent of men would be locked up for life.😅💯💔🔥🌟
Not been in that situation man but my ex moved on within a month - having downloaded dating apps the day after we split. So although she didn’t “cheat” she still showed her true colours lol. I stumbled into the red pill community coincidentally at that time and have never looked back! Trust me, a relationship that commenced on cheating will never last the test of time. That new guy won’t last and you’ll get the last laugh when the inevitable heartbreak occurs 😉
5 years, I broke up with her but she got with a new guy after 2 months. She's cheating on him with me because I'm better in bed though. I see by her stories that in her mind she's keeping me on the hook because she's not too happy about him and still keeps me as an option but little does she know that there's no possible way of me accepting a used up pi-pi back for anything serious. Women are beyond deluded nowadays.
MY first wife cheated so I stopped all relations with her and asked for a divorce evey Friday until she left. What I mean is I stopped sex, fiscal support, spending time with her and starting hanging out with my old mates. I made her life hell.
This sounds horrible but it can actually be used as fuel to improve yourself and become the best “you” that you can be. Once you become someone who many women want, you can have a much better chance of being any woman’s “best”. This reality sounds harsh, but nature itself is not good or bad. It just is what it is. If you can’t change the rules of the game, learn to become really good at it.
AGuitarNinja this is why you should prioritize doing things for yourself and not for the sole purpose of making someone else happy. No form of intimacy with any woman is ever worth devaluing your own worth for.
@@njkel.8714 Good points. As long as you are striving towards living the kind of life you truly want and not settling, not much else should matter. It is up to you, however, to define what exactly it is that you want, and only you truly know if you are being honest to yourself about that or not.
HARD HARDCORE TRUTH IVE BEEN THROUGH! TAKE NOTES MEN…. THIS CAN, WILL and PROBABLY HAS HAPPENED TO YOU! Wether you know it or NOT! ROLLO! IS ON POINT AS USUAL!
The point about the wife not wanting to sleep with the husband because she feels like she is cheating on the boyfriend is accurate. That totally happened to me, I didn’t even realize I was being cheated on
Yup. All 100% true. After my wife (now my ex) cheated, and we tried to reconcile, her behavior around having sex with me again was as if she felt she would be cheating on the other guy if she slept with me. We were married for nearly 20 years ffs. And the other guy was by all accounts a low-value man - in physicality, income, and status. Baffles the mind.
@Jed Honrado It happened to me as well, except there was no attempt at reconciliation. She was upset and angered by me blowing up the affair, and blamed me for it. The other guy was definitely low value, also married and had 4 children. It was a tough pill to swallow for a while, but now I look at it as a blessing. She was a horrible wife, and a daily pain in my ass lol.
Sorry that happened to you man, it's nuts how their logic, or lack thereof, operates. It's some weird shit 😕 shows that even as a high value man, one can still be betrayed by a woman to a lower level guy. She pair bonds with the new guy and assumes it's a relationship even though it really isn't, and treats you like a side piece despite you being the one she married. Some backwards logic right there 🤷🏿
If she cheated it’s your fault period. Women don’t cheat on men they respect. If she cheated that means somewhere you did something to lose that respect from her
@@CruuushaL I fully own my shortcomings regarding marriage. I wasn't perfect, by any means, and I've learned that tough lesson. But *cheating is a sign of low moral character.* There are a million things to do to work on a marriage other than cheating...open communication, marriage counseling, divorce/separation. That goes for men too. Cheating is selfish and destructive. How about being an actual adult and end the relationship BEFORE stepping out?
@@CruuushaL Buddy, you are refusing to hold women accountable for their actions by trying to shift the responsibility for their behavior, decisions and actions onto men. If there is a problem in the relationship a woman can either try to fix it or leave the relationship. Many women and men do that. Going behind her man's back and cheating is not the men's fault, it's her decision, her action her fault. You are blaming men for women's decisions, actions and behaviors. Are you going to tell me that if a man cheats its his wive's fault?
OMG - You described my 2nd wife's actions exactly. I took her and the kids on a 3 week Caribbean vacation & she refused to have sex or even be near me the whole time and 1 year later I found out she was banging a coworker. She did all this while suffering from postpartum depression that triggered her Borderline Personality Disorder, basically she was out of control.
@@PJHEATERMAN My wife was like a walking zombie, and my wife's limerence partner wasn't anywhere near as good looking as me & he didn't make as much $$$ either. "off the rails" describes her perfectly.
@@georgevue8175 sorry you had to go through that shit. I was/am a hardworking and loving father and husband. Her Narcissistic lover was playing with her mind for his pleasure at the expense and destruction of my family. Wanted to put a bullet in him but i destroyed him in a non-violent way and it was a thing of beauty. Had a job and children to protect so i got creative. Hope you came out the other side and are doing well.
When my younger cousin was young, 17, his gf hooked up with another guy. She then wanted him back. He called me and I told him, "No, we don't do that."
Rollo: there was a movie in the 90s that addressed this - "Husbands and Lovers." As a matter of fact, the f3male character used that line. Towards the end of the movie, she is intimate with her husband. She says something like "Now *you* are the one I'm having the affair with.."
Rollo, these short pieces are much much better than the much longer pieces. How many people have hours to listen to long content to find the gold in there. Thanks for this content. Insightful and very helpful.
@@feman5274 He has been making shorter stuff recently, and involving other people which helps the information dynamic. I think being involved a lot with Fresh & Fit has helped. If you haven't checked out Fresh & Fit head over there.
Be the best version of yourself... by watching several 4 hour podcasts every day! As if we all have unlimited time to watch shows like Fresh & Fit, Rollo, whatever, Kevin (RIP), the Tates etc.
This is 100% true. I’ve been cheated on by my ex-wife and everything he’s saying is spot. If you’ve been cheated it’s time to walk away and like he said, hit the gym and get better at being a man.
The Richard Gere character did everything a man can do wrong in that movie. Never act like that guys. Just leave, ghost them and file for divorce. Get counseling, get help to aid how to cope with the emotional abuse and pain you must be suffering. Move on. Trust me, it gets better.
Great. A vast majority of women, probably yourself included, are unable to stay faithful, committed and most definitely monogamous with their spouse or in an LTR. With the advent of social media marriage is dead. Most certainly a 20th century convention which has run it's natural course and has died. The nuclear family is dying a rapid death. Men are wising up and have come to understand woman's real nature. Not a pretty sight.
From everything I have been hearing lately, that is right on the money. Exact. Really once they even start wanting the other guy, they are lost. Dump them with extreme prejudice.
NEVER get married. Once you're married as a man you have given your power away. A man and the relationship will be happiest when a woman needs him more than he needs her, but he won't abuse his power.
Happened to me. Together 10 years and 2 kids.. She got with a coworker. I moved out and she moved him in with our kids. 3 years later he walks out on her
Found this out the hard way - had a very hot girlfriend for a few years. We started talking about marriage, and I made it clear cheating is a show stopper. I demanded she'd be faithful. Her answer was "weeeell, it's difficult to give a promise, because sometimes things just happen". When I asked her to show me what was on her phone and she denied, I told her I didn't want any contact with her anymore. I never looked back, and I'm happy. 😁
The hardest and most necessary traits to find in modern American women are 1) one that truly respects you (men) and 2) one that is totally trustworthy. Nothing else matters in a long term relationship.
The only way I've ever seen the "desire" come back is if the man stays but punishes her emotions mercilessly. Then the "desire" comes back, but by then you will hate her.
