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  • Опубліковано 15 жов 2024
  • Although people's lives can be busy and full of important things, for a relationship to work, there needs to be connection. In this video, we discuss a situation where life's other tasks take priority over the relationship to the point where a partner is feeling neglected.
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  • @android1012
    @android1012 3 роки тому +13

    If you haven't done so yet, sign up with a coaching with Craig and/or Margaret today!
    Several coachings with them, in addition to watching EVERY ONE of Craig's videos, really turned my situation around a couple years ago.
    The knowledge they put forth is A-1!

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you 🙏 💪

    • @spedhead218
      @spedhead218 3 роки тому +2

      Could you please elaborate and share your success story with us? Even just a brief reply if you don’t mind thanks!

    • @android1012
      @android1012 3 роки тому +1

      @@spedhead218 Working on an update to send to Craig. Thanks.

  • @signsignsign74
    @signsignsign74 3 роки тому +18

    I felt low on the priority list with my ex from then beginning and wasted 6 years of my life with this person. Don’t waste your time like I did!!

    • @jasonhayes3944
      @jasonhayes3944 2 роки тому

      Time ain’t like money be care where an how you spend it can’t make more of it I did same thing 4 years wasted never again tho !!!!

  • @lucyloo7457
    @lucyloo7457 3 роки тому +8

    Right on time Craig. Was just sitting here watching self help videos, here you and Margaret come along with this gem 💎
    Well done, thank you both for this.
    Happy Saturday!!!

  • @KiKi-te9yd
    @KiKi-te9yd 3 роки тому +13

    Dear caller. This is very similar to the relationship I just finally ended. He was avoidant and it made more and more anxious to the point I have trauma and anxiety flashbacks from how badly he just did not care about my emotional needs. Seriously... don't do it to yourself. Noone deserves to be last priority. Go be awesome solo and find someone better for you. This won't get better even if she does come back. Rip off the band aid and go xx

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      Hello the do you need help to fix all kinds of problems in your relationship including getting your ex husband girlfriend boyfriend crush within 48hours??????

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      +12048082234⏯️⏭️

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!!

  • @Beatlemaniac1983
    @Beatlemaniac1983 3 роки тому +5

    I wholeheartedly agree with the "option 15". The entire story sounds very much like my own ex, to the point she had a dog who died, but I supported her through that after we broke up. She had 2 kids, ex husband, parents, friends, dogs, cats, and apparently also another relationship in parallel to ours which was more important to her, and I was on place 11 or so, at best. Another thing I identify with is the "irrationally blaming" for things. I can't say I was irrationally blamed, but little things were blown up into huge fights, romantic gestures made her angry, sexual advances were denounced harassment for months, we've never slept once after we became a couple (we started out as friends with some benefits), she "didn't have time" to meet me for three months, even if she was in my area or I was at hers, but she did have time to meet the other guy. On hindsight, I think she was looking for an excuse to break up with me, or was trying to make things so insufferable for me that I will do the work for her and she can go be with the other guy.

  • @starrynight9999
    @starrynight9999 3 роки тому +3

    I found out when you block someone on Facebook it automatically unfriend’s the person. So it wasn’t that she unfriended him, it was that when he hit block, Facebook unfriended that person.

  • @TheBlanco951
    @TheBlanco951 3 роки тому +6

    I wouldn’t take her back if she used an excuse like, “i need to work on myself.”
    If they can lie about themselves, they will lie about anything, in my opinion.

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      Hello the do you need help to fix all kinds of problems in your relationship including getting your ex husband girlfriend boyfriend crush within 48hours??????

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!!

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 3 роки тому

      +12048082234⏯️⏭️

  • @bossmanebz
    @bossmanebz 3 роки тому +2

    This video hit different coach, felt like my exact situation except I'm in my 20's...

  • @Beatlemaniac1983
    @Beatlemaniac1983 3 роки тому +3

    Sleeping with a snorer is a big deal! I had a roommate in college who snored like a chainsaw, I didn't sleep for a year! Got my best grades that year, but still.

