Helping Divorced Women Start Over: Applying What I Learned | Oraynab Jwayyed | TEDxUCO

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  • @deblou8221
    @deblou8221 6 років тому +37

    I am 68 years old, divorcee. I want to urge mother's to become financially independent. I did not and have been suffering from it, going back and forth to court for thirteen years. Great video. Want to learn more. Thank you, Oraynab.

    • @patrickhunsaker4678
      @patrickhunsaker4678 4 роки тому

      Hello

    • @sombong1423
      @sombong1423 4 роки тому

      Hello how are you doing

    • @jamesmanter8731
      @jamesmanter8731 4 роки тому +1

      Should have stayed with your husband...

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      @peteredegba7614 3 роки тому

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    • @MaevaMark-rd8jm
      @MaevaMark-rd8jm Рік тому

      They were some signs of abuse that I now see as flags before the marriage, he wanted to know all about my past. i didn't realized that he would use it all against me. He had a lot of" trust" issues and accused me of cheating almost all the time. He had a lot of anger issues and would fight me on days that meant the most to me. I never thought much into any of this until it became the norm. Thank to @ghost_tools this hacker helped me a lot while defending myself in court he brought out so many proves I used against my narcissist husband I highly recommend him.

  • @mrsmucha
    @mrsmucha 6 років тому +57

    Married women with children are like tightrope walkers. Those who have a good job have a safety net, while those who left the work force to devote all their time raising their children have no safety net.

    • @robertwarner1160
      @robertwarner1160 4 роки тому

      They could love and honor their husbands... then they have ZERO PROBLEMS

    • @cha8791
      @cha8791 Рік тому

      ​@@robertwarner1160this doesn't work for abusive husbands. No love and honor can satiate them

    • @CitySlickerButtKicker
      @CitySlickerButtKicker 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@robertwarner1160That enables narcissist husbands and gives them more fuel. Validation is supply to them. How about husbands honor and serve their families too.

    • @robertwarner1160
      @robertwarner1160 8 місяців тому

      @@cha8791 or pick better in the first place

    • @robertwarner1160
      @robertwarner1160 8 місяців тому

      @@CitySlickerButtKicker 80% of divorces are initiated by... women

  • @msprettykawaii950
    @msprettykawaii950 3 роки тому +26

    Lesson learned: Choose the man wisely. Some are just narcissistic who will discard you and doesn't have the basic life skill to fix your marital issues

  • @ellaenchanting333
    @ellaenchanting333 5 років тому +27

    As a mother of two small children I now understand that children are a huge liability; for both women and men. Motherhood is exhausting and if you add a difficult husband, a house, a career or a job on top, it is too much of a burden. It takes a village to raise a child, but nowadays there isn't much of a community anywhere. Not having family close by makes it harder. Think twice before having children. They are a huge responsability, they cost money, time, energy and much of your life.

    • @xplxy
      @xplxy 5 років тому +8

      But children make you sooo happy. I am in the middle of divorce, my daughter makes me smile. every time.

    • @adenaikeoluwatobialex6065
      @adenaikeoluwatobialex6065 5 років тому

      @@xplxy Hi

    • @derick1801
      @derick1801 4 роки тому +2

      Ella Lovli children are gift from God

    • @realking9866
      @realking9866 4 роки тому

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    • @realking9866
      @realking9866 4 роки тому

      I'm honest and loyal person

  • @xplxy
    @xplxy 5 років тому +45

    Lesson learned: women should NEVER sacrifice her career for family. NEVER!!!!

    • @akshuakshu8479
      @akshuakshu8479 4 роки тому +1

      True

    • @robertwarner1160
      @robertwarner1160 4 роки тому +4

      single mothers are a biblical plague - Jesus

    • @clairebearie87
      @clairebearie87 3 роки тому

      @@robertwarner1160 how?

    • @robertwarner1160
      @robertwarner1160 3 роки тому +2

      @@clairebearie87 single moms raise a high percentage of unbalanced children

    • @clairebearie87
      @clairebearie87 3 роки тому +1

      @@robertwarner1160 how is that a biblical plague..and yes I don't disagree but people (single parents) are doing the best they can in a corrupt world to raise their kids. We aren't in Eden anymore and God's standards for marriage are not upheld by a lot of people (?everyone) due to the amount of sin in the world. Single parenting would be extremely difficult and I take my hat off to the parents for trying in less than ideal circumstances.

  • @lindafazio1481
    @lindafazio1481 5 років тому +40

    Women wouldn't have to sacrifice their careers if men pulled their weight.

    • @derick1801
      @derick1801 4 роки тому +2

      Linda Fazio true talk

    • @amair9674
      @amair9674 3 роки тому +1

      Yes, thank you. Gradually, I’ve become nothing. Working 24/7 for 30 years has me emotionally, physically, & financially exhausted. I cannot, after 23 years. He never put in even half.

