I’m 22 and Never Had a Girlfriend
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- Опубліковано 6 сер 2023
- Decided to share something big about myself that I’m neither ashamed nor do I feel down about. These days I’m just trying to follow my heart and discovering what it is that I want to do with myself and the places I wanna go and I know I’ll end up finding the right person for me someday. Let’s not let fear hold us back in any case. Pursue our dreams and passions and we’ll all be at our happiest and we’ll become complete when it happens. Please like share and subscribe and I’ll get back in touch soon!
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Hey guys I got an update for y’all. I actually just had my first ever date with a girl I had met on an app and it was an interesting experience though idk what my thoughts are exactly about her. I’ll just keep chatting with her and see where it goes.
Also I had mentioned in a reply that I’m not really a fan of online dating however I’ve actually changed my mind and decided to give it a chance. Even if I come across fake people or freaks I’ll also come across real people and leave out the bad ones. Let’s see if I’ll find love like this.
Edit 1/20/2024: So after a few meetups with this girl, I realize that nothing was really growing in me for her. We actually did become official for a short time and I thought feelings would grow in me if I gave it a few chances but in the end it never happened. So we’re just friends now but I’m grateful for the experience and I’ll continue to take the right path for me and find the right one for me. And this applies to you too. Just continue to have faith.
Congratulations man
Did you do the deed dude
@@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395 tell me exactly what u mean by that
@@Magulousmous ya know shag the wag
@@Magulousmousyou know exactly what he means by that lmao
I’m 24 and I’m dealing with the same thing bro. I totally agree with you, I don’t stress about it as much anymore ever since I immersed myself with the word of god. The gospel gives me peace and the patience to wait for the right person that god is going to align me with.
There you go dude. Trust in His plan and we’ll all get there.
@@Magulousmous amen bro🙏
I’m also 22 and I never had a girlfriend either
I had my first love when I was 18.. I felt like I’m in paradise! This relationship lastet about 4 years. Now I’m 38 years old and married. And whoever is reading this: I truly hope you will find the love of your life and get married one day ❤️
At 18 I payed a h00ker
That was my first love kek
Regarding closing comments - refreshing to see somebody maintain a level of purity in this crazy world. Keep your morals and best of luck finding the right girl! :-)
I'm 27 and have never had a gf. and I really feel like I'm nearing the end. I really really don't want to live the rest of my life like this.
Keep moving the right direction and it’ll happen
@@Magulousmous false hope, if he ain't Chad it's over.
Ok first join a church you like. Accept Jesus Christ is the truth and accept him as lord and savior. Then meet a girl there that is also in your same boat. I recommend not chasing women that are super pretty. Find a girl you find pretty but might not be like wow to everybody else. If you are the catch she will always love you. A girl that is very pretty you will always chase her and become needy when she stops reciprocating affection. It will work and you’ll have a devoted wife who loves the lord and will never leave you
I'm twice your age and honestly, you're far better off not messing around with women...I wish I were as smart as you at that age as it would have saved me from the worst mistake of my life, marriage. Focus on yourself, work out, build your career and your wealth so you can retire early and spend the rest of your life enjoying hobbies, friends, family and slowly and under taxable limits converting all of your tax deferred retirement accounts to your Roth IRA where the money is free from taxes forever.
Cheers!
@@ElliotRodgerThe3rdyour columbine picture and username say everything I need to know
I personally know 3 people who have never had a girlfriend and they're 22 or older
Search other vids like this and you’ll find people MUCH older who haven’t had relationships ever.
And they're all very eligible, attractive dudes who have great jobs and education
@@Magulousmousand most of those people are male
@@claybonesapparently not attractive in the eyes of women.
I know one
dealing with this at 36
cases like you anger and depress me a lot, because its a reminder that, its more common for men than for women to go far, late into adulthood and to have always been alone, never dated, due to the unfairness of men always having to make the first move and do the pursuing, asking out, etc.
