It breaks my heart that men often take out their anger on the women who stand before them with love 💗 The healing is in the arms of God and the very women they forsake… it just take a little courage to reach out and claim that love ❤️ Thank you Pastor for this message! 💖🙏🏼
This hit home. Women have anger issues too that need to be processed. So many folks are either experiencing anger or have been witness/victim of it. Please try to process it. Its not worth the hell you put others/yourself through and it will destroy you and your loved ones.
God gave you a wonderful voice. Thank you for using it to heal humanity. Most male programs are filthy from the pit of hell. So many in bondage of ignorance. God bless you all! Wise council. 💜
Long ago, I memorized this verse and it has helped stabilize me a few times. Ephesians 4:26 “Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath.”
🙏 God bless u sir am 37 from Ghana since i started following u things r getting better thanks ,am single now i play that God should bless me with a good woman to marred 🙏
This is so good. I really wish I could share this with the narcissistic man who broke me down emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. I know he has demons and childhood wounds, but trauma only explains behavior, it does not excuse it. I hope your content comes across his UA-cam feed Pastor. I pray he finds the Lord and accepts Him first and foremost, then everything else will fall in line. Thank you for this 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️♥️
I’m glad I saw this ppl pls keep me an my children in prayer pls im crying out for help I left Florida two days ago on an emergency because of a dv relationship with a narcissist an I had a child with him he told me over my dead body I was mot going to take her the laws in Florida an nyc are different as soon as I got off that plane I went straight to court an now they are giving me a hard time saying I have to go back to Florida to fight for her I am desperate wanting my baby girl where she belongs I can’t sleep or think straight I need all the prayers to cancel every plan an lie of the enemy 🙏🏼💔😪
Hi RC. I have learned that men end up getting their anger from how they were raised and treated personally. My husband has an anger streak where he has anger that doesnt match the situation. He says he never saw his dad treat his mom anyway but kind and gentle. But his father did not treat him and hos siblings kind and gently. He treated them with coldness, and emotional detachment where his father did not say words of affirmatiin, or love, only criticism, sarcasm and ridicule and discipline. Once he told me how he remembwr when his father tore into his sister verbally when she did not clean up the house in a way he liked by the time he got home. Well, it turns out that my husbands observation of how his father treated his mother, did not actually help him treat me like that. That did not transfer over to him in how he treats me at times. What did transfer over to him was how his father treated him and his siblings. His sister ince told me that she thought their father was verbally abusive. We are now in counseling and have had many talks between ourselves about how he has carried on in his fathers treatment of him, toward me and our children and how that has to change. I think realization is the first step, and then aftually accepting and confessing that it is wrong is the second step. Researching where toxic anger comes frim is next step and finally actually seeking help for tools of how to contril it and change internally.
"Anger"......is one letter away from "Danger".....God wants to "Heal" All of Our "Hurts" God is the Great Physician....Cry Out to God he is "Waiting" to Help All of Us........
"HERE'S A GREAT HEALING MESSAGE FOR OUR MEN, WHO ARE DEALING WITH ANGER, AND UNCONTROLLED ISSUES" ... "PLEASE LISTEN, AND LEARN, AND GET THE DESERVING HEALING THAT YOU NEED, SO THAT YOU CAN BEGIN TO HEAL, AND PASTOR RC, YOUR DELIVERY WAS TRULY "OUTSTANDING", INDEED, AS ALWAYS!!!" ... BLESSINGS ALWAYS, YOUR SISTER IN CHRIST & YOUR HEART LISTENING FAN, MS. DEBORAH J. STEELE - 12/18/23 & BEYOND" ...
Thank you, sir, for this video and all your videos. My wife introduced me to your videos while we were dating, and it has helped me tremendously. I'm a better husband, servant to God, father, and brother thanks to God using you.
I needed to hear this. Even As a woman who had been hurting and hanging onto anger for a long time. I will send this to my father also. Thank you Pastor. ❤
Keep me in prayers and my children I pls ppl of God I am desperate in need of help with a narcissist that is keeping my child from me I’m fighting to get her back in every way pray pls pray 🙏🏼
Great message. A lot of men need to hear this. I was angry with my father for not being there, but when I receive my relationship with God, I have forgiven him. And I get it some men need to learn it's not all about them when God gifted you children and grandchildren. Their lives will be a lot easier my father blamed his mother for having other children, because he was the only child for years. Mine you he is 78 yrs. old and still set in his ways.
