Will No Contact Rule Work On A Stubborn Ex Boyfriend, Ex Girlfriend Or Spouse
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
- Will the No Contact Rule work on a stubborn ex boyfriend, ex girlfriend, or spouse? Get Coach Lee's "Emergency Breakup Kit" at myexbackcoach....
If you believe that your ex is stubborn and you are wondering if the no contact rule will work in the situation of a stubborn ex, this video discusses that situation.
Read the article that accompanies this video at myexbackcoach....
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The Mind of Your Ex During No Contact: • What Your Ex Is Thinki...
Stages of No Contact Your Ex Goes Through: • Stages of No Contact
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My ex just reached out to me yesterday after almost two months of no contact it definitely works you just have to focus on improving yourself and not worry about them
A P she’ll definitely come around just give her the space she is looking for
That's some serious discipline bro. Congrats.
A P we’re not back together lol I just wanted to tell ppl it is possible for them to reach out after no contact especially if they are a stubborn individual. Just wanted to give ppl hope
@@Randjohn007 💯💯💯
Randall Johnson would you like to get back? And did she want to? Update me
Being that stubborn in a relationship is toxic. If you do not know how to communicate like an adult then to hell with them. Time waits for no one.
I was totally broken when the love of my life left me it was so hard for me & I almost gave up if not for a friend who directed me to a very good and powerful man called Ologbo the witch Dr. who helped me bring back the love of my life and now he treat me with so much love and care. I don’t know what your problem are passing through but with what he did for me I know he can help you. So try and talk to him on WhatsApp: +2349048673506
I think this program is fur people who feel the person is worth fighting for, doesn't mean they are not worth fighting for, I'm stubborn too so I totally understand but I'm also copromiseably
Hell yes
I had to read this. My ex didn't communicate a single thing to me until the very end. I was blindsided, I went full anxious defensive mode like an idiot, and now I'm dumped over a text and blocked. It's been 38 days completely radio silent.
@TSWaves1 dodged a bullet in my opinion. Be honest with yourself. She decided to destroy your relationship. Let her fix her mistake. U get to work on you, its hard but you got to not cave in to the silly cow
Your dead stare makes me come to terms with my soul
Someone had to do it.
lol
icantbuttons true
Hahahaha right on point.
😂🤣
NO CONTACT WILL WORK.
DO NOT COMMUNICATE WITH THEM UNLESS THEY REACH OUT WITH SOMETHING OF VALUE. PERIODT!
What if they just pop out of nowhere with a single “hey”? What would you do in that situation ? 😭
@@mamadubalde5739 Don't ignore them, You respond with a simple hey back and keep it casual
@@mamadubalde5739 Answer with a hey back or a howdy or a gif of hey there. And thats it
@@mamadubalde5739 Still do nothing - no response. Quick messages or texts like saying 'hey' are a clear indication they are just fishing for any response from you, and then when you take the bait they will reel you in from there. You lost the power at that point and showed weakness.
@@mamadubalde5739 It's a breadcrumb.....You can wait awhile and respond back with equal energy either a hi or hey and let the conversation die as coach says.
I just want to thank you, coach Lee.
It's not even about the break up story itself, which ended good cause we got back together and are going strong since 4 months now . I want to thank you, cause listening to your advices every night, crying myself to sleep, helped me a lot.
Someone who understood what I felt and gave me real true advices on how to act. When everybody else was giving me their opinion without actually understanding what I was going through. Thank you cause I would listen to you every morning driving to school and this gave me hope, faith and positivity. When I was about to give up and contact him, I would stop myself and open one of your videos, didn't matter I already watched it 3 or 4 times. Coach Lee, you were my light in that painful, cold darkness.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart ♥.
I'm doing the same thing. Mind sharing how you got back? Would love to listen as I'm going through similar situation atm.
n b yes he’s mine right now
I'm improving now thanks Mr Lee
How’s it going are u still in the relationship
Me 2
“You gotta out stubborn them” - well said!!! 🤣
Difficult to out stubborn women as they are generally emotionally much stronger from inside. We guys show we are tough but that's only the exterior. Let's see how my case turn out. No contact day 5 and I already died 1000s times. 😂
@@mukherjeearnab1 well I am on day 28 and I think I’m dealing with a “tough inside” kinda guy.... we’ll see :)
@@luluchen5883 Good luck, hope you succeed. NC day 6 Time runs so slow in no contact and to make it worst here in India we have lockdown. 😂 Cheers. 👍👍
@@luluchen5883 how did it turn out? I'M on day 13
@@rikginchimarak4043 he did reach out to me on about 45 day range because it was my bday lol. But I was not surprised…. Also I’ve moved on already…
very strong eye contact, feels like your actually talking to the viewer
I thought I wanted my ex back and did all these things , but when he came back to me, I changed my mind🤷🏼♀️I ended up breaking up with him and for good.
