You are an antichrist if you don't provide for your child. A man is not a man if he is willing to deny his own child. He is wicked. Have nothing to do with the wicked. Fathers who deny their child/children; are they going to Hell? Yes, if they do not repent. Timothy 5:8 "But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." There are no unbelievers in Heaven. Go make peace with your child What does God say about this? 1Timothy 5:8, KJV Psalm 27:10, KJV Ephesians 6:4, KJV Titus 3: 10-11, KJV Deuteronomy 31:8, KJV Proverbs 22:6, KJV Colossians 3:21, KJV “So to a man who is a stranger and yet my father I say this: “Go to hell.” But, he’s already there, isn’t he?” - Lashanda Matlock
In reality if you’re paying child support you’re legally doing your part. Be there when you can but don’t sacrifice your life and put your goals and aspirations on hold for a situation you didn’t want to be in from the jump
I'm 20 year old black man about to have my first child in about end of April with my baby mother I'm already being called a deadbeat I truly by myseld when u said nobody cares I'm crying bro I feel worthless I work constantly Im homeless she took my crib away
I been there find your worth through you and your legacy , fight all you can for your child, this is your legacy you’re dynasty, your future , past and present self will love you because of it. It’s the greatest choice I made and I’m all the more better with myself my love life, finances and the life of my child
I've never heard anyone speak straight facts in the way you do my brutha, the only real man I've ever heard of in my life. You are going places my man and the world can learn a lot from you 🤙🤙🤙🤙 keep puttin the cold hard truth out there 🇺🇲
@@DukeTre Word be careful what you say my friend at the word of the great messiah be careful what you wish for because you just might get it.My mans you need to learn to grow tf up and realize that you just don’t joke about shit like that,a lot of individuals grew up in fatherless homes Bruh and someday you might wanna talk to your daughter.She may forgive you but then she might not wanna reconnect with you fam.
@@MrPhresh25 you don’t know what you’re talking about. I’m actually hanging with my daughter right now. How bout you follow your “messiahs”words and worry about yourself unknown man with no picture
@@DukeTre Hahahaha ok whatever so called high valued conscious man ok whatever I mean it ain’t like you can solve the black communities problems tough guy whatever I mean apparently guys like stephiscold and other UA-camrs actually speak on topics that you can’t speak about.I see you must feel some type of way despite what you said young sir ok keep telling people what they wanna hear I doubt it makes sense mr so called high value man like your the only person we can get advice from fam.Boy bye and pass stick to staying in your lane and looking in the mirror before talking.Do what Michael Jackson said and be that man in the mirror honey boo boo.
great, so you can buy stuff for them. BIG DEAL. money doesn’t matter. i have many friends that have fathers like this and it’s the same as if they didn’t exist at all. the money doesn’t matter more than the relationship does. you can’t buy your child’s love. maybe as a young kid but that shit ain’t gonna last long.
Lol you are very much inexperienced in life. Live on your own and pay some bills and then tell me "It's better off if they didnt exist at all". I lived with a Single mom with a present dad who didn't have money. I can tell you never went through any struggles in life lol. You could learn something from me young one
@@DukeTre Back a year later... Listen you can write me off for being young or whatever you want to infer about me from my presence on this app. However you don't know nothing about me, what I've been through, or what I know. I grew up with a married single mom, to single mom and deadbeat father who has put me through all types of bs. In my last comment I was telling you some valuable truth but I see you have something in common with my father, you're not able to take it. Instead you refer to being negative, gaslighting, and all of the above. I hope God helps you but more importantly your child(ren) and their healing from a person like you. Cause I know what its like dealing with toxic fathers like you and its not easy.
Ok I was agreeing with you but even if you don’t like the child mom ,? The child will want you to be there , your kids will definitely resent you in the end , you should atleast give the kids a chance cuz it’s not there Fault they mom was irresponsible
Responsibility and accountability and ownership should be with the men of today.Be there for your family and kids and don’t validate and condone single fathers for leaving your kids.
