To the letter writer, stop focusing on being good enough for your boyfriend. You are good enough. Now take the time to enrich both of your lives. Maybe cook his favorite dinner or lunch perhaps. Go for a ride and enjoy the company and the scenery. Don’t bring negative energy into your wonderful man. I was married to the most amazing man, he made my life beautiful. After 18 years of magic, I lost my husband to a heart attack. He just turned 40 and I was 39. I. Had 18 years of magic, so don’t be sad. So the negative vibes are a waste of energy, put good energy into the world and just enjoy the fact that you are “good” enough for your man. Also talk to him about your feelings and talk about your future together. Savor what you have and seal it with a kiss. He’s lucky to have a thoughtful companion. Enjoy life.
Marc, you have been missed. As always, you showed tremendous insight and compassion followed by sage advice. I know you are not a therapist but you would have made an excellent one. I look forward to future posts.
Like the advice you give. So far I agree 100% with all of the advice given so far. You seem incredibly smart and sweet, why not have your own podcast? ❤. Keep up the positivity!
Very wise advice. I’ve missed your videos and used to watch them years ago late at night when I’d get off from working a late shift. I hope you continue making videos Marc because we all enjoy them ❤
Good to see you back , Marc! Even though it's been a minute, lol, you're still giving caring & thoughtful advice unique to each situation. Please keep it going!! 🤩
I love the maturity in your answer, especially at 5:59. Yes, I think the writer is probably a good guy too, but nobody gave him enough reasons or confidence to feel that way.
Great advice. Communicate is always important. I think this kind of issue is very similar to imposter’s syndrome. Maybe he can use suggestions on how to cope with that to help his situation.
Hey Marc. I am really glad to see you back making videos here and also givng out helpful advice, they are a pleasure to watch and I can say that they have helped sometimes with me giving advice to other and I have even told them to give them a watch themselves. I hope that you find the time to continue to make them. Take care of yourself, stay amazing
Hiya Marc! After last binging all of your insightful & wholesome LGBT videos the past few months- I've since come out (a huge part of it thanks to you) and feel greater-happier than ever! Bottom line, nice to see you back here, hoping to catch more of you. I appreciate you~
Please listen to Marc. The biggest problem is that because you are fixated on him leaving you, You may subconsciously be pushing him away. Self prophecy. Making things that you dread happen. Do as Marc suggests and you will realise that you are the best thing that ever happened to your partner.❤
You were my gay fairy teaching me how to go through my gay life. I used to follow several of your advices while discovering my own life. So glad to see you're back.
good to see you ..Its really hard out there w/ the Internet especially ..all the cam bodies, models , etc being all over the Net I am near 50 and in our culture its proverbial death which adds to it ..I'm tredging along but its not looking good lol
I've never been good enough for anyone. It's probably safe to say that I've never actually dated anyone. At best I've been just a stepping stone. So, being with anyone for any extended period of time must mean that there is something there that is worth sticking around for. I know what it's like to not be good enough and believe me, he would have not invested that time with this guy unless there was a reason to.
Gurl 😂 the amount of times marc repeated two years 😂😂😂 i mustve missed ot beacuse i thought he was going to say two weeks as i was so empathetic to the writers concern. "2 Years" 😂😂😂 but we get it i get it. People change time changes people.
"not good enough" - so abusive thought, what is it mean? does it mean that your bf "good enough" for u? what will be if he lose opportunity to maintain all this stuff, which make him "good enough"? that guy definitely need to care about mental health
Did he word this in a way that he meant for sure that it was cuz he didn't feel like he was worth it? Or did he mean he didn't feel good enough health-wise? Because that's my current thing that I struggle with whether or not I want to get involved with somebody. You're not because my health is very poor. I've run into a lot of problems as I've gotten older and I'm not quite sure that I would want to bring somebody into my life when I'm in the condition that I'm in. I don't think it would be fair to them. Do you have to deal with everything that I go through on a daily basis so I was just curious if it was a? He didn't feel like he was good enough as a person or if he didn't even feel good like he was sick
OMG i wish I could talk about what's happening in my relationship we are 5yrs in all I can say is just doesn't understand my mental disabilities he knows I'm bipolar he knows I'm narcissistic he knows I have ADHD and I have a memory loss I went to roll my car into a telephone pole so it rolled into it and wrapped it scar on my brain there I was 93 in 2004 I'm out of Sears stores getting tires changed on my car my friend replace my tires for me we go out and smoke a cigarette and come back in and it's been drizzling there was no wet floor sign I didn't see it I don't remember I fell in my head face first on a concrete floor went into a seizure mode evidently I come out of the season because I asked how do I come to Mercy Hospital and not the closest one and they said because you said Mercy oh okay I don't remember either one of the accident or the slip and fall but that put two scars on my brain I was already had genetics going on here mentally sorry guys and gals I'm an open