I'm kind of introverted, however I do have extroverted tendencies. Saying "hey" doesn't bother me, however doing the cuddling thing is extremely personal and takes a lot of bravery for me to do.
I've never even said hi to my crush ever on my own. I only ever talk to crushes if they talk to me first, and it's usually a one or two sentence "conversation." Crush: "Hey, how are you?" Me: "Good, how about you?" Crush: "I'm good thanks for asking.... *awkward silence* Well have a good one." The end
@@yuhuuunder1912 Being alone is being you by yourself alone. Loneliness is a feeling (I hope I describe this as accurate as possible xd) more like a lust for someone to keep you company.
A true introvert doesnt know how being lonely feels. At least thats how I feel im extremly introverted and i never felt lonely although I spend 90% of my freetime alone.
as an introvert, here you go: 1. we smile when you talk to us 2. we agree with what you say 3. we seem more comfortable around you 4. we tell you something about us if we really like you 5. we blush- smile 6. we listen carefully to you.
I dont act like that around my crush (maybe a bit) and im an introvert who spends their tine in the internet A LOT Edit: its been over 4 years now, stop replying ok ;-;
Ikr, that's why it's so hard to just make friends. You have to know the person enough to judge if you want them to be your friend, and if they accept you... Good thing I love my alone time.
Well I have no problem with being alone. :D Tho it seems like I have somehow?!?!?!?! Gained 3 really close friends in school now....idk how... I am confused
Haha good thing you managed to find 3 close friends ! As much introvert as you can be, I think you can't deny that the possibility to rely on someone is reassuring ^^
When you actually talk to someone you like I find it easier when you're kinda forced into it and have to make some conversation. I'd be nervous af around her but when she was my partner or we ended up naturally talking I could not stutter once. I waited 4 years and she ended up getting with someone who she looked really happy with, it was towards the end of school to so I might never see her again lol I hate myself
1. Making the 1st move 2. Open up 3. Observing 4. Inviting u into their personal space 5. Talking about personal topic 6. Showing extra care 7. Going the extra mile 8. Constantly keep in touch 9. Revealing secrets 10. Giving feedback
Introverts can be talkative... But only around people they're comfortable with. Usually when it's with other people they keep quiet because they don't know them well enough to just spawn a topic. So they prefer to listen to extroverts and learn so they can eventually be able to talk to them about things they enjoy themselves or what their extrovert friend enjoys.
I don't know whether I'm an introvert or extrovert I'm not afraid to talk to anyone and can start up a conversation but I'm a lot more comfortable with my circle of friends
Marko Marković Jesus loves you all ❤️ John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he sent his one and only son that whoever shall believe in him shall not perish but have eternal life” Jesus loves you and he stands at the door of your life and knocks. Will you invite him in ? He loves you so much! the first step is simply talking to him and believing in him
I'm an introvert. Many people see me as a friend, but I have no one in my mind to call my friend.I'm not sure if I've ever met someone who can understand me🙄.So if someone comes I promise to send and I will make him lucky 🙂
Actually that's a good idea. I've been talking to this chick when I play pool at my local pub. She perks up when we speak so I know it's mutual...but it's difficult to explain the depths of my strange behavior. Maybe just texting this video to her would be easier and if she rejects me I can always move to the other side of the country and change my name. 🤓
As an introvert, we aren’t really observant. We just notice things without thinking. Also, if we try to make friends, we spent a LONG time checking if you are suitable or not.
That's partially true to my everyday life, I too, just happen to be able to quickly notice and am more aware than the other. And yeah, making friends, one that stays true and will always be true, is the reason why we check whether is it the correct course of action to be friends to a certain person. After all, it's quite easy to see through lies most people tell, as most lies are full of holes. So judging their response and expressions alone is more than enough sometimes whether you decide to be friends with that person or not. Having quite the perfect memory too makes it a bit easier to make that decision. And it appears I'm typing in a bit too much, so I'll end it here. *----------END---------*
This boy in my grade, last year (mid February) when I walked past him heading to homeroom class, he looked at me and because it was so crowded, he looked for around 5 seconds and so did I. I was confused but just brushed it off Eventually I learnt that 75% of the time, no matter if I’m near or far away from him, he manages to search and find me and stare at me for a while before walking off again. He is very introverted and doesn’t exactly have any friends (not really sure though, never seen him talk much to ppl) And same here. I’m super quiet (severe social anxiety) and.. I tend to notice him looking at me a lot + when I like someone I do the same thing as him too so I understand him.
He still does it this year. But honestly, idk if he likes me? I don’t wear any makeup or even try to act pretty - I act myself lol And there are 10s of other girls in our grade who are prettier than me 😀😃 (but hey who cares lol)
Introverts are cute. I was an introvert in my teens, as I've grown up im more of an ambivert now days but I notice which of my peers are introverts. I admit, I give them special attention, its so easy to feel hopelessly lonely as an introvert, I make sure they arent ignored
lillovebuglily how did you do tho? my mom and some relatives think that being an introvert is something i will walk away from as i enter adulthood but i think i can only improve little things like communication skills and anxiety ,instead of completely changing my personality.
lillovebuglily a true introvert doesn't feel lonely.or that their is something wrong with them being loners. they LOVE being alone because dealing with people drain them.
I'm not sure if other introverts are like this or show this sign of affection, but usually I'm the quiet type who usually doesn't show that much emotion, but if you're really close to me, I become a huge, hyperactive goofball who wants to shower you with love. If I do something as little as give you a hug or hold your hand while we're walking, you'll know that you're someone I cherish.
She’s trying to be objective and neutral in this video. It’s just our own presumptions about that being an introvert is a bad thing that makes us feel disconnected.
When you’re literally all these types of introvert and have a crush on one of the biggest introverts you know but you know you’ll never talk to each other 🙃
Javier Merino True lol in my first comment when I said I was all the types I meant I have certain traits from all, however I do fit one type more than others 👌👍
In a world full of extroverts it feels hard to imagine that there are other like minded people. It is due to the fact that introverts are like looking for Wally in a where's Wally book. Only they are hiding behind camouflage.
It's hard to find other introverts because we're too busy being introverts... We are out there, you just have to go to where we are. Edit: If I find you in my home, you'll probably get hurt.
I'm in that exact situation. I have absolutely no idea what to do since neither one of us is likely to make the first move (assuming she even likes me that way, which I would never be able to tell).
Well i just recently asked out my crush and she did say yes. We both happened to be introverts and i had noticed that she didn't immediately push me away so i just sucked it up and asked her.
I am introvert. But my families and relatives says that im just too immature. They told me to act my age and try to socialize. But they just dont understand that im too shy to talk to people even my relatives.
I’m not shy but I don’t like talking to people really, only my close friends and family, UNLESS if it’s something I’m related to it like if they are gamers and basically speak my language hahah but I always try to avoid conversations and people
I’m the opposite my family always says I’m the most mature person in my family. Most likely because I over think things and make sure what I do and say is the best thing I can do in a given situation.
Literally same they don't know why I'm so shy and I don't like talking to a lot of people including relatives they always push me to talk people at school do the same and they take advantage of me my dad thinks I'm depressed and my grandpa thinks that I don't like him because I don't talk to him a lot
My boyfriend is a HUGE introvert and everyone was telling me he liked me 3-5 months into our friendship. (I’m autistic so I am fully oblivious to hints) I didn’t believe it until we got high together and he admitted it lol. Watching this video helped everything in my head piece together 😂 We’re going on almost 4 months now and we’re already planning our future together. I can’t wait to be this man’s wife! ❤️
The best part of being an introvert is, you don't need others to enjoy yourself. I do like some of my friends but I feel sorry for those who always need a crowd, booze, loud music and instagram to feel they're not dead.
Why would you feel sorry for them? It's okay to like crowds and, *gasp*, be an extrovert. Being introverted doesn't make you better than everyone else.
To feel sorry for them just as an extrovert might feel sorry for a closed in shut-in 'awkward' introvert. Sometimes people don't understand why certain people act a certain way or do certain things. It's only natural.
You always need someone to be with. People are social creatures. Even if you think you don't need anyone to enjoy yourself. You are wrong. And you are thinking this only cause in your life you have this one/two person/s who fill your not really demanding personal space. I was sure that I don't need anyone to feel cool and easy long time ago. But boy the life is shit when you are alone. I can tell. I'm alone for over 10 years. It's so hard to gain "proper" friends, especially when you are rational and people around you - not. And when one this person you want to be with constantly, avoiding you, cause you are gay and he is straight and knows this and don't want to feel awkward around you and this is understandable and you can't help it, but at the same time can't just throw away desire to be friends with him which he defying as an idea.
i like being an introvert even if people say i'm "antisocial" or "too shy". I don't think i'm stuck up or antisocial, i'm just insecure and like time to think . Plus many of the people at my school are very..shallow? All they talk about is drugs, sex, dirty jokes, who's with who..i don't care about any of that. Introverts are awesome!
