10 Signs an Introvert Likes You
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- If you're wondering on how to tell if somebody likes you, especially an introvert, here are 10 signs. Introverts are subtle, but paying attention to these will help big time.
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When you're an introvert and you're unsure if you like someone so you watch this...
Lol truth
Yes haha
Blake Freeman you eat me family ;-;
Lori Tato
saame
Yeah. That awkward moment when you don't know your own feelings...
Introverts
The happiest people when we're alone. The saddest people when we're lonely.
Dragoș Micu okey what is the difference between being alone and lonely..🤔
@@yuhuuunder1912 Being alone is being you by yourself alone. Loneliness is a feeling (I hope I describe this as accurate as possible xd) more like a lust for someone to keep you company.
A true introvert doesnt know how being lonely feels. At least thats how I feel im extremly introverted and i never felt lonely although I spend 90% of my freetime alone.
@@mellar5864 I tend to feel lonely in social situations. Maybe that's just me though.
Oh my God it's in words!
as an introvert, here you go:
1. we smile when you talk to us
2. we agree with what you say
3. we seem more comfortable around you
4. we tell you something about us if we really like you
5. we blush- smile
6. we listen carefully to you.
i blush at anything though 😭 my friends look at me for a long time and i always get red
YES,thank you
Yea I do all of these things
@@datSNSDstan same tho
So true and im an introvert :)
What I’ve gathered:
If an extrovert acts like an introvert around you, they like you
If an introvert acts like an extrovert around you, they like you
But....my friend is an extrovert and she talk so much when we are talking does that mean she don't like me?
@Oliver Erz Thanks for telling me! I'm feeling much better now
Dude you are right ❤😊
⊙👄⊙ i-
When you actually talk to someone you like I find it easier when you're kinda forced into it and have to make some conversation. I'd be nervous af around her but when she was my partner or we ended up naturally talking I could not stutter once.
I waited 4 years and she ended up getting with someone who she looked really happy with, it was towards the end of school to so I might never see her again lol I hate myself
How to know if an introvert likes you: he/she won't make eye contact.
How to know if an introvert doesn't like you: he/she won't make eye contact.
So relatable people may get confused😂
My god it hurts how much it’s true
Hahaha
Truee
Hahahah truee
Alternative Title:
10 Signs that you are an introvert who likes someone
Well_The_Simulations yes
That's true
That fits
the comments are to pure for me😀😀😀
Lol.. hahaha
introverts don't talk less. They talk to less number of people 😊😊😊
Exactly 🤙🏾♥️
Beautifully said
Yes exactly
Yea
Well yes, but actually no
fun fact:
if you have an introvert person as your friend they are most likely to be true friends
Really!? 😯
I'm an introvert. Many people see me as a friend, but I have no one in my mind to call my friend.I'm not sure if I've ever met someone who can understand me🙄.So if someone comes I promise to send and I will make him lucky 🙂
not for me. I am an introvert and act as a doormat, so I have developed friendships with people I don’t really like or click with.
@@vedhashalu7954 same :,)
My friend group has 4 people including me and everyone except me is introverts 😁😄
Ancient introvert: A grand wizard that has achieved immortality by never leaving their house.
Majoren and a neckbeard
I'm on my way to attain this level of introversion.
That = Me 100%
Majoren those aren't introverts my friend...those are what we call virgins
no, other people can go in your house, right?
Im an introvert and i am good at keeping secrets
By forgetting them.
lol same
Yep
Same
Lol same
Smart
You cant tell a secret that u dont remember
Psych2Go: “Do these traits sound like someone you know?”
Me: “Yes, *me* “
Same
Same
of course I know this person, he's me
Me too
*watches video so I don't sound too obvious*
I feel like 80% of the people who are depressed and very lonely and only want someone to love them.
As someone with social anxiety and occasional depression I strongly agree with your statement.
Sometimes i just want someone to hug.
@@greenthumb2326 damn tru
I am extrovert but as a depressed person We will give you 100 at least give us 1 🙂💔
y e s
I and I don't have one anymore because the shitty cycle of life took my dog from me recently
"There are 4 types of introverts" like wtf I match all of them
Marko Marković Jesus loves you all ❤️ John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he sent his one and only son that whoever shall believe in him shall not perish but have eternal life”
Jesus loves you and he stands at the door of your life and knocks. Will you invite him in ? He loves you so much! the first step is simply talking to him and believing in him
Yeah, it's very common for us introverts to fit each of those qualities xD
me too :)
ikr i match with all of them too
Me too 🙃
Basically, if us Introverts had a crush on someone, we will just let this video explain it rather than doing it ourselves.