@@Unknown-wl7vl Ignore her. COMPLETELY. And then go hot and cold alternately. One day she's PHYSICALLY TERRIFIED followed by a very little love bombing, next day everything's normal for a couple of days, then IGNORE HER. Make her work for EVERY, TINY BIT of attention and positive reinforcement. If you used to call her "Sweetheart," now it's just Name, or better yet, "Woman" for a year or so (yes, this is on a time frame of YEARS, not days/weeks) This is tough to pull off. I commented above about a guy that did it.
Clips like this can save so many young men from going down the same path so many other men have already walked. That path leads to a lot of negative outcomes. Some of us had to learn the hard way. Some men never learn at all. Going back for a second , third fourth marriage before dying early from stress and misery
Disrespect is the beginning to cheating. You’ll never get cheated on if you leave when she disrespects you. Also when you date a certain age of woman, you’re not the 1st choice. If you threaten to leave and she tells you to go then, you’re not the best she can do Atleast in her mind The key is knowing a shit test from utter disrespect, that’s the key to success in an LTR
Oblivious chump here. Raised by a strong, independent...here it comes...single mother. I wasn't prepared for any of this shit. I wish this message had been hammered into my skull 30 years ago. But thanks Rollo for talking true.
It feels so good to pretend that you're completely unaware of the cheating and you keep playing your simp role until you suddenly leave with no explanation. She'll then find out that all that time you were actually planning your way out. In my case karma did the job for me and I've been going my own way since then. Never again!
One of the biggest lessons as a man was learning to overcome my animalistic side. To become stoic rather than angry, to remain calm under pressure TO IGNORE PRIMAL DESIRES FOR THE GREATER GOOD. But, no problem. She's just bored.
I wish more people knew about this. I'm quite introverted anyway, so dating is something I've done, but not done a lot of, so sometimes I felt like I was missing out. However, after hearing all the horror stores, about marriage, seeing what friends have gone through drama wise in relationships, makes me think I've dodged a large-calibre bullet. A girl I slept with has a boyfriend, she's also shite with money, so every now and then, she'll ask me to lend her some money. I refuse of course. However, just goes to show that its just your turn and there's always an ulterior motive to a woman's actions. I feel bad for her boyfriend somewhat too.
If her boyfriend finds out you may not miss that bullet! Bang another guys woman and your setting yourself up for an ass kicking! You won't want it done to you. You don't feel bad for the guy or you wouldn't do it in the first place.
Good Lord, thank you for making this. Gents, this video will save you FUCKING YEARS of grief and turmoil. No matter your socio-economic background, race, or religion; NO ONE is going to have our backs, except, well, us. Even then, we’ll still be alone on the path most of the time. We’re all in this together sirs. This isn’t about hating women, pills, or nihilism; this is about focus, and how to mitigate the amount of shit you let into your life. Cheers to keeping your/our eyes open. 💪
All this happened to me. Everything you said. Bro. Thank you. Ignorance is not bliss. Keep up the good work sir. I don’t hate you I hated the game because I didn’t understand it. God bless brother.
My experience is that she didn't want to talk to me but started accusing me of flirting with women I was just having a conversation...whether the female was sixty or twenty...it was a mess.
You should have taken that as a compliment. Women subconsciously get social proof and competition anxiety when her man flirts with other women, regardless whether or not she is cheating.
I feel so stupid that I believed my ex even when seeing her arm around another guy's waist. I am angry that I wanted to believe in misunderstandings of a photo. I am angry I didn't have self respect. Now I'm smarter. I don't get attached anymore. Rollo and Patrice O'Neal have taught me so much
Now it would probably be beneficial to listen to Tom Leykis as well. He has shared a lot of wisdom in the topic, even back in the 2000's when he had a show in Los Angeles, California.
What you say here is 100% TRUE. Keep in mind that cheating is a feature of f3maIe behavior, not a bug. In younger vv0men of child bearing age, the quick boredom and resentment they feel with their man is a way to get them motivated to be with another man, and thus increase genetic diversity which is the end goal. Not all of them act on this of course, but an increasing number do.
This video is so right. I have met quite a lot of friends and acquaintances that this was a factor in their lives. I met women working in the night shift in factories and night clubs and many of them say every woman needs a side piece. I saw this one woman crying and I asked her what’s wrong and she says my AP found a new girlfriend and he is moving on. Men need to wake up as to how prevalent this is going on.
I'm, we're both 59. My ex of 7.5 years live together our home, I caught her cheating. They got married right away. We sold our house, they bought theirs, after a month she start non stop texting me as I ignore all and her moms voice mails she made mistake etc... 2020. She wants me back admits to making terrible mistake wants her life back. People..... you need to control your desires. Your taboo desires are what will sidetrack you get you in trouble. Grass is not greener. This stuff does come back to haunt them. They are miserable. Not happy walking off into the sunset like you imagine. No reconcile though when betrayal to that degree
There are signs BEFORE she sleeps with someone else. Sleeping with another person is different for men than it is women. It's a different standard - not a double (hypocritical) standard.
Yep. Happened to me twice. I was to nice and too accommodating both wemon have been married too. At 42 after learning and accepting all the red pill knowledge by creators like Rollo, I've decide wemon are not worth the time, money, and effort to deal with. After the last divorce I went out and proved to myself I can date, I can get laid, but I've decided to take my time, money and effort and invest it into myself instead of yet another woman that will eventually pull the same shit the last two did.
Wow, what a brutal truth bomb, this might hurt all guys, which are experiencing that they are cheated. The desire is stronger than any rational „trust“ discussions. Even if a woman has stopped to having physical exchange with the other guy, she still thinks about it. She is in a way poisoned and cheating becomes easy for her. She thinks opportunistic and the idealistic view of the guy is what separates them. A Man without any borders and values, becomes desperate and then he will treat her like a Star and become a needy Fan. Look at Will Smith and GI Jada Sith.
Pretty sure that’s what was going through my ex’s mind when she decided to have sex for what would be the last time. It was her confirmation that she wanted the other guy she apparently had something with.
I really wish women with children knew how much many of us certain Men dont even wanna sleep with them. I dont want to look down and see a sack of stretch marks. I look good naked, so I like my women to look good naked.