While listening, I cried several times. The fool man threw me away. I don't feel so good about the investment I made there. I kept telling him when he hurts me he hurts himself. He refused to listen & even told me I was toxic. I'm trying to heal & I sent this talk to him. TY
Anger and violence have been handed down like an unwanted inheritance. So much to the point that it has become the norm for most males. It's so easy to mismanage these emotions as so many of us have never been shown how to process our anger. It's no excuse to be angry, violent, and or a theat to women and society. Until we do our due diligence and get help to manage our emotions, anger will only consume us as males.
@Simply_JustKim The fall started with pride and hubris, thinking we know better than the being that created us. Cain slew Abel, because his pride was hurt and he was embarrassed that God did not regard his offering.
His intro reminds me of back in the day radio station late night called “the quite storm” power 99 FM wow that’s nostalgic like no other I am a 38yr old mother from Philly and when I was younger that was the groove to put you right on down to sleep well I was going to sleep from it I can only imagine what the teenagers and adults was doing 😂
Good evening Bishop Blakes this video is the truth I winded up marrying a narcisisst who has anger always upset I left him and working on filing my divorce papers, my oldest son is angry at his father for a lot of words and empty promises please pray for him and my other children in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏
My father was an amazing father never knew his father , raised by a bitter mother. She loved her son . But God , my dad asked God to show him how to be a good person, a loving husband and a great father . He wanted to teach his children all the blessings he himself didn’t have. Yes my Father my dad was passionate, nurturing, caring and a great mentor to his family. Amazing So yes to all the men that did not have your father in your life you can become the best dad ever.
Thanks for this. This will be the last video I will comment under [including other channels as well]. For a while or forever. I’m over typing. Stay blessed up, all. 🙏🏼
Thanks Pastor RC, although this was intended for men, this message has been really insightful for me esp with understanding why some men respond or behave in peculiar ways. God bless ❤
Praise God for softening our hearts and showing us our true colors! I therefore bind one to acknowledge and process one's anger a healthy way while binding to hell one denying and not processing one's anger a healthy way in my life , the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone denying and not processing one's anger a healthy way, in accordance with this word and 1 timothy 2:8, colossians 3:18-21, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!
Your father was an amazing man who chose life in his living. When it seem that many men who didn’t know or have their father seem like they can’t move forward in life due to their father and not think like your father in way or manner to make life good no matter what. This also goes for women. Many of them are angry for the same reasons. Some men and women had fathers who did so much abuse that they’d wish the never met their abuse parent. Life.
Hello Godly Dad! I gotta be honest but I don’t think I want to marry or have children no more! I been in abusive relationship after abusing relationship. I’m tired exhausted and drained. I can’t do it no more. I don’t have the energy or the hope anymore! I rather be alone and whole then go thru any of it for one more second! 😢😢
Sadly I was his friend for years before we tried having a relationship. I got the broken, angry, man who is now bitter and in his own words despises God. I could not love him enough to help him heal and I had to end it for my own mental and emotional health because while I know what happened to make him feel the way he does, he had no right to take it out on my. I am praying for God to soften his heart. I will always love him, but thank God for helping me get strong enough to realize I needed to walk away and let God handle it. 🙏
I HAD SUBSCRIBED TO HIS CHANNEL A FEW YEARS AGO,AN DIDN'T GET TO LISTEN BECAUSE I WAS BUSY NOT PRODUCING ANY FRUIT, NOW IM DIVORCE, AN CAN SEE,I HAD BEEN SOUL-TIDE TO THIS PERSON, AN REALLY DIDNT HAVE LOVE,IN OUR MARRIAGE, THANK GOD FOR THIS GENTLEMAN HOPEFULLY I CAN LEARN MORE TO GET PASS THIS HARD TIME.
I believe this is why the family court in many countries decides to place the children (after divorce) into the care of the mother. The children are physically or even mentally safer in the hands of mothers because we can process anger faster than men. We will choose to nurture rather than hold onto negative feelings. - generally speaking.