book I don't care who knows that's just the way I am I don't like to lie I might not tell someone right up front everything I will tell them what I got the disability for that's bipolar the rest will come in later but I guess you live and learn but I can't discuss anything that's going on because he if I irritated angry me for talking to my sister about what's going on in our relationship but I have nowhere else to go and I just got back on most of the meds that I used to be on before I had to move back to the east coast I lived in Wisconsin with my best friend I was as caregiver who died of a massive heart attack on December 9th 2017 that was a rough night I'll never forget it the landlord is bringing in a lease for me for my own apartment I couldn't stay in the building cuz I did not have the disease he had to live in that building I don't want to see what disease but you have to be have a certain illness to get into this building cuz the guy who owned the property had his illness and he made it for those people the United States month out since the month's rent already paid so I left Madison Wisconsin on December 31st 2017 and went back to Baltimore and it took me to get to Ohio and I went through four neurologist to finally get to one who said yes diazepam does stop seizures before they even start if you're taking it on a daily basis I found this out after my second panic attack I'm in the emergency room in the nurse asked me what are you taking diazepam for I said racing thoughts and anxiety cuz you take it for anything else and I said no cuz I see you suffer from seizures yes have you had any no I said you want to know why I said why could you be taking diazepam on a daily basis for 2003 and the current neurologist I'm with he agreed with keep me on it 5 mg every 3 days but I told him if I have a panic attack I'm taking one if I can't fall asleep I'm taking one because it's the only thing that you know put me to sleep when I can't fall asleep I used to be on 10 mg diazepam four times a day 3 during the day and one at night I was on a hefty Hefty medication for my anger and sleep it was causing issues in my blood work so we had to come off of it and we had to find something to replace it with so my doctor just had another diazepam to the list but now I'm on 5 mg one every 3 days unless of a panic attack or can't sleep I'm not back on the right pain medication I was on when I left Wisconsin but I'm almost there and I got my ADHD medicine bag finally thank you Jesus I went through a four and a half hour test to prove that I have ADHD for the second time in my life he's good about taking providing the roof over my head I do pay for things that I can I paid two cars off neither one of them were in my name I got the receipts for those cars in my name so I don't know what else to do I don't have no one to turn to to talk to this except for my sister I love a heart she adopted me when we first met but I'm going to shut up because I just deleted 10 minutes worth of talking I am a talker that's probably my biggest failure I don't know I don't have anyone to talk to and I cannot afford to pay for insurance I have Medicare Medicaid United Healthcare and everybody's getting in on the mental health these days that's why there's no therapist available cuz everybody and their brother is getting therapy I think those that have a permanent disability should get priority put one shows up for the first time moving to the state they should say he gets moved to the front of the line cuz I'm permanently disabled permanently what do I do if anyone tell me I would love to tell more but nobody has enough time for that thank you forever reads a God bless you
@@MarcDylanthe police and the med com have me heavily profiled. How can I obtain dick. Everywhere they interface and interfere. They want me on meds and tranquilizers diminish my performance and marginalizes my health.
Stepping away from social media helps me manage inferiority complex. Mine crops up about femininity but this energy is my own and no one else’s. Thank you for continuing to bring conversations to the table. 🫶🏽✨🌈
Glad to see you posting again Marc.
More to come!
@@MarcDylangreat!!! I ❤❤❤ your videos
To the letter writer, stop focusing on being good enough for your boyfriend. You are good enough. Now take the time to enrich both of your lives. Maybe cook his favorite dinner or lunch perhaps. Go for a ride and enjoy the company and the scenery. Don’t bring negative energy into your wonderful man. I was married to the most amazing man, he made my life beautiful. After 18 years of magic, I lost my husband to a heart attack. He just turned 40 and I was 39. I. Had 18 years of magic, so don’t be sad. So the negative vibes are a waste of energy, put good energy into the world and just enjoy the fact that you are “good” enough for your man. Also talk to him about your feelings and talk about your future together. Savor what you have and seal it with a kiss. He’s lucky to have a thoughtful companion. Enjoy life.
You should be a therapist my friend; you always have the best advice 👏🏻👏🏻 Happy to see you posting again
Marc, you have been missed. As always, you showed tremendous insight and compassion followed by sage advice. I know you are not a therapist but you would have made an excellent one. I look forward to future posts.
Thank you 🙏🏼
It's so nice to have you back on UA-cam. Also such wonderful advice to hear from a kind soul within the community. Take care.
Aww thank u. Good to be back!
I can't believe you're back!!! Thank you so much dear 😗💟
Thank you for watching!
I still remember seeing you in person in NYC!.!.
Marc you always delight me. You’re very considerate and articulate. I imagine you’d be a great friend. Thank you for your insights and compassion 🤗
Thank you Marc for the insight and positive thoughts.
We are sure glad your back.