How long did you wait?
Mysteriously Mysterious like a month
@@yr5425 why did you break up? I did 26 days no contact , he dumped me because lost of attraction n I guess he is talking to someone else
Yusita P sorry, but if he thinks he can find someone better than you just let him. There are plenty of real men that would give 100% of his time for you. My advise and find some real men!
I’ve lost my gf 1 week ago. We broke up together and i did the no contact rule and it worked. But why should i waste my time on someone that would walk away and thinks she could get better. I been together for 2,5 years and the last view days were the hardest but you will come thru my girl! Believe in yourself! You have selfworth and power so use it wisely.
Yusita P I broke up because I lost interest in the process. Now I have someone way better who doesn’t put me through that.
I pretty much stopped watching these to get her back, and started watching these to know how to build myself up again. Thanks Lee 👍
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On exactly 30th day, my girlfriend called me, while crying. She told me she had a dream that I have moved on. Now we are back together, enjoying the honey moon.
I believe your advice that, it is a bad advice to keep on ignoring your ex when reaching out to you, especially when no contact has had an impact on them.
so she got back with you out of jealousy not love.
@@Horus1133it was a dream not reality.
I have a story that might give y'all hope. One of my best friends girlfriend had broken up with him unexpectedly back in 2014 and he did no contact till 2018....now they're happily married. I'm not saying that this'll be the case for every situation guys and gals, but if they dumped you and truly love you, they'll come back. It might take some time, but have hope, the key thing to remember, is that you need to act like they're never coming back and work on yourself.
Thanks 🥰
Jason Burris really appreciated this
He was treated as a second option
Yes thats very powerful and true, im going to consider that suggestion!!!
Kanchana Jayan wtf
The thing is, we are BOTH stubborn stress monkeys, and yes, the no contact rule works. We love one another, know we love one another, and that is what keeps us coming back.
It wasn't used as a weapon. It was used to cool off and evaluate things.
Coach Lee is the baddest in the game hands 🤚 down
I'm so grateful for these videos...I thought I would never survive this breakup and all the sadness and panic that accompanied it. Watching this channel really calmed me down, though, because I actually felt like there was something I could DO to change the situation.
I found Coach Lee 5 days into the breakup and immediately started No Contact...On Day 14 of NC, my ex messaged me for the first time about something other than logistics. I gave a warm, friendly response but kept things brief and to the point...Then on Day 16, he admitted to creeping on my social media and asked me if I'd be interested in hanging out. I'm just going to see where this goes, but I think I'll be okay either way!
If you have a serious relationship of 1+ years, there’s no way they won’t contact you unless you were a toxic partner. Eventually they will contact you. I’m not saying you’ll get back together, but you’ll hear from them one way or another, especially if you were good to them.
If I ever “fall” during the no contact rule, I swear I’m going to watch your videos to remind myself why I’m doing this.
Thank you Coach Lee! ❤️
Last year I watched just about every coach Lee video after my bf of 3 years suddenly left me (there was no other woman, just him panicking when I was asking for marriage) I was a complete mess but I followed the no contact rule religiously and after 2 months we got back together. We have been living together ever since and are now engaged! I know my experience is rare I just wanted to let people know that getting back together is possible sometimes! peace and love to you all ❤️
I'm in the same situation. He panicked even though I wasn't pressuring him for marriage but that is what we were dating for. I am going on three months NC :/ he moved on immediately not even a few days after the discard. One of the worst experiences of my life, just working on me
Spot on. He loves to win all the time. That sucks!! He drives me nuts. Finally detached myself from him..i need to focus on myself and self worth is a priority at the moment
Update
You need to do a video on an ex that is always to busy and never gets bored enough to miss you or rethink their decisions.
read book bro . i suggest " art of seduction " by robert green .
I agree
They're never too busy to not think of you. Even if.. life is all ups and downs and there will be the time when they're all alone and maybe feeling down and they'll remember you. And the support you gave them ( if you gave them any)
@@theforeigngirl8495 Nice comment. Thanks.
Same
Most people that leave you, Come back.
Disagree
I'm in my mid 30's and I can tell you no contact has worked for me since high school. However in my experience usually by the time they start contacting again you've used that time to improve yourself and you've been dating people in your much better so you don't even care anymore. That's the true power of no contact its just nobody wants to hear that, they just want to use it to manipulate someone to come back because of separation anxiety.
So they have always come back? I agree with what you said also
@@AlarisH It depends on how you define come back. Rarely do they come back and say hey I want to get back together although it certainly has happened. Sometimes they reach out in casual way and things go from there. Sometimes they reach out just out of curiosity and then dissappear again. I don't think I've ever gone no contact and had girls not get in touch with me again though if we've dated for longer than 3 months or so.