When you put it that way it seems women take it as a rule for men to always make the first move rather than women.
yes, i am speaking of my lifelong hatred of how guys, men, have always been expected to make the first move and talk to women first, ask them out first, initiate things, that gender dynamic is no doubt why its more common for men than for women to reach a certain age, decade, and to have always been alone, single, never dated, or still a virgin@@Magulousmous
@@initiatorhater0688 my dad’s first wife actually made the first move. There’s an example of what you want to happen more.
did she ask him out first?@@Magulousmous
@@initiatorhater0688 yep
Investing in hobbies like playing basketball and spending time in nature such activities helped me in some ways
Good story bro! 😋
I just found this video today but I'm totally with you on the idea of waiting till marriage. Never dated or done anything intimate with a woman my age, and I've got a few years on you (will be 25 in a few months). Would like to have a family as well but in the mean time I'll try to take being single as a gift. I think the most important thing to do in life is pursue God, and if it's in his will for you to marry and have a family, you will meet the right woman in due time.
I do strongly believe it is His will for me to find my soulmate, marry her, and have kids. I pray for it all the time.
There's plenty of time but at the same time don't let so much time go by that you find yourself left behind and wanting. Start by being friends with women. With that foundation it gets very easy to move into dating and relationships. Good luck brother.
Thx man and good luck to you as well.
Then you just get friendzoned.
Exactly hahahahaha@@chuckcollins2349
When I met my gf a year and a half ago, when I first spoke to her, I was wearing the most bland dusty clothes I thought would make me be unattractive but she revealed to me later she was so nervous she was about to walk away. Had I not talked to her, she would've never talked to me because of her being nervous
What got you into talking with her in the first place exactly?
@@Magulousmous her looks
i assume you are still in your 20s
@@initiatorhater0688 I know this guy, ya he’s my age.
ya just a sarcastic guess, because not everyone gets to date or to be in love, have a sex life, while in their teens or early 20s, very young@@Magulousmous
Hey man I really understand this feeling and it’s rough. I haven’t had a long term girlfriend since 2020. I have kissed a girl and even had oral, but haven’t had anything since we broke up.
I worry that I will never get another girlfriend despite putting myself out there through online dating and even just talking to girls in public and to no avail.
Hey man life’s a journey and you never know what’ll come, and a new partner for you will as long as you take the right path.
Me personally I don’t feel like online dating feels right to me at all. I’d rather just go about my life and find my soulmate naturally.
You’ve had oral huh? Wonder what that’s like. Idk if that’s what I’d do cuz it sounds gross.😖
@@Magulousmous your absolutely right man. Just got to be patient and it will happen. I mean I have friends that are in similar situations and my sister will be 20 soon and she has never had a boyfriend.
I personally don’t like online dating, but around COVID it got really popular and still is so I just thought I would give it a try.
Yes I have had it 7 times all with the same girl. Without going into detail, it feels weird but really good if that makes any sense 😂
Same with me but I’m 21 I’ve always preferred being alone. I’ve only started to go out more I had no ambition really. I’m waiting for the right time focusing on my self. 💪💪
Bro, I'm ugly, and I still get girls. Your game is equally as important as your looks.
do you know how ugly guys look like?
You’re.. not ugly though?? And he never said anything his looks
I'm ugly AND creepy and still don't have trouble in this department. I'm beginning to think game is everything
@@user-s0m30n3 yea, I know I'm just saying looks isn't everything
Crazy dawg same age as you and same exact situation girls hinting that they like me and me just having no idea where to go with it
hi,im almost 19 and i have never been with somone..i could blame the village i live in..hopefully both of us will find our true love without many issues
We will dude. Find the right places for you.
@Luka_Tim.I’m waiting till marriage not really just for religious reasons but other reasons.
35 here, in addition with no family or close friends. Lol during covid my only human contact was at work (and it was a shitty toxic work place) and the cashier at the grocery and liquor stores. Would spend 8hrs a day doing something I hated around toxic people and come home to an empty apartment and spend the rest of the day by myself, rinse repeat for 2 years, lol.
It’s never too late to change your life around. Just find yourself and take your path and you’ll get there
Finally someome the same age and understands me!
Haha yep! Don’t worry bud you’re never alone.
Your video was very interesting, particularly that story about the babysitter. But regardng no girlfriend, seems we're part of thousands of guys on UA-cam.
Thx for watching dude. The babysitter thing was quite an experience for me but it’s behind me forever. Glad to know as well that none of us are alone.
I'm 42. Never have asked a girl on a date (ironically a few girls have asked me out, but I was able to be strong and say no).
I was MGTOW before it was cool.
Life if too short for relationships.