That can be true in some instances. But not for the most part. I'm a single mother and my children do not have the traits of criminals. I guide them in a God fearing home, with Holy Spirits help.. let's see what happens when they grow up what happens and I will get back to you 😊
Idk, unpopular opinion: I don't want to cry, I want to yell. I have never once in my life experienced anger when I wasn't on some level hurt. I recognize that my anger produces unwanted consequences occasionally but if I need to listen to a woman cry and be gentle, no problem there by the way, why do I need to constantly be berated because I'm not feeling hurt or small "correctly"? Why is the conversation always about me being mad instead of what made me angry? Not an original thought, I'm aware but I feel like it goes deeper. Setting boundaries is great and emotional maturity is clearly better but anger is also a friend. Anger is a call to action and anger is an alarm. A lot of times I don't even know what I'm mad about because the messaging from society and my own mind can be so contradictory. How am I supposed to be all calm and logical when my inner environment is one of turmoil and the yelling releases the pressure so I can have some space to think and actually be logical. I've taken to yelling, "Just let me be angry! I'm not angry AT anything! I'm just angry, let me fail!", my wife has known me a long time... (I like to fail because it shows that I'm up to something new, I don't expect to be good at things that I'm bad at without some frustrating and maddening failures along the way) *sighhhh* I don't even remember what I was talking about...I think I just calmed down. That's the point I'm trying to make I guess...just get mad but retain your consciousness within it, don't get mad like a boy. Get mad like a man, yell but remain present, don't give in and disappear into the heat of it all. Be a man, get mad then make a plan. The anger will tell you how if you listen. (Yeah, I know that can sound a little lame but it's a truth for me...not there yet but working on it.) For me, not letting other people use my anger against me has been the biggest thing to overcome. People will use that shit to disarm you, don't let people stop you from defending yourself, as an aside.
Just as Zipporah protected Moses from the Lord who sought to kill Moses, we women can intervene and indeed like Zipporah, we can save our men from the wrath of our God.
Who else hit the like button as soon as the video started cause you already know RC gonna give us some good life nuggets!!?? ❤🎤👏🏽💯💪🏽🥰
I absolutely did!!
✅✨ Bishop is on it!!!
Yesssss ✅💯
Always ❤️🙏🏽✨
Each and everytime! Always dropping gems 💎 🙌🏽♥️🙏🏽
Anger in woman is emotional. A man Anger turns into WRATH, Criminal action. The man has to change it.
Awesome SON, Awesome BROTHER, Awesome HUSBAND, Awesome FATHER, Awesome PASTOR, "AWESOME KING" His Name is RC Blakes❤❤❤
It breaks my heart that men often take out their anger on the women who stand before them with love 💗
The healing is in the arms of God and the very women they forsake… it just take a little courage to reach out and claim that love ❤️
Thank you Pastor for this message! 💖🙏🏼
Yes. Been there
Anger is not Christ like.
Finding a man in church is no guarantee Ladies.
This hit home. Women have anger issues too that need to be processed. So many folks are either experiencing anger or have been witness/victim of it. Please try to process it. Its not worth the hell you put others/yourself through and it will destroy you and your loved ones.
God gave you a wonderful voice. Thank you for using it to heal humanity. Most male programs are filthy from the pit of hell. So many in bondage of ignorance. God bless you all! Wise council. 💜
Many young men need to hear this message.
My brother hasn't spoken to my mother in years because of everything you are talking about.
😢 I pray my adult kids don’t do me the same. I realize I didn’t put this first all the time.
Long ago, I memorized this verse and it has helped stabilize me a few times. Ephesians 4:26 “Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath.”
🙏 God bless u sir am 37 from Ghana since i started following u things r getting better thanks ,am single now i play that God should bless me with a good woman to marred 🙏
Thank you for saying if you love your child you won’t abuse their mother 🙏🏾
YES, YES & YES
This is so good. I really wish I could share this with the narcissistic man who broke me down emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. I know he has demons and childhood wounds, but trauma only explains behavior, it does not excuse it. I hope your content comes across his UA-cam feed Pastor. I pray he finds the Lord and accepts Him first and foremost, then everything else will fall in line. Thank you for this 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️♥️
Please don’t. Narcs will use, twist, flip anything you show them
Such a lovely message from you, not filled with bitterness.
I’m glad I saw this ppl pls keep me an my children in prayer pls im crying out for help I left Florida two days ago on an emergency because of a dv relationship with a narcissist an I had a child with him he told me over my dead body I was mot going to take her the laws in Florida an nyc are different as soon as I got off that plane I went straight to court an now they are giving me a hard time saying I have to go back to Florida to fight for her I am desperate wanting my baby girl where she belongs I can’t sleep or think straight I need all the prayers to cancel every plan an lie of the enemy 🙏🏼💔😪
I wish I could share it too
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽@@samanthabiancaortega4630
"From my earliest years, I knew my father loved my mother more than anything in the world". And look at the type of man RC Blakes turned out to be
Pastor RC Blake's, thank you for this message, I was married to Angry Man it was dangerous.