Literally was thinking the exact same
sounds like a good plan to me.
CrimsonDAGA9 Drakenhart that’s crazy... that was literally going across my mind lol
That's so stupidly true lol
HOLY FUCK TRU
1. Making the 1st move
2. Open up
3. Observing
4. Inviting u into their personal space
5. Talking about personal topic
6. Showing extra care
7. Going the extra mile
8. Constantly keep in touch
9. Revealing secrets
10. Giving feedback
Me: an introvert
My crush: an introvert
Also me: *sobbing in my room at 4am hoping that my crush doesn't find this 👁💧👄💧👁*
Why lol ?, wont it be better if she found this video
@@filler8086 or he
@@kass1138 does it really matter
No
Wat if he finds the video and the comment and confronted u? That'll be interesting
Literally just saying "hey" to a crush takes so much out of me.
I'm kind of introverted, however I do have extroverted tendencies. Saying "hey" doesn't bother me, however doing the cuddling thing is extremely personal and takes a lot of bravery for me to do.
You said "hi" to a crush? You are a rare breed. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Geckos and Games yeah same here.
Geckos and Games I remember I said hey and some bitch said "you like her dont you" and I just put my head down 😂😓
I've never even said hi to my crush ever on my own. I only ever talk to crushes if they talk to me first, and it's usually a one or two sentence "conversation."
Crush: "Hey, how are you?"
Me: "Good, how about you?"
Crush: "I'm good thanks for asking.... *awkward silence* Well have a good one."
The end
Basically, if an introvert acts like an extrovert around you they like you
I dont act like that around my crush (maybe a bit) and im an introvert who spends their tine in the internet A LOT
Edit: its been over 4 years now, stop replying ok ;-;
@@miniyee ok
@@TheAnimator34 ok
@@miniyee ok
@@aaaa_11122 ok
This whole video is literally me. I need an introvert groupchat.
Yes so I can observe the conversation and never respond 😎
@@sid4583 Same
no ones gonna talk
The last group chat I was in no one was talking to each other
So I left the group but no one texts me anymore so I don’t text them back my mum only calls me and I call here back sometimes that’s all I need
“Everyone has an introverted friend”
I don’t, you know why?
*because I am the introverted friend.*
Me too
Same lol
*but doctor... I am Pagliacci*
One of the hardest things is when you like an introvert, but you're introverted also.
EDIT: This is my most liked comment on UA-cam. Thanks xD.
I'm in that exact situation. I have absolutely no idea what to do since neither one of us is likely to make the first move (assuming she even likes me that way, which I would never be able to tell).
Yeah it sucks :I
Well i just recently asked out my crush and she did say yes. We both happened to be introverts and i had noticed that she didn't immediately push me away so i just sucked it up and asked her.
I tried taking a girl on a date but we both are really introverted so its hard
+MinnieMuffins EXACTLY it's one of the most awkward and uncomfortable things ever lmao
It’s funny when a introvert likes you they’re more extroverted when a extrovert likes you they’re more introverted
that would just make us all ambiverts whenever we like someone
XD yeh that's true
@@clay6334 Yupp thats rightt! xD
Grimlinz No, what op said is true! Introverts become louder around their crush. The extroverts become quieter around the crush.
T A C O B E L L E I’ve experienced it. I got quieter and he was loud and looked extroverted. I’m the extrovert, he’s an introvert 😅
As an introvert, I can tell you that you'll think I absolutely hate you when I actually really like you (I totally avoid my crush, I speak alien when we talk)
Don't do this
My boyfriend is an introvert and by watching this, i proudly say that HE LOVES ME so much :)🤭 i watch all about introvert to know him better ❤️ Love You Madno!❤️
introverts are watching this so they can do these less
nekochuu | YES!! I tried for the last girl and I got hurt so I’m gonna stop myself for doing things that’ll hurt me. I love to be alone!
No I just want to know how accurate it may be as it seems like a good video and It is worth my time for now.