  • @ImAlicjaFrank
    @ImAlicjaFrank 2 роки тому +3

    Many of us keep you at a distance to avoid getting used to you. If we spend more time together we will get attached and it will affect us more when you eventually leave us. Seeing each other every now and then we can keep you in our life, but not be emotionally crushed when it ends.

  • @wrestlebdk
    @wrestlebdk 3 роки тому +4

    Just did the start spreading the news art activity in the course Craig, possibly my favorite one yet

  • @janac2881
    @janac2881 3 роки тому +1

    Awesome video. Thank you both. Jana
    - Texas

  • @robertkopel5052
    @robertkopel5052 3 роки тому +4

    What kind of woman reaches out from the beyond while you're in no contact, to tell her ex-bf that she met someone new? My ex, that's what kind. I should have taken this low-priority thing as a huge red flag

    • @emmalynrae592
      @emmalynrae592 3 роки тому +1

      My ex did the same thing lol I didn’t give a reaction and he wasn’t happy about it. But he’s still with the person after a few weeks so 🥱 I feel bad for her...I bet she doesn’t even know how he’s using her to make me jealous and ‘move on’.

  • @stu713
    @stu713 3 роки тому +4

    Hey Craig, can you do a video on an ex mirroring? Since my BU my ex seems to mirror my social media posts, sometimes with a one up-ing to it

  • @guillend26
    @guillend26 2 роки тому +1

    Can you please do a video on both people being avoidants?

  • @mumteancosmin166
    @mumteancosmin166 3 роки тому +1

    We argue she told me she needs time, so i start no contact, after 2 weeks told me she wants to break up, shes feels calmer without me, then she blocked ME.When relief stage really started? Any chance to miss me with time if i go into no contact?

    • @davidschutz2819
      @davidschutz2819 3 роки тому +1

      There is nothing you can do about it. I know you feel like shit but you are not alone. Date someone new I’m sure you will find someone better.

  • @SallyM-hi1mh
    @SallyM-hi1mh 3 роки тому

    I’ve been wanting to book a Skype with Margaret but the website says she’s been unavailable for a couple of weeks. Just wondering when she will be available again? Thanks

  • @daudadumbuya759
    @daudadumbuya759 3 роки тому +3

    Hi Craig, I am always having issues with women. Recently I was dating a lady for about a month. Everything was perfect even though nothing like sex have taken place but, everything was normal. But all of a sudden, she looses interest in me. So does no contact works in this situation? Because she is not my EX yet. We have just started dating and she looses interest. So what must I do to remedy the situation because, i have falling for this lady so much. Please I desperately need advice

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 3 роки тому

      when my ex left me I did everything to get her back but in vain I had to contact a great marabout masters from Benin to help me and he managed to improve my life as a couple

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 3 роки тому

      Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp

    • @ojodumifelix1419
      @ojodumifelix1419 3 роки тому

      He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!!

    • @hoidasgray9666
      @hoidasgray9666 3 роки тому

      Hello dear Are you having any difficult in your life ,relationship,do you need help to save your relationship from divorce getting back your ex break any family course or do reading about you family or relationship

    • @hoidasgray9666
      @hoidasgray9666 3 роки тому

      Whats≥App him for all kinds of help 🥰

  • @NoFoxGivenWaitWhat
    @NoFoxGivenWaitWhat 3 роки тому +15

    Ah awesome on time! Can you make an video about long distance relationship?

    • @h0ha13
      @h0ha13 3 роки тому +2

      Yes is definitely needed

    • @crking36
      @crking36 3 роки тому

      Thank you, I soak in your knowledge, guidance and wisdom like liquid!! 😏😏

    • @spiritualrituals9603
      @spiritualrituals9603 3 роки тому +4

      I'm in a LDR too. And I feel I am low in their priority list too. Especially when I see they like all other people's stupid posts etc but they don't show the same sympathy towards my post.

    • @NoFoxGivenWaitWhat
      @NoFoxGivenWaitWhat 3 роки тому

      @@spiritualrituals9603 I can totally relat to that.. it make you feel even worse..