@@AlarisH also to add onto that, if you are still worrying if they will come back or not you are in no mindset to be talking to them. Get your own life together and then if they reach out you will be able to handle it in a better way. I've made that mistake too many times and I still make it.
Got it! I'm trying to focus on myself for now as I have A LOT going on. Thank you so much for the reply!
What if the relationship is less than 2months?
The NO CONTACT rule works! It worked for me at least :-) Just stay strong to everyone reading this comment. Mine worked exactly after 30 days, I was almost giving up like ready to move on, not go back to him. But one day he contacted my best friend, then my sister, then my dad. And now we're much happier together than before. So yeah, it really works!
how long were you together and who did she say was at fault?? what were the reasons? trying to figure out if i should say happy birthday
I'm so happy for u ❤️
@@pandadancer808 Hi there, we're together for 2 years and a half and then we just got tired of fighting each other and eventually he broke it off but we're good now thanks to the NO CONTACT rule. I think it's because it made him believe that I can live without him and that scared him a bit.
3 months and didn't hear a peep from her. I guess Time for me to move on..
Update?
I'd cried, begged, pleaded.. After a week I am now at stage 5 loving myself. He was so stubborn. He tried to reached out though 3x maybe after he felt that it wasn't my lost. He went exactly through those stages. Relief, partying, curiosity... I am now back in shape and healing😊 Thanks coach lee for your advice 😊
Hands down.. you are the best. People are suffering all over the world, dealing with break ups and loss... and your sincerity and wisdom is helping so many heal and reconcile. Your teachings work. I recommend everyone... get his break up kit - FOLLOW it... and most importantly, keep improving yourself. Everything will fall into it’s proper place. Peace ✌️
Yes you deserve to be a relationship coach or marriage counselor because you proved by your own marriage life. Married for 19 years & still married, you are a good example to everyone
Missed you coach Lee! I have to share that I’ve been watching your videos since my breakup about 3 months ago. And I went into contact with pretty much zero hope of ever ever hearing from my ex again. But lo and behold...
Out of the absolute BLUE, 2 weeks ago on a random Monday, my ex contacted me after 3 months. My eyes pretty much popped out of my skull when i saw his name on my phone. I still smile to this day thinking about that feeling.
No contact works people. ❤️
I've been in no contact for almost 2 months now and have been experiencing anxiety because I'm afraid he will never contact me again, but if you stayed strong for 3 months and it happened, maybe I'll get lucky too if I don't give up... thank you for sharing ❤
Happy for you but did you get two get back together? I was on almost four months begging now only one week NC. I'm losing hope.
@@jimaediva8443 We are just talking again and hopefully will see each other soon. I actually just got like 8 messages from him in a row.. its a good feeling haha :) I reached out twice after the breakup- not begging or anything- just trying to see where his head was and he didnt even bother responding, so I REALLY thought I would never hear from him again. I'm glad to hear youre doing NC... I'm sure you've learned by now begging hurts more than it helps :( I'll keep my fingers crossed for you
@@denisejaydub I really hope I would be lucky as you are. My ex blocked me all socials 1 month and a half after fight already. but he sent me email 2 times at the end of June and latest 1X July asking me back if I am doing well. and go back to silent again now. I don't understand at all for my situation, he never repeated me that it's over, we broke up already or else, also in email i still call him Babe for many times, he doesn't say anyth for the way I call him. But he still blocked me over a month now. It will reach to 2 months for sure I guess. But I keep patient and still believe that we will get back together one day, idk why i feel like that. So i do NC now again after the last msg he sent me and I replied. I'm so confused.
Look at you, make me know that it's worth to do at least. Maybe it's not a specific time for me 3 months, maybe over 3 months but I hope it will work even it's too long. I will try to give him space as he said last fight "leave him alone". Wish me luck too. I still love him and choose him no matter what and I didn't find a new one, still loyal and not cheat on. I got blocked cos of emotional saying bad to him when we fought. It's misunderstanding. After that it's like this until now. : ) I really wish it will end soon.
What if it’s been 8 months and u never did no contact
Honestly it's to the point that these videos and videos like this one is making me see that an ex is an ex for a reason.
If he truly loved me then we would have worked through things and talked to get to the bottom of things to make things right but when your ex just ghosts you and leaves you so broken they not only don't deserve me when I'm broken but they sure in the heck don't deserve me when I'm able to get my head and heart back to normal that they crushed.
I know it takes both people to make things not work the way it should to make things work but if the person that has been thinking for a while about breaking up it would be a lot smarter to sit down and talk about what is bothering them. Truth might hurt but it is the lies and the ghosting that kills you.