So you're just not into women? Mgtow seems a bit silly, normally for men who hate women or men who can't get women.
I have met amazing women and most of my friends are women and good people.
My previous exes are great people I can't say anything bad just either drifted apart or I move away.
I'm with a lovely woman now and she doesn't care about money like mgtow think women do.
U must be gay
Life is nothing without relationship .. Just surviving... And for what? It has no sense, no purpose...
@@mima5205dude it’s not a requirement in life to be in a relationship. Some people actually don’t want to be in one.
I can not love myself. The world doesn't want me to succeed. Perhaps time will change that.
Yes you can dude. Change that mindset of yours and find the right people for you to be around and you’ll get there.
Im 23 and never had someone either
You have to believe you have things to offer a woman...if you dont WORK on that...and never be wishy washy men are decisive and leaders
Well isn't this a classic case of finishing last.
Try invincible by David Tian and the ace formula by Adam Lyons
I was late getting a girlfriend.. I never had a girlfriend until I was 22… and that was due to shyness and me thinking back in college that a girl would ask me out… I hear people say that it was late getting one at 18, but 18 is a better age than 22!… Atleast your still a teenager at 18 years old.
Good that you’ve finally found love dude. Hope you guys are happy and you’ve grown for the best since those days.
@@Magulousmous thanks man. But I’m not with this girl anymore, this was back in 2020… I have had two other girlfriends since… I do wish I had one as a teenager… even if I had my first girlfriend at 18 or 19 that would of been better than 22 for sure.
@@MagulousmousWhen I was 19 I told my parents that I didn’t get a girlfriend in my old college because I was too shy to ask girls out and my dad told me “that being rejected was better than not asking at all”… and I still thought I could get a girlfriend without asking any girls out!
I have no idea why I didn’t listen to my dad at the time and took his advice… btw I’m from England, and in England college is something different to university, and you were probably thinking I meant university 😂
@@MagulousmousI know some people older than me who still never had girlfriends… and It was bothering me that I didn’t get one until 22 😂 I really need to stop worrying about not getting one as teenager.
@@jamesmoranthefascinatingyo1764 interesting stuff. Well I’m shy too depending on the circumstances. However I’m trying to find the most comfortable places in life for me to socialize and really be myself around. Just takes time and patience.
Most of us single guys have absolutely no reason at all to blame ourselves for the very big change in the women today compared to the old days when meeting a good woman back then was very real the way that are parents grandparents aunts and uncles did when they met one another. Today just to many very horrible evil rotten stuck up low life loser narcissists and feminists women that God really created these days adding to the problem. Just approaching a woman today to start a conversation with has really become very extremely dangerous for many of us guys now since we have to be very careful of sexual harassment on top of it all. Just remember guys we have no reason to blame ourselves like i mentioned already in the top of my comment. Best of luck to all of you going through this too.
Ya that’s exactly why I don’t feel comfortable having to walk up to a random woman in public and start a conversation cuz I worry they’ll think I’m trying to attack or assault her. I recently joined a new church group where I’ll be around the right people and no one will think bad of the other people there. Hopefully luck will have it in a place like this.
@@Magulousmous Wish you the best of luck. And these women nowadays feel very entitled as well since they really think they're God's gift to men, but they're not at all. Most of these women nowadays are definitely low life losers in the first place.
@@jamesdavidson676men and women are both human with their own flaws and there’s never an excuse for bad behavior in either of them. We’re equals in the relationship and if one isn’t working well in it then the relationship will fail. I’ll treat my one and only like a queen but I want us both to be equal in the relationship where we’re a team and we always hear what the other person has to say and although we’ll agree to disagree on certain things, we’ll continue to support each other and make it work as long as we love each other and want to stay with each other.
@@Magulousmous I forgot to mention that i had a woman curse at me once for no reason at all when all i said to her was good morning to hopefully get a conversation going with her. Most likely these very pathetic women like her were abused by the men that she went with in the past, or grew up with very bad abusive parents at one time that caused her to be very mean to many of us men, and i know other single men that had it happened to them too. Makes me wonder how many of these very mentally disturbed women that are out there now making it very difficult for many of us single men very seriously looking for love today. Hate being single and alone all the time which makes it very obvious why i really hate all the holidays when they come around when many of us single men really have no one to be with.