Lol for me I’m just trying to figure out if I like someone
No
What why ;( im tryna look for these signs in my lil introvert crush lmao
who else is reading the comments and thinking: thank god im not alone
Evangelina Tsiotsia mee
Me this comment section is gold tbh
Almost no,one person is alone in their feelings and thoughts.You are almost certain to find someone with the same feelings and views as you.
yaboi
A freaky Dillo yeah you're right :)
My boyfriend is a HUGE introvert and everyone was telling me he liked me 3-5 months into our friendship. (I’m autistic so I am fully oblivious to hints) I didn’t believe it until we got high together and he admitted it lol. Watching this video helped everything in my head piece together 😂 We’re going on almost 4 months now and we’re already planning our future together. I can’t wait to be this man’s wife! ❤️
The way I screamed...YES when i heard about social introverts...i couldn't describe it because I would get so energetic around my family and close friends..but when I get around huge parties I want to isolate myself...so now I know I'm a social introvert
Introverts can be talkative...
But only around people they're comfortable with.
Usually when it's with other people they keep quiet because they don't know them well enough to just spawn a topic. So they prefer to listen to extroverts and learn so they can eventually be able to talk to them about things they enjoy themselves or what their extrovert friend enjoys.
Rosa Chichona EXACTLY
Rosa Chichona RIGHT
I can relate
True
I don't know whether I'm an introvert or extrovert I'm not afraid to talk to anyone and can start up a conversation but I'm a lot more comfortable with my circle of friends
It’s kinda creepy to hear aspects about you from strangers
I think it's good, it makes me feel normal and it remindes me that there are many people out there just like me.
i find delight in it. To be able to hear someone try to understand me or match how I think about myself while introducing a new angle adds to the considerations of my awareness.
I know right
Ikr
You think the description is good ? That's half me and half not. For some examples, it's ok for me (be alone, observe people, etc...), but I don't have any problem to talk about my opinions. If it's ok for you, I'm feeling so bad, I even can't match with a general description..
As an extrovert, all of my friends are introverts, but in the sense that they're quite shy and aren't particularly talkative. I'm pretty much a social butterfly who either gets a friend stolen or the friend doesn't want to be my friend anymore by dusting out with hurtful things and cutting off ties with me without telling my anything before a sudden outburst. I think this is an issue lots of extroverts like myself need to work on, especially the second one , because 2 complaints I get are that I'm too bossy and I criticise too much. We mean well but get that misinterpreted or we do it too much, until we seem controlling. Can anyone relate?
You are literally me.
Or you choosing people that represent you and treating them the way someone treated you in the past, and your brain is trying to teach you somthing, usually if we're displaying seen as bossy or critical it because we're in more of a shadow function. Because by all means we're all capable of being introverted and extroverted, one is just unhealthy for us. This is just a possibility of course.
I see you are Najimi Osana from Komi Can't Communicate
@@kylebagby20 I'm NOT capable of being extroverted -- not without literally putting myself through a living hell!
I'm an introvert, but I have a much more cautious way of liking someone. I think A LOT about what, where and when to do something for a person I like.
This is so true. And we feel like it's normal but when the person that we like get to know about it, they think we are obsessed with them and we need to stop doing it.
I find it funny that this video is clearly targeted at extraverts, and yet all of the comments are from introverts.
LOL!
Horny Fruit Flies ikr
I believe this is because us introverts wish to see how someone else or other people view us. We like to gain a better understanding of ourselves in many cases.
Colton Gilbert perfectly said. :)
Yes. >.
My gf is an introvert and I'm watching this to know her more
That's really sweet of you
This is the cutest comment I've found here omg >
She should be proud of you
Woah!! Gud 1 bro 🤜🏾🤛🏾
Some introvert love someone kinda, caring extrovert...😁
as an introvert, rather an infp, i really don't like to make the first move ever and I tend to cut off people from my life who doesn't fit the ideal person in my head
These 10 signs I've all done for my close friends, so relate 😅
This video is supposed to be for someone who *thinks* an introvert likes them, but most of us here are actually THE introverts who likes someone 😂😂
hahahahha true
hahahahha true
so true
This boy in my grade, last year (mid February) when I walked past him heading to homeroom class, he looked at me and because it was so crowded, he looked for around 5 seconds and so did I. I was confused but just brushed it off
Eventually I learnt that 75% of the time, no matter if I’m near or far away from him, he manages to search and find me and stare at me for a while before walking off again. He is very introverted and doesn’t exactly have any friends (not really sure though, never seen him talk much to ppl)
And same here. I’m super quiet (severe social anxiety) and.. I tend to notice him looking at me a lot + when I like someone I do the same thing as him too so I understand him.
He still does it this year.
But honestly, idk if he likes me? I don’t wear any makeup or even try to act pretty - I act myself lol
And there are 10s of other girls in our grade who are prettier than me 😀😃 (but hey who cares lol)
When you are all the types of introverts named in the video...