Much appreciated!
its really good seeing u Marc Dylan and love ur videos btw, its so hard to find a good man its like a needle a hay stack!
Like the advice you give. So far I agree 100% with all of the advice given so far. You seem incredibly smart and sweet, why not have your own podcast? ❤. Keep up the positivity!
OMG. I miss your videos on the UA-cam.
Definitely glad to see you back on UA-cam but especially happy to experience that positive energy you exude, thank you☺️😎🌈
Very wise advice. I’ve missed your videos and used to watch them years ago late at night when I’d get off from working a late shift. I hope you continue making videos Marc because we all enjoy them ❤
Good to see you back , Marc! Even though it's been a minute, lol, you're still giving caring & thoughtful advice unique to each situation. Please keep it going!! 🤩
I appreciate that! Good to be back
@@MarcDylan ☺
OMG! You were gone for so long I thought you were dead at this point. Good to see you're back. 😊
I love the maturity in your answer, especially at 5:59. Yes, I think the writer is probably a good guy too, but nobody gave him enough reasons or confidence to feel that way.
Great advice. Communicate is always important. I think this kind of issue is very similar to imposter’s syndrome. Maybe he can use suggestions on how to cope with that to help his situation.
I love how sincere your advices ❤
Just glad to see you posting again !
Hey Marc.
I am really glad to see you back making videos here and also givng out helpful advice, they are a pleasure to watch and I can say that they have helped sometimes with me giving advice to other and I have even told them to give them a watch themselves.
I hope that you find the time to continue to make them.
Take care of yourself, stay amazing
Makes my day so much brighter now that i see you’re back on UA-cam. Sending you lots of love
So great to see you posting again, fantastic! Sure I missed you here on UA-cam.❤
It is so enjoyable to listen to your advice sessions Marc. You are a treasure!😍
Thank you! 😃
so happy that you’re back, this upload made my day
So glad to hear your voice again and see you posting on here. You also have an amazing X page! You are amazing!
Please don't stop posting.... I really like your videos!!
@MarcDylan Marc I love your journey back to social media its good to see you back here and twitter
thanks for you posting. Nice to see you again.
Hiya Marc! After last binging all of your insightful & wholesome LGBT videos the past few months-
I've since come out (a huge part of it thanks to you) and feel greater-happier than ever!
Bottom line, nice to see you back here, hoping to catch more of you. I appreciate you~
Thank you. That makes me really happy to hear 🙏🏼
Excellent advise, Marc!!!
Miss your handsome face stud!! 🤩😘
Helped me with a similar situation, thanks
Glad it helped
Welcome back to UA-cam! It's refreshing to see you posting again.
Great to see you back on UA-cam Marc!!! Still look as handsome as ever. Great subject \ messaging in you video today!! Thank you.
Please listen to Marc.
The biggest problem is that because you are fixated on him leaving you, You may subconsciously be pushing him away.
Self prophecy.
Making things that you dread happen.
Do as Marc suggests and you will realise that you are the best thing that ever happened to your partner.❤
Great answer, Marc! For me, it was useful to listen to.
So great to have you back, Marc ❤
It’s good to see you making videos again.
My eternal crush!
Omg! I can't believe you are Posting again!
You were my gay fairy teaching me how to go through my gay life. I used to follow several of your advices while discovering my own life. So glad to see you're back.
good to see you ..Its really hard out there w/ the Internet especially ..all the cam bodies, models , etc being all over the Net I am near 50 and in our culture its proverbial death which adds to it ..I'm tredging along but its not looking good lol
I've never been good enough for anyone. It's probably safe to say that I've never actually dated anyone. At best I've been just a stepping stone. So, being with anyone for any extended period of time must mean that there is something there that is worth sticking around for. I know what it's like to not be good enough and believe me, he would have not invested that time with this guy unless there was a reason to.
good to see you again on UA-cam Marc...
Great to see you again! 👍❤️🤩
HI! i'm happy you're back. I missed your content
You're back !!! :D
Nice you’re back to posting 😊
Yay, you're back.
so interesting a cute single guy not being in a relationship! ☺️welcome back ❤
Nice to see you again. ❤
Sweet ❤
He's back!
Good to see you again
This was so sweet
So happy to see you 🖤🙈
We miss you and please don’t stay away form us again ❤❤❤
looking delicious
Hear hear!!!
🙏❤️
YAY MORE MARC
Gurl 😂 the amount of times marc repeated two years 😂😂😂 i mustve missed ot beacuse i thought he was going to say two weeks as i was so empathetic to the writers concern. "2 Years" 😂😂😂 but we get it i get it. People change time changes people.
How do i submit a question. I really want to submit a question anonymously
"not good enough" - so abusive thought, what is it mean? does it mean that your bf "good enough" for u? what will be if he lose opportunity to maintain all this stuff, which make him "good enough"? that guy definitely need to care about mental health
They could always downgrade ..
