Connect with us below- we love you dwellers! --- Sub to The B-Side Channel youtube.com/@TheB-SideAPP?si=EImX0JC1F2bBzxlr Want to financially support B-Side? www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp All my books, links, & more here linktr.ee/timross Apple: Download The B-Side App TODAY: apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522 Android: Download The B-Side App TODAY: play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US Join our Discord: discord.gg/c4x24Qrw
This video reminds me of a verse I read yesterday…. ”And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.“ Matthew 5:30 NIV
After finding out my husband was having sexual conversations with other women in his phone, 2 years later, THIS is what I've been hoping he would understand. I never cared about checking behind him until that trust was broken. I still don't want to, but I would love for him to offer the transparency as a way to rebuild trust in our relationship.
This breaks my heart bc I’m getting divorced and devastated realizing I was in a storefront marriage. Feel like an idiot for staying so long after being cheated on so many times. I’m glad I won’t live in that hell anymore and it hurts so much. Thank you for having these honest conversations.
You’re not dumb for wanting your marriage to work. You’re not an idiot for staying in hopes that things would change for the better. We can’t make anyone do anything they don’t want to do. If the heart is sick, out of it will flow deeds to perpetuate sickness. And that’s not your fault. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I know it goes against everything you dreamed of for your life. In our weakest points is the perfect time for God to show us just how strong He really is. Take your burdens to Him and read His word, allow Him to reintroduce you to who you are in Him. Oh and never feel bad for demanding more/what you deserve ❤
I pray the LORD redeems your heart mind soul and SIGHT. I pray the LORD who is a rock and DEUTERONOMY says there is NO ROCK LIKE OUR ROCK I pray by the same blood that Jesus shed on Calvary I pray that HE BE YOUR PORTION AND BE YOUR BREAD AS A FULFILLMENT OF HIS COVENANT AND HIS PROMISE TO ABRAHAM AND YOU I PRAY THE LORD KEEPS YOU IN THE COVERING OF HIS PRESENCE. HE PROMISED NEVER TO LEAVE YOU NOR FORSAKE YOU. 1 Corinthians 13, Isaiah 43:18-19. IN JESUS NAME OF NAZARETH THE SON OF THE TRUE LIVING GOD, THE SON OF DAVID MAY HAVE SHINE GRACE, MERCY, LOVE, and FAVOR IN YOUR LIGHT JOSIE HERNANDEZ IN THE NAME OF YESHUA THE MESSIAH I PRAY. AMEN. No weapon fashioned against you shall prosper. You’re safe now.
@@widdd_Thank you so much truly for this. I feel very seen. Reading this made me cry. It’s so hard to navigate through this and I’m really trying to form the habit of leaning on God and turning to Him first.
@@tariqcollins2609Thank you so much for your powerful prayer over me and for praying scripture over me. I cried reading this prayer. I’m going to go back to these bereaved and pray them over myself and daughters as well. Thank you!
@@josiehernandez8943 for now we see dimly but then face to face, we know in part, we prophesy in part, but when (His) perfect comes the partial and imperfect shall pass away and we shall known just as we are fully known (by Him). He sees you. ““You’re blessed when you’re at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and his rule. “You’re blessed when you feel you’ve lost what is most dear to you. Only then can you be embraced by the One most dear to you.” Matthew 5:3-4 MSG
Powerful conversation! This will help a lot of couples. There's no feeling worse as a married man who is trying to devote his life to Christ, no longer has the desire to live double lives, is a home-body, yet is continuosly reminded all of his previous mistakes and is still viewed as the same man he no longer is. We have to find our peace with God. People you love in this world will always remind you who you use to be. I love Mrs. Ross' approach because in these situations, growth is paramount from BOTH individuals in order for a relationship to continue to flourish.
For a man to say this... This shows growth. First of all I am proud of you for putting God first. Don't worry brother just keep shining for God... You don't need to defend your character God will be your vindicator. Paul did many things but he lived a changed, transformed life. Let your light 🔆 shine.
Yeah man. I've heard that this disconnect is called the Paradox of Change. You are a different person, yet people still see you as who you used to be and how you used to act. It takes some time for people to realize that you're different, better, and have grown. Remember to maintain the growth for you. Some of the greatest people that we look up to and admire had to go blaze a path by themselves...and THEN have people fall in line/start to believe in them. I'm not just speaking to you. I'm also speaking to my own journey, so understand that this message is personal. Hope the best for you.