As a man I really needed to hear this
Hi RC. I have learned that men end up getting their anger from how they were raised and treated personally. My husband has an anger streak where he has anger that doesnt match the situation. He says he never saw his dad treat his mom anyway but kind and gentle. But his father did not treat him and hos siblings kind and gently. He treated them with coldness, and emotional detachment where his father did not say words of affirmatiin, or love, only criticism, sarcasm and ridicule and discipline. Once he told me how he remembwr when his father tore into his sister verbally when she did not clean up the house in a way he liked by the time he got home. Well, it turns out that my husbands observation of how his father treated his mother, did not actually help him treat me like that. That did not transfer over to him in how he treats me at times. What did transfer over to him was how his father treated him and his siblings. His sister ince told me that she thought their father was verbally abusive. We are now in counseling and have had many talks between ourselves about how he has carried on in his fathers treatment of him, toward me and our children and how that has to change. I think realization is the first step, and then aftually accepting and confessing that it is wrong is the second step. Researching where toxic anger comes frim is next step and finally actually seeking help for tools of how to contril it and change internally.
Well said. Have him listen to this as well.
I am so thankful to the LORD for bringing pastor Robert Blake's jr. Into this world
"Anger"......is one letter away from "Danger".....God wants to "Heal" All of Our "Hurts" God is the Great Physician....Cry Out to God he is "Waiting" to Help All of Us........
"HERE'S A GREAT HEALING MESSAGE FOR OUR MEN, WHO ARE DEALING WITH ANGER, AND UNCONTROLLED ISSUES" ... "PLEASE LISTEN, AND LEARN, AND GET THE DESERVING HEALING THAT YOU NEED, SO THAT YOU CAN BEGIN TO HEAL, AND PASTOR RC, YOUR DELIVERY WAS TRULY "OUTSTANDING", INDEED, AS ALWAYS!!!" ... BLESSINGS ALWAYS, YOUR SISTER IN CHRIST & YOUR HEART LISTENING FAN, MS. DEBORAH J. STEELE - 12/18/23 & BEYOND" ...
Teach them .....feeding their minds with contents from angry broken men.
Great video Bishop! I appreciate your wisdom throughout the years of listening to you!
Thank you Sir. 🙏🏽
Thank you! What an important message 🙏🏾
Thank you, sir, for this video and all your videos. My wife introduced me to your videos while we were dating, and it has helped me tremendously. I'm a better husband, servant to God, father, and brother thanks to God using you.
This made me smile. Thanks for that.
My Bishop ❤ we are on Top and Going Higher. Glory to God Hallelujah. So thankful for you and First Lady ❤.
I loved this message so many men are dealing with these issues and the women are suffering all because of neglect from their mothers!
I needed to hear this. Even As a woman who had been hurting and hanging onto anger for a long time. I will send this to my father also. Thank you Pastor. ❤
God bless you and I love you my brother. Thank you Sir
I gave what I wished somebody gave to me ❤ how different this world would be if people could truly think like that
Thank you Bishop for your teaching today.
Keep me in prayers and my children I pls ppl of God I am desperate in need of help with a narcissist that is keeping my child from me I’m fighting to get her back in every way pray pls pray 🙏🏼
Powerful. Thank you! They need better than talk therapy though - they need to be at men's retreats working out their stuff.
Great message. A lot of men need to hear this. I was angry with my father for not being there, but when I receive my relationship with God, I have forgiven him. And I get it some men need to learn it's not all about them when God gifted you children and grandchildren. Their lives will be a lot easier my father blamed his mother for having other children, because he was the only child for years. Mine you he is 78 yrs. old and still set in his ways.
Preach Pastor!
While listening, I cried several times. The fool man threw me away. I don't feel so good about the investment I made there. I kept telling him when he hurts me he hurts himself. He refused to listen & even told me I was toxic. I'm trying to heal & I sent this talk to him. TY
Same here. 17 years for me and we share 3 small children. Trying my best to convince myself I didn't deserve what he has done to me.