😮😢
Did he word this in a way that he meant for sure that it was cuz he didn't feel like he was worth it? Or did he mean he didn't feel good enough health-wise? Because that's my current thing that I struggle with whether or not I want to get involved with somebody. You're not because my health is very poor. I've run into a lot of problems as I've gotten older and I'm not quite sure that I would want to bring somebody into my life when I'm in the condition that I'm in. I don't think it would be fair to them. Do you have to deal with everything that I go through on a daily basis so I was just curious if it was a? He didn't feel like he was good enough as a person or if he didn't even feel good like he was sick
UA-cam really wants me to see your video.
OMG i wish I could talk about what's happening in my relationship we are 5yrs in all I can say is just doesn't understand my mental disabilities he knows I'm bipolar he knows I'm narcissistic he knows I have ADHD and I have a memory loss I went to roll my car into a telephone pole so it rolled into it and wrapped it scar on my brain there I was 93 in 2004 I'm out of Sears stores getting tires changed on my car my friend replace my tires for me we go out and smoke a cigarette and come back in and it's been drizzling there was no wet floor sign I didn't see it I don't remember I fell in my head face first on a concrete floor went into a seizure mode evidently I come out of the season because I asked how do I come to Mercy Hospital and not the closest one and they said because you said Mercy oh okay I don't remember either one of the accident or the slip and fall but that put two scars on my brain I was already had genetics going on here mentally sorry guys and gals I'm an open book I don't care who knows that's just the way I am I don't like to lie I might not tell someone right up front everything I will tell them what I got the disability for that's bipolar the rest will come in later but I guess you live and learn but I can't discuss anything that's going on because he if I irritated angry me for talking to my sister about what's going on in our relationship but I have nowhere else to go and I just got back on most of the meds that I used to be on before I had to move back to the east coast I lived in Wisconsin with my best friend I was as caregiver who died of a massive heart attack on December 9th 2017 that was a rough night I'll never forget it the landlord is bringing in a lease for me for my own apartment I couldn't stay in the building cuz I did not have the disease he had to live in that building I don't want to see what disease but you have to be have a certain illness to get into this building cuz the guy who owned the property had his illness and he made it for those people the United States month out since the month's rent already paid so I left Madison Wisconsin on December 31st 2017 and went back to Baltimore and it took me to get to Ohio and I went through four neurologist to finally get to one who said yes diazepam does stop seizures before they even start if you're taking it on a daily basis I found this out after my second panic attack I'm in the emergency room in the nurse asked me what are you taking diazepam for I said racing thoughts and anxiety cuz you take it for anything else and I said no cuz I see you suffer from seizures yes have you had any no I said you want to know why I said why could you be taking diazepam on a daily basis for 2003 and the current neurologist I'm with he agreed with keep me on it 5 mg every 3 days but I told him if I have a panic attack I'm taking one if I can't fall asleep I'm taking one because it's the only thing that you know put me to sleep when I can't fall asleep I used to be on 10 mg diazepam four times a day 3 during the day and one at night I was on a hefty Hefty medication for my anger and sleep it was causing issues in my blood work so we had to come off of it and we had to find something to replace it with so my doctor just had another diazepam to the list but now I'm on 5 mg one every 3 days unless of a panic attack or can't sleep I'm not back on the right pain medication I was on when I left Wisconsin but I'm almost there and I got my ADHD medicine bag finally thank you Jesus I went through a four and a half hour test to prove that I have ADHD for the second time in my life he's good about taking providing the roof over my head I do pay for things that I can I paid two cars off neither one of them were in my name I got the receipts for those cars in my name so I don't know what else to do I don't have no one to turn to to talk to this except for my sister I love a heart she adopted me when we first met but I'm going to shut up because I just deleted 10 minutes worth of talking I am a talker that's probably my biggest failure I don't know I don't have anyone to talk to and I cannot afford to pay for insurance I have Medicare Medicaid United Healthcare and everybody's getting in on the mental health these days that's why there's no therapist available cuz everybody and their brother is getting therapy I think those that have a permanent disability should get priority put one shows up for the first time moving to the state they should say he gets moved to the front of the line cuz I'm permanently disabled permanently what do I do if anyone tell me I would love to tell more but nobody has enough time for that thank you forever reads a God bless you
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Can we have an only fans
Probably soon 😀
@@MarcDylanthe police and the med com have me heavily profiled. How can I obtain dick. Everywhere they interface and interfere. They want me on meds and tranquilizers diminish my performance and marginalizes my health.
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You’re tired. Give it up, no one in the business even remembers you:😞!!
Stepping away from social media helps me manage inferiority complex. Mine crops up about femininity but this energy is my own and no one else’s. Thank you for continuing to bring conversations to the table. 🫶🏽✨🌈