"Everybody does stupid stuff out of their brokeness." That's why healing is so important. That's why we need to lay ourselves down. 🙌🙌🙌 I love this conversation.
Yall are amazing and happy to hear someone being honest on this topic. This is a reason why tons of marriages are failing a lack of honesty and open conversation
All the gems being dropped in this short period of time !! 💎💎😁😁😁 Thank you both once again for being so open, it's extremely helpful May God continue bless this platform.
I agree and disagree. My previous relationship I had NOTHING to hide. But the person I was with had some SERIOUS trust issues. I did not mind him going through my phone at 1st....but then I noticed he would want to keep phones in his hands EVERYTIME he came over. I was PACIFING his insecurities. So I put a block on it. And a permanent block on Him. He was an overbearing mess! I have peace! Amen!
not even remotley the same. They are married and you're talking about a BF. Also, in general people speak in generalites. It's very rare that any message will be exactly like what you experienced, you have to be able to understand the concept that's being shared.
@jcfisher4988 - yes! I agreed to the concept. But disagreed to the factual foundation. It was actually a fiancé and not a BF. And if you're married or not. People bring habitual behaviors into a marriage. So I took notice to the red flag. In a different view...some people pacify insecurities that need to be dealt with, with their therapist. But YES! I do agree with the content! - thank you for sharing you POV. 💯
I think the inherent difference in your situation, and what’s being presented is they both were aware of their weaknesses, and we’re working together to solve the issue. It’s clear that your fiancé has some unresolved trauma that manifested in insecurities, that neither one of you address maybe you yourself are unaware of what was driving it, and he was unwilling to look at it head on. Glad you were able to step away because it’s supposed to be to hold people coming together for a union. It’s too much work trying to parent /heal I a significant other.
I love the transparency here. This is really going to help people. Way 2 tacke hard issues, and I love how it was magnified that it was the spouses choice to walk thru or not. I love and respect the balance.
"If you can't be open, you wanna keep your secrets." "Don't ruin somebody else's life cause you can't commit and be true." So many wise statements in this, bam! 💥
What if you setup boundaries (prison) and was open and your spouse thought you was playing or not that serious? I and other guys I went to college with chose to stop listening, stop watching and going places places that cause thoughts. Our spouses didn’t think our boundaries were necessary. What about that?
That can only work with a significant other that is desiring to please God. There are many that profess God but are pretending, and they will take this very message and hit the clear history button regularly on the way home from work. From experience I speak and I am now divorced. Yes grown kids playing games!!
My boyfriend continues to look up women such as actresses naked and other sexual things online and on social media. I’ve spoken to him about it-it all started with me finding out what was on his feed on ig. I never thought to even look through his phone. I explained to him now 3 times how much it hurts to see him give into those quick pleasures. This behavior makes no sense to me because when we agreed to start the relationship, we were talking marriage in the future. I became 100% committed to him since we agreed this and he told me he was too. I mean I took it to the point of even avoiding talking and looking at other men. I have no desire to entertain, purse, and even look at other men since I found “mine”. But somehow he tells me it’s just “curiosities” and that he’s not even looking at these women in THAT way. What do I do? I want to believe him but this makes me uncomfortable and it’s hard to believe that as a heterosexual man you’re looking at other beautiful naked women solely based on some non-sexual curiosity. Any advice?
If it doesn’t sit right with you then it’s not right for you. The fact that he tries to justify after you brought it up 3 times means it’s not something he wants to change. If this is not something that you want to live with forever you may have to leave him. It doesn’t seem like he is motivated to change despite knowing that it hurts you.
Hey before I even say anything I’m just letting you know to read at your own risk As someone who is trying to do the deep work and permanently walk out of a porn addiction. I don’t think myself or any other men that I’ve talked to, look up a picture of a naked woman without intent of looking at her in “that” way. He most definitely is looking at those women in that way because if he wasn’t, there wouldn’t be a need to look in the first place. And yes he might have “ curiosities”but that doesn’t mean every curiosity is good in nature. Biggest advice I can give to your boyfriend, is he has to ask himself what he wants for himself in the future. And he has to understand that even though pornography might feel satisfying in the moment, it will only lead him to lose his sense of loyalty. Because I doubt every time he looks at a pornographic image that it’s the same women. If he can’t even be loyal to a picture in no way is he gonna be loyal to a women. My other suggestion to him would be he has to learn how to be honest about his wants and needs even if expressing those might hurt you he still needs to express how he’s feeling. I wanna say to you ma’am, you’re doing an amazing job and I’m proud of you. You’re very kindhearted to continue to support thus far. But I think you need to make a decision, if I knew your boyfriend I probably could give a better assessment but if he is saying he’s trying to get better but is taking no action to better himself. Then I’d suggest leaving that relationship, not for his sake but for yours. Words are empty, actions are full. When a person says they’re gonna better themselves don’t listen to their words, watch their actions. You need to be honest with what you want and who you want as a partner. But if he is actually taking action in healing himself and fixing his addiction then I’d suggest staying in the relationship and continue to support him. But like I said be honest with yourself and with what you want in a relationship/partner and no matter what happens whether you decide stay or not. I’d hate for this situation to make your heart bitter I’m gonna pray for you and your boyfriend rn. I believe God will guide you to make the right decision. I’m proud of you for even speaking up, that takes a lot of effort.