Anger and violence have been handed down like an unwanted inheritance. So much to the point that it has become the norm for most males. It's so easy to mismanage these emotions as so many of us have never been shown how to process our anger. It's no excuse to be angry, violent, and or a theat to women and society. Until we do our due diligence and get help to manage our emotions, anger will only consume us as males.
Beautiful music that prepares the soul to receive some good teaching.
God bless all the men listening to this❤
This one touched me when you talked about how much your father loved your mother. It hit me and gave me hope.
Man's greatest enemy is pride not anger.
👍
How so?
Both
@Simply_JustKim The fall started with pride and hubris, thinking we know better than the being that created us. Cain slew Abel, because his pride was hurt and he was embarrassed that God did not regard his offering.
@RCBlakesJr. I'm just saying OG even me commenting on your vid with another opinion is prideful 🤣
You can see when people are loved. Thanks for sharing
Pastor, often we hear men say, they not angry at all, being single, and or was single, they loooove living in there home this way/single.
Thank you...Help us with Anger God
Thank you this was very powerful I shared it at least 10 men I ray they watch it 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This is for everyone!!!!❤
His intro reminds me of back in the day radio station late night called “the quite storm” power 99 FM wow that’s nostalgic like no other I am a 38yr old mother from Philly and when I was younger that was the groove to put you right on down to sleep well I was going to sleep from it I can only imagine what the teenagers and adults was doing 😂
Love your awesome teachings Sir. You are my Counselor. 🙏
Teach Sir!
Great job on this topic Pastor RC! I learned something as a woman. I hope the Bruthas are listening. ❤️
Powerful🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾!!!!
Good evening Bishop Blakes this video is the truth I winded up marrying a narcisisst who has anger always upset I left him and working on filing my divorce papers, my oldest son is angry at his father for a lot of words and empty promises please pray for him and my other children in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏
That was very POWERFUL MASSAGE ❤
Thanks for the word
Amazing 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
Amen
This was on time for me today, may God continue to bless you ❤
I have alot of anger as a woman. 😢
Your honesty is refreshing. Admission is the first step to deliverance. I pray you're healed from it, in Jesus' Name. You deserve to be happy, Sis! 🙏
Thank you, and God bless ❤️🙏🏽
This was amazing!! Spot on!!! God Bless you all
Season blessings to the entire RC Blake (Jnr) & Family from the UK 🇬🇧
My father was an amazing father never knew his father , raised by a bitter mother. She loved her son . But God , my dad asked God to show him how to be a good person, a loving husband and a great father . He wanted to teach his children all the blessings he himself didn’t have.
Yes my Father my dad was passionate, nurturing, caring and a great mentor to his family.
Amazing
So yes to all the men that did not have your father in your life you can become the best dad ever.
Thanks for this. This will be the last video I will comment under [including other channels as well]. For a while or forever. I’m over typing. Stay blessed up, all. 🙏🏼
Perfect ♥️
A man's anger can turn into abuse.
Thanks Pastor RC, although this was intended for men, this message has been really insightful for me esp with understanding why some men respond or behave in peculiar ways. God bless ❤
Praise God for softening our hearts and showing us our true colors! I therefore bind one to acknowledge and process one's anger a healthy way while binding to hell one denying and not processing one's anger a healthy way in my life , the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone denying and not processing one's anger a healthy way, in accordance with this word and 1 timothy 2:8, colossians 3:18-21, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!
Thank you 😊
Excellent, thank you RC! 🙏❤️
Great video!
Wow this was deep ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
Great word Bishop may God continue to bless you 🙏🏽❤️
Thanks so much from Trinidad and Tobago ❤
Help them Lord
Your father was an amazing man who chose life in his living. When it seem that many men who didn’t know or have their father seem like they can’t move forward in life due to their father and not think like your father in way or manner to make life good no matter what.
This also goes for women. Many of them are angry for the same reasons. Some men and women had fathers who did so much abuse that they’d wish the never met their abuse parent. Life.
He is the Father We All Need. Thank You Sir
All Praises 👏🏽 🙌🏾 Shared this! Thank you R. C. Blakes 🎉
This was an excellent impromptu! Blessings to you and Lisa.
Let these words Pierce and hold to every SOUL FATHER Hallelujah!!!!🙏🙏🙏
So true! ✔️Amen ❤️
What a wonderful heartfelt message Pastor. God bless you.❤
Love the opening music
Me too, love the music, gentle and classy 👍 RC is a wise man on all levels !