Thank you and God bless 💞
Kim
My ex broke my heart like that too and I ask myself the same question !!!! Do I really want him back ? If I ment so little to him after loving him for 9 years!!! I did the no contact in the beginning just to try to get him back... but I discovered that no contact turned out its helping me heal !!! I hope I heal fast and I pray he gives me closure and explanation about why he discarded me but I doubt I will get it...
No I just long to not cry first thing upon eye opening !!!
Sending understanding love your way...
Rachel
Kim Sikorski some exes are just too fucked up or too stupid. Doesn’t mean they are a bad person, and didn’t love us. They just can’t get over themselves. And we still love them and want them back. We’re blind, i know. Love makes us blind. I can do much better than my exes, but I can’t forget him. I miss him more than i can explain...
Kim Sikorski 100% agree with you and I honestly just realized that seeing your comment. If you do get back together, who’s to say they won’t do it again? No contact has helped me make myself better and stronger for me
@@rachelhawk7661
Don't wait on his closure. Give yourself closure. Anyone who ghosts and don't consider your feelings don't deserve to be in your life. Ghosting is cruel, painful and know one should be treated this way. I know it's hard and very painful. Let no contact be your closure. Don't let him make the decision on when to come and go. Forget his closure. His closure was when he ghosted. So you give your own closure. He will be back and I would go no contact and stick with it.
@@KB-rp7nr thank you so much.... I stayed no contact... he sent a text saying "now we can be friends" "now he will talk to me" I ignored him and he went to my friends and neighbors and tried to force me !!!! I flat out refused !!!! He threw me AWAY!!!! He doesn't get to come back now and Hoover me
No contact works! I gave him what he wanted and he messaged me today after 2 weeks of not messaging him. ❤️❤️❤️
I was totally broken when the love of my life left me it was so hard for me & I almost gave up if not for a friend who directed me to a very good and powerful man called Ologbo the witch Dr. who helped me bring back the love of my life and now he treat me with so much love and care. I don’t know what your problem are passing through but with what he did for me I know he can help you. So try and talk to him on WhatsApp: +2349048673506
Almost been 4 weeks since she broke up with me, no contact is very difficult, but I’m pushing through. She is a very stubborn person, so this video gave me a lot of hope. Coach Lee’s videos have helped me tremendously.
It works, trust no contact 🙏🏼 I’m doing it again now, day 2 wish me luck 💔
Updates
Update??
Heey update here, he did come back but after 2 weeks he leaved again i don’t think someone that can stay without you for days deserves you, he came back like 3-4 times but it’s not worth it. Learn how to love urself but yes this method works very well
Lex 1 i think so , but the feeling sucks , sometime I felt ok but sometimes I felt like gun shot on my stomach
Lex 1 yesterday I talked with him since I was struggling with this NC, but after one month no talk (between I talked with him once for my lost phone and cloud account ) he still thinking the same way ,NC is working on his curious but Im relieved I don’t wait for his message anymore , Back to contact again but for myself well being , should I actually just unfollow him ?
Finally a new video! I was starting to think you were doing no contact on your subs, Coach Lee! 😅😂
Treat 'em mean keep 'em keen 🤣
😅😅😅
I am dying laughing :D
Lol hope this comment could make Coach Lee Smile lol 😂
@@thewhitehairedwitch8777 hhhhhhhh i hope too
Im scared, because of the way he thinks, that he is not gonna regret breaking up, because he is the kind of person who believes he's best on his own and also, im afraid he will never realize what was really the problem and he'll just keep believing the break up was the only solution and that nothing could have been changed
This is my concern. He is stuuuuubbbborn!!! Very nervous
I did 30 days no contact and i don't want her anymore... So i've moved on
Coach Lee you're a life saver 🙏🏻♥️
My ex broke up with me about a month ago and after a little bit of begging I started no contact, it's been three weeks now, still nothing but I'm hopeful.
Last time we spoke he said he still loves me, but because all of the fights we had in the last few months he thinks this is for the best. But he said there is a possibility that we might get back together, he doesn't know now.
I've been focusing on me, started meditating and working out everyday to improve myself.
I feel strong but there are still some days when I feel so bad, and I miss him like hell.
But I feel it in my gut that he's the one and we still have a chance. I just need to stay strong 💪🏻
Watching your videos gives me the strength to keep going!
Same story as mine.
Can i ask your current situation and feelings now?
You sound like you are going through what I am! We argued a lot. However, I talked to him 4 days ago and he claims he misses me terribly and loves me. Even hangs up the phone ending with “I love you” but says if he comes back now we will fight again in a week and he cant go thru that. I think he is in “party mode” and it is killing me. It has been a month for us.
Update?
@@stacieembrey3290 how’re you doing?
Coach lee, my girlfriend broke up with me 1 week ago, and i started to watch your videos, your videos really calmed me and gave me strength, i mean it, and guess what? today my ex texted me and wanted me to come back !