@@Marco_Saitama Word this guys the definition of an emotional narcissist only condoning and justifying other fathers to see their kids only when they feel like it and not tell them the importance of a father figure sad rag tag world we live smh.I mean of course it’s the fathers fault if they leave out on their families but don’t come back around to see your son and daughter on their 17th or 18th birthday expecting them to reconnect with you like nah fam scratch that.You left them for 15 or 18 yrs you damn sure do not deserve any kinda appreciation think about it,all the school plays,parent teacher conferences,birthdays and cookouts you missed out on,your wife having to raise two kids by herself and the fact that her kids get made fun of for having a single mom that shits not funny rather it’s tragic😒😒😒😒😔😔😔.Niggas like him need to learn to grow tf up and talk about how important it is to have a father figure in your life as opposed to glorifying deadbeat fathers out there.So a mans kids and wife have every right to be angry and upset with the father that left them.
Im about to be a dad and I’m not the least bit excited. I never wanted kids and I still don’t. It’s put me in the darkest mental place I’ve ever been in.
Been there man. Best advice is put yourself on child support and focus on you. I felt like that and people said I would change once my child was born. I still feel the same 2 1/2 years later
deadbeat broke modern woman who gets off in life off her looks. See? I can do it too. Don't get mad when you become a baby momma and some other guys do this to you. I'm simply telling you the truth so you wont be surprised. But you too hard headed
honestly it sounds like my dad watched this video after him and my mom divorced even though that was forever ago. and you know what i grew up to think of him as? a joke, a deadbeat, a liar, a man that doesn’t take responsibility. this doesn’t make me respect him but be ashamed of him and the foolishness you both share.
Depends on what state you live in... abortion ain't the law no more... you dudes in those states better strap it up or go without till you can move somewhere that she can have an abortion.
@No Idea so much for Equality. I thought woman want to be treated equal to men. If a woman can skirt out on her motherly responsibility, then so should the man. But if we’re gonna refer to a man skirting away from his fatherly responsibilities as a dead Beat Dad, then let’s be equal and refer to these dead beat Sluts who don’t want to accept their motherly responsibility as to what they are as well... Dead Beat Moms. It’s my wallet, my choice. What if the father doesn’t want the abortion and the mom goes ahead with it anyway. If it’s his child, he should have a say in the decision as well. And if the father raises the child by himself (but the mom wanted the abortion) mom still has to financially pay in as well. Thats equality !
When you choose to have sex, t g at is you stating you want to be a father. Your only control in that is not having sex. You have no control ovwr anotger persons body but you are legally responsible if you harm to another person, which is what pregnancy does.
Look, stop trying to shame him! If he doesn't want to be in his child's life, you can't force him. Putting a man in jail for being a deadbeat only further proves his point that he will not be in the child's life. I am proud of this man for standing up for himself.
@No Idea Justice? How? I guess if you want to voluntarily go to jail and spend the rest of your life there because you don't want to pay then, I agree that is a win win situation. People should simply not pay child support to be able to voluntarily go to jail. It's just easier to do.
People are always going to be in debt to the state so that's nothing new. And going to jail is beneficial to others and not to some. Also, fvzk the children. No one cares about them anyway. They should Force parents and children to spend time together and not force them to pay money only. Voluntarily going to jail is the safest thing you can do in that situation. It is Justice and fairness to go to jail for not wanting to pay child support less stress and that is the only end result that everybody wants to see.
You are an antichrist if you don't provide for your child.
A man is not a man if he is willing to deny his own child. He is wicked. Have nothing to do with the wicked.
Fathers who deny their child/children; are they going to Hell? Yes, if they do not repent.
Timothy 5:8
"But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever."
There are no unbelievers in Heaven. Go make peace with your child
What does God say about this?
1Timothy 5:8, KJV
Psalm 27:10, KJV
Ephesians 6:4, KJV
Titus 3: 10-11, KJV
Deuteronomy 31:8, KJV
Proverbs 22:6, KJV
Colossians 3:21, KJV
“So to a man who is a stranger and yet my father I say this: “Go to hell.” But, he’s already there, isn’t he?” - Lashanda Matlock
How bias
In reality if you’re paying child support you’re legally doing your part. Be there when you can but don’t sacrifice your life and put your goals and aspirations on hold for a situation you didn’t want to be in from the jump
Well said!