Your life is just like mine. Its not my fault that i'm anti-social,shy or introvert. Its the school people. I can socialize better with people who don't talk about those stuff.
Same and people tend to think im stuck up or weird because i dont like to talk about that stuff but it's not my fault that i have higher morals and better things to think of 😂 Finally someone gets it!
I agree. I don't talk to most people because they talk about useless things. I don't care who's dating who, I don't care who's sleeping with who. I don't care about celebrities' lives, and I don't care what you think about other people. How about just focusing on your own lives and stop talking about the lives of others? That's what I want to say to most people, but I mostly keep it in my head because then I'll be labelled as rude or stuck up. And that's definitely happened before.
I agree. I always pondered how disgusting my peers were for talking about nothing but those things and labeling people like us as freaks because we talked about things other than sex and drugs, if anything at all. I always found the concept of dating and comparing "how many girlfriends you've had" stupid; if you're going to be in a relationship it should be important, with someone you're willing to be with for the rest of your life. I'm 19 and never been in a relationship or on a date because I don't want to be with somebody unless they're a perfect match for me. And so far I've found literally zero girls in my life that like the same things I do. I had to go through all of school thinking I was the weird one because 90% of the people there act so unbelievably immature, but I've learned not to care what people think of me because I know I'm cool in a completely different category, and that's all that matters. My small group of introverted friends and my video games are all I need to be happy for now. c:
My boyfriend is an introvert and by watching this, i proudly say that HE LOVES ME so much :)🤭 i watch all about introvert to know him better ❤️ Love You Madno!❤️
i find delight in it. To be able to hear someone try to understand me or match how I think about myself while introducing a new angle adds to the considerations of my awareness.
You think the description is good ? That's half me and half not. For some examples, it's ok for me (be alone, observe people, etc...), but I don't have any problem to talk about my opinions. If it's ok for you, I'm feeling so bad, I even can't match with a general description..
The way I screamed...YES when i heard about social introverts...i couldn't describe it because I would get so energetic around my family and close friends..but when I get around huge parties I want to isolate myself...so now I know I'm a social introvert
This is all so true for me. This is stuff extroverts need to know. They don't know how much courage it takes for us to talk to people we've admired for a long time. We're complex, but will only share our complexity with people we 100% trust. We're not antisocial; we love our friends, but we choose very carefully, and take it seriously. An introvert's love and trust is something others must earn, and once it is, it's unbreakable. Our shells may be hard to crack, but there are still soft spots, and we'll gladly open up to people we like. This video should be required viewing. It's beautiful.
KingsleyIII we got an extrovert society and it leads to introvert discrimination, as it seen in every aspect of our life (if you don't see it, you're not paying attention to world). So, being an introvert is pretty hard. And this split in society build up for extroverts causes labeling from one side to another where one is autists and another is ignorant social whores. And worst part is that we can eliminate this ignorance just by treating introverts like introverts and extroverts like extroverts instead of treating everyone like extroverts. I'm talking about education, ads, TV, etc.
KingsleyIII I agree. This video did an amazing job of explaining it all. I like that I felt understood when the lady in the video was talking. It's so hard for me to talk to new people, so most conversations end in an awkward silence. I think that the video showed me some ways that i can work to be better too, and try to make more of an effort to talk to people that I want to be friends with, instead of waiting for them to talk to me.
Only thing i disagree with in this vid, is that they're making out introverts to be so special that extroverts should feel honoured to be let into their world. As an introvert myself, i've never ever felt that anyone else was actively trying to understand me. More that i should be thankful for what time they could give me of themselves. "fast paced times" "world's speeding up", these are the excuses fed to me as to why i'm constantly forgotten or ignored. Sh*t. Gonna go now before the tears start. Bye.
This is especially true when that trust has been broken... Multiple times... Like literally I since I moved I have two "main" friends. And even still I keep them at a distance not because I don't trust them, I just have trusted other people before and I've been hurt.
As an introvert, I can tell you that you'll think I absolutely hate you when I actually really like you (I totally avoid my crush, I speak alien when we talk)
Being an introvert isn't hard. You're talking about anxiety or social ineptitude, introversion is just a lack of interest in extrovertive activity. It's not discomfort, it's preference. If you've got discomfort you have deeper issues.
A lot of these sound like me. I think I'm a social introvert. I don't have many friends and feel that it is important to really trust someone before calling them a friend.
1. we smile when you talk to us 2. we agree with what you say 3. we seem more comfortable around you 4. we tell you something about us if we really like you 5. we blush- smile 6. we listen carefully to you.
The most annoying thing I have to deal with as an introvert is coming up with excuses of why I can't come to social gatherings. And I know that each time I go I'll meet new people and get new invitations to other things. I have a word document with a list of excuses and who I've used the different excuses on, not kidding.
Yeah, I've already started turning down much more than I did before. I felt like I did something wrong when I stayed home, but now I've just realized I need to be alone more than most people and that that's okay. I can also say that I want to be alone to my closest friends without them making it into a big thing, which I would have NEVER done 5 years ago.
This is so true. And we feel like it's normal but when the person that we like get to know about it, they think we are obsessed with them and we need to stop doing it.
Derp UmWell I can be myself in Internet too, not gonna lie, that screen is really protective and I feel no pain when we insult me so, yeah.. Thank you Internet. (Outside of my true friends!)
Sometimes I wish I wasn't as introvert as I am, because I want to talk to new people and get to know them, but I literally don't know how, and the thought of just doing it makes my stomach hurt.
Marvel Mz just talk whatever comes to your mind, try asking for things that they like, their family, where he lives and then let the conversation be fluent. you can improve ur social skills by trying. its hard but it works, trust me.
Explain Please?You saying that if a introvert likes you they will contact you a few times a week?Or on a daily basis..She contact me and hung out with me several times a week. For 6 months I been busy and had my phone off..Don't know if she called...Last time I talked to her and hung out was last mon..We haven't talked since..And I had to call her to make that happen..I mean she did something I never expected her to do just to hang out with me..But it's weird because she stop reaching out to me first..But always responds to my calls immediately and text..But why has she stop calling me🤔
@@kairiaegyochan8916 I wish that was true but she is more then a introvert..She is a demi sexual as well..So no she is not interested..She is just very comfortable with me..I am in her small circle of friends..It's a exceedingly long story..But yeah I have a dilemma
See if you can relate to this article. It tells you pretty well what an introvert is. Worth reading if you want to find out if your are one or not. introvertspring.com/what-is-an-introvert/
I can't look at restaurant employees when I order food, I'll stare at a table or look at the ceiling instead, people think I'm crazy but I'm just really shy and don't like people. My friends say they are introverts yet they talk to everybody we see and have no problem meeting new people. Because I hardly ever talk people think I'm ignoring them or just straight up rude. I care deeply for my friends and if I get to know you really well I'll open myself up to you. I do eventually warm up to people it just may take some time. *Thanks for reading this comment, I hope it didn't waste too much of your time.*
You're shy ! it's not something that bad y know im sure those employees or the people ur talkin to understand this if you want to get over this tell this to youtself : im gonna look them in the eyes and see what happens if they keep talkin to you good for u if they dont u can still look at the ceiling, after all you're a human like any other who is worth being looked at don't you feel ashamed of yourself
Me as an introvert I had a friend that's been through me since most of my childhood and he was the first person that got to know me very well and helped me break out of my shell and be more confident around others and speak more and more and for that I am grateful that he became a part of my life and consider him as a brother.
You should try a personality test then. I know they aren't viewed as the most scientifically accurate, but I gave it a try myself and was quite overwhelmed by it. I recommend the test at 16personalities.com. Sorry if this was too long :)
Berserk Yuya You literally just described my situation. I came here because the guy I like is an introvert and I want to see if he likes me. After watching the video I realized it described how I acted to him. I'm the introvert with a crush.
Boggy Bunny I think most introverts have a combination of all the different types, just majorly in one category. Alot of extroverts will have some introvert traits too
Yesterday i went out with my crush, and she knows i'm an introvert, the day before yesterday she said "please, try to talk to me, i know it's not easy for you, but try" aND I DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED BUT WE SPEND LIKE THREE HOURS TALKING i hope she's proud of me, i really like to go out with her and spending time with her aaa.
Introverts feel also more, "wrażliwość" in Polish. I beleve in you, we must beat eachothers in order to get something better ! No matter what happends, it you want it, you must fight for it. I m loosing all the time also, but, just fock it just let s try!
as an introvert, rather an infp, i really don't like to make the first move ever and I tend to cut off people from my life who doesn't fit the ideal person in my head
Merlin's Beerd me too I don't know why but I even almost cried when the examples were shown. I'm watching these videos because I want to talk to a girl in my class which I'd like to be friends with but I can't approach her, my heart freaking drops to the ground xD but I'm bubbly with the people who approach me... this is so stupid :(
I'm the same with one of my colleagues. It's hard to let someone know you care about them without making yourself vulnerable or getting super nervous about it. Maybe you could start slow, just ask how she is doing or mention something you have in common. In my case, it does get easier with time.