ArefEmji congratulations!!
Careful there...she's going to be hot and cold on you. I would suggest that she do all the work to get you back. It has to be her idea to say she wants to be in a relationship with you again.
How long where you together? Did you row? I’m curious
Bring up marriage & getting serious watch how she reacts lmao
congrats
Lee, your videos have been such a great help. Even after a few videos and knowing what needs to be done, I find myself coming back to them almost daily for encouragement and reminders. You lay out everything clearly and with no judgment, no fluff, no annoying flashy video edits and gimmicks, no BS. Awesome job. Thank you!
Coach Lee no doubt you are absolutely the best coach out there. Your ideas not only work on relationships between boyfriends and girlfriend, husband and wife but it will work with any kind of humans relationship. That’ is just how we humans are and act to any kind of strategies like the ones that you always mention in your videos. We only value what we give to ourselves. If we think we are worth $20 people will treat us on that way,. If we think we are worth a million dollars certainly we are going to be treated that way to. It’s simple as that.
You should create a success stories playlist of some of your clients
Stubborn ex
I agree
Seriously!!
Definitely!
Good idea
Awesome Inspiriting Advice, Suggestion and Thank You from Virgo!
Yes, stubborn is his first name and I have been 100% NO CONTACT!
I feel the Power of Love!
I really nedeed to hear this. I'm trying to move on but I still think about my ex all the time and it´s nice to know this. Thank you soooo much Coach Lee.
@@Catia-Ribeiro- so glad to hear that
I have no contact for three years. I hope
to never contact her again.
I can recommend you to the man who helped me bring back my ex
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Your videos help me so much getting through no contact. Anytime I think of contacting my ex I just watch one of your videos to help me through it thank you so much coach Lee :)
Relaxing Central agreed ...the strength I gather from Coach Lee is so comforting...thank you
I feel and do same bro!
Relaxing Central haha same
I was totally broken when the love of my life left me it was so hard for me & I almost gave up if not for a friend who directed me to a very good and powerful man called Ologbo the witch Dr. who helped me bring back the love of my life and now he treat me with so much love and care. I don’t know what your problem are passing through but with what he did for me I know he can help you. So try and talk to him on WhatsApp: +2349048673506
You have a great way of communicating. It makes me feel peaceful.
When I stopped wasting my time, energy, and resources on women and went MGTOW I found far more satisfaction in life focusing my time, energy, and resources on myself. I am debt free, own a house and am looking at a new car. I think my ex thought I would contact her. When I told her there was a line that when crossed in our breakup, I wasn't coming back. She boldly stepped across the line. After doing this she said she still wanted to be friends. I said I refused to be friend zoned to do favors for her as she continued to syphon off my time, energy, and resources. Turning my back on her completely was the best thing I ever did.
Thanks for the motivacional words! I was needing that! I ve divorced recentily, but i really believe that my wife Will come back! Almost 8 years togther! and i trust that no contact will make she remember the good memories and my values and soon we will a much happier couple than before, learning from mistakes we ve made and growing as a couple too!! I wish the best for those who are in the same boat! Soon we will cross this ocean of sadness and we will get ours exes back :)
Has she come back?
Update please
What happened?
It's been 5 years. Not expecting anything. Just had to heal. I'm in a good place now.
Five years??? Good Lord. Don't waste your life.
@@emiliamateo9319 reported scammer !
My ex just texted me after 5 months of no contact.
Are you back together? Why did you break up
What Happend and did u get bacj
@@thaiwithme8960 seems like you have faced a recent breakup like me..
What's your update.?
Happy for you 😊
He will come back and when he comes I wont take them back again....focusing on myself
Live, Laugh, Love... then Leave. Feels like my exes motto lol although it hurts, I was kinda the best she ever had and she admitted that when we met and even when we broke up. Every other ex was unattractive, unfaithful, not great personalities and they were all immature. And we both have been very mature about things lately. I have a feelin we will have another chance at it again down the road, but I'm not counting on it anymore and I'm simply moving on.
I love Coach Lee. I came on here sad about my ex. I’m leaving not worrying about my ex 😂
"Out-stubborn them"
Lol😆😂
I’ve asked one question on this Channel and you just answered it. You are a life saver. Thank you❤️
Update I move on and I'm in a new relationship
Did your ex ever reach out?
Dude you are spot on my ex actually contacted me after I haven’t contacted her in weeks
You're lucky..
@@Jitendrapas1 Stay positive !
Thats a good thing?
GuitarGuy yes for me it is
@@Thatslavon update??
If you’re reading this, your stubborn ex will come back. The most powerful tool is no contact-time has a way of making the heart grow fonder. They’ll start to remember all the beautiful memories you shared. I guarantee they’ll return one day, but the real question is: will you take them back?
