watch this if you're an introvert
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- Опубліковано 8 чер 2024
- This is a full guide on how to get dark confidence as an introvert. Enjoy!
Daily Wisdom - / collinjunus
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Hey ~ I'm Collin and I'm a freshman at Yale University studying Computer Science and Music. I make new videos about college, entrepreneurship, productivity, biohacking, and whatever else is on my mind. Thanks so much for watching!
Chapters:
00:00 - Why this video will give you DARK CONFIDENCE
00:32 - Change Your Mindset (Important)
01:27 - Become a social leader (3 easy ways)
03:33 - Fix your body language
04:08 - Build abundance and mastery
05:25 - Thanks for watching!
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Thanks for watching my videos! I sincerely hope you enjoy them :)
Hope you guys enjoyed this video! Let's win together ;)
Jesus loves yall and died for us! Jesus calls for all of us to repent!!!!!! !!!! !
Am an introvert and did international relation😢 should have listened to ma
Jesus Christ Loves you all!!! ✝️❤️♾️❤️🩹🕊️
@@highestpeeqs9532AMEN!! 😊❤ God bless you, Jesus Christ Loves you too. ✝️🕊️🤍
@@highestpeeqs9532Allah ☝️
"Confidence isn't 'I know they'll like me' it's, 'it's okay if they don't.'"
I think, the actually confident person does not even think it.
yes thats what he said, i saw the video
@@luukbrugge Exactly. They don't register that on their minds.
They don't wander around asking themselves if they're gonna be liked. They're just... themselves, and it works, because they're often good looking.
Jesus Christ Truly Loves you all. At the end of the day, ONLY worry about what God thinks of you. Do not be worried of what man thinks of you, only fear God’s judgement. Jesus Christ is always with you, and always loves you all, AMEN!!! ✝️❤️♾️🕊️
@@daughteroftheHighest. Amen!
Competence = confidence 🤝
I can get it by computing confidence intervals.
This
I'm so glad you mentioned that being introverted isn't the same as being shy or antisocial. I don't like talking to strangers (I don't know many people who do, tbh), but I love socializing with my friends & loved ones and can do it for hours, but I'm still an introvert because I need to be alone for a while after tiring out and I love being by myself.
I do remember people brave enough to talk to me or too make a small simple comment as a friendly person. Something I would get super nervous just thinking about it but good for them.
@birbamour6 Well said ! I feel the same way
No one is forever quiet I don't have friends and I don't want but I talk to my family for hours
I know tons of people that just like coming up to and speaking with you for no reason. They just sort of try to adopt you and bring you into their friend group. It’s odd
To all the fellow introverts: love yourself!!!! If you love yourself, then you can show and receive love from others.
WORD
But how does one Love themself?
I mean, I am trying to Love myself, but isn't that mean that I am now putting up a fake facade,
@@Snowaxe3D you’re already on the right track by asking this question. loving yourself isnt about putting up a facade…it’s actually the opposite: once you can name your differences, your strengths, and your weaknesses, and understand that EVERYONE has their own strengths and weaknesses, you can start living with more confidence and acceptance of your unique self! if you feel like being your true self puts you out of place, it’s possible that you just haven’t found the right community of people for you yet. tap your strengths, try to work on your weaknesses, and accept your ultimate differences as a unique individual, and with time you’ll love yourself and the people around you!
@@j.r.chen30perfect response 👌🏻 😊
Fuck people, I just want my money and GTFO.
Be a Confident introvert 🖤
1.Change ur mindset : if ur introvert u must be confident with urself
2.Learn social game: its a skill to learn ... Maintain networks
Give compliments
Become a good listener (its easy for introverts)
Guard ur attention: be paricular about where u're giving ur energy & time cz they are limited ⏳
3. Be real & authentic
4. Fix ur body language
Chill & non reactive
Control sense of emotions
With shoulders being straight
Walk like u're the man/woman
Speak clearly , a little bit slower
5. Abundance +Mastery
Compitence= confidence
u dont need fake confidence
confidence should be real
it should radiate from u for real (OMG i loved this part 4:09 🤩 )
Build the real confidence (maybe ur good grades, having amazing physique, or accomplishing ur tasks, getting urself into discipline)
When u build one are for confidence, u have confidence in other areas too.
efforts ,works and small wins everyday will ripple ur confidence in every single area of ur life
Bye bye ~.~ 🌸
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@@IntellectualChad i forgot everything after watching the full video. This guy's summary helped me 😂
Networking is important but friendships is just waste of time I believe in just building network based on official requirement don't wanna build personal relationships in professional settings
Genuine friendship is worth to keep ❤@@saloni2244
@@saloni2244 right
Who else thinks this is giving Dark Academia vibes!