Doing your part by force!!!
You wanted to be in that situation when you caused that pregnancy.
I'm 20 year old black man about to have my first child in about end of April with my baby mother I'm already being called a deadbeat I truly by myseld when u said nobody cares I'm crying bro I feel worthless I work constantly Im homeless she took my crib away
I been there find your worth through you and your legacy , fight all you can for your child, this is your legacy you’re dynasty, your future , past and present self will love you because of it. It’s the greatest choice I made and I’m all the more better with myself my love life, finances and the life of my child
Couldn’t be more right, your body your choice, my life my choice.
Always remember the bond you have as a parent is the bond you create‼️ money can’t buy love
There is no child without money.
I've never heard anyone speak straight facts in the way you do my brutha, the only real man I've ever heard of in my life. You are going places my man and the world can learn a lot from you 🤙🤙🤙🤙 keep puttin the cold hard truth out there 🇺🇲
Your faughter loves TF outta you, but you just admitted you don't give a damm about her. You will need her one day. hopefully, she sees this video.
I’ll show it to her myself
@@DukeTre Word be careful what you say my friend at the word of the great messiah be careful what you wish for because you just might get it.My mans you need to learn to grow tf up and realize that you just don’t joke about shit like that,a lot of individuals grew up in fatherless homes Bruh and someday you might wanna talk to your daughter.She may forgive you but then she might not wanna reconnect with you fam.
@@MrPhresh25 you don’t know what you’re talking about. I’m actually hanging with my daughter right now. How bout you follow your “messiahs”words and worry about yourself unknown man with no picture
@@DukeTre Your daughters not gonna wanna reconnect with you in the future for you lol.
@@DukeTre Hahahaha ok whatever so called high valued conscious man ok whatever I mean it ain’t like you can solve the black communities problems tough guy whatever I mean apparently guys like stephiscold and other UA-camrs actually speak on topics that you can’t speak about.I see you must feel some type of way despite what you said young sir ok keep telling people what they wanna hear I doubt it makes sense mr so called high value man like your the only person we can get advice from fam.Boy bye and pass stick to staying in your lane and looking in the mirror before talking.Do what Michael Jackson said and be that man in the mirror honey boo boo.
great, so you can buy stuff for them. BIG DEAL. money doesn’t matter. i have many friends that have fathers like this and it’s the same as if they didn’t exist at all. the money doesn’t matter more than the relationship does. you can’t buy your child’s love. maybe as a young kid but that shit ain’t gonna last long.
Lol you are very much inexperienced in life. Live on your own and pay some bills and then tell me "It's better off if they didnt exist at all". I lived with a Single mom with a present dad who didn't have money. I can tell you never went through any struggles in life lol. You could learn something from me young one
@@DukeTre Back a year later... Listen you can write me off for being young or whatever you want to infer about me from my presence on this app. However you don't know nothing about me, what I've been through, or what I know. I grew up with a married single mom, to single mom and deadbeat father who has put me through all types of bs.
In my last comment I was telling you some valuable truth but I see you have something in common with my father, you're not able to take it. Instead you refer to being negative, gaslighting, and all of the above. I hope God helps you but more importantly your child(ren) and their healing from a person like you. Cause I know what its like dealing with toxic fathers like you and its not easy.
Yo thank you for this video I needed this you just earned a subscriber 👍
Ok I was agreeing with you but even if you don’t like the child mom ,? The child will want you to be there , your kids will definitely resent you in the end , you should atleast give the kids a chance cuz it’s not there Fault they mom was irresponsible
Responsibility and accountability and ownership should be with the men of today.Be there for your family and kids and don’t validate and condone single fathers for leaving your kids.