I sent this to my son
My advice to the broken men out there, stop chasing women to have sex with them and use that energy to work on yourselves!
Greetings ❤️💎💚
Hello Godly Dad! I gotta be honest but I don’t think I want to marry or have children no more! I been in abusive relationship after abusing relationship. I’m tired exhausted and drained. I can’t do it no more. I don’t have the energy or the hope anymore! I rather be alone and whole then go thru any of it for one more second! 😢😢
Sadly I was his friend for years before we tried having a relationship. I got the broken, angry, man who is now bitter and in his own words despises God. I could not love him enough to help him heal and I had to end it for my own mental and emotional health because while I know what happened to make him feel the way he does, he had no right to take it out on my. I am praying for God to soften his heart. I will always love him, but thank God for helping me get strong enough to realize I needed to walk away and let God handle it. 🙏
That was good, RC is always on point. Thank you ☺️
I HAD SUBSCRIBED TO HIS CHANNEL A FEW YEARS AGO,AN DIDN'T GET TO LISTEN BECAUSE I WAS BUSY NOT PRODUCING ANY FRUIT, NOW IM DIVORCE, AN CAN SEE,I HAD BEEN SOUL-TIDE TO THIS PERSON, AN REALLY DIDNT HAVE LOVE,IN OUR MARRIAGE, THANK GOD FOR THIS GENTLEMAN HOPEFULLY I CAN LEARN MORE TO GET PASS THIS HARD TIME.
Anger in men frequently attracting people thatcANGRY IN TEACHING.
🔥🔥🔥Bishop
I believe this is why the family court in many countries decides to place the children (after divorce) into the care of the mother. The children are physically or even mentally safer in the hands of mothers because we can process anger faster than men. We will choose to nurture rather than hold onto negative feelings. - generally speaking.
That's not true. Most criminals come from single mothers.
That can be true in some instances. But not for the most part. I'm a single mother and my children do not have the traits of criminals. I guide them in a God fearing home, with Holy Spirits help.. let's see what happens when they grow up what happens and I will get back to you 😊
Not saying you are completely wrong, but depends on how hard the mother works at discipline and structure, as well as nurture. Thank you.
@October3074 not the ones who don't have angry men around tho
Idk, unpopular opinion: I don't want to cry, I want to yell. I have never once in my life experienced anger when I wasn't on some level hurt. I recognize that my anger produces unwanted consequences occasionally but if I need to listen to a woman cry and be gentle, no problem there by the way, why do I need to constantly be berated because I'm not feeling hurt or small "correctly"? Why is the conversation always about me being mad instead of what made me angry? Not an original thought, I'm aware but I feel like it goes deeper. Setting boundaries is great and emotional maturity is clearly better but anger is also a friend. Anger is a call to action and anger is an alarm. A lot of times I don't even know what I'm mad about because the messaging from society and my own mind can be so contradictory. How am I supposed to be all calm and logical when my inner environment is one of turmoil and the yelling releases the pressure so I can have some space to think and actually be logical. I've taken to yelling, "Just let me be angry! I'm not angry AT anything! I'm just angry, let me fail!", my wife has known me a long time... (I like to fail because it shows that I'm up to something new, I don't expect to be good at things that I'm bad at without some frustrating and maddening failures along the way) *sighhhh* I don't even remember what I was talking about...I think I just calmed down. That's the point I'm trying to make I guess...just get mad but retain your consciousness within it, don't get mad like a boy. Get mad like a man, yell but remain present, don't give in and disappear into the heat of it all. Be a man, get mad then make a plan. The anger will tell you how if you listen. (Yeah, I know that can sound a little lame but it's a truth for me...not there yet but working on it.) For me, not letting other people use my anger against me has been the biggest thing to overcome. People will use that shit to disarm you, don't let people stop you from defending yourself, as an aside.
Thanks🙏😀💦🤲🌎
Here for the replay
Just heard him on someone else's page. Looked him up quickly, shared the message on fb and subscribed!!!
Just as Zipporah protected Moses from the Lord who sought to kill Moses, we women can intervene and indeed like Zipporah, we can save our men from the wrath of our God.
Help us God
“ a man’s anger turns into inter city crime “ 🤯🧐whr the lie at cause I can’t find it
Just like Roger and zapp 😢
My greatest fear is the angry 😡 men