I am 22 years old and I have never had a girlfriend😉
hes LITERALLY me
So young still, so much to experience, so many things to go well and horribly wrong. Maybe you are lucky and and find that person. OOOOR not.
Just remember you have the time. You don't have to get into a relationship before your 25th or so. Also relationships are, rough, at times. So. Be warned.
And well these days, the whole dating and online dating. I have seen nicer looking burned out car wrecks. And everybody's hurt.
Iam 24 and i could never date ,i wish i can get married at 25
Im 25 and never had girlfriend but its ok if the girls not meant for me she's meant for the devil some girl comes to me and serious about being with me she was sent by God I think that makes sense my guy
Amen dude.
No excuses man. You’re good looking (facially). Get in the gym and get muscular.
How tall are you?
6’1” approximately 6’2”
13:33 yeah bro, she had every right to be upset with you haha. bragging to everyone that this girl used to thirst over you while shes in a new relationship is wild
Didn’t really know what I was really doing I suppose. Oh well it’s in the past. Live and learn.
@@Magulousmousexactly, ive also done and said things in high school i cringe at today just like anyone else. lessons learned
You do know that tee shirt with Palm Springs is one of the GAYEST PLACES ON EARTH.
I'm thirty one you ain't missing much get a dog they care more than a woman
I prefer cats🐱
Why don’t you be a cop
What for?
You are 22. Right now is not the time for proper dating.
Once you hit 28, yes, go ahead and find something serious.
But at your age. You should take advantage of the stupid ideas they have put on women's heads.
Do you think that fu a woman is something extraordinary?
it doesn't matter, you might as well be a guy who has never drank a beer or smoked a cigarette everyone has their own path in life and in the end we all end up in the same place 2 meters underground
First step: stop clicking your tongue
A golfer’s calves came to life to tell me this?
Try 25
You’re good though don’t forget it.
35 here
@@LilT2o00 I’ve found a comment in another vid saying they’re in their 50s and never had one.
@@Magulousmous That'll definitely be me, assuming I live that long lol. Who knows how many years my liver has left with the way I drink
try 31. i own a decent house, sports car (2021 IS350), i bench 225x5 at a 170 lean and have a decent physique,
This is hard to hear but even all the self improvement means nothing without social connections. I get less dates than when i was 130lbs playing call of duty for 12 hours a day. Spend your 20s wisely dating game in your 30's is brutal unless you don't mind women with kids.
U gotta looksmaxx
There’s no miracles
There’s no soulmate
U either top 10%
Or 30 year old virgin single
Lies?
Why would you think this?
That sucks for you bro but no worries your time will come
I don’t think it sucks. Only be in it for love not cuz society says I should.
I am also a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. I started going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 4 weeks ago and I am planning to study MBA next. There in the class, I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She tries to initiate conversations with me and say me hi with a smile but I just say her hi back and answer what she asks but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. Like 3 weeks ago, she actually said that I am cute and that made me blush a lot and 6 days ago I gave her chocolate too. I was really shy but with my friends being with me, I gave her the chocolate and she thanked me with a smile and we did a handshake. I do also feel a bit worried as she has 2-3 male friends in our class so I feel scared thinking what if she goes for either of them.
Also this Saturday, me and a girl who is 19 year old now planned to meet in a McDonald's near her college. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and we just have been kinda knowing each other for several months via Instagram. I have never been on a date or even a normal hang out with a girl so I am nervous. I am also worried whether she is really serious about hanging out with me on Saturday or she is joking as I just got rejected by several girls before. I am afraid that what if I mess up or something. I am hoping things will be fine and it won't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 turning 22 soon and even she agreed to meet up but she is very inactive on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages so she still haven't replied when we can exactly meet
There’s no reason to ever worry dude. All you need to do is just be yourself and start a conversation. If they don’t accept you then that’s on them not you. They’re probably nervous too so that should make both of you feel better knowing the other person is nervous too.
Just looksmaxx its that easy
How should he looksmax in your opinion
@@Little_yuerand sorry dont talk to loser normies and i would never give you the recipe
@@therealotterymilkdollarz you're all charm ain't you?
@@Little_yuerandhe should become prettyboy that’s how u get women
@@Little_yuerand nothing nice about me u prolly never felt heartbreak so how bout u shut up and be a good boy