Merlin's Beerd, Yeah I tick all the boxes too. It's especially hard when relatives or loved ones try to drag you to places because they think you don't meet enough people. While they are partially correct, all they serve by doing this is wearing me out.
Like, EXCUSE ME? I wanna talk to YOU. Not them. YOU. Don't drag those guys in here just cause I managed to gather the courage to talk to you after the short span of half a year.
..of course, my mind is screaming and saying those things, and yet I'm simply shaking my head and declining. I just don't want them to think I'm rude or anything.
I’m an introvert and I just told my best guy friend how I feel about him and now we’re going on our first date! It took everything in me to make the first move.
As an extrovert, all of my friends are introverts, but in the sense that they're quite shy and aren't particularly talkative. I'm pretty much a social butterfly who either gets a friend stolen or the friend doesn't want to be my friend anymore by dusting out with hurtful things and cutting off ties with me without telling my anything before a sudden outburst. I think this is an issue lots of extroverts like myself need to work on, especially the second one , because 2 complaints I get are that I'm too bossy and I criticise too much. We mean well but get that misinterpreted or we do it too much, until we seem controlling. Can anyone relate?
Or you choosing people that represent you and treating them the way someone treated you in the past, and your brain is trying to teach you somthing, usually if we're displaying seen as bossy or critical it because we're in more of a shadow function. Because by all means we're all capable of being introverted and extroverted, one is just unhealthy for us. This is just a possibility of course.
Gerard Mason: Reserved, yeah. I see Introverts talking on the internet as a way of not being extroverted, but letting out their "thinking" as spoken in the video. Physiclly, it's kind of hard to talk to someone, even if they're your best friend, but the internet's a totally different platform. All you need is a notepad and you can type whatever you want without feeling rejected, neglected, or having eyes on you.
This video actually means a lot. I knew I was introvert, but I've never really looked into *Introvert* itself though. I actually show all of these signs to someone I like, it was actually a really nice feeling when you basically threw everything I've done out on the table, haha. plot twist, the girl I like is introvert too, we actually found out we liked each other back in 2014, but we basically pretended it never happened. (I was 14 at the time, now 17.) Well, we still talk and this video confirmed that she does indeed still have those *feelings.* what a great video.. thanks recommended tab. edit: didn't expect this to be in the top comments, I feel like the majority of people watching this video is *Introvert* in some way. Reading all of these comments are so relatable, it's good to know you're not the only one. Kinda like a reunion for us all. anyways, let's just hope *she* doesn't see this, hehe
Sam i'm an introvert and i like this guy who i go out of my way to say hi/bye to at work, and he also seems introverted but i don't think he likes/cares for me. your story was so cute i wish i had the same scenario
We've been exposed. It feels like everyone's eyes are upon us now. Observing us. Judging us. We're afraid to say something back to avoid embarrassment. What if we make a mistake and people make fun of us? It would be impossible to live with the anxiety that would bring. It's paradoxical. The society's attention is what we need to become "normal" but it's exactly the thing that we're most scared of. It's hard to stumble upon people who genuinely want to understand you. People are too cold to be that warm. That is why we seek solitude... Why we choose to shut away the things that could bring us pain. We may deny it but we can't place anyone at fault. Are people right and we're just abnormal freaks? Or are we too weak to stand up for ourselves and make them understand? So many questions. So much complexity. In the end, it's easier just to be alone... :(
Random song you should listen to is Lateralus by Tool. There is a line "Overthinking, overanalyzing separates the body from the mind...withering my intuition..." I can relate a lot. I have social anxiety, and it is bad. But it has been worse. I tell you with 100% sincerity that the thing that has helped me the most-more than breathing exercises, medications, biofeedback, and more than therapy- is humor. I have slowly, over time, developed a perspective of lightheartedness. I started by just thinking of something completely ridiculous and goofy in my head that makes me laugh inside. You know, the kind of thing that makes your heart flutter real quick? It usually settles quickly. But if you learn to perpetuate that feeling of goofiness, and use it as a lens with which you view the world, life can be bliss! Obviously, you can't be in a perpetual state of euphoria. And this may sound outlandish. But I am telling you, this has been my release from the sentence that is anxiety. I'm not saying I'm cured; I am on the whole still an anxious person. What I am saying is that I have learned that i can transcend, or override anxiety with laughter! When i reached the point where my delight turned into a physical smile, I struggled to maintain it, feeling guilty or something, like what is this?! Smiling, in front of people?! Quick, tighten your lips before they see you! But I learned how to hold a big, cheesy smile, and I am a genuinely happier person on a day to day basis than years ago. There are admittedly many other factors to my relative success. But I just thought that I would share one thing that i think is pretty profound. Hats off to anyone who reads this junk hahaa
Sputnik Cage when I was younger I used to get bullied and I preferred being alone because no-one would be there who could hurt me and I found comfort in it. I've always struggled in large groups of people though.
Signs an Extrovert likes you 1: They say it 2: The say it 3 They say it 4: They shout it 5: They declare it 6: They announce it 7: They place it into your mind 8. They say it 9: They (insert a word alternative to "say" here) it 10. They are squeezing your buttcheek
So I am basically social introvert + I am shy too. I used to thought i am anxious introvert cause i am sometimes anxious and awkward during social gathering but now i realize I don't like being all alone or solitude in fact i am comfortable with my close friends or family . Thanks for making this more clear to me:)) Psycho2Go♡
I like being an introvert. People I don't like don't notice me as much and I water turnips in Harvest Moon like nobody else's business. Really I don't see the problem with not wanting to be social every second of the day.
same. I absolutely love observing people from afar and imagining different consequences for all my actions. it keeps me sane. I'm not social at all and I am constantly afraid of being judged on my opinions. lol. on the internet since nobody knows me in this world I can say whatever I want!!!
It's a double edged sword... A part of me loves the solitude, but at the same time I want a little bit of what they are having :) It's just not fair to date someone you know wouldn't be happy living with your lack of social interest. My life is pretty much all about lying to everyone about the most mundane things, it's easier that way.
Problem is, I worry that I'm cold in social situations; I'm an incredibly sentimental and caring person most of the time, but when someone tells me deep emotional secrets I find it almost impossible to open up back or sympathise too openly. It makes me feel horrible, and stops people from getting close to me.
Same here buddy, that's why I avoid social interactions... It's just so awkward when someone tells you secrets about themself and you don't know how to react the way they're expecting you to ? I'm just like "uh, yeah, okay, why do you even bother to tell me that?" Anyway, I hope you'll find a way to solve your problem. Communicate via phone/Internet helps sometimes, I think.
Oscar Oliver You shouldn't worry so much about it. This comes with time, believe me. It took me around 5 years to open up to my friends and I am still very careful about what I am revealing. Most of them still don't know alot of me and I rarely have any contact with them outside of school. Just take your time. If they are your friends they should be okay with it and not forcing you to tell them your secrets.
Same. I also worry that if I open up too much, then it will seem like I'm trying to outdo them with worse problems and undermine their own, which would seem really narcissistic.
I am an introvert all the way and I relate to all of these. It was really refreshing to know that people actually know how we function. I didn’t know how to explain it before but YES I prefer to communicate in small groups of people! Less chaos. Thanks Psych2Go! ☺️💕 HAPPY NEW YEAR 🎊 2021 🦄🌟🎊
same. at a party i revealed my crush to a few people and another person there, someone i know casually, said they already knew. apparently they could see it in my eyes as soon as i showed up that evening and saw them and figured it out right then. i was so shocked
Literally just saying "hey" to a crush takes so much out of me.
I'm kind of introverted, however I do have extroverted tendencies. Saying "hey" doesn't bother me, however doing the cuddling thing is extremely personal and takes a lot of bravery for me to do.
You said "hi" to a crush? You are a rare breed. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Geckos and Games yeah same here.
Geckos and Games I remember I said hey and some bitch said "you like her dont you" and I just put my head down 😂😓
I've never even said hi to my crush ever on my own. I only ever talk to crushes if they talk to me first, and it's usually a one or two sentence "conversation."
Crush: "Hey, how are you?"
Me: "Good, how about you?"
Crush: "I'm good thanks for asking.... *awkward silence* Well have a good one."
The end
Introverts
The happiest people when we're alone. The saddest people when we're lonely.
Dragoș Micu okey what is the difference between being alone and lonely..🤔
@@yuhuuunder1912 Being alone is being you by yourself alone. Loneliness is a feeling (I hope I describe this as accurate as possible xd) more like a lust for someone to keep you company.