Yessss🙌🏾🙌🏾-it ain’t no crime and you won’t do time -“if you’re open in your relationship.” Certainly I had that kinda person and I wasss that person too. But I am single and learning before I go down that route again!
The fact that so many people maneuver through life & relationships with so much deception and lies nowadays is insane to me! They dont care who they hurt. They only care about getting what they want. This is why I'm never surprised when God starts exposing people & they start reaping the bad seeds they've sown cuz they deserve them.
Wait @6:51 that’s not true. I have absolutely nothing to hide but some messages are private from trusted sources. But she right kids play games got no time for that ✋
![Дон ДОН, Алаудинов и СБЕЖАВШИЕ из под Курска ахматовцы 😁 [Пародия]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/dEfCf5IK26Q/mqdefault.jpg)
Connect with us below- we love you dwellers!
---
Sub to The B-Side Channel youtube.com/@TheB-SideAPP?si=EImX0JC1F2bBzxlr
Want to financially support B-Side? www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp
All my books, links, & more here
linktr.ee/timross
Apple: Download The B-Side App TODAY: apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522
Android: Download The B-Side App TODAY: play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US
Join our Discord: discord.gg/c4x24Qrw
People want to be in a relationship but they don’t want to do the work required to make it work.
Preach
Exactly
This is the content they never discussed when I was in the marriage ministry.
Same. This is REAL marriage ministry
This video reminds me of a verse I read yesterday….
”And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.“
Matthew 5:30 NIV
“When you live a life that is open can’t nobody take you by surprise”💯🔥
After finding out my husband was having sexual conversations with other women in his phone, 2 years later, THIS is what I've been hoping he would understand. I never cared about checking behind him until that trust was broken. I still don't want to, but I would love for him to offer the transparency as a way to rebuild trust in our relationship.
It’s not right but it’s excitement he is missing. He may just miss you talking to him like that or miss something else. Just my thoughts though.
Oh Juliette is talking talking!! I love it! Let’s keep it real 👌🏾👏🏾
This breaks my heart bc I’m getting divorced and devastated realizing I was in a storefront marriage. Feel like an idiot for staying so long after being cheated on so many times. I’m glad I won’t live in that hell anymore and it hurts so much. Thank you for having these honest conversations.
You’re not dumb for wanting your marriage to work. You’re not an idiot for staying in hopes that things would change for the better. We can’t make anyone do anything they don’t want to do. If the heart is sick, out of it will flow deeds to perpetuate sickness. And that’s not your fault. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I know it goes against everything you dreamed of for your life. In our weakest points is the perfect time for God to show us just how strong He really is. Take your burdens to Him and read His word, allow Him to reintroduce you to who you are in Him. Oh and never feel bad for demanding more/what you deserve ❤
I pray the LORD redeems your heart mind soul and SIGHT. I pray the LORD who is a rock and DEUTERONOMY says there is NO ROCK LIKE OUR ROCK I pray by the same blood that Jesus shed on Calvary I pray that HE BE YOUR PORTION AND BE YOUR BREAD AS A FULFILLMENT OF HIS COVENANT AND HIS PROMISE TO ABRAHAM AND YOU I PRAY THE LORD KEEPS YOU IN THE COVERING OF HIS PRESENCE. HE PROMISED NEVER TO LEAVE YOU NOR FORSAKE YOU. 1 Corinthians 13, Isaiah 43:18-19. IN JESUS NAME OF NAZARETH THE SON OF THE TRUE LIVING GOD, THE SON OF DAVID MAY HAVE SHINE GRACE, MERCY, LOVE, and FAVOR IN YOUR LIGHT JOSIE HERNANDEZ IN THE NAME OF YESHUA THE MESSIAH I PRAY. AMEN. No weapon fashioned against you shall prosper. You’re safe now.