Great video, Chad! You had me at changing your mindset.
Much love G
Omo, you're here!!! 🙀😻
i'm a girl and i really enjoy watching your videos you have certain and special style in them just continue posting that's so helpful
That's Gold right here
yes same here! Girl, let's do this
Same here
Same
bro's cookin
My man, No Distracting Edits, Transitions amazing.
yo im a girl and maybe not your target audience, but bro this channel helps me so sooo much to understand myself and how to better myself. Thank you so much for another great vid. I really appreciate the effort you put in to making these videos. ill def be back on this channel often
Women ☕
@@jsk4412 here comes the immature mama's boy .
@@jsk4412eww you’re one of those men 🤢
Girl same!
commitment and believing in your abilities will build your confidence (unlimited power🌟)
I've been like this for years now and I can say it really works, it didn't took long for me to become probably one of the most loved people in my school just by being confident in myself.
Confidence really is everything.
Thank you for sharing this!🙏🏼 as a person who doesn’t have that much hope about confidence this sure gets me motivated 😄
This is absolutely true.
I am on self improvement for 5 years now and the way I changed everything about myself was by listening and learning from multiple perspective. Trust this man, his points are 100% true. Now that I gained true confidence, made my actions back up my words, started talking less and being way more mysterious I am attracting people left and right. Walking straight, speaking slower and living the life of abundance, made me attractive. Now it's easy to steer from the way and build yourself a huge ego. It's ok to have it but it's also important to not dismiss other people and only compete with yourself.
Helping people helped me build myself up so much.
Once you get all these things right, you become the most wanted person in the room by all means
I've been nice to people overly polite and helpful but I only got hurt in the process now when I don't care about people don't help them or don't even talk to them without ulterior motive I'm more happy
surely one of the best and clearest videos about confidence i've seen so far, good work.
This single video is far more informative and concentrated than half of the other videos about this topic.
you got a sub buddy.❤
All what I've to say is thank you for being in this world Collin 🙏❤
This video really nails the points. I’ve been talkative my whole life but I had to learn to appreciate silence, and with the years I’ve become more introvert and confident.
Perhaps if I may add to this excellent video is working on the style, having a sober yet, elegant style also makes a great difference.
Real confidence and self-validation comes inside out, a confident man doesn’t need to get validated as he knows he is good at what he does.
Keep up the good work young man,
Much love
@@IntellectualChad great videos man! Subscribed now! Thoughtful Young guys like you are needed to boost young generations,
Greets from a 40-y.o. fellow from Mexico
The method about "Changing your mindset about being an introvert" was the best part and it hit me really hard .
And also giving compliments immediately worked out 😁
This really helped me Collin, I loved the way how everything was straight to the point avoiding any BS. Lookiing forward to more such videos!
Jesus loves yall and died for us! Jesus calls for all of us to repent!!!!!! !!!! !
great video brother, you kept it short, and informative. i usually don’t fully understand things when they going over them fast but you know how to get it done. respect bro
Thank you for being a reminder of the strengths of being an introvert. Keep doing what you do
Going through a tough time in my life and this video is pure gold for me. Thanks man, really appriciate your work as an introvert who lost a lot ! Keep doing your stuff and stay safe bro !!
I think this is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve watched so many videos on how to be confident and not trash talk myself for being an introvert but this really gave me the tips that can easily be followed. Thank you :)
Something you came close to saying: Being an extrovert doesn't mean you actually have good social skills...Being an introvert doesn't mean that you don't
Almost all extroverts I have met have zero social skills. They are usually more interactive, enthusiastic and curious like a child
@@janakgohil3181 interesting observation
Enjoyed the video, thanks for sharing this, most people usually keep it to themselves unless asked about. Keep making great videos
Honestly this video gave me a confident boost! Thanks a lot
Thank you so much for spreading your knowledge, it has helped me a lot throughout the years to become a better version of myself. I'll be waiting for your next video, and again thank you so much for your help!
Much love
Jesus loves you so much more than you think repent and stay blessed
The video is a gem!! No BS, straight to the point. Appreciate it man 🤍
Great video! Really love your vibe! The video edit was perfect, minimalist yet powerful. And everything you said was on point. Thanks very much!