A true introvert doesnt know how being lonely feels. At least thats how I feel im extremly introverted and i never felt lonely although I spend 90% of my freetime alone.
@@mellar5864 I tend to feel lonely in social situations. Maybe that's just me though.
Oh my God it's in words!
Basically, if us Introverts had a crush on someone, we will just let this video explain it rather than doing it ourselves.
Literally was thinking the exact same
sounds like a good plan to me.
CrimsonDAGA9 Drakenhart that’s crazy... that was literally going across my mind lol
That's so stupidly true lol
I was just imagining what would happen if I sent this to my crush
as an introvert, here you go:
1. we smile when you talk to us
2. we agree with what you say
3. we seem more comfortable around you
4. we tell you something about us if we really like you
5. we blush- smile
6. we listen carefully to you.
i blush at anything though 😭 my friends look at me for a long time and i always get red
YES,thank you
Yea I do all of these things
@@datSNSDstan same tho
So true and im an introvert :)
How to know if an introvert likes you: he/she won't make eye contact.
How to know if an introvert doesn't like you: he/she won't make eye contact.
So relatable people may get confused😂
My god it hurts how much it’s true
Hahaha
Truee
Hahahah truee
Basically, if an introvert acts like an extrovert around you they like you
I dont act like that around my crush (maybe a bit) and im an introvert who spends their tine in the internet A LOT
Edit: its been over 4 years now, stop replying ok ;-;
@@miniyee ok
@@TheAnimator34 ok
@@miniyee ok
@@aaaa_11122 ok
this is so accurate.....people don't seem to understand that friendship is so much more meaningful and valuable for me than for most people...
Quality over quantity
AOokami correct. It's just that it's hard to find even that 1 quality friend you know... you give everything and you get 10% Back at best
Ikr, that's why it's so hard to just make friends. You have to know the person enough to judge if you want them to be your friend, and if they accept you... Good thing I love my alone time.
Well I have no problem with being alone. :D
Tho it seems like I have somehow?!?!?!?! Gained 3 really close friends in school now....idk how... I am confused
Haha good thing you managed to find 3 close friends ! As much introvert as you can be, I think you can't deny that the possibility to rely on someone is reassuring ^^
What I’ve gathered:
If an extrovert acts like an introvert around you, they like you
If an introvert acts like an extrovert around you, they like you
But....my friend is an extrovert and she talk so much when we are talking does that mean she don't like me?
@Oliver Erz Thanks for telling me! I'm feeling much better now
Dude you are right ❤😊
⊙👄⊙ i-
When you actually talk to someone you like I find it easier when you're kinda forced into it and have to make some conversation. I'd be nervous af around her but when she was my partner or we ended up naturally talking I could not stutter once.
I waited 4 years and she ended up getting with someone who she looked really happy with, it was towards the end of school to so I might never see her again lol I hate myself
You know guys this "like" doesn't HAVE to be in a romantic way,, it could be in a friendly way..
paami true im a social introvert and i talk to my friends first not because i like like them but like them as friends
paami I feel the same! that's what brought me here, to understand I build friendships and it's so spot on...
paami it said that too
I know! (P.S. Love your profile pic)
well I mean I wasn't talking to the people who made the video I was talking to the commenters
Alternative Title:
10 Signs that you are an introvert who likes someone
Well_The_Simulations yes
That's true
That fits
the comments are to pure for me😀😀😀
Lol.. hahaha
Ancient introvert: A grand wizard that has achieved immortality by never leaving their house.
Majoren and a neckbeard
I'm on my way to attain this level of introversion.
That = Me 100%
Majoren those aren't introverts my friend...those are what we call virgins
no, other people can go in your house, right?
1. Making the 1st move
2. Open up
3. Observing
4. Inviting u into their personal space
5. Talking about personal topic
6. Showing extra care
7. Going the extra mile
8. Constantly keep in touch
9. Revealing secrets
10. Giving feedback
Introverts can be talkative...
But only around people they're comfortable with.
Usually when it's with other people they keep quiet because they don't know them well enough to just spawn a topic. So they prefer to listen to extroverts and learn so they can eventually be able to talk to them about things they enjoy themselves or what their extrovert friend enjoys.
Rosa Chichona EXACTLY
Rosa Chichona RIGHT
I can relate
True
I don't know whether I'm an introvert or extrovert I'm not afraid to talk to anyone and can start up a conversation but I'm a lot more comfortable with my circle of friends
"There are 4 types of introverts" like wtf I match all of them
Marko Marković Jesus loves you all ❤️ John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he sent his one and only son that whoever shall believe in him shall not perish but have eternal life”
Jesus loves you and he stands at the door of your life and knocks. Will you invite him in ? He loves you so much! the first step is simply talking to him and believing in him
Yeah, it's very common for us introverts to fit each of those qualities xD
me too :)
ikr i match with all of them too
Me too 🙃
Im an introvert and i am good at keeping secrets
By forgetting them.
lol same
Yep
Same
Lol same
Smart
You cant tell a secret that u dont remember
fun fact:
if you have an introvert person as your friend they are most likely to be true friends
Really!? 😯
I'm an introvert. Many people see me as a friend, but I have no one in my mind to call my friend.I'm not sure if I've ever met someone who can understand me🙄.So if someone comes I promise to send and I will make him lucky 🙂
not for me. I am an introvert and act as a doormat, so I have developed friendships with people I don’t really like or click with.
@@vedhashalu7954 same :,)
My friend group has 4 people including me and everyone except me is introverts 😁😄
When you're an introvert and you're unsure if you like someone so you watch this...
Lol truth
Yes haha
Blake Freeman you eat me family ;-;
Lori Tato
saame
Yeah. That awkward moment when you don't know your own feelings...
2 Things that are cute in this video
- The drawing style
- Her Voice ( i swear her voice relaxes me)
I think that's why it has a million views.
Yeah, she has a pretty voice.
agree, she has a pretty voice
The piano song is cute either
I know it's pretty cute 😍
Imagine an introvert sending this to their crush...
I get nervous just thinking about that :/
😳
This comment scared me...
I actually thought about it but we all knew i wasn t going to do it
That comment unsettled me more than any horror movie has. Nice work
Actually that's a good idea. I've been talking to this chick when I play pool at my local pub. She perks up when we speak so I know it's mutual...but it's difficult to explain the depths of my strange behavior. Maybe just texting this video to her would be easier and if she rejects me I can always move to the other side of the country and change my name. 🤓
Psych2Go: “Do these traits sound like someone you know?”
Me: “Yes, *me* “
Same
Same
of course I know this person, he's me
Me too
*watches video so I don't sound too obvious*
As an introvert, we aren’t really observant. We just notice things without thinking.
Also, if we try to make friends, we spent a LONG time checking if you are suitable or not.
That's partially true to my everyday life, I too, just happen to be able to quickly notice and am more aware than the other.
And yeah, making friends, one that stays true and will always be true, is the reason why we check whether is it the correct course of action to be friends to a certain person.
After all, it's quite easy to see through lies most people tell, as most lies are full of holes.
So judging their response and expressions alone is more than enough sometimes whether you decide to be friends with that person or not.
Having quite the perfect memory too makes it a bit easier to make that decision.
And it appears I'm typing in a bit too much, so I'll end it here.
*----------END---------*
@@jonsena6yearsagoand949 that's true. Im an introvert. I only have 3 or 4 close friends. only ones I trust lol
It takes me 3 months to decide wheather I'm into a guy or not . Just "into"
That is so true.
I've got a pretty long checklist for every potential relationship I see.
"I'm not shy because I'm an introvert, I'm an introvert who so happens to be shy."
I'll leave this here for people who need it.
thank you!
@@TsukikoLuna26 Welcome. I was busy with one of my stories and this line just seemed fitting, ya know?
Preach
This video is supposed to be for someone who *thinks* an introvert likes them, but most of us here are actually THE introverts who likes someone 😂😂
hahahahha true
hahahahha true
so true
This boy in my grade, last year (mid February) when I walked past him heading to homeroom class, he looked at me and because it was so crowded, he looked for around 5 seconds and so did I. I was confused but just brushed it off
Eventually I learnt that 75% of the time, no matter if I’m near or far away from him, he manages to search and find me and stare at me for a while before walking off again. He is very introverted and doesn’t exactly have any friends (not really sure though, never seen him talk much to ppl)
And same here. I’m super quiet (severe social anxiety) and.. I tend to notice him looking at me a lot + when I like someone I do the same thing as him too so I understand him.
He still does it this year.
But honestly, idk if he likes me? I don’t wear any makeup or even try to act pretty - I act myself lol
And there are 10s of other girls in our grade who are prettier than me 😀😃 (but hey who cares lol)
I feel like 80% of the people who are depressed and very lonely and only want someone to love them.
As someone with social anxiety and occasional depression I strongly agree with your statement.