I have all the traits too hehe, it's hard when you have all of this
Yep it’s hard
imaging you having all the traits , and being LGBTQ , your life is hard as hell....:( help..
Haha, I have all but 3...
Yep...
I’m sure every introvert disagrees that if they like you they’ll contact you on a daily basis but they will contact you a few times a week.
Explain Please?You saying that if a introvert likes you they will contact you a few times a week?Or on a daily basis..She contact me and hung out with me several times a week. For 6 months I been busy and had my phone off..Don't know if she called...Last time I talked to her and hung out was last mon..We haven't talked since..And I had to call her to make that happen..I mean she did something I never expected her to do just to hang out with me..But it's weird because she stop reaching out to me first..But always responds to my calls immediately and text..But why has she stop calling me🤔
@@tryingtochangemyways5074 bc she want you to make the first move to know if you really into her or not
@@kairiaegyochan8916 I wish that was true but she is more then a introvert..She is a demi sexual as well..So no she is not interested..She is just very comfortable with me..I am in her small circle of friends..It's a exceedingly long story..But yeah I have a dilemma
10 Signs an Introvert Likes You
01. Making the first move
02. Opening up
03. Observing
04. Inviting you into their personal space
05. Talking about personal topics
06. Showing extra care
07. Going the extra mile
08. Constantly keeping in touch
09. Revealing secrets
10. Giving feedback
This video could also be titled "10 signs that you're an introvert and you think you might like someone."
Or tips on how to 'like' like an introvert.
Jerome Talor jajajjajaaj.. right xD
powerpc127 So true
If you think you might like someone, then you probably do. What else do you need to know?
yep
Signs an Extrovert likes you
1: They say it
2: The say it
3 They say it
4: They shout it
5: They declare it
6: They announce it
7: They place it into your mind
8. They say it
9: They (insert a word alternative to "say" here) it
10. They are squeezing your buttcheek
I ain't even Bovvered tho hmm, sally likes me then
Or they don't say it and assume you understand the hints.
@tehdavel192 no those are not extroverts, those are known as women.
I ain't even Bovvered tho that last one is actually my brother XD
Empirical Thinking Fuck off
Being an introvert is when you get drained by social energy it doesn't mean you have to be anxious or reserved
I am an introvert all the way and I relate to all of these. It was really refreshing to know that people actually know how we function. I didn’t know how to explain it before but YES I prefer to communicate in small groups of people! Less chaos. Thanks Psych2Go! ☺️💕 HAPPY NEW YEAR 🎊 2021 🦄🌟🎊
I'm an introvert, and I think this is really accurate, for me at least.
The sims 2 it is
The sims 2 it is very accurate, also I think who I was "aiming" for has noticed but doesn't care
The sims 2
It's very true, my friend.
(Also The Sims is great)
I liked a girl last year and I didn't realize that I was displaying all of these signs to her until now.
this is so accurate.....people don't seem to understand that friendship is so much more meaningful and valuable for me than for most people...
Quality over quantity
AOokami correct. It's just that it's hard to find even that 1 quality friend you know... you give everything and you get 10% Back at best
Ikr, that's why it's so hard to just make friends. You have to know the person enough to judge if you want them to be your friend, and if they accept you... Good thing I love my alone time.
Well I have no problem with being alone. :D
Tho it seems like I have somehow?!?!?!?! Gained 3 really close friends in school now....idk how... I am confused
Haha good thing you managed to find 3 close friends ! As much introvert as you can be, I think you can't deny that the possibility to rely on someone is reassuring ^^
As an introvert, I can confirm I do almost all of these.
As an introvert(thinking) myself, I've seen all of these patterns in my own behavior! You guys hit it right on the nose!
Wow I thought I was smooth at hiding it...
haha.
Yep me too
Zix Same
same. at a party i revealed my crush to a few people and another person there, someone i know casually, said they already knew. apparently they could see it in my eyes as soon as i showed up that evening and saw them and figured it out right then. i was so shocked
same here ;-;
I'm an introvert, if I ever talked or waved to you first, that's mean I like you! not like crushing but I just loves to be friends with you.
Me as an introvert I had a friend that's been through me since most of my childhood and he was the first person that got to know me very well and helped me break out of my shell and be more confident around others and speak more and more and for that I am grateful that he became a part of my life and consider him as a brother.
I'm not sure if other introverts are like this or show this sign of affection, but usually I'm the quiet type who usually doesn't show that much emotion, but if you're really close to me, I become a huge, hyperactive goofball who wants to shower you with love. If I do something as little as give you a hug or hold your hand while we're walking, you'll know that you're someone I cherish.