As a woman, I feel very confident knowing that this video is already part of my personality… hehe
Would be lovely to get a video on how to read effectively and take out as much as you can from self help books.. cuz there is so much content when you read and it’s hard to apply everything when you have a lot of books on your reading list
Im not an expert but just go one by one for example i just bought my first self help book atomic habits and when i implement most of it in my life i will buy another one
What I personally learned from reading books for a long time and even finishing even long ass fiction books with 600 pages and stuff and actually fell in love with reading , the best thing is to focus on a single book so it’s just easier for your brain to just pick it up on the go whenever I try to read for example a fiction and self help kinda book, sometimes I notice it’s very hard even to start reading hence I take way long time to finish both of them. However it’s not about finishing in the case of self help books, they are meant to be used in like a text book type manner cuz u need to really think,figure out how to apply the stuff in real life and you may need to come back to that book sometimes.
@@Abrhm77 That's a pretty good advice! Thank you for your wisdom ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡
ur welcome@@edution2191
A real valuable video,highly appreciate you for articulating such good points.I m grateful that someone is trying to really understand what introverts are and how they think.
Collin, thank you for such an amazing video, your pieces of advice definitely help me a lot and remind me that actions always speak louder than words. Let's win together!
I want to tell all the introvert's. I am an average looking introvert and when my 11th grade classes started everyone in the class asked me "are you a new student?" & in reality i was studying there for 3 years😂
Most important video for introverts to be successfull ❤
Honestly, thanks man! I really learnt a lot today
Much love
Thank you so much. This video has already built my confidence😇. God Bless you all🙏
I'm half introvert and half extrovert
You're normal
You say that you didn't grasp the meaning of introvert and extrovert, because you cannot be the two opposites
Exacly
Of course you can be
You can be both introvert and extrovert
The term is called "Ambivert" which means that you both have the qualities of introvert and extrovert
Amazing work keep it going and your definitely changing my life a true "Social Media Influencer"
That was a great reminder for me, thank you!
compliment whenever you feel it! be good listener, keep your frame, and fix ur body language!
Thank for sharing this with us ,it really opened my eyes
1)compliment people genuinely and without wanting anything in return
2)ask questions and listen more in conversations
3)guard your attention. you dont have to continue a conversation if its a waste of time, be authentic.
4) change body language. be relaxed, stand up straight, speak clearly and slower.
5) build abundance and mastery in a skill. you have to have something to back up your claims that youre cool by being good at something and building confidence in an area of your life.
I'm 55 and just now realizing I am an introvert. My socializing is mainly at the gym which is where there are others who share my interests. I also don't enjoy "superficial " conversations, yet when engaged in a super subject I am vocal and interact alot. But need my space to recharge. Great video❤
So, here I began to appreciate you firstly, it was worth it ❤
Thanks bro its been long looking for this
Don’t always go in their ways to compliment them. Receive compliments, not give.
really great video
the points are head on and you probably gave the ideas alot of thought it's evident but at the end of the day I'd hope it catches the eyes of the right person who needs this
this 5 minute video was really an eye opener.. unlike other vids..it emphasises on the need of daily work.. and being competent.. wish you more power bro
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Thank you so, so, much! This video alone builds confidence 😊.
"I really appreciate" it create new things on my mind. I will try to do that.sechely i keep it on my daily for remember.
Thanks for the help I really appreciate it
I'll be practicing everything you said from now on .
I appreciate how each video of yours is to the point with clarity in what you want to convey. Keep up the good work👍🏻👍🏻
Much love
Hey I really liked your video and I think you could save a lot of people by making us understand what's confidence and helping us improve it so keep doing what you're doing.
Self mastery is attractive and key to confidence ❤
Awesome video, thanks for the advice!
as an introvert, i think its nice to say in here. ive made great and trustworthy friends, so because of that, i become way more talkative when im around them and its AMAZING, to be able to say everything in your mind without fear, be able to laugh loudly, its just such a good feeling, i highly recommend finding those people in your life
wow I'm an introvert and I've never heard of “dark confidence” before, thank you so much for making a video about it!
Yeah, I admit that these things you said are true because I got an introvert friend and he still got close to everyone by doing these. Your vids are helping me too! Respect👍
Thanks collin, i was needing some tips and values about being confident.