Sometimes i just want someone to hug.
@@greenthumb2326 damn tru
I am extrovert but as a depressed person We will give you 100 at least give us 1 🙂💔
y e s
I and I don't have one anymore because the shitty cycle of life took my dog from me recently
Video: exsists
Introverts: panicking and hoping their crush doesn’t see this
😂😂😂😂
*THE CRUSH VIEWS ARE COMING, RUN*
Hahahaha
Same here dude
I was kind of hoping my crush might see this and will only realize I like him if he likes me back.
That made N O sense.
Introverts are cute. I was an introvert in my teens, as I've grown up im more of an ambivert now days but I notice which of my peers are introverts. I admit, I give them special attention, its so easy to feel hopelessly lonely as an introvert, I make sure they arent ignored
God bless you
lillovebuglily bless you cinnamon roll person
lillovebuglily
Can you be my friend?
lillovebuglily how did you do tho? my mom and some relatives think that being an introvert is something i will walk away from as i enter adulthood but i think i can only improve little things like communication skills and anxiety ,instead of completely changing my personality.
lillovebuglily a true introvert doesn't feel lonely.or that their is something wrong with them being loners. they LOVE being alone because dealing with people drain them.
"Everybody has an introvert friend"
Woops, i'm the introvert friend
My best and only friend and me are introverts.. So yeah.. Life sucks
@@nevaatrust amen
How sweet.
@@nevaatrust Amen
Wwoopss same here
Me: an introvert
My crush: an introvert
Also me: *sobbing in my room at 4am hoping that my crush doesn't find this 👁💧👄💧👁*
Why lol ?, wont it be better if she found this video
@@filler8086 or he
@@kass1138 does it really matter
No
Wat if he finds the video and the comment and confronted u? That'll be interesting
I'm not sure if other introverts are like this or show this sign of affection, but usually I'm the quiet type who usually doesn't show that much emotion, but if you're really close to me, I become a huge, hyperactive goofball who wants to shower you with love. If I do something as little as give you a hug or hold your hand while we're walking, you'll know that you're someone I cherish.
That's literally me.
ѕρєcιαl ѕησωƒlαкє me too
everything you said is me
i'm the same as you!!
I am exactly like that.
*_Also, why do I feel like an alien every time you say "introvert."_*
She’s trying to be objective and neutral in this video. It’s just our own presumptions about that being an introvert is a bad thing that makes us feel disconnected.
@@svantee_in_the_woods8389 *_That was rhetorical._*
Nice
I always feel like an alien because I'm a introvert
TRUE 😂
It feels good to read all these comments and know you're not alone
ReverseMe 😆🙋
ReverseMe same
ReverseMe Same here
ReverseMe True
ReverseMe
Yea it's ok
introverts don't talk less. They talk to less number of people 😊😊😊
Exactly 🤙🏾♥️
Beautifully said
Yes exactly
Yea
Well yes, but actually no
I have to say that the little characters are adorable
me too but I don't understand why they cut their genitals
Dan Simbadd
Well they have been cutting part of them, not the whole thing, if you know what I mean.
Lara Haddad I think it's just their style or to save time :/
Unknownable H lol I was talking about circumcision (male genital mutilation) xD
Completely
When you’re literally all these types of introvert and have a crush on one of the biggest introverts you know but you know you’ll never talk to each other 🙃
Randi Marie im in the same situation lol
Javier Merino True lol in my first comment when I said I was all the types I meant I have certain traits from all, however I do fit one type more than others 👌👍
Randi Marie me too
GO AHEAD AND ASK HER OUT
in the complete same situation
When you are all the types of introverts named in the video...
I have all the traits too hehe, it's hard when you have all of this
Yep it’s hard
imaging you having all the traits , and being LGBTQ , your life is hard as hell....:( help..
Haha, I have all but 3...
Yep...
This whole video is literally me. I need an introvert groupchat.
Yes so I can observe the conversation and never respond 😎
@@sid4583 Same
no ones gonna talk
The last group chat I was in no one was talking to each other
So I left the group but no one texts me anymore so I don’t text them back my mum only calls me and I call here back sometimes that’s all I need
It’s funny when a introvert likes you they’re more extroverted when a extrovert likes you they’re more introverted
that would just make us all ambiverts whenever we like someone
XD yeh that's true
@@clay6334 Yupp thats rightt! xD
Grimlinz No, what op said is true! Introverts become louder around their crush. The extroverts become quieter around the crush.
T A C O B E L L E I’ve experienced it. I got quieter and he was loud and looked extroverted. I’m the extrovert, he’s an introvert 😅
All the comments from other introverts are really comforting tbh.
TheJman fax bro just wish I knew more like minded introverts were so peaceful and productive
In a world full of extroverts it feels hard to imagine that there are other like minded people. It is due to the fact that introverts are like looking for Wally in a where's Wally book. Only they are hiding behind camouflage.
Yea, it makes me feel better other people feel like me.
It's hard to find other introverts because we're too busy being introverts... We are out there, you just have to go to where we are.
Edit: If I find you in my home, you'll probably get hurt.
One of the hardest things is when you like an introvert, but you're introverted also.
EDIT: This is my most liked comment on UA-cam. Thanks xD.
I'm in that exact situation. I have absolutely no idea what to do since neither one of us is likely to make the first move (assuming she even likes me that way, which I would never be able to tell).
Yeah it sucks :I
Well i just recently asked out my crush and she did say yes. We both happened to be introverts and i had noticed that she didn't immediately push me away so i just sucked it up and asked her.
I tried taking a girl on a date but we both are really introverted so its hard
+MinnieMuffins EXACTLY it's one of the most awkward and uncomfortable things ever lmao
“Everyone has an introverted friend”
I don’t, you know why?
*because I am the introverted friend.*
Same lol
*but doctor... I am Pagliacci*
I am introvert. But my families and relatives says that im just too immature. They told me to act my age and try to socialize. But they just dont understand that im too shy to talk to people even my relatives.
I can relate to that. Just trust God. Been there and i am now very talkative. :)
Cookie Crunch sAME I can text me if you want too I need a friend
I’m not shy but I don’t like talking to people really, only my close friends and family, UNLESS if it’s something I’m related to it like if they are gamers and basically speak my language hahah but I always try to avoid conversations and people
I’m the opposite my family always says I’m the most mature person in my family.
Most likely because I over think things and make sure what I do and say is the best thing I can do in a given situation.
Literally same they don't know why I'm so shy and I don't like talking to a lot of people including relatives they always push me to talk people at school do the same and they take advantage of me my dad thinks I'm depressed and my grandpa thinks that I don't like him because I don't talk to him a lot
My gf is an introvert and I'm watching this to know her more
That's really sweet of you
This is the cutest comment I've found here omg >
She should be proud of you
Woah!! Gud 1 bro 🤜🏾🤛🏾
Some introvert love someone kinda, caring extrovert...😁
Hardcore introvert here and holy crap this is accurate to the point we need to have this as our official user guide
this video is like the user guide to all introverts. If only the people we wanted to see would watch this hahahaha
69 likes. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
ikr this is like the most accurate video ive ever watched
This is so right,it almost scares me
This channel videos about introverts are so accurate, definetely, my life guide
My boyfriend is a HUGE introvert and everyone was telling me he liked me 3-5 months into our friendship. (I’m autistic so I am fully oblivious to hints) I didn’t believe it until we got high together and he admitted it lol. Watching this video helped everything in my head piece together 😂 We’re going on almost 4 months now and we’re already planning our future together. I can’t wait to be this man’s wife! ❤️
The best part of being an introvert is, you don't need others to enjoy yourself.
I do like some of my friends but I feel sorry for those who always need a crowd, booze, loud music and instagram to feel they're not dead.
agreed
Why would you feel sorry for them? It's okay to like crowds and, *gasp*, be an extrovert. Being introverted doesn't make you better than everyone else.
To feel sorry for them just as an extrovert might feel sorry for a closed in shut-in 'awkward' introvert.
Sometimes people don't understand why certain people act a certain way or do certain things.
It's only natural.
You always need someone to be with. People are social creatures. Even if you think you don't need anyone to enjoy yourself. You are wrong. And you are thinking this only cause in your life you have this one/two person/s who fill your not really demanding personal space.
I was sure that I don't need anyone to feel cool and easy long time ago. But boy the life is shit when you are alone. I can tell. I'm alone for over 10 years. It's so hard to gain "proper" friends, especially when you are rational and people around you - not. And when one this person you want to be with constantly, avoiding you, cause you are gay and he is straight and knows this and don't want to feel awkward around you and this is understandable and you can't help it, but at the same time can't just throw away desire to be friends with him which he defying as an idea.
I love my friends, actually.
i like being an introvert even if people say i'm "antisocial" or "too shy". I don't think i'm stuck up or antisocial, i'm just insecure and like time to think . Plus many of the people at my school are very..shallow? All they talk about is drugs, sex, dirty jokes, who's with who..i don't care about any of that. Introverts are awesome!