That's literally me.
ѕρєcιαl ѕησωƒlαкє me too
everything you said is me
i'm the same as you!!
I am exactly like that.
Imagine an introvert sending this to their crush...
I get nervous just thinking about that :/
😳
This comment scared me...
I actually thought about it but we all knew i wasn t going to do it
That comment unsettled me more than any horror movie has. Nice work
Actually that's a good idea. I've been talking to this chick when I play pool at my local pub. She perks up when we speak so I know it's mutual...but it's difficult to explain the depths of my strange behavior. Maybe just texting this video to her would be easier and if she rejects me I can always move to the other side of the country and change my name. 🤓
"Do these traits sound like someone you now? "
Yea... Me
I completely agree with what they’ve said! Just remember that there’s a difference in liking someone and having a crush on someone 🙃
I'm an introverted person, but I find the internet more comforting than the real world, thank you Internet!
Same, internet is the only place I can be myself, outside of the few friends I have IRL
Derp UmWell I can be myself in Internet too, not gonna lie, that screen is really protective and I feel no pain when we insult me so, yeah..
Thank you Internet.
(Outside of my true friends!)
See?I can relate to almost everyone on here, and I feel comfortable letting these things out than I do in real life
Derp UmWell Internet is like a comfortable alternative world for me..
I like apples
Shieldity Me too, which type is your favorite?
2 Things that are cute in this video
- The drawing style
- Her Voice ( i swear her voice relaxes me)
I think that's why it has a million views.
Yeah, she has a pretty voice.
agree, she has a pretty voice
The piano song is cute either
I know it's pretty cute 😍
problem is i’m so introverted that i can’t even talk to them at all
So I am basically social introvert + I am shy too.
I used to thought i am anxious introvert cause i am sometimes anxious and awkward during social gathering but now i realize I don't like being all alone or solitude in fact i am comfortable with my close friends or family .
Thanks for making this more clear to me:)) Psycho2Go♡
I have to say that the little characters are adorable
me too but I don't understand why they cut their genitals
Dan Simbadd
Well they have been cutting part of them, not the whole thing, if you know what I mean.
Lara Haddad I think it's just their style or to save time :/
Unknownable H lol I was talking about circumcision (male genital mutilation) xD
Completely
introvert are the most romantic type
For sure! Are you an introvert yourself?
Primitive Instinct True that
Primitive Instinct nah, us ambiverts are
Primitive Instinct I feel like introverts have a tendency to be the most genuine people. A lot of extroverts spend so much time trying to look their absolute best, which leads to them being kinda fake, whereas a majority of people who claim to be ambiverts are extroverts trying to look good by saying they have the best of both worlds.
As an introvert i agree with that , i had relationships with both kinds, the introvert one was way better because introverts have more time to be alone with you and they carefully pick words to make you feel good , meanwhile the extrovert sometimes wants you to hangout together with her/his friends and that can make some pretty awkward situations if you don't know or like them in your little circle.
Introverts: ah perfect, now I can focus on these imperfections in my actions to keep myself in the shadows.
just say hi to their face while smiling, if they blush ure in
When you're all 4 types of introverts at once..
Life's over.... XD
Yep. Scrolled down literally to see if anyone else posted this... Welp, can't deny your're an introvert then. XD
I know exactly how you feel XDD
chelade17 me too
Same! (Even though i'm more like a thinking Introvert)
When you’re literally all these types of introvert and have a crush on one of the biggest introverts you know but you know you’ll never talk to each other 🙃
Randi Marie im in the same situation lol
Javier Merino True lol in my first comment when I said I was all the types I meant I have certain traits from all, however I do fit one type more than others 👌👍
Randi Marie me too
GO AHEAD AND ASK HER OUT
in the complete same situation
1. we smile when you talk to us
2. we agree with what you say
3. we seem more comfortable around you
4. we tell you something about us if we really like you
5. we blush- smile
6. we listen carefully to you.
I was doubting if I'm an introvert, but this explanation of a social introvert and basically the rest of the video told me I definitely am. This is exactly how I handle the people around me, and I'm quite happy with that. Keep your circle of lovely people small and close to you.
These drawings are adorable! They look like stars
dream petal i love your comment :D
Aw, so true! I never thought of them as stars, now they look even more adorable to me than before!
they look like lumas from super mario galaxy
dream petal i like them too but she dosent draw a crotch area at all and it bugs me
Matthew Eriksen so you want the D?