Eventually the kids won't want to even see the dad, other things become better
@@Marco_Saitama Word this guys the definition of an emotional narcissist only condoning and justifying other fathers to see their kids only when they feel like it and not tell them the importance of a father figure sad rag tag world we live smh.I mean of course it’s the fathers fault if they leave out on their families but don’t come back around to see your son and daughter on their 17th or 18th birthday expecting them to reconnect with you like nah fam scratch that.You left them for 15 or 18 yrs you damn sure do not deserve any kinda appreciation think about it,all the school plays,parent teacher conferences,birthdays and cookouts you missed out on,your wife having to raise two kids by herself and the fact that her kids get made fun of for having a single mom that shits not funny rather it’s tragic😒😒😒😒😔😔😔.Niggas like him need to learn to grow tf up and talk about how important it is to have a father figure in your life as opposed to glorifying deadbeat fathers out there.So a mans kids and wife have every right to be angry and upset with the father that left them.
Responsibility goes both ways they both could’ve used protection
Dummy. Why would you agree with him when you could've been that child you just defended.
Contraception is key
THANK YOU BRO! I NEEDED THIS SO BAD.
bro wants to combat the patriarchy without even knowing it 😅
Word he’s got childish ass tendencies.
How you doing beautiful.
these thoughts are what I think and plus different situations 👍 keep up the good work
Im about to be a dad and I’m not the least bit excited. I never wanted kids and I still don’t. It’s put me in the darkest mental place I’ve ever been in.
Been there man. Best advice is put yourself on child support and focus on you. I felt like that and people said I would change once my child was born. I still feel the same 2 1/2 years later
My advice is avoid child support at all cost, if you dont have to pay, dont.
You seem young, worry about that shit later in life
Men if you're really to be a father have safe sex! Get a vasectomy! Or don't have sex
It’s your fault take responsibility
Clown
deadbeat broke modern woman who gets off in life off her looks. See? I can do it too. Don't get mad when you become a baby momma and some other guys do this to you. I'm simply telling you the truth so you wont be surprised. But you too hard headed
honestly it sounds like my dad watched this video after him and my mom divorced even though that was forever ago. and you know what i grew up to think of him as? a joke, a deadbeat, a liar, a man that doesn’t take responsibility. this doesn’t make me respect him but be ashamed of him and the foolishness you both share.
I wasn’t expecting this guy to speak so much facts lol
Keep this up gang
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Depends on what state you live in... abortion ain't the law no more... you dudes in those states better strap it up or go without till you can move somewhere that she can have an abortion.
Been feeling like that 💯⏳💵
If it’s her body her choice- then it’s her child her responsibility... they can’t have it both ways!
@No Idea so much for Equality. I thought woman want to be treated equal to men. If a woman can skirt out on her motherly responsibility, then so should the man. But if we’re gonna refer to a man skirting away from his fatherly responsibilities as a dead Beat Dad, then let’s be equal and refer to these dead beat Sluts who don’t want to accept their motherly responsibility as to what they are as well... Dead Beat Moms. It’s my wallet, my choice.
What if the father doesn’t want the abortion and the mom goes ahead with it anyway. If it’s his child, he should have a say in the decision as well. And if the father raises the child by himself (but the mom wanted the abortion) mom still has to financially pay in as well. Thats equality !
Yo man 🐺🤍
When you choose to have sex, t g at is you stating you want to be a father. Your only control in that is not having sex. You have no control ovwr anotger persons body but you are legally responsible if you harm to another person, which is what pregnancy does.
Look, stop trying to shame him! If he doesn't want to be in his child's life, you can't force him. Putting a man in jail for being a deadbeat only further proves his point that he will not be in the child's life. I am proud of this man for standing up for himself.
@No Idea Justice? How? I guess if you want to voluntarily go to jail and spend the rest of your life there because you don't want to pay then, I agree that is a win win situation. People should simply not pay child support to be able to voluntarily go to jail. It's just easier to do.
People are always going to be in debt to the state so that's nothing new. And going to jail is beneficial to others and not to some. Also, fvzk the children. No one cares about them anyway. They should Force parents and children to spend time together and not force them to pay money only. Voluntarily going to jail is the safest thing you can do in that situation. It is Justice and fairness to go to jail for not wanting to pay child support less stress and that is the only end result that everybody wants to see.
Hell yeah, facts at 6:00 🔥🔥
Fr call out simps bro
Hey you have some good points
Oh snap!
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bro u wilding 💙💪
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