Annnndd that's why I haven't been in a serious relationship for the past year. Men say they are not looking for casual relationship, but all of their actions point towards that direction. And I am not allowing that to progress since all of them don't prioritize the realtion; hence, they are not really taking it seriously and I feel like I am dodging a heartbreak when I am doing this very early on.
I'm going through a divorce I'm filling tomorrow.. that was the biggest issues I was not a priority.. Xbox was the people on Xbox his family his self .. 8 years of it like I was alone all the time I was treated like I was a roommate. I got hurt really bad by him.
Craig, you always make me laugh. Noodles and Doodles…😂 When someone’s heart hurts so bad and you can make it somehow funny, it helps. Blessings to you.
Thank you so much coach! I’m dealing with a very similar breakup and is so painful…sometimes I feel bad for not being there for him in a difficult situation and I guess myself if I did something wrong, I know the only thing in my power is let go and work on myself
Does anyone have any thoughts on this: my ex bf is following loads of random girls on Instagram from dating apps. But the thing is they don’t follow him back. What is with this behaviour? It’s kinda desperate don’t you think? I have no idea what he thinks following them will achieve. It’s weird like he’s lusting after women who aren’t really interested in him? He would rather do that than be in a loving a secure relationship with me? Ouch! I should probably mention he’s an avoidant.
' He would rather do that than be in a loving a secure relationship with me? Ouch! I should probably mention he’s an avoidant.' Yes, he would because he's avoidant, so by definition he's emotionally unavailable. Fantasising about emotional intimacy and love is safer and more familiar than the real deal.
Coach Craig, please consider doing a video on how us dumpees can emotionally cope with Valentines Day, especially if we met them around that time. I'm already struggling seeing the stuff go up. Please help. TY.
My ex broke my no contact then we tried to fix then boom she was still seeing the person she cheated on me with while trying to fix things me. She broke my no contact rule after 2 days😭😭. Now she went back to the guy she cheated on with.
Hey, ...it's Katie I'm honestly so sorry of how I never contacted you coach Craig I was afraid things would not work out 😊I really hope that u have a nice night😊😊
Noodles and doodles we're just a cop out. Her interest level had drop for this man and she no longer wanted to be with him. But instead of being honest she used Noodles and Doodles as an excuse. If she truly loved this man they would have worked through this as a team.
Hi I’m sorry looking from the outside she is using this situation to be there for her x husband . Sometimes things are as they seem . Your an x but so is he and he is the father of children. Move on.
My ex and I were together for a year. It was excellent up until the final four months during last summer, when I hurt her by making her reveal her insecurities. She wanted to end things, but we were able to resolve them, and things returned to normal. We soon returned to school and faced pressures from school and college. She broke up with me in early October and said that she was happier without me. Over the past few months, I've made mistakes. I tried being friends, but that didn't work out. As of mid-October, I persisted in pressuring her. In late October, I tried to mend things by following her around and attempting to chat with her after becoming envious of the way she was interacting with guys. At the conclusion of the day, I apologized. I discovered she had a new crush in late November while logging into her Instagram account. I gave in to the text your ex sent back videos and made an effort to win her over by asking her questions about work. In the end, I apologized once more and said I had moved on. She finally logged me out in late December after realizing I was using her account. The following morning I had a dream, woke up anxious, tried to follow her, and was blocked. Are these too many mistakes for her to ever want me back or do I just need to give things time? Thoughts?
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Annnndd that's why I haven't been in a serious relationship for the past year. Men say they are not looking for casual relationship, but all of their actions point towards that direction. And I am not allowing that to progress since all of them don't prioritize the realtion; hence, they are not really taking it seriously and I feel like I am dodging a heartbreak when I am doing this very early on.
Choose someone who actually likes you and not just a chad, maybe it’ll work better for you
You are choosing the wrong man, change your standars or stay alone
I'm going through a divorce I'm filling tomorrow.. that was the biggest issues I was not a priority.. Xbox was the people on Xbox his family his self .. 8 years of it like I was alone all the time I was treated like I was a roommate. I got hurt really bad by him.