Video: exsists
Introverts: panicking and hoping their crush doesn’t see this
😂😂😂😂
*THE CRUSH VIEWS ARE COMING, RUN*
Hahahaha
Same here dude
I was kind of hoping my crush might see this and will only realize I like him if he likes me back.
That made N O sense.
Just watching this comforts me into thinking that every time I'm with someone I like I litterly act the same way your saying it, and it's true.
Being liked by an introvert is one of the most precious gifts of all
yeah they will be there for you when you needed them
Someone should mention if an introvert opens up to you, you shouldn't treat him/her like sht.
That's a good point. We can do a video on how to receive love from an introvert as well. Or how to love or appreciate an introvert.
Please do.
Psych2Go YAS PLEASE
For me personally, it would feel like special treatment when someone makes a youtube video about how you should or should not approach introverts and people actually following it. I would feel reduced to this trait of my personality and thus not taken seriously and as a whole person. It's rather that human in general should not treat each other like shit at all. If someone gives me a hard time, I naturally don't engage with them anymore.
And let's not seperate "Normies" and us in this matter, because: Why should their ultimate concern be that we need to like them? Some of these things here also applies to non-introverts because the evolution of a friendship is universal. They want to find out if you're a good friend or if you treat them like shit, too.
南 野 秀 一 i'll be more depressed and psycopath to them.
i like being an introvert even if people say i'm "antisocial" or "too shy". I don't think i'm stuck up or antisocial, i'm just insecure and like time to think . Plus many of the people at my school are very..shallow? All they talk about is drugs, sex, dirty jokes, who's with who..i don't care about any of that. Introverts are awesome!
Your life is just like mine. Its not my fault that i'm anti-social,shy or introvert. Its the school people. I can socialize better with people who don't talk about those stuff.
Same and people tend to think im stuck up or weird because i dont like to talk about that stuff but it's not my fault that i have higher morals and better things to think of 😂 Finally someone gets it!
Same here
I agree. I don't talk to most people because they talk about useless things. I don't care who's dating who, I don't care who's sleeping with who. I don't care about celebrities' lives, and I don't care what you think about other people. How about just focusing on your own lives and stop talking about the lives of others? That's what I want to say to most people, but I mostly keep it in my head because then I'll be labelled as rude or stuck up. And that's definitely happened before.
I agree. I always pondered how disgusting my peers were for talking about nothing but those things and labeling people like us as freaks because we talked about things other than sex and drugs, if anything at all. I always found the concept of dating and comparing "how many girlfriends you've had" stupid; if you're going to be in a relationship it should be important, with someone you're willing to be with for the rest of your life. I'm 19 and never been in a relationship or on a date because I don't want to be with somebody unless they're a perfect match for me. And so far I've found literally zero girls in my life that like the same things I do. I had to go through all of school thinking I was the weird one because 90% of the people there act so unbelievably immature, but I've learned not to care what people think of me because I know I'm cool in a completely different category, and that's all that matters. My small group of introverted friends and my video games are all I need to be happy for now. c:
I changed from an introvert to an extrovert last year. The reason was I didn’t want to be ignored anymore and I was lonely all the time. I was too shy to speak in class and I was too nervous to participate in any class activities. I wanted to make people notice me. I didn’t want to be the quiet girl with the book… I wanted to be known as the person who always smiles and talks to others. But even though I’m more social now, part of my introvert side hides in me and I sometimes still don’t socialize with people. I like observing them… then trying to make friends. When I was around my crush I would always look anyway nervously and never really spoke around him. I was afraid of saying the wrong thing or making the conversation awkward. I guess… I’m still an introvert at heart. ❤️
You'll end up hurting yourself trying to be what you're not,just be yourself and let the right people come to you
Like she said -- don't try to make yourself into something you're not, just BE the quiet girl with the book (no matter how others might pressure you) and then the RIGHT people will come into your life!
I wonder how many girls are watching this and suddenly realised he wasn’t being creepy
He was just an anxious introvert ...
Yo... I want to so believe that. Sadly :´(
They like that introvert just fine when he has money.
I like being an introvert, I just hate being used by people and too scared to tell them to leave me alone. 0_0
Edit: Omg I didn't think I'd get so many likes. Thanks for the support and I support you all 😊 at least I know I'm not alone in this situation. ❤️
Yay someone that understands me T^T
Well, i don't understand, as I'm not an introvert. But this sounds awful! I also don't really know what to do, because how can I know if a person feels bad or even "used" because of me if they don't tell me? I'm not that scary, only because I'm not an introvert doesn't mean I wouldn't understand that.