    • @MaevaMark-rd8jm
      @MaevaMark-rd8jm Рік тому

      They were some signs of abuse that I now see as flags before the marriage, he wanted to know all about my past. i didn't realized that he would use it all against me. He had a lot of" trust" issues and accused me of cheating almost all the time. He had a lot of anger issues and would fight me on days that meant the most to me. I never thought much into any of this until it became the norm. Thank to @cyber_tech_service_tools this hacker helped me a lot while defending myself in court he brought out so many proves I used against my narcissist husband I highly recommend him.

  • @ayeshatabassumwomentransfo9277
    @ayeshatabassumwomentransfo9277 2 роки тому +2

    Excellent job doing by Oraynab Jwayyed, Definitely i will read her both books, even i am divorcee but i am proud that raised my voice against wrong person. Today i am on a mission to transform 1 million women's life and i am writing my book very soon i will launch.
    How many of you feel after Divorce you grown/ succeeded in life???

    • @erichill-jt9em
      @erichill-jt9em Рік тому

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    • @MaevaMark-rd8jm
      @MaevaMark-rd8jm Рік тому

      They were some signs of abuse that I now see as flags before the marriage, he wanted to know all about my past. i didn't realized that he would use it all against me. He had a lot of" trust" issues and accused me of cheating almost all the time. He had a lot of anger issues and would fight me on days that meant the most to me. I never thought much into any of this until it became the norm. Thank to @cyber_tech_service_tools this hacker helped me a lot while defending myself in court he brought out so many proves I used against my narcissist husband I highly recommend him.

  • @natalies847
    @natalies847 6 місяців тому +1

    Another good reason to speak up for an abused woman….
    If he is a clever narcissist he’ll never show what’s going on at home, to the outside world.
    So when the woman makes the abuse known she is labeled crazy, dramatic, a liar, because it was hidden so well. Then the poor children pay the price every other week with no protection from the mother anymore because of divorce.

  • @soulbeing3437
    @soulbeing3437 5 років тому +8

    Thank you for speaking up Oraynab. What you said about society helping women become financially independent is spot on. Women don’t want handouts, but God willing enough pay not to work 60 hours a week to barely get by.

    • @realking9866
      @realking9866 4 роки тому

      Hello dear

    • @MaevaMark-rd8jm
      @MaevaMark-rd8jm Рік тому

      They were some signs of abuse that I now see as flags before the marriage, he wanted to know all about my past. i didn't realized that he would use it all against me. He had a lot of" trust" issues and accused me of cheating almost all the time. He had a lot of anger issues and would fight me on days that meant the most to me. I never thought much into any of this until it became the norm. Thank to @cyber_tech_service_tools this hacker helped me a lot while defending myself in court he brought out so many proves I used against my narcissist husband I highly recommend him.

  • @dailyabundance
    @dailyabundance 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm 65 and going through a divorce. My husband is the breadwinner. I can't even afford a lawyer

  • @stephaniefythm
    @stephaniefythm 2 роки тому +24

    I went through a lot of financial crisis after my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college,just hope it encourages someone that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have any of them right now, you can start TODAY regardless your age INVEST and change your future! Investing is a grand choice I made. Great video! Thanks for sharing!

    • @eadad4371
      @eadad4371 2 роки тому

      I'm a single dad, not quite long I started investing. I'm very curious and need help on how to enhance and increase my returns. Any good investment tips would be appreciated

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      @stephaniefythm 2 роки тому

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      @stephaniefythm 2 роки тому

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    • @stephaniefythm
      @stephaniefythm 2 роки тому

      @@eadad4371 OVERALL she made me financially stable investing with her help .So I’ll advise you do get a good Investment advisor for yourself.

    • @eadad4371
      @eadad4371 2 роки тому

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  • @TalesOfHope
    @TalesOfHope 7 років тому +9

    8 millions suscriber and 141 views?? how is it possible??..

  • @lettysaadani5871
    @lettysaadani5871 5 років тому +9

    Thank you, I was feeling do alone. this is my case and all to common. I put my ex through three failed businesses and finally through school, once he was done he shipped out (, unfortunately that's not the worst of it all but)....now I didn't finish school, I lost my job and am being evicted. It just breaks my heart that I'm going to have to tell my senior high schooler that I will have to pull him out of his school to move out of area. How do these men live with themselves, I just don't understand because I don't think they are bad men, but certainly selfish..... Thank you for giving us a voice 🙏

    • @derick1801
      @derick1801 4 роки тому

      Kelli R. Morris too bad and what did you do?

    • @sombong1423
      @sombong1423 4 роки тому

      Hello how are you doing

  • @hellcat3586
    @hellcat3586 4 роки тому +5

    I am a single mother, from a domestic violence situation.