Many of the things Rollo says are true. I have been on the "bad" side of this equation a few times. But remember that no matter how "bad" your partner's behavior, there is no need for you to go nuts and hurt yourself. There are many more women out there just wishing to meet a guy like you. You have just never thought in those terms before. Your haven't let your mind wander to the very real possibility that a lot of women are hoping to meet a guy like you. If you are a divorced man with children, you are golden. You are a proven commodity. You are the guy who women who want a family want. Now, if your partner has cheated on you, don't take it too hard. You should be surprised if she doesn't cheat on you. If you had as many women coming at you all day, as she has men coming at her all day, you would have a hard time resisting too. Granted, she lusts after him more than you because he is new. If you get a new car, you are in lust with it for about six months, then it becomes just a means of transportation. Granted, you are just a means of transportation, but that's because you are not new to each other. He will become just a means of transportation after about six months, depending upon how often they meet and how long they are together when they meet. So, what should you do if you think she is cheating. I recommend "Dread Game". Dread Game may even have been created by Rollo. I can't remember. So, here is Dread Game. Start acting like you are getting ready to divorce her, it will activate her hamster brain, and she will start doing whatever it takes to keep you. Acting like you are getting ready to move on will also activate her hamster brain, because you will start making yourself more physically attractive. If other women are not coming on to you, even if you are married, it is a sign that you are not that physically attractive to women. You will know that you are doing Dread Game correctly if other women start coming on to you. Dread Game is a way to not say anything, but get your wife to start approaching you for sex. Women know that men always want sex. So, if a man appears to no longer be that interested in having sex with them, women assume that she is no longer attractive to him and/or he is having sex with another woman. In either case, she may start coming on to the man. In a marriage this is called Dread Game. Basically, Dread Game is doing all the things that you would do if you had found someone else, and you were getting ready to divorce her. If she asks you why you are making all of these changes, tell her that it is just something you are doing for yourself. These are the words women tell men when they have decided to move on. You remain polite and cordial with your wife, but you no longer touch her, hug her or tell her how much you love her unless she initiates it. If she initiates a hug, you give her a "friend" hug and move on to something else. You start dieting and eating healthfully, as if you were making yourself look good for someone else. You start lifting weights and jogging, biking, etc. You start going to the tanning salon (this is the tell-tale sign that you are dating someone else). You start getting your hair styled. You start buying fashionable clothes. You might buy a sports car, if you don’t already have one. You start coming home late from work, which suggests that you may be meeting someone after work. When she asks you why you are late, you tell her that you had to work late, or you were talking to some of the guys. You start disappearing for short times on the weekends. Tell her that you are going to the store to get something trivial, but don't come back for two hours. If she asks why you were gone so long, tell her that you were shopping, but you only have what you told her you were going to get or you come back with nothing at all and tell her that you forgot to get it. You learn some new sexual techniques, and when and if she initiates sex, use the new techniques, suggesting that you may have learned them with someone else. If you dare to subject her to cruel and unusual punishment, buy some expensive women's perfume (Elizabeth Taylor’s White Diamond should do). Spray a little on a couple of Kleenexes or a paper towel and lightly press it to your shirt. Basically, through diet, exercise and grooming, you turn yourself into a man who other women want to bang, and you give your wife the impression that you've found another woman or women to bang. This often ignites her true sexual desire for you and she initiates sex. If she still has no desire for you, you are in a perfect position to move on. If you are single and dating, you give the woman the impression that she may not be good enough for you. You use Push-Pull to make her think that you are not sure if you are attracted enough to sleep with her, because you are already sleeping with two other women, so you are just trying to make up your mind if she is good enough. After you start sleeping together, giving her the impression that you are dating other women should keep her pursuing you for sex. The thing that eventually kills sexual attraction is giving her the impression that she is the only one for you.
@@g30_Zo yes exactly its such a waste of time and quite frankly it does not feel manly we man fight face to face and man to man playing games its not my thing
When she starts to disrespect you as a man or starts demanding expensive things and /or $ for weight loss, surgery, etc. you have to immediately start to plan the exit strategy.
I was gaslighted at the start 12 years ago by the trust thing...either I trust completely or nothing... Even amongst incredible evidence to the contrary. All this red pill evidence is hard to hear. But convinced me I am not concerned with romantic love or emotional experiences with women for now.
This is definitely a hard pill to swallow but needs to be swallowed nonetheless. I'm speaking from a personal experience. Never take her back after cheating.
We shouldn’t be too dependent on a woman for our happiness anyway. Just be as good and strong and true to yourself as you can possibly be, set the highest possible goals in your life and follow them true and all. And when there comes a woman she either fits in to that life or not. Never sacrifice anything that is real and true to yourself to meet up to any selfishly based nonsense or desires put out by someone else. And if she then does start to feel more attracted to some other men just then quickly say “bye bye” and continue or your own path, and probably there will then anyway quickly come an other woman who is more suiting for you, for how ever long that might last of course we just never know :)
This is why a vvomynz "Love" has almost ZERO value. Because most aren't really capable of it. Honor, ethics, loyalty, morality... don't expect these things from a laydee and you won't be disappointed.
I got monkeybranched, it hurts and its a real pain. One thing I desire the most, is her to suffer and to feel the pain she has caused with her actions. Hope that for her with all my heart.
I've been through this a few times, I'm older- 60s. Being successful and having a great life after they cheat and leave is the absolute best revenge. They always try to come back and the look on their faces when you refuse them is priceless.
Never give them a second chance. Betrayal will not be tolerated.
Amen..youre a suckered if you take her back..the respect is gone by that point.
@@unstoppableplayz6948
Yeah, so many young men are conditioned to take women's BS because "they're emotional", but nah, we need to cut that shit out, show Boys that they shouldn't undervalue themselves to women just cause they're female.
This way we hopefully end up getting less men who take cheating women back.
100%, facts man. One Strike and you're out
You can never trust her again, she's proven to you who she really is. If you did take her back, you'd always be wondering when she's away.
“There is no such thing as a small betrayal.”
When you get that gut feeling...it's happening.
Facts. I've learned to trust my gut from now on.
You do not need any electronics nor any other evidence. Trust your gut instinct.
That same gut feeling I gave her.
Bro I actually would advise NOT to trust the gut.. That's unreliable as hell... It's not based on facts, it's not based on observation, it's not based on truth. Sure, sometimes your feelings can confirm suspicions or the reality but it's a 50/50 thing. For me, in my view, I trust no one. Human nature is what it is - unreliable. I can only trust someone when I'm at deaths door and say "This person never betrayed me. This person sticked with me. This person was loyal and a friend". Morbid or a sad thing?! For me it's just a fact and serves me well, serves me veryyy well. If I don't trust, I'm always prepared for the worst.. And if the worst doesn't happen, then I didn't lose anything. I actually won something. It's a 'no lose strategy' you see
I thought about this a lot and it’s a weird one. The logical red pill guys come together and tell each other to act upon how they feel. The red pill community makes you paranoid about women (they are all out to get you etc) and then you get told to listen to your gut. Of course your feeling won’t be good from the get go when you meet a new woman with that mindset. Even if you meet a woman with only green and no red flags you will still have this voice in your head telling you that she is out there to get you
“The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off” really comes into play here
FACTS 🔥🔥🔥
absolutely
Ugh yes. I am somewhere between stage 2 and 3 of the red pill.
@@zakzwijn8410 Give it time, it will pass. And when it does, it is the most satisfying feeling in the world. Being able to operate with the truth always at your disposal and without any emotional hindrance/side effect that came with it in the beginning. And better yet... it actually makes you appreciate women more than ever. They really are so much fun when you are fully informed on which ones are worth keeping the company of.
Awesome quote, where from?
Now I understand why for thousands of years women's sexuality was suppressed, they knew it was like Pandora's box, they understood once opened it's all hell breaks loose.
Now we are witnessing the societal decay because of it.
There are good girls out there you just have to be carful who you trust and don’t put too much faith in anyone
But you’re right for the most part
This is why you have to be the MEN and keep her in her place.
It's not necessarily that w0men's sexuality was suppressed as a conscious action or policy, it's rather that cultures without sexual restraint actually never survived long term. Read Sex and Culture by J.D. Unwin. It's from 1934. He studied civilizations spanning 5000 years, and found a correlation between cultural achievement and sexual restraint. There has not been a single instance of a society becoming civilized unless it has also been absolutely monogamous, and there are no instances of societies retaining their culture after relaxing their sexual restraint. The western world is headed for the same result, and we will be reduced to a mere footnote in history because of it. And anyone can see at this point that there are certain sub-cultures within the western world right now that are very fruitful and are multiplying, and they also happen to put hard restrictions on w0mens sexuality.
I knew of a guy, who found out his GF was cheating way back in the mid 90's. He took her on a 250 mile trip, then pretended to visit the shopping mall toilet. Instead he jumped in his car, drove back home 250 miles and dumped her at the shopping mall.
LMAOOOOO SAVAGE
I hope that's true that's fucking hilarious
City boys we up 😂🤣🤣
Well played.
Is that legal??!! 🤣
When a woman says she wants to START seeing other people she’s already sleeping with someone else.
Or might as well be, as that relationship is over.
Happened to me in 2018. She claimed it’s polyamory but really…she wasn’t. She tried to cover up sleeping with her coworker. Went as far as gas lighting and gone on the deep end with every possible excuse. Luckily had no kids with her so I divorced her immediately. Red pill saved me and never looked back. Stay true to your self gentlemen!