I LOVE ANIME indeed
Karla Lutz nice to know that you like anime
Me too. I sometimes just loose my temper. But I try not to be rude or else people will gossip..
there are actually five types of introverts
5 the people who think they are all four.
lmao exactly
NetGamingHQ You took the words right out of my mouth^^
But I wonder if having all 4 means that it's somewhat more serious than just having 1.
NetGamingHQ
Yeah. I'd consider myself 1 2 and 3. I get terrified in large crowds and am afraid of fucking up, but I don't necessarily always want solitude. I like hanging with a small group of close friends. Plus, I do daydream a lot(though, that might be some other problem) and am a creatice person. But, I don't fit 4, because I certainly catch myself saying stuff that I could've kept to myself.
I totally see myself as a 5 although right now I can be more comfortable with people (but I hate trying and avoid it as much as I can)
This sucks!!!!!
NetGamingHQ yeah I'm all four
"Going extra mile"
me: makes me remember that moment when Jaemin went to Jeno even if he was so busy in shooting a kdrama just because Jeno texted him that he was lonely. He then traveled literally an extra mile just to be with him to make his friend feel better. Introverts are really warm hearted.💕💚💚💚
I love this clip so very much.
minimal and very good
tusen takk 💗
I am introvert. But my families and relatives says that im just too immature. They told me to act my age and try to socialize. But they just dont understand that im too shy to talk to people even my relatives.
I can relate to that. Just trust God. Been there and i am now very talkative. :)
Cookie Crunch sAME I can text me if you want too I need a friend
I’m not shy but I don’t like talking to people really, only my close friends and family, UNLESS if it’s something I’m related to it like if they are gamers and basically speak my language hahah but I always try to avoid conversations and people
I’m the opposite my family always says I’m the most mature person in my family.
Most likely because I over think things and make sure what I do and say is the best thing I can do in a given situation.
Literally same they don't know why I'm so shy and I don't like talking to a lot of people including relatives they always push me to talk people at school do the same and they take advantage of me my dad thinks I'm depressed and my grandpa thinks that I don't like him because I don't talk to him a lot
*_Also, why do I feel like an alien every time you say "introvert."_*
She’s trying to be objective and neutral in this video. It’s just our own presumptions about that being an introvert is a bad thing that makes us feel disconnected.
@@svantee_in_the_woods8389 *_That was rhetorical._*
Nice
I always feel like an alien because I'm a introvert
TRUE 😂
Large groups of people: *Exists*
Anxious Introverts: _I gotta get out of here!_
it's me lmao
I’m not an introvert but I do like being alone and I hate texting people and it brings me peace and no problem
Sometimes I wish I wasn't as introvert as I am, because I want to talk to new people and get to know them, but I literally don't know how, and the thought of just doing it makes my stomach hurt.
Marvel Mz same 😣
Omg I taught I was the only! 😑
Marvel Mz just talk whatever comes to your mind, try asking for things that they like, their family, where he lives and then let the conversation be fluent. you can improve ur social skills by trying. its hard but it works, trust me.
Soml...
Marvel Mz just smile..🙂
Introverts unite! Far away! In our own houses! Locked up! Under our blankets... *alone.*
I'm under a blanket right now lol.
That’s the spirit! XD
@@zoa3244 me too! Yeah
I as an introvert i like somone but cant open up to them
@@youtheme8035 so me rn
I once had a friend who I didn't know was an introvert. I am quite flexible and friendly so I thought people are like me too. But this friend of mine, he was quite uptight and reserved. Somehow I managed to get his trust. To my amazement, when I got introduced to his family and I became friends with her sister, I discovered that they do not know much about my friend...that I know more about his thoughts and feelings and his secrets than they do. I was blown away by this.
I'm 100% a thinking introvert. During classes and while walking I often get lost in my own thoughts, which, in year 7, caused me to have my first detention. It's fun sometimes, but it can really cloud your thoughts with anxiety other times
You know guys this "like" doesn't HAVE to be in a romantic way,, it could be in a friendly way..
paami true im a social introvert and i talk to my friends first not because i like like them but like them as friends
paami I feel the same! that's what brought me here, to understand I build friendships and it's so spot on...
paami it said that too
I know! (P.S. Love your profile pic)
well I mean I wasn't talking to the people who made the video I was talking to the commenters
As an introvert, we aren’t really observant. We just notice things without thinking.
Also, if we try to make friends, we spent a LONG time checking if you are suitable or not.
That's partially true to my everyday life, I too, just happen to be able to quickly notice and am more aware than the other.