@@widdd_Thank you so much truly for this. I feel very seen. Reading this made me cry. It’s so hard to navigate through this and I’m really trying to form the habit of leaning on God and turning to Him first.
@@tariqcollins2609Thank you so much for your powerful prayer over me and for praying scripture over me. I cried reading this prayer. I’m going to go back to these bereaved and pray them over myself and daughters as well. Thank you!
@@josiehernandez8943 for now we see dimly but then face to face, we know in part, we prophesy in part, but when (His) perfect comes the partial and imperfect shall pass away and we shall known just as we are fully known (by Him). He sees you.
““You’re blessed when you’re at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and his rule.
“You’re blessed when you feel you’ve lost what is most dear to you. Only then can you be embraced by the One most dear to you.”
Matthew 5:3-4 MSG
So transparent.. i love this display honesty in a marriage..
Tim and Juliette, this is so powerful. This is the greatest example of what it looks like to sacrifice for your spouse.#TRUELOVE!!!
Powerful conversation! This will help a lot of couples. There's no feeling worse as a married man who is trying to devote his life to Christ, no longer has the desire to live double lives, is a home-body, yet is continuosly reminded all of his previous mistakes and is still viewed as the same man he no longer is. We have to find our peace with God. People you love in this world will always remind you who you use to be. I love Mrs. Ross' approach because in these situations, growth is paramount from BOTH individuals in order for a relationship to continue to flourish.
Amen brother 🙏🏾🙏🏾. This reminded me of Mark 6:4.
For a man to say this... This shows growth. First of all I am proud of you for putting God first. Don't worry brother just keep shining for God... You don't need to defend your character God will be your vindicator. Paul did many things but he lived a changed, transformed life. Let your light 🔆 shine.
Yeah man. I've heard that this disconnect is called the Paradox of Change. You are a different person, yet people still see you as who you used to be and how you used to act. It takes some time for people to realize that you're different, better, and have grown.
Remember to maintain the growth for you. Some of the greatest people that we look up to and admire had to go blaze a path by themselves...and THEN have people fall in line/start to believe in them.
I'm not just speaking to you. I'm also speaking to my own journey, so understand that this message is personal. Hope the best for you.
Thank y'all for the encouraging messages. It really is helpful and greatly appreciated my brothas and sistas 🙏🏽💯
"Everybody does stupid stuff out of their brokeness." That's why healing is so important. That's why we need to lay ourselves down. 🙌🙌🙌
I love this conversation.
This is THEE best relationship conversation I've heard on UA-cam EVER!!! 💯
I adore yall! So RAW, UNCUT, AND TRANSPARENT!
Your transparency is honestly praiseworthy and liberating in a way that makes one run back to Jesus🙌🏽🔥Thank you♥️
I'm Muslim and I love y'all down! ❤
Is it just me or does Juliette’s speaking voice sound like Janet Jackson?? 😂
😂😂😂 yes
I came here to say the same 😂
So true now that you mention it! lol!
I heard the exact same thing lol Blown away by how identical their voices are 😳
I was listening and started looking for this comment. LOL
Safety & Stability For Me That Part 💯♥️
Yall are amazing and happy to hear someone being honest on this topic. This is a reason why tons of marriages are failing a lack of honesty and open conversation
So practical and helpful. Saving this so I can rewatch with my future wifey.
You both are amazing and a blessing! Thank you Juliette for speaking about this. I needed to hear this. God is good! 🙌❤🙏
I absolutely love the transparency here!!! Thank you all for being so real! 🙏🏽
All the gems being dropped in this short period of time !! 💎💎😁😁😁 Thank you both once again for being so open, it's extremely helpful
May God continue bless this platform.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯 this was a delicious conversation.
This was a delicious description 😂 so accurate!
This part of the live was so good!!🔥🔥🔥
This is such an important conversation
The Lord use you both to bring so much truth, honestly transparency.Well Said!!!!
As Tabitha Brown said very good
I appreciate y’all so much. Thank you!
I agree and disagree. My previous relationship I had NOTHING to hide. But the person I was with had some SERIOUS trust issues. I did not mind him going through my phone at 1st....but then I noticed he would want to keep phones in his hands EVERYTIME he came over. I was PACIFING his insecurities. So I put a block on it. And a permanent block on Him. He was an overbearing mess! I have peace! Amen!
not even remotley the same. They are married and you're talking about a BF. Also, in general people speak in generalites. It's very rare that any message will be exactly like what you experienced, you have to be able to understand the concept that's being shared.