I've reached that point where I just automatically upvote your videos at the very beginning because I know they're pure gold 😄🥇
This really works... my ex call me last night she's the most stubborn person i ever met we didn't talk for 2 weeks. i didn't call her or text her. she just couldn't stand it
I appreciate you sharing these helpful videos. I left my husband over 4 months ago due to infidelity but what made me do something different was his comment to me on the night i found out of him cheating..."i haven't wanted this marriage for at least 3 yrs, you killed the love And this marriage "! Those words were like daggers! Still haunt me now. But why was i going to try to stay where i wasn't wanted. I can't even rely on what i thought were happy moments because how can i believe they were real? I was left with a million pieces of my heart shattered. I don't think i found every piece but I'm working with what i have to put myself back. I love him n miss him but he really messed up
I changed my phone number, blocked him from social media, unfollowed any one or anything that dealt with him. I do not ask about him but i receive unsolicited info of the many women he's with. Even a 28 yrs old girl! He's 40! It hurts and i get weak for awhile but pick myself up and keep going. I haven't allowed a man to come close to me because i value my vows. Until divorce papers are signed i will move on. But for now i pray for marriage restoration.i know im not ready to forgive completely so ive accepted his lack of effort to reconnect. Working on accepting an end. I tired
@Gift Cynthia i appreciate the offer but I am not interested in going back to him. My life is peaceful now
Similar situation Sanchez . I went no contact .He married his mistress . It's been almost 8 yrs . I decided I'm tired of avoiding going to local places . I'm tired of ' running or hiding ' from reality . I unblocked him on social media and it took alot of courage to face it. Within a few hrs he blocked me . Haha Oh well not me hiding anymore.
my girl just left me 2 weeks ago and i’ve been watching your videos for a while now and i’ve been doing no contact since. and i’m starting to think she’ll never reach out to me because she’s to stubborn or prideful or whatever but i’m okay with it.. i’ve learned that no contact is for yourself, to be a better version of you, with or without her... 🥀
Let her go, man. Learn and move on. Don't be a little Beta.
Update?
@@benjcalderon2583 it was a done deal, she never came back. but it was for the best i’ve met a lot of new girls since.. just been enjoying the single life really. cheers!
My ex is a super stubborn Taurus guy. I have to try to outdo his stubbornness, then! I can be more stubborn than most people if I really want or have to, buy most of the time I'm pretty impatient. It's been exactly 1 month of Radio Silence now. Alright then, after watching what you said I shall listen to ur advice n try to surpass my ex's stubborness! I'm going for it, as I see it as a big challenge! Thanks, Coach Lee! ❤️
It's gonna be a battle of,
"Who can be more persistent, when it comes to being stubborn? - Sagittarius VS Taurus" 🤤
I feel strengthened hearing this, coach Lee u actually do ur explanations clearly.
I simply love the way you talk and deliver what you want to say. Your tone of voice makes you credible
It made me giggle when you said, “We’re dealing with humans, it’s not a math problem!” Lol😂
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I got dumped 4 months ago. Have not heard a single word from her. We dated for 2.5 years.
You contact her!
In one of Coach Lee's videos he mentioned it can take up to a year no contact
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Why wait a whole year, you can be with her right now.. just contact her!
@@mai8018 I'm just saying what Coach Lee said in his "How Long Does No Contact take" video
dont contact her
This is the exact video I needed, it's like you read my mind. Thank you for another great video and helping me get through this, Coach Lee.
I dont chase never will respect myself to,much .💝
_ BUDDHA _ god bless you hon just take one day at a time keep god first keep negative toxic people out of your life I will keep you in prayer god bless 💝💝💝
I broke up with my ex on a vacation due to his drinking problem.. we fought a lot over his addiction. Then I wanted to fix it and he broke up with me over nagging him about it & constantly criticizing him... I love him so much and just want to help him. We’ve been together for 3 1/2 years and broke up before this quarantine period.. I am now in Colorado but all of my things are still in our condo in Florida. I hope this no contact period works for us.. I only want to help him😔 send prayers
I’m leading myself to believe my ex is stubborn. We are deeply in love and we never broke up due to loss of attraction or love. It always seemed to be timing - both times. Second time we dated we moved WAY too fast. Been apart for 6 months with no contact on either part, although I’ve heard he plans on coming back just with no time period. We have a lot of love and history. Deep love too. Focusing on myself and my work and schooling. Hopefully it’ll work 🤞🏼
My girlfriend broke up with me and now she’s wants to act like we are to gather but not say it …
I would like to thank you for this! My gf broke up with me a week ago i did beg but i stopped. And its so hard not too
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Coach Lee, I purchased your emergency kit,however I assure you that I have a unique situation as a polygamist. How can verbal moment and provide a contribution. Watching your videos encourages myself to become certified MSW. I appreciate at least a response.