    • @spiritualrituals9603
      @spiritualrituals9603 3 роки тому

      @@NoFoxGivenWaitWhat I mean normally i ain't a type who gives so much importance towards Instagram etc... But we have to accept that it's somehow a part and parcel of our lives. Regardless, when I like someone deep, I don't care what they share, I would like their post... Not that it's something interesting, rather it's to say "I like u every single way". I sometimes notice as she likes all sorts of posts that have been shared 2-10 minutes after I've posted... I don't see a like at all, but I see she likes all sorts of stupid posts of famous people or pages etc. I didn't make it a big deal since I've started over thinking lately. I don't know why this happens, I don't wanna drop my own value by asking or talking abt it as this will show I'm seeking validation.. But it hurts a lot.

  • @lecp3248
    @lecp3248 3 роки тому +8

    I’ll be Single for the rest of my life :/

    • @andrasziegenham6766
      @andrasziegenham6766 3 роки тому +4

      There are quite a lot of relationships that are worse than being alone. So don't worry, it's not the worst thing to happen. :)

    • @xMikeyHardyx
      @xMikeyHardyx 3 роки тому

      With that attitude you most likely will!

  • @mathews0618
    @mathews0618 3 роки тому +2

    She doesn't meet your needs, leave. Pretty simple. Its not her job to fulfill his insecurities. He should choose a better partner, not change her.

  • @bch5758
    @bch5758 3 роки тому +3

    Pretty sure my ex getting a dog contributed to me being dumped

  • @mayb9405
    @mayb9405 3 роки тому +1

    The woman in your video sounds like my ex. It was really interesting to hear thanks

  • @frygawdd7310
    @frygawdd7310 2 роки тому +1

    I love margret!!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @carlfreiermuth5424
    @carlfreiermuth5424 3 роки тому +1

    The woman in this one sounds so narcissistic. Blame shifting, gas lighting and withdrawal of empathy. In this case the dog is the only one that got the easy way out. It should be mandatory that people get educated on how to care for dogs before they adopt them. Unfortunately so many people adopt them and just don't care to put in the time and effort to learn. I suppose that's a good metaphor for the way people approach relationships too. People should work to understand themselves to then go on to understanding others and the dynamics involved.

  • @dianaf6333
    @dianaf6333 3 роки тому +1

    I hate hearing about an animal being put down :-(

    • @yaseerahmad7971
      @yaseerahmad7971 3 роки тому

      ✝ 19294435267💕⏭⏭⏭

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      Hello the do you need help to fix all kinds of problems in your relationship including getting your ex husband girlfriend boyfriend crush within 48hours??????

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp

  • @sma1616
    @sma1616 3 роки тому

    how to successfully maintain a friendship with an ex????

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      Hello the do you need help to fix all kinds of problems in your relationship including getting your ex husband girlfriend boyfriend crush within 48hours??????

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp

    • @alexislaura4426
      @alexislaura4426 3 роки тому

      He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!!

  • @greysspace8497
    @greysspace8497 3 роки тому +1

    First! Love you guys

  • @eddieserrano429
    @eddieserrano429 3 роки тому

    do one on narcissists plz

    • @PricelessBinkey1337
      @PricelessBinkey1337 3 роки тому

      Its hard cuz realistically (though is rising) the actual mental diagnosis of narcassism is around 1%-5% of american population. Other than that its mostly emotional immaturity and undealt-with truama

    • @clarapromise8368
      @clarapromise8368 3 роки тому

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    • @clarapromise8368
      @clarapromise8368 3 роки тому

      when my ex left me I did everything to get her back but in vain I had to contact a great marabout masters from Benin to help me and he managed to improve my life as a couple

    • @clarapromise8368
      @clarapromise8368 3 роки тому

      Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp

    • @clarapromise8368
      @clarapromise8368 3 роки тому

      +12048082234⏯️⏭️

  • @mariotibbrine1
    @mariotibbrine1 3 роки тому +1

    Devaluation tactics

  • @gland5848
    @gland5848 3 роки тому

    ⚘⚘⚘

  • @sma1616
    @sma1616 3 роки тому

    😍😍