@@jcfisher4988exactly
@jcfisher4988 - yes! I agreed to the concept. But disagreed to the factual foundation. It was actually a fiancé and not a BF. And if you're married or not. People bring habitual behaviors into a marriage. So I took notice to the red flag. In a different view...some people pacify insecurities that need to be dealt with, with their therapist. But YES! I do agree with the content! - thank you for sharing you POV. 💯
I think the inherent difference in your situation, and what’s being presented is they both were aware of their weaknesses, and we’re working together to solve the issue. It’s clear that your fiancé has some unresolved trauma that manifested in insecurities, that neither one of you address maybe you yourself are unaware of what was driving it, and he was unwilling to look at it head on. Glad you were able to step away because it’s supposed to be to hold people coming together for a union. It’s too much work trying to parent /heal I a significant other.
I get it. When a person has trust issues, it is usually from some trauma they experienced and they never healed. It’s very tiring. 😢
I love the transparency here. This is really going to help people. Way 2 tacke hard issues, and I love how it was magnified that it was the spouses choice to walk thru or not. I love and respect the balance.
"You have to own your decisions"
That was the word for me.
I absolutely love the energy these two bring. The car insurance part......hahahahahaha.
Excellent content! Thank you
Juliette, sister, I love you speak. Just found you guys thank you Tim and Juliette.
Man you guys are blessed this is refreshing ❤ honestly we not willing to do the work this generation
"If you can't be open, you wanna keep your secrets." "Don't ruin somebody else's life cause you can't commit and be true." So many wise statements in this, bam! 💥
My STBX Husband Wanted To Keep His Deceit, Lies And Multiple Overlapping Affairs So I Chose To File For Divorce And Have My Peace.
Me too.
GOOD FOR YOU!
THIS IS VALIDATING and FREEING. Thank you both!!!
This is real! Whew! Thank you both! ❤
Dang! I've been missing out. Y'all are fire.
Wow… the discipline and commitment! Love it!
Juliette looks so beautiful.
That’s how teamwork works!
Yo yall hit it out the park on openness. Sad it’s always a one way street. Needs to be both parties.
As a man feeling uncomfortable and wanting more information has always been labeled as insecure and a violation of privacy.
it feels that way for everyone who is hiding something - someone labeling you doesn’t make it truth ❤
Thank you for this message
Where is her show?!?! Killing me with the truth. Honor and respect for this couple.
Living open and honest is what a healed, mature, grow up do!!
DROPPING GEMS!!! 💎💎💎
This is sooo good!!! Wow
great video 🔥🙌🏽
“People with nothing to hide, HIDE NOTHING”
Yea this was 🔥 love it
I didn't know i needed the B-side...but i do
What a pretty lady!
I thank God for blessing me to hear this video. My first marriage was no trust. I thank God for blessing me again to find true love and trust 🙏🏾 ❤️ 💕
This is so good!
I love y’all so much thank you for this we need more of this
They killed this 🔥 🔥
The 'whoah' in the background!
"Live a life of character and integrity."
Boundaries are so important.
This was so good - I clicked watch later 3 times whilst watching it now ❤
Love this ❤
Teach the people‼️‼️
This was good a different perspective
This is so good 🔥🔥🔥
Auntie Jules is like Unc all day!! SHE'S ON IT!!❤😘😘🙌🏿🙌🏿👀👀
Big bro Tim I’m sure you know this. You two are amazing ❤
So on point. ❤
HE WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING AND FAVOR FROM THE LORD
This is so good! Narcissistic behavior! Collateral damage
Her speaking voice reminds me of Janet Jackson’s speaking voice.
This will go over heads whewwwww 😮
This is good!!!
What if you setup boundaries (prison) and was open and your spouse thought you was playing or not that serious? I and other guys I went to college with chose to stop listening, stop watching and going places places that cause thoughts. Our spouses didn’t think our boundaries were necessary. What about that?
That can only work with a significant other that is desiring to please God. There are many that profess God but are pretending, and they will take this very message and hit the clear history button regularly on the way home from work. From experience I speak and I am now divorced. Yes grown kids playing games!!
🔥🔥🔥
Yup
"When I was in my 20's, and I didn't believe in car insurance..." 😅 too funny.
Mama always said a person who has nothing to hide, hides nothing!
❤🙏🏼Story of my life 🙁😕
So good
I’m loving this content. Side note: is it just me , or does Mrs. Ross sound like Janet Jackson?