It blows my mind that men waste literal years of their lives on something entirely meaningless and completely alienate their family.
Craig, you always make me laugh. Noodles and Doodles…😂
When someone’s heart hurts so bad and you can make it somehow funny, it helps. Blessings to you.
I like how you introduced this video. It is a helpful reminder about meeting each other's needs in an exclusive relationship.
Thank you so much coach! I’m dealing with a very similar breakup and is so painful…sometimes I feel bad for not being there for him in a difficult situation and I guess myself if I did something wrong, I know the only thing in my power is let go and work on myself
it's all about connections
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Would love to hear if anything else happened in this situation. Hope their both doing well!
Good morning coaches!
Does anyone have any thoughts on this: my ex bf is following loads of random girls on Instagram from dating apps. But the thing is they don’t follow him back. What is with this behaviour? It’s kinda desperate don’t you think? I have no idea what he thinks following them will achieve. It’s weird like he’s lusting after women who aren’t really interested in him? He would rather do that than be in a loving a secure relationship with me? Ouch! I should probably mention he’s an avoidant.
' He would rather do that than be in a loving a secure relationship with me? Ouch! I should probably mention he’s an avoidant.'
Yes, he would because he's avoidant, so by definition he's emotionally unavailable. Fantasising about emotional intimacy and love is safer and more familiar than the real deal.
Coach Craig, please consider doing a video on how us dumpees can emotionally cope with Valentines Day, especially if we met them around that time. I'm already struggling seeing the stuff go up. Please help. TY.
Thank you for sharing this example! It gives much clarity.
Yes. He couldn’t meet my needs. I met his and that was always our story. 3 times. It was always a stalemate.
Always appreciate the videos...
My ex broke my no contact then we tried to fix then boom she was still seeing the person she cheated on me with while trying to fix things me. She broke my no contact rule after 2 days😭😭. Now she went back to the guy she cheated on with.
Hey, ...it's Katie I'm honestly so sorry of how I never contacted you coach Craig I was afraid things would not work out 😊I really hope that u have a nice night😊😊
Not sure what you’re talking about, but hope u have a good night too
I was trying talk with you about my ex because I want too prepair with him but I been afraid
Let's go!
Noodles and doodles we're just a cop out. Her interest level had drop for this man and she no longer wanted to be with him. But instead of being honest she used Noodles and Doodles as an excuse. If she truly loved this man they would have worked through this as a team.
I think she was seeing someone else.
Unable or unwilling? Fully within rights either way. Having said that, run and run fast. It’s not meant to be.
If she wanted to be with him she would be. This is setting up for a reconciliation with the ex. It's giving unfinished business. 🤫
Hi I’m sorry looking from the outside she is using this situation to be there for her x husband . Sometimes things are as they seem . Your an x but so is he and he is the father of children. Move on.
My ex and I were together for a year. It was excellent up until the final four months during last summer, when I hurt her by making her reveal her insecurities. She wanted to end things, but we were able to resolve them, and things returned to normal. We soon returned to school and faced pressures from school and college. She broke up with me in early October and said that she was happier without me. Over the past few months, I've made mistakes. I tried being friends, but that didn't work out. As of mid-October, I persisted in pressuring her. In late October, I tried to mend things by following her around and attempting to chat with her after becoming envious of the way she was interacting with guys. At the conclusion of the day, I apologized. I discovered she had a new crush in late November while logging into her Instagram account. I gave in to the text your ex sent back videos and made an effort to win her over by asking her questions about work. In the end, I apologized once more and said I had moved on. She finally logged me out in late December after realizing I was using her account. The following morning I had a dream, woke up anxious, tried to follow her, and was blocked. Are these too many mistakes for her to ever want me back or do I just need to give things time? Thoughts?
Move on man, it's over, you'll find someone better