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      @realking9866 4 роки тому

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      @morganbaldwin3331 4 роки тому

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    • @georgewilliams9372
      @georgewilliams9372 3 роки тому

      I'm single man , how are you doing,please can will talk in private

    • @clairebearie87
      @clairebearie87 3 роки тому +6

      oh honey, the piranhas are circling stay safe. Hope you're doing ok

  • @olganadal9775
    @olganadal9775 6 років тому +13

    Great topic, so happy people are talking about it

  • @dianacastaneda2696
    @dianacastaneda2696 4 роки тому +5

    Is always harder for women even if we work, we have to juggle and is expected to bee cocks, sicologist, uber, nurse, teacher aid and also keep her aparence, bring home same income even when she can't make decisions how is the money spend, and many women are been treated that she is not enough because it doesn't make the same income when it has a disadvantage from the start

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      @morganbaldwin3331 4 роки тому

      Hello do you mind if we know each other

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      @georgewilliams9372 3 роки тому

      how are you doing can will talk in private

    • @MaevaMark-rd8jm
      @MaevaMark-rd8jm Рік тому

      They were some signs of abuse that I now see as flags before the marriage, he wanted to know all about my past. i didn't realized that he would use it all against me. He had a lot of" trust" issues and accused me of cheating almost all the time. He had a lot of anger issues and would fight me on days that meant the most to me. I never thought much into any of this until it became the norm. Thank to @cyber_tech_service_tools this hacker helped me a lot while defending myself in court he brought out so many proves I used against my narcissist husband I highly recommend him.

    • @MaevaMark-rd8jm
      @MaevaMark-rd8jm Рік тому

      They were some signs of abuse that I now see as flags before the marriage, he wanted to know all about my past. i didn't realized that he would use it all against me. He had a lot of" trust" issues and accused me of cheating almost all the time. He had a lot of anger issues and would fight me on days that meant the most to me. I never thought much into any of this until it became the norm. Thank to @ghost_tools this hacker helped me a lot while defending myself in court he brought out so many proves I used against my narcissist husband I highly recommend him.

  • @OG_RETRO
    @OG_RETRO 4 роки тому +3

    A very striking speech, thank you 🙏🏼

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  • @sumisfashionandbeautytips5236
    @sumisfashionandbeautytips5236 6 років тому +6

    I wish the speech presentation was more lively and enthusiastic......the mechanical tone of narration made it difficult for me to watch the video till the end!This is just a comment on the narration and nothing to do with the worth and ability of this wonderful talented woman, for which i hold high regards!

    • @ontherockswithsalt560
      @ontherockswithsalt560 5 років тому +3

      I appreciate your opinion but keep in mind she may have a fear of public speaking and is so focused on what she is saying she isn't able to be more lively and animated. That comes with practice..

    • @pamemarald3601
      @pamemarald3601 5 років тому +2

      :) people have their own styles, they are limited, its like she was reading her material from a screen, may be she was most comfortable this way

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      @realking9866 4 роки тому

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  • @queendivine3044
    @queendivine3044 2 роки тому

    I wouldn't move to Amarillo Texas to start over if you're getting a divorce. I left the State of Texas and things got better for me. I'm thankful for the move and out of the state.

  • @robinsiciliano9084
    @robinsiciliano9084 4 роки тому +1

    Yes! This is so important and one of our biggest challenges in our country.

  • @burman3789
    @burman3789 Рік тому

    I bet she put him through worse and for that any woman who initiate divorce deserves misery.

  • @bro7269
    @bro7269 3 роки тому +1

    Divorce is hard on everyone, not just women....

  • @TheBryanmauro
    @TheBryanmauro 5 років тому +1

    This is great! Alimony is a family killer an$ needs to be abolished!

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  • @jassimshah9960
    @jassimshah9960 4 роки тому +1

    Any divorce women age 35to 60 I went you my good relationships

  • @seherfathima2091
    @seherfathima2091 Рік тому

    WITHOUT DIVORCE MY MOTHER IS HONOURABLE

  • @MisterKorihor
    @MisterKorihor 3 роки тому +2

    This talk contradicts the statistics. The statistics say that 70% of divorces are initiated by women. In the vast majority of cases the women say they were not "happy" in their marriage; or they found married life "boring"; or they provide some other non-substantive reason. The truth is that the single life (and hence a single income household) was a voluntary choice that they made. The victim narrative presented in this talk is utterly false.

    • @mariavaldez1429
      @mariavaldez1429 3 роки тому +7

      the ignorance is highly visible through your statement that is highly inaccurate as to why women file for divorce, on top of that, why women choose to stay single. Use your voice for something productive and helpful instead of contributing to a problem.

    • @MaevaMark-rd8jm
      @MaevaMark-rd8jm Рік тому

      They were some signs of abuse that I now see as flags before the marriage, he wanted to know all about my past. i didn't realized that he would use it all against me. He had a lot of" trust" issues and accused me of cheating almost all the time. He had a lot of anger issues and would fight me on days that meant the most to me. I never thought much into any of this until it became the norm. Thank to @cyber_tech_service_tools this hacker helped me a lot while defending myself in court he brought out so many proves I used against my narcissist husband I highly recommend him.

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    @rajaraja.laskar5450 Рік тому

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  • @Hyderabadidunyakasafar
    @Hyderabadidunyakasafar 4 роки тому

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  • @seherfathima2091
    @seherfathima2091 Рік тому

    LEARN FROM YUR MISTAKE OR BE A DOOR MAT