Your life is just like mine. Its not my fault that i'm anti-social,shy or introvert. Its the school people. I can socialize better with people who don't talk about those stuff.
Same and people tend to think im stuck up or weird because i dont like to talk about that stuff but it's not my fault that i have higher morals and better things to think of 😂 Finally someone gets it!
Same here
I agree. I don't talk to most people because they talk about useless things. I don't care who's dating who, I don't care who's sleeping with who. I don't care about celebrities' lives, and I don't care what you think about other people. How about just focusing on your own lives and stop talking about the lives of others? That's what I want to say to most people, but I mostly keep it in my head because then I'll be labelled as rude or stuck up. And that's definitely happened before.
I agree. I always pondered how disgusting my peers were for talking about nothing but those things and labeling people like us as freaks because we talked about things other than sex and drugs, if anything at all. I always found the concept of dating and comparing "how many girlfriends you've had" stupid; if you're going to be in a relationship it should be important, with someone you're willing to be with for the rest of your life. I'm 19 and never been in a relationship or on a date because I don't want to be with somebody unless they're a perfect match for me. And so far I've found literally zero girls in my life that like the same things I do. I had to go through all of school thinking I was the weird one because 90% of the people there act so unbelievably immature, but I've learned not to care what people think of me because I know I'm cool in a completely different category, and that's all that matters. My small group of introverted friends and my video games are all I need to be happy for now. c:
I'm an introvert, and I think this is really accurate, for me at least.
The sims 2 it is
The sims 2 it is very accurate, also I think who I was "aiming" for has noticed but doesn't care
The sims 2
It's very true, my friend.
(Also The Sims is great)
I liked a girl last year and I didn't realize that I was displaying all of these signs to her until now.
My boyfriend is an introvert and by watching this, i proudly say that HE LOVES ME so much :)🤭 i watch all about introvert to know him better ❤️ Love You Madno!❤️
who else is reading the comments and thinking: thank god im not alone
Evangelina Tsiotsia mee
Me this comment section is gold tbh
Almost no,one person is alone in their feelings and thoughts.You are almost certain to find someone with the same feelings and views as you.
yaboi
A freaky Dillo yeah you're right :)
"everybody has an introverted friend"
BOLD OF YOU TO ASSUME I HAVE FRIENDS
Your comment is a natural laxative! Good one :-)
Applause 👏👏
You do....yourself
@@xkvoex nope I don't understand her and kinda hate her sometimes lol._.
Yeah I barely have friends:(
It’s kinda creepy to hear aspects about you from strangers
I think it's good, it makes me feel normal and it remindes me that there are many people out there just like me.
i find delight in it. To be able to hear someone try to understand me or match how I think about myself while introducing a new angle adds to the considerations of my awareness.
I know right
Ikr
You think the description is good ? That's half me and half not. For some examples, it's ok for me (be alone, observe people, etc...), but I don't have any problem to talk about my opinions. If it's ok for you, I'm feeling so bad, I even can't match with a general description..
The way I screamed...YES when i heard about social introverts...i couldn't describe it because I would get so energetic around my family and close friends..but when I get around huge parties I want to isolate myself...so now I know I'm a social introvert
"do these traits sound like someone you know?"
Yes I know him, he's me
hello there my introvert friend :D
@@mehmetgurdal :)
KENNNOOOBEEAAAAAA
XD
@@bavausthad5128 XD
This is all so true for me. This is stuff extroverts need to know. They don't know how much courage it takes for us to talk to people we've admired for a long time. We're complex, but will only share our complexity with people we 100% trust. We're not antisocial; we love our friends, but we choose very carefully, and take it seriously. An introvert's love and trust is something others must earn, and once it is, it's unbreakable. Our shells may be hard to crack, but there are still soft spots, and we'll gladly open up to people we like. This video should be required viewing. It's beautiful.
KingsleyIII we got an extrovert society and it leads to introvert discrimination, as it seen in every aspect of our life (if you don't see it, you're not paying attention to world). So, being an introvert is pretty hard. And this split in society build up for extroverts causes labeling from one side to another where one is autists and another is ignorant social whores. And worst part is that we can eliminate this ignorance just by treating introverts like introverts and extroverts like extroverts instead of treating everyone like extroverts. I'm talking about education, ads, TV, etc.
KingsleyIII I agree. This video did an amazing job of explaining it all. I like that I felt understood when the lady in the video was talking. It's so hard for me to talk to new people, so most conversations end in an awkward silence. I think that the video showed me some ways that i can work to be better too, and try to make more of an effort to talk to people that I want to be friends with, instead of waiting for them to talk to me.
Only thing i disagree with in this vid, is that they're making out introverts to be so special that extroverts should feel honoured to be let into their world. As an introvert myself, i've never ever felt that anyone else was actively trying to understand me. More that i should be thankful for what time they could give me of themselves. "fast paced times" "world's speeding up", these are the excuses fed to me as to why i'm constantly forgotten or ignored.
Sh*t. Gonna go now before the tears start. Bye.
This is especially true when that trust has been broken... Multiple times... Like literally I since I moved I have two "main" friends. And even still I keep them at a distance not because I don't trust them, I just have trusted other people before and I've been hurt.
KingsleyIII
Holy special snowflake syndrome.
Introverts unite! Far away! In our own houses! Locked up! Under our blankets... *alone.*
I'm under a blanket right now lol.
That’s the spirit! XD
@@zoa3244 me too! Yeah
I as an introvert i like somone but cant open up to them
@@youtheme8035 so me rn
As an introvert, I can tell you that you'll think I absolutely hate you when I actually really like you (I totally avoid my crush, I speak alien when we talk)
Don't do this
I wish being an introvert was as cute as these drawings make it out to be. It's hard. 😕
Yes Honey Yes However, introverts are different. That's a good thing.
Yes Honey Yes no, you don't want
Yes Honey Yes atleast we, introverts have enough time for ourselves 😊
frs, especially meeting random people for the first time. I can't take the awkwardness
Being an introvert isn't hard. You're talking about anxiety or social ineptitude, introversion is just a lack of interest in extrovertive activity. It's not discomfort, it's preference.
If you've got discomfort you have deeper issues.
These drawings are adorable! They look like stars
dream petal i love your comment :D
Aw, so true! I never thought of them as stars, now they look even more adorable to me than before!
they look like lumas from super mario galaxy
dream petal i like them too but she dosent draw a crotch area at all and it bugs me
Matthew Eriksen so you want the D?
A lot of these sound like me. I think I'm a social introvert. I don't have many friends and feel that it is important to really trust someone before calling them a friend.
I agree, I only have 2 friends, but I feel they're pretty much better brothers to me than the actual one
Emily Bahu same irl I only have like 3 friends that I'm comfortable with
I have 1 friend that i'm comfortable with.
I have a group of 4 friends and a new 5th one although we only talk to them during classes.
True
1. we smile when you talk to us
2. we agree with what you say
3. we seem more comfortable around you
4. we tell you something about us if we really like you
5. we blush- smile
6. we listen carefully to you.
This video could also be titled "10 signs that you're an introvert and you think you might like someone."
Or tips on how to 'like' like an introvert.
Jerome Talor jajajjajaaj.. right xD
powerpc127 So true
If you think you might like someone, then you probably do. What else do you need to know?
yep
The most annoying thing I have to deal with as an introvert is coming up with excuses of why I can't come to social gatherings. And I know that each time I go I'll meet new people and get new invitations to other things. I have a word document with a list of excuses and who I've used the different excuses on, not kidding.
Yeah, I've already started turning down much more than I did before. I felt like I did something wrong when I stayed home, but now I've just realized I need to be alone more than most people and that that's okay. I can also say that I want to be alone to my closest friends without them making it into a big thing, which I would have NEVER done 5 years ago.
TheVildee i have done similar things, it really is a pressure...
Same man same
TheVildee who gives a shit about your first world problem
TheVildee I agree so much...happens to me to
As an introvert myself I can assure that this is accurate. All of them.
Anomen
I'm actually considering telling my bestest friends to watch this. This defense counts as letting them in my personal space. :)
Anomen yes very much so
yeah very true ^__^..
Same. It's very accurate!
yeah, same here^.^
I'm an introvert, but I have a much more cautious way of liking someone. I think A LOT about what, where and when to do something for a person I like.
This is so true. And we feel like it's normal but when the person that we like get to know about it, they think we are obsessed with them and we need to stop doing it.
I'm an introverted person, but I find the internet more comforting than the real world, thank you Internet!
Same, internet is the only place I can be myself, outside of the few friends I have IRL
Derp UmWell I can be myself in Internet too, not gonna lie, that screen is really protective and I feel no pain when we insult me so, yeah..