Yep that’s what my girlfriend said. I’ll always love you. Then she broke up with me. No contact please work, even if it doesn’t please help me just move on and get over her.
Conrad Smith it will, just let time pass
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Jesseca Geller she still hasn’t contacted me or I her. I think I’ll wait 1 or 2 more weeks then I’ll reach out if she doesn’t. I’m starting to feel happy without her in my life. It’d be nice to have her though.
Stay strong💪
Works
Ex broke up with me over money issues, (excuses) after I told him that I don’t agree he was determined to leave and said “I won’t change my mind” and said “maybe in the future” we’ve been broken up for 2 months now, I reached out 4 times within the first month and been in no contact for almost 3 weeks. So far, no sign of him. I love him still but I have to respect myself and not chase anyone who doesn’t want me or talk to me. He was a little toxic and I gave him many chances and he even admitted it was his fault and that he’s in a bad place mentally… but he’s so stubborn as a person. I’ll let him come to me if he wishes to do so, he knows where to find me. It’s just disappointing that he broke every promise he made me. Not sure if I’ll ever hear from him again…
Ly Phen. He may have lost attraction for you. This happens a lot.
If he doesn't want to contact you, let him go and move on. You may want Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit
myexbackcoach.com/ebk
did he come back?
I told my EX after i tried fighting to get her back, that i want you as a romantic partner, not a friend. She agreed to not being friends, and i told her to call me or text me if she ever feels inclined to rekindle things. I left her place, got all my stuff back, and she deleted me off facebook! I want to have faith that she'll contact me in the future, but it looks like she has really made up her mind. She told me she doesn't usually change her mind on these decisions, and never has.
Has anybody experienced something like this, but still have success with no contact? She definitely had feelings for me after breaking up.
Me litterally happened right now. I did the same thing AT first but than I took a step back and actually agreed to trying to be friends in the FUTURE and I need some time to myself, never clarify how long it will take. So I'm betting on she'll text me first somewhere to ask to hangout because she still wants to be "friends" and I'll go into that meeting with a romantic outlook and hopefully something will happen still flirt with her.
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Hi Coach Lee, it’s just 3 days since I haven’t contacted the Guy who blocked me (something we have agreed upon when I became paranoid). Just the first day after he dumped me, he unblocked me though until now he is still not contacting me. It’s just 3 days but I am determined to continue this, regardless if he will contact me or not. I know by doing this NoContact thing will help me respect myself more, and that’s all we need, loving ourselves more before loving others (Ex). You videos really helping, please continue to spread your words of encouragement. A lot of people need this. Thank you and more powers!
Hello Coach Lee
It’s been a almost a week since no contact rule and it’s quite helping watching your video to understand the scenario Well instead of loosing my mind,currently we were in distance relationship as she’s in India n I’m in Dubai.Actually in our last conversation I felt she’s trying to push me away saying live your life even I’m there or not I’ll try to be by your side as much as I can n stuff like but when our conversation go further she ended up saying things like I don’t want you in my life I’ll not look back to you forever Her family found someone for her marriage she can’t continue with me as I need to be loyal with the future husband right after that conversation I’ve blocked her from everywhere as I couldn’t take those words she’s saying but couple of days ago she texted me saying you’ve blocked me from everywhere thank you blocked me here too to which I didn’t reply yet
At this point I’ve got lot of questions to ask her about why she has changed but I’m not able to do it
What should I do
As I’m getting very eager to talk to her to get answers about us
Thanks
Taher
Any update mate?
Thanks!
It sucks when you give 100% to someone and they take you for granted and switch the tables...my ex and I are "taking a break" so basically its over and that's fine, I know my worth but it still hurts smh
Hello are you planning to get your ex back in a cheaper and better way why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
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Taking the control back is priceless
my ex is stubborn. extremely stubborn. i broke up with him due to him taken me for granted. 12 days and im hurting but i do hope this is a lesson for him because i was always reaching out and doing everything. He was the one who neglected me, ignored me, ghosted me, made feel like crap. im not begging him. i just want him to realize that i just wanted him to give me what i was giving him. i want him to feel like loosing me. i want him back but not until he changes his behavior and treat me the way im supposed to.
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NC does work. Definitely. He realized he didn't have that control over me like he had before. Granted, I gave it to him. As of right now, we are both cool. Maybe even can call him a friend. When you go no contact, for a long time.....you start to get used to it. My ex went for so long without reaching out to me, so it made it easier to adjust. Longest I went till HE reached out was about 3 or 4 months. I ignored him for a while.....until he noticed I wasn't responding. Then he kept at it. Eventually, I responded.....and he responded in less than 5 mins lol
I feel like Batman delivering JUSTICE when in no contact
Awesome! Rise from the ashes Dark Knight!