The term dark confidence made me feel kinda cool
confidence isnt 'i know the'll like me but im oky if they dont''
just love this line a lot
you cant fake confidence, invest in yourself and build genuine confidence
Fuck is fuck
Total agree. I consider myself a friendly introvert. My grandma was super extroverted so she would push me, like any Asian granny, to be more social. During my highschool days and trying to look for my first job I realized how important I had to learn to socialize. The type of job you'll get, the payrise you could miss etc. I had to force myself into a retail position so I could learn the social skills. But deeply I'm still very introverted. I prefer to listen and analyze. I prefer to be in the same room in silence.
Very good video Collin
That last one of a small W will ripple throughout your other parts of you is something I had happen to me when I got into standup and got decent laughs out of someone in the crowd. They came up to me reassuring my set was good, just needed practice and refinement. Introverts know when something performance wise can go shit but that to me was so meh and someone came out knowing and laughing on my niche jokes. That in turn helped me feel better about everything else around me since it is something I've always wanted to pursue.
Thanks, and by the way , your shirt matching your eyes and hair color is unique!
are you acoustic?
I'm about to turn 68 and your presentation is spot-on. You know of what you speak. Nice job Yalie. Stanford, Class of '78. Major: American Studies. Occupation: journalist/documentary filmmaker. I wish you well in all endeavors.
Bro has done a great job for introvert.
Might this 5 min will change someone's life 🤠
As a pure introvert, I can say this is true
If people don't like me or don't want to approach me its a win win, and if they approach me or like me, Its a double win
Thank you so much i really like your advice to build dark confidence thank you so much bro 😊
This video really is valuable to me as an introvert. Thank you, Collin.
This is the most valuable information I’ve ever received in 5 and a half minutes
Bro i just got this video and truly this is something valuable ❤
Be a confident introvert 😎🖤
Thankyou for making this video🤝🏻
i’m an ambivert who leans a little bit more towards the introvert side. dark confidence is the most attractive thing to me, not only when i see it in others but when i display it as well. i can have dark confidence but sometimes my bubbly side which craves a good laugh and good time with people wins and i end up hunting for conversation, getting to know people. for some reason after these interactions are done and im left grinning i kind of falter and get ashamed. i like being perceived as dark confident a lot more than bubbly and charming; some sort of personal attribute, i guess. i want to be quiet and sensual rather than the excited teen that bursts out of me sometimes. idk how to fix this because there’s two sides of me which i can’t always control 😭😭😭
I am an introvert and I watched your video from the beginning to the end. I am quickly going to apply a skill to that I learned be in that video that I should give genuine compliments. Your video is cool. Congrats bro!
Man... I needed to hear this
Thank you for making this video I’m having a hard time making friends at school and just not talking to much people now I’m gonna have the dark confidence you said in the video :D
Tbh this 5 minutes definitely worth thank you ❤
I love you, you improve my English , motivate me to develop myself, you are amazing ❤
Bro you're amazing I watched the whole video and dude thanks a lot, it's a really nice video and also wish you all the best👍
Gosh
I almost forgot to subscribe
I like how aesthetic you made it look
God bless you too man! This really helps, thank you man.
Thank you so much. You are the reason I am more successful then ever, you are the reason I am now top of my class
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What a good video, wow you absolutely smashed it mate
thanks, brother. you have really made my day
This video reminds me of myself growing through the years 💀
Would of been useful for younger me so I'm sure it will help tons of other people
❤much needed, thankyou soo much
Fantastic! This chanel realy helps me to develop myself. I'm searching for purpose and you're really helpful with all your advice man, keep it up.
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Best video I even found for introvert people, I want to thanks you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
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THANK UUU FOR MAKING THISS
I appreciate this short but very helpful video. 😀💚
Best Video ever for INTROVERTS
Thanks!
Thank you Collins!❤
thank you man, your video is really important to me!
I've always put myself in the extroverted introvert box. I am comfortable around people of all ages, but I am capable by myself. This is a wonderful video. Thank you for making such a big impact on my life.
Through watching ur videos , I have been getting better in every aspect of life
Dope video bro thanks for the force 🔥💯
I was just randomly scrolling on the UA-cam and then I saw your video and title. When I saw full video of yours!!
You are not gonna believe my mindset just changed and I subscribe to your channel i like the u make the video ✨ I'm a girl keep going :) it helps me a lot.
Thanks ❤
This is a really good video. Great advice. Thank you.