Same here 2021.
Polyamory doesn't exist
Dodged a bullet dude, red pill saves lives.
how the hell it can be polyamory if both the partners are not okay with that let alone know that this shit is happening. the girl is really doing next level of mental gymnastics
I guess she forgot that part of her vows about forsaking all others.
My wife used to cry after sex because she felt like she was cheating on the guy she was cheating with. 100%. This is the reality.
I was that clueless guy 4 years ago, it's still tough coming to terms with how stupid and blind i was. I recognize so much of this, being the side chump, taking care of the kids while she's out having fun, being the good dad, getting the cold shoulders, it was all there and i didn't see any problems with it at the time. It's a tough pill, but boy is it necessary.
A lot of the time we don't want to seem pushy and rock the boat we want to see the best in others. Question what made the red flags dismissible or not easy to see?
Be easy on yourself. You were true, they were not. End of discussion.
@Mark Park facts, if you are deceived, it simply means you don't operate like them. Its not your fault that they are shit. But it is damn sure your fault if it happens again. Its their mistake, its your lesson. Learn it then burn em.
What did you do to change the transcript? Have you recognized your role so you don't end up with another woman doing that? I've realized that there's very few women who won't cheat. Society has created a system to let them do it with minimal repercussions... If you ask about things or make any comments about it... You lose.
Hey, Don’t beat yourself up about you situation, at all!
Most of us have been in a similar situation in our relationships to some degree.
IMO, the biggest part of the problem is, the western males are still being taught & expected to follow the pre 1950s rule book and women since 1960 are using the the 1960 onwards, revised annually to suit their own needs rule book.
Fortunately, finally, the internet has given us platforms, to share & learn how to navigate, in this shit show of the modern world!
We are now finally understanding, that we are allowed to stand up for ourselves.
We are now being shown by example by these content creators that it’s not us that changed the game, so all we also need to move within the new guidelines.
All I can say to any guy going through this is, “PLAY HARD BALL” from the start, and when you know the indiscretions are happening (it doesn’t matter how good you are women will always want more) put you exit plan into action! The first time is the hardest, then when you see that they don’t have anywhere near the power that they think they have over you, it gets easier and easier (although it’s very draining on mind & spirit & resources).
The part that women hate about men the most, is that we can come back from nothing & still succeed! Good luck and best wishes to all of you.
Guys. If your woman will ever cheat on you in a marriage. Don't be silent. Divorce her and make sure every one of her friends and relatives knows that she is not trustworthy!
"She's not yours, it's just your time." ― RC
Your turn*
i am not hers, it is her turn
@@vroomvroom8144 vroom vroom girl
But she promised a different thing.
@@vroomvroom8144 Thats also true. You already banged her, she can't do much for you after that, so whats the point anyways ?
This is so spot on. I was so blindsided by her cheating b/c we had been together for almost 20 yrs. I stupidly thought: there is no way in hell she would do anything like that to me, b/c I had been a great father, husband and provider. So wish I knew this stuff before I got married, or even during marriage. But you don't even know about the red pill, until you encounter the catastrophic event that is divorce, and you go looking for it.
In a lot of cases, trauma leads to the red pill, yes. But sometimes, it's just a nagging feeling of "there is something about this whole dating and relationship deal I am not seeing here" and that curiosity alone can lead to many guys learning from the mistakes of others before going through it themselves. Red pilled teens are the most fortunate men on the planet.
💯 mate same here stay strong brothers
There's no such thing as relationship equity. I had to learn that the hard way, too.
I'm casualty of my own ignorance too. I became red pilled AFTER it was too late to safely jump ship. Now I'm educating myself with Rollo's channel and books in order to best prepare my son as he approaches 11yrs old. Eventually I'll let him read the books, but for now I'm giving him more general concepts and keeping things fairly simple. I'm not "black pilled," but in today's society the results will probably be the same.....................enjoying my freedom in a life without chaos and drama. IF a quality woman does cross paths with me someday, I'll be much better prepared to vet her, and very hesitant to commit to an LTR.
My ex cheated after 24 years of marriage. I wish I had a dollar for everytime she accused me of cheating. I would deny and by the way - I never cheated. She divorced me. Just have to move forward. She did irreperable emotional damage to my 2 daughters that they hold on to till the present.
With my exwife i knew she was cheating but I played like I didn't know until I could move out. Then she was shocked and said I abandoned her. This is very deep, to realize your wife feels like she's cheating on the other guy with you. Insane.
Of course you abandoned her. How dare you not to play predictable games?!
@@nikola4370 lol, right. I should have kept acting like I didn't know her mannerisms and change in attitude and stayed to be played. Some men aren't observant, I am even though I didn't say anything.
Can't imagine how painful that must of been to keep seeing the face of person who betrayed you and share your bed with that person.
@@GraveRave yeah, I left cause it was eating at me and before I did something to change our lives for the ultimate I left. Still not over, trying to get custody of my son cause she wants to move states with him to be with the guy. It's always something dealing with a extremely selfish person.
That's modern women in a nutshell. I feel bad for the son, you have no idea how many men have gone through exactly what you have highlighted.
Happened when I was 18 after 3 year relationship. Was going to ask her to marry me. He was one of my best friends. She didn’t know if she was pregnant with his kid or mine. Everything Rollo
says is true. I was red pilled a long time ago. I’m 52 now.
Remember. As RT says, red pill is not a verb. It is a state of understanding women so that you won’t hate. It has less to do with them than about you, and how you create and stay in your own frame. Women are like children, and just like children, they will self destruct without supervision.
dont give a shit abbout girl but the best friend deseerves a punch
Daymm!
She left me for him btw. I forgave them later and moved on. They married and had a kid. She cheated on him and he grabbed the kid and took off to another state. I got some huge lessons early in life.
Damn, very sorry that happened to you mate, betrayed by 2 people close to you? That's insane. And she cheated on him too, but it's weird he'd even trust her despite her obvious knack for huge deception
Damn. This is profoundly true. Been through exactly this! I, her husband became the one she felt like she was cheating with. The patterns repeat throughout this community because they are universal. Men, strive to be the best version of yourself. Become the highest value man you can be, keep that perspective, know your best, live your best and do not compromise yourself for momentary pleasure or long term companionship. Peace men.
stop fighting for these town bicycles, take this from a woman; my gender is pure evil. Don't even bother with 95% of females. They are community property. Don't spend money on them, father their kids, etc and focus on yourself. Studies prove over 70% admit to cheating (and tho remain simply lie) and uk studies prove at least 30% of men are raising kids they DON'T know are theirs. You trying to claim items in the local landfill as your equal, please do humanity a favor and stop.
Amen!
That's why marriage is the stupidest idea. Imagine getting cheated on and then you can't bail out without being penalized.
Women want "equality" and yet during a divorce the man gets f'd because the courts see the female as a "victim". What insane world am I living in? Either women are "possible" future victims or we're all equal. I swear, I say it all the time, women want cake and eat it too. And men are too f'ing horny and stupid to call them out on their bs. No, you are NOT my equal. If someone is breaking into my house, its not a flip of a coin who gets to go downstairs and put their life on the line.
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The system was designed to destroy men
Smart men don’t marry. Period
"My wife likes to talk to me during sex. She calls me from a hotel room..."
--- Rodney Dangerfield
Lmao
This is so true. I broke up with my GF of 3 years. We got back together after 2 months. She told me she had slept 2 times with 1 other dude. I also slept with 2 other women so i didnt get too mad. I was the one who broke up anyway. But ofcourse it didn’t work out. Our relationship was not like before. She didn’t have the same attraction towards me. She even told me once that the other guy showed her that he wants her more than I do. It just went downhill after that. Once your girl has slept with another man it’s over 99/100 times
Never bring curbside trash back into the house.