And yeah, making friends, one that stays true and will always be true, is the reason why we check whether is it the correct course of action to be friends to a certain person.
After all, it's quite easy to see through lies most people tell, as most lies are full of holes.
So judging their response and expressions alone is more than enough sometimes whether you decide to be friends with that person or not.
Having quite the perfect memory too makes it a bit easier to make that decision.
And it appears I'm typing in a bit too much, so I'll end it here.
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@@jonsena6yearsagoand949 that's true. Im an introvert. I only have 3 or 4 close friends. only ones I trust lol
It takes me 3 months to decide wheather I'm into a guy or not . Just "into"
That is so true.
I've got a pretty long checklist for every potential relationship I see.
I did not know there were types of introverts and anxious introverts actually reassembles me so much
It feels so good seeing your personality here and think of how wrong people have been dealing with you.
I am literally a mix of all 4, holy.
Merlin's Beerd me too I don't know why but I even almost cried when the examples were shown. I'm watching these videos because I want to talk to a girl in my class which I'd like to be friends with but I can't approach her, my heart freaking drops to the ground xD
but I'm bubbly with the people who approach me... this is so stupid :(
I'm the same with one of my colleagues. It's hard to let someone know you care about them without making yourself vulnerable or getting super nervous about it. Maybe you could start slow, just ask how she is doing or mention something you have in common. In my case, it does get easier with time.
Merlin's Beerd, Yeah I tick all the boxes too. It's especially hard when relatives or loved ones try to drag you to places because they think you don't meet enough people. While they are partially correct, all they serve by doing this is wearing me out.
Merlin's Beerd Same
Merlin's Beerd MEE TOO
The best part of being an introvert is, you don't need others to enjoy yourself.
I do like some of my friends but I feel sorry for those who always need a crowd, booze, loud music and instagram to feel they're not dead.
agreed
Why would you feel sorry for them? It's okay to like crowds and, *gasp*, be an extrovert. Being introverted doesn't make you better than everyone else.
To feel sorry for them just as an extrovert might feel sorry for a closed in shut-in 'awkward' introvert.
Sometimes people don't understand why certain people act a certain way or do certain things.
It's only natural.
You always need someone to be with. People are social creatures. Even if you think you don't need anyone to enjoy yourself. You are wrong. And you are thinking this only cause in your life you have this one/two person/s who fill your not really demanding personal space.
I was sure that I don't need anyone to feel cool and easy long time ago. But boy the life is shit when you are alone. I can tell. I'm alone for over 10 years. It's so hard to gain "proper" friends, especially when you are rational and people around you - not. And when one this person you want to be with constantly, avoiding you, cause you are gay and he is straight and knows this and don't want to feel awkward around you and this is understandable and you can't help it, but at the same time can't just throw away desire to be friends with him which he defying as an idea.
I love my friends, actually.
Ur videos really make me happy idk why but they do
Me realizing that I have done all of this in the past week with one single person: "damn that smells like trouble"
I like being an introvert. People I don't like don't notice me as much and I water turnips in Harvest Moon like nobody else's business. Really I don't see the problem with not wanting to be social every second of the day.
feel you.. but somehow its good to have someone around too.. esp. when they're introverts like us ^__^..
same. I absolutely love observing people from afar and imagining different consequences for all my actions. it keeps me sane. I'm not social at all and I am constantly afraid of being judged on my opinions. lol. on the internet since nobody knows me in this world I can say whatever I want!!!
Maddie Pelkey same
excuse me,i'm going to leave a small like here and my "same" in this response section,thanks
It's a double edged sword... A part of me loves the solitude, but at the same time I want a little bit of what they are having :) It's just not fair to date someone you know wouldn't be happy living with your lack of social interest. My life is pretty much all about lying to everyone about the most mundane things, it's easier that way.
you can tell if an introvert likes you, they stare at your shoes instead of their own
Lol!
Or they just really love your shoes ;P
steve culley That's what a Muslim would do. Lol.
lol me
STFU WHY YOU TELLIN PEOPLE THIS
My best best friend moved away one year ago. This year, I was paired up with a girl named Vanessa for a school project. She is an introvert, but after watching this, I realized, I found another true friend.
I always knew I was an introvert. This came across my recommendations. I decided to click it and learned that I was for sure an anxious introvert. Thank you.
"I'm not shy because I'm an introvert, I'm an introvert who so happens to be shy."
I'll leave this here for people who need it.
thank you!
@@Luna426 Welcome. I was busy with one of my stories and this line just seemed fitting, ya know?
Preach