Thank you Internet.
(Outside of my true friends!)
See?I can relate to almost everyone on here, and I feel comfortable letting these things out than I do in real life
Derp UmWell Internet is like a comfortable alternative world for me..
I like apples
Shieldity Me too, which type is your favorite?
I'm a thinking introvert. I'm not quiet because I'm bored, I'm quite because I'm thinking.
soulassassin0g same
soulassassin0g I'm quiet because both
me 2 but i can't manage to get inspiration :-/
I think about what others might be thinking....I'm weird
I do the same thing but I think about what they're thinking about, and if it's about me, and wondering if it's positive.
Sometimes I wish I wasn't as introvert as I am, because I want to talk to new people and get to know them, but I literally don't know how, and the thought of just doing it makes my stomach hurt.
Marvel Mz same 😣
Omg I taught I was the only! 😑
Marvel Mz just talk whatever comes to your mind, try asking for things that they like, their family, where he lives and then let the conversation be fluent. you can improve ur social skills by trying. its hard but it works, trust me.
Soml...
Marvel Mz just smile..🙂
I’m sure every introvert disagrees that if they like you they’ll contact you on a daily basis but they will contact you a few times a week.
Explain Please?You saying that if a introvert likes you they will contact you a few times a week?Or on a daily basis..She contact me and hung out with me several times a week. For 6 months I been busy and had my phone off..Don't know if she called...Last time I talked to her and hung out was last mon..We haven't talked since..And I had to call her to make that happen..I mean she did something I never expected her to do just to hang out with me..But it's weird because she stop reaching out to me first..But always responds to my calls immediately and text..But why has she stop calling me🤔
@@tryingtochangemyways5074 bc she want you to make the first move to know if you really into her or not
@@kairiaegyochan8916 I wish that was true but she is more then a introvert..She is a demi sexual as well..So no she is not interested..She is just very comfortable with me..I am in her small circle of friends..It's a exceedingly long story..But yeah I have a dilemma
I seriously thought I had a mental disorder because I like being alone to think a lot. Thank you for this.
same...
See if you can relate to this article. It tells you pretty well what an introvert is. Worth reading if you want to find out if your are one or not.
introvertspring.com/what-is-an-introvert/
Same, except in my case it actually was a mental disorder
ColossalDonot5 Same
Avianix • me too
I can't look at restaurant employees when I order food, I'll stare at a table or look at the ceiling instead, people think I'm crazy but I'm just really shy and don't like people. My friends say they are introverts yet they talk to everybody we see and have no problem meeting new people. Because I hardly ever talk people think I'm ignoring them or just straight up rude. I care deeply for my friends and if I get to know you really well I'll open myself up to you. I do eventually warm up to people it just may take some time.
*Thanks for reading this comment, I hope it didn't waste too much of your time.*
You're shy ! it's not something that bad y know im sure those employees or the people ur talkin to understand this if you want to get over this tell this to youtself : im gonna look them in the eyes and see what happens if they keep talkin to you good for u if they dont u can still look at the ceiling, after all you're a human like any other who is worth being looked at don't you feel ashamed of yourself
Same here, making eye contact isn't hard for me, but keeping it is... Eh...
❤ no waste of time
maybe they *are* introvert. Being an introvert doesn't mean you have to be a nerdy, socially awkward kid
Finally someone who understands
in my book
if i approach you first,
or respond with something more then "yeah.." or yes/no
i'm making an effort to be your friend
Kill Me Same here, yet it seems most people see that as being snobbish
Kill Me same
Kill Me
Kill Me S ame
Me as an introvert I had a friend that's been through me since most of my childhood and he was the first person that got to know me very well and helped me break out of my shell and be more confident around others and speak more and more and for that I am grateful that he became a part of my life and consider him as a brother.
Awwww these are such cuute lil doodle people
Ikr!
Ok what?
Yee. :D
I know right
hahaha I watch this video because of the doodle little men on the thumbnail. :D
When you watch a video that describes you entirely in an aspect.... Creepy.
You should try a personality test then. I know they aren't viewed as the most scientifically accurate, but I gave it a try myself and was quite overwhelmed by it. I recommend the test at 16personalities.com. Sorry if this was too long :)
Eirik Kolås Actually, I know I'm introverted. I have a friend in the same boat and we like psychoanalyzing from a distance.
Justin Harsey right
@@Rexuno100 tysm for this test. I'm INTJ and I am always the weird one. I learnt so much about myself. Thanks again!
I like it it's nice being understand
That time when you watch this to see if you found someone who likes you.. but then you realise you're the inrovert
Berserk Yuya MEEEEE
Berserk Yuya You literally just described my situation. I came here because the guy I like is an introvert and I want to see if he likes me. After watching the video I realized it described how I acted to him. I'm the introvert with a crush.
Berserk Yuya I was just thinking that heh
Hi everyone,I'm Zahira. I really liked it because it really is cool to see how people really care about introverts. It's good really😳
That's okay....
Being an introvert is when you get drained by social energy it doesn't mean you have to be anxious or reserved
I'm mainly a social introvert but I do tend to have some traits like an anxious and thinking introverts
Boggy Bunny I think most introverts have a combination of all the different types, just majorly in one category. Alot of extroverts will have some introvert traits too
saaaamee, let's be frens.
Same here
Boggy Bunny same
Boggy Bunny Me too! :)
Yesterday i went out with my crush, and she knows i'm an introvert, the day before yesterday she said "please, try to talk to me, i know it's not easy for you, but try" aND I DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED BUT WE SPEND LIKE THREE HOURS TALKING i hope she's proud of me, i really like to go out with her and spending time with her aaa.
aww nice, I wish I could talk to my crush lmao
@@itzxlaura you can, i believe in you uwu
@@SaeSaeyoungyoung thank u
Introverts feel also more, "wrażliwość" in Polish.
I beleve in you, we must beat eachothers in order to get something better ! No matter what happends, it you want it, you must fight for it.
I m loosing all the time also, but, just fock it just let s try!
hearing something like that is actually quite surprising and that's when you know you found the right person hope y'all do well :')
"What type of introvert are you?"
Wait... there's more that one?
And surprisingly I have all 4 features in me😂😂
Yes, I’m all four
I'm the thinker
Right?
I am SO the thinker
as an introvert, rather an infp, i really don't like to make the first move ever and I tend to cut off people from my life who doesn't fit the ideal person in my head
introverts are watching this so they can do these less
nekochuu | YES!! I tried for the last girl and I got hurt so I’m gonna stop myself for doing things that’ll hurt me. I love to be alone!
No I just want to know how accurate it may be as it seems like a good video and It is worth my time for now.
Lol for me I’m just trying to figure out if I like someone
No
What why ;( im tryna look for these signs in my lil introvert crush lmao
I am literally a mix of all 4, holy.
Merlin's Beerd me too I don't know why but I even almost cried when the examples were shown. I'm watching these videos because I want to talk to a girl in my class which I'd like to be friends with but I can't approach her, my heart freaking drops to the ground xD
but I'm bubbly with the people who approach me... this is so stupid :(
I'm the same with one of my colleagues. It's hard to let someone know you care about them without making yourself vulnerable or getting super nervous about it. Maybe you could start slow, just ask how she is doing or mention something you have in common. In my case, it does get easier with time.
Merlin's Beerd, Yeah I tick all the boxes too. It's especially hard when relatives or loved ones try to drag you to places because they think you don't meet enough people. While they are partially correct, all they serve by doing this is wearing me out.
Merlin's Beerd Same
Merlin's Beerd MEE TOO
Me on my own: actually TRIES to talk to someone
Them: Let’s go meet my friends
Me: *b* *y* *e*
😌
REAd MorE
I basically have a panic attack and try to escape whenever someone tries to befriend me too
Like, EXCUSE ME? I wanna talk to YOU. Not them. YOU. Don't drag those guys in here just cause I managed to gather the courage to talk to you after the short span of half a year.
..of course, my mind is screaming and saying those things, and yet I'm simply shaking my head and declining. I just don't want them to think I'm rude or anything.
As an introvert(thinking) myself, I've seen all of these patterns in my own behavior! You guys hit it right on the nose!
"So, would you like your crush to know you like her?
Well yes, but actualy no.
😂
This mans gets it
Lol same.....it would be so....shyful and weird
So me😂
real.
I’m an introvert and I just told my best guy friend how I feel about him and now we’re going on our first date! It took everything in me to make the first move.
Congratulations!!!!! 🎉 🎉
dayum that went well for ya man. How was your date?
thats awesome, i dont think i would ever be able to make the fiest move at anything lol great job
took everything???...still congratulations how's the date anyways!