There’s an error in your paragraph. 100/100
@@themegaphone4728 Perhaps. I bet some couples have survived though so idk
@@NorthernSpartan it’s a matter of principle. Just like you never negotiate with terrorists
Mine went on a girl's holiday to Ibiza, met a dude and went back there to live, still in touch because we're pals and I forgave her. She also fully understands I moved onto far better women, introducing her to an Italian supermodel was a highlight.
I red pilled 15 years ago before I even heard of this guys books or channel. Everything he has said is true. Been married for the last 10 with a woman I don’t really love and in the back of her mind she knows it and is in denial. I however would never put myself in the opposite position in the relationship. Women won’t respect you.
Women stay attracted the less you care about them
Why would you be with someone u don’t love?
@@SailorMoon37 I have a 9 yr old son with her. Neither of us have family where we live so we’re kind stuck for or at least until my son is a little older and can watch himself more
@@manager4409 I never initiate texting or calling my girlfriend, and she's been begging to get married for years.
@@mouthpiece200 Don’t. You’ll regret it when she divorce grapes you.
In Latin America culture we say "If a man forgives his wife for cheating once then he must resign to be cheated for the rest of his life..."
And he is 120% right, when a woman loves and likes you, when she thinks she will be with you soon she gets w3t, so in the case when you touch and look for her she must be ready for you no matter what, but once she lost interest in you no matter what you do, is over...
What about it when the woman forgives the man for cheating? She’s just as stupid. If she stays, he’s going to keep cheating because he knows he can continue to disrespect her
@@SandraMartinez-gv1yf I'm not saying is right or ok to cheat a woman who loves a man, but there is a huge difference from both sides, for example, I can have segs with a woman who I hate and after that is done I don't feel any love for her, I still loving the woman who is with me, but when a woman cheats it means she is not loving her man the same as she used to, so when a man cheats she thinks is because he doesn't love her any more and that hurts her, and when a woman cheats is because she feels something for another man and that's something that can't be fixed, but if I cheat to my woman and she catch I can leave the other woman and still loving mine, but a cheating woman cannot love "her" man the same again, and is only disrespectful if the man treat the other woman the same or even better as he treats his woman, I mean a side woman never can be treated or spoiled as the home woman because the side one she doesn't deserve that privilege...
@@jraulc don't forget the ability in men where they can love more than woman at the same time
@@SandraMartinez-gv1yf this is not about women, this is for men only, get out of here scumbag
That's real
This situation as Rollo explained was the kick on my head that wake me up to the red pill knowledge
@Penderyn it was hard to keep my composure when the reality hits. Lucky for me, Rollo's and CRP's work lead me to better path, learning about human behavior and stoicism. It helps a lot
Genuine desire is crucial. I learned that hard way. Next time i feel no genuine desire i walk away. Thanks Rollo. Cheers.
always remember, everytime it slipped out she put it back in. move on
I can confirm all he is saying. I've been the guy women have cheated on their husbands with and I can tell you it's never just 1 time. It can go on for years in some cases so what does that tell you about her level of respect for her husband and marriage?
All the women in the world and you get with a female already taken smh you r just as bad dude
I wonder if you’ll STILL get married knowing this…
You don't see a problem with sleeping with a married woman? How much responsibility do men have for breaking up relationships? lol. If all dudes followed the bro-code there would be no problems
@@donquixote3292 Simple answer, nope
@@jeffreycfmok First off, I didn't know these women were married, they lied. As far as "bro-code" goes, there is no such thing. Guys will throw each other under the bus for pussy all the time. That's why this concept was created to try to temper it somewhat. My bro code extends to my friends and family. I don't know these guys these girls are cheating on. She made the vows to him, not me.
Its thanks to content like this ive learned to maintain a life outside of relationships and women. if stuff like this happens my hobbies, my career, my friends, and my family will still be there and life goes on. just accept and process that it happened, then keep on moving forward and never look back.
Exactly... never put your eggs in one basket.
@@josephzsoka874 Better yet, don't put any eggs in the relationship basket at all...
@@HenrySomeone lol... your point is far better. Well said.
Bars. And Rollo is right, this is one of the many RP truth bombs that provokes more indignation in men than women.
My ex wife accused me one day out of the blue of cheating on her. My best friend, who was a criminal behavioral analyst, told me that meant she was probably already cheating on me. IT totally explains all of the changes in her behavior. She had lost all interest in me. He was her true standard, and I was just the live-in paycheck. Thank God we had no kids.
Yes. It's called projection.
@@yishihara55527 "Confession by projection" - as old as the hills.
Could be true or she just really thought you were cheating on her.
100% valid, had the same experience. It's called projection, they do it in order to gaslight you and sometimes to convince themselves that you deserved it. No accountability whatsoever.
I have been both guys to the same chick.
Lesson learned:
If she cheated with you, she will cheat on you. Let that be another guy's problem, get the lay then move her along.
Dont even be the other guy. It's dangerous.
@@GUITARTIME2024 but how would you know. You meet her organically, she seems really into you, then you catch up with mates and she asks for a ride home, what she meant was back to your place. Then you find out many lays and a few weeks later she lives with another bloke. 🤷♂️
@@cpowerbpower3339 that's a different case. I mean knowingly.
Same. I found out she's messing around with her co worker.
Facts
The redpill is hard to swallow but it is best. My ex girlfriend of 6 years started to cheat and when i found out i became the guy on the side. The new guy became the main guy after the split up. I have started my redpill journey and now its all so clear as day. I fuck casually but nothing serious. Simping for women should be a crime. 90 percent of men would be locked up for life.😅💯💔🔥🌟
Not been in that situation man but my ex moved on within a month - having downloaded dating apps the day after we split. So although she didn’t “cheat” she still showed her true colours lol. I stumbled into the red pill community coincidentally at that time and have never looked back! Trust me, a relationship that commenced on cheating will never last the test of time. That new guy won’t last and you’ll get the last laugh when the inevitable heartbreak occurs 😉
@@mystic_cam so true bro. It was aweful because we were engaged at she moved on within 1 week. Lol i rather cry in a Lamborghini on a bicycle😂😂😂😂
Sad part is most men a super simps so women will always have the upper hand in dating and marriage.
I bet she cheats on the new guy. Its what cheaters do.
5 years, I broke up with her but she got with a new guy after 2 months. She's cheating on him with me because I'm better in bed though. I see by her stories that in her mind she's keeping me on the hook because she's not too happy about him and still keeps me as an option but little does she know that there's no possible way of me accepting a used up pi-pi back for anything serious. Women are beyond deluded nowadays.
MY first wife cheated so I stopped all relations with her and asked for a divorce evey Friday until she left. What I mean is I stopped sex, fiscal support, spending time with her and starting hanging out with my old mates. I made her life hell.
This sounds horrible but it can actually be used as fuel to improve yourself and become the best “you” that you can be. Once you become someone who many women want, you can have a much better chance of being any woman’s “best”. This reality sounds harsh, but nature itself is not good or bad. It just is what it is. If you can’t change the rules of the game, learn to become really good at it.
The worst part is you can become 100 percent of your potential and it will never be good enough people always want more
AGuitarNinja this is why you should prioritize doing things for yourself and not for the sole purpose of making someone else happy. No form of intimacy with any woman is ever worth devaluing your own worth for.
@@michaelpassmore7839 💯
You dont have to become someone bro. The truth is in you. Be a man with standards and self respect and enforce boundaries.
@@njkel.8714 Good points. As long as you are striving towards living the kind of life you truly want and not settling, not much else should matter. It is up to you, however, to define what exactly it is that you want, and only you truly know if you are being honest to yourself about that or not.