Chile, when Juliette said “I don’t have time for the games”
How did you get to that space when you were not there in the beginning?
Hmmmm. I found this interview interesting as I feel there is something there. Some undertone that they both might be aware of that is fragile.
I am a firm believer that when you want your marriage to work it can
Cheating is a choice
Premeditated 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
My boyfriend continues to look up women such as actresses naked and other sexual things online and on social media. I’ve spoken to him about it-it all started with me finding out what was on his feed on ig. I never thought to even look through his phone. I explained to him now 3 times how much it hurts to see him give into those quick pleasures. This behavior makes no sense to me because when we agreed to start the relationship, we were talking marriage in the future. I became 100% committed to him since we agreed this and he told me he was too. I mean I took it to the point of even avoiding talking and looking at other men. I have no desire to entertain, purse, and even look at other men since I found “mine”. But somehow he tells me it’s just “curiosities” and that he’s not even looking at these women in THAT way. What do I do? I want to believe him but this makes me uncomfortable and it’s hard to believe that as a heterosexual man you’re looking at other beautiful naked women solely based on some non-sexual curiosity.
Any advice?
If it doesn’t sit right with you then it’s not right for you. The fact that he tries to justify after you brought it up 3 times means it’s not something he wants to change. If this is not something that you want to live with forever you may have to leave him. It doesn’t seem like he is motivated to change despite knowing that it hurts you.
Your gut already told you! Stop denying your intuition and you won’t need to be asking strangers about your life. Good luck.
Ruuuuunnnn...and don't look back 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Leave. You are 100% and be is not. There are billions of people on this planet. LEAVE.
Hey before I even say anything I’m just letting you know to read at your own risk
As someone who is trying to do the deep work and permanently walk out of a porn addiction. I don’t think myself or any other men that I’ve talked to, look up a picture of a naked woman without intent of looking at her in “that” way. He most definitely is looking at those women in that way because if he wasn’t, there wouldn’t be a need to look in the first place. And yes he might have “ curiosities”but that doesn’t mean every curiosity is good in nature. Biggest advice I can give to your boyfriend, is he has to ask himself what he wants for himself in the future. And he has to understand that even though pornography might feel satisfying in the moment, it will only lead him to lose his sense of loyalty. Because I doubt every time he looks at a pornographic image that it’s the same women. If he can’t even be loyal to a picture in no way is he gonna be loyal to a women. My other suggestion to him would be he has to learn how to be honest about his wants and needs even if expressing those might hurt you he still needs to express how he’s feeling. I wanna say to you ma’am, you’re doing an amazing job and I’m proud of you. You’re very kindhearted to continue to support thus far. But I think you need to make a decision, if I knew your boyfriend I probably could give a better assessment but if he is saying he’s trying to get better but is taking no action to better himself. Then I’d suggest leaving that relationship, not for his sake but for yours. Words are empty, actions are full. When a person says they’re gonna better themselves don’t listen to their words, watch their actions. You need to be honest with what you want and who you want as a partner. But if he is actually taking action in healing himself and fixing his addiction then I’d suggest staying in the relationship and continue to support him.
But like I said be honest with yourself and with what you want in a relationship/partner and no matter what happens whether you decide stay or not. I’d hate for this situation to make your heart bitter
I’m gonna pray for you and your boyfriend rn. I believe God will guide you to make the right decision. I’m proud of you for even speaking up, that takes a lot of effort.
How did you guys come to making the decision together where Juliette gets all the passwords to your phone, and all with the living in the “prison?”
Hello Juliette. Good to see you. 🤗
She is legit. Wife need her own show, too.
Preach preacher!!!😂
She threw me wayyy off sheet she switched up in the middle. Are we being transparent or are we choosing to not look???
Let's have an open relationship w/o secrets!! When you live a life that's open, you dont have anything to hide or games to play.
Yessss🙌🏾🙌🏾-it ain’t no crime and you won’t do time -“if you’re open in your relationship.”
Certainly I had that kinda person and I wasss that person too.
But I am single and learning before I go down that route again!
The fact that so many people maneuver through life & relationships with so much deception and lies nowadays is insane to me! They dont care who they hurt. They only care about getting what they want. This is why I'm never surprised when God starts exposing people & they start reaping the bad seeds they've sown cuz they deserve them.
There is no such thing as no secrets
Sheeeeeeeeeeesh 📢📢📢
This is much more difficult in long distance marriages.
Wait @6:51 that’s not true. I have absolutely nothing to hide but some messages are private from trusted sources. But she right kids play games got no time for that ✋