This video and your wisdoms /advice is amazing. I love how you phrase these things...my female brain responds to robotic logic speak because it retrains my brain to be less anxious especially coming from a guy like u!
Mine is short term, we only met a few times, just kissing. I have good chances of him reaching out, because there was attraction and I reacted very well to the break up. But also because it is short term, I am also dating other guys, and I am happy there are really cool and nice people out there. Taking it way slower this time, not showing my cards so fast, keeping it light and maintaining my dignity at all times! I only keep real gentlemen in my matches. High standards for behaviour, no overtexting, over giving, no no no. That is over. Now I'm the lady of mystery :))
Guys! You don’t need your ex to be happy. You need yourself and God to complete you.
It’s been 40 years of contact. I hope it breaks their stubbornness someday
I used no contact rule. 3 months later and still nothing from my ex...
Maybe there not coming back same think with me
That's because men are more likely to go on with their lives and never look back compared to women, if you won't initiate contact first. You have to reach out to him first. If he's still acts cold and not talking to you at all, turn around, walk away and never look back.
It's over, move on
@@GUITARTIME2024 Who are you saying that to?
@@sophiakon6293 you. Be strong and move on. Good things will happen.
The key element of the no contact rule to work that non of these coaches mention is to not give a shit.If you waiting for that person to contact you after going no contact you already lost
TRUE NEWS EXPO, That is not true. You would be surprised on how many couples got back together after NO Contact. Listen to more of Coach Lee's videos. You would be surprised. Really!
You did understand what I was saying. .No contact works when you go about your everyday life and not to just sit back and wait for someone to contact you
11 mins into your video my ex text me after i went ghost on him 6 days ago so odd
Everytime i break up with my ex. I always watching this video. I dunno what will happen if i didnt watch ur video, maybe i'll begging n begging . Believe me its really work. And now i getting married with my ex because he know my worth n i different from other girl
Ayu Wandira,
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR MARRIAGE! ❤❤🎉👍
8:29 yes he said he would always love me and that he wants me in his life permanently, two weeks later he broke up with me because of something really dumb. Im in day 7th..stay strong people!
@paolanamuncura8879 did he come back?
I subscribed!
28 days NC. Dating 1.5 loving years, rarely ever argue. She got frustrated with me and said she wanted to date. I told her I can’t be her friend while she dates. I went NC. She hates it. Lots of texts, phone calls, FB messages. Mostly threats of deleting our online photo gallery, and FB, which she has done. Some texts were ugly and angry. She recanted by text and message. I remained NC.
NC means NC. Radio silence from me. I’ve been focusing on me and my work. She did send one little blurb in the middle of her nasty texts saying “FYI, I’ve never kissed another man”
Then after one day she unfriended me and deleted our online photo album.
Now she’s asking friends to ask me what’s going on.
- What do I tell the friends?
- should I remain NC or can I now call after she disclosed she hasn’t kissed another guy ? Is it too soon?
Coach Lee is a voice in the dark. It's been 7 months no contact and I hit a low. I am doing all the things suggested but sometimes like now its still hard. Just reaching out
T Warner, I suggest you get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit
myexbackcoach.com/ebk
You got this 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Because of coach Lee this is my best break up even tho its the hardest break up!
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Please cover how NC effects people who are already in prior relationships.
Each Time i want to reach my ex i listen to this vidéo.Facts
Coach lee what if they have outside advice influencing them to hold their ground etc...
Yes my ex and his miserable loser friend who is separated from his wife for years now is telling him to hold his ground.
Thank you so much coach Lee for all you’re advice it helps give me peace in my heart 💜 knowing there’s people who care about our broken hearts and are here for us. Thank you for you’re work my ex is so stubborn 😂and this video helped me look at things differently which was nice I am a week in the no contact
Even if she doesn't come back, the way he speaks about all of this gives me a sense of peace. Its a little optimistic but as honest as he can be. Like maybe I've got a shot as long as I'm doing the right things? Thanks for the comfort.
Any update?
@@SJ-nw1ym she hasn't come back. Her mother took what was left at my place. Her mom kept apologizing. I'm still working on myself and I am still hopeful.
@@MrLogicallyrandom update?
My biggest fear is one of us dying during no contact we’re both stubborn it took him 6 months and I wouldn’t gaf if it takes another six months! I’m not reaching out first! 😂
Let the ego go girl...wat u gonna bring after u die...life is too short to being egi and hold grudges....i beg u talk to him....
Give us an update
ABANG KAVI wtf why we must chase when they broke up with me
Lmao
Had one of my ex’s text me 8 months after we broke up. Went no contact and just focused on myself. I eventually worked on my self and started going on dates and going out again but my desire for my ex disappeared so when she text me I wasn’t even phased by it.