HARD HARDCORE TRUTH IVE BEEN THROUGH! TAKE NOTES MEN…. THIS CAN, WILL and PROBABLY HAS HAPPENED TO YOU! Wether you know it or NOT! ROLLO! IS ON POINT AS USUAL!
The point about the wife not wanting to sleep with the husband because she feels like she is cheating on the boyfriend is accurate. That totally happened to me, I didn’t even realize I was being cheated on
Yup. All 100% true. After my wife (now my ex) cheated, and we tried to reconcile, her behavior around having sex with me again was as if she felt she would be cheating on the other guy if she slept with me. We were married for nearly 20 years ffs. And the other guy was by all accounts a low-value man - in physicality, income, and status. Baffles the mind.
@Jed Honrado It happened to me as well, except there was no attempt at reconciliation. She was upset and angered by me blowing up the affair, and blamed me for it. The other guy was definitely low value, also married and had 4 children. It was a tough pill to swallow for a while, but now I look at it as a blessing. She was a horrible wife, and a daily pain in my ass lol.
Sorry that happened to you man, it's nuts how their logic, or lack thereof, operates. It's some weird shit 😕 shows that even as a high value man, one can still be betrayed by a woman to a lower level guy.
She pair bonds with the new guy and assumes it's a relationship even though it really isn't, and treats you like a side piece despite you being the one she married. Some backwards logic right there 🤷🏿
If she cheated it’s your fault period. Women don’t cheat on men they respect. If she cheated that means somewhere you did something to lose that respect from her
@@CruuushaL I fully own my shortcomings regarding marriage. I wasn't perfect, by any means, and I've learned that tough lesson. But *cheating is a sign of low moral character.* There are a million things to do to work on a marriage other than cheating...open communication, marriage counseling, divorce/separation. That goes for men too. Cheating is selfish and destructive. How about being an actual adult and end the relationship BEFORE stepping out?
@@CruuushaL Buddy, you are refusing to hold women accountable for their actions by trying to shift the responsibility for their behavior, decisions and actions onto men.
If there is a problem in the relationship a woman can either try to fix it or leave the relationship.
Many women and men do that.
Going behind her man's back and cheating is not the men's fault, it's her decision, her action her fault.
You are blaming men for women's decisions, actions and behaviors.
Are you going to tell me that if a man cheats its his wive's fault?
Doja Cat's song "You Right" basically summarizes this. They even sing about it!
The Weeknd, G Eazy, Summer Walker, Chris Brown … lots of nice tidbits in their songs
🤯🤯🤯
Female nature always comes out in their songs
The song "All I want to do is make love to you". I'm in love with another man. And what he couldn't give me, was the one little thing that you can.
Rubi Rose - Loyal D!ck
OMG - You described my 2nd wife's actions exactly. I took her and the kids on a 3 week Caribbean vacation & she refused to have sex or even be near me the whole time and 1 year later I found out she was banging a coworker. She did all this while suffering from postpartum depression that triggered her Borderline Personality Disorder, basically she was out of control.
Google " Limerence" My wife went off the rails.
@@PJHEATERMAN My wife was like a walking zombie, and my wife's limerence partner wasn't anywhere near as good looking as me & he didn't make as much $$$ either. "off the rails" describes her perfectly.
@@georgevue8175 sorry you had to go through that shit. I was/am a hardworking and loving father and husband. Her Narcissistic lover was playing with her mind for his pleasure at the expense and destruction of my family. Wanted to put a bullet in him but i destroyed him in a non-violent way and it was a thing of beauty. Had a job and children to protect so i got creative. Hope you came out the other side and are doing well.
@@PJHEATERMANdo tell more! How did you do it
Working hard to find a female is like chasing cancer
Wow!! Will smith lives with cancer everyday
@@futureisyours3016 lol
Thank god we were blessed with a hand and an imagination 😂
@@OPproductions22 I second that😜
When my younger cousin was young, 17, his gf hooked up with another guy. She then wanted him back. He called me and I told him, "No, we don't do that."
Rollo: there was a movie in the 90s that addressed this - "Husbands and Lovers." As a matter of fact, the f3male character used that line. Towards the end of the movie, she is intimate with her husband. She says something like "Now *you* are the one I'm having the affair with.."
Rollo, these short pieces are much much better than the much longer pieces. How many people have hours to listen to long content to find the gold in there. Thanks for this content. Insightful and very helpful.
Bro I've been thinking the same thing from the beginning! Great comment hopefully he considers your suggestion.👍🏼
@@feman5274 He has been making shorter stuff recently, and involving other people which helps the information dynamic. I think being involved a lot with Fresh & Fit has helped. If you haven't checked out Fresh & Fit head over there.
Be the best version of yourself... by watching several 4 hour podcasts every day!
As if we all have unlimited time to watch shows like Fresh & Fit, Rollo, whatever, Kevin (RIP), the Tates etc.
My brother is a minister who canceled couples infidelity, if a man cheats they usually can work it out, if a woman cheats it’s over, remember this men
Why work it out if he cheats??? A cheater is a cheater. The man or woman who cheats Doesn’t respect you. Dump him or her
The toughest red pill I've ever swallowed was that, for a woman, the most attractive trait she wants in a man, is "new".
Easy way to fix that. Tell them you want 'young'. Watch their reaction.
@@vkk5058 NOOO!!! Did you not watch the clip?!?!?!? Do NOT TELL!!!
DEMONSTRATE, don't explicate.
Women talk, men DO.
Acta, non verba.
This is 100% true. I’ve been cheated on by my ex-wife and everything he’s saying is spot. If you’ve been cheated it’s time to walk away and like he said, hit the gym and get better at being a man.
I love the directness of your wisdom. No sugar-coated bs. The world doesn't need anymore cavities.
The movie "Unfaithful" pretty much explains everything that Rollo said.
The Richard Gere character did everything a man can do wrong in that movie.
Never act like that guys.
Just leave, ghost them and file for divorce.
Get counseling, get help to aid how to cope with the emotional abuse and pain you must be suffering.
Move on.
Trust me, it gets better.
That movie was traumatizing. Hard to watch. Something so evil almost, so disrespectful, just ugly.
I'm a woman saying this guy is speaking 💯 truth!!!
Great.
A vast majority of women, probably yourself included, are unable to stay faithful, committed and most definitely monogamous with their spouse or in an LTR. With the advent of social media marriage is dead. Most certainly a 20th century convention which has run it's natural course and has died.
The nuclear family is dying a rapid death. Men are wising up and have come to understand woman's real nature. Not a pretty sight.
From everything I have been hearing lately, that is right on the money. Exact. Really once they even start wanting the other guy, they are lost. Dump them with extreme prejudice.
NEVER get married. Once you're married as a man you have given your power away.
A man and the relationship will be happiest when a woman needs him more than he needs her, but he won't abuse his power.
Happened to me. Together 10 years and 2 kids.. She got with a coworker. I moved out and she moved him in with our kids. 3 years later he walks out on her
Women like that normally end up alone in some old, shitty house with a bunch of cats drinking boxed wine.
This guy nails it on everything he literally articulates everything I know or have learned thru trial and error and haven’t been able 2 put in words
Found this out the hard way - had a very hot girlfriend for a few years. We started talking about marriage, and I made it clear cheating is a show stopper. I demanded she'd be faithful. Her answer was "weeeell, it's difficult to give a promise, because sometimes things just happen". When I asked her to show me what was on her phone and she denied, I told her I didn't want any contact with her anymore. I never looked back, and I'm happy. 😁
King 👑
I experienced this and it sucked.
The hardest and most necessary traits to find in modern American women are 1) one that truly respects you (men) and 2) one that is totally trustworthy. Nothing else matters in a long term relationship.