Hope you two are happy together now !
this whole video doesn't apply to me but these drawings are the cutest things i've ever seen in my life. it makes me happy so thank u for that ❤
Yes I love them so much ☺️☺️
Same :)
I love your remix’s so much aaa
As an extrovert, all of my friends are introverts, but in the sense that they're quite shy and aren't particularly talkative. I'm pretty much a social butterfly who either gets a friend stolen or the friend doesn't want to be my friend anymore by dusting out with hurtful things and cutting off ties with me without telling my anything before a sudden outburst. I think this is an issue lots of extroverts like myself need to work on, especially the second one , because 2 complaints I get are that I'm too bossy and I criticise too much. We mean well but get that misinterpreted or we do it too much, until we seem controlling. Can anyone relate?
You are literally me.
Or you choosing people that represent you and treating them the way someone treated you in the past, and your brain is trying to teach you somthing, usually if we're displaying seen as bossy or critical it because we're in more of a shadow function. Because by all means we're all capable of being introverted and extroverted, one is just unhealthy for us. This is just a possibility of course.
I see you are Najimi Osana from Komi Can't Communicate
@@kylebagby20 I'm NOT capable of being extroverted -- not without literally putting myself through a living hell!
Is it me, or are introverts the most oxymoronic people in existence. In person, we tend to be very reserved, but online, it's another story xD
Gerard Mason: Reserved, yeah. I see Introverts talking on the internet as a way of not being extroverted, but letting out their "thinking" as spoken in the video. Physiclly, it's kind of hard to talk to someone, even if they're your best friend, but the internet's a totally different platform. All you need is a notepad and you can type whatever you want without feeling rejected, neglected, or having eyes on you.
Gerard Mason its just the fact that online you already have a shell, so all your opinions are in full motion here. I should know, I am an introvert.
so true
Less consequences online so you're more open
well, irl, anybody know that i'm gay, online, it's an other story, that, and talking to strangers you'll never encounter again is, kind of a relief
This video actually means a lot. I knew I was introvert, but I've never really looked into *Introvert* itself though. I actually show all of these signs to someone I like, it was actually a really nice feeling when you basically threw everything I've done out on the table, haha.
plot twist, the girl I like is introvert too, we actually found out we liked each other back in 2014, but we basically pretended it never happened. (I was 14 at the time, now 17.) Well, we still talk and this video confirmed that she does indeed still have those *feelings.* what a great video.. thanks recommended tab.
edit: didn't expect this to be in the top comments, I feel like the majority of people watching this video is *Introvert* in some way. Reading all of these comments are so relatable, it's good to know you're not the only one. Kinda like a reunion for us all. anyways, let's just hope *she* doesn't see this, hehe
Same.
Sam i'm an introvert and i like this guy who i go out of my way to say hi/bye to at work, and he also seems introverted but i don't think he likes/cares for me. your story was so cute i wish i had the same scenario
We've been exposed. It feels like everyone's eyes are upon us now. Observing us. Judging us.
We're afraid to say something back to avoid embarrassment. What if we make a mistake and people make fun of us? It would be impossible to live with the anxiety that would bring.
It's paradoxical. The society's attention is what we need to become "normal" but it's exactly the thing that we're most scared of.
It's hard to stumble upon people who genuinely want to understand you. People are too cold to be that warm. That is why we seek solitude... Why we choose to shut away the things that could bring us pain.
We may deny it but we can't place anyone at fault. Are people right and we're just abnormal freaks? Or are we too weak to stand up for ourselves and make them understand? So many questions. So much complexity. In the end, it's easier just to be alone... :(
Its a whole journey trying to conquer anxiety man
Random song you should listen to is Lateralus by Tool. There is a line "Overthinking, overanalyzing separates the body from the mind...withering my intuition..."
I can relate a lot. I have social anxiety, and it is bad. But it has been worse. I tell you with 100% sincerity that the thing that has helped me the most-more than breathing exercises, medications, biofeedback, and more than therapy- is humor. I have slowly, over time, developed a perspective of lightheartedness. I started by just thinking of something completely ridiculous and goofy in my head that makes me laugh inside. You know, the kind of thing that makes your heart flutter real quick? It usually settles quickly. But if you learn to perpetuate that feeling of goofiness, and use it as a lens with which you view the world, life can be bliss!
Obviously, you can't be in a perpetual state of euphoria. And this may sound outlandish. But I am telling you, this has been my release from the sentence that is anxiety. I'm not saying I'm cured; I am on the whole still an anxious person. What I am saying is that I have learned that i can transcend, or override anxiety with laughter! When i reached the point where my delight turned into a physical smile, I struggled to maintain it, feeling guilty or something, like what is this?! Smiling, in front of people?! Quick, tighten your lips before they see you! But I learned how to hold a big, cheesy smile, and I am a genuinely happier person on a day to day basis than years ago.
There are admittedly many other factors to my relative success. But I just thought that I would share one thing that i think is pretty profound.
Hats off to anyone who reads this junk hahaa
@@smeardanglers8285 I read this junk haha and it's been helpful, thank you for writing this
Sputnik Cage when I was younger I used to get bullied and I preferred being alone because no-one would be there who could hurt me and I found comfort in it. I've always struggled in large groups of people though.
well said , pin point accurate!
I'm an introvert, if I ever talked or waved to you first, that's mean I like you! not like crushing but I just loves to be friends with you.
"There are 4 types of introverts"
*why am I three of them, then?*
Which 3
You are 3 people.
I'm all 4, which only caused even more confusion
I am 4 of them ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Why a I all 4 of them
Signs an Extrovert likes you
1: They say it
2: The say it
3 They say it
4: They shout it
5: They declare it
6: They announce it
7: They place it into your mind
8. They say it
9: They (insert a word alternative to "say" here) it
10. They are squeezing your buttcheek
I ain't even Bovvered tho hmm, sally likes me then
Or they don't say it and assume you understand the hints.
@tehdavel192 no those are not extroverts, those are known as women.
I ain't even Bovvered tho that last one is actually my brother XD
Empirical Thinking Fuck off
So I am basically social introvert + I am shy too.
I used to thought i am anxious introvert cause i am sometimes anxious and awkward during social gathering but now i realize I don't like being all alone or solitude in fact i am comfortable with my close friends or family .
Thanks for making this more clear to me:)) Psycho2Go♡
When you're all 4 types of introverts at once..
Life's over.... XD
Yep. Scrolled down literally to see if anyone else posted this... Welp, can't deny your're an introvert then. XD
I know exactly how you feel XDD
chelade17 me too
Same! (Even though i'm more like a thinking Introvert)
I like being an introvert. People I don't like don't notice me as much and I water turnips in Harvest Moon like nobody else's business. Really I don't see the problem with not wanting to be social every second of the day.
feel you.. but somehow its good to have someone around too.. esp. when they're introverts like us ^__^..
same. I absolutely love observing people from afar and imagining different consequences for all my actions. it keeps me sane. I'm not social at all and I am constantly afraid of being judged on my opinions. lol. on the internet since nobody knows me in this world I can say whatever I want!!!
Maddie Pelkey same
excuse me,i'm going to leave a small like here and my "same" in this response section,thanks
It's a double edged sword... A part of me loves the solitude, but at the same time I want a little bit of what they are having :) It's just not fair to date someone you know wouldn't be happy living with your lack of social interest. My life is pretty much all about lying to everyone about the most mundane things, it's easier that way.
Problem is, I worry that I'm cold in social situations; I'm an incredibly sentimental and caring person most of the time, but when someone tells me deep emotional secrets I find it almost impossible to open up back or sympathise too openly. It makes me feel horrible, and stops people from getting close to me.
Same here buddy, that's why I avoid social interactions... It's just so awkward when someone tells you secrets about themself and you don't know how to react the way they're expecting you to ? I'm just like "uh, yeah, okay, why do you even bother to tell me that?"
Anyway, I hope you'll find a way to solve your problem. Communicate via phone/Internet helps sometimes, I think.
Oscar Oliver You shouldn't worry so much about it. This comes with time, believe me. It took me around 5 years to open up to my friends and I am still very careful about what I am revealing. Most of them still don't know alot of me and I rarely have any contact with them outside of school. Just take your time. If they are your friends they should be okay with it and not forcing you to tell them your secrets.
Same. I also worry that if I open up too much, then it will seem like I'm trying to outdo them with worse problems and undermine their own, which would seem really narcissistic.
Oscar Oliver same
i feel the same. it's awful
I am an introvert all the way and I relate to all of these. It was really refreshing to know that people actually know how we function. I didn’t know how to explain it before but YES I prefer to communicate in small groups of people! Less chaos. Thanks Psych2Go! ☺️💕 HAPPY NEW YEAR 🎊 2021 🦄🌟🎊
Wow I thought I was smooth at hiding it...
haha.
Yep me too
Zix Same
same. at a party i revealed my crush to a few people and another person there, someone i know casually, said they already knew. apparently they could see it in my eyes as soon as i showed up that evening and saw them and figured it out right then. i was so shocked
same here ;-;