Straight up Facts. I know, i've been in both situations.
Now that I’m red pill aware I’m literally numb to this kind of info in fact I expect it.
The only way I've ever seen the "desire" come back is if the man stays but punishes her emotions mercilessly. Then the "desire" comes back, but by then you will hate her.
How to punish her emotionally ?
@@Unknown-wl7vl Ignore her.
COMPLETELY.
And then go hot and cold alternately. One day she's PHYSICALLY TERRIFIED followed by a very little love bombing, next day everything's normal for a couple of days, then IGNORE HER. Make her work for EVERY, TINY BIT of attention and positive reinforcement. If you used to call her "Sweetheart," now it's just Name, or better yet, "Woman" for a year or so (yes, this is on a time frame of YEARS, not days/weeks) This is tough to pull off. I commented above about a guy that did it.
Clips like this can save so many young men from going down the same path so many other men have already walked. That path leads to a lot of negative outcomes.
Some of us had to learn the hard way. Some men never learn at all. Going back for a second , third fourth marriage before dying early from stress and misery
Disrespect is the beginning to cheating. You’ll never get cheated on if you leave when she disrespects you.
Also when you date a certain age of woman, you’re not the 1st choice.
If you threaten to leave and she tells you to go then, you’re not the best she can do Atleast in her mind
The key is knowing a shit test from utter disrespect, that’s the key to success in an LTR
Interesting. You mean age below 28?
“Life is already a second chance, make sure to never f’ck it up”
Oblivious chump here.
Raised by a strong, independent...here it comes...single mother. I wasn't prepared for any of this shit. I wish this message had been hammered into my skull 30 years ago. But thanks Rollo for talking true.
It feels so good to pretend that you're completely unaware of the cheating and you keep playing your simp role until you suddenly leave with no explanation. She'll then find out that all that time you were actually planning your way out. In my case karma did the job for me and I've been going my own way since then. Never again!
Never lay your cards on the table until theres no reason to hold them to your chest anymore. Good man
@@callanc3925 Exactly!
Well played!
One of the biggest lessons as a man was learning to overcome my animalistic side. To become stoic rather than angry, to remain calm under pressure TO IGNORE PRIMAL DESIRES FOR THE GREATER GOOD.
But, no problem. She's just bored.
Rollo is describing my life 😂😢😭
Oh man, sorry to hear that.
Same here. You're not alone.
Jus learn from ur past mistakes and alpha up bro u got dis 💪🏽💪🏽
My life as well. We’re in this together guys. It’s never too late to see what’s happening. It’s time we took back our pride and life
Oooooof
I wish more people knew about this. I'm quite introverted anyway, so dating is something I've done, but not done a lot of, so sometimes I felt like I was missing out.
However, after hearing all the horror stores, about marriage, seeing what friends have gone through drama wise in relationships, makes me think I've dodged a large-calibre bullet.
A girl I slept with has a boyfriend, she's also shite with money, so every now and then, she'll ask me to lend her some money. I refuse of course. However, just goes to show that its just your turn and there's always an ulterior motive to a woman's actions. I feel bad for her boyfriend somewhat too.
If her boyfriend finds out you may not miss that bullet! Bang another guys woman and your setting yourself up for an ass kicking! You won't want it done to you. You don't feel bad for the guy or you wouldn't do it in the first place.
Tell him. But not face to face.
Good Lord, thank you for making this.
Gents, this video will save you FUCKING YEARS of grief and turmoil. No matter your socio-economic background, race, or religion; NO ONE is going to have our backs, except, well, us. Even then, we’ll still be alone on the path most of the time. We’re all in this together sirs. This isn’t about hating women, pills, or nihilism; this is about focus, and how to mitigate the amount of shit you let into your life.
Cheers to keeping your/our eyes open. 💪
All this happened to me. Everything you said. Bro. Thank you. Ignorance is not bliss. Keep up the good work sir. I don’t hate you I hated the game because I didn’t understand it. God bless brother.
My experience is that she didn't want to talk to me but started accusing me of flirting with women I was just having a conversation...whether the female was sixty or twenty...it was a mess.
The moment she accuses you of cheating she’s trying to deflect her own guilt.
You should have taken that as a compliment. Women subconsciously get social proof and competition anxiety when her man flirts with other women, regardless whether or not she is cheating.
Long story short the main become the side and the side becomes the main
Yeah, pretty much
I feel so stupid that I believed my ex even when seeing her arm around another guy's waist.
I am angry that I wanted to believe in misunderstandings of a photo. I am angry I didn't have self respect.
Now I'm smarter. I don't get attached anymore.
Rollo and Patrice O'Neal have taught me so much
Patrice Oneal was the man! He understood female logic before anyone else did. He was wayyyy ahead of his time.
Now it would probably be beneficial to listen to Tom Leykis as well. He has shared a lot of wisdom in the topic, even back in the 2000's when he had a show in Los Angeles, California.
@@flaco12jaav link please or say name of a clip and I find it on UA-cam? :)
What you say here is 100% TRUE. Keep in mind that cheating is a feature of f3maIe behavior, not a bug. In younger vv0men of child bearing age, the quick boredom and resentment they feel with their man is a way to get them motivated to be with another man, and thus increase genetic diversity which is the end goal. Not all of them act on this of course, but an increasing number do.
This video is so right. I have met quite a lot of friends and acquaintances that this was a factor in their lives. I met women working in the night shift in factories and night clubs and many of them say every woman needs a side piece. I saw this one woman crying and I asked her what’s wrong and she says my AP found a new girlfriend and he is moving on. Men need to wake up as to how prevalent this is going on.
I'm, we're both 59. My ex of 7.5 years live together our home, I caught her cheating. They got married right away. We sold our house, they bought theirs, after a month she start non stop texting me as I ignore all and her moms voice mails she made mistake etc... 2020. She wants me back admits to making terrible mistake wants her life back. People..... you need to control your desires. Your taboo desires are what will sidetrack you get you in trouble. Grass is not greener. This stuff does come back to haunt them. They are miserable. Not happy walking off into the sunset like you imagine. No reconcile though when betrayal to that degree
You are a live saver Rollo. Literally. Keep it up!!!
Excellent. I learned something new. Thank you.
There are signs BEFORE she sleeps with someone else.
Sleeping with another person is different for men than it is women. It's a different standard - not a double (hypocritical) standard.
It doesn't matter if it's different or not. It's still cheating and as such abhorrent.
A cheater is a cheater no matter the gender. A cheater doesn’t respect his or her partner and never will.
Even though it’s different, why can’t men handle it? You expect the woman to stay after the man has cheated but not the other way around. 🤦🏽♀️
@@kyaralevi7682 men cheat, women betray
@@carljohnson6264 not all women.
Correct. Swallowed. Ty!
1 Corinthians 7:28 "...those who marry will face many troubles in this life..."
Yep. Happened to me twice. I was to nice and too accommodating both wemon have been married too. At 42 after learning and accepting all the red pill knowledge by creators like Rollo, I've decide wemon are not worth the time, money, and effort to deal with. After the last divorce I went out and proved to myself I can date, I can get laid, but I've decided to take my time, money and effort and invest it into myself instead of yet another woman that will eventually pull the same shit the last two did.
Smart man.
Your words are very hurtful truths, but it the truth hurts sometimes and we need to hear it to learn and grow! Thank you !
Rollo speaking facts as always.
Wow, what a brutal truth bomb, this might hurt all guys, which are experiencing that they are cheated.
The desire is stronger than any rational „trust“ discussions. Even if a woman has stopped to having physical exchange with the other guy, she still thinks about it. She is in a way poisoned and cheating becomes easy for her. She thinks opportunistic and the idealistic view of the guy is what separates them. A Man without any borders and values, becomes desperate and then he will treat her like a Star and become a needy Fan.
Look at Will Smith and GI Jada Sith.
Not just the man, the woman too. The man who cheats is just as big an arse as the woman who cheats.
Pretty sure that’s what was going through my ex’s mind when she decided to have sex for what would be the last time. It was her confirmation that she wanted the other guy she apparently had something with.
I really wish women with children knew how much many of us certain Men dont even wanna sleep with them. I dont want to look down and see a sack of stretch marks. I look good naked, so I like my women to look good naked.
lmao 😂🤣🍺🍺🍺👍
😆 🤣 😂 😹
True
Why do my eyes hurt? because you have never seen the truth. Thanks Rollo
Many of the things Rollo says are true. I have been on the "bad" side of this equation a few times. But remember that no matter how "bad" your partner's behavior, there is no need for you to go nuts and hurt yourself. There are many more women out there just wishing to meet a guy like you.
You have just never thought in those terms before. Your haven't let your mind wander to the very real possibility that a lot of women are hoping to meet a guy like you. If you are a divorced man with children, you are golden. You are a proven commodity. You are the guy who women who want a family want.
Now, if your partner has cheated on you, don't take it too hard. You should be surprised if she doesn't cheat on you. If you had as many women coming at you all day, as she has men coming at her all day, you would have a hard time resisting too.
Granted, she lusts after him more than you because he is new. If you get a new car, you are in lust with it for about six months, then it becomes just a means of transportation. Granted, you are just a means of transportation, but that's because you are not new to each other. He will become just a means of transportation after about six months, depending upon how often they meet and how long they are together when they meet.
So, what should you do if you think she is cheating. I recommend "Dread Game". Dread Game may even have been created by Rollo. I can't remember. So, here is Dread Game.
Start acting like you are getting ready to divorce her, it will activate her hamster brain, and she will start doing whatever it takes to keep you. Acting like you are getting ready to move on will also activate her hamster brain, because you will start making yourself more physically attractive.
If other women are not coming on to you, even if you are married, it is a sign that you are not that physically attractive to women. You will know that you are doing Dread Game correctly if other women start coming on to you.
Dread Game is a way to not say anything, but get your wife to start approaching you for sex. Women know that men always want sex. So, if a man appears to no longer be that interested in having sex with them, women assume that she is no longer attractive to him and/or he is having sex with another woman. In either case, she may start coming on to the man. In a marriage this is called Dread Game.
Basically, Dread Game is doing all the things that you would do if you had found someone else, and you were getting ready to divorce her. If she asks you why you are making all of these changes, tell her that it is just something you are doing for yourself. These are the words women tell men when they have decided to move on.
You remain polite and cordial with your wife, but you no longer touch her, hug her or tell her how much you love her unless she initiates it. If she initiates a hug, you give her a "friend" hug and move on to something else.
You start dieting and eating healthfully, as if you were making yourself look good for someone else. You start lifting weights and jogging, biking, etc. You start going to the tanning salon (this is the tell-tale sign that you are dating someone else). You start getting your hair styled. You start buying fashionable clothes. You might buy a sports car, if you don’t already have one.
You start coming home late from work, which suggests that you may be meeting someone after work. When she asks you why you are late, you tell her that you had to work late, or you were talking to some of the guys. You start disappearing for short times on the weekends. Tell her that you are going to the store to get something trivial, but don't come back for two hours. If she asks why you were gone so long, tell her that you were shopping, but you only have what you told her you were going to get or you come back with nothing at all and tell her that you forgot to get it.
You learn some new sexual techniques, and when and if she initiates sex, use the new techniques, suggesting that you may have learned them with someone else.
If you dare to subject her to cruel and unusual punishment, buy some expensive women's perfume (Elizabeth Taylor’s White Diamond should do). Spray a little on a couple of Kleenexes or a paper towel and lightly press it to your shirt.
Basically, through diet, exercise and grooming, you turn yourself into a man who other women want to bang, and you give your wife the impression that you've found another woman or women to bang. This often ignites her true sexual desire for you and she initiates sex. If she still has no desire for you, you are in a perfect position to move on.
If you are single and dating, you give the woman the impression that she may not be good enough for you. You use Push-Pull to make her think that you are not sure if you are attracted enough to sleep with her, because you are already sleeping with two other women, so you are just trying to make up your mind if she is good enough.
After you start sleeping together, giving her the impression that you are dating other women should keep her pursuing you for sex. The thing that eventually kills sexual attraction is giving her the impression that she is the only one for you.
@Mark Park sorry about that. I will edit.
Here’s a more simple response, if you get cheated on just leave. This is a waste of time.
@@g30_Zo Yeah why feed into the manipulation lol
If you caught your woman cheating, just f*$%ing leave her dude. What a sorry ass waste of time doing these stupid dread games and stuff.
@@g30_Zo yes exactly its such a waste of time and quite frankly it does not feel manly we man fight face to face and man to man playing games its not my thing
When she starts to disrespect you as a man or starts demanding expensive things and /or $ for weight loss, surgery, etc. you have to immediately start to plan the exit strategy.
thats a kick in the teeth. jesus
I was gaslighted at the start 12 years ago by the trust thing...either I trust completely or nothing... Even amongst incredible evidence to the contrary.
All this red pill evidence is hard to hear.
But convinced me I am not concerned with romantic love or emotional experiences with women for now.
This is definitely a hard pill to swallow but needs to be swallowed nonetheless. I'm speaking from a personal experience. Never take her back after cheating.
Ever end of story it’s dead at that point final
I said this on a relationship site and they cancelled me for hate and being racist. They just can't except the truth.
We shouldn’t be too dependent on a woman for our happiness anyway. Just be as good and strong and true to yourself as you can possibly be, set the highest possible goals in your life and follow them true and all. And when there comes a woman she either fits in to that life or not. Never sacrifice anything that is real and true to yourself to meet up to any selfishly based nonsense or desires put out by someone else. And if she then does start to feel more attracted to some other men just then quickly say “bye bye” and continue or your own path, and probably there will then anyway quickly come an other woman who is more suiting for you, for how ever long that might last of course we just never know :)
you were born into this world a self sufficient individual life form. a self contained unit. and that's how it should be.
@@joeswanson733 Yes, best is to realise this soon and not to be dependent on your happiness from others :)
Damn right they want to take a break too they're cheating on you always. If they're upset about something they want to work on it they loved you.
" She doesn't want her inneers to be rearranged by you !" At that time , which is already late , its over . Move .
so spot on... my ex starting foolin around with a dude before we were done done... and once she started talking to this dude i saw an instant shift.
Big truth bomb to some, but I felt nothing. It did make sense from a similar past situation with an ex.
Damn… deep stuff there Rolo… deep stuff.
This is why a vvomynz "Love" has almost ZERO value. Because most aren't really capable of it.
Honor, ethics, loyalty, morality... don't expect these things from a laydee and you won't be disappointed.
The lady should expect the same from a man. Once he cheats, he’s out the door.
100% accurate, lived it.
I got monkeybranched, it hurts and its a real pain. One thing I desire the most, is her to suffer and to feel the pain she has caused with her actions. Hope that for her with all my heart.
It'll come... The wall is undefeated my friend
Use the belt on her ….. a leather one
Trust me, after the walk, they are all done. One thing you will understand is Briffault’s law, and you will never give commitment easily.
Single motherhood is also in the cards
I've been through this a few times, I'm older- 60s. Being successful and having a great life after they cheat and leave is the absolute best revenge. They always try to come back and the look on their faces when you refuse them is priceless.
Tuesday night 05 April 2022. If she cheats, it's over. Fucking leave. There's no fixing that shit.
Rollo